Death of Middle Class: Single Mom Syndrome, Colorism, Simp Culture, & What's Next if Trump Wins?

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In this episode of Black Out, we dive into some of the most controversial and thought-provoking topics yet. We discuss the backlash received for producing this show and address the intense conversation around colorism with the question, "Is Tyla Black?"
We share a shocking story of parents discovering that their baby is not theirs and explore the complex dynamics of single moms turning their sons into replacements for their partners.
We also share our thoughts on Project 2025 and cover the dramatic incident where Lil Durk’s son allegedly shot his stepdad to protect his mom during a domestic dispute. Our discussion turns to tattoos and dating: what's the biggest red flag when it comes to tattoos on women, and how many tattoos are too many?
We speculate on the future of the middle class and ask, "Will the middle class be gone in 20 years?" Finally, we break down what it means to be a simp.
Tune in for these discussions and more, only on Black Out!
#BlackOut #Colorism #Parenting #SingleMoms #Project2025 #LilDurk #DomesticDispute #Tattoos #RedFlags #MiddleClass #Simp #Controversy #TalkShow #TrendingTopics #CulturalConversations
0:00 Intro
4:57 Responding to Blackout’s Criticism
11:33 “Is Tyla Black?” Discussing Racial Identity Struggles
25:49 Crazy Story of Babies Switched at Birth
35:39 Do Single Moms Raise F-Boys?
46:25 The Biggest Red Flag Tattoos on a Woman
53:47 The Exact Definition of Simping & Simp Culture
59:36 Lil Durk Son Protects Mom In Domestic Dispute
1:06:31 How Legit is Project 2025?
1:21:13 The Death of the Middle Class
1:28:43 Defining “Motion”
1:34:59 Outro

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@Charles717 16 күн бұрын

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@claudinecinous1905 22 күн бұрын

I'm from Canada, when i gave birth my then husband had to follow the nurse wherever she went when our son was born until they brought him back to me to breastfeed. It was a policy that he would always be under one parent supervision at all time until we left the hospital.

@Ron_88 23 күн бұрын

Remember years back when Houston had a snow storm, then rep. governor left with his family to Bahamas smh

@itsjlotto 23 күн бұрын

I was born in South Africa and raised in America. What we need to realize in America is the way we view race here isn’t how it’s viewed in other parts of the world. Tyla is black in America but in SA she is called colored. They are their own race, they have their own culture and for the most part they are marginalized in SA. That’s who she identifies as. She doesn’t denounce her blackness or being Indian but where she’s from it doesn’t matter what she’s mixed with her race is “colored”.

@Jahmar592 22 күн бұрын

Tyla delusional once u have melain in ur skin yu blk east indians are blacks there's two race black & white. There's no thing as colored ppl either yu white or black. She already a industry plant

@cokeandbuns 22 күн бұрын

Right! This is an ignorant convo! She’s an Amapiano artist pushing her culture. I think they think she’s an RnB artist. Some people are mixed. She has no control over her parents making her

@L0VEJ0NES 22 күн бұрын

Tyla would only be Black in America to the group thats still holding on to the racist one drop rule. Thats the group that doesn’t understand how she classifies herself. The rest of us know she’s not Black and don’t care.

@user-lu6fj3hf3j 22 күн бұрын

We get it. Me being of Haitian decent. We measure you buy how white you are. Thank the French. Who did the French work with?? Arabs. Look how many spanish words are Arabic in origin. This a Roman and Arab tactic. The US had no black or colored allowed. In Haiti your lighter than me, you better speak creole and announce your house fast. Me not being there for so long I am considered white. This is a black topic. Period all over the world. Why do you think we have beef with Dominican??? House negro vs field negro. We have been doing this for 500 years. Are beef isn't the white men. We sent them to America. That colored I am not black mentality down there gets you killed. You better say you black and proud. We never submitted to Blanco Mente. It the same story everywhere. We do not like in-betweeners. That's our downfall. Petion/ Boyer (colored) vs Cristoph/Dessaline. War of knives look it up. We didn't always get along. Privileged negro vs Field negro. Watch Underground same story. She is running from the question because that Arab will effect her money in North Afrcia. Arab ville world wide. You know it.

@user-lu6fj3hf3j 22 күн бұрын

They just named a perfect example. Peter Tosch vs Bob Marley. Go to Jamaica and ask the dark-skinned who they back and represents the essence of rasthafari and marroon rebel. Marley or Tosch?

