My Wife or My Girlfriend Dr. Phil You Decide

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25 күн бұрын

Melvin says he is torn between his wife of eight years, Rachel, and his girlfriend of two years, Chantelle, and he wants Dr. Phil to help him decide whom he should choose. Tension builds when the women meet face to face for the first time. Will Dr. Phil help Melvin with his choice -- or will someone else make the decision for him? (2213022RR)
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@heavenleeangeltalk8471 24 күн бұрын

Believe this, Your soulmate will NOT be found in someone else's husband!!!!

@sonyasanders9108 23 күн бұрын

Truth. God does not give you someone's spouse.

@JS-ps6cb 23 күн бұрын

Exactly!

@sandralittle2138 23 күн бұрын

So right!

@meghanwilliams4295 23 күн бұрын

And your marriage won't be successful if your husband wants to be in someone else's arms.

@JS-ps6cb 23 күн бұрын

@@meghanwilliams4295 exactly!

@colleenandrews3720 23 күн бұрын

Wife should walk away and never look back.

@StrawberryJam806 24 күн бұрын

Imagine fighting over this dude lmao

@Jackmcars12 24 күн бұрын

😂😂

@rsimmons41407 24 күн бұрын

Definition of rock bottom

@terrylancey5451 23 күн бұрын

Right!

@80ladyjay78 23 күн бұрын

😂

@nessae354 23 күн бұрын

Imagine choosing to ruin your life for Chantal over your wife

@trijntjejacoba 23 күн бұрын

I never understand why two women fight for a man who proves to be unfaithful. What a disgrace

@JS-ps6cb 23 күн бұрын

I completely agree with you it is absolutely baffling to me.

@KellyThutwa 23 күн бұрын

I agree with you, this is WHAT THEY CALL DESPERATION in both of the women!

@marilynoliver5965 23 күн бұрын

Women why???? Why such low self-esteem to allow this waiting for him to decide.

@Ninnjette- 23 күн бұрын

Thank you!! Why do women fight over garbage?

@jennypham3998 16 күн бұрын

@@Ninnjette-😂

@nessae354 23 күн бұрын

Chantal and Melvin are perfect for each other. Theyre both foul and selfish. Let them be together and sit back and wait for him to cheat on her too and her to cheat on him with another married man. Chantal doesn't get any sympathy. She chose this.

@mirandapatterson5624 21 күн бұрын

I agree 100%

@suemcdermott2947 23 күн бұрын

You dont meet a husband on a christian dating site, he just finds kind needy women he can use.

@lloydmcnabb276 23 күн бұрын

He is a nutball

@teamcougars 23 күн бұрын

A player like this dude isn’t worth the energy 😢

@truleekemp5768 24 күн бұрын

He wants shantell pls leave him honey

@MangoTroubles-007 20 күн бұрын

She's not too smart

@LisaFerguson-lw8il 23 күн бұрын

I began dating a divorced man. He was so caring and fun to be with. It was by pure accident that I discovered he was still married. I dug deeply and found that he was not just married, he had 3 children, and was living with his wife & family when he wasn't in another city, where I lived. I called his wife, apologising to her for the time I spent with him. She & I became and remain good friends. As a woman, I'm never going to steal a man.

@murdahmammiez 21 күн бұрын

Please tell me she left him?

@user-bo1bw7jw4o 23 күн бұрын

Ugh, never chase a man! The second a dude is interested in someone else, you bounce! I had a guy that tried that on me once, he dumped me for my friend and then tried to come back, I laughed in his face. I could never be attracted to him again.

@thomaspierce1230 23 күн бұрын

Same for women

@sarahalderman3126 23 күн бұрын

Exactly!

@sarahalderman3126 23 күн бұрын

@@thomaspierce1230uh yes, of course it applies to women, a woman wrote it.😂

@Melissa-xz8ss 23 күн бұрын

That man is a child

@christinebrument6851 23 күн бұрын

Hes cheating and yet she's still sleeping with him.. wheres your self respect.?

