How To Move On After A Breakup?

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Sadhguru answers a student’s question on how to move on from a relationship breakup.
To watch this video in Tamil - • Breakup ஆனவர்களுக்கு ச...
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@dharishan6765 3 жыл бұрын

When you trust a person too much, you either get a person for life, or a lesson for life 🙃

@mandelinho100 3 жыл бұрын

Gold to my eyes👏🏾🙏🏾☝🏾

@Rishhabhh 2 жыл бұрын

God!!. Very well said

@aasiaabal9179 2 жыл бұрын

Often lesson for life 🙏

@shreyasharma1202 2 жыл бұрын

Wise words ....

@GauravVerma-lc7hz 2 жыл бұрын

😁

@harshalrathod9989 4 жыл бұрын

lots of prayers for my broken hearts bro's and sis coming here...cause i know how it feels...the pain is of really extreme level...but move on

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

@Pavithra Mao I can introduce to a friend of mine who will help you out by sending your number to me and he is going to help you

@KingShiva_YT 3 жыл бұрын

@@iyohavictor2963 ok

@lanpaul8515 3 жыл бұрын

@@KingShiva_YT Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back permanently

@neverthere3882 3 жыл бұрын

"we're not friends , we're not enemies we're just a couple of strangers with some memories" ..

@victorgbenouga2068 3 жыл бұрын

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@dabodc5046 3 жыл бұрын

hi friend I was in a situation like this when I see a powerful man who help me out.

@elviavargas834 2 жыл бұрын

But why would he say to me after we broke up..."we're still friends.." 🥺

@cutie13581 2 жыл бұрын

@@elviavargas834 idk people are weird lol 😂

@mcharle01 Жыл бұрын

That hurts 🥹

@sridashsj 4 жыл бұрын

Robert frost rightly quoted: "I can sum up everything I know about life in three words - IT GOES ON"

@varshamishra3340 4 жыл бұрын

I can sum up everything I know about life in three words "IT GOES ON"

@srikarwarrior123 3 жыл бұрын

@@varshamishra3340 why reply the same thing

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce

@jaybisht9343 3 жыл бұрын

i can sum up everything i know about life in three words it goes on

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

@@jaybisht9343 ok

@heenatomar3639 5 жыл бұрын

Just realise you are not the only one going through heartbreak, there are many. Just heal ✨

@chandrakiranreddy2025 5 жыл бұрын

Yup!

@anintrovertautograph 4 жыл бұрын

If all the patients gather and stare at each other saying I am not the only one then it MAY bring some relief but that alone will not heal the damage .... Someone else also going through same thing or worse doesn't mean we should not feel anything or ignore our pain... If we can divert ourselves from mental injury them time will heal but it is very difficult to ignore our own condition and distract ourselves as the injured memories keep flashing ..... All I am saying is if possible respect individual state and offer support or the least don't just say you are not the one and ask them to heal alone .... If I put a bullet in your limbs then nothing can stop you from crying though you realise you are not the only one who is being tortured or having multiple bullet wounds in the world....

@vishanselvakumar5217 4 жыл бұрын

Heena Tomar I’m on of them now 😥

@abhishek222ful 4 жыл бұрын

We lived together fir 7 years today her bf picked up the call nd said move on sje is sleeping r8 now 😇💔

@shaunakm8830 4 жыл бұрын

i m

@abharbhattarai 5 жыл бұрын

"asking for a friend" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@familyguy6668 5 жыл бұрын

TheDivineHolly what’s your logic on why he’s. Joke ? 😒

@eiranoconnor9768 4 жыл бұрын

Abhar Bhattarai that old chestnut 😂😂😂

@adityajain2227 4 жыл бұрын

Very very true....... sadhguru thank you

@mrcolorful4571 4 жыл бұрын

hahahhaa.... ive seen this joke very often, and its still funny af Lol

@Manes-Ancestrales 4 жыл бұрын

Why not?

@ranipatel1406 4 жыл бұрын

After break up, just cry cry cry alone.. when you fed up of crying then all will be ok

@williamsanchez4801 4 жыл бұрын

Yup. It's funny how people say you have to take the breakup "like a man" or with "courage". But I think the best way to handle a breakup is to just experience all the pain completely, and then let go... You can't run away from the inevitable.

@jessylatinqt 4 жыл бұрын

Rani Patel what if u cant cry?

@anonymous_channel 4 жыл бұрын

Haha right

@anonymous_channel 4 жыл бұрын

Jessica P its a bigger issue,but then just feel the pain, in order to heal the wound, first we need to admit there is a wound.

@prajwaljadhav6576 4 жыл бұрын

How to move on yrr Didi... I just broke up with a girl 5 months ago it was a 4yrs relationship not small duration ..each night I cry 😢 ... People say time will heal ur sorrow.... But how could I erase memories of 4yrs?? 😣😢

@Jay.Armani 4 жыл бұрын

He’s right though, the only reason why we hold on to relationships is because of our memory. Our memory reminds us of the good & bad times & we chose to harp over things like that. I’ve been listening to him everyday & it makes me think about why would you invest so much into others & materialistic things rather than invest solely into yourself first

@mywater6796 4 жыл бұрын

that's true we really think every thing will work perfectly and there will be no any circumstances but when i decide to tell a person I'm planning to be with her that invest in yourself she won't understand i have already met person in my life she used to tell me that I'm the one to make her happy I'm responsible for her happiness i told her learn to make yourself happy it was really frustrating

@SuperPoshposh 4 жыл бұрын

Buddha Teachings ✔️

@AndyGinny1 4 жыл бұрын

I agree. I’m going through a breakup now. I haven’t seen my ex girl for a month and it’s all memory because I’m not making any new memories with her because we have separated. But my mind just keeps going back and thinking about the past and memories of times we shared and then makes me sad.

