There are over half a million people...at the least...who live better just because you started talking to a camera a while back. Thank you for making the decision to create this channel. You are a good friend to humankind.

Babe wake up new dry creek wrangler school video dropped

I like your videos because they do NOT have music, drama, and all that nonsense. Your videos appeal to calm, rational folks, IMO.

In a country lacking positive male role models with masculine temperaments… you are the voice of reason filling that void in our society for young men! We thank you

I’m a young black city slicker from NYC and never would’ve guessed that I’d be glued to wrangler content ever. I’m so happy that I found this channel. So many gems 💎

Dwayne.. I just want to thank you man. I’m 20 years old and ever since I came across your channel, I was instantly hooked by the advice and talks you give your subscribers.. man you don’t know how your videos have helped me.. being a male college student and a first son of my father it definitely ain’t easy to make good decisions at the same time live a way that makes your father proud.. your videos on temper, loneliness, tough love, heartbreak and loss, and great expectations aided my lifestyle change instantly because it resonated with me to the point I started applying it to my life almost instantly. If I could meet you in this life I would give you a big hug❤️ and would almost thank you nonstop for your contributions to my being a better person. I appreciate it.

Always try to never make a decision when your emotions are too high or too low. Take a minute or 5 after that emotional rush, then use logic and reason to decide.

Thanks Dewayne As I laid down in bed watching your video this morning here in Australia the words drove home , I bounced out of bed with my earphones in still listening .I made some breakfast for the kids looked outside the weather is miserable and being a Sunday with nothing important to do I was tempted to just go laze back in bed . My wife is a nurse and worked night shift , so she was in bed sleeping and then I heard you say make a decision. So I did I cleaned the kitchen from last nights dishes and this morning’s breakfast, then it was done in no time , I thought why stop now , so moved on to the next job mopping the floors and as I achieved all this in under an hour I felt like I had accomplished so much for a Sunday and instantly felt better about myself. So thank you , because if you didn’t say those words I would have waisted the day in Bed . It’s now lunchtime so I guess I’ll make the Bed now that my wife is also up and about and It has put a smile on her face too .

I’m 63 years old and your insight and wisdom is remarkable.

It takes at least 2 years to truly know somebody. Also, when you marry someone, you marry their family. Great video, very much enjoyed listening to common sense.

1. Follow your heart, but not your emotions. Your heart is the basis for who you are not how you’re feeling. 2. Use your brain. Think things through thoroughly. Keep your mind active in decision making. Logic and reason must be considered. 3. Get counsel. Have humility and ask experienced people questions. Read books. Gain more knowledge from the world around you. 4. Use your experience in life. Use things you have learned and apply it or cross reference it to other subjects Bonus tip: The thing that’s most exciting about a person is the thing that will drive you crazy later if you get married.

"Above all else, guard your heart, for out of it flow the issues of life" Proverbs 4:23

Great video! Someone once told me, "Very rarely do big decisions in life need to be made right away. Take your time and think it over."

Awe, cowboy life coaching. Thank you for bringing life down to earth and keeping it real! You and Mamma, thank you.

One of the reasons not to trust your heart (i.e. emotions) is that "The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?" - Jeremiah 17:9 NIV. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I'm in a decision making process that can change the course of my life and your words have arrived at the right moment. Thank you, brother!

I call it , living in a day-tight compartment. I can only act today! I can only change today! I can only do better today!

I honestly couldn't imagine your channel full of cuts and edits and music mate. The fact that you do all of your speaking off the cuff and in a single take is both endearing and impressive. The calm presentation absolutely matches your messages.

It fascinates me that this just popped up at the moment I really need to make a decision. Love you Dewayne!

Came to you're videos when I was battling with addiction and alcoholism which cost me everything I had and you've helped me immensely, 4 months into recovery now and you're videos still help me everyday. Thank you for doing what you do.

