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2 жыл бұрын

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Abusing husband forbids his wife from seeing her friends. He ends up shredding her clothes.
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@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Would you cover up your spouse's outrages?
@GamerGamesYT1
@GamerGamesYT1 2 жыл бұрын
Probably dramatizeme
@neddyconstant5816
@neddyconstant5816 2 жыл бұрын
37th video If I had a husband who was abuse No I would not. Time 8:03PM Fri 3/25/22
@joanignace8684
@joanignace8684 2 жыл бұрын
Yes when you love someone unconditionally u would do anything for them ANYTHING FR
@h.a.s.7612
@h.a.s.7612 2 жыл бұрын
No
@minerjopeace5915
@minerjopeace5915 2 жыл бұрын
Just like the wife, could give one or two chances fir improvement. But once I know it is over possessiveness, which crosses lines of basic humanity and togetherness, there shouldn't be any stopping.
@DwayneAPurple
@DwayneAPurple 2 жыл бұрын
He's also a coward, because only a coward would strike someone who can't or won't fight back.
@8Vaky
@8Vaky 2 жыл бұрын
Been there.Thank God I've escaped from him....
@jasonrandom372
@jasonrandom372 2 жыл бұрын
Violent is always the answer. Bullies and domestic abusers prefer non violent victims.
@truumer
@truumer Жыл бұрын
Truu
@yogalover2753
@yogalover2753 9 күн бұрын
Exactly, all abusers are cowards.
@JamaicanRain
@JamaicanRain Жыл бұрын
“you put on a mask of a lovely husband, but only when it suits you.” That’s perfect! That is exactly what is going on. 👏🏻My favorite line.
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 Жыл бұрын
I know right. And the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better. But you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what should you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They'll give you the support and protection you'll need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there's no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. If you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around your home for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say beforehand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him. Lily's Dad: Before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you. Derek: Come on, sweetheart tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need... Lily: That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek. Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your former spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your former spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you'll be isolated from others. You'll need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the best thing you can do to change that routine is to take different ways to get to those places including your job or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there. Here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or the security guard to tell Derek to go and here are some other changes you should make just in case your former spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you when you're out in public, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and call the authorities if your former spouse won't leave you alone. So let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
@dynamiclizard1098
@dynamiclizard1098 Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re alright
@JamaicanRain
@JamaicanRain Жыл бұрын
Not talking about myself here at all. I have only had one “relationship” in my life and it lasted 10 days. 😹
@peterminea3949
@peterminea3949 Жыл бұрын
And let's also remember what Inner Circle once sung: "Bad boys, bad boys, what you're gonna do? What you're gonna do when they come for you?" The husb in this video just provided us with an answer to the question!
@VirginiaRees
@VirginiaRees 3 ай бұрын
He's no man. No decent man bullies and or abuses a woman
@aeromaximon
@aeromaximon Жыл бұрын
Morals of the story: 1. Marriages are about love, not control. 2. Abuse should never be tolerated. 3. Men must control their emotions at all times. 4. Abusers must be held accountable for their actions.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe Жыл бұрын
Thanks for weighing in! 🤗
@heatherpierce9123
@heatherpierce9123 2 жыл бұрын
If you are fortunate enough to never have gone through an abusive relationship, consider yourself very lucky. This is a very real issue & it's something nobody ever deserves to go through/be a victim of. If someone is abusing you, please leave ASAP & seek help immediately!
@frankrocha6796
@frankrocha6796 2 жыл бұрын
When an abusive husband or boyfriend is attacked by a man who is stronger than he is, he deserves to be humiliated and have his macho attitude beaten out of him. Any man who strikes or terrified a woman needs to be put behind bars and be beaten by tough men in prison to learn his lesson. He will know how a defenseless woman feels. Great show.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
You're right, Frank. We're glad you liked it!!! 😊💜
@ambientwishwalker8908
@ambientwishwalker8908 Жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe Umm........do you have stories about abusive wives beating husbands well because in my country that's the scenario .
@shiralleehaggart72
@shiralleehaggart72 11 ай бұрын
Well said.
@dawnfinch2836
@dawnfinch2836 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely Frank
@jonathanlee2794
@jonathanlee2794 2 жыл бұрын
These actors do a really good job especially the actors who play as the police officer. They make it like it's a movie or it's actually happening in real life. Great work. There were red flags about the husband when he puts on this fake smile in public to his wife but turns into an abusive and cruel character and starts abusing her.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We're so glad you enjoy the acting, Jonathan. It means a lot to us! 🤗
@jeandescamps1542
@jeandescamps1542 2 жыл бұрын
Yes right.Good actresses. They should be acting in Hollywood movies.....
@cheath8705
@cheath8705 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeandescamps1542 - No, they need to replace Hollywood.
@raphelsagayaraj4184
@raphelsagayaraj4184 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@muhammedalif4038
@muhammedalif4038 2 жыл бұрын
Yes.. all these actors are awesome, they really live the role !
@ktm5130
@ktm5130 Жыл бұрын
If my husband ever held a pair of scissors to my throat, he would be divorced, and I'd take him to the cleaner. No sympathy for abusers. I consider myself lucky that I have a loving husband and we make a good team.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. We wish your family all the happiness in the world!
@clarewelter2207
@clarewelter2207 28 күн бұрын
You Are So Right!!
@juhipandey5140
@juhipandey5140 2 жыл бұрын
Do not treat your spouse as your personal property. No woman should take such kind of abuse from her husband.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We cannot agree more!
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, Juhi. Thanks for watching! 🤗🤗🤗
@IsderaCommendatore
@IsderaCommendatore 8 ай бұрын
So if I don't want to dress my wive certain way and she don't listen is it fair? Why woman want exposed to other man? What is the purpose of that?