@kazelfementera8229 4 жыл бұрын

@avantikaroy5146 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly fill your memory with so much seeking and awareness about YOUSERLF rather than others to squeeze every bit of life and knowledge about YOU cuz there is no one like you. We are more invested in other's and loving others before living and loving ourselves.

@nepaleseanuragsharmaoffici5202 3 жыл бұрын

It's time that heals everything . At first I thought I couldn't forget her immediately after we broke up . But as the time passed along I didn't feel for her now and I am so glad that I step back from that toxic relationship . If you think you can't move on just wait for the correct time which will heal you so perfectly . Hugs 🤗

@frankgregory8924 3 жыл бұрын

Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

@frankgregory8924 3 жыл бұрын

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@frankgregory8924 3 жыл бұрын

Text him Wh@tsApp

@frankgregory8924 3 жыл бұрын

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@jenniferlopez2861 3 жыл бұрын

Hello lovely I will introduce you to the same Relationship restorer who attracted my ex back to me within 48 hours.. He can also help you to reunite back with your ex real quick

@shreyasinha22 10 ай бұрын

Everyone out there who is going through a breakup or a heartbreak... just remember bad times don't last..you are strong...you deserve the world and it happened for good...cry your heart out but don't let that pain define you❤....Someone's out there waiting for you guys with their hearts open!❤...God bless you all✨️

@niteshchauhan4258 2 жыл бұрын

I would say to those brother and sister who all are coming here, just accept this and don't try to heal the relationship as it will only toxicate you, heal your self by indulging yourself in outdoor activities and i am sure u will get out of this after a week or two or a month depending upon healing capacity ✌️

@dharwindersingh6890 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks buddy I really needed that

@jagrutisahoo1574 2 жыл бұрын

Right

@vincentpereagbe3880 Жыл бұрын

This is very true 👍

@mustikamaharani7568 4 жыл бұрын

It's impossible to erase the memory of someone that has emotions and feelings in our body. Deal with it, you love someone but in life somehow it's better for you to not be together.

@priyanu1721 4 жыл бұрын

So true# life is so cruel

@SuperPoshposh 4 жыл бұрын

It's possible to move on and forget your past. Remember time HEALS EVERYTHING⚕️

@SuperPoshposh 4 жыл бұрын

@@priyanu1721 Learn to be strong and learn Buddha Teachings ✔️

@B-ini-z 4 жыл бұрын

How u overcomw

@swordofgod2835 4 жыл бұрын

mustika maharani :(

@kritikatiwari1144 5 жыл бұрын

Well.. Someone else has moved on, distance will happen even if you stay still! On point Sadguru :)

@hopee0101 4 жыл бұрын

Can you please explain, i still didn't get this sentence

@dreccidentisiast 4 жыл бұрын

@@hopee0101 it means even if u dont forget them and still cry nd care for the person but the other person has already forgot and moved!

@KotnisYT 3 жыл бұрын

@@hopee0101 it means that 1 person has moved on so distance will happen just stay still and don't run behind that person or it will take more time just stay still it will be better for both

@soulstar8348 2 жыл бұрын

I think it means that the other person has already moved on but if u are still stuck there, the other person is still going to keep moving on & going forward with his life. So there will still be distance.

@ripdeadpoet 2 жыл бұрын

When you love someone that eventually doesn’t love you, you realize how dangerous love is. Most people don’t get to experience true love and the memories you get with it. I also realize I might not ever love as deeply for someone ever again. That’s ok… there’s still possibility but I’m grateful for the experience and the emotions and feelings and memories I was left with, even though I feel overwhelmed most days now. Love is powerful.

@xxceilingfanxx1798 2 жыл бұрын

This comment hit different:/

@Swansen03 Жыл бұрын

Deep love lost is kind of a curse. I found deep love made living in society a breeze, all day this extra energy moving me along. I've experienced enlightenment, unfortunately enlightenment only makes life in society easier given very specific conditions. Like a banana tree growing in a greenhouse on a mountain. When you know yourself completely and are connected within yourself, you will come across those that will connect deeply with you. It will happen yearly even

@Swansen03 Жыл бұрын

You know and on this. Sadhguru talks physical, mental, emotional relationship. I'm talking about a complete/full valency with another. It's all three and on an energetic level together. It's fusion not fission, it's a covalent bond not ionic or magnetic, it's one plus one equals three.. and honestly, any other type of relationship is a waste of time

@koocults8760 Жыл бұрын

hey how are you feeling now

@irinaivanovic9792 Жыл бұрын

I completely resonated with this comment. I have been lucky to have fallen in love 3 times and I do mean hard, true love....with men who eventually fell out of love with me over several years. Consequently, I have also experienced traumatic heartbreak from these abandonments. Love is indeed dangerous and I really am reluctant to allow it into my life ever again. Part of that is because of the sheer magnitude of emotional pain I've been left with that no amount of therapy can cure, and seemingly no amount of time either. I am in peace, finally, with myself, even though I get lonely. It is better than being abandoned and taken for granted by the one you love.