Thank you Dwayne. Today I decided I’m going to leave my current relationship. I’ve stuck it out for a long time. We have been great together. She’s just not for me. Her beliefs are opposite of mine. Her wants and needs from life’s are not in line with mine. We want such different things. This helped me. I had already come to terms with it but this helped me feel at ease with the decision. If I stayed with her much longer there would be pressure to marry her. She’s just not for me. And that okay. Thank you.

I can’t believe I found you at 21 thousand subscribers, no one on the platform deserves to blow up more than you, your wisdom has already taught me infinitely more than any teacher about the values and etiquette a good man should have.

almost quit my well paying job this week while i have a family to support. needed this message and am grateful

I love the way that Dewayne simplifies everything…. You could read a drawn out 300 page self-help book 📕 with a fancy marketing title for similar information (paragraphs of 200 words, when 20 will do type of book) or you can listen to Dewayne spell it out in step by step simple terms…. I know what I prefer….. 🙌

When I was young my dad told me common sense can take you a long way in life. I never forgot it, but it seems like people don't think about using their common sense today.

Dwayne , so I'm having to make a pretty tough decision over the next 48 to 72 hours and I kid you not. I was watching a bunch of videos on making decisions and then you go ahead and drop this, I'm all ears brother and looking forward to the wisdom 👊 🙏

Dewayne, I laid my grandfather to rest today. I'm glad I can watch your videos on life. I really appreciate your strong words of wisdom. Thank you.

I'm not in a rough spot in life. I'm actually doing great but I still listen to this national-treasure of a man bc it's sound advice that everyone should fill their mind with.

I grew up with no father… I truly appreciate this conversations and advice. Thank you so much…

The father we never had, we wish who was but now glad he's here.

My problem has always been action. Discerning good decisions is one thing, doing is another. I spend a lot of time fretting about the things that need doing that aren't being done, and it's like I collapse and can't do anything. Good decisions don't mean anything if you can't act on them, so the problem of being unable to act on decisions compounds with frustration. There's even something like a fear of any activity AND a fear of the silence that should come coupled to the act of not acting, a silence that is filled with numbing/cathartic dopamine kicks from the internet

My man! Great talk! Small decisions. One step at a time. Great advice bud. Amen Dwayne

I'd like to hear your voice on addiction. If it's alcohol, porn, drugs, sex, etc. I just started watching your videos today and I love them I can't get enough

This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I just had to make a very tough decision of leaving my old job for a new one. I mean PERFECT timing. I just came home from my last day of work 10 minutes ago. This is going to be a good video I can tell.

"Vivamus, moriendum est." - Seneca | Let us live, since we must die | Do it...keep your mouth shut, eyes open & ears hearing! Let it go, I'm 26 and it's working after many setbacks. Dwayne, Thank You! :)

Its a sobering thought to think that in life there are no answers, if only someone can know whats best for you and just point you in the right direction

I was in a Christian bookstore and saw a young couple who were bringing a child into this world looking at some books. The lady showed a book to her husband and said "this would be good for you to read"; he blew it of with "Aw, I already know all that stuff". When they left, I went to where they had been and the books were about raising children. I would have loved to have seen him a few years later and asked him if he still knew "all that stuff"!

It is amazing how every time I click on one of your videos, it somehow lines up perfectly with the difficulties I am facing in this phase of my life. Thank you for speaking your mind! Very much needed this.

I really wish my dad was alive so I could ask him his advice on life as I’m getting to be older now but I’m truly grateful to you for making these videos for those of us that need them.

Arthur Morgan; except he's not a criminal, but a wise, articulate rancher! Keep up the great videos!

Speaking of good decisions, finding this channel and staying up to date with it was a good decision. Hearing you cover topics I struggle with really helps me self reflect on my life and find ways to improve. I'm young and lost in life but this really makes me feel better and want to make changes for the better of it

Hey. I struggle with my inner monologue always beating me up over my past and really appreciate your understanding and honesty. I hope everyone has a great day and keep on keeping on out there

This communication at the beginning with your wife is so healthy..protecting your energy and explaining this in a really caring and appreciative manner.. so much respect for that

Decision-making; 1. Follow your heart, not the emotions. 2. Exercise logic/reasoning; use the brain. 3. Seek counsel, from as many people as possible. Read books. 4. Use your personal experience. Sum it up, make a decision. Thanks Dwayne.