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 6 ай бұрын
@@IsderaCommendatore Well, there doesn't need to be any purpose of that and besides, Lily has every right to wear whatever she wants and go out with her friends whenever she wants. She's not going to get exposed by any other men and I don't see anything vulgar about that dress she was going to wear. It's obvious that Derek doesn't trust her and I'd hate to marry someone who doesn't trust me. The way Derek treated Lily is an example to all of us of how not to treat our spouses and/or partners if we really want our relationships and/or marriages to work. If Lily was my daughter and when she told Derek that she wanted a divorce when the police arrested him, I would have had her back by protecting her and telling her how to keep Derek away if and when he made bail and before and after her divorce was final and before and after she got a restraining order against him.
@straw-berry_2day.
@straw-berry_2day. 5 ай бұрын
​@@IsderaCommendatorejust divorce your wife then. You're no one to dictate what she shouldn't or shouldn't wear, and she doesn't have to listen to you. She's not your child. Hook up with a barbie doll, she'll dress the way you want.
@voniansah3997
@voniansah3997 2 жыл бұрын
This was definitely a heartbreaking video. Yet, it is definitely needed in order for many to recognize the many faces of abuse.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely, Voni. Thanks for commenting! 🤗🤗🤗
@kennethpuig130
@kennethpuig130 2 жыл бұрын
Every women deserve to be happy, deserve to have freedom and peace
@prrriya...1534
@prrriya...1534 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed with u Mam
@saoirselynch.3084
@saoirselynch.3084 2 жыл бұрын
Excatly.
@mobinmitul3822
@mobinmitul3822 2 жыл бұрын
But that doesnt mean that She will disobey her man and hang out with other men
@hinaamin5717
@hinaamin5717 2 жыл бұрын
@@mobinmitul3822 she was not hanging out with other man. She was going to the lunch with her friend who was also a girl. There is nothing to disobey , both husband and wife have equal rights.
@IZO_9
@IZO_9 2 жыл бұрын
Men too
@stacysaint-ilma781
@stacysaint-ilma781 2 жыл бұрын
The wife deserves better than Derek and he deserves to be in prison.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, Stacy. Thanks for watching! 🤗🤗🤗
@stacysaint-ilma781
@stacysaint-ilma781 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe you’re welcome.
@123dramas
@123dramas 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@stacysaint-ilma781
@stacysaint-ilma781 2 жыл бұрын
@@123dramas thanks for agreeing with me.
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 Жыл бұрын
I know right. Because we see in the end of this video when she tells him she wants a divorce when the police arrest him. Lily: (to Derek) You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek.
@johnnicolonatividad
@johnnicolonatividad 2 жыл бұрын
Derek has no right to tell his wife what she really wants to do. You're spouse is not your property.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, John. It's a shame that a lot of people still don't get it, but that's why we're trying to raise awareness 🙂🙂 Thanks for commenting! 🤗🤗🤗
@beatorres6871
@beatorres6871 2 жыл бұрын
❤️👌
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 Жыл бұрын
I know right. And here's how you can know if your spouse is abusive. In the beginning of this video where Lily gets out of the shower, she sees her husband, Derek cutting up her dress and he tells her it's too vulgar, this is what's called a red flag. A warning sign that something might be wrong with your marriage. What do you think of him cutting up her dress and telling her that it's too vulgar and so is her friend, Kelly? Doesn't that seem like a red flag to you? Notice in the beginning of this video where Derek is cutting up Lily's dress, he was also telling her who she can and can't be friends with. These are definitely red flags because of his jealous and controlling actions. Marriages and all kinds of relationships are built on trust. If you can't trust your spouse or they don't trust you, then you should seriously consider filing for divorce. If you want a divorce but think it will be unsafe, get the support and encouragement of friends and family. You'll need to develop an exit plan because divorcing your abusive spouse may be difficult and dangerous.
@loubnaelharcha4366
@loubnaelharcha4366 Жыл бұрын
@@andrewcolinwilson1 but you have to respect your partner if i know he didn't like something i'm not gonna do it but not (abusive) of course
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 Жыл бұрын
@@loubnaelharcha4366 Why should you respect your partner if they don't respect you? If there is something you do and they don't like it, that's their problem. It doesn't need to be yours. And like I said, the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better. But you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what would you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They'll give you the support and protection you'll need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there's no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. If you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around the house for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say beforehand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him. Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your former spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your former spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you'll be isolated from others. You'll need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the thing you can do to change that routine is to take different ways to get to those places including your job or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there. Here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or a security guard to come up and tell Derek to go and here are some other changes you should make just in case your former spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you when you're out in public, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and call the authorities if your former spouse won't leave you alone. So let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
@judithjeffers7666
@judithjeffers7666 2 жыл бұрын
My ex tried a few things in the first couple of years he tried to build up this level and that’s when during a verbal confrontation he kicked me. When I defended myself I came close to braking his arm (which took about 2 weeks to heal) and scared the shit out him. He was almost twice my size. He did apologize and meant it. Never had another problem. My cocky self told him maybe he should pick on somebody his own size. Bullies can be shut down if you stand up for yourself.
@jhalakmalhotra2029
@jhalakmalhotra2029 2 жыл бұрын
Great. That son of the gun got what he deserved.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
It's often like that, Judith. Thanks for sharing your story 🙂🌼
@shiralleehaggart72
@shiralleehaggart72 11 ай бұрын
Good for you. Hope you are OK now.
@kamalrai-2836
@kamalrai-2836 10 ай бұрын
Cap.
@gabby20
@gabby20 Жыл бұрын
This was amazingly done. Over here in Australia we need a system like that , where all they need is the key and when you go out they install cameras, Really well don and brilliant acting. This derserves and award.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe Жыл бұрын
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@gouravchakraborty9801
@gouravchakraborty9801 2 жыл бұрын
Artur nailed the role of an abusive husband perfectly, Tania nailed the role of an abused wife perfectly and Olga nailed the role of a saviour perfectly.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
So glad you liked it, Gourav🙂 Thanks for commenting! 🤗
@brutalbeat5228
@brutalbeat5228 2 жыл бұрын
What's Tanias full name, she is fab actress, I would love to follow her on Instagram
@gouravchakraborty9801
@gouravchakraborty9801 2 жыл бұрын
@@brutalbeat5228 Tania Lav
@brutalbeat5228
@brutalbeat5228 2 жыл бұрын
@@gouravchakraborty9801 her name sounds indian though
@brutalbeat5228
@brutalbeat5228 2 жыл бұрын
@@shauxyapat3210 Tania lav is married and has a kid fyi
@gracealexandre3381
@gracealexandre3381 2 жыл бұрын
Excuses, excuses . . . There's NEVER any excuse for hitting a woman!
