How to Heal & Detach from Someone you Loved

How to Heal & Detach from Someone you Loved | Drishti Sharma

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Going through a breakup is one of the hardest emotions to deal with. We don't know how to handle such pain all alone.
In this video, I have shared some of the ways to heal from a breakup and learning how to detach from your past relationship or let go of your ex in order to move on.
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Timestamps -
00:00 - Intro
00:43 - Part 1/Healing
00:50 - Acceptance the reality
02:43 - Think in abundance about love
04:51 - Whatever happens, happens for a reason
06:08 - Know what were we impressed by in our partner
07:40 - Part2/Detachment and letting go
07:49 - Go into no contact mode
09:06 - Visit the places that made you cry
09:47 - Ask for help
10:31 - Get a life!
12:13 - Questions to ask yourself
12:18 - My theory on breakups and moving on
13:50 - Share and Subscribe :)
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@captainriju 4 ай бұрын

You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."

@drishtiispeaks 4 ай бұрын

Words🙌🏻

@NishuKumari-yj5yr 4 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right this is compulsory for our self peace

@Neelu_Beck 4 ай бұрын

10000% agree with these words... 😊❤

@Dusky_Shine_Vlogs 2 ай бұрын

Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅

@NishuKumari-yj5yr 2 ай бұрын

@@Glamgirl_7 This is very tough situation because 6 years ka relationship mtlb kafi long time h but agar aapka partner aapko support nhi kr rha to phir aapko choose krna pdega kisi ek ko

@Rainycreates27 4 ай бұрын

Feels like a older sister is there Infront of us and giving us lessons ❤. Thank you di 😊.

@abhishekthube8915 17 күн бұрын

Kash bade didi aur bhai really main itte close hote age gap ke wajase open nai ho patey

@ankurghosh3607 Ай бұрын

Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️

@vaibhavkumararya9952 4 ай бұрын

Yeh breakup wala topic toh bilkul hi unexpected tha😅😅❤❤

@harshitajain6467 4 ай бұрын

💯

@theMohitWrites2014 4 ай бұрын

❤❤

@Nim7760 4 ай бұрын

Aaj kal youtube par sab therapist bane baithe hai !!!

@Nim7760 4 ай бұрын

But drishti you had said you were never in a relationship ! So how u saying just for sake of the video that u have gone through breakup!???

@meghataksal7692 Ай бұрын

😂😂

@itsfariyabanu 4 ай бұрын

I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.

@aradhya2109 29 күн бұрын

Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful. That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.

@barshaxoxo 4 ай бұрын

Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.

@rahulmehra7836 16 күн бұрын

Same here with me 😢 When I realise I got late...,

@ramagrawal4064 12 күн бұрын

Mila ky? Nhi toh m bhi single hu 🥺

@shop_with_Rush 4 ай бұрын

This is the same which i feel in my life, Everything is relatable, Good Job dear, Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you , You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤

@srishti_tiwary19 Ай бұрын

I just got out of a Relationship. I really loved him and Still do , I put in all ways I could .But people might find it an excuse but I found it a genuine reason to walk out ,which was, I was for always taken for granted . He never valued my existence and always asked me to Understand, wherein his part of understanding was missing. He used to give me a list of flaws I should work upon and I kept changing or in his language working upon me just to get him to respect me and love me back. But I finally gave up for my mental peace and self respect . I was hurt and broken .it was a 2 year long journey. I broke up yesterday and Today your Video popped up. I watched and felt , Exactly what I wanted someone to tell me . Thank you so much! May be your Video was a help sent by god that I Can move on and that I made the right decision. I should work upon myself and let him go . I can't tie him with me...his dominance couldn't let me breathe and live my life how I wanted . his bare minimum efforts were not sufficient enough...he was just doing them...zero intention, then why to drag it more....I believe I deserve good things awaiting in life. Thanks for giving me the courage to think positively .

@shivikasera8884 Ай бұрын

And finally realised the fact that if we worked upon ourselves the same way and with same efforts life would be so different.Our mental health would have been so good but no worries everything will be good and happens for a reason.

@bibhu939 Ай бұрын

But sometimes we need to keep patience for a while.

@Radha-vy9dx Ай бұрын

Exactly ,same situation with me..had a 2 yr of long relationship with full of insecurities, memories and trauma but UK one thing if u feel "stucked" than please leave coz..ek hi loop me rehkar kuch nhi milta hai nothing sooo sometimes CHANGE plays very imp role in our life ...same it's almost 1 week and I am feeling so grateful that I took this step because voh bhi mujhe for granted leta tha aur bhot jada casual tha on other hand meri growth nhi ho rhi thi I feel like I am useless and not enough to proof myself but voh apni life me achha kar rha tha which makes me feel like what the hell is going on with my life..I was happy for his success but I feel like meri ye halat huyi kaise h like humko hi pta h ki humare liye kon achha h aur kon nhi sooo don't make yourself fool and start MOVE ON 💕

@purobidey3566 Ай бұрын

Same exactly my stories😊

@kalpanasingh903 29 күн бұрын

How old are u...?