@fabiwilliams4644 23 күн бұрын

I don't know why women consistently blame the other woman. He's to blame not her. At least have the dignity to proudly walk away & take back your power

@wrenh5046 23 күн бұрын

Why do I feel like he still wouldn’t marry Chantal even if him and his wife were divorced 💀

@8213apice 22 күн бұрын

How can you let go of a man that’s committed to another woman? He wasn’t yours anyways.

@truleekemp5768 24 күн бұрын

I feel so bad for her smh i hope she finds the strength to move on from him and find better because she deserves better

@Annsunshine30 23 күн бұрын

He called himself loyal and faithful......................

@EileenThompson-cq8nd 22 күн бұрын

Right??! Why didn’t Dr Phil call him out on that.

@christyhunter4362 20 күн бұрын

Most cheaters are liars too.

@patimastbrook5278 23 күн бұрын

Let her have him … he doesn’t deserve you

@JeanetteSullivan1 22 күн бұрын

Does Rachel even consider that he could be bringing STDs home to her?? That is GROSS!! What woman would ever want a man like that. He's disgusting!

@trashpanda3837 23 күн бұрын

Wooow the way he ran over to his homewrecker when he got his feelings hurt. 🐮

@mollyscot1563 24 күн бұрын

I love that the wife is blaming the gf not her husband. Wake up.

@grammar4341 23 күн бұрын

I was just going to say that Melvin needs to leave Chantel alone. I hate when wives have misplaced anger. I had a husband who cheated on me and I didn’t blame the other woman. My ex broke his vows to me, she didn’t.

@michmor6221 23 күн бұрын

@grammar4341 My thoughts exactly, agree 1000%

@emmacollins4858 23 күн бұрын

They’re both to blame. He has a wife and she knows he has a wife. Both of their morals are in the gutter.

@swimfast724 23 күн бұрын

They're both at fault. Not equal he's worse but she has responsibility in this too

@alannatodd7183 23 күн бұрын

I was also cheated on by my first husband. Why a person who is unhappy in their marriage chooses to cheat as a solution is beyond me. Yes I take partial blame, but the fact that he didn't make an effort to let me know how he felt about the marriage and wasn't man enough to say it wasn't working before he cheated was a huge sign the marriage wasn't worth saving. I also have no respect for the other person who chooses to step in when a marriage isn't totally dissolved. Fun fact, his relationship may have lasted a year or so, but I'm going on 20 years with my second husband and he is still alone.

@rolondabrown1233 22 күн бұрын

The wife ain’t playing with a full deck

@dianewaynewood4477 23 күн бұрын

You married him after knowing him for six weeks? Lady, you have issues that you need to deal with before you make any decisions about being in a relationship.

@IkaneishaJenkins 23 күн бұрын

whew, he isn't attractive, wealthy or emotionally intelligent, what are these ladies fighting over?? Not saying wealth matters but sheesh, this guy isn't WORTH it lol

@catapillargirl2021 22 күн бұрын

Life is just way too short for any of this drama!

@calgal5752 23 күн бұрын

Why would anybody want this dude???

@catapillargirl2021 22 күн бұрын

Melvin only cares about Melvin.

@Jackmcars12 24 күн бұрын

Narcissist

@cancandoit 23 күн бұрын

He also has schizophrenia, is a convicted felon. Probably some other serious mental health stuff going on.

@Melissa-xz8ss 23 күн бұрын

"Sometimes you have to make up your mind, Say yes to one and let the other one ride"

@alanaadams7440 23 күн бұрын

Did you ever have to make up your mind

@grammar4341 23 күн бұрын

@@alanaadams7440we have all had to make decisions. I made a decision to leave my cheating husband.

@AkitaLover1013 23 күн бұрын

This guy wanted an excuse to cheat and he took it! If it wasn't her it would have been someone else! He was looking to cheat!

@maryhirsch7170 23 күн бұрын

Once a cheater, always a cheater!

@terrylancey5451 23 күн бұрын

Yup!

@danniifan3115 21 күн бұрын

From one bald bloke to another cracked me up!

@kathconserv 23 күн бұрын

This stupid frown on Melvin’s face is annoying.

@juliehofer1940 23 күн бұрын

Correct. Why doesn’t she make the decision.

@ScoobyHashSnacks420 23 күн бұрын

If he’ll do it with you, he’ll do it to you.