@IsderaCommendatore
@IsderaCommendatore 8 ай бұрын
Of course that is why barriers are established in a relationship for a woman and a man, we learn about each other, we learn about our preferences and needs. Apparently, this guy's preference was for his woman not to show more in public than he would like.
@straw-berry_2day.
@straw-berry_2day. 5 ай бұрын
​@@IsderaCommendatorethen he should've just married someone who would submit to his cowardly standards. Not a woman who's aware of her rights.
@alexanderralph8341
@alexanderralph8341 16 күн бұрын
Unless it's necessary to defend yourself or your property.
@yogalover2753
@yogalover2753 9 күн бұрын
​@IsderaCommendatore She has the right to dress however she wants to dress. If he doesn't like it, then he should marry someone else.
@Lovemygrandkids
@Lovemygrandkids 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for women who can't protect themselves against a controlling insecure man. He leaves the house and he sleeps. Thats when I would make my escape. I would live on the street before I put up with that crap. There're a lot of people that can help. They have to take that scary step and save their life
@christinadugan7265
@christinadugan7265 2 жыл бұрын
He should be in jail for controlling her and threatening her because men who do that will hit you even blame you and they won't even get help for themselves because they like the control
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 3 ай бұрын
I know right. This guy obviously doesn’t want his wife to be happy. If your spouse doesn’t like the clothes you wear or any of your friends, FILE FOR DIVORCE ASAP!!!
@dmana3172
@dmana3172 21 күн бұрын
What if they still love each other that way?
@angelwonderland281
@angelwonderland281 2 жыл бұрын
That video reminds me of my ex husband. I always covered for him and pretented that he was a great husband In front of people he treated me with respect,showed people that I was his world , Behind doors he treated me like trash,abused me verbally,hit /punch me .one day he pushed me and I hurted my knees and could barely walk ,when I went to work my supervisors kept asking me why I walked the way I walked ,what happened to my knees/legs I told them that I hurted my knees while I was doing something .one of them knew that I was lying because he saw him verbally abuse me in the parking lot once .he almost killed me one day I said enough is enough and I put my feet down I called the police and got him arrested while in there he called me and beg for my forgiveness I forgave him and dropped the charge ,he promised me that he was going to change but when he got out he didn't change a bit ,he started doing the same things to me so one day I told myself i got to get out of this marriage and I left him now I'm so happy that I made the right choice which is separated
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
It's terrible that you had to endure all that, Angel wonderland 😔 But we're glad you are happy now 💜
@soniczforever5470
@soniczforever5470 Жыл бұрын
😥 they never change that's the problem
@Retirement02042012
@Retirement02042012 2 жыл бұрын
DramatizeMe you guys always have great actors. Thank you for another great drama. Domestic violence is a serious problem and I appreciate you’re addressing it.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We are so happy it resonated with you. Thank you for your comment, thank you for your kind words.
@snotloutisagod2956
@snotloutisagod2956 2 жыл бұрын
I have a girlfriend and I would NEVER, NEVER treat her the way that man treated his wife. I treat my girlfriend with the utmost love and respect because I cherish her very much, I love her a lot, and I trust her. If my girlfriend wants to go have lunch with friends, for instance, then I would surely let her. She is free to do whatever the hell she wants. And so does that woman here, her husband does not own her.
@roadkill7251
@roadkill7251 Жыл бұрын
Side chick ?
@anyafailey4915
@anyafailey4915 Жыл бұрын
She can do whatsoever pleases her, dont state hell ok , but i lift my hat off to continue been that loving and caring man cause as a woman i know that most woman seeks for that love and affection.
@puchokoffie8152
@puchokoffie8152 11 ай бұрын
No
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 10 ай бұрын
I know right. And here is what I would have said to Lily if she was my daughter and I found out that Derek has been forbidding her from seeing her friends and shredding up her clothes; Lily: Dad, what are you doing here? Me (as Lily's dad): I can't believe this is going on in this family, Lily! Why didn't you tell me? This marriage is over! Lily: What? Dad, no! Me (as Lily's dad): Over! Did you hear me? File for divorce now! If you don't, I'll do it for you! Hey, Lily! I'm sorry I got so angry earlier. Are you OK? Derek is a charming guy. I didn't see it either. Lily: It's not your fault, Dad. He fooled everybody. I really do love him. I just don't want to divorce him but I know that I have to do what's best for me. I just don't know how. Will you help me? Me: (as Lily's dad): Of course, I will. And here's what I would have said to Derek when the police came and arrested him if Lily was my daughter and what I would have said to Lily afterwards; Derek: How did you get here? It's a private property! Molly: We've put hidden cameras around the apartment and for a good reason. I've met a hundred people like you. Me (as Lily's dad): Yeah, Derek! And before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you. Derek: Come on, sweetheart, tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need... Lily: (to Derek) That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek. Me (as Lily's dad): (to Derek) Derek, if and when they let you out on bail, you need to leave my daughter alone and find someplace else to live and never come back. After the police take Derek away... Molly: It's okay... You did good! Me (as Lily's dad): (to Lily as I hand her her cell phone) Yeah, OK? Now, Lily, you need to block him and change the locks. minutes later when the locksmith finishes replacing the locks on Lily and Derek's apartment... Locksmith: And you should be all good. Lily: Thank you. Lily and Derek's Landlord: (as he pays the locksmith) Here you go. The next day... Me (as Lily's dad): (to Lily) Today is gonna be tough. I know. Just in case your soon to be ex-husband makes bail and before and after your divorce is finalized and before and after you get a restraining order against him, make sure you turn off your location so he can't see where you are. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker nearby every time you go out, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter. Don't be alone or leave the apartment unattended. When Lily and Kelly and her husband run into Derek during their public outing... Derek: Come on, Lily, please. Kelly: Derek, she doesn't want to talk to you. Me (as Lily's dad): (to Lily) If you run into him when you're out with your friends and he tries to talk to you and won't leave you alone, find a police officer. Derek: Lily? (multiple times as Lily walks away with Kelly and her husband) Police Officer: Hey, excuse me, sir. You need to come with me. Me (as Lily's dad): (to Lily) I'm going to pack all of his things and leave them with your landlord. So have a friend or relative of his come and pick up all of his things for him and deliver them to him. If he tries to move back into the apartment, keep the door locked and do not let him in. If your roommate is out and you're home alone, call me, your landlord, your house sitter or the security guard to come up. Derek: (as he keeps pounding on the door) Come on, open this door, Lily! Come on, open up! Open up! Open up! Open up! Me (as Lily's dad), Lily and Derek's landlord, Lily's house sitter or the security guard: Hey, Derek! You need to get out of here before I call the cops.
