Maybe... But my daughter would have punched that lady in the face and standing guilatined her after the first slap. I realize it's different now, but... Not to mention I would have visited her and her man for putting hands on my child. Just say'n

No

More context is necessary...

She should have slapped her back with a closed fist!

Yes she did, and also for ruining what would otherwise been a great series. Her character made the whole thing unbelievable.

Same here

Same!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Lol, yup.

Mine too. "I don't need your help"

Same

Absolutely

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Yeah, 👍

We all learned after being smacked a few times what NOT to do. I imagine she said what she said, not because she gets hit all the time, but because she’s picked up her mothers parenting style.

In "Black America" too 😂😂😂

Fr…. lol I was about to say, not just in Asia boo. lol Caribbean/Black households as well.

@@ChantelyGent 🤣🤣🤣 I totally agree with you.

@@chandrabrown1622 I see we have similarities in culture. ♥️😆

More like: in every culture that’s not white. Ironic, that they don’t do this anymore.

Oh she was waiting on that assignment

I mean if you actually watch the rest of the film it shows what it actually caused, drama and resentment down the road that only pushes them further apart.

Now I feel like slappin’!!!

At all.....cla clacked.😂😂😂.

She’s the Auntie

Mine too 😂

That part😂

Exactly 😅. I can only say that "you had it coming" with my face not words except I want to be next😂😂😂

Lol right

Yep

abusers never hesitate to cause violence

​@@MisstressMourtisha she had it coming

Thought the same

This is child abuse youre glorifying you freak

​@@CobraHigh you sound like a rapist

I mean if you actually watch the rest of the film it shows what it actually caused, drama and resentment down the road that only pushes them further apart.

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​@@ezrafriesner8370It doesn't matter how often you copy&paste this BS, it stays BS. Have you even watched the series?

@@ezrafriesner8370 that's because that's what the script called for otherwise there would be no story. Stop confusing movies and shows with real life

@@ezrafriesner8370 sounds like a characters flaw on the daughters part to me

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That was a Madea slap!!!

I cant stop laughing at that

😅😅😅😅😅

Yes, the child abuse is hysterical...

Nice GOT reference.

Best comment here 😅

Her hand did not fall from her wrist

Tryion or tywin ?

All she needs is some alcohol in her other hand

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Hahahaha!! Nice!

Nah.. she's probably Will's ansestor or something.

Really bro really you had to go there LOL well I'm glad you did😜🤣

😂

Sounds just like my mom😂😂

Sadly, she did get it.

😂😂😂

Right 😂😂

They should all be given medals for this scene.

The mother never asked her to start slapping and shame on the mother for not defending her kid 😒

​@@sudsey6713she said "if you can make her listen be my guest"... my Interpretation is "you can try whatever method you can to make her listen and if it doesn't work I'll laugh at you" 😂😂

Reminds me of my mama, little bitty woman but fast as a rattlesnake. She could slap you before your last word faded from the room.

Was like wind, black mama style 🤣 But I suddenly understand why now

That pimp hand has had a lot of practice.

Modern day ‘Pai mei!’😂😂😂

Lessons from will Smith.

Oh, it did something to me, alright. The moment I turned eighteen, I got out of the house and never looked back. Neither my mother nor my father saw me again. And any thoughts of them seeing their grandchildren evaporated the moment I remembered the bruises. My children are growing up never seeing the shadow of their mother's hands imprinted on their skins, and they are all the sweeter for it.

Same. I am just now learning as an adult to be verbal with my needs and to fearlessly say "no" or "stop" when my boundaries are disrespected. Funny enough, kids love me and they do whatever I ask of them- with few refusals. Why? Because I'm respectful, treat them like people. They feel safe in questioning my motives, which makes them more likely to follow suit with whatever I want them to do. Shocking, right??

Definitely true. Also I was slapped in the face by the principal when I was in kindergarten. Mom did nothing about it and I still haven’t forgiven her. Probably never will, since I’m well into my fifties. I didn’t spank my kids.

Grow up

Yup. My mother hates I don't speak to her. She's abusive, plain and simple. She even attacked me with my baby in my arms

Unfortunate she didn’t know when to keep her mouth shut, seems Elsa and her had more in common than they thought.

SPOIL ALERT!!!

