Dr. Phil On Mother/Daughter Betrayals | The Best of The Oprah Show | Full Episode

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Dr. Phil McGraw discusses ways that disastrous mother-daughter relationships can be healed. (Original Air Date: September 11, 2012) Watch more of The Oprah Winfrey Show on the WatchOWN app: bit.ly/watchownapp
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@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

1st mom should have never allowed that man back into the home.

@angelgirldebbiejo 2 ай бұрын

True

@MaryjaneLove Ай бұрын

&&&& like the other daughter said he was helping out financially with the bills and mom was use to him paying everything .. mom didn't give a damn about her daughter who was r a p e d at all. .😢😢😢

@DeannaBrownlee 2 ай бұрын

The first mom was absolutely vile. All she did was make excuses and complain about how she was supposedly the victim. I can't stand people like that.

@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

I know right. Sick.

@barbarapalmer8224 2 ай бұрын

I agree

@barbarapalmer8224 2 ай бұрын

That first mother is a joke..

@darlenebertocci4631 2 ай бұрын

There's tons of men who will act like they are so in crazy love with u but they are really looking for a vulnerable woman with little children so tbey can molest them. Don't trust any of them. '

@brightblonde3508 2 ай бұрын

Sadly, many women believe in keeping the family together, despite abuse. And many kids want love & protection from parents that can’t give what they need.

@kristenlange7074 Ай бұрын

First mom should be in jail.

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

No one could ever prove she knew what was happening. They may not have believed that story she never woke up to pee in eight years but had no way to prove otherwise.

@carolynjaynes9094 2 ай бұрын

That first mother basically prostituted her two daughters for her own financial security. I would bever speak to her again after that kind of betrayal. Go no contact and find peace.

@BlushingAngels 2 ай бұрын

Are we the only ones that feel this way! She would have been out of my life the moment I was able to leave the home where she brought that monster back to!

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

Yes... there's no way she didn't know he was out of the bed.

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

A narcissist

@BEAUTYnIQ 9 күн бұрын

she acts clueless.. maybe she is or was.. but she let him back in..! today she wants to be w/the daughter and do things like nothing ever happened.. l dont get it.. she should at least Try..

@judyholland7236 2 ай бұрын

Mothers should always put their children first no matter what. I'm sick of excuses.

@warmlantern0000 Ай бұрын

Yup. I raised my 2 kids alone. When they grew up I started dating. ❤😊

@paulaharlfinger829 2 ай бұрын

What is wrong with this woman??!!! How can she let that man back into their home and their lives?!! “He was sorry?????” Really??!! This mother has committed the ultimate betrayal. And my heart breaks for her daughter!

@BEAUTYnIQ 9 күн бұрын

same. l got all triggered too.. smh as a mother.. no way. ld prob be in jail for killing him myself..

@PrettyColorsDoe 2 ай бұрын

Mom is totally wrong here. Her daughter has every reason to be livid. I don’t believe she didn’t know. Explains why she willingly allowed this monster back in the home and didn’t want police involved.

@avocadoaficiando 2 ай бұрын

Agreed. Of course the mother knew. The same wall that allowed her to keep defending herself (and even her ex) throughout this interview is the same wall that she put up each night that the ex got out of bed and visited their daughters in their bedroom. The mother was trying so hard to be seen as the victim and to solicit sympathy in writing into the show, but in reality, she was entirely complicit

@winningalways43 Ай бұрын

Oprah being a smart as* by ridiculing Dr Phil.

@jennybird4126 Ай бұрын

❤

@Cwgrlup Ай бұрын

All “mom” can say is “I know “ or “I don’t know”…. Seriously?

@gloriaevans7238 27 күн бұрын

I was raped and sodomized by my uncle from2 to 10 …it was only at 10 I nearly bled to death.. my mom thought I started my period but I was intact, he thought if he sodomized me there’d be no proof when my mom found out she took my fathers gun and made a visit to her sisters husband…the rest is not nice…I am now over 60 yrs old…time doesn’t heal all wounds …my life has been hell

@debfox Ай бұрын

Wow! The first mom won’t take accountability and the fact that she doesn’t think she hurt her daughter by choosing their abuser, is INSANE! She abused her too by not protecting her!

@jazzy5975 2 ай бұрын

Mom told on herself when she said "he tickled them in the wrong places" SHE KNEW AND SHE WAS DEPENDING ON HIM AND DIDNT WANT HIM TO GO TO JAIL. Happens all the time

@nancyn891 2 ай бұрын

money was likely a motive

@phyllis9750 2 ай бұрын

He was sorry??? Are you stupid?