@DeeElla-o8i 22 күн бұрын

I really like “all” the content Earn Your Leisure gives. I also like how their channel is broken up into other segments (shows). The overall channel gives an array of “High Level Conversations”. Whether they’re talking about stocks, real estate, or the Annunakis, they’re bringing the high level conventions to the forefront for us! Big thanks to Earn Your Leisure! 💛💯

@BishopandRose 22 күн бұрын

1. Teach boys Law and Economics 2.Teaching young boys how to assert themselves and effective communication skills include Q&A

@christinathurston7175 22 күн бұрын

Boys need affection too so you’re saying a mother shouldn’t hug, kiss and lay with her son? Some of these men need hugs

@livennlearn 20 күн бұрын

Boys also need a balance and a masculine edge. When men are alone amongst men, those men who never had a father or male guidance get destroyed.

@twonrichpo1126 19 күн бұрын

Absolutely men need the delicate touch of mom n her affection but many of us miss out on so much not getting the touch n tone of a good man to show us the way.

@mikematthews3768 22 күн бұрын

This is one of the best episodes of "Blackout" there has been. Some of the most real talk about a number of issues and trying to help people understand power structure, race issues, etc. Thank you guys for keeping it real and please be careful. To much honesty is dangerous especially now. Appreciate it fam.

@austinjarrettltd.4321 22 күн бұрын

Shoutout to yall for ALWAYS producing generational life changing content. The fact that yall say the things publicly we speak on privately is RESPECTED to the fullest ✊🏾 #KeepBuilding

@drenaozene229 22 күн бұрын

When I was packing my daughter up to leave the hospital, a nurse came in with another baby, and was like, here's your baby, I was like whaaat? She was like ooops and hurried away.

@reezypeace 22 күн бұрын

“The darker you are the deeper your problems”- nas

@OEM_DANO 23 күн бұрын

Love n salute to yall guys always keeping it real n honest with the people

@chriscarey6890 22 күн бұрын

The child is never to leave the room. Period. Most don’t know this is an option. I didn’t, but luckily I had a doula. Every test they need to run on the child can be ran in the room. I’ve done it twice. You have to advocate for yourself bc unfortunately doctors will not and/or are not trained to do so.

@isiah675 22 күн бұрын

Which city is this in? The top handful of hospitals nationwide have multiple layers of security. Parents can't even take their newborn and run the elevators will shutdown 😂

@TheBeautifulBrownRainbow 22 күн бұрын

Truth! The system jacked up. I enjoy listening to this platform. It's refreshing!

@stacyjohnson7395 23 күн бұрын

Much respect to these two Kings. No lies told here👑 👑🖤🖤

@lindiwephiri6391 23 күн бұрын

I love your work guys❤. Being coloured in sa means you're a mix race white and black parents, not just light in complexion.

@flightmays8778 22 күн бұрын

This show is still educational. It shows that even though they’re very smart finance guys they still “black out” about real life everyday topics like the rest of us. This show proves there’s a time and a place for everything. They even have a disclaimer before the show comes on that it’s not for sensitive people. It proves you can be successful and still be human as long as you have discipline and know when to speak about certain things at the right time. You can learn about the market on Monday and double back Wednesday for a real nigga conversation when you neee a break from numbers, data, and analytics. These guys are human too. #blackout

@mrsmoore4937 22 күн бұрын

Richard Prior said justice is, Just Us.

@AshCash0629 22 күн бұрын

This was great. I needed this.

@robertwrightiii 14 күн бұрын

Great episode!! I love how you talk about the 3 different classes of people right now. I totally agree. I'm part of the struggling class but prayerfully, I won't be for long. See you at Invest Fest!!

@williamr3162 22 күн бұрын

Great conversation 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

@keokahunter7677 22 күн бұрын

I think it’s a very narrow minded perspective to label people as either just black or just white. People around the world have a wide array of heritages and hues. Even here in the US. It’s a very colonial mentality of one drop rule; that everyone that has a drop of black is black. To encourage a disposition of choosing your side is very limiting. Biracial people are not black, they are not white, they are both. To label them as black is erasing an entire part of who they are. Whether we like it or not J.Cole, Barack, Alicia Keys, Drake, etc are all biracial people. They are both. We need to change this idea that because they have a drop of black, they are exclusively black. It’s a slave/ colonizing mentality that created this and enforcing it.

@TheJeffMelvin 22 күн бұрын

You guys are legends. I wish the world listened more.

@Theswingofthings 19 күн бұрын

I love what y’all are doing and I’m going to keep tuning in.