She said what i was thinkinh so you can catch these knuckles

If you think that spoiled brat is tougher than that other girl, you are sadly mistaken. Like mother, like daughter.

No her momma would of got the hell slapped back out of her and then I would of slapped the taste out of her daughter also. Then I would of said mama I love u but that will not happen again and I would of slapped that woman in the black again and then told her I am not your child put your hands on your daughter not me.

I'm sure she already had. Plus prob already heard the blond girl's justification for stealing every boyfriend.

IRL

She gave her a reason, that's why she was crying 😂

Yeap lol 😆 😅

Yip. Heard that many times in my childhood too

Haha my mom still says this now she has grandkids to say it too

Yo that brought back flash backs

She wasn’t angry.

Not angry in the least

She wasn't angry.

@@sipiocbingo. She wasn’t mad at all she was in complete control of her emotions.

Lmao what are you guys on? Violence is a response done out of a lack of control of emotions😂

Nope

Hilarious 😂

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AAAHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm screaming at this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Best comment EVER lol

Now a days if her mother sees her talking who might be a criminal, her daughter could say to her she don't care what her mother thinks... no slapping just missing children.

​@@soulofdmxSlapping doesn't stop a child from doing what she wants....many children get their ass beat and still end up doing what they please.

Ever thought that theres a reason she felt the need to do so?

@@ladywesker5307 slapping might not work in every circumstance. In this instance it would. Going everyday and slapping your kids around would harden them because I'm sure they did something good that day but the still get a slap. But I would rather discipline my child in a control environment than let the them do something to someone where myself or my wife is not there, and worse happen to them from a stranger. You can speak to your child and reason with them everyday but taking some of their stuff back or grounding them could also harden them in their bad behaviour.

​​@@ladywesker5307ot as much.... Children need - and more importantly, they DESERVE the discipline it instills and the safety it provides by stopping them from unknowingly putting themselves in dangerous circumstances by not listening to their parents who know better - *Nobody except absolute psychopaths actually enjoys disciplining their children; it makes the parents feel horrendous and guilty too; but it is required on a few very rare occasions (which are usually enough to prevent bad/ill advised/ill informed behaviour in any case) Like I said:- children DESERVE to be brought up correctly, in safety and with knowing by the time they start to mature and grow up that even the things they disliked as a child....; Their parents were only ever doing what was necessary to protect them and keep them safe out of absolute love and devotion that they're now extremely secure in as adults or almost adults..... That's the ideal, imo!!!*

Exactly as a mother I don't believe in corpal punishment it doesn't explain why the behavior is wrong it's what Neanderthals do

She wouldn't listen if you're young and stubborn she seem like one.

Nah my mum would have beat my arse just for that back talk

She knew exactly what she was doing.

You need to start teaching them good morals and respect early with love, or they end up never listening because they think you're just out to make them live the life you want.

lol omg you think how I do lmao

Sure is a lotta slapping goin’ on

So true!

A man who doesn't know how to limit himself will destroy himself.

This should be the anthem of the USA

The fact you think you have freedom in the first place is what makes your logic laughable

True words well spoken

I mean yea sure, but lay off the Jordan Peterson koolaid though ok. Also , it’s a fucking TV show. Give that shit a go in real life and see how far it gets you.

You have a point !

This… Alll of this!

Wisdom

Thank you for pointing it out cause some people took the other two types of freedoms and bit at them in other comments. Freedom of choice and freedom of expression are two simple freedoms everyone deserves! As long as one is responsible enough to not cause those freedoms to inhibit others’ freedoms. But freedom from consequences is something a lot of people in power have, albeit with quantity. Even they have a limit to that freedom. We all do. And we have very little of it to use. Many use it for the wrong things, instead of opting to avoid the consequences for something like a helpful or giving action (donating winter gear to the homeless and going unseen; it’s better than sharing that deed to the world and somehow, some way, getting wrongly punished for said deed).

I doubt she was "Someone"...

I'd hate to be your babysitter.

Agreed, I'm so tired of people exscusing child abuse. Thankfully, there are some people in this comment section who actually know a thing or two about what physical discipline does to a child.

@@rillieskyla298 NO one is excusing child abuse, but there are many who can't differentiate between disciplining the child and physically abusing him...

