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UNLOCKED FULL EPISODE: "Confronting Your Mother-In-Law" | The Oprah Winfrey Show
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@A.J.8.8.8 2 жыл бұрын
"If I ever see you again... your butt is mine"... 🤣🤣🤣 WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT!?!? Did we just witness a 5th grade school yard fight?!?
@pattioknows 2 жыл бұрын
I found his threatening of his sister-in-law totally offensive too! Really sick.
@tracyjames2046 2 жыл бұрын
either that or he is feeling romantic about her hind parts.
@ashleyivena 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@laurarathbone5831 2 жыл бұрын
I know right you can't help but laugh he is so stupid 🤣
@adonyisrael1724 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Amourd08 2 жыл бұрын
That brother in-law in the audience popped up out of nowhere and went from 0-100 real quick and then toned it right back down when Oprah was like "who are you?" 😭
@bonnieb6984 2 жыл бұрын
And did you notice the little smirk on the mother in laws face when he did that
@marshaosorio9795 2 жыл бұрын
I saw that smirk on her face. I don't think she wants to make things right.
@ladyjpolite 2 жыл бұрын
@@bonnieb6984 That's when I knew who the culprit was. She hates her DL but she wants to play the victim. She is definitely treating her GD differently and it's because she's jealous. It's disgusting 🤡
@Luxurae1 2 жыл бұрын
Notice he said he’s the brother in law And that she married his STEPBROTHER! Then had the nerve to say she was a disgrace to the family… sir you’re BARELY family! 😂😂
@prettykitty9350 Жыл бұрын
That honestly reminded me of the episode of The Fresh Prince where Will jumps up during the Oprah show and just chimes in. I LOL'd for sure.
@Mels1125 2 жыл бұрын
That brother in law is so nasty.
@whatamachine89 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, I need a 'where are they now'!
@whatamachine89 2 жыл бұрын
@Belltown Daisy lol then why comment?
@donnadaisy333 2 жыл бұрын
Because the daisy is a bit of a b****
@sha1841 Жыл бұрын
We need seasons worth of Where Are They Now shows!
@philomath67 2 жыл бұрын
Wendy is wrong to state she didn't care how Bob treated the rest of the world as long as he treated her well. To me it shows someone's character how they treat the rest of the world.
@vernaharris4700 2 жыл бұрын
Don't marry into a family if you are having problems during the engagement. It usually gets worse, not better. People do not change easily. Consider yourself warned.
@Maymunah101 Жыл бұрын
So true
@aimeedavy2453 Жыл бұрын
It was hard, but I had to do this in my early 20s. My to be mother in law was so mean to me and my fiancé didn’t have the balls to take up for me. His mother gave him a trust fund and he loved that more than he loved me. He turned out to be a deadbeat loser. Dodged a bullet Abram Wellons.
@raceyred 2 жыл бұрын
I cringed when Wendy said she didn't care how Bob treated anyone else as long as he treated her well. I've dumped men who didn't treat strangers well, let alone my own mother and other family members.
@Akuchan7 2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@Coryraisa 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!! If somebody treats others shabbily, there's an excellent chance that they will treat you poorly in due time.
@JSmedic1 2 жыл бұрын
@@Coryraisa That's right.
@tonnieverse4038 2 жыл бұрын
Yep ..not caring how her man treats others? They probably have no friends...etc. Does he treat her so well because when he says ...jump..she says..'how high honey?...
@godschildyes 2 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way! She gave away a big clue about their toxic relationship when she said that!
@AppyTX Жыл бұрын
Parents should accept that the children are their own people.
@TP-xy2ms 2 жыл бұрын
How far Oprah has come. I feel Like I was watching Jerry Springer show.
@CommradNumberOne 2 жыл бұрын
The 80's hair is cracking me up! I've very happy I have a sweet mother in law who just wants us all to get along. Phew!
@rubyred93chev 2 жыл бұрын
This is 1991. Love these classic episodes of all Oprah shows.
@babyshark154 2 жыл бұрын
this hair look halla dope
@onthatilematshidiso86 2 жыл бұрын
But Oprah's hair is gorgeous 😍
@DeeDiamond2981 2 жыл бұрын
The black women look amazing
@ninap6893 2 жыл бұрын
Where are they now?
@privateconcierge3375 2 жыл бұрын
Out of the country in "Alabama," well I've heard it all!