@dmana3172
@dmana3172 2 ай бұрын
Well, if the woman is married to her husband, then she belongs to her husband so the husband own her. And if she doesn't want to be his property, then the rule is simple.. Don't marry him!
@davidhill8565
@davidhill8565 Жыл бұрын
A parent should never treat his or her child the way this man treated his wife.
@fatimapina811
@fatimapina811 2 жыл бұрын
We can all agree that they always make our day better when they posts 💗💗💗
@BROs772
@BROs772 2 жыл бұрын
Tania Lav.. I admire how brave you are on your facebook videos defending Ukraine❤️❤️
@quintondent5647
@quintondent5647 2 жыл бұрын
The man who played Derek is a wonderful actor. I've seen him portraying as a good/bad guy in different episodes. In this one, He plays as a ruthless, controlling husband who forbids his wife from going out. I'm glad he got what he deserved in the end. The woman Tania is a very pretty actress. I've also seen her play in many episodes and she's very good. Dramatize Me, You're the coolest!! 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Our whole team is so happy to read your comment!
@ml482_spandy
@ml482_spandy 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder what his name is!!! 😊🧐
@user-tj8kf7nv9w
@user-tj8kf7nv9w 2 жыл бұрын
@@ml482_spandy Arthur Ignatenko
@ml482_spandy
@ml482_spandy 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-tj8kf7nv9w Thanks. How about the girl who play as a wife?
@gouravchakraborty9801
@gouravchakraborty9801 2 жыл бұрын
@@ml482_spandy Tania Lav
@cheath8705
@cheath8705 2 жыл бұрын
She sure know how to bring a tear in her eyes.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, CHeath. Thanks for watching! 🤗🤗🤗
@irenehorn5237
@irenehorn5237 Жыл бұрын
I know what the woman in this video went through. I was with my abusive ex for 8&1/2 years. I finally left him back on October 30th 2019. But my advice to all women and men living with an abuser is to get out while you can
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 3 ай бұрын
I know right. If I were in Lily's shoes after filing for divorce from Derek when the police arrested him, I would probably also file for a restraining order.
@stephanieearp1760
@stephanieearp1760 Жыл бұрын
Get a plan and leave. It never gets better. I was married to a man like this. I finally got my freedom only because he passed away on January 5th, 2023.
@PatriciaR.E.
@PatriciaR.E. 2 жыл бұрын
And that’s how abuse begins! It starts off verbal, & escalates to Physical & eventually; death!! No one should have to live that kind of life!! Seek help as quickly as possible, & don’t wait until it becomes deadly! No one is above the law, I don’t care how powerful they think they are! Never be someone’s whipping post or doormat! I pray things are better for you all in Ukraine. 👏
@patrickross2996
@patrickross2996 2 жыл бұрын
Good Job
@ecelinakaravakibau
@ecelinakaravakibau 2 жыл бұрын
😪😪😪🙏🙏
@6alcantara
@6alcantara 2 жыл бұрын
Threatened with scissors? that's way to escalated already.
@hinaamin5717
@hinaamin5717 2 жыл бұрын
Hundred percent absolutely right.
@123dramas
@123dramas 2 жыл бұрын
@@6alcantara Yes, the scissors part was threatening.
@manuelperu-espino3060
@manuelperu-espino3060 2 жыл бұрын
The actor who plays the abusive husband is a great actor, for being his first time playing the villian, he does a really good job at it.👏
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your feedback, Manuel. You'll always be welcome here! 🤗🤗🤗
@user-zw7de9qc1x
@user-zw7de9qc1x 5 ай бұрын
Her husband is insane beware ladies in choosing your lifetime partner this video served as a reminder to all. The scriptwriter of DramatizedMe videos is an expertise in all aspect of living of people, he emphasize very well what's going on our society tnx more power from the Philippines with love 😊
@billyholly
@billyholly 2 жыл бұрын
When she started telling him off at the 8:00 mark or so, "I don't believe a word you say," I was hoping she'd call him a "Putin." It's a new curse word in the world, nowadays.
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 3 ай бұрын
I know right. When she filed for divorce from him in the end of this video, they should have also shown her filing for a restraining order against him.
@pimps1986
@pimps1986 2 жыл бұрын
The number one thing abusers say to their victims: "I'm sorry" or "I was drunk." This was very good right here. Very good actors, awesome plot & very intense. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day!
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Steve. We are so happy you liked it! ❤️ Please come for more stories that matter. Thank you very much for asking 🙂
@pimps1986
@pimps1986 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe You're welcome. Keep making these good videos!
@drsandy842
@drsandy842 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome job guys hope some women in this situation see this and see how fast things escalate to violence or even death. Keep up the good work!
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We're very glad you liked it, Dr Sandy🙂 Your opinion is important to us 🤗
@123dramas
@123dramas 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed it is astonishing 😲 how quickly things can deteriorate.
@are229
@are229 Жыл бұрын
She Needs to leave him ASAP!! Smh
@shraddhab1190
@shraddhab1190 2 жыл бұрын
Olga is a great actor. I love her simplicity..