@aishwaryahundekar7462 Ай бұрын

'Only the scars remains' this is so real 😊

@QuickieTrendz 4 ай бұрын

Hey drishti! There are a lot of aspirants nowadays going through their examinations , can you please make video on how to deal anxiety and pressure and focus without getting tired?

@KhadijaChauhan 4 ай бұрын

So truee. Whn you work hard and still don't get positive result it is really hard to accept.

@QuickieTrendz 4 ай бұрын

Dar itna lg raha hai ki uske chakkar me padhai hi nhi kr paa rahi😭

@sonaliraj9267 4 ай бұрын

Yeah bro

@Nim7760 4 ай бұрын

Dnt look at others , instead just focus on your work! That will reduce half anxiety , because social media causes this comparison game which causes more anxiety!

@itsfariyabanu 4 ай бұрын

See jo hona hai wo toh hona hi hai.. tum padogi tab bhi tumko is bat ka stress rahega ki pata nahi result kya hoga and nahi padogay tab bhi yeah stress rahega ki result kya hoga lekin agar tum apni puri preparation karogi and apia best dogi toh ek toh is baat ka confidence rahega ki tumne apni koshish puri ki thi and dusra tumko guilty feel nahi hoga ki kash thodi aur tayyari karleti.. stress kisi bhi situation mein natural hai lekin hum stress ko kasse handle karte hai wo important hai.. is waqt tumare hath mein jo hai wo tum karo bakhi jo acha Hoga wo hojaega... All the best!!

@anubhavverma8679 4 ай бұрын

The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury? The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery. Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.

@PujaSarkar160 20 күн бұрын

Well said main vi yehi manti hoo everything happens for a reason and also if something or someone hurt you breaks you for no reason just let them go with all your love to them and just be patienced ❤😌 universe sab kuch wapas deta hain ,,,,sabko😌

@mamtasaluja2229 4 ай бұрын

Best most complete video on dealing with breakups. Thank you 🙏😊❤

@aanchalsoni1925 4 ай бұрын

Itna achhe se toh mera bada bhai meko nhi bolta ... Aap meri badi bhn jaise meko help krte ho thank you so much ❤ hamesa kuch rahiye aap di ❤️

@HAMMY_18 4 ай бұрын

No words…YOU ARE HEELING🫂💗your way of giving lessons and advice is just a fantastic❤️‍🔥

@AnamikaTiwari-mp4qt 4 ай бұрын

I don't have any breakup story and also I was never in relationship but still I love watching your videos. love you di.

@suchetamitra9453 4 ай бұрын

You have explained everything in realistic way

@amar_aryan3 4 ай бұрын

I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.

@suMaN_kr.Baishya Ай бұрын

I think, Time never heals us, time just teaches us to live with the Pain we got.❤️‍🩹