@thesandrabebe7478 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@jennief7114 2 жыл бұрын
I spit my coffee out laughing when she said this!! 👍
@noexcusesovercomer9018 2 жыл бұрын
All this time I thought I was an American living in Alabama. 😂
@fallyneprinciotta9058 2 жыл бұрын
Oprah stopped the real quick. She was like ok lady I don't want the whole damn convoluted story. Lol
@clareshaughnessy2745 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that was what she said!!
@shajeahar7374 2 жыл бұрын
The outfits and the jewelry in this segment were iconic!
@katiehancock16 2 жыл бұрын
And the hair
@dvawva5197 2 жыл бұрын
Yes...tha har...lol.
@mozziert 2 жыл бұрын
Them ear stretchers lol
@franciehartsog-slaughter6803 2 жыл бұрын
… Oprah’s hair blocks the camera! 😂
@bethewalt7385 2 жыл бұрын
Classic 80's for sure
@bippityboppityboo2u 2 жыл бұрын
Christmas Eve makes 1 year that my mother in law has been gone. This episode make me miss her that much more. She was truly one of my best friends for almost 20 years🕊
@vernaharris4700 2 жыл бұрын
You are blessed.😊
@amug3536 2 жыл бұрын
Lucky you and great soul your mother-in-law .. mine was hell bent on making my husband divorce me.... You know what she succeeded and tortured my one and only daughter (her one and only grand child)!!! Now she is happily gone out of this earth my daughter is on severe mental healthcare and my life is totally shattered .... I think my exhusband's too... But funny thing is he is still controlled by my dead mother-in-law's instructions And manipulations. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@SarahR2D2 2 жыл бұрын
You are beyond blessed
@lb1798 2 жыл бұрын
You were fortunate...thats rare!
@meljay5660 2 жыл бұрын
You were very fortunate to have that experience.
@yashimamom 2 жыл бұрын
I have the absolute Best Daughter-in-law that I could ever ask for! I couldn't love her more if I gave birth to her!
@taraji_b 2 жыл бұрын
What a blessing 🥰 my mom in-law was my best friend, I miss her everyday. When there is so much love when two families come together the kids that come have such a wonderfully enriched life.
@ozisister 2 жыл бұрын
I did too sadly they got divorced Even after many many years I still miss her
@Teenywing 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so nice.♥️ I bet she adores you too because you’re so sweet!
@pattioknows 2 жыл бұрын
Same here! My DIL is a peach! She is a blessing to our family!
@paralegalkc 2 жыл бұрын
Me too, she loves my son and they are 10 years in.
@kristkreep6668 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the lady that stood up and talked about her husband being away at war. She was very emotional and I just wanted to give her a hug. What a pretty, sweet woman that really wants her family together.
@jacquelynlinn1505 Жыл бұрын
He chose well for his wife didn’t He?! Absolutely. Bless her
@BethBurns68 Жыл бұрын
Poor lady. I felt so bad for her, too.
@healmyroots 6 ай бұрын
She is beautiful. I wonder how she is now.
@LLCoolJArchive 2 жыл бұрын
I see my feeback on getting more "classic" Oprah Episodes has work! keep 1986-1995 Oprah episodes coming!
@kathrynbillinghurst188 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I loved those days when you were ‘allowed’ to look Ms. O in the eyes during an interview or question time. Ahhh, memories!💜🌸💜🌸
@ginaphenix3519 2 жыл бұрын
Yes sweet sweet ❤ Nostalgia for me💫
@Bluegrl77 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THESE!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@megandiggins8703 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha because of you you think!??
@lovelilacs8529 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so blessed. From the first time I met my mother in law we just clicked. My mom had passed years before. Even before her son and I married, I called her mom. Even now after we got divorced, I still do. She was so much more to me than a mother in law. We are friends till this day.
@Sara2016a 2 жыл бұрын
Wow you both are blessed to have each other. I am so glad that someone has a good mother in law. May you be happy always. Merry Christmas to you and her 🎄🤗
@lovelilacs8529 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sara2016a Thank you and you have a great holiday too. MERRY CHRISTMAS.
@A.J.8.8.8 2 жыл бұрын
Very blessed indeed! So beautiful to hear a positive story 🥰 what every daughter in law and mother in law should want.