@Iamsam_18 22 күн бұрын

Loved everything about this episode one of the best ❤

@Gloriasdaughter1011 22 күн бұрын

Single mothers are not just government caused. Some guys want to bag the woman but don't want to raise the child. If we went back to waiting to have sex AFTER marriage that would significantly reduce the problem because both parties would would gauge if the person is worthy for marriage and if you're ready for marriage. Accomplish that THEN you're ready to raise a new life.

@DiorNicole 21 күн бұрын

That is also not true; me being a person who had a child post marriage and saw a whole 'nother side of the person and walked away because I have some form of respect for myself and my child.

@mercionfreeman9682 19 күн бұрын

Y'all need to keep this show raw and uncut like it's meant to be. We need this entertainment. This is the cleanest dirtiest show out. Do not stop this!

@Fam6videos 23 күн бұрын

My favorite new podcast, just what our community needs

@DnewNancy 21 күн бұрын

Again - I don't think Kendrick's issue with Drake is him being BIRACIAL. His fiancee is biracial. Plently of black activists were biracial. Drake does not align with any Black politic publicly and proudly but aligns himself with the culture to sell records. There's fully black people who do not align with black politics either (clarence and candiace...).

@MyHertzisHigh 23 күн бұрын

Much love and respect to you two black kings, y'all hit the nail and was authentic on every point enjoyed watching this may you guys have continued success, blessings 🙏🏾

@melissakingston6194 22 күн бұрын

Colorism is real. I could write a book about my experience as Black Latina and West Indian descendants. The conversation and dynamics between family can be really hurtful. It is a consequence of the colonization.

@chantzjones1778 22 күн бұрын

I know you fine as hell

@raquel4677 21 күн бұрын

Man I wish you’d write that book. I would love to hear about this. What’s the phrase that means “forward the race” in Spanish?

@melissakingston6194 21 күн бұрын

Mejorar la raza...

@ryanbean1842 22 күн бұрын

Great Show!!!

@drenaozene229 22 күн бұрын

Black people are not monolithic, there are many different sides that make up a persons life, so the fact that you guys have to explain the reasoning for beginning this extension of your original platform is pointless and ridiculous. People are nuts and just want something to complain about.

@Themikelawry 22 күн бұрын

We gotta get Dr umar on blackout!!

@charlesgathings48 23 күн бұрын

I've been watching you guys for two and a half years I'm just not talking to you again we had a farm so we don't have it now but I got to do something and then seeing you guys appreciate you keep up The Good work

@brinafr3sh 19 күн бұрын

Thanks guys, great topics, especially the Middle Class topic. 💵💵

@caramelktx32 20 күн бұрын

20+ year L&D nurse here... We banded EVERY baby prior to leaving the mother's room... I wonder how this happened? 🤔

@cultiv8yourdreams 22 күн бұрын

Motion is currency 💯 Big facts!!!!!!!

@Richbumbullies 22 күн бұрын

Tyla might not be 100% black but she 100% African born and raised

@leronnspaternalpresencepod5247 22 күн бұрын

Good job gentlemen, Great topics!

@YahBless7 21 күн бұрын

SHOTY, WISE WORDS MY BROTHERAND WHAT YOU GUYS ARE DOING FOR COMMUNITIES YOU ARE A BLESSING. LET'S ENDURE TO THE END MY PEOPLE, STAY STRONG AND YAH BLESS YOU ALL🤎

@raymondsmith2713 22 күн бұрын

Keep hustlin. Yall doin great work! What was Square's misstep?

@Hotinri 23 күн бұрын

I think classism is a major reason. The movie origin is a must watch

@PurpleSoulMKE 22 күн бұрын

100% agree. That movie should be a mandatory watch for everyone.

@pamelab1063 23 күн бұрын

I had a man like that. He thought I was going to take care of him like his mother did. His mother thought he was her husband. Told him not to buy a house but stay home with her. She is right these don't know their place as a man

@corybaby101 21 күн бұрын

Love it Mane

@courtneydarling2420 15 күн бұрын

This show is amazing! Keep going!,,

@SquaredCircle7 20 күн бұрын

The last 5-10 mins of this show should be a big theme whenever you get to mentor these young dudes out here! Salute to this conglomerate of a network you all are expanding on.

@Sketching4Sanity 23 күн бұрын

LOVE!

@Kikianalove 22 күн бұрын

“Black as the color of your shirt” really Rashad???? Men you all need to understand race as a global topic. Don’t speak on it if your understanding only lies on what you learned in America.