@busisiwemichelle5391 17 күн бұрын

This man is not stopping anything

@Patricia-pq4jq 23 күн бұрын

Melvin needs to go

@fannyfroeschl 23 күн бұрын

Fighting? Get some dignity for heaven's sake! Over him? WTF?

@ree305 23 күн бұрын

Wow 😮..when the prize is a "Jack in the box"🙃

@shirleyscott8879 22 күн бұрын

If I were either of these women, I would be gone

@pauladouglas9891 23 күн бұрын

I wonder what happened in their marriage that they separated in the first place. Oh, just found he is on drugs too.

@Nahugodia 23 күн бұрын

The answer is in his behaviour. Move on

@carmelstainsby57 23 күн бұрын

Did i just come across the twilight zone😅😅😅😅😅

@Little_Toy_Soldier 23 күн бұрын

Didn't she mention in the very beginning that he was playing both of them, and yet here she is solely blaming the girlfriend for his responsibility of being a husband? make it make sense.

@mrssunnyface 23 күн бұрын

If he cheats he’s a loser. I would of left him in 2 seconds

@taychanel 22 күн бұрын

Let him go.

@nancymorris995 23 күн бұрын

The whole Pick me!! Pick me!! thing is beyond my comprehension.

@gina-mj6wu 23 күн бұрын

Divorce is the key🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

@trashpanda3837 23 күн бұрын

What a self absorbed drama queen. He's too bad of an actor to believe he's the main character.

@sandimccracken2781 23 күн бұрын

If he has anything to do with that BIG MAMA, he’ll never be faithful to anyone.

@browneyes2100 23 күн бұрын

Well he has a type. Needy & not self loving.

@contactam1753 23 күн бұрын

The face of the wife when she heard he say yes! I think she would want let him miserable.. better they seperate they re nit good for each other

@alonteprince826 22 күн бұрын

SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

@nellabrown6190 23 күн бұрын

Melvin has a very odd affect. He's frighting.

@user-lk6oc2vj6m 23 күн бұрын

Remember, if Melvin can have an affair, then anyone can

@Jkaye13 23 күн бұрын

'If my wife doesn't want to continue our relationship, l want her to tell me..'. So what you want is to play both women at the same time.. what a louse! They both need to drop you!!

@torrimills1915 23 күн бұрын

Ol Melvin ain't worth it honey😂😂

@whitneyrenepaige4321 18 күн бұрын

Chantal and Melvin deserve each other.

@pdig2963 23 күн бұрын

And that's what we're fighting over 🤢

@da---536 23 күн бұрын

who does he go to when he is broke? wife

@jackiehendricks4941 23 күн бұрын

He's such a drama queen, lol.

@eilenekellogg-ki2br 23 күн бұрын

Co dependment.

@specialkay4329 23 күн бұрын

Ugh! I betchu he would go nuts if wifey had a boyfriend. I would see too, if I were her.

@ArkansasSquaw 23 күн бұрын

Girl, you deserve better than this....

@MyRandomThoughts305 23 күн бұрын

Wife needs to be mad at her husband... not the other woman. He made vows not the other woman.

@sueturner5541 23 күн бұрын

He wants his cake and eat it x

@rhondawilliams8155 23 күн бұрын

Are these grownups or kids?

@thecongenital3035 23 күн бұрын

Doormats but wont leave and wont tell him to leave her alone.

@user-sd1sz1lb2e 23 күн бұрын

Say bye bye.

@melaniewantsabeer243 23 күн бұрын

Where is the disgust for the husband? Pick me girl is upset he's a Dawg and yet she still made herself a fool

@tessiebernstein1648 23 күн бұрын

Dr.Phil 🤠 the wife deserves what she is treated 🤡 I am married 47yrs and I told my husband if he doesn't love me anymore HE IS CERTAINLY FREE to go where he is happy 🥰

@grammar4341 23 күн бұрын

My husband and I had both been cheated on in our previous marriages. This is the second marriage for both of us. We promised each other that if we found someone else that we couldn’t do without, we would get a divorce rather than cheat. That was over 27 years ago. We remain faithful to each other.