@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

100%

@nicoleb4077 2 ай бұрын

Total Freudian slip she KNEW

@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

@@nicoleb4077 👍

@leonacross7 2 ай бұрын

First mom is a DISGRACE. My mother never remarried or even dated after our father drowned. She always feared something like this would happen, and wanted to protect my sister and me. She sacrificed her life for us. She's now deceased but I love her eternally.

@goldalevin869 2 ай бұрын

You were blessed if you had that kind of a mother.

@user-jb4tk3mp3l Ай бұрын

My husband passed 13 yrs ago I'm aware i had the best noone to hold a candle to him in my eyes never interested in finding anyone else

@lisbethlarsen6427 Ай бұрын

I am happy to read about your experience... My father died when I was 17, and I had to protect myself from what she tried to expose me to.

@MaryjaneLove Ай бұрын

-&&& she failed her daughter in the worse way and it's sad because mom allowed his creep as back into the home .. that says a lot about the mother . . 😢😢😢😢

@user-ul4kz3jb7b 2 ай бұрын

She did pick the man over her kids

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Truth!!!

@TheSblore 2 ай бұрын

I wouldn’t let my Mom anywhere near my kid if she did this to me. Awful, put her disgusting husband before her daughters.

@nancyn891 2 ай бұрын

Why did no one ask if finance was a factor in keeping an evil husband?

@angelgirldebbiejo 2 ай бұрын

one of the daughters did

@debfox Ай бұрын

@@angelgirldebbiejothat doesn’t make it okay.

@TattooedAussieChick 2 ай бұрын

How could that mother sit face to face with her daughter in pain and not cry. I’m crying. And she’s not my daughter. I just want to hug her and say sorry. That’s so strange to me.

@IVY12023 Ай бұрын

She probably went through something herself. She's too stoic, and often that is how a person becomes stoic. They have learned to cover up their pain. That's what I see anyway.

@MaryjaneLove Ай бұрын

&&& sitting face to face with my mom who allowed a man to r a p e me is a hard pill to swallow .. it's takes a lot of healing and letting go to do that . . . 😢😢😢

@deragoo3624 Ай бұрын

She kept smiling when the girl was crying, I feel she was not sincere

@danielomma 18 күн бұрын

She’s disgusting

@naijalink5541 2 ай бұрын

The first mother is cold. She chose her husbands first over her daughters. What a sad place to be.

@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

She is a narcissist, she has no empathy.

@becbecbecca Ай бұрын

Looks like she's avoiding feelings or else you turn into a wreck...she's trying to be strong because there is only one parent it sounds like they want her to breakdown... like how many times can she say she was wrong and she is sorry? Hug? Maybe the daughter wants her to share the pain? But if it's never happened to you you can only sympathize. Any follow up?

@tnt01 Ай бұрын

@@becbecbecca the mother is a narcissist and lacks empathy. She does not feel her pain.

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

Probably a narcissist

@iartjassy2507 2 ай бұрын

The 1st mom isn't sorry that she did what she did, she sorry she let him get caught. She KNEW.

@MaryjaneLove Ай бұрын

&&&& uu know damn well that mom not sorry with them fake tears .. im with Oprah ii don't feel she is sorry at all. . Dr. Phil trying to force that lady to say she sorry . . . This was to much 😢😢

@iartjassy2507 Ай бұрын

@@MaryjaneLove Did you see her eyes when they told her to mean it? 😳 That lady got some demons in her

@lisbethlarsen6427 Ай бұрын

"I'm a deep sleeper!" How NOT convincing.

@michelletreon811 2 ай бұрын

We DO throw away people..that hurt little girls!!

@Violet-du9bk 2 ай бұрын

You throw people away who are abusive duh

@vanessastagg7846 2 ай бұрын

I don't see anything in her eyes but a mother that is empty without pity.

@corrinaramos5906 2 ай бұрын

Omg me too!!!! Her eyes are like lacking something! I wonder if she was conceived from a rape.

