@R C it's all a matter of being present and knowing that you are exactly where you need to be right now

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Love from Sri Lanka.🌸 big fans of both Shefali n Jay

Lol that's just genes

Beautiful attitude. But honor YOURSELF. Sending my love.

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Her name is doctor,

Marcos Andre no she is not, his wife is Rahdi Devlukia

@Marcos Andre both Indians

I thought that they are related 🤔

But now you get to write a whole new story my love. Nothing to fear.

Love your eagerness to ask How ??

I have binged watched her talks for 3 days now, i never got the sense she was not grateful for parents. What I am getting from her, is she is helping parents see parenting in a different light, the message is you don't possess your child to go with this mind set. I don't know if you have any kids. If you don't you will never understand until you have even one.

@@whiteangel7777777 i don't have any kids and a completely understand what she means.

Mishti Juno I’m very sure you don’t understand even one bit with what she’s saying . 😄 it’s not about you .

Wendy It is not intended to be taken 100% literally, it is a figure of speech and her aim is to challenge our perspective of the parent-child relationship. Rather than deluding ourselves and seeing our children as an extension of us, we can shift that perspective to value it as a true relationship. A relationship that has two parties, two sides, and essentially allow parents to learn from children too.

I feel with her message is that if you change your perspective, change how you feel about the tantrum get in touch with your own emotions you will know what to do. She is really ahead of her times, I can see how some people don't get her. I am 53 and have a 25 year old deaf son. Her books where not out but I did most of what she said. It was not always perfect believe me. but my mind and heart were in tune with her teachings before even I found out of her. When my son did a tantrum in the middle of the shopping center.....I just stayed calm let him express even though judging eyes were watching me....and even though it was not convenient, I said we are leaving we would leave usually it was because he was tired. I now babysit my nephews and I find when they are upset it's because they are not feeling understood. I let them yell and scream, with no judgement, then they calm down and come and tell me what was upsetting them they are now 4 and 6. Remember they have to deal with unconscious adults around them it's very tough for such pure souls. If it gets out of hand i find, time out, is the best, with an explanation why they are in time out. (never in their room) usually in a corner on a stool. And always remind them they you love them even though they are in time out.

Lynda thanks for the advice, I am 28 with b/g twins, my boy is usually the one with angry issues, and is true is usually because they are tired or he won’t tell me what he truly feels. I also need to work on myself because I don’t have a lot of patience but I acknowledge it and stop myself sometimes from acting crazy, is an everyday struggle😩

Rosana Leon So true. Speaking through their emotions is a way to handle the moment. Works for me with twin girls. Still not good at it. Consciously practicing everyday

Wendy not exactly, but trying to understand the child’s point of view