@cancandoit 23 күн бұрын

No. She doesn't deserve this, but she doesn't realize that she deserves better.

@jac3271 23 күн бұрын

They bandy around the term “love” but it appears neither know what real love is! It’s some kind of perverse obsession. The wife should leave immediately.

@suepost9026 23 күн бұрын

I don feel sorry for her at all. She is such a fool. Look at all he's done, yet she kept going back with him. Why would she want him. He has issues, but man, so does she.

@EileenThompson-cq8nd 22 күн бұрын

I agree totally

@eileenhudson4934 20 күн бұрын

Total low selfesteem...

@juliehofer1940 23 күн бұрын

This is ridiculous

@loriwood8468 23 күн бұрын

RUN! It NEVER works out once you find out someone is cheating. I speak from experience.

@user-po1ln6jr4l 23 күн бұрын

I am gay and I found my husband on a Christian dating site.

@terriconnelly931 23 күн бұрын

Sounds right

@vandafielden6552 23 күн бұрын

@user-polln6jr41 Of course there are genuine Christians, he was NOT one look at all the really IMPORTANT things he omitted to tell his wife, such as his Criminal Past, Drug Use his Diagnosis etc etc. Real Christian's would never lie like that.

@user-po1ln6jr4l 23 күн бұрын

@@vandafielden6552 I come from a Christian family and you know what what's the most religious ones are the biggest cons. The atheist ones in my family are the normal ones and the Christians the ones that go to church all the time are the thieves . The Apple doesn't fall far from the tree

@JS-ps6cb 23 күн бұрын

Says the man who makes a statement that "Religion is the root of all evil"?!?!?! Interesting comment that you make on this video that you found your husband on a Christian dating website but I see you make a comment on another video saying that religion is the root of all evil, okay 🙄

@LAStars-sratS 23 күн бұрын

He just wants tail and the women lack self esteem.

@80bbygrl 23 күн бұрын

Come on ladies. Seriously. THIS guy? 🤦🏼‍♀️

@yulisacastro9535 23 күн бұрын

He's cheating on her with George Lopez

@GoldenBuddah1972 23 күн бұрын

DO NOT FIGHT OVER THIS LOSER. HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. I’m sorry, honey. PLEASE move on! You deserve better! And it’s appalling that he faults you! Run like your hair is on fire!

@alc4ever24 23 күн бұрын

Awe. I feel very bad for rachel. She can do so much better. She's a nice looking lady and deserves respect. Just a thought; my granny told me NEVER to call a man when youre dating. You always wait for them to contact you. It worked on my now husband. A woman asking a man to marry her is doomed for failure.

@casechow 23 күн бұрын

...is this a parody?? You have got to be kidding me.

@gm-wv2yt 20 күн бұрын

Phil always says he doesn’t judge people - watch this tape and tell me he isn’t judging this guy lol

@andreajones886 24 күн бұрын

yes,when you cheat,it is ALWAYS your partner's fault,because they "MADE" you DO IT!

@RebeccaEdwards-pt4or 22 күн бұрын

Just wow...why question!??

@narcdetester2102 23 күн бұрын

What a creep, are these ladies mad?

@kristin5322 23 күн бұрын

The wifes face when he took the help, it was like she was mad he was leaving to get help. Very telling.

@ivylinrolle8020 23 күн бұрын

This evil 😈 is like a ship without a sail ⛵️

@cherylhaugen1897 23 күн бұрын

This man is still a child! What he needs is a “mother” figure!

@kazzakoala 23 күн бұрын

Walk away and hold your head high. You deserve to be the only one. It’s not his decision. It’s your decision. He’s blaming her for him having an affair. If your marriage is rocky and you leave the home for any reason, you go to a relatives house. Go to a friends house. It’s no excuse to be a cheating dog. That’s on you when you do that.

@hannahrachelxo2281 23 күн бұрын

I wonder where they are now

@hazelsoca4577 23 күн бұрын

You dont know someone in 6 weeks.. Geesh, do a background check on people.. A Christian website doesn't mean you are getting a faithful or decent partner.. You have to watch that person to see how their live their life, how they treat others, their family, etc...smh!