@Rudra-rf5cn Your definition of "disciplining the child" is slapping them. That's not discipline. It's abuse. Child psychology shows that it's horrible for children. Maybe do proper research before encouraging child abuse?

On my 10th

Honestly lost count 😅

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Yooo 💯

Lmao yes

I mean if you actually watch the rest of the film it shows what it actually caused, drama and resentment down the road that only pushes them further apart.

​@ezrafriesner8370 you don't need to comment that on everyone's comment that you don't agree with

@@cullengrover1322 I don’t need to, but I did none the less

@@cullengrover1322 Why does it bother you? More need to understand that violence doesn’t solve the problem

@@Joe_Brown99 Actually it does, it makes the inescapable point that there are consequences to your actions and they are painful. Let's be clear here. The mother used violence to stop the man from coercing her daughter, the aunt used violence to make sure the daughter understood what she did put her and the others in harms way, and that the proper way to behave is to be grateful the mother took the time. Here was the alternative, the girl would have been sexually assaulted, her reputation ruined, the loss of her home and position is the community and a lifetime of pain and suffering.

You said it right

You don’t really believe that right…? Because ew

@@pengern5799 what her aunt told her was and is still true today! Teenagers put themselves in danger trying to escape the watchful eye of their parents everyday. When that danger is real and present, they put others in danger also. First she was smug about it. Second she was defiant. Third she got the point and realized she wasn’t as bullet proof as she thought she was. Do I condone punching kids in the face….NO, of course not, but when kids willfully disregard the parents decision just to go explore and experience life and don’t recognize the dangers and then be defiant about it….she deserved what she got. Because it’s less than what could have happened! Look around!

@@lazysob2328Bro, you’re acting like this blatant sexism is the way things are supposed to be even today. You should NOT have to hit your child to teach lessons even if they are lessons you don’t morally agree with.

@@pengern5799It really is disgusting how people think this is “disciplined” and “wise.”

Agreed!

Yeah Dawn Olivieri is a great actress

Absolutely! That accent. Incredible.

horrible accent...I wish people would research.

Right!

the mother is not a mother that she herself can't discipline her child...

Shes been waiting her whole life for the opportunity to abuse someone elses child lmao

Aunt Claire is like "Dance Puppet!"😂👧🏼

My mom hit me on the bum as a child when I did something wrong, my father never, he couldn’t even yell at me. When my mom passed I was 15 and lost all direction in life, my dad was too soft he couldn’t discipline me. I know if my mom had lived I would’ve made better choices.

@@krislanc1239 I’m sorry about your mom. With that said, you needed 👋🏻 to be a better person..is the wildest thing I’ve read on the internet today.

Yeah, and anyone with common sense should know that that is NO way to discipline anyone, especially not a child or teenager. I've still got some emotional and mental scars from my Dad pushing me into walls, grabbing me roughly by the arm or shoulder and throwing me out of his way, slapping my head on a fairly common basis, and yelling at me constantly as a kid, he was always being angry with me, even when I did nothing wrong. Those scars on my mind and my emotions are STILL torturing me decades later. Emotional and mental scars are the hardest ones to remove, they're near impossible to get rid of, ask anyone who's been abused and you'll hear the same thing-they were too scared to stand up, knowing they'd be pushed down again, or in even worse situations of abuse; they'd end up dead if they still stood up.Abuse and physical violence is NOT the answer, talking things out and coming to an understanding IS. This is just a classic example of TERRIBLE PARENTING.

Spare the rod and spoil the child, that’s why Nigerian children head dey always set well

@@brittanylehman5104 agreed not only was I abused by both parents but I've also been working in crisis level mental health treatment for the last 6 years I can say with out a shadow of a doubt abuse benefits no one in the end

Quiet your mouth there!! there is no abuse whatsoever in this video..

​@@brittanylehman5104 talking trash

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“ Be my gu…..” SLAP 😂

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Be my guest be my guest Put your handprint to the test!😂

@@user-sf4se1oe5w 😭🤪😭

Yeah. Being petty and mocking is wrong, even if what you’re saying is true.

No lies 😂😂

Yes !! My mom too!!