@nicp2636 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry about your mum
@lovelilacs8529 2 жыл бұрын
@@nicp2636 thank you so very much.
@4-.Crybaby.-4 2 жыл бұрын
He married a younger version of his mother. They even have the same voice!!
@bethewalt7385 2 жыл бұрын
They resemble each other a great deal, the younger version, the aged version, I saw that right away, highly doubt they'd admit to it,lol
@godschildyes 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the exact saem thing! Shocked the pants off of me!
@chrishere4272 2 жыл бұрын
I think it’s very telling that the husband/son isn’t there when even the brother and sister in law are in the audience.
@heathercolley6591 2 жыл бұрын
My mother in law was a quiet person. I never knew how she felt about me until one day when we were alone. She told me how much she loved me and how happy she was that I had found my husband. Even though she was quiet she and my husband's family have always treated me with love and respect. I feel blessed that I married into the family that I did. My mother-in-law died from Cancer on Christmas eve 2015, and I miss her all the time.
@ummzaynab7702 2 жыл бұрын
Mine was too. She was sweet as pie. I loved her so much. She passed two years after we got married and I miss her every day.
@lhyork1608 Жыл бұрын
Girl in green. I don’t care how he treats the world. He is good to me. So you think it’s ok to treat your Mom like crap ! Shame on YOU ! And why did ppl clap wth. That is awful. So the DAUGHTER is the problem… one day your mom will be dead and then how will you feel. So ungrateful… my husband was best friends with my mom and I loved it. He misses her as much as I do ❤️. Grow up ppl and fix the problems. Your kids deserve to be loved by their grandparents…
@lhyork1608 Жыл бұрын
I love turkey!
@lhyork1608 Жыл бұрын
The child in the relationship needs to step up from the beginning and not let the fight between the parents and spouse… it needs to be stopped from the start.
@cherylc3696 Жыл бұрын
@@lhyork1608 You sound like a meddling mother-in-law. That young woman has been hurt by her mother. When you get married, the MOST IMPORTANT person in your life is your SPOUSE. If mom keeps interfering, I don't blame her daughter for being upset. Mom should be happy that her daughter is happy instead of concentrating on petty things!!! She's a selfish meddler.
@christinaaa_xo 2 жыл бұрын
Penny's MIL saying "the girl" and "the boy" but referring to another child as "my granddaughter", tells me all o need to know about her.
@stacylulubee553 11 ай бұрын
It just means she doesn’t feel close to them and that could be Pennys fault.
@purplecashmere777 2 жыл бұрын
The intro music takes me back!!
@drinkmorefijid 2 жыл бұрын
What a wild time 🤣🤣🤣 these audience members are off the chain lol
@nancydrew1882 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so nostalgic to watch these older Oprah shows! I love how her hair speaks to time period.😀
@thenightporter Жыл бұрын
Her hair on this is the size of the very first satellite dishes.
@leighb8485 2 жыл бұрын
The lady in the audience who’s husband is away in the Perian Gulf War…I hope things turned out good for her and her husband.
@Janine11155 2 жыл бұрын
she seemed like a very sweet person
@suzettemyers6058 2 жыл бұрын
@@Janine11155 AGREE 100%!
@nikkizai4230 2 жыл бұрын
The stepbrother is hilarious 🤣🤣
@Enufalready771 Жыл бұрын
😅🤣😂
@shajeahar7374 2 жыл бұрын
The way the step brother hopped out of the audience chileeee 🤣
@krystingrant6292 2 жыл бұрын
I was like tf
@shajeahar7374 2 жыл бұрын
@@krystingrant6292 Dude was definitely charged up lmfao
@usasstar 2 жыл бұрын
He scared me I was like wtf 😳 where did he come from
@amberagain3487 2 жыл бұрын
He was as goofy as they get lol
@leigha2814 2 жыл бұрын
You can really see why that man stopped communicating with his family. Has nothing to do with her, they're just trashy people. From that dweeb making threats to MIL playing the kids against each other, it's just trashy. Bet Dee treated her son and stepson like she treats her grandkids.
@stephaniefarrar3133 2 жыл бұрын
My MIL lives 700 miles away. Forever grateful for that.
@susansanderson5186 2 жыл бұрын
My former MIL was an enabler. It didn't matter how much he battered me, he had a good reason.