@amandeeparya792 2 жыл бұрын

My friend if you reading this take care of yourself you are the most exquisite being on earth for yourself remember that 🌸

@sayaligawand2810 5 жыл бұрын

So nice words.. I am going through a terrible breakup right now.. It was a long 5 year relationship.. And i just feel so suffocated and my heart aches like hell.. I feel numb.. I cry my heart out.. Still unable to share anything with anyone.. It's so difficult.. But i hope still.. Better days are coming.. Better days are coming

@ashwani2202 Жыл бұрын

Hope you moved on ......

@adhurasa Жыл бұрын

Same feeling here ...mine is 9 year and now it is going to end, i just want peace peace for my mind for my heart, it difficult ..so much

@sharimott8225 Жыл бұрын

How are you doing now?

@olyahashmi Жыл бұрын

I am going through same painful emotional trauma I am dying

@rutvikdarji6851 Жыл бұрын

so how r u doing now... does it still hurts??

@shivkasaudhan3604 5 жыл бұрын

Actually the problem is his own and he step forward through his friend 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

@devabavhad1062 5 жыл бұрын

😀😀

@anukritsharma1798 5 жыл бұрын

😆😂

@osse1n 5 жыл бұрын

*Our ego likes to cling on things, people and outcomes.*

@nitinpathak9982 5 жыл бұрын

Yes i thought that too 😁

@deepakbasty7694 5 жыл бұрын

Heehee ..that what i was thinking....

@sameerjoshi6694 Жыл бұрын

Everyone goes through their worse, but being abandoned is the worst. I hope anyone who is feeling the lowest of their life, all i wanna say is, u did great , u tried your best, someone better deserves you. Stay strong and happy ✨

@youtubeaddict6128 3 жыл бұрын

First of all accept the fact that its over and it over for a better future... The new person will be a good person and he will respect you and love you the way you deserve to be loved ❤️

@youtubeaddict6128 3 жыл бұрын

@@biancadelarosa7986 sorry but no, I'm happy without my toxic ex and I've accepted the fact that we are not made for each other.. I'm trying to move on and waiting for my better future❤️

@Artiahcb 7 ай бұрын

This has happened to me twice. I don’t know when will I find a better person.

@pranavpugaonkar6674 4 жыл бұрын

He said it's for his friend and then he says "I dont know how to move on" 🤣

@henrytaff8067 4 жыл бұрын

Bc he was saying he could not explain to his friend how to move on bc of his age "basically" he hasn't had the chance to move on so therefore he could not give his friend advice on something he hasn't experienced for himself Hope this helped you.

@pranavpugaonkar6674 4 жыл бұрын

@@henrytaff8067 that's what he stated in the crowd, usually people lie stating it's for their friends rather than stating the truth to not experience embarrassment

@shreyans167 4 жыл бұрын

Of course it was for his so called "Friend"

@krishnayashas8360 4 жыл бұрын

I laughed at this comment once. Now I'm standing in his shoes.. It simply doesn't feel funny anymore.

@nikitaverma7032 Жыл бұрын

Seriously just reading out comments section is blissful, I just had a break up yesterday nd I think it's terrible to be in this phase but time will resolve everything hopefully. So many lessons are learnt. Just waiting for the day i will edit this comment and say I sincerely worked on myself nd my happiness nd now the memories no longer hurts me.

@patrioticindian29 Жыл бұрын

One month ago She broke up with me without no reason.. But now i got the reason that she cheated on me.. We had been together for 4 years.. But she doesn't value of one single memory of ours.. Literally i have been crying since day the when he broke up.. I don't know how to deal with this time . How to overcome this?

@Mahi_dhyawana Жыл бұрын

@@patrioticindian29 don't live lonely as much as you can. Because when we live free there are many memories (good and bad) stuck in our mind and we get hurt whether memory is good or bad it will hurt you at the end. So please keep yourself busy as much as you can this is the best way to move on because after sometime you will feel that why were you crying for. You will laugh at yourself after sometime remembering this time. So please keep yourself busy as much as you can.

@Zzzyga Жыл бұрын

is it better already?

@georgeclaire 9 ай бұрын

How has it been dear

@santoshed 4 жыл бұрын

He makes sense in many ways but his answers never matches the questions.

@gamze5934 3 жыл бұрын

I think he did not know the answer and could not think properly at his feed.

@saumyasharma77 3 жыл бұрын

Its not like he doesn't knows it or cannot give direct advice, its like he always gives just direction to think upon bcz as a human being we should never blind trust or blind follow everyone, always think ourselves, so sadhguru always shows us the right direction to think, and then in this case different things work for different persons, there are no perfect answer, thats why everyone has to find their own answers

@saumyasharma77 3 жыл бұрын

@@gamze5934 Its not like he doesn't knows it or cannot give direct advice, its like he always gives just direction to think upon bcz as a human being we should never blind trust or blind follow everyone, always think ourselves, so sadhguru always shows us the right direction to think, and then in this case different things work for different persons, there are no perfect answer, thats why everyone has to find their own answers

@nutzz55 3 жыл бұрын

He did give the right answer. You have to think with an open mind sometimes the answer is bestowed within us. Someone just needs to point us in the right direction.

