Embracing Your Weirdness | Chris Williamson | TEDxNewcastleUniversity

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3 жыл бұрын

Imagine a world without weirdos - how much less fun would that be? Weirdness, as Chris Williamson argues, is our unique strength, one that we're obliged to embrace, and the key to becoming more popular and desirable.
This event was fully organised by student volunteers from Newcastle University, UK. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 3 жыл бұрын
"You have something to offer the world in your experience and your creativity that no one else has to offer in exactly that way.⁣ Which means that if you don’t, if you allow status games or social norms or internal fears to curb your weirdness, the universe will be fundamentally less complex and beautiful.⁣" A pleasure to join you, thanks TEDx!
@RobCurd
@RobCurd 3 жыл бұрын
Loved it! Listening to Modern Wisdom over the past year you have served as an inspiration to me and a constant reminder to lean into my weirdness. Thank you.
@morningsun10
@morningsun10 3 жыл бұрын
Great words and great session, thank you.
@RoyRissanen
@RoyRissanen 3 жыл бұрын
Well done Chris.
@Xzartol
@Xzartol 3 жыл бұрын
great job! that was an awesome ted talk bro
@robinkok8006
@robinkok8006 3 жыл бұрын
Love it Chris!!!
@dzhanselhashim1196
@dzhanselhashim1196 2 жыл бұрын
'You can escape competition through authenticity because no one can beat you in being you'. This quote is everything!
@gargantuaism
@gargantuaism 3 жыл бұрын
I find this particularly interesting and truthful. I just want to share a story about my growing up. In the 70s I as a teenager and I was truly obsessed with Disneyland and Walt Disney World and I would bring a small tape recorder into Disneyland just to record the rides. Now remember this was before EVERYBODY had a phone in their pockets along with a video camera connected to the phone, so bringing in a small cassette recorder was very peculiar to people. I would record all the rides and just listen to the tapes in my room and yes, people found me a bit odd to say the least. When people were listening to Pink Floyd and Zeppelin I was in my bedroom listening to Pirates of the Caribbean and Haunted Mansion tapes. Years later I became a voice actor and it was due to my obsession with listening to the voices on my Disney tapes. When I turned 29 after many auditions I was hired by Walt Disney Imagineering to narrate a brand new ride for Walt Disney World called The Twilight Zone Tower of Terror. The ride is now almost 30 years old and is now one of the icons of the entire Walt Disney World Resort and one of the most popular Disney rides of all time. When I hear my voice on the ride it is the most satisfying feeling I can possibly imagine. I stayed with my weirdness and I could not have been more happy I did.
@rachelyoung2363
@rachelyoung2363 9 ай бұрын
Wow that is an amazing story fantastic thank you for sharing
@mikhaila
@mikhaila 3 жыл бұрын
Yayyy!! Amazing.
@RussellHow
@RussellHow 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 💪
@carlospallete3030
@carlospallete3030 3 жыл бұрын
I knew that you would be here haha
@melanie851
@melanie851 3 жыл бұрын
She really is your mate isn't she?
@Phoenix1664
@Phoenix1664 3 жыл бұрын
Podcasters unite
@JoesGuy
@JoesGuy 3 жыл бұрын
Hey! It's Ms. Peterson!
@SRCreativeStudios
@SRCreativeStudios 2 ай бұрын
I've saved this video as everyone needs to see it. I'm a huge fan of Chris's content but this is absolute gold.
@pn5721
@pn5721 3 жыл бұрын
10:49 "The persona is incapable of receiving love. It can only receive praise."
@sammyjo8109
@sammyjo8109 3 жыл бұрын
and when the persona does not receive praise but the opposite it retaliates and reverts to the true self and strikes back at the offender.
@soniatosamadhi
@soniatosamadhi 3 жыл бұрын
I really loved this. This is why vulnerability leads to connection: because we're all weird and other people being weird gives us permission to express our own weirdness :P
@leebrown1049
@leebrown1049 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of Ted talks these days sound like people trying to sell something. This is one one of the best I've heard in a long time. Open, honest and just trying to help people
@HandyC
@HandyC Жыл бұрын
You think that's good, check out his podcast Modern wisdom.
@leebrown1049
@leebrown1049 Жыл бұрын
@@HandyC Yeah I've followed him for ages. Top bloke
@HandyC
@HandyC Жыл бұрын
@@leebrown1049 Same! I think Chris popped up on my radar about a year ago, it was either a Jordan Peterson interview or searching podcasts trying to understand geo politics better. Have been listening every day I can at work from the very beginning of his podcast journey, absolutely astounding insight.