@brendasparkman2480
@brendasparkman2480 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I'm single and FREE.i don't want no bother out of any man and that's the bottom line
@Unstoppable_Unicorn
@Unstoppable_Unicorn 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always so amazing!!! They feel so real like I’m watching a movie.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@sammydavidjr
@sammydavidjr 2 жыл бұрын
Sending my love from Puerto Rico to all my Ukrainian friends.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
🙂❤Hugs to all our friends in Puerto Rico! 🤗🇵🇷🇺🇦🤗
@suzannebraham5138
@suzannebraham5138 Жыл бұрын
These men are insanely jealous they think that being in control they have got you where they want you ,not happening get rid of bad rubbish before it's too late. They Never change.
@aafreenalam3223
@aafreenalam3223 2 жыл бұрын
Omg the dereck's acting gave me goosebumps ..it's like real abuser ..😯
@voniansah3997
@voniansah3997 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately sometimes the bruises are on the inside where no one can see but you; and you can definitely feel them. So if you are an abusive relationship please get out! And get help
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this message, Voni 🤗🤗
@PatriciaR.E.
@PatriciaR.E. 2 жыл бұрын
Voni, I absolutely agree with you. Sometimes those bruises inside are worse than the ones outside!! I know what I would do. First, I would ask Jesus to rebuke the devil out of him , & if need be; I would grab my skillet & knock him out!! Self defense!! This is a real story that happened in my hometown. A husband kept being abusive in every way to his wife, the wife waited until he was sound asleep, sewed him up in the sheets, went out to the garage & got a baseball bat!! She worked him over good & gave him a taste of his own medicine! She told him that morning as he was trying to speak after the horrific beating that if he ever touched her roughly again, or even abused her verbally/ emotionally, that next time would be much worse!!! He never raised his voice or hit her again!!! 😄😂 I think she got her point across!!
@aneettalal7117
@aneettalal7117 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I was also a victim of verbal and mental abuse from my ex husband and in laws.
@voniansah3997
@voniansah3997 2 жыл бұрын
@@aneettalal7117 I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have received the necessary support to get past that. I also hope that you know that you are a good person a valued person a worthy person
@findandcollect
@findandcollect 2 жыл бұрын
Actors in this video: Lav Tania Artur Ignatenko Olga Safronova I think this result will help you
@ameliawilson1053
@ameliawilson1053 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for another blessed and marvelous day. Today, we can get through anything knowing that You are beside us every step of the way. We thank You in advance for opening doors for all who need jobs, for healing the sick, and for keeping us and our loved ones safe from all harm, seen and unseen. We are depending on You, knowing that our help cometh from the Lord. In Jesus Name we pray, Amen. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@princesspriya9788
@princesspriya9788 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@carmensilvosa9682
@carmensilvosa9682 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, dear Amelia 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@nicolevillard4335
@nicolevillard4335 2 жыл бұрын
Amen God bless you my dear sister
@sharonghoston8050
@sharonghoston8050 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Autismspeaks8331
@Autismspeaks8331 Жыл бұрын
Abuse be having people so blind it’s crazy
@Drdivyachaudhary
@Drdivyachaudhary 2 жыл бұрын
What an outstanding script! And Heartiest Congrats Dramatizeme.. You're soon to be 2M family! Really happy for you ☺ More power to you and for the brightest future ahead of you 💛💙💛
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr. Diya👋🙂 We can’t thank you enough for your support. It really means a lot to us 💙💛
@Tcsdghhh
@Tcsdghhh 2 жыл бұрын
Tania's acting is outstanding. Respect 👍
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind comment ❤️
@shannoncelaya9610
@shannoncelaya9610 Жыл бұрын
When anyone abuses their partner, it's due to insecurity....the one trait which makes souls unattractive inside and out.
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 3 ай бұрын
I know right. And if you suspect someone is a victim of domestic violence, ask the victim, "What's going on?" Remind the victim that abuse is not always physical. Ask the victim, "Is your spouse the reason you gave up on your social life? It seems the marriage is all about them. They should want you to have fun." Encourage the victim not to give up on their social life because of a marriage. Tell the victim, "We have to call the police." The victim may be afraid or not want your help. However, they are in an unsafe situation and need the support and encouragement of family and friends to file for divorce from their abusive spouses. The victim needs to develop an exit plan because getting divorced from your abusive spouse may be difficult and dangerous.
@The_Nations
@The_Nations 2 жыл бұрын
the guy who played dereek is my favorite actor i thought he left the channel , happpy to see him back .
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Stereotypes and Roasters👋🙂 Thanks for commenting. Your opinion is important for us 🤗
@ameliawilson1053
@ameliawilson1053 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I am subscribed to you guys channel because you never disappoint us.
@ronbelderol3565
@ronbelderol3565 2 жыл бұрын
All women should be treated like Queens!!!
@donontario
@donontario 2 жыл бұрын
What about men? isn't it necessary for a women to treat his man like a king too?
@ronbelderol3565
@ronbelderol3565 2 жыл бұрын
Of course it goes both ways. 👍😁👍
@kimyn6974
@kimyn6974 2 жыл бұрын
@@donontario Dude...💀💀Why do you have to only remember about men when we are talking about women? There are multiple channels for men protection as well. Go watch those and don't comment here if you only wanna say crap like this.
@donontario
@donontario 2 жыл бұрын
​@@kimyn6974 Who said I only remember about men? You can literally find a comment above that I made 24 hours ago saying "I would never treat a woman like that" with a pensive face emoji, speaking of remembering, the above guy only remembered about women to treat them as Queens, Also I referred this because my EX demanded the same "tReAt mE liKe a QuEen" whilst she treated me like a trash, the phrase "All women should be treated like Queens" is wrong because not all men are treated like Kings even the good and loyal ones same goes for women
@kimyn6974
@kimyn6974 2 жыл бұрын
@@donontario You did? Honestly speaking I didn't see it and I will admit I made a mistake there. And yes you're right...everyone should be treated like Kings or Queens irrespective of their gender, sexuality, caste or nationality. The only reason I said it because...I have a page on Insta that highlights women problems in the society...and over there a lot of stupid people comment about men problems when it's clearly a page for women. I was arguing with a whole lot of people like that for a long time...and your comment...I am sorry. I really am. I didn't mean to offend anyone. Honestly. Moreover, I am sorry for what you have gone through. You shouldn't have been treated like that at all. There are lots of girls who won't treat you like that. Promise. You did right to break up with her. 😌😌
@tonifly1979
@tonifly1979 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for still making content through this terrible time . This brings back memories of when I was suffering 5 years of torture xx
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
It's always a pleasure for us, dear Antoinette 🤗 But war only brings pain and suffering! We just want to live and work in peace! 🙏💙💛
@jhalakmalhotra2029
@jhalakmalhotra2029 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe I hope the war in Ukraine ends. India is trying its best to stop the war and will give humanitarian help.