@missmew3499 2 ай бұрын

As well as excuses coming out of her mouth. She just keeps saying "I know", but remaining an empty vessel. She's very very cold. What a horrible excuse for a mother 😠😠

@keywestcatlady 2 ай бұрын

Narc Mom

@darlenebertocci4631 2 ай бұрын

I cannot believe that mom said that. He said he was sorry???? U gotta be kidding me. Someone touches my daughters and they are ssooo gone. THeres no sorry in the world that could make me forgive any man. Never ever

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

I don't understand how anyone could ever let someone back in there house, ever, when they were so cruel and vicious to two young girls and kept it up for years!! I pray that all these women come to the saving grace of Jesus Christ, because He alone can heal!!

@KydSyster 2 ай бұрын

“I guess they wanted to press charges”……per the 1st mom…..IMO some relationships aren’t worth mending.

@fire12731 2 ай бұрын

The mom acts so cavalier

@babyblue61549 2 ай бұрын

Why Isnt this Mother crying her eyes out for her daughter and what she went thru!!!!!

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

Because she probably is a narcissist - zero empathy

@joanmary90 18 күн бұрын

Some people just don't cry or show much emotion. I'm like that. It's very rare for me to cry, even through traumatic life events. It doesn't mean she's not sorry for what she has done just because she's not sobbing uncontrollably. I'm thinking she probably feels bad about it every day. She apologized over and over and Dr Phil and Oprah weren't happy with that.

@virginiasanchis1717 18 күн бұрын

@@joanmary90 Sorry to contradict you: I have studied narcissistic personality disorder and these people have cero empathy, they never feel sorry for others. On shows like these, confronted with the harm they inflict on others they "mimic" crying but trained people CAN TELL

@kismet7645 2 ай бұрын

I would never let that first mother back in mine or my children’s life. She doesn’t really think she’s wrong and can’t be trusted.

@Maz-zb9uf Ай бұрын

Spot on

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

Her mother is a flashback to what she endured! I agree. Banish her from your life. I am shocked a therapist hasn't told her that after she tells them about her Mom.

@pamnovotny2364 2 ай бұрын

First mom is ignoring her surroundings. She's as sick as the abuser

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

Probably a narcissist

@fire12731 2 ай бұрын

She doesn’t love her daughters at all

@aydinseyedi825 2 ай бұрын

1st Mother: “I know I know I know” on repeat

@Rebecca-hc5ju 2 ай бұрын

Yep. Then, "I don't know, I don't know, I don't know." 🙄🙄 But she knows how much the psychiatrist cost. Smh

@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

that's when her true self came out.@@Rebecca-hc5ju

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Meantime, the truth of the matter is she is clueless.

@MaryjaneLove Ай бұрын

&&&& mom is full of shxt ... 😢😢

@jennybrandt5188 2 күн бұрын

@@jeanag3279 I don't think that mother deserves to be a grandmother. I wouldn't let her near my child after she let that man back in the house.

@naturalgirldiy 2 ай бұрын

This is aweful. Can't imagine how Pam and her sister must have felt having to look that monster in the eye again. Mom doesn't seem to want to take responsibility for her complacence. This is not something you sweep under the rug and move on..

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Sadly, sweeping things under the rug and moving on is exactly what most dysfunctional families do.

@babyblue61549 2 ай бұрын

My mother was a Very sick Narcissist. It’s taken years to feel validated. All children deserve to be loved unconditionally. 💔

@goldalevin869 2 ай бұрын

My mother was a malignant narcissist and a sexual predator.Surviving that takes constant vigilance.

@shmoonuf2566 2 ай бұрын

The Narcissistic Mother - is a SHOCKING AND STUNNING thing to behold! I would love to have a show on how people have gone through this and came out better on the other side. My story is Jaw Dropping.

@piedpiper1727 2 ай бұрын

So is mine!

@BlushingAngels 2 ай бұрын

and mine....

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

Same here

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

I'm sorry for all y'all that went thru abuse.

@ankahbello1327 2 ай бұрын

Why does it fall on the daughter's to forgive and make amends....these mothers should spend their life apologizing.

@MaryjaneLove Ай бұрын

-&&& that's where I was lost at .. like Dr Phil come on man . . 😂😂

@BEAUTYnIQ 9 күн бұрын

if thats what you think and feel, why would any mother be motivated to make it better..? if theres never forgiveness, why even try..? l agree the first mother was clueless abt the damage caused by letting him back in the house, but if the daughter wants a relationship, it has to start by moving forward, away from blame and anger..

@deannalumia1707 8 күн бұрын

You are absolutely right!

@shastac1396 2 ай бұрын

I really love this version of Dr Phil.

