Married women do this to men more than we do to women.Its painful both ways.
@Sampie08252 ай бұрын
Not wanting to disagree with you. I think it depends on how hurt the women are. There is one people never consider which is a man biggest competitor, and that is " a woman's upbringing" You can do almost everything for her, and yet if she grew up hard. Sex is one weapon a man must expect will be used as punishment.
@ernestagyemang-botchway1082 ай бұрын
@@Sampie0825 FACT!!! 100%
@VivSees2 ай бұрын
@@ernestagyemang-botchway108 Did you watch where Dr. ApokinALREADY addressed the male version. Uou sound like type of man that doesn’t listen. So your wife or girlfriend stays uninterested in you.
@VivSees2 ай бұрын
@@Sampie0825You are not a woman and you DO NOT know how women think. You are the problem if she doesn’t want you near her physically. It’s not the things you buy her. You are not fulfilling her emotionally that is why she doesn’t want you.
@VivSees2 ай бұрын
Dr. Apoki, thank you for your wisdom as always! Also there are also males who are not sexually attracted to women (they have secret male lovers) but they have wives or girlfriends as a distraction in society. There are many such males everywhere and especially in the church. Women should be very aware.
@DrCharlesApoki2 ай бұрын
Very true.
@pointblank81182 ай бұрын
Well done Dr Apoki for, as usual, giving a very balanced take on a very personal and delicate issue. Another reason a man may discontinue sex with wife may be because he wants to end a deeply unhappy relationship. The man may have tried other ways to end it but the woman desperately cling on to it. The man tried to avoid putting her through painful court process.
@Apst.Wilson_Oguche100002 ай бұрын
Hmmmmm…Dr Charles at it again. I will preach this soon in the my church because it’s a real issue
@TheLegend-uq1gz2 ай бұрын
Before preaching this message, pls check out this book: The 5 love languages by Dr Chapman. Men & women are psychologically different & we must study to know our spouses.
@Apst.Wilson_Oguche100002 ай бұрын
@@TheLegend-uq1gz I hv read it and many other books
@Sampie08252 ай бұрын
Thanks Doc for the follow up video, as always well rounded. There is something that is described as narcism, basically hurts from childhood which people do not let go of. So, both men and women can and do use sex as a form of punishment sterming from these hurts. Like u taking how u grew up in poverty and all u have shared that has made u strong.....but then u decide you Will punish those u r intimate with for those experiences.
@TheLegend-uq1gz2 ай бұрын
Also, some people were sexually abused at very young age, so they feel degraded by any sexual advancements even from their own spouses. Therapists can help them overcome such obstacles.
@TheLegend-uq1gz2 ай бұрын
It takes knowledge to know how to operate in the bedroom, this is for both men and women.
@MauvrineSawson-xs5pw2 ай бұрын
Thanku daddy Apoki, lovely message on sexual deprivation. Love the message! Regular viewer from Jamaica.
@DrCharlesApoki2 ай бұрын
My duty and my pleasure.
@icilmalittle80472 ай бұрын
Love this video very educational ❤
@namubirubrendah3912 ай бұрын
Thanks 🎉
@homemadecustoms24112 ай бұрын
Thanks for all you do sir, insightful video
@DrCharlesApoki2 ай бұрын
Very welcome
@preciousomoruwou97602 ай бұрын
Special thanks for this video Sir.
@DrCharlesApoki2 ай бұрын
Most welcome
@anne-mariemcinnis91432 ай бұрын
C'est un mélange d'ignorance de la sexualité féminine et d'égoisme! La preuve, combien d'hommes ont lus un livre, juste un seul, sur la sexualité féminine? Et combien de ces hommes on lus leur manuel de voiture? Certains hommes, trop encore, s'y connaissent plus en voitures, qu'en connaissances au niveau du plaisir féminin! Et messieurs et mesdames, soyons fidèles a nos époux, a nos épouses! La communication est aussi clé (la bonne communication) en matière de sexualité. Aussi, avoir du plaisir ensemble, de rire souvent ensemble, de laisser aller des futilités de la vie et de mieux se prendre au sérieux. Avoir de la joie ensemble a l'extérieur du lit, aussi influence le désir autant de la femme, que de l'homme. Encore, la sexualité agréable, commence bien avant d'aller au lit... ... l'hygiène de l'homme et de la femme est essentielle aussi, ça c'est certain. Selon ce que j'entends, en Amérique du Nord, le manque d'hygiène se voit d'avantage chez les hommes que chez les femmes. Que cela doit être désagréable! Ça revient au respect de soi et des autres, je crois. Bon, encore, le travail appel, alors au revoir et bonne journée!
@user-xy1ly8qc8o2 ай бұрын
Thanks! But what if the man develops health challenges? Secondly, what if a man marries as a Virgin to a woman who has had many sex partners in the past and suddenly discovers that he is having problems satisfying the woman?
@DrCharlesApoki2 ай бұрын
If the man develops health challenges he should seek medical assistance. If the woman is expressing dissatisfaction the husband should consult a sex therapist for sex education. If there is no sex therapist he should visit KZfaq,there are very many online videos on how to satisfy your wife.
@user-xy1ly8qc8oАй бұрын
Thanks! You are quite resourceful, but I must say the realities today are quite different such that many ladies co-habit with many males under the influence of drugs and thereafter pretend their ways into the lives of gullible or men who discover to late what they have gotten themselves into. Under such conditions no therapist or KZfaq can help the victim. This is why the scripture said the marriage bed should be undefiled. The western dating style we have adopted is the reason for the trending divorce in the society today. If a man is lucky enough to have a God fearing wife let him his God for many ladies claim to be born again and yet unrepentant. Marital sex shouldn't be a matter of what is depicted in pornography because it is spiritual and not just physical. The main issue there is any God fearing man should be as wise as serpent in getting a bride.