@michaeldelfini708
@michaeldelfini708 Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for this poor woman. I was in this same situation to with my grandfather. I had to move away from him. He abused me. Stay away from people like that.
@fatimagulbadan9006
@fatimagulbadan9006 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you my dear dear DramatizeMe for coming out with another block buster. My favourite Olga is back, God bless 🙏her.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome, dear Fatima 💜 Like always! 🥰😉
@anyafailey4915
@anyafailey4915 Жыл бұрын
This is more than words can express, this is not a over protective husband, this a mentally challenge that she is dealing with, she puts a smile on her face to hide the pain,but we all know its not for real.
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 3 ай бұрын
Spousal abuse is not OK and that is against the law, I’m glad Derek is not Lily's husband anymore and they should have also shown her getting a restraining order against him!
@alexanderralph8341
@alexanderralph8341 16 күн бұрын
He's not mentally challenged, he's just straight-up evil.
@Premsagolsem
@Premsagolsem 2 жыл бұрын
Both the women's are my favorite actresses. Really love this video and it happens everywhere in the world.
@truenokill
@truenokill Жыл бұрын
Amazing acting writing and directing!! This short Lil video was heart stopping! #leavehim #slipouttheback
@hamadhumaid1984
@hamadhumaid1984 2 жыл бұрын
These kinds of abuse is unacceptable, I would love nothing more than to beat the living hell outta of a man who puts his hands on defenseless woman, to all the ladies from around the world, if you're a victim of an abuse physically and/or mentally, speak up, don't go silent. Only a cowards can put their hands on defenseless women
@kanna231
@kanna231 2 жыл бұрын
To me he's a miserable man that lives in the dark ages he will be in jail to learn his place never hit and forbid a woman to get your way in life.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
You're right, Kanna231. He got what he deserved! 😉
@karensteck3800
@karensteck3800 2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you posting another video, I know you are safe.
@marionperez5333
@marionperez5333 2 жыл бұрын
Woman dont be afraid to call a help deserve to be happy and free for abusive husband
@arquitensproduction8001
@arquitensproduction8001 2 жыл бұрын
As a man and would be husband, I always try to be mindful with my actions. I hate abusers and I need to make sure that I will not become one in the future
@PatriciaR.E.
@PatriciaR.E. 2 жыл бұрын
If there’s even a remote possibility that you would ever do that; please don’t marry!! If it runs in your family, you tend to have a bad temper etc,; those are signs, & only you know that. Pray & seek Jesus Christ, live for Him with all your heart. He loves you. 👏
@arquitensproduction8001
@arquitensproduction8001 2 жыл бұрын
@@PatriciaR.E. it never runs in my family. My parents are not abusive at all and so their parents. IMO it is better to realize that ANYONE can snap. A lot of these abusers never realized that what they did is wrong. All they know is that they are "protecting" their loved ones while actually they are just protecting their ego and insecurities. Mindfulness is good. Telling someone not to marry in the future because of that, is toxic by itself.
@hinaamin5717
@hinaamin5717 2 жыл бұрын
@@arquitensproduction8001 correct.
@momocute1505
@momocute1505 2 жыл бұрын
DramatizeMe is the best episode....never boring to watching it
@Pressivgoodness-hd8wr
@Pressivgoodness-hd8wr 3 ай бұрын
Thank you...been here for thirteen years. ❤❤
@rafiachmary
@rafiachmary 2 жыл бұрын
Big No! I have zero tolerance in any abusive behavior. Verbal/non verbal violance has the same impact in destroying someone's life. Unfortunately, until today, some people are still considering verbal/non physical violence as a common thing in marriage life. This video educates us how the verbal abuse hurts as bad as the physical abuse. Thank you, DramatizeMe...
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment, dear Rafi! ❤️
@frenzybuzz3703
@frenzybuzz3703 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, like in my household.
@redangelqueenskylar
@redangelqueenskylar 2 жыл бұрын
At least karma got him punished. Serves him right for hurting his wife like that.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Skylar! 😊
@M.Ack11
@M.Ack11 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you DM fam. Hope everyone is doing well and hope all fam are safe and sound. Praying continuously for all of you and Ukraine. God bless
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for thinking of us. Thank you for watching us. Your support is so precious!
@jahnavirainlover
@jahnavirainlover 2 жыл бұрын
I love these actors and the realistic acting!! Thank you very much for this story. 💕
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Our actors work so hard, and your comment is so rewarding.
@angeliatsai5744
@angeliatsai5744 2 жыл бұрын
This abusive husband really scared me I thought he was gonna hit her in the shower. Husband have no right to stop wife from going out
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We absolutely agree with you, Angelia. Thanks for commenting! 🤗🌷
@angeliatsai5744
@angeliatsai5744 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe Of course, you are welcome.
@robbiescheid4127
@robbiescheid4127 2 жыл бұрын
Just Because They haven't hit you yet doesn't mean it's not abuse
@mashajohns7810
@mashajohns7810 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. So true. Love this story line and how much it means to me.
@gracealexandre3381
@gracealexandre3381 Жыл бұрын
There's also verbal abuse. Words can hurt just as bad or even worse, making you feel worthless.