@tsmooVe2831 22 күн бұрын

Great episode

@lenajohnsonrealestate 20 күн бұрын

proud of y’all brothers 😎✊🏾 Keep Going 💰🏁🙏🏾

@chantelbee8951 22 күн бұрын

I love Ian 🤣 He is my spirit animal

@Nyambose271 22 күн бұрын

Please put time stamps, easier to listen topics i want

@johnsonspropertymaintenanc6211 17 күн бұрын

Can yall have 19 Keys as a guest?

@samuelbursey4956 22 күн бұрын

I am not tripping on the topics you cover here. It's needed ! We need dialogue, our cultural portfolio needs diversification

@johnattanlafontant9412 22 күн бұрын

i love this show

@pamelab1063 23 күн бұрын

Happended in Virginia also. The family had the wrong baby for 2 years. They did not want to return the child to the birth parents. The birth parents had their baby but the baby died. There was a movie made about it.

@K85roberson 23 күн бұрын

Let’s Go Ian! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

@sylviafelder6910 22 күн бұрын

❤ that is a wonderful

@anisafrombreuklen406 22 күн бұрын

I like the show; it adds balance. I also appreciate the male experience & explanation.

@pamelab1063 23 күн бұрын

Happened before to the baby girl born in Harlem Hospital. The parents did not get financial compensation.

@livenlight 21 күн бұрын

I appreciate you guys so much.🙏🏽 By the way, I feel If Trump gets in office, there may no longer be an EYL in America. Project2025 doesn’t want sharp, knowledgeable black men financially educating and empowering black people in America. Don’t ever stop🙏🏽💙

@jharris1031 22 күн бұрын

who’s the darkest male public figure that y’all have had on these platforms ? Billy Carson ? shout out to 19 keys 💯

@Influencial_ross 22 күн бұрын

ian shoty troy i love you guys keep up the great job

@GrneyzintheChi 19 күн бұрын

Im late watching episode , I was on a flight, I usually watch live . I wanted to post a comment on one of your previous episodes about the story of a baby switched at birth, where you talked about a couple who found out the husband was not the biological father.

@that_boy_from_ja 11 күн бұрын

I'm a Jamaican & I agree with everything he said about Jamaica 🇯🇲

@sydneyjenkins-hall9151 21 күн бұрын

Ian was preaching🙌🏾

@ShalisaAlba-ub3on 22 күн бұрын

Loooove that backdrop Rashad. And thank y’all for the conversation on racial identity using Tyla’s South African Colored heritage. The contemporary colonizer piece is so important to highlight. This is why I love watching, like you guys said, this is the most educational arm of the brand and the best part is that it’s relatable through culture.

@Millennialhome 18 күн бұрын

Great point about Brad

@mrsmoore4937 22 күн бұрын

American definition of race is simplified. Crayola colors are not an ethnicity. A lot of times it matters what the person identifies . Dominicans don't want to be identified as "black" and the ones I've met don't want their kids to marry dark.

@SpoileralertGMA47 21 күн бұрын

15:50 😂😂😂 Ians face was priceless

@ericaohara4062 22 күн бұрын

Love these blackout sessions. I'd like to know the stats behind the woman who went viral for speaking on the mother/son relationship. Does she have sons? Was she this type of mother then changed? Did her mother do this with her brother? Was her dad raised like this? What was her experience to have such a strong opinion that she thinks is the standard for all songle mothers? As a single mother of boys myself, I've never looked at watching a movie, giving my sons a hug or kiss, or being affectionate with them as a way to meet the needs of my singleness. At my big age, being single is a choice, not because I'm short of men in my life or admirers. Ive always held my boys to a high standard as well as being a disciplinarian type mom, but can and will show them much love, it doesnt negate that there are moms out here like this but one thing I will not do is judge a mother, but people get on these platforms and go in. Shits crazy.

@plpe8roz 22 күн бұрын

Good job you guys, but I prefer finance because we get this content frequently, however, finance, stocks our folks need this spoon fed DAY AND NIGHT!!! Never taught in home nor school nor daily conversation! We as folk are at the bottom of the totem pole in these United States regarding economics, wealth and finance!! You guys are spectacular in this realm especially for the young minds turn them at round. Love you Ian ❤ crack me up lol Keep up the good work. 🙏🏼😘

@mrsmoore4937 22 күн бұрын

I know a lady who's 11yr son was clinically diagnosed with Edipus Complex. She had a PHD and retired from the military. It was shocking to see her still allow him to sit on her lap, cuddle on the couch with her and even sleep in the bed with her.