@Iamdinesh64 5 күн бұрын

- Itachi ucchia -

@Iamdinesh64 5 күн бұрын

~~~ Itachi ucchia ~~

@QuickieTrendz 4 ай бұрын

Back on time this sunday. Good job❤ Last time i reminded you to be consistent and you did it.

@hinazaffar1807 4 ай бұрын

You are right dear. We should not give importance more than our own self. If one person brutally broke the trust will never be sincere again.

@Nits298 4 ай бұрын

Dear Drishti, i am currently going through this phase I literally needed this one. Thank you very much

@ScholarDeepika 4 ай бұрын

Recently had a breakup, and you uploaded this video. Im on my healing journey also☀️

@Universemyview 4 ай бұрын

Drishti decided to wake up and speak the truth 😅😭. Its always sooo peaceful to watch your videos, I really enjoy listening you.

@kritimandal-di2bz 18 күн бұрын

Much needed motivation!! Thankyou❤

@khushalisavla 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for giving these lessons all are soo relatable 💯

@Garima_Rohilaa_ 3 ай бұрын

THANKU DIRSHTI❤❤❤ much love and hugs to you too🙌💓

@officialaroba 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing I really need this Plz make a complete playlist on this topic

@starsinmyuniverse 4 ай бұрын

I was never in a relationship but I'm still watching this 😭🗿

@bhumi.810 4 ай бұрын

😅Yah same

@buzzingbee2222 2 ай бұрын

Don't get into one until they want you for lifetime

@anam_mirza7 Ай бұрын

Us🗿🥺

@aradhya2109 29 күн бұрын

Also never try to be in a relationship, until both of you are so damn sure.

@rockygaming5914 24 күн бұрын

@@bhumi.810 so u wanna be 🙌 ha

@prernasarnot9980 Ай бұрын

Very well said ..thank you for the video n giving the reality about breakup n thank you for motivating to move on 😊

@RahulKumar-rf7yc 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for such practical advices.

@pinkalmodi09 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for making this. I love you 🎉❤

@flywithritz18 14 күн бұрын

I was crying while watching the whole video!!!😭😭 Thankyou so much😭😭❤️❤️

@srushtikhatua3198 11 күн бұрын

@@flywithritz18 same bro 🥲🙌🏻

@jainasindha4830 4 ай бұрын

Isbar to drishti ka alag hi roop dekhne ko mila...par it's really helpful so thank you drishti didi ❤

@arpitamishra4800 3 ай бұрын

This girl has all my heart ❤️ .Thank you so much for spreading positivity among people ❤

@simranshrivastavlife 4 ай бұрын

Finally apki video aagyi apki video ka intezaar tha because buht demotivate hori thi ap always motivate krdete ho you are adorable diidiii🌸💗💐💐💐

@shrutisinghcharan9777 4 ай бұрын

The best video, baaki bhi best hai, but this is one of my favorites. Such a realistic advice you have given. Thankyou Drishti!🌻❤️

@pratibhalifeo 4 ай бұрын

Thnk you for this viedo . You uploaded it at the very right time 💌

@akshitadhyani6498 4 ай бұрын

Thank you drishti di for this video..❤️✨ Much needed...✨❤️

@heyyaishwarya 4 ай бұрын

Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡

@sailpotdar9444 4 ай бұрын

Drishti making such kind of unexpected video on breakup feel like resently she has gone through it

@pragyavyas3993 4 ай бұрын

This vedio is really too practical to adhere... Amazing efforts👏👏

@twinklegupta680 5 күн бұрын

🌼 thanks for the reminder

@aasthashivhare609 4 ай бұрын

Much needed, thank you so much❣️

@akritigupta3879 4 ай бұрын

Got to learn so much ,also I get so much positivity in ur all videos. Thankyou !❤🙌

@alishakhan484 7 күн бұрын

thank you so much for your advice All your points helped me a lot in moving forward.

@mamtasingh-6040 2 ай бұрын

amazing video .....tbh i needed such content in my life!!

@nehankumar7203 4 ай бұрын

Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time

@rohitsancheti96 15 күн бұрын

Thankyou so much for making this! ❤

@AF-Tab_Alam 4 ай бұрын

Great timing of this video.

@inshakhan8815 4 ай бұрын

Such a relatable video 👍🏻 great job😊

@NishuKumari-yj5yr 4 ай бұрын

Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️ Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️ I really need this.. Love you Di ..😌

@ShwetaSingh-qi6zg 4 ай бұрын

Hey drishti you are providing such an amazing content thanks dear❤❤

@reshmiparvin8054 4 ай бұрын

Very helpful... Jo toxic relationship mai hai unke liye v....ak himmat aa jata hai chhorne ka

@vaishnavisindhu922 7 күн бұрын

Thank you so much this helped a lot...❤ I was so stuck but u really gave me a way..

@yogeshbisht8682 18 күн бұрын

This is the video I needed. She exactly break down whatever I was feeling. I felt so much relief after doing what she mentioned in the video. Keep up the great work 🎉

@sirajkhan3136 21 күн бұрын

makes tooo much sense , thanks a lot , it was much needed

@PradnyaMenkudale 22 күн бұрын

Just there is only thing ..Joo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai❤

@dishapiplad7546 4 ай бұрын

Thanks dear drishti for this video..I am going through this phase of healing and your tips are really practical and realistic..will help me alot..✨

@aansa44 4 ай бұрын

You are becoming unstoppable day by day!, keep going Drishti 🤍.

@ARSHDEEPSINGH-wr9rd 3 күн бұрын

Kitti awesome hai yaar yeh 😀✅….. perfectly meaningful video 👏👏

@Neetugkehonewale 2 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤for making and sharing such helpful content .I didn't missed any second of your video because you conveyed it very nicely, Appreciable 👏👏 Yes, its the best suggestion i have ever got .....🌟