@robbiescheid4127
@robbiescheid4127 Жыл бұрын
@@gracealexandre3381 evil takes many forms
@mashajohns7810
@mashajohns7810 Жыл бұрын
@@robbiescheid4127 yep
@robbiescheid4127
@robbiescheid4127 Жыл бұрын
@@mashajohns7810 right on
@TheLivy81
@TheLivy81 2 жыл бұрын
I always look forward to your videos❣️ They never dissapoint❣️ God bless you guys🙏
@sallybethtabunda
@sallybethtabunda 2 жыл бұрын
This situation really happen. I remember few years back my friend was abused physically and mentally by her husband, i saw how he was to her and i felt sorry for her. I witnessed when he poured water on her while we were eating at the table, i stayed in their house for sometime and that was the scariest moment in my life when i saw him abused her. He broke their house because she won't come out in one of their rooms, she was hiding and crying and i do not know what to do that time, just wanted to go out from the house and hide somewhere but it's already evening. Then when i finally found a place to stay away from them, one evening the girl texted me that she was outside my place and it was raining, she had bruises in her hands. I just can't understand why he did that to her. Now they separated and she is living happily and free. So i can really relate on this story. This is really happening.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this story. We are so sorry for your friend. Nobody should experience that.
@sallybethtabunda
@sallybethtabunda 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for showing the world what's really happening if the husband is abusive and crazy. You know what those kind of persons have mentally problem they should seek help also.
@donontario
@donontario 2 жыл бұрын
I would never treat a woman like that 😔
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
That's good to know! 🤗
@marcellabrittl6083
@marcellabrittl6083 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I'm staying out of relationships cuz of that. For all the women out there that had bad experiences like this, need to know - "Mens are not worth it". I'm always focusing on my friends & family who loved me, support me & accept me for who I am
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Marcella👋🙂 Thanks for commenting. Your opinion is important for us 🤗🌺
@marcellabrittl6083
@marcellabrittl6083 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe you're welcome 🤗💖
@marcellabrittl6083
@marcellabrittl6083 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe to tell u the truth my friend from college had boyfriend back then but then later he cheated on her, never appreciated her, never give her gifts, he became alcoholism, cuss at her & everything... all boyfriends of hers treated her like trash. I felt really sorry for her & she didnt deserve to be treated like that, she deserves life & love from her family & friends including me & my mom. Me & my mom support her & told her the important quote routine "Mens are not worth it".
@avatar5811
@avatar5811 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Dramatizeme! Thanks a million for the upload. I have learned in this video that fear is just a feeling. They say when you feel scared it means you are about to do something really brave. ❤️❤️❤️
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! Thank you for your kind comment ❤️
@avatar5811
@avatar5811 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe ❤️❤️❤️
@debbyperez1973
@debbyperez1973 4 ай бұрын
How scary especially when he puts the scissors up on her throat,
@terry.chootiyaa
@terry.chootiyaa 2 жыл бұрын
*Rules on how to keep your woman* *1. Seperate her from her friends and family* *2. Use Internet food shopping* *3. Take away her mobile phone and other communication to the outside world* *4. Show her the kitchen and bedroom* *UNDERSTAND THESE SIGNS 😐👍*
@zues_vs_hercules7025
@zues_vs_hercules7025 2 жыл бұрын
But how do you check the bedroom part ?
@eugenelau3927
@eugenelau3927 2 жыл бұрын
This jealous and controlling hubby is the vulgar one, restricting her freedom and movements. Derek and his wife Lily are heading for a divorce if this abuse doesn't stop, the fool!!
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We agree with you, Eugene! He really deserves the karma! 😉
@phoenixcapricorn8702
@phoenixcapricorn8702 2 жыл бұрын
So proud that the woman came to the girl’s rescue. Episode of March of women. Good job. Power to the women. Amazing episode. Olga is such an amazing, gorgeous actress. She has my respect ✊🤟🤝🤝
@leamcclain1648
@leamcclain1648 3 ай бұрын
"He doesn't hit me." Abuse isn't always physical.
@MyEnglishChannel
@MyEnglishChannel 2 жыл бұрын
Derek, Lily, and Molly are all amazing actor and actresses!! I would definitely give so many thumbs-up for them 👍👍👍😍 they've made this film alive and completely held us spellbound by their total performance! It's just like I was watching a whole thriller movie condensed into a short lovely video to watch 👍😍..
@dinahfreeney5861
@dinahfreeney5861 2 жыл бұрын
Derek was not going to change he is to controlling
@suzannebraham5138
@suzannebraham5138 4 ай бұрын
The man is dangerous especially when he told her to cut ✂️ up her lovely dress as he held the sissers to her throat he's evil & cruel.
@andrewcolinwilson1
@andrewcolinwilson1 2 ай бұрын
Yeah and also the most dangerous thing about spousal abuse is getting a divorce. You realize your spouse is abusive and you deserve better but you know they will be really upset and you may find it difficult to divorce them. So what should you do to make your divorce successful and safe? Just like a lot of places have an emergency evacuation plan to get out in case of a fire, you need an exit plan to file for divorce from your abusive spouse. The first thing you should do is tell a parent or someone you trust. They will give you the support and protection you will need. If your spouse has been abusive during the marriage, there is no telling what they may do if you tell them you want a divorce. Secondly, it's crucial that you don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce because if you do, they may be able to manipulate you not to divorce them or become violent. So have someone place hidden cameras around your home for the police to come and arrest your spouse so you can tell your spouse in front of them that you want a divorce before they lead them away to jail. Before you do, practice what you're going to say before hand. That way, you can say it clearly and you won't forget. In the end of this video, we see how Lily tells her husband, Derek that she wants a divorce when the police arrest him; Me (as Lily's Dad): Before the police take you away, Lily has something to say to you. Derek: Come on, sweetheart, tell them I love you. Because I love you, honey. Tell them what they need... Lily: (to Derek) That's enough! I don't believe a word you say. You put on a mask of a lovely husband but only when it suits you. But now it's time to show off your true self. You are cruel, narcissistic, jealous and an empty man. Yes, you didn't lay a hand on me but what you did hurt me. Now it's over and I'm happy! You see? I'm happy because I will never see you again. The only thing I regret is that I have been in this silence for so long and I want a divorce and if and when you make bail, don't call me, text me or talk to me or even bother trying to get back in. I need you to leave me alone. Goodbye, Derek. Finally, when the police arrest your spouse and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them and just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail, do not be alone with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse, leave your home unattended so that they could try to move back in or put yourself in situations where you will be isolated from others. You will need to change your routines. For instance, if there are places you usually go or if you have a job, the best thing you can do to change that routine is to take a different way to get to those places including your workplace or ask a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker to take you there. Here's what you should do if they try to move back into your home. If I were Lily and Derek tried to move back into their apartment, I would keep the door locked and not open it for him. Instead, I would call her dad, her landlord, her house sitter or the security guard to escort Derek off the premises and also here are some other changes you should make just in case your soon-to-be-ex-spouse makes bail and before and after your divorce is final and before and after you get a restraining order against them. Turn off your location so they can't see where you are. Block them on your cell phone and social media and replace and/or rekey the locks on the doors to your home so that their keys to your home will no longer work. Keep a friend, relative, neighbor or co-worker with you whenever you go out, look for a roommate and hire a house sitter and find a police officer if your soon-to-be-ex-spouse won't leave you alone. So let's review your spousal abuse exit plan; 1. Tell a parent or someone you trust. 2. Don't tell your spouse alone that you want a divorce. 3. Last but not least, change your routines.