@leebrown1049
@leebrown1049 Жыл бұрын
The only time I've seen a bad interview was when Chris was on Tim Pool, Tim hardly asked him anything sadly. Funny enough Lydia from that show is now doing her own channel and I emailed her to say now Chris in in America she should get Chris on and interview him but I got no reply.
@pennylane333
@pennylane333 3 жыл бұрын
Embracing my weirdness at work has improved my life tenfold. I no longer get anxious trying to contain myself & instead lean into it. So awesome. Congrats Chris!
@sankalphindi1713
@sankalphindi1713 Жыл бұрын
You got me when you said that it's okay to not have the local accent of the place where you grew up. This talk touched by heart. Thank you, Chris😭🖤
@kingseth2628
@kingseth2628 Жыл бұрын
This is literally exactly what I needed to hear in my life right now
@leilachristie1861
@leilachristie1861 2 жыл бұрын
At age 41 I've got more confidence than ever. I don't care about being liked as much and I have more friends than ever. I have found genuine brilliant friends as a result. I find it surprising and inspiring that people like me so much.
@GDKLockout
@GDKLockout 3 жыл бұрын
Really well writen and performed. "Embrace your uniqueness" is such a hard concept to express. Good job.
@melitacarder
@melitacarder 3 жыл бұрын
I always knew I was a quirky unique person but didn’t realise quite how much. Thank you for your reflections which have encouraged me to not care about normal.
@hollidayclan4092
@hollidayclan4092 3 жыл бұрын
Class Chris! You have no idea how often I talk about these subjects. Every work site or office on this planet is a movie set where each person is playing an unfulfilling role as someone else. The best actors get paid the most, but to be paid to be truly YOU is the pinnacle of human existence 🙏🏼❤️ Thank you brother, you emit so much genuine authenticity of being weirdly you! That’s inspiring!
@kriola84
@kriola84 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this eye opening reminder. I finally understood my uniqueness thanks to my (weird) special side and embracing it is the best thing ever so I totally relate on your message.
@maryfeldman7282
@maryfeldman7282 3 жыл бұрын
Truly inspires me to embrace all that I am- not just the parts I think the world wants to see. Much gratitude for sharing !
@tt_wenjun
@tt_wenjun 3 жыл бұрын
I've been working on my self-esteem and trying to accept myself. I'm an honest, genuine person but I'm pretty introverted, which means it's hard for me to put myself in situations where I can meet new people so that I have more chance of meeting my kind of people. So, being among anyone means I'm more likely to not quite BE myself or embrace my weirdness, rather than to put on a persona.
@lafraiseanglaise
@lafraiseanglaise 3 жыл бұрын
I'm there too
@noorejahana.1966
@noorejahana.1966 3 жыл бұрын
the more you believe in yourself, and allow your 'weirdness' to come about, you will surely without FAIL attract like minded people. Guaranteed. When I wanted to hide my true self, i couldnt find like minded people. When I insisted that I AM who I AM and in what I believe, to myself, like minded people began flowing into my life.
@your_menopausecoach
@your_menopausecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Goosebumps! Brief period of awakeness between two eternities of sleep ... that got to me ... Brilliant talk Chris x
@ryanjones6127
@ryanjones6127 2 жыл бұрын
This was really good, Chris! Well done! It made me think of all those times I've forced myself to do things with my free time that I don't genuinely enjoy because it's popular.
@KT-fl6op
@KT-fl6op 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant, I love this talk. They should show this at schools and to older people
@timothycardoso1364
@timothycardoso1364 11 ай бұрын
Just stumbled on you tonight, Chris. You are amazing and I will be following you devoutly.
@LeeBarry
@LeeBarry 2 жыл бұрын
Embracing the eccentric is crucial to creativity and innovation--to a point. We also have to embrace the conventional when we have to collaborate. Also, where precision is crucial, such as in engineering, "weird" just isn't considered. So it has to be a compromise, or "whole-brain living" as Julie Bolte-Taylor wrties in the book of the same title. A quote I always return to is from Eno: "Go t an extreme and retreat to a more useful position". For him it wenr from the manic "Baby's On Fire" to "Thursday Afternoon". "Weird" definitely has a holistic function.