@shastac1396 2 ай бұрын

I wish he was still like this 🙁

@dianemorton2222 2 ай бұрын

That Mother does not love the daughter. She considers the daughter a problem. She does not like like the emotional daughter. So sad.

@avocadoaficiando 2 ай бұрын

She doesn't just consider the daughter a problem - but a burden based on how she griped about the cost of the therapist. The mother wants her daughter to forgive her so she can feel better about herself, not because she wants her daughter to heal

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

That is a narcissistic mother

@yogalyfe 2 ай бұрын

Right away she says he knew I'd get upset if he was tickling them in the wrong way and I'd tell him to stop. Uhhh... so you noticed him being handsy in front of your eyes and still allowed him to sleep in your home with your daughters? But you didn't know.

@AlexWatson-ii7ol Ай бұрын

And she swore on her father's grave she didn't absolutely shocking 🙄

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

There is no way in those 8 years she didn't wake up in the middle of the night. To pee or to just have a rough night and toss and turn. Everyone has sleepless nights. It's not logical.

@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris 2 ай бұрын

I feel for these women. I was never molested but I know how it feels for a Mother to choose a man over her child. Why have children if you’re not going to protect them?

@lorrainelawton8942 Ай бұрын

Disgusting mother! You know when your child is bothered by something! Thinking of herself only! Pathetic!

@user-gv2yc3mj4d 2 ай бұрын

Her mother doesn't love herself well enough to protect her children from something I believe happened to her as a child/teenager and just except the fact to keep her mouth and eyes closed to what is happening and she still shows that now.

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

Could be, but that is NO EXCUSE!!

@brendajerez2235 2 ай бұрын

WOW! Dr. Phil really has changed..

@franceskavalec350 2 ай бұрын

Time changes everyone!

@arabesquejacob8176 2 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly!

@ktpris5754 2 ай бұрын

Many moms have that wall of fakeness and blocked emotions. Mine included. I refuse to engage with it at all.

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Excellent description . . . wall of fakeness and blocked emotions.

@Daniellehiu 2 ай бұрын

The first mom couldn't say I love you, I'm sorry, I did the wrong thing. Smh. She absolutely would not say out loud, I made a bad choice.

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

She has too much pride to admit what she did was wrong.

@lindahampton676 Ай бұрын

She knows she just didn't want to lose that man

@toeachitsown2050 Ай бұрын

As a mother myself, if I found out someone was doing that to my kids, that "man" wouldn't even make it to jail.

@MsKiekies Ай бұрын

I think Oprah chipping in to try and end the segment drives Dr Phil up the wall...

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

I don't blame him!!

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

Narcissists love no one except themselves

@DesireeRk36 21 күн бұрын

This is so sad and relatable. She couldn’t tell her daughter she was worth it. So cold. Dr.Phil told her what to say and she couldn’t. The first story.

@user-jb4tk3mp3l 2 ай бұрын

My heart breaks for the daughter

@janetklumper6048 2 ай бұрын

Just like my mother, me me me me me

@user-jb4tk3mp3l 2 ай бұрын

Dr Phil nailed it!

@az1infin268 2 ай бұрын

Miss Oprah is so emotionally intelligent. 💜✊🏿💜💜💜💜

@karenpollicina8582 2 ай бұрын

She used to be.

@nancyn891 2 ай бұрын

… yes, but she too failed to ask if money was one small reason evil mom kept husband.

@mudokonslig9205 2 ай бұрын

I think the first daughter is still the child that was abused who is still waiting for her mother to save her. Normally, she would'nt want to have a relationship with a monster who gave permission to a devil to abuse her.

@SusanGrabelsky-kx3ry 2 ай бұрын

Dr. Phil,this Vile person is Not Capable of Understanding or Giving the Love that her Daughters are looking for

@dianemorton2222 2 ай бұрын

That Mother wanted the man as a partner to live with and to pay the bills. The Mother did not care about the daughters.

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Truth!!!

@BlushingAngels 2 ай бұрын

My mother was a narcissistic. She verbally and physically abused me until I could take no more and I banned her from my life, at 44 years old, in 2004. She would come home every day and beat me and verbally abuse me. After I banned her from my life, and every year, I'd ask her to go to therapy with me, which was free through the company I worked for, and she would not go and she would also deny that she ever did anything wrong. She left us, when I was 10 years old, and she left me and my father, to raise her 4 year old son, that had severe ADHD. She had already kicked my eldest brother out of the house, when he was 15 years old, prior to leaving us, w/her moving to Texas to live w/one of her boyfriends; probably the best thing that ever happened to me. My father was a wonderful Dad and took care of us the best he could; he passed in 2008, and I miss him so much, each and every day.