I'm 44 years old, several years ago I lost my best friend & counselor.. around the time my son was born, he was old enough to be my father..wise& gem of a man.. like you. You fit his place. God bless you.

I love this channel and I love this community. God bless you all

Hello I'm a 51 year mother of 2 and I have never,understood,until you explained pretty much life thank you for your honesty, wisdom you taught me,thank yon again

As a 52 year old airborne veteran who loves your channel, mostly because we have a similar mindset and passion to help others, I would say that you are filling a niche of person who has a father’s heart. Your conversations are conversations I have with my own kids. The untold numbers of younger people listening and benefiting from your common sense style are receiving a huge blessing. Thanks for staying true to who you are.

I rarely leave comments on KZfaq but I feel the need to thank you for the content you make that seems to be aimed at younger people making their way through life. I don’t have any interest in horses at this stage in my life, and I know that’s a big part of your channel, but I hope you keep making these videos that discuss self improvement and related topics. I really appreciate them and I feel it’s something that our modern society needs.

Not all heroes wear capes, thank you sir!

"Most of the time, when we say 'Follow your heart' we don't really follow our hearts, we follow our emotions" - Wooorrrd, message received!!!

Duane, I remember when you got to 100,000 subscribers. You were so grateful and really couldn’t believe that many people were interested. Congratulations again.

Council I think is the biggest thing I have missed. I live a mostly isolated life- while I talk more than I used to, it's always been a struggle to find a sounding board.

Hi Dwayne, I began watching your videos when the channel was brand spanking new < 5k Subscribers. I regularly share your videos with friends and love the fact that your channel has exploded and is the perfect object lesson of following one's heart as you so wisely describe it. Thanks for all you do to create content and share it from your heart.

Today I made a bad decision to lay in bed all day. Then I got up, and I made a lot of good decisions. I hit the gym and did a big weights session. I chatted with a nice lady in the sauna. Thank you for your counsel.

I have a great deal of respect for you mate, as a 45 year old Englishman who's till trying to make something of his life and making all the mistakes I do like to have one of your video's on the in background when I'm working from home. As a point of interest I started making my bed in lockdown and I literally can't stand to see it unmade now. Also I I've always been a gym goer but recently made the step of going before work. I make the decision the night before by stuffing all my work clothes in a bag and setting out my gym clothes. Normally in the gym by 5:30. It really helps.

Dwayne, I hope that's how I write your name, thank you! I quit smoking grass after 15 years. I'm turning 29 in 7 days. I exchanged my grass ritual for the cigar ritual last Monday, and I haven't missed it since. Today I bought myself a birthday present! A box of royal agio san pedro de macoris equador, a guillotine and a humidor with a digital display. I'm feeling much better now, and your advice always lifts me up. Even if it is how to bake basic eggs, you could make a video about how to tie your shoelaces and I'd still be hooked. The cigars I can definately recommend! Brotherhood of the leaf brother!

Your soothing calm tone is refreshing. Common sense man speaking to men clearly and honestly. So appreciated. We all get wrapped up in life. You and your cigars and pipe are very calming. As a cigar guy myself I get it completely. Thank you sir.

Little by little day by day ... Thank you from the place which we call '' our Heart''.

I like your outlook on life,,, thank you for the support

I AM 57 GOING TO BE 58.AND STILL LEARNING EVERY DAY THANKS

I ain't gonna lie that last video did "You messed up now what?" is exactly what I needed to hear and this one right here got me all the way together. Thank you Dewayne sir for the wise words of encouragement and powerful perspective. Looking forward to making some better decisions today!