@kulrich10 2 жыл бұрын
My mother in law has caused unimaginable pain in my life…my husband only began to see it about 7 year ago…now we have children and I don’t trust her with them
@julias2855 2 жыл бұрын
My husband was close to his mother He drove her & her friends to events ( she lived in another state) I loved how he loved his parents & his kids 💕
@cbwavy 2 жыл бұрын
I would love to know where they all are now
@Synquette 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad the male audience member took up for the daughter in law- I was shocked he called her that name and threatened her- he’s lucky it was a different time back then because he would get virtually dragged in these social media streets for coming for a woman like that
@bg9509 2 жыл бұрын
I’m confused . Wasn’t he attacking his sister-in-law?
@kardoyle 2 жыл бұрын
@@bg9509 yes
@patriciapassick1420 2 жыл бұрын
@@bg9509 Synquette. was referring to the gentleman of Asian descent who called out the brother-in-law who called Penny (I believe Dee was the mother-in-law) a B_____ and threatened her at the end of his outburst.
@user-yi8ge7wn1p 5 ай бұрын
That friend in the back row with the glasses that told how he has to deal with the father in law stood up and spit some truths!!
@Cindy-vx6us 2 жыл бұрын
When I got married in 1984 I was 19 years old. My in-laws made early judgments on me because I wore dresses all the time. Eventually through the years I got to know them and they got to know me! I just liked wearing dresses. I felt good in them. That’s it! No hidden agenda. There were other things too. We grew to love one another. The year before her son and I divorced I went to visit her, with my daughter, who was 17. My husband wanted to stay home. We drive a couple of hours and my daughter and I spent the weekend with my mother in law. Loved every moment we had together. That was the last tune I ever seen or spoke to her. Her son and I went through a pretty terrible divorce after that visit and a few years later she passed. I sent her a card once after we divorced but I never heard from her. I understand she needed to support her son during this time. What hurt though is he wanted the divorce, he was having an affair and wanted to be with her and I gave him the divorce he wanted yet somehow I was the bad guy.
@kardoyle 2 жыл бұрын
No you were NOT the bad guy to her . Not at all ! Its just that blood is thicker than water .
@kathrynbillinghurst188 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 63 now and I’ve learned that how your man treats his mother says a lot!! If he’s caring towards her, he’ll be caring towards you and your family and children. If he’s without, then he’s WITHOUT. LOVE someone who truly loves YOU! ❤️🌹🥰💋🌹❤️
@dinkamika 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN!! thats why I am getting married to a man who treats his mother good. Everytime she talks to her son she asks how I am.She and I get along very well, she is truly the best mother in-law ever.
@kathrynbillinghurst188 2 жыл бұрын
@@dinkamika Congratulations 🥳 I’m sure you will glow with pride, confidence and love in your life. I hope your day of union is really full of GOOD and SPECIAL MEMORIES for EVERYONE. I kind of wish that I was less focused on my makeup and dress, so I could have had at least five minutes to focus and enjoy each guest, as they enjoyed us! The night goes so fast. Remember to love your kids and let the grandparents dote and spoil… I’m soooo happy for you all. 💞💜💖💜💘💜💝💜💕💜💗
@kathrynbillinghurst188 2 жыл бұрын
@@cailtegreen7764 Well done 🥳🥂🍾 Happy New Year 🥳 to all of you. I have to say it everyone as it’ll be another whole YEAR before we can say it AGAIN… HAPPY NEW YEAR 🌿🕊🌿🕊🌿🕊
@amberagain3487 2 жыл бұрын
How a mother treats her son or daughter in law can say a lot too. All mothers aren’t the gems we hope for
@aprilchow-chee5281 2 жыл бұрын
Not true. My spouse has always cared for his mom deeply but other women he has never treated any of them kindly.
@sibuntuli5506 2 жыл бұрын
I’m only 5 minutes in… and it’s so chaotic
@mrflynn01 2 жыл бұрын
We all have these types of people in our families.
@goldengnome1951 2 жыл бұрын
i'm so glad my MIL is kind to me... we have had issues in the past, but she is the best grandma i know! i'm grateful for her.
@kateruterbories2692 2 жыл бұрын
Boy that opening slapped me right back in time!!
@SDS-ee9js 11 ай бұрын
My favourite Oprah opening!