@sarahlinnmaslen 2 ай бұрын

The third mother daughter story is inspirational. Im glad they found healing

@suebabe100 2 ай бұрын

She let him come back? Some people don't deserve children period.

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

I don't understand the legal system!!

@Eswyfe Ай бұрын

This mother sickens me, I would have him out that door and called the police myself and insisted on prosecution and jail time-mom’s behavior is inexcusable and she should be criminally charged for not protecting her children

@dramaqueen9299 2 ай бұрын

2nd momma gave everything the first daughter needed to hear 😔 Oprah was right it wasn’t happening that day

@user-bx8nx5gk4z 2 ай бұрын

If he was a murderer would you have let him back,to me it's the same thing!!!!!😢

@sparkle6093 2 ай бұрын

As a mother, I sensed every time my daughter was off, no matter how minor.

@user-qj6wj5kz3x Ай бұрын

Ya same here I have 4 children and even now i know when there is something wrong

@magdalenechristie6453 2 ай бұрын

Mothers can just be terrible

@danielomma 18 күн бұрын

The daughters are all by gorgeous. Every single one of them. STUNNING

@meljay5660 2 ай бұрын

When they did the chair exercise her mother just seemed patronizing. I was happy to see some emotion from her, but I feel like she still doesn't get it.

@tnt01 2 ай бұрын

100%

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

She absolutely seemed patronizing . . . and she still doesn't get it.

@carolpeterson6148 Ай бұрын

There is no coming back from putting your child in a situation KNOWINGLY placing them in the hands of their abuser. There is NO excuse, and there is no forgiveness.

@pepsiwarren2957 Ай бұрын

I never brought men around my children...i protected them by spending a lot of lonely nights. I have no regrets

@itzme.Lala.83 Ай бұрын

The mother is only saying what she thinks they want to hear. Shame on her.

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@LesleyLamb-xq8op 2 ай бұрын

How in Any world could a mother Never wake up in EIGHT years and notice that her husband happened to NOT be in her bed??. I am incredulous!!! The facts aren’t right here

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

Not believable! She knows what she did but knows we will think she's evil if she admits she knew.

@stephaniepiazzese2602 Ай бұрын

How we wish, all Mothers were what a Mother should be. But they’re not. Anyone can have BABIES. not every woman CAN BE A “ mother “. 😢sometimes we have to walk away,, forgive, but WALK AWay, even from a parent. Toxic parents.

@maryhorn8531 2 ай бұрын

Stop making excuses for him. I can't believe he got 6 years probation.

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

I know and that is totally disgusting!!

@shirleymason2422 Ай бұрын

Her mother knew.

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

Of course she did...

@valoriebeeckman7092 Ай бұрын

She’s too defensive. She doesn’t get it.

@iiiMUNiiiQUE 2 ай бұрын

Finally a good episode

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

Even after listening to Dr. Phil & Oprah, the first mother doesn't get it. She is like a robot, no empathy. I feel for these daughters😢

@kaygnp 2 ай бұрын

The Mother is very selfish ... If it was me ... I would be superrrr supeeerrr angryyyy

@BraveFox100 2 ай бұрын

Mother should tell her daughter I love you

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

It wouldn't make any difference if she didn't mean it because the daughter would see right through it.

@dannyjones4044 15 күн бұрын

I'm not sure she knows what true selfless love is!!!!

@debh5780 2 ай бұрын

Very good program ! Valuable I would think to a lot of people. 😊😊😊

@debh5780 2 ай бұрын

The mother is not very emotionally available to her daughter. Why is she shaking her head no to making the wrong decision. Apologize to your daughter.

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

I noticed the head shaking too . . . which totally negates her feeble attempt at apologizing.

@virginiasanchis1717 26 күн бұрын

A narcissistic mother

@danielomma 18 күн бұрын

She’s f up

@Chichi.S 2 ай бұрын

So helpful,. Thank you Dr Phil, beautiful Oprah😘💕💕💕

@deannalumia1707 8 күн бұрын

Wow, Oprah is such a better psychologist than the TV dr.

@beverlyallison4768 Ай бұрын

The first mom is a shell . Emotionless . She wants to protect the broken child man . She is not ok

@jennybrandt5188 2 күн бұрын

She wants his paycheck.