Yup I’m surprised she got to say that because I would’ve been next or at least got the warning stare

Lmao exactly

Nothing was wrong with her independence, she was just rude and spoilt, she deserved those slaps and she grew up by the end

Unironically

I don’t think you watched the series. That so called independent way is what got her killed in the end of the series. Her life was short lived because she was naïve to the dangers of the world!

@@bobbiking2123 You and I took a different lesson from the series it seems.

@@robhaythorne4464 How was she a heroine? Do you know what that word means? She got killed with a dirty arrow trying to scream at a bunch of men who were extremely dangerous! She thought she was untouchable because she was sleeping with an Indian Man. What about that is heroic? It’s really sad. You all calling acting out and being stupid brave?! Girls like that are idiots. Growing up thinking that because you look a certain way or thinking that your daddy will always be there to protect you is Naïve! Plain and Simple!

I'm guessing your a man? You don't deserve freedom

Cuz all she said was sorry 😂😂😂😂

What season is this? And the name of this series?

​@@gregarradondo your a pain you know? That's disgusting

@@sc4rl3t30 ?

​@@toribrazier4632 1883 is the series name

SLAP!😢 ”I’m sorr”-SLAP! “Yew haid it Comin.”DAMN.

Generous use of "listening." As far as I can tell, she listens precisely long enough to compose each back-bite. She needs some slapping, she's getting too big for her bonnet.

You talk good talk until you have to raise a hormonal teenager.

You don't dress down family members in public. It's one thing to criticize them in private, but this seems like a cutting insult layed out on a train in public. As a parent, my perspective on this has changed quite a bit. Not everyone is a good parent, and not everyone is a good parent at every stage. But some things have to be taught early. I struggle when parents don't discipline their kids early and it's obvious. I feel sorry for the parents spanking their child in walmart. (We've all had bad days though) That was once a rational normal person until this small creature venture forth from their body, trampled their dreams and finances, poops on them, pees on them, then decides to probe the depths of their patience, daily. (Kids are great though) There's no telling what that toddler has done to that parent. However, parents make it harder on themselves when they do not communicate and enforce expectaions and boundaries. Teaching a child to show and command respect is very underrated in our society. I think the teenager crossed a line, and the mom did nothing. I don't know that the slapping was best, but probably the only option a stranger has in this situation. It was effective in changing the tone of the girl, but not instructive. I don't know how this fits into the story, but I doubt it changed the parent child dynamic long term. Physical punishment is also a slippery slope. I think it has it's place, but there are alot of unintended consequences and you have to be careful not to do it in anger or frustration. The line between discipline and abuse gets too blurry.

​@@reamrkj1125 was her aunt. The biggest issue in America is people stopped whooping their kids ass. That's why we have so many grown ass entitled brats

I agree, and this coming from someone who was raised around families who did shit like this. The ones who really got popped when they got out of line usually just grew up and transferred the rage to other people. Parents who smack their kids like this just want to justify transferring that same anger they were dealt, low-key wanting their children to suffer like they did. The problem is, the rest of society has to deal with what those parents left behind.

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Exactly what I was thinking.😂

She would’ve fucked you up

Yu slow for one and you have no respect for yourself at all cause you can’t even take discipline, so I know you don’t discipline yourself and you prolly have no goals or anything just based off what your saying here, adults get respect cause they earned it, you are a child sit in a child’s place or else get to workin and shut up, don’t hear any adults complain they figure it out so your broke, bum, no education, I can do what I want but have no car money or job but I’m independent lookin ass at their house eating their food, you got a gift of life from them least you can do is listen and yea it sucks if you don’t have good parents but I didn’t have any parents and I still know you show respect to elders because even if they haven’t done anything for you they survived 2 wars and could certainly put you in the dirt and in your place so shut up and listen and learn

I know some people like that will hit someone else's child but not their own no shade to the woman hitting but piggy backing off what she said

The name of this show

Oh I'm pretty sure that young lady sitting next to Rocky-mama is well mannered. Unlike the punky heifer sitting across from her who got pimp-slapped.

Woman on woman crime lol

@@latoshabullock4723so true 😂😂😂

Oooo, you so scary. I can only guess how old you are.

@@cameronport8811 😂😂 ok it’s not about being scary but thanks?? No the point is I’m not going to be hit in the face repeatedly because someone doesn’t like what I’m saying and not fight back… let alone apologize to the idiot hitting me.