@EzY-Ed 3 жыл бұрын

So true! Lol

@Suniiraiofficial 2 жыл бұрын

Lots of love and strength to one who is going through this heart breaks! I know how painful maybe you are going through! But what can we do rather thn moving on….. Life is beautiful, don’t stucked on one person or with the situations! Believe in universe! God blessed you❣️

@ameliajones8727 2 жыл бұрын

十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup he can help you too via whtsap.

@CHBZubairAhmadKhan 2 жыл бұрын

Please talk to me about break up, she broke up with me last week I'm just only crying why she did with me ,,, i have no friends I'm dying please reply 🙏🥺

@cranksbots.8837 Жыл бұрын

@@CHBZubairAhmadKhan are u ok now?

@upendrasanikanti265 4 жыл бұрын

I believe everything has a timeline. If expiry date comes nothing can stop, we have to move on. I had a break up 7 years ago, now when I think about that I have zero emotion. Recently I had one more break up, but this relationship hurts me more. I don't know how many days it takes to get rid of these emotions. But some day I will have zero emotions.

@mightyguy079 2 жыл бұрын

Nd are u ok now?

@upendrasanikanti265 2 жыл бұрын

@@mightyguy079 time heals everything. I am absolutely fine and enjoying my bachelor life

@mightyguy079 2 жыл бұрын

@@upendrasanikanti265 really happy to hear this... 😇

@upendrasanikanti265 2 жыл бұрын

@@mightyguy079 thanks bro for asking

@forty_.7 2 жыл бұрын

Its around 2 years..can you tell me how its feeling right now.. Bcz its around 9 months of my breakup but its not healing is going worst day by day.. 🙌

@jiritoko3015 5 жыл бұрын

Love yourself and become the best version of urself 🤟

@musclewarlord 5 жыл бұрын

Jiri Toko true

@bhuvankumar2429 4 жыл бұрын

If you love them becomes a part of you. You may have hope or you may think they are in some problem so they are ignoring. So it's not easy to understand whats happening may be a big problem in that case. Always there comes a doubt that they may be saying lie for some reason

@mariaximenapalacios5635 3 жыл бұрын

I’m watching this video with my heart shattered, reading all the comments and not feeling so lonely feels like bandaids for the soul 🤍

@ThegoyimknowAnything 2 жыл бұрын

We all are broken inside, nothing can be done, lets just keep going as we can

@carlostunt5413 2 жыл бұрын

Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!

@carlostunt5413 2 жыл бұрын

He is indeed problem a problem solve

@sunnyrana4248 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re feeling better, it definitely helps the soul bleed less 😔, I feel shattered

@alaskaress7138 2 жыл бұрын

same xxxxxxxxxxxx

@shaileshaswal8395 4 жыл бұрын

The video starts from 6:31 Thank me later .. I hope everything is fine .. Hey king / queen you dropped this 👑 .

@pooshand197 4 жыл бұрын

We were together for last 5yrs.. In the month of May she's going to get married.. I can't explain the pain I'm going into right now.. all I have right now is her memories and it's killing me.

@zoemrubata2484 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry, I hope you're in a better place now

@memelove5223 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you're experiencing this

@aparmaya4yew 3 жыл бұрын

I am going through the same.......she is getting married with someone else after we had 6 years of relationship...the pain is real...how did you overcome all that?

@princyb9047 3 жыл бұрын

@@aparmaya4yew don't worry dear .. life takes its own turn .. things are so difficult to forget .but we can't do anything about it.. myself in the same pressure..not feel like eating.. feelz like I'm dead

@aparmaya4yew 3 жыл бұрын

@@princyb9047 i have been goung through the same..i tried calling her but all i am getting is hate and all..i even tried talking with the guy she is getting married with.he doesnt have any problem with her of us having 6 yrars of relationship....i have tried everything i could but she is gone just like that..i feel like not living anymore ...feels like someone is stabbing my heart ....how can i move on ?

@bingle12765 5 жыл бұрын

The best way to get over a break up in my opinion is to go out, keep busy, keep stimulated don’t allow you’re self enough time to sit there and let you’re mind run off.

@avikbhattacharjee4798 2 жыл бұрын

Ok... I admitt ...but what with the one who sleeps alone at night....????

@Jessica-hd1jp 2 жыл бұрын

Do you really need help?

@Jessica-hd1jp 2 жыл бұрын

+②③④⑨⓪⑤⑤④⑧①④⑧④ ok.

@avantikasingh3336 2 жыл бұрын

what about the things u see regularly that keeps reminding u of them...😓

@subinj9174 2 жыл бұрын

@@avantikasingh3336 hi avantika, my gf of year and half just broke up with me and the first thing I did was grab all the things she gave me and throw it away, I didn't take time to go thru it just whatever belonged to her or was given to me by her was thrown away then I quickly deleted all the pics of her from my phone. Note that I did this in very fast pace so I won't grieve later. Hope it helps and hope you move on. I know you will and we all will •́ ‿ ,•̀

@larap.1850 5 жыл бұрын

This is very poignant for me. Struggling to break up with someone I love because our relationship has been on again off again for so long and I can't deal with the pain of that anymore. Sadhguru's comment about considering my own life, my own integrity, my own needs is what I had to hear. My unconditional love has been focused outward only. Time to love the particular expression of life that I am and move into situations and relationships that will allow it to flourish and grow in its totality.