@dontmakememakeyou Жыл бұрын
This makes me feel blessed to have my mother in law. She’s a queen, I love her with my whole heart, she supports me, listens and wipes my many many many tears, held my hand more times than I can count and has told me how much she loves me being with her son. The amount of times she’s thanked me for loving him and treating him well. I couldn’t imagine not having the relationship I have with my mother in law.
@skittlesskittles7577 Жыл бұрын
You are so blessed. ❤️
@CiTiTiger 2 жыл бұрын
I like this 80/90s ladies hairstyle...reminds me much about Princess Diana 👸
@NosyHausfrau 2 жыл бұрын
When I see someone being quiet in a chair at a gathering, I never assume they are "pouty" or "moody", I see someone shy. If you make a safe space for an introvert, they open up at their own pace. I get the feeling the mother in law was judgemental and chilly from the beginning. How horrific that she (mother in law on stage) had NO problem with her son threatening violence against this woman on national TV. Even in the 80s that threat alone was illegal in many states. That was so disturbing. PS I had the greatest mother in law. She's been gone a year and a half. I miss her every day.
@citylights5562 2 жыл бұрын
«He said I don’t eat at other peoples houses, well why did he come then?» 😆 I agree with her though, what a strange thing to say
@thinkingoutloud-mu2mr 2 жыл бұрын
I would never put that type of stress on my sons, as a mom just realize you have to share your son and take a step back. Can you imagine what type of stress he might be under, being in the middle of his wife and his mom.
@SarahR2D2 2 жыл бұрын
I'm loving Oprah's hair and makeup
@wendyedge9738 Жыл бұрын
It was ALWAYS on point
@neatneat9088 2 жыл бұрын
Bob's mother-in-law is getting most of her information from her daughter. If you go and tell all of your business when you are mad, you'll probably regret it when family members bring it up. Bob looks pretty healthy to me and can do some sort of work. Mama doesn't want her daughter married to a free-loader, but you raised her.
@KJ_-mg2np 2 жыл бұрын
With all due respect, I have to disagree with you on that statement. Not all disabilities are visible. You absolutely cannot judge someone’s disabilities solely on what you can physically see. Also, I didn’t hear anything about the wife working. If he was at home with the kids, there shouldn’t have been any reason that she couldn’t get a job. That would have been two incomes in the house. Even if one of those was a disability check. It’s still a household income. * I would like to add that…. No I am not a disabled person, and I do work two jobs, 7 days a week. So this is not in my own defense. This is just me trying to educate people on invisible disabilities. People with invisible disabilities constantly have to feel judged and made out to be liars, or like they are trying to screw the government. It’s very hurtful to them that they have to feel the need to defend themselves to people that are so close-minded and judgmental just because they can’t physically see their disability.
@moirabaker458 2 жыл бұрын
My ex mother in law didn't think I was good enough for her son... and even have the 38 years I had with him, that underlying rift was never mended...
@ttjforever 2 жыл бұрын
Penny wanted to swing on everybody in the room 😂 sis is fed up
@railwaychristina3192 2 жыл бұрын
I keep a picture of mine on the mantelpiece...keeps the kids away from the fire...
@Taluta394 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Margarita1928forever 2 жыл бұрын
😆 🤣
@donnadaisy333 2 жыл бұрын
No matter what color clothing Oprah wears, she looks beautiful.
@donnadaisy333 2 жыл бұрын
She is a beautiful woman. She has been so profoundly instrumental in my healing. I am extremely grateful to her. ❤️🙏
@4-.Crybaby.-4 2 жыл бұрын
Who tells a little girl (their own granddaughter) that they don't like them because she's an introvert?!
@pnwnewyorker9088 2 жыл бұрын
My mother loves my husband and my MiL loves me. I cannot imagine marrying someone and causing this type of disruption in their lives. I make sure my husband is checking on his mom and we try hard to share our lives with our parents. It’s not difficult or exhausting because everyone knows their place. I didn’t steal anyone’s son. He’s not your man or your property. People need to understand that they serve different functions.
@carolv2161 2 жыл бұрын
PNW I don’t believe she is the problem I think it’s the mother in law she’s very cold, stand-offish and narcissistic.
@SoniT 2 жыл бұрын
This is a good episode! Brings back memories. I miss The Oprah Winfrey show. I used to come home from school and watch Oprah at 4:00. 😄
@selenamurray9448 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it was the best, I was like don't call me, I'm watching Oprah. I actually learned alot from her shows!