@sherisharden 22 күн бұрын

First off black come in all shades and eye colors that has nothing to do with being tainted second tell the Brazilians that they’re black theyre they’re the ones say they’re not!

@KingLatham 22 күн бұрын

Yessir!

@dimediva127 22 күн бұрын

Ian is hilarious! I love how he doesn’t give af #unfiltered

@user-eo6bf5gb1q 23 күн бұрын

Never seen you guys before but KZfaq recommended it and I’m here and tuned in. 👂🏾

@IanDunlap 23 күн бұрын

Thank you so much

@1991keyfeminity 23 күн бұрын

Welcome to the best podcast boo

@Kelly_54321 21 күн бұрын

Watching movies and being nurturing with son is bad? Sounds like a lot of people have been neglected growing up.

@FM-yk1yr 23 күн бұрын

💗

@DnewNancy 21 күн бұрын

Shoty - I appreciate the colorism take. This whole episode was amazing!

@Hotinri 22 күн бұрын

Any tattoo on the face. 😂

@rashee-nb7uf 18 күн бұрын

DO NOT LET YOUR BABY LEAVE YOUR SIDE! My baby girl was born in Grady hospital. I didn't allow them to take her, mainly because I was opposed to them immunizing my child. They made me sign a waiver and I slept in the room with the mother to protect my child.

@rezowoodsbenationwide2916 21 күн бұрын

"Pushing a bunch of little Dusty's away" - 😂😂😂

@rerebrook5057 22 күн бұрын

Rashad you got it wrong about South Africa: -African -Indian -White -Colored I work remotely with several teams from South Africa. Please do better research. You’d be considered African. You’re not mixed with anything.

@dafingaz 21 күн бұрын

On the tattoo conversation…I’m sure you were talking about significance others. But I have my wife’s name and she has my name. We just celebrated 20 years of marriage. And…I definitely don’t see anything wrong with putting your kid’s names on you (after you make sure the kids are yours…going back to those hospital swapping discussions).

@DiorNicole 21 күн бұрын

The single mom convo is always so frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! At some point, men (NOT ALL) gotta grow up and for SOME single moms, that's the problem. SOME men feel like because you've been with them for some time, you carry their seed, they make a certain amount of money, that they can treat you any way they please. That is CHILDISH. I will always choose self respect over raising a child in an environment that will teach my son to behave in that manner or in a household where there is serious resentment.

@Jahmar592 22 күн бұрын

Bob marley dad is white english not jewish!!

@INOOT-INeedOneOfThose 19 күн бұрын

Homeowner vs renter mindset means understanding there are amenities you should anticipate investing in, like a generator, no matter where you live.

@abisolaabisola7357 11 күн бұрын

I grew up in the 70s, and majority of my friends had fathers in the household, and everybody in my ghetto neighborhood had fathers. The fathers disappeared from black men selling drugs. I saw so many of my male friends get murdered or sent to prison for drugs or murder. This removed the fathers from the home. 1970s to 1990s

@KingDaryus 22 күн бұрын

Idk if the issue is whether Tyla is black or not. We would consider her black if she was in America, in her country she’s colored. It is strange how her and her team handled the question when she’s clearly being pushed to breakthrough in America via black culture, platforms, etc.

@ez4u2shopllc8 22 күн бұрын

This is extremely true about the son/ husband for some....

@Brianpicatta 22 күн бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@Thegodsv 22 күн бұрын

"Muy Taxico" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@SpoileralertGMA47 19 күн бұрын

45:01 respect!

@micheleabdul-qawiy4918 22 күн бұрын

“Dirty macken” 😂😂😂😂

@ElJefeGrande123 21 күн бұрын

Too $hort was talking about simps in the '80s.

@that1goldengirl 22 күн бұрын

Ian can’t stay on topic to save his life 😂😂😂

@Shenethia 18 күн бұрын

I hear you, and yes, programs for children are always good, but we need programs for our men also. Free mentorship that's going to help them get on the right track and help set their minds to not make babies and leave the woman to be both their mother and father. Single moms are the ones who stay, yet they get blamed for everything. We gotta work on these men. They've got to stop putting the woman in the position to take the blame when things go wrong because there are plenty of children that come from single mom homes that come out right.

@jamchris98 22 күн бұрын

What does he mean by “regular black person” lol We need to stop with this crazy idea that if someone disagrees with us they’re not black. Even though these are the same people that always cry saying all black people aren’t the same smh