@AsasinoManik 2 жыл бұрын

Same here, of and on again & again it"s so painful

@ZenRenLife_ Жыл бұрын

I am sure this is now well in your past

@laragryffn4653 Жыл бұрын

@@ZenRenLife_ Indeed it is, and I found someone else and have had a truly wonderful relationship these past two and a half years. To everyone reading this, if you are struggling to let go, just imagine the best kind of relationship you would love to have and every time you are tempted to go back, tell yourself "No, I want a relationship that is beautiful and healthy and where the other person loves me as much as I love them" and then while you are waiting, do all the things you have put off doing. Meditate, read, organize your life. Don't numb out on social media though.

@ZenRenLife_ Жыл бұрын

@@laragryffn4653 I was hopeful this would be your response and I'm so thankful it is. It gives me hope that I'm also on the right path. Wishing you every happiness in your relationship and with yourself! 💐

@michellewilson830 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t wait to stop hurting, it’s so hard to get out of bed every morning but I know I have to because I have bills to pay, I just don’t want to date again and I’m okay with being alone for the rest of my life, seems like everyone sells you a fantasy, I just wanted a family of my own. That’s no longer in my future and I’m going to accept it.

@ninsiimamaria2140 3 жыл бұрын

It is well. Sending you love and light

@joelosteen4874 3 жыл бұрын

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@docd7471 3 жыл бұрын

I have this very exact feeling right now and its stopping me from doing anything productive. I'm just curious, how did you get out of it? Thanks in advance.

@here2hear90 3 жыл бұрын

That line everyone sells you a fantasy...oh my god..just wow

@ethanbernstein645 3 жыл бұрын

Look in the very right places, there's someone across the world looking for the exact same thing you're looking for and ready for, just reply to them. 😉

@shivanisingh2593 4 жыл бұрын

I love how he answered his question indirectly and not directly knowing human emotions are so complex and there is no straight answer. such a wise man knowledgeable man !

@KunalSharma-kz7yx 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely there is no straight answer.

@rajpatil5547 5 жыл бұрын

**When you born you come alone and when you die you go alone *** when you remember this all difficulties goes away...Pranam Sadhguru jii...

@Viv8ldi 4 жыл бұрын

@Rockford John I like this one a lot, you are basically a pile of information of others

@manjunath7497 3 жыл бұрын

@Rockford John 😂😂😂on ur death bed do u go with other thoughts?

@princessjess5475 2 жыл бұрын

I have a twin sister it’s came with two !!

@Jessica-hd1jp 2 жыл бұрын

Do you really need help?

@Jessica-hd1jp 2 жыл бұрын

+②③④⑨⓪⑤⑤④⑧①④⑧④ ok.OK

@saanugowda5237 Жыл бұрын

Don't grieve like they are are the one, time is the best medicine for everything, everything going to be normal soon but takes its own time. But remember the reason for breakup and remember relationship won't work. Still life is Soo much there to explore and enjoy. If u feel cry it make u stronger. If they are happy, y can't u??

@lilyyyy681 4 жыл бұрын

Its been 9 months and its still so painful 😭

@k.p.d6301 4 жыл бұрын

believe me, it all fades away. What helped me after 4 years of crying is travel.

@k.p.d6301 4 жыл бұрын

@@sandesh0723 I used to feel the same. Believe me, I cried daily. DAILY for almost 4 years. I was suicidal, restless heart all day, sleepless nights spent crying. He cheated on me and married another woman, but after 4 years, the pain slowly vanished when I went to a new place, met new people, spent days doing new things... and i came back home with much-refreshed mind and attitude.

@Mimi89_7 4 жыл бұрын

@@sandesh0723 I can't stop crying he's someone I wanted for a long time we got together and I was soooo happy things started to get bad he has issues he need to take care of I tried to be there for him but he pushed me away I was with him for a year and 6 months i can't get him out of my head i know it's not healthy for me to keep putting myself through this pain I already suffer from anxiety and depression and I believe he does as well it's just so hard I have all the good memories in my head even when I go outside and see a place we once went to I get so heartbroken i need help smh.

@brownskingirl5617 4 жыл бұрын

Trust me ..love is really something else

@wiccapowerify 4 жыл бұрын

@@brownskingirl5617 over 3 years here :/ the sadness never leaves. it stays with you

@mohammednazreen4882 2 жыл бұрын

When you trust a person too much, you either get a person for life or a lesson for life

@slrd_spiritual 4 жыл бұрын

His response was a little too deep for High School kids lol.

@Vlogstafy 4 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't equate young age with immaturity. There are some young "kids" who are well ahead of their years, even though we don't come across them too often.

@ankitchandola3511 4 жыл бұрын

@@Vlogstafy ya u r right . Some r too mature according to their age . But that is something which give u more pain than you can actually handle.

@debashishpattanayak4126 4 жыл бұрын

High school? He was in his graduation

@loneuzumakigaming7758 3 жыл бұрын

College kids you mean?

@slrd_spiritual 3 жыл бұрын

If its college kids then that only drives my point more

@whiskeyandice7236 5 жыл бұрын

I broke up with a girl. And later kept texting her and could not let go......now I Know it was not my stupidity....but just my muscle memory that let me do it😂😂😂

@kokieee4518 4 жыл бұрын

Muscle memory 😂😂😂

@runn2u490 4 жыл бұрын

you are right😂

@vaibhavsharma6904 4 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

@rlb3726 4 жыл бұрын

🤣

@abhisheksedai6483 4 жыл бұрын

I too did the same Lol😂😂😂

@thakursahilsalaria 2 жыл бұрын

The pain is unbearable the more you try to forget the more you remember its request to all plz never hurt someone never get into a relationship if you don't want to or don't want to understand their feelings of you don't like something plz have a direct communication on that topic but don't do such thing which hurts

@ameliajones8727 2 жыл бұрын

十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup he can help you too via whtsap..