@BBBGGG9647 2 ай бұрын

Mum was and is wrong...still detached...the daughter wants really feedings and the mother wont deliver. Somewhere inside she still justifies what she did. To get him back into the home is maddness itself..just madness...what kind of mother would do that...crazy

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Exactly!!!

@Seejaykaygee Ай бұрын

She knew her mom felt him leave the bed I'm not buying what she is selling

@flenzy 20 күн бұрын

Phil trying to make a narcissist have empathy. I had to laugh when Oprah burst out saying it ain't going to happen.

@pixie3458 8 сағат бұрын

Absolutely right. Love makes no sense to her

@hankala0824 2 ай бұрын

This was totally my mother!!

@marywrenn5262 2 ай бұрын

😢

@judyisapunk7928 2 ай бұрын

This is my mother as well. Cold cold cold. The ultimate ice Queen.

@Spooky_pookie 2 ай бұрын

Mine too. Mine knew all about the abuse and allowed it and she threatened me that if I told anyone she would make me pay for it. She was dependent on him for paying all of the bills and for just everything….. she even stayed after he shot her and then refused medical attention. She was also afraid of him but she still showed all of her support after she found out that he was SA me

@Maz-zb9uf Ай бұрын

Same here

@laughingallthetime50 Ай бұрын

The two daughters in the first clip are absolutely stunning. Not what the clip is about but I just wanted to say that.

@brightblonde3508 2 ай бұрын

Was the 1st mom still married when this aired?

@karenbaker2566 21 күн бұрын

Dying to know.

@zohraimam 2 ай бұрын

Parents should be taught the boundaries they have towards their Children .

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

Boundaries aren't going to make any difference with a child molester.

@joannephillips4110 Ай бұрын

There's no way a man/ dad or step-dad doesn't know it's wrong to be touching their child in private areas or sneaking out of the marital bed during the night knowing his wife is not going to do anything. They are both evil. I am assuming he left her anyway... no one said he was still there.

@zohraimam Ай бұрын

@@jeanag3279 for awareness at least 🤔

@jeanag3279 Ай бұрын

@@zohraimam They know what they're doing is wrong. If they didn't know any better, they would do it in the open . . . which NEVER happens.

@zohraimam Ай бұрын

@@jeanag3279 lack of awareness is Main reasons.

@gabrielascantlebury899 Ай бұрын

This "mother" is in total denial. Nobody can touch a child... nobody. It is the worst crime of all.

@user-pe5qy1zw6y Ай бұрын

Oprah 😂😂😂😂😂 should stifle at times

@darlenebertocci4631 2 ай бұрын

Lol lol omg dr phil is so young here lol. I have always loved him hes a great man.

@user-gv2yc3mj4d 2 ай бұрын

There mom is blinded for the truth of what her husband done to her. Her daughter will not heal for the pain and abandonment of what her mother did. Why did the mother let that discussing man back in her house to harm them more and more. It don't make since.

@jennybrandt5188 2 күн бұрын

Pam's mother should have gone to jail too. Even if she didn't know what her husband was doing, after she found out he did it and was arrested she let him come home. That is unforgivable.

@carolynstewart8465 2 ай бұрын

How was he allowed to be around children after 6 months?

@bevfrench3496 2 ай бұрын

easy, that is the system

@Seejaykaygee Ай бұрын

Exactly

@user-jb4tk3mp3l 2 ай бұрын

I don't care how sorry he was he did it! That would be it for me he'd be gone the creep I don't know how the mother could stomache to be around him! A poor decision? A horrifying choice

@cocosaccount3880 2 ай бұрын

Ya. If you want to , say, " I accept your apology and forgive you. But you must leave our family FOREVER!!!. AND, as a bonus, you can feel sorry for him all your life AND keep your kids safe.

@stephaniepiazzese2602 Ай бұрын

I see this Mother,,, not really caring. Empty. 😢

@grazynkatodisco4916 Ай бұрын

This woman doesn’t know what love is !!!!

@j1947m 2 ай бұрын

Alright......the first mother can't do it.....she can't get real with herself

@irenebyrne7809 Ай бұрын

Id love to hear an update on these families now.

@AllThingsSoul 4 күн бұрын

The daughter needs to tell her Mother the truth. Personally, I would want my Mother to leave that sick man! For me, leaving him would be proof that she is sorry for that bad decision but is correcting it now.