@marilynnrogers8699
@marilynnrogers8699 9 ай бұрын
Words can’t say what I’m feeling.
@mariyamkhan7111
@mariyamkhan7111 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to see again you guys 🙂
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We miss you too, dear Mariyam! 🙂
@michaelamyers8113
@michaelamyers8113 2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t, if I was married, but I’m not. I’m waiting for marriage when I’m in my thirties. I’m trying to get into college, but I had to put it on hold because my father died. (This is true). Dad in heaven, I love you and miss you so much!!!😔
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Michaela, we feel so much for your loss. Please stay strong.
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
We mourn your loss, Michaela. Thank you so much for sharing it with us 💜
@lonelypigeon7562
@lonelypigeon7562 Жыл бұрын
Go do your education FIRST!!!! thats MORE important than some bozo dude who may end up abusing you.......this advice coming from a 64 yo single asian guy whos never been married.....and giving you advice ONLY!
@beppiefleurdenheyer4486
@beppiefleurdenheyer4486 14 күн бұрын
When you're in this aspects of situation regarding this issue with the person who has been abusing you, then again you do what ever you need to do 🙏!
@Lucignolo513
@Lucignolo513 8 ай бұрын
The husband looks like a friend I used to hang out with
@mobiusraptor7
@mobiusraptor7 2 жыл бұрын
I'm used to seeing a trailer at the end to see what's coming next. But given your situation in Ukraine, I know why. Either way, I'm glad you guys are keeping it together!
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching us!
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this kind message, Mobiusraptor7. We're glad you understand! 🤗🤗🤗
@georgianikolopoulou8691
@georgianikolopoulou8691 2 жыл бұрын
Same here!! Great actors. I just love them. I mean this is a wonderful channel. Congratulations to you all and I am so sorry your country has to go through hell. You don,t deserve any of this. Nobody does. ❤❤
@shafag180
@shafag180 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing work like always
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Shafaq👋🙂 Thank you very much! 🤗🌷
@shafag180
@shafag180 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe welcome
@carmeldoherty
@carmeldoherty 3 ай бұрын
Poor girl she suffered allot from her terrible husband hope he gets locked up for a long time 😢😢
@angelayancey1686
@angelayancey1686 9 ай бұрын
Dr. Phil MacGraw said it best: It's better to be healthy alone than sick with someone else!!
@fivestars4068
@fivestars4068 2 жыл бұрын
What a great acting 👏 👏
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
It’s good to know you enjoy the acting, five stars. We appreciate it! 😊
@jonatands2094
@jonatands2094 2 жыл бұрын
Peace be with Russia 🇷🇺 and Ukraine 🇺🇦. Love from Ph 🇵🇭
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Jonathan, thank you for your prayers. We appreciate them very much! 🙏💙💛 Hugs to all our friends in the Philippines! 🤗🇵🇭🇺🇦🤗
@skyangel7698
@skyangel7698 4 ай бұрын
Derek Shame on you. Doing that kind of crap to your own wife. What the heck is wrong with you. Derek. Shame on you.
@smilingbright981
@smilingbright981 Жыл бұрын
My kids father use to beat me. For anything he was nice when we met but started changing when he met new friends. I wasn't aloud to leave the house but one day the power shut off at home I had to walk with the kids to the store to steal candles and snacks for the kids . He never left me any money. When he came home he seen the candles he knew I went out . The kids hid in the closet and he beat me so bad my eyes were swollen shut . He weighed over a hundred pounds more than me he kicked his foot in my spine now I can't walk much , I can't play with my kids like other mothers , the pain still there after all these years . He had fractured my spine and was ready to kill me . He started choking me and people bust through the door and got him off of me and he was arrested. My daughter's had ran out the closet when he took me to the bathroom to finish my punishment. They ran to the neighbors house . If it wasn't for my babies doing that I would have been dead.
@ZAY109
@ZAY109 2 жыл бұрын
Can't wait. ♥
@lookbabes8710
@lookbabes8710 2 жыл бұрын
We always pray for Ukraine. God will provide peace
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏💙💛
@jhalakmalhotra2029
@jhalakmalhotra2029 2 жыл бұрын
@@DramatizeMe Amen
@danthetracker
@danthetracker 2 жыл бұрын
Another wonderful video. Kudos to you and the actors for making videos for us even in the tough times you are facing. More power to you and hope soon there will be peace 💛💙
@DramatizeMe
@DramatizeMe 2 жыл бұрын
Amen, dear Sam🙏 Thanks for your support! 🤗🇺🇦🤗
@nerdynorah4658
@nerdynorah4658 2 жыл бұрын
DramatizeMe is gonna win Internet. Dayuuumm its already more than 1 Million subscribers 💓💓💓
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