You will take your beaten and learn from it

@@johnjack902 not in yours or hers wildest dreams would that happen. But you are more than welcome to sit and take a beating

@@asdfghjklpoi1529 sure

Or that "what did you just say?!" They heard you, they're just giving you the chance to realize how close to an ass whoopin you are and to see if you've got enough sense to recant lol

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Ali D. Katt Exactly!

@@Ali_D_KattAnd then you feel the immediate pit in your stomach as the world around you slows to a halt, as the sudden realization dawns upon you, that you done f’ed up.

Bahahahahaha… i felt the fear🤣

Yeah if I had enough of a nerve to talk back to my mama like that, I’m DEFINITELY not letting a STRANGER slap me in my face multiple times. There would’ve been a brawl.

No. Back then, as it was and how it should still be today, a woman was a child who had 'flowered'. By the age of 7, a child could cook, clean and run the house. She also had knowledge of herblore. By the time she was 10 she was ready to have a family. Now look at women? Most women, in the late twenties are nothing but girls trapped in adult's bodies, adults in a state of arrested development. As a whole, they're utterly pathetic and useless 304's.

@@ritajefitzpatrick4078 No there wouldn't have, that was a grown woman that was confident and her mom was a wimp. She wasn't going to challenge a woman like that, and neither would you as a child.

@@SealofPerfection you don’t know me so your incorrect assumption about what I’d do is understandable. However, because of who I am, if I am BOLD enough to speak to my OWN mother like that, I wouldn’t give af how bold another older woman thinks she is, she’s getting the same, if not worse, treatment. That girl wasn’t bold though, she was just mad at her mom. That’s why the other lady could step in and deliver those slaps. Had she TRULY been a bold one, then that lady would’ve gotten slapped right back. She wasn’t bold though, just mad.

@@ritajefitzpatrick4078 You are speaking as if you're an adult. Make yourself a child and things change. I think you're not considering that. Plenty of mouthy kids out there, but they will only go as far as they are allowed. They will not challenge a confident adult, they know when they've gone too far, as this girl did.

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Wtf? She said have a home, she didn't say she had to be married.

@@vincentknwsof course that was the implication

@@Amateur_Pianist_472 women stayed single back then too... Lmfao there was no implication to getting married but ok.

I think your projecting

That’s sad.. /srs

@@BlastedRain not really. In asia theres boundaries and hierarchy to respect. When elders are speaking, stfu. It's none of our business and we do not interfere. It's rude and unnecessary. Making comments like that means you like to see others suffer so our elders will smack us, if we laugh at someone else gettin disciplined/ass whoopin thinkin its funny, we get it too. You wanna laugh, take it to the back, with ur cousins n shiet... Dont be disrespectful towards people disciplining/gettin disciplined. Nothing sad. It's normal. (And we grow up fine, incase you're a.... you know....)

@@BlastedRain it’s over exaggerated she’s saying her granny would’ve gave her a slap too not no damn black n blue. You internet folk are shockingly gullible I’ve made so much money scamming you idiots I’ll never work a job again

And would of said you mind your business we’re not talking to you

She would’ve been slapped too. God don’t like ugly.

Lack of personal responsibility and accountability is exactly what's wrong with America today.

I will raise my children as I see fit! I respect my children and they respect me,consequences yes,privledges taken away I would never approve of this ever. Yes my daughter slap her slap her again pass it on to future generations.

Amen!

@@Appalachianasshole41 And another dipstick keyboard prophet fart has entered the chat.

LOL did you say factory settings LOL

It not just discipline by slapping she explained what she did wrong. You cannot ground or spank or discipline your child without also explaining what they did wrong or they will not learn.

​@@heathercoleman8227My parents tried spanking me while explaining to me what I did wrong. All it did was give me kinks and taught me to be more secretive and to not go to them if I was having a problem. Which really screwed me over when I was 8. When a grown man graped me and told me to not tell my parents, they'll get mad at me and punish me. If you believe hitting your kids is the way to "teach" them then you deserve to be hit until you're taught otherwise. Tell me how that goes.

this is the way

Then you get a fist on the other side 😂

@@coldhands2802 i am really resistant to pain thanks to my mom so that not much of an issue

if like my mom, she also kept a fly swatter handy for that extra foot of reach

Lol. Damn

@@JohnMiller-zn9pf That was at home, or anything handy. I think wet dish cloths hurt the worst! I learned to stay out of the kitchen!!! Still, I loved her...

