Nice to have you aboard!

You did it right man, respectfully and honestly!

It's much more difficult for men to restrain sexual activities, as testosterone causes sexual arousal alot, especially when no provocative behaviour is shown (women being sexual back in any way), and that sexual arousal for men is EXTREMELY intense if left unchecked

As a man I had the urge. I wanted to, but waited until I was with someone long term. Sadly we didn't work out after 5 years and I was alone for a few years until I met my wife of 20 years. Short story we have 9 kids now and are very happy and successful. My advice is don't give up, but don't give in easy. Intimacy is private and intense. Don't give it to anyone.

Sad life to live

It's definitely crucial to consider compatibility in all aspects of a relationship, including intimacy.

I agree.

I don't see my faith and belief in Jesus as a crutch, I actually see it as a stretcher. A crutch is something to lean on, a stretcher lifts you up when you can't even stand. I've tried my own ways. And I've learned that I am not enough. The power to change needs to come from something bigger than you and me.

Actually, the world today is proving God’s existence and specifically the Christian God. The theory of evolution is on its last legs and the scientific community knows it and many famous evolutionary biologists realize they need a new explanation. I’m speaking of dinosaurs becoming birds or a fish who is eventually a human being. Obviously, a finch’s beak can change but the genetics, the preprogrammed gene to produce the new advantageous beak was always there. Macro evolution or the origin of species is a myth. Conversely, almost every modern species was found in one layer of rock in their modern form which should not be possible under evolutionary theory. It’s called the Cambrian explosion. Gender Theory has not one objectively verifiable fact to substantiate it. It was made up by pervert pedophiles who falsified research to further their own ideas and career. Read about John Money and Albert Kinsey but don’t get info from MSM who make these gentlemen out to be heroes. John Money’s research ended in suicide and alcoholism for the patient and their family. It’s called the John/Joan Case. Scientists have discovered that the Universe is not eternal. It had a beginning. Therefore, the BIG BANG claims that matter burst into existence from a state in which no matter existed to power causation. Conversely, a big bang is what you’d expect to see if the Power of God speaks creation into existence. The world now is lost in a dangerous mind virus and the fact that literally everything they advocate for is directly diametrically opposed to every precept God gave His creation is further proof GOD: Male and female made He them THE LEFT: there’s an infinite amount of genders GOD: therefore, a man shall leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife and the two become one flesh THE LEFT: We must destroy the nuclear family GOD’s WORD: “For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be THE LEFT: go ahead have random irresponsible sex because after all you can just kill the baby. GOD: To Israel…You are my people THE LEFT: Death to Jews …….and on and on Listen, we are in a dangerous time. Sides are being chosen. Choose yours. Choose God and blessing and eternal life or choose the world’s wisdom and suffer eternal death. Look at the world man, does it look like we know what we’re doing?

@@ericdaily8835 Depends how you use it in an argument, if it’s used a support for an argument that includes other scientific observations then it’s fine, but if you want to claim you’re right because god then it is a crutch.

@LoveFreak18 I agree, my friend. I have been studying Christian apologetics for many years now. I wish that more believers would. It's one thing to say that you faith and believe. But does that alone make the Bible true? Sure, faith is vitality important to ANY Christian. You cannot be a follower of Christ without faith. BUT, why is it true?! That's where apologetics comes in. Using science, reason, historical evidence, eyewitnes evidence, non-christian writings, the teleological arguments and cosmological arguments. I can recommend some authors to you.

You could be right and that's where faith comes in. However, it could also be used as a way to describe complex feelings or actions that many would find difficult to explain OR as a way to explain something as truth. I'll give an example correlating with this video: Bible verse: No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. If I were to use this bible verse for my argument on this topic, it makes sense. "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful" means that when you follow poor behavior that feels good, it will be painful in the long run. This goes for everything in life.. it's called being childish or immature. It might feel good to eat a full tub of ice cream, purchase the nicest car you can with debt, or sit down all night and drink beer. It FEELS good but it is painful. Meaning, that you will have consequences or won't find peace with your decisions. Now the second part, if you are disciplined, you "harvest righteousness and peace" which means that by being in control over your emotions or being mature, you will gain from it. Maybe you eat a small amount of ice cream or skip out on it, you purchase an affordable car, and you don't sit down and drink beer all night.. that doesn't feel good to you. It might even be painful to not get that snack, get the nice stuff, or do something you find enjoyable.. but you will have a lot more gain and PEACE through that. So using the Bible and God can seem like a crutch or hold no evidence, but if done correctly it can be used pretty well. It requires some deep thought and long form conversation, however.