@datmemecat 2 жыл бұрын

So true

@surbhijha2486 Жыл бұрын

That's not the case always, sometimes things don't work in their favour as a couple, for example parent's consent , caste issues or any misunderstanding. Love is complex, and so are break ups:(

@chartstack Жыл бұрын

It's really painful coming around from a relationship you believed will last forever🥺

@InFinity-jb3mn 5 жыл бұрын

This vedio is in my suggestion list after I got Breakup. And I am here.

@iamthegreatest5246 5 жыл бұрын

Time is healing. Just like if you fall and get hurt you physically heal within time. So give yourself time and naturally you move on. New time and new people come into life.

@mindbodyrelaxation6828 3 жыл бұрын

To everyone who is experiencing a difficult situation: To shoot an arrow you have to pull it backwards. So when life drags you back with some troubles, it means it's going to launch into something better.

@eswarithapa9081 2 жыл бұрын

The person whom I love without any expectations broke my heart today and am here to heal myself because it's hurting badly I just don't know what to do . How funny right suddenly everything change. I am just tried my whole body is paining, I hope and I believe 🙏 I Will find myself again . Thank you very much comming into my life and I wish were ever you are be happy😊

@sssj3004 2 жыл бұрын

Hi dear same happened to me...today marks exactly 1 month since he broke up with me...the pain is still here...i'm still trying to heal

@eswarithapa9081 2 жыл бұрын

@@sssj3004 i hope you heal soon ❤

@sssj3004 2 жыл бұрын

@@eswarithapa9081 Thank you dear...I wish from the bottom of my heart that you have the blessed and happy life that you deserve❤

@KunalSharma-kz7yx 2 жыл бұрын

Healed??

@tebogomolf Жыл бұрын

How are you feeling now?

@vivekvarnwal5482 5 жыл бұрын

TIME is the greatest healer. There is no other option other thn wait for the time to pass. Either one can involve him in something he is too passionate abt. Smthng one is too interested in. Once the mind is diverted, and we strt dng smthng vry interesting,out mind wont be free to thnk all the past Thts engraved inside our mind. Otherwise let the time pass. Once a certain period passes, even if we try to remember, it will be hard to hold in thngs after a certain period.

@R_For_Rider 4 жыл бұрын

100,℅

@fear_less_2020 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, time is the grandest of all healers!

@vaishakh6635 4 жыл бұрын

How long it will take?

@anniem3586 3 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@georginabrigs1891 3 жыл бұрын

Totally believe in this.

@lexiemaep7930 5 жыл бұрын

Truly understanding and respecting the free will of others is the way to move on.

@rubeluddin87 5 жыл бұрын

Lexie Mae absolutely on point 👌

@lysianeamougou 2 жыл бұрын

Yess

@sushmasdiaries 2 жыл бұрын

I know this is painful experience.. But have faith This shall pass too and you'll heal, you'll shine Just allow yourself some time💕🌸

@rituchhikara7688 4 жыл бұрын

Be passionate. Focus on your dreams and keep a thought in your mind that TIME IS ALL POWERFUL.

@A_Salted_Fishe 5 жыл бұрын

Much love for ALL my brothers and sisters. Take care of yourself

@marjgonzales8521 3 жыл бұрын

@amotorcyclerider3230 5 жыл бұрын

Nobody but SadhGuru can answer like this with such clarity and simple words. What a Blessing!

@rati3185 Жыл бұрын

If a person wants to move on internally ......definitely u can 🙂just live for ur own and live for that person who loves uhh most ❤

@rishikowe3309 Жыл бұрын

Ok baby

@klingchristian3365 3 жыл бұрын

Sadhguru is the mental cure I need, if I'm in need. Thank you for your help, I love you.

@xy337 5 жыл бұрын

never saw a wiser man i love to listen to you sadghuru

@sunithangowda388 5 жыл бұрын

First love urself then just move on

@ribhudubey263 5 жыл бұрын

💝

@ribhudubey263 5 жыл бұрын

Can u help 😢

@ricardotillo265 4 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done huh

@janujan2167 4 жыл бұрын

I cant dear but trying my lvl best

@kvipinanand143143 4 жыл бұрын

An elaborated speech , far better than saying "dont expect"

@tapsilogkid8624 3 жыл бұрын

"Joyless" --- I am going through this right now.

@dogslover9023 3 жыл бұрын

Right

@NoLabelAddah 4 жыл бұрын

Focus on the significant things in life. Do everything with integrity.. That's what he said.

@nevermindvarun 5 жыл бұрын

Everything is temporary then why do I worry about one.

@nyakwarObat 5 жыл бұрын

Habit, some your own making some from your ancestors in your dna. You ignore meditation and laws of attraction at your own peril

@anintrovertautograph 4 жыл бұрын

Life works with tagging system... This is mine , that is me .... Just imagine what will happen if you tied yourself to a moving vehicle .. you will be dragged along and you cannot escape until you untie yourself while being dragged..... So it is better if you don't tie yourself to someone or something but if you did then you should be prepared to untie when it's time ...