@shaunrussell4558
@shaunrussell4558 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!! This was incredible!!😅 I truly felt understood by him! Especially his story of hiding from socializing on the play ground, I did that too!! I wish every teacher would play this for their students, even in High Schools this would be a really good time to see this perspective of truly liking yourself for your differences! I’m SO happy he gave this TED talk! 🙏🏻🙏🏻✨✨
@OliviaNeil
@OliviaNeil 3 жыл бұрын
How does this not have a million views? So well explained. I always have an internal celebration inside when I meet someone who is authentically and confidently being their true self - "Yay, it's really YOU!"
@leeboriack8054
@leeboriack8054 3 жыл бұрын
He spoke volumes with an economy of words, what a gift for everyone. Thank you!
@juliet-m31
@juliet-m31 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite TED talk evah!! Be who you are and own it! So refreshing!! ❤
@ELTarTree
@ELTarTree 3 жыл бұрын
This hit me right in the heart. Didn't just resonate it prised open a long time sealed crack! Thank you so much Chris. I highly recommend subscribing to Chris's YT channel
@saadabdullah2812
@saadabdullah2812 Жыл бұрын
I've always been a stutterer. Naturally I always tried to hide it, so I can be seen as perfectly "normal". It was just recently that I started to embrace how i was, that i felt more and more confident. Found a girl who is now my wife, found a job in an advertising firm where most of job revolves around speaking to high profile clients. I wish I had seen this at the age of 18. Life changing advice!
@surrendermore
@surrendermore 10 ай бұрын
I really love how Chris has this discussion, he is gifted in the way he speaks, as if he was a very trusted old friend. Thank you Chris.
@bbvrlow
@bbvrlow 3 жыл бұрын
So good! Profound insights that need to be understood by young adults. Keep the content train rolling! Love the process! Thank you Chris
@richardlewis3916
@richardlewis3916 3 жыл бұрын
Really powerful Chris. Great stories delivered with humility and sincerity. Thanks for sharing.
@SubjectDelta9
@SubjectDelta9 3 жыл бұрын
BEYOND INSPIRATION! To be True to Ourselves is our Human Right and Divine Nature. With Gratitude and Appreciation for your Enlightened Expression.
@aletheiawildwood4782
@aletheiawildwood4782 2 жыл бұрын
This really spoke to my heart and soul, thank you 🙏 this should get a million+ views!!!
@albertlevins9191
@albertlevins9191 Жыл бұрын
So much strong advice here. We are a rare treasure. So too is our life. When I was a young misfit, people use to tell me: "Just be yourself." It was kinda silly to me, because I cannot be anything other than me. It just so happens that being myself didn't work well for me when I was young. When I got a little older, (27, specifically) I finally found my path. It came in a strange shape (the only girl who dated me in high school, found me again after 9 years) but the reality of the situation was undeniable. I was here to make this beautiful woman whole. It was no easy task (nor is it today) but totally worth it. She gives me focus and direction and the family I always wanted. She is the light in my world. Now that I am older and wiser, I have updated my goals. I now look for a way to help anyone that I can. It keeps things interesting. Anyway, very nice advice. Put very accurately. I wish I could have heard this sooner. Probably would have helped me as a teenager. Always something new and useful from Chris. Keep up the good work.
@c.f.5117
@c.f.5117 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent! Very helpful and clarifying. one of the best TEDx talks I've heard. Many thanks!
@fineartlifestyling
@fineartlifestyling Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said, very poised and eloquent, poetic even. Always a pleasure hearing acrid speak.
@JoeGannon
@JoeGannon 3 жыл бұрын
So powerful, amazing work Chris
@veesvoyages
@veesvoyages 7 ай бұрын
Love it! I have grown up having always embraced my weirdness and quirks. I'm glad you are encouraging others to celebrate and champion our weirdness! Well done Chris!
@katiecutler5237
@katiecutler5237 3 жыл бұрын
Love this ❤️ it’s time we all embraced our weirdness
@tanyaalongi5690
@tanyaalongi5690 9 ай бұрын
Beautiful message, one we all could hear more. Thank you for sharing, Chris.
@annlord928
@annlord928 3 жыл бұрын
Yeay!!!! Go for weirdness! So much more interesting and exciting!
@HotelPapa100
@HotelPapa100 3 жыл бұрын
"You have something to offer the world in your experience and your creativity that no one else has to offer in exactly that way." *I* now that. Thing is, nobody else wants to know.
@DrAliciaGranholm
@DrAliciaGranholm 3 жыл бұрын
I usually always feel like I don't fit in! And against the odds here I am. "Embracing your weirdness is your duty