@falgunidhruwe7376 3 ай бұрын

I love the way you explain things .

@nainsithakur5303 4 ай бұрын

It was soo realllll... Without any filter

@harshitagohil0802 4 ай бұрын

Needed this ! Thank you ❤

@aasthakhatri_37 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video 😊..This is very helpful

@indranibathala5206 2 ай бұрын

Great video yaar, helps lot of people who are in need❤

@manshisubba6252 Ай бұрын

This is the best video i have ever watched....thank you didi for giving such an amazing video

@Missriyaaa 4 ай бұрын

I needed this video right now, just came at the right time 👍

@user-ne6pn7xn5c 8 күн бұрын

One of the best video. Thank you drishti di for guiding.

@aishashaikh3647 14 күн бұрын

Whenever I watch your videos i don't know why but I feel very happy u are like as my elder sister to teach the lessons about every topic.❤

@user-hf1wv7rz7b 4 ай бұрын

Most helpful video about Break up.

@roshniahuja8317 4 ай бұрын

Awesome Drishti❤ loved ur content❤

@vineetneeraj 4 ай бұрын

It felt like you were talking to me directly. Thanks a lot! ❤

@Dohadaily-talks 2 ай бұрын

I always like the way you talk the way you explain, in each and every point of your content is simple which help audience to understand... Keep making such videos especially self developing and motivating.

@rupeshwarraika 4 ай бұрын

My fav creators advice is a worlds best words to listen for myself ❤ keep glowing growing preetyyyy

@aryankumar-ct3vm 4 ай бұрын

In this 14 min video ,you have settled all my emotions from which I was struggling from last month .Genuinely thank you for it 🥹🙌🏼!!

@pranalipevekar2889 21 күн бұрын

Thanks.. Really.. You explained it so well.. Whenever I feel low I watch it..

@crazysansuu 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video much needed 🥲🫂

@krishangiborah28 Ай бұрын

This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now

@Daisy_028-e6z 4 ай бұрын

How to deal with parents pressure for career as a 12th students plz tell

@PradnyaMenkudale 22 күн бұрын

Thank uh so much dii it’s really helpful for meh❤

@dipusdreamland8214 4 ай бұрын

I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊

@Msharma30 4 ай бұрын

Same story bro just work on yourself on your career.. Trust me u are amazing just spend time with urself your family and god

@kaushikbarsila2876 19 күн бұрын

Thankyou, I really needed to hear this

@user-hz1hg5wo4j Ай бұрын

Seriously this is really very helpful thank you so much ❤

@simranmandhan5299 4 ай бұрын

Loved it! And just what i neeeded to listen 💫

@fgsujit 2 ай бұрын

I think I am the biggest fan of you. I improved myself by watching and implementing your videos either it’s about phone addiction, breakup, self love and career. I am grateful for you came in my life as a teacher or may be a Digital Friend. I wish one day I can meet you face to face. Thank you Drishti❤

@shivu.0912 8 сағат бұрын

I was in a long distance relationship for two years hm 1-2 mahine me ek bar toh milte hi the sab sahi chl rha tha fir pta nhii achanak kya hua sab kuch khatm ho gya usne muje block kr dia hr jagah se or jb mne reason find out krne ki koshish ki tb pta chla that he was cheating on me from last 1 year and when I talked about this usne kaha ki mujse long distance nhi hoga or usne meri jagah dusri ladki ko choose kr lia and after that I started questioning on my worth I started doubting on myself ki shyd mujme hi kuch kami h or agr vo aj bhi vapas aye toh Mai ab bhi ready hu but ab vo kbhi nhi ayga 💔💔🥺 muje pta h vo kbhi nhi ayga but mere mn me ab bhi ek hope h shyd 4 mahine 5 mahine 6 mahine ke bad kbhi toh ayga vo iss hope ko kaise khatm kru mai samaj nhi aa rha 🥺🥺 and I literally cried while watching thi video 🥺❤️‍🩹

@sonirajkunsoth4981 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for being a emotional supporter❤❤ Found this video on right time ❤❤

@happyfactbox89 4 ай бұрын

Apki video mere paas aai nhi h this is sign of universe it is help in my detachedment face🎉🎉

@marykago6658 9 күн бұрын

Thank you so much yaar...i really need these words yaar..

@kanishkasingh0408 23 сағат бұрын

12:18 1) My worth is not dependent on others 2) I don't want any validation from any people 3) Now i have learnt from my mistake and i am comfortable being alone 4) Yes i am worth of love because now i have understood that being clingy is not a solution Being alone is the best solution 5) Now i am thinking from a place of abundance because now I have understood that being make you feel leftout but when you show your worth people starting loving you from inner and you don't need to be clingy at all 6) Yes now i have completely 💗 identified and understood that I don't need anyone If they want to be with me they will be with me at any cost ❤❤

@nanireela9883 4 ай бұрын

Really helpful.Thank you ❤

@parnashreedas8001 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video ❤

@abialex8305 17 күн бұрын

I want this words now ,& u said it. Thanks for the words , keep going. Loveu

@Prasansarai19 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video 😊

@Ansh_u. 4 ай бұрын

Thnq so much M'm for giving us a great knowledge ⚡⚡⚡❣️❣️❣️🖤

@sampritimondal5430 4 ай бұрын

For me it's a very helpful video, thank you so much😊

@bioworld896 4 ай бұрын

You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person.. This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤ YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