@Viv8ldi 4 жыл бұрын

@@anintrovertautograph I like that metphapore

@hafeezsk8 3 жыл бұрын

@@anintrovertautograph thank you bro

@roshangupta8161 3 жыл бұрын

somebody else has already moved on . That's the way you can heal you up . That line will always motivate you to move on in your life .

@AsimaGuruBahasa Жыл бұрын

I like to quote Sandguru saying "Intellectual integrity, emotional integrity and physical integrity". That's the most of my healing proces. I love how I come through this in this very time. Lot of love 💕

@freeworld88888 5 жыл бұрын

So hard to move on, when your loved one left you, while you are still in love with them, especially if you have children with them as well, they use their children as struggle tools.

@secreteobsession3584 4 жыл бұрын

Very interesting could you elaborate a little more on what you mean by the use the children as a struggle tool

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love

@iyohavictor2963 3 жыл бұрын

there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce

@chrisjackline6987 3 жыл бұрын

True

@sanghamitradas9247 2 жыл бұрын

@@iyohavictor2963 who is that specialist?

@idonthaveaname3924 5 жыл бұрын

Everyone finds his own way to move on After a Break up!

@donaldstone4470 3 жыл бұрын

Yes but it’s hurts trusting again

@desinewyorker2285 2 жыл бұрын

In tears when he said "Well somebody else has moved on!"

@machoferrari4031 2 жыл бұрын

Hello,get help from Dr Steve,where they seems no hope

@machoferrari4031 2 жыл бұрын

He will definitely help you he have solutions to all problem

@machoferrari4031 2 жыл бұрын

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@rampogenic1594 Жыл бұрын

It's just a sentence.... The sentences: when you are born you came alone , and when you die you go alone ...😮😢❤❤❤❤

@ayshasiddiqui413 5 жыл бұрын

He has truly got immense wisdom!

@irenabe973 5 жыл бұрын

The flower essence Bleeding Heart has helped piece my heart back together after a serious and emotionally painful breakup.

@cynthiaortiz4941 2 жыл бұрын

That is so true, many people does not know what to do with their lifes but they want everything and are not prepare for it!

@heavensharma4009 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💕 Kisi Ko Smjh Ata Hai Kisi Ko Nhi Lyf Hai Phle Sab Mje Lene wale hote hai pr shi direction is lyf me bht kam log dete hai 💕

@mblkitu 4 жыл бұрын

Sadhguru makes me wanna get the best of me! Thank you for your teaching. God bless you always

@martperu1109 4 жыл бұрын

answer: she wont be back ...

@shantpahadan2886 4 жыл бұрын

He won't be back either..

@mrmalio 4 жыл бұрын

True

@justsomerandomguy1361 4 жыл бұрын

Epic😂😂 Me inside:-😭

@clashwithbat2283 4 жыл бұрын

she never does....

@dharshinideepi7094 3 жыл бұрын

@@shantpahadan2886 me too😔

@Manes-Ancestrales 4 жыл бұрын

Before you touch and envolve yourself in everything and anything(One), you must see the impact on you. Bringing some integrity to the body is the key.... Beyond all, understand you were born alone and you will die alone. Sadhguru Forever 🥰🌹💖🙏🏿

@ArtByHazel 2 жыл бұрын

Love yourself so much that you become so magnetic 🧲. Focus on your own growth and healing. It’s just a memory that can be released from your body. Praying for our brothers and sisters who are going through healing from a painful breakup. You are going to make it. Deep answers for these youngsters which is great for them going forward. Blessings!

@nuhusamaila3454 2 жыл бұрын

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@totomare4528 2 жыл бұрын

†2349056406417⏯⏯⏮⏮......

@yahayahalima2509 2 жыл бұрын

+2348051176313⏯⏯⏯⏭⏭

@yahayahalima2509 2 жыл бұрын

+2348051176313⏯⏯⏯⏭⏭

@QuIeT_KhA0s 5 жыл бұрын

Realize that things are made to be temporary and the time we are given is the time we should appreciate what we are given. A Sun is new every morning and sets on the same day. Learn to appreciate its warmth before the moon rises. Blessings and warmth to all.

@trevsedgwick3324 5 жыл бұрын

The simple truth is that you will never get over a lost love you will have to learn to live with a broken heart, moving on is starting again searching for a new love but this doesn’t mean you will ever forget about past loves !

@jacobharrington1350 5 жыл бұрын

Especially after 19 years

@nadoosh5111 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Thank you. At least someone out there is a realist.

@aasiaabal9179 4 жыл бұрын

The truth!I needed decade to forget first love,now again happens!

@SuperPoshposh 4 жыл бұрын

I disagree with you. Time heals everything.

@monisaini5381 4 жыл бұрын

And what if u still love him and he just don't care bcz he is with another girl now...I know this but even then I'm just.... What if ur feelings are totally fade away...it's been one n half year n I'm still thinking he will realize someday ...but I know it will not ever going to happen... But still I have that hope ...that hope hurts me daily ... Not the memories or his cheating or heart break...but that hope which breaks everyday but next day it comes to you again...that hope hurts me ...

@reeyashrestha2387 Жыл бұрын

Who else is reading the comments and getting encouraged rather than focusing on video.