​@@lindalowe8341 You Never felt the lash of a hot wheel track my friend.

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I read that in her voice/accent

Exactly. They complain about participation trophies but they bought them and want a cookie for bare minimum parenting. It's all projection.

facts

a nother soft female talking about nothing..

amen hallejuah

This is called raising dumbfu*ks.grow a brain cell please

Lmfao! Dying here 🤣

I know that look!

Not only do I know that look, but I also have that look. It works like a charm.

The reason the look works is because you got slapped around enough to know what's next.

​@@epicmiles6534I think it's something installed into a mother's brain upon delivery of the baby. My mom had it too. I'm 34 and it'll still stop me in my tracks lol

SAME!

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😂 SAME 😂

I pushed my self back so as not be part of that slap lol

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Sorry to hear that. That’s very sad. I hope that is changing for the better.

Right lol.

@@hiro2protagonist lol go cry about it

@@swishersweetprofessional8286 I mean, I won’t, at least not directly. I can still acknowledge that it’s bad, tho. & I may at times be moved to tears by mistakes of the past, but not today. Are you saying that what they endured is good? Are you saying that suboptimal treatment is good? Bc the data doesn’t back that up. Guidelines & boundaries are important for kids, but you can get there without violence & avoid the risk factors. I probably should cry more than I do, but years of being told that crying is bad have left me somewhat out of touch. I’m more in touch now than ever, but I still struggle to release sadness. I can laugh, smile, get angry, etc. But tears mostly escape me & I don’t see that as a good thing. So, no, I won’t. But that does not mean that it isn’t sad.

Yes we all like fantasy, we get it.

So does Elsa, not saying that I liked Claire, but I also couldn't stomach the way they coddled Elsa.

Because this is fiction and while there are lots of people who completely agree with how she disciplined her, and that’s how it would’ve been done at that time more likely by the mom. The mom would not have needed someone else to do it. They are tempting to a nap Ron, this mom modern left-wing Democrat I don’t hit my kids type, and then they wanted to point out that this was the wrong way to do things and here’s how it played out because it was the wrong way to do things. Another words the show is written and produced by people with hard left-wing political views whoincessantly try to show how horrible the traditional American way of doing things is.

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That was her niece that’s why her mom didn’t intervene. Her big sister wasn’t about to let her daughter be disrespectful.

To be quite frank with you…your position/opinion …whatever you would like to call it… THAT is the problem with society now. Won’t hold your own children accountable and won’t let anyone else hold them accountable table either…. Lose-lose proposition on your child’s end if you ask me.

​@@user-yo9si2ee1xThank you

That's why there are so many undisciplined monsters in the world now.

Preach it, you're goddamn right. If you can't explain it to a child using words, you're no better than a child and you have no right to be trying to "teach" them anything. Using physical punishment is a sign of impatience and immaturity. Get a grip, people. Violence never "taught" anyone anything, except that they'd get hurt for doing something. What kind of a lesson is that, really??

@@zadarasimoleons1019 Very well said. It is truly disturbing how many people find physical abuse to be an acceptable punishment towards their own family members.

Exactly. I don't spank my kids, and they're good kids.