I don't need any frills or gimicks...keep doin' what your're doin' dry wrangler man! Stay true to yourself!!!

You have so much common sense knowledge and I enjoy your channel. Speaking as an old cancer nurse I can't find anything entertaining about lung cancer.

I gotta tell you I feel the way you do, but my wife overheard the comment about you being decisioned out. I thought that was great but when I tried that on her all I got back was she is decisioned out as well since she make decisions all day to so it got put right back on me :) LOL

I own my own home with 0 mortgage what advice do you have for a 28yro male that just wants a family. I love This content it keeps me alive.my father died when I was 24 and he didn’t have much advice to give except on how to hurt people.

Listening to his videos are making me more and more and MORE comfortable with accepting who I am. That’s important to me.

You are teaching a master class in life on this channel. A person couldn’t find a better resource than someone such as you who has lived and paid attention to life and pass on your wisdom to anyone who will listen. Thank you for taking the time to do what you are doing here. It is very much appreciated.

You are a real life version of Clint Eastwood talking wisdom around a campfire .. I believe that's why you have a half million subscribers. There is an honesty and truth to your talks. This is very appealing to a lot people out there who are struggling and just need a little encouragement without judgement or preaching.

Thank you from Croatia❤

You know what’s funny is we for very hard on encouraging decision making with my son. Asking if this is a good decision when he’s about to do something so that he is thinking about his actions. And I also am huge on talking about “steps” doesn’t matter big or small, sometimes taking 30 tiny steps is better than taking 5 large ones, and I use the example of football, the linemen are constantly moving there feet and taking steps, it’s what they teach you. That’s how you keep moving, because if your feet stop you are done and you lose. Thank you for the amazing videos.

The only reason I subscribed to KZfaq today, Is to say thank you for helping me continue my journey of becoming a man that you would call your friend. God Bless from Weld County

This channel has grown extremely fast Internet Dad talks we listen

Follow your heart without emotion. Be stoic. Thank you.

I have been giving in to laziness lately. This AM, I made the decision to get up at 6AM, clean my kitchen, do my laundry, walk 4 miles, visit the farmer's market. Looking forward to building from here to stick to a habit of getting moving EARLY, then getting about my day.

Thanks for all you do for the motivation, encouragement and betterment of humanity Dwayne.

im keeping this comment short: dewayne, THANK YOU FROM THE DEEPEST OF MY HEART. a big eyeopener for me with "i failed yesterday, i can restart today and not make the same mistakes" for me? a weightloss journey - and thus going to the gym.

This man reminds me of my Dad & Granpa. They only shared/ taught what they actually knew. As a young man. They taught me to mix my motor correctly . How to pick my korner stones & set them with the motor that will not crumble. Build a good life foundation and choose quality matarials that will last.

I love you, Dewayne! I am Dave. 5857 years old. Whatever, you reinforce the lessons I’ve learned throughout my life peace, brother God bless you.

Hey Dewayne - just a note of support and thanks. I am 58 and love your channel, content and style. Keep it up. I have gathered a nice collection of cigars based on your recommendations and store them in sealed jars. I truly enjoy your channel. Dave

You are a true philosopher. Erich Fromm defined "rationality" as the marriage of logic & emotion. One without the other is by definition "irrational." Logic without emotion is a sailboat without the wind. Emotion without logic is a sailboat without a rudder. Thanks for your teachings.

I’m going through a pretty dark and rough stretch for a while now, and on top of that a little heartbreak tonight. Found this channel, subscribed 2 videos in, and this is the 3rd, already love it and already feel a little better and more peaceful, and less alone. Being a professional horseback rider for years as well gives me another respect and interest for the content. But right now, it’s just a sweet bonus. Blessings to everyone here, and thank you for this channel.

I love watching these videos while eating or when im taking a break. It's like sitting down and talking with your grandpa. So much wisdom and i'm here for it all.

Today I'm starting with the little decisions, taking a small step. Thank you for reminding me I have more to give in my life.