@GoldLeafPress 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS DUDE!!!!! I haven’t even listened yet but in the past this guy speaks real wisdom

@jayantnagar2215 5 жыл бұрын

Most important question and most practical answer for our generation, nice

@sheiljasingh6079 5 жыл бұрын

To all the sakht ones out there.Raise your hand 😂who are not interested in relationship .😃

@hii_im_trash7315 4 жыл бұрын

lol me

@williammanwell 3 жыл бұрын

The part on emotional integrity really hit home, more so because he was referring to how our own intelligence is soo advanced. He Really Understands the trauma of the soul-woooow

@alby711 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your wisdom Sadhguru! You have put life into an enlightening perspective.

@swatis6785 5 жыл бұрын

Got right video at the correct time. Thanks for the advice sadguru.

@pahriz 4 жыл бұрын

His answered to this question is given at the outset. You must get over the breakup because the person you long for is gone and no longer in your. "You cannot stay (in the relationship)...if the other person is moving away (how can you stay in a relationship that no longer exists?)...distance must happen (people will leave your life and you cannot stop them)." So...he elaborates by saying choose wisely, but in the end we are all alone. We are born alone and we die alone....smh...we all heard it we just don't want to listen.

@Sumalirangi 3 жыл бұрын

His way of advicing is marvellous...wise sayings,still anyone understands....🙏

@jstaang 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. Needed it so much. Grateful for you! Xoxo

@akhilpkd3978 4 жыл бұрын

The boy was just like, "why I asked this question to him?"🤔

@lovecheck1064 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@williammanwell 3 жыл бұрын

hahahaaa

@sheenanar7342 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@akshatlohani9289 5 жыл бұрын

After seeing this video...i learned to write 2 lines answer into 2 page 👌👌

@archanasiddharth608 4 жыл бұрын

Motivation doesn't work after broken heart .no solution of this happen, except "time ".. love is nothing so don't waste your time for silly things..

@DMV2026 4 ай бұрын

2.5 yrs.........one day she ended it all......just imagine.......u be loyal..... imagine u two in a marriage.....and suddenly that person leaves.......hope no body gets the same pain as I did ❤️

@mrunu28 18 күн бұрын

Same here

@Imkingry 11 күн бұрын

Just happened to me yesterday

@USMC5547 5 жыл бұрын

I think the worst part about break ups is that hardest ones tend to take a toll on your mental state of mind. Did to me for 4 years and in that four years I let myself down mentally physically and in such a bad health way. Now I feel stuck and feel like I won’t make it. I’m scared. So my advice to people is to always put yourself and your happiness first.

@ninenane 3 жыл бұрын

That's a good advice. I have lost myself and it’s hard to cope. I see no way out from the pain. If u see this comment how are u doing nowadays?

@Nancy-cl1sn 2 жыл бұрын

It's the same for me. Words are easier to say... move on but it's one of the hardest. It is really hard to come out

@shaunakm8830 4 жыл бұрын

Did he finally answer the boy's innocent question. His high level of intelligent english and Hellow most people dont understand. But the boy is decent and sincere guy. boy said Thanks

@sg-ew7qt 3 жыл бұрын

Which city do u live in?

@manastalksessions Жыл бұрын

Flat out no one else will have my heart in that manner. I am happy and dont need anyone to add on to it. What I need, I am!

@faizahanif9515 2 жыл бұрын

"When you understand you come along. When you whine you go along. " Wise words to live by 💯

@LanguageExpert-hg8do 5 жыл бұрын

M going to listne to this lecture of Sadguru ji everyday🙏

@AsasinoManik 2 жыл бұрын

It's scary how I trusted someone but she couldn't even think a little bit about my feelings and didn't had a real guilt for her behavior and this is the thing that keeps coming back to me. It has been more than 2-3 weeks but still I can't over my feelings and the way people change.

@Mommyofmummies 2 жыл бұрын

You aren't Alone bro...stay strong.🥺 My 7 long year gf did same with me.😭 I was fighting against my whole family for her... She knew everything i was doing And yet she was cheating on me.

@spencerlawrence8534 2 жыл бұрын

Same here ....I'm going through a similar situation

@angelforfreedom 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Sadhguruji 🙏🏽❤️.

@siddharthasenapati5397 4 жыл бұрын

I love the way you think and express things, Sadhguru

@rigveda5105 5 жыл бұрын

Expand your horizons and then you will understand that there are other things which are there and have more importance than just a person.and that personmoved on anyway so get with on it.cheers!

@allylove21 5 жыл бұрын

He didn’t really answer the question..

@harapriyananda7097 5 жыл бұрын

Lee Higginbotham what to do post all these issues?

@pdix10 5 жыл бұрын

He talked about prevention...not cure 😊

@unoluthandomazibuko9716 5 жыл бұрын

I feel the exact same way... he just went on and on...

@perfectimperfect8618 4 жыл бұрын

He tells us to take charge of the things that are under our control.. our mind, body and emotions.. understanding these things will help you move on

@perfectimperfect8618 4 жыл бұрын

@@pdix10 he spoke about the cure.. understanding the mechanisms of human helps us move on.. just learn to use the iPhone

@hemchandrasawant6761 2 жыл бұрын

Wow..Very helpful Took away my sadness instantly 🙂

@mrhotot Жыл бұрын

We ended up 8 years of relationship. Ending up couldn't have hurt me but she cheated on me which hurt me alot. If she was really not interested on me then she could have told me. It cuts so deep. People ending relationship with no work get less than those who get cheated. Thank you for everything and every memory we share. It's been more than a year. Still can't find way to get on my track. It complete made me lost.

@Mina-hn3ms Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear that. I really hope you’re doing better. I just hug you virtually.