@donnadaisy333 2 жыл бұрын
It was nice, wasn’t it? I always felt I learned from Oprah’s as well.
@Sarah-zv9ug 2 жыл бұрын
I miss her too. No matter where I was at or what I was doing I had to be home by 4:00
@jo-annsmith8323 Жыл бұрын
Married for 25yrs, together for 29yrs. For the 1st 8yrs my mother-in-law and I didn't get along AT ALL. Then one day I decided; I'm tired of all the fighting and made an conscious effort for us to become closer, get along and just be a happy extended family. And today I don't regret it. My mother-in-law passed away 4 and a half yrs ago and I still miss her, her advice, the stories she used to tell us about when she was young. I just miss that woman so much 🌹😥
@nukya 4 ай бұрын
I miss when talks shows were about normal people with real problems. I also liked when the audience was able to voice their thoughts. This I find it much more interesting to watch.
@lisetta5052 2 жыл бұрын
The first two on stage look like mother and daughter! They look so much alike.
@Iprsmrk 2 жыл бұрын
Durn...did he say 'Your butt is mine'?! WOW
@larhondaburchett3271 4 ай бұрын
The brother in law in the audience had me ctfu!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@irefusepodcast 2 жыл бұрын
WHEW CHILE! back when Talk shows were RAW!
@Sara2016a 2 жыл бұрын
They should post more videos like this. It’s very important for all of us cause we would learn a lot. Especially now when many people deal with destroyed relationships.
@cherylc3696 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Phil has some really good shows on meddling in-laws, too. They really make me appreciate and miss my in-laws even more. Even after we divorced, they still treated me like family until the day they died. His siblings do the same. In fact, I just saw my ex brother-in-law yesterday. He gave me the biggest hug. He's visiting my 2 kids and their families plus his brother in the city. He took ALL of us to lunch yesterday and it was also his way to visit with me, too. All of his siblings still treat me as family. I miss my MIL and FIL SO much since they've passed away!! I've been truly blessed!!! 💝
@Skarlett00 Жыл бұрын
I’m not married but I pray that I will meet a man who’s family will embrace me like my family will embrace him. There is nothing more important in my life than being in peace with everyone in my life, living in harmony and drama free.
@lucyloo35 2 жыл бұрын
That lady’s son is the problem not his wife. He should have stood up for his family. Sick. Penny and Dee look like twins, weird.
@tillyrose2632 2 жыл бұрын
It's funny you say they look like twins, I thought they looked similar. And because of that, I'm torn if the situation is either A) just the MIL, or just DIL who started the hostility, OR, B) if it's both of them and the MIL just finally met her match. Which would make sense, people love to marry a person whose basically one of their parents, so them kinda looking alike is making me think it's B
@Margarita1928forever 2 жыл бұрын
They sound the same too lol
@bec6384 Жыл бұрын
Oooo Gosh, that lady Penny resonated so much with me. My husband’s family literally was so DAMN disappointed when they found out I was pregnant with a girl and made it KNOWN!
@mrflynn01 2 жыл бұрын
As a parent I’m going to tell my children the bitter truth, period.
@sandvm9352 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been divorced for 2 yrs , still close to his mom and my sisters/brother in law . Never had an issue with the moms
@j0j0_369 2 жыл бұрын
Mine passed away when my husband was in high school. But thank God my mother absolutely adored my husband, before she passed away🥺.
@victoriamarx3267 2 жыл бұрын
The intro music, the clothes, the hair, OMG it's phenomenal!!! I miss the old days
@KaylaJane Жыл бұрын
You don't have to be a Ruth and Naomi to be a successful mother and daughter in-law duo, you just have to maintain a balance and serenity in the family, especially for the children's sake. Strong family is foundational to the strong person.
@andreashields6983 2 жыл бұрын
I adored my mother in law. Turns out the didn’t like her son very much so we are divorced but I am still very close to both of his parents. It makes it so much easier for our children.
@northcarolina9770 2 жыл бұрын
I would never date someone that did not like my mom or dad! It just does not make any sense!
@aprilchow-chee5281 2 жыл бұрын
Not true. I probably would have felt this way too but both of my parents are toxic. I'm kind to them but they're not capable of liking anyone for their children.
@futuristicvibes2643 2 жыл бұрын
@@aprilchow-chee5281 Is it one of those no one will ever be good enough for my child sort of situation?