Love how the wisdom is shared. In these times our younger folk so desperately need a MAN to talk to them in just this way. This old gal thank you Dewayne & to your bride thank you too. Oh & btw she is one blessed woman

Great food for thought. I really appreciate the opportunity to be a witness to your wisdom and overall psyche (the ability to hear what you have to say).

I needed exactly this today!

I am a 58 yr old woman, thank you for this video💕 I am in a situation with my birth Mother who abandoned me as a child and has been toxic most of her life. She is now coming towards the end of her life, I am struggling to process my emotions! I thought in my heart I have forgiven her, I guess I have but I feel sad for what could have been, I feel very vulnerable emotionally. I am asking myself what does forgiveness suppose to feel like? 💕

Wise old cowboy strikes again 👏

As a retired Law Enforcement Officer of 25 years I respect what you're doing very much. I watch with a good cigar most every day. God Bless.

Have a bless day you and mama

Follow your instincts, your gut feeling is never wrong...

Dwyane this one was really great! Very inspirational for so many for me as well. Im trying to drink less beer this month if any. Great video to think about for monday. And I will watch this again monday morning. Bless you sir. Thanks

Simplicity, quaintness, stillness to the basics : that is the key for decision making. Love the video keep on going it helps people all over, probably more than you know.

You are truly an invaluable source of wisdom and comfort to hundreds of thousands of people worldwide. Life is tough and bewildering, but you give us the courage to face it ❤

Dwayne I've been a bit quiet as I've watched these videos because I'm nearing that point in life where *I know better* (even if that doesn't always mean that I personally am making the best decisions lol). What I've been able to gather from your talks and your videos is that you really do know better too, and after listening to so many videos, and applying some of your wisdom in my everyday life I can confirm that much lol. Truth be told I really think you're doing something very special here, and even if your time has helped just one person pick themselves up a bit, then I'd say that's a job well done my friend. Thank you to you, Momma, and everyone else involved for taking the time to do this despite your busy schedules. You're a bit like a guiding light amidst so much chaos and everything else available to anyone person on KZfaq and elsewhere. Thanks again for being some of the good guys in this world. Oh, and being able to tell the difference between your heart, and your emotions is just unbelievably good advice. God bless you guys!

Best decision I made was subscribing to this channel. You always manage to take a subject and look it from a completely fresh and enlightening perspective. I can only imagine how many people are benefitting from your wisdom. I'm a 40 year old guy, and you have helped me so much already. You have a gift for speaking to people of all ages, and transmitting information in a digestible way for everyone. So greatful for this wisdom Dwayne, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

How are you, John Wayne...I mean...Mr. Dwane sorry, I hope all is well with you and your family. My sincere condolences on the passing of your father, he is proud of the son he has and he is in heaven watching over his family. A hug.🙏💪❤

Dewayne "yall have the potential to make good decisions---now suck on my cigar" I love all your posts

Today I made what most would consider, a tough choice. Should I shovel snow or not? (Just for reference I’m in Minnesota, practically won’t stop snowing until May at this rate) With the temperatures being above freezing, I could have just waited for it to melt. But the freezing nights would have turned it to ice and made the rest of my week a living hell. Was it wet? Was it heavy? Absolutely! But at least I can look back on my choice to be proactive on a day off, and not worry about it the rest of the week. Choices matter, and I’m glad to hear someone actually acknowledge that!

As always love the topic and the simplicity of the video. A few things worth noting though. The real purpose of waiting before making a decision is to ssk "Do I have clarity?". In my life I have found that if I do not, it is best to wait. There is something about clarity which gets rid of the need to "make a decision". There will always be resistance when I do not have clarity. But when I do, the answer often becomes so obvious, that it doesn't even feel like a decision anymore. And one way I find clarity, is by asking the simple question "What is the healthiest thing for me to do in this situation ?". Then even if the results do not particularly turn out to my liking, I do not regret the decision, because I made it on the right basis.