Sometimes kids need a spank. It's the only thing they'll listen to

​​@@michaelobrien5910 Well you make them used to being treated like that, if they don't obey you. When they grow older they will accept this treatment in marriage, in workspaces and friendships as well. Except if they reflect and realize that what you did is bad, then they might either cut contact to you, or never allow their kids alone near you. You think it works, because you get what you want and don't care that you make the pathway for evil people as well. Your children will rather trust a stranger who tells them "don't tell mommy/daddy, they will get angry at you", than listen to you when you say "if someone touches you, tell me", because the trust is broken. They know they will get physically hurt by you, when you are overwhelmed with them just being themselves and maybe having big emotions. They can trust that they can't trust you. And you can only pray that evil people won't notice this, but I assure you they do. I was a kid that got spanked a lot, and never told my parents the evil things others did to me, because I knew that my parents were weak. They couldn't handle my emotions how would they handle a whole traumatic event. Now I am an aduld and realize that my parents probably never learned to regulate themselves.. but I won't visit them ever again. I have some friends that also got hurt by their parents and thankfully we are all aware of this ab&se circle and stop it, because not realizing how bad spanking and other stuff is, shows unhealed trauma. Non of us accept this treatment, because I won't ever want my child to believe that I am not able to handle their big emotions and guide them through it healthy. Because it's my job to do so as a parent. Learn myself to regulate and regulate my child. And not breaking trust and making them used to ab5se, if it serves the person they love (me, or future partner or whoever). Nope. If my child accept physical ab9se from me, then I know I did something severely wrong in my parenting, because that child will not trust me in traumatic stressful events and will not tell me and will think that that's part of love. But it's not. If you teach your kid to accept your ab6se, the person they love most, you teach them to accept it from everyone else too. Except if they go through their biggest heartbreak and stop loving you.

There really isn't a difference. It's just that you are a bleeding heart. Which is why we are here today.

​@@bloodiedberserker7574 there is a huge difference, my stepmother beat me black bloody and blue out of anger, i my father spanked me out of tough love so that id learn, huge difference, the second being much more affective

The one doing the slapping had no self control and got her daughter and others killed

That's why all the inbreeding colonizers are killing kids everyday

​@@jonathonsaavedra843 nobody knows Best. you should hope to teach your kids the skills you have learned instead of beating them to conform to society.

Bill in real life is not a pig , but in his act he sure is.

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Pig for saying the truth, yeah some people need the same treatment as the dumb girl in the clip as we can see. Maybe it was lack of punishment when young who knows, now is too late.

LOL nice!

@@feat132 why is it bad when people speak the truth?

That's far from abuse. That's teaching respect and consequences.

​@@dubsspilly5864 my dad hit me everyday until I turned 14. Then I blinded him in one eye and bit a big chunk out of his face which I forced him to swallow. He didn't show much respect to me when he called the cops and got me 3 years in Wetherby. Old cunt likes to think of himself as a victim.

That was her aunt, the mom's sister, not a stranger tho

Exactly. Family, stranger, teacher, whoever... They put hands on my child they gonna get the same hands back!

@@ashleyl2344 I don't even allow my family to discipline my dog, I'd never let them lay a finger on my kids without laying a car on them first

Than you better put those palms to use, or the world will.

@@WiFiDown37811 least insufferable dogowner

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Hollering!

Nah it was definitely the slap. That knocked her head to the side. More than once. The second slap where she apologized and stopped backtalking was more than enough. Her mom should have stopped it there because the third slap was an overstep and if we're being fair miss "you had it coming" should have been slapped too because if that lady is concerned with polite and acceptable behavior enough to slap someone else's child she is more than conscious of how inappropriate running your mouth candidly and taunting others is. Also that isnt a proven point she did not apologize for her behavior she begged her mother to call an attack dog off.

especially since she did nothing

"discipline"

^^^ THIS

She only said that because back then, they were all taught to be housewives. Which obviously wasn’t what she wanted

Both goals are valid. Being forced to ride in the back of a train because of your gender isn’t something any woman would want.

​@@lilaclo4933yeah, but to be fair, in that time they literally had no skills to do anything else so she would have had to depend on someone for her wellbeing. Because she's so young and stupid she probably would have ended up with someone who wanted to take advantage not actually take care of her and love her.

@@Dee-xj4vk I do get your point, but regardless it'd be the same either way, because women had to listen to men back then. Love or not, most women were abused.

AMEN‼️

Blah, blah, blah

You do not realize and didn't credit how much harder you warned and laid down the facts of what was ahead for them you were training _because_ of having experienced consequences in your life. Child rearing is an art we forever are learning and perfecting. 7 kids and foster kids and I'm still learning. I know this and that's kids need the lines drawn and be made clear, and they need consequences that are equal to and greater when it's out and out defiance after the first two are met. The WORSE thing to do is give a free pass, do that and they become societies problem and society ain't gonna be so nice about it. I hope you the best and achieve balance in your understanding. Maybe I'll have it figured out perfectly after a dozen more grankids.