@dw5749 2 жыл бұрын
I've never seen so many badly dressed women in one room, including Oprah. 🙂 Love this show.
@NF40375 2 жыл бұрын
🤣😂😅
@judykoeppelswas8231 Жыл бұрын
Check out the eye glasses 🤓
@Harley157d Ай бұрын
😂😂
@virginiasanchis1717 25 күн бұрын
And so many MULLETS 🤢
@warmlantern0000 2 жыл бұрын
My past mother-in-law was the sweetest women who loved me like a daughter. She passed. I miss her. My current one 🙄 She insults me and he don't defend me. I tried getting along with her but I avoid her now.
@georginajovanovic 2 жыл бұрын
It is really hurtful. Peace 👏👏
@Iprsmrk 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry - once you've had good, it's horrible to see it differently. Your peace comes first and you don't have to subject yourself to disrespect. ;}
@warmlantern0000 2 жыл бұрын
@@Iprsmrk yes I agree I know what it's like to have been loved. Now hated.
@wontbefooledagain9400 2 жыл бұрын
@@warmlantern0000 😞
@warmlantern0000 2 жыл бұрын
@@wontbefooledagain9400 😚
@patriciaball9779 Жыл бұрын
Penny is my sister. I love her dearly, but she endured a very painful marriage
@glamspalife2645 Жыл бұрын
Are they still together
@londongirle3 2 жыл бұрын
This show is so chaotic but I love it lmao! That random lady interjecting talking about her husband in the war at 21:00 no one is staying on topic
@iluvchucks84 2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂
@pboyd8985 2 жыл бұрын
I can't wait for that part.😂😂
@jeanogrady9546 2 жыл бұрын
I think she is staying on topic. If you read between the lines when her husband is around she is accepted as the daughter in law but when he is away they show their true selves and shun her. Making her feel as if she does not count in the marriage.
@londongirle3 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanogrady9546 my point is talk shows today don’t have audience participation, certainly not as many interruptions as Oprah does. The person comes on to talk about their life and the audience claps or nods, not time for me to talk about my life. I love classic Oprah!
@vodkarocket1 2 жыл бұрын
Omg, girl, you read my mind
@TheCuddlebun 2 жыл бұрын
With this episode airing almost 30 years ago, I must have forgotten how fast-paced The Oprah Show was and how chaotic it can be. So much is left unfinished with very little progress, yet it was still fantastic to bring attention to these topics and at least start the conversations. Oprah must have been exhausted at the end of this particular episode.
@dannys313 2 жыл бұрын
It aired OVER 30 years ago, NOT almost.
@godschildyes 2 жыл бұрын
Oprah's early shows when she first started out were like this. Almost "Jerry Springer" in nature, but she cleaned them up and made them more classy. Sfter that, her show Exploded!
@MarsMellow84 2 жыл бұрын
The hair!!!! Omg the hair!!! 😱
@eze. 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks OWN team! Please keep these retro episodes going!
@kulrich10 2 жыл бұрын
My mother in law has caused unimaginable pain in my life…I was never good enough for him and she let me know it from the beginning….now I have children and I don’t trust her
@emmanuelwhitmore584 2 жыл бұрын
Oprah gave good shows back in the day!!!
@LindaCasey 2 жыл бұрын
I know why we get our feelings hurt and why we get so disappointed in what others do or don't do. It's because our OWN expectations have not been met. Our egos are soooooooo fragile that they require soothing from someone outside ourselves. I'm speaking from life experience. When I dropped my expectations, my feelings got hurt less and less. II'm not hardened or bitter, just mature enough now to know that others had their own expectations of me that I had not met either. Be okay with yourself and your own decisions throughout life and allow others the same then there will be peace. 🌹
@emiliaescobar7652 2 жыл бұрын
Amen sister!
@winniexxx1865 2 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous BLK lady Gorgeous Gorgeous 😍
@suzannetaylor6285 10 ай бұрын
The mother-in-law looks like a stepmother from a Disney movie. She seems very nice.
@MukbangX 2 жыл бұрын
We should respect each other and be happy
@pamelas2225 2 жыл бұрын
I’m just amazed that you go on national television, the Oprah show…in a pair of blue jeans!
@amug3536 2 жыл бұрын
Soooooooo SOOOOOOOO why NOT!??? People like you are quite silly
@stacithompson9537 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t get over the first mother in law’s outfit - looks like she’s joining a coven of witches.
@ameliajayne7956 Жыл бұрын
This was before they had staff dress them.
@lindahebb4832 2 жыл бұрын
I did not have a good relationship with my ex step mother-in-law now I’ve been divorced for eight years and that was long ago but I can learn a lot from this episode my sons only 14 years old but in the future I might be the mother-in-law and I think this show can be a teaching lesson for everybody
@dfa3366 2 жыл бұрын
It’s fun to see these old Oprah shows at the beginning of her talk show. You can see in the early days how it was modeled after the Phil Donahue show. She did eventually get her own style. Oh my… that 80s hair.
@bouncingback3 2 жыл бұрын
31:18 the man standing up saying Bob seems like he can get very angry 🤣 Sir when did Bob even raise his voice? 😭😭😭😭😭 This show is absolutely hilarious 🤣🤣🤣😭
@JSmedic1 2 жыл бұрын
@J&M Beauty Supply Store Bob doesn't have to raise his voice to demonstrate anger. He is showing passive-aggressive meanness. He is verbally abusive and insulting. He's a loser who took advantage of his silly girl-brides dumbness. A predator who feeds upon making and keeping division going.
@debbiel2098 2 жыл бұрын
I am so blessed to have the most wonderful Mother-in-law. She was a Preachers Wife for over 50 years. She has the kindest heart and most loving soul. Since our wedding day she has always considered me to be her Daughter.
@199Echo 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God for Dr.Phil!! This brunette mother in law in the red is a right fighter and if she's still alive I bet she is STILL unhappy and a right fighter!!
@violetbarrios8602 2 жыл бұрын
My mother was the best mother in law ever
@GinAkiraKun 2 жыл бұрын
At 2:03 Oprah asks "how long has this been?" I was almost waiting for the answer to be something like: "since they got married - 3 days ago"
@Swnsasy 2 жыл бұрын
I love my MIL and we get along just fine.. I call her for advice, just to say hello or love you.. I feel fortunate 😳
@Crowns_Gowns 2 жыл бұрын
Whew. I can't believe how common this is. I am SO thankful to have an amazing mom AND mother in law!! My husband and I both lucked up with that. I can't imagine it being any other way.
@kathyk479 Жыл бұрын
I loved my mother in law! And I miss her every day! She died unexpectedly! 23 years ago! Hi was looking forward to taking care of her when she got old ! The first time she was going to pick up her brand new grand daughter and keep her for the weekend was the day we buried her! I still cry! My husband still Frys but we tell our daughter all about her! The Aunt that fill her shoes to be our daughters grandma so she would have a grandma was equally wonderful! Until we lost her. When our daughter was 10 I miss both women I've been blessed! But I miss Bonnie and Grace!
@beatricepelley4141 2 жыл бұрын
Accept the partner your child has chosen. None of my business who my sons marry. I will love them because I love my sons!
@DesNReg 2 жыл бұрын
And that’s just it! If your child is happy, just be happy and supportive for your child!
@Coryraisa 2 жыл бұрын
Darling Oprah...I just love, love her. Happy 68th birthday, honey. 💙🤎💙🤎💙🤎💙🤎💙🤎
@kalnedlewil2897 2 жыл бұрын
I want to hear more about that lady in the audience who’s son lied about his wedding date
@thenightporter 2 жыл бұрын
She is the problem --- she refused to respect boundaries. She was uninvited and she went to the poor pastor to sneak her into the church for the ceremony (oh yeah, I'm sure the pastor was on board with being an accessory to deceit). This is a woman who is entitled because she has never been told "no." And her fake "I am so distressed" is very transparent.
@kalnedlewil2897 2 жыл бұрын
@@thenightporter just to hear the whole story whichever one is justified or not not saying i saw her as the victim just want to hear 🤷♀️
@Bee-ly4gx 2 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to like your daughter/son in law but if you want a relationship with your child/grandchildren you have to pretend that you do. Unless that is they are putting your child in danger. That’s a different matter.
@emiliaescobar7652 2 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@usasstar 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly u r so right
@dewannaglow8365 6 ай бұрын
I hate how funny this episode is 😂😂😂😂 I know it was suppose to be serious, but it’s like working in a daycare 😩😂 The angry outbursts has me dying
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