😂😂😂 I always get to Jerusalem sweaty, but hold on, I just realized am the passenger not the pilot 😅😅

Not really

There's millions out there

Thanks so much please share with others.

Well said

Hope in seeking, you will not bring sickness and mind you, you will still spend money before getting the satisfaction from else where

Pretty sure you didn't listen to this video before making your own conclusion n posting a response. Please listen again from beginning to end n learn. Your post shows that you really need to sit at Dr Apoki's feet to learn wisdom. You sure need a lot of wisdom. I can imagine what your wife is suffering from you.

@@lilyefegreat458 someone who already left his wife, you can lick his feet for your own wisdom. Say what you like, women can't be satisfied. The best thing a man can do is to be the best version of himself, with or without a woman

@@joyndidiamakaedosomwan2425 He said you can also seek your joy in other things asides women in general

So true.

My pleasure

You are very welcome

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What a great fingering insight...money. Finance and romance are twins.😂😂😂😂🗝️🔐

He is right, but it mostly works on married couples. It's a different dynamic, when you're dating I agree that girls are simply insane. If you're dating, never date someone who you can't see yourself marry

Me too, I immediately clicked subscribe button after listening.

In other words "balance"

FACTS UPON FACTS!

Any woman that deprived her husband with sex is not a good wife .period

They are usually grateful at that moment then you have to creative again as you need it another time. Hence life style just way of handling. 😂😂

Sometimes I wish we were just like animals. Women use mount Olive to reward, abuse and use men

Women are very easy to please. Men just would rather be nice to people (side chicks) outside than to their wives because of ego n lack of wisdom.

Many many thanks

Amen.

Just learn.

Dey play 😂

Omo na simps full here 😂

Lol. You never jam

Doctor Apoki, please kindly educate this young man. He needs trainings he didn't get from home

As a medical doctor with 40 years experience, married for 39 years and masters degree holder in the social sciences and a scavenger for knowledge I accumulated knowledge and experience over the years. As a Christian I pray in the spirit and meditate a lot. It is 1:30 am but I am still working. It's been like that since I was 16 years old now I am 65.

Glory to God.

Lazy Man!!! You are not hearing Dr. Apoki because you don't want to do the god given mission of making your one wife truly happy. American men love to talk polygamy because they hate working at being a decent and responsible man with their one wife. These men need more than one women, so that the women can be consumed and distracted with their competitiveness and jealousy. Henceforth, the women in the polygamist relationship will no longer the notice the failure of the man and only the obsession of beating out the other women for his attention. Happy wife happy life will always reign supreme. The highest grossing economies like China don't focus on pum pum like other poorer countries. They focus on education, money and strong families. Poor and powerless men with harems of wayward women, do not drive the progression of successful and rich societies.

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But what is your part? You totally innocent? What did u do to him?

​@@kosiekoos9408 Women believe they're innocent by default.

Now you are someone's sidekick 😅😆

​@@kosiekoos9408you want to victim blame abi? A man without wisdom cannot be helped by anyone. You don't have to do anything to him, it is common sense which he just does not have that's his problem.

Ur points are valid. However, Dr is only trying to say that men should add respect and romance to the fact that they should not be denied their conjugal rights. Hope u can tell the difference between a wife that engages with her husband joyfully and the one that was forced. In one instance, the" journey" will be smooth while in the other, it seems u engage with a log of wood. Pls men try and be nice to Ur wives cos any high hand u give your woman now, will be measured back in old age if care is not taken. Thanks

​@omiteisaac2278 Why should the Man go above & beyond what is rightfully his according to scripture? What role does the woman play? Hold out until she feels "loved" or gets what she wants? During courtship she'd be the one pursuing intimacy to keep you locked down. Now that you are yoked, she's holding back & using intimacy as a bargaining tool!!!

@@dholuo35 So many factors can lead to her holding back. Most especially when she begins to feel disrespected by the one who she poured all out for. Note that this happens mostly in marriages that are not so new. When a man starts taking his wife for granted, hmm, if that woman is not broken to an extented, the natural being in her that has the ability to withdraw starts playing out. My opinion is that husbands should take time to study the chemistry and dimensions on women/wives. They can be loving but 'dangerous' in terms of decision making. But to round it up, what will it cost a husband to be kind/ nice to his wife?. Whatever it maybe, a simple dialogue can solve it. It can only be achieved by mature minds though 🌞 It takes two to tango. But Dr Apoki has given his wise counsel and this shld be termed as one key point to live long as a man. The more the mind is cluttered in relationships the worse it is for men. I rest my case for now . Thanks just my opinion as earlier said

Sadly I am separated from my wife because of this issue.

@@tboy5443 I won’t be surprise if you tell me that your wife goes to church. The churches have been lying to us all. The pastors are liars.

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Please sir give us your suggestions that's why we are here. It's a dialogue. Tell us what works nowadays. Maybe I am old school.

@@DrCharlesApoki A woman’s libido significantly diminishes after child birth and this overtime will impact her sexual desire with her spouse. Unfortunately a lot of couples don’t know about this. It is important for men to understand that after child birth they will begin to have less sexual encounters with their wives, regardless of the effort they make they will not be able to reverse the sexual peak they enjoyed with their wives before child birth.

@@johnblaze816Is there any spike after child birth when they become more confident and without cares of children and pregnancy? Because I have read literature that supports my question.

@@DrCharlesApoki of course there is spike after childbirth but her sexual desire will never return to the pre-pregnancy levels largely due to a gradual decline of her oxytocin and dopamine levels a crucial hormone necessary for sexual arousal.

@@johnblaze816 What then should the couple do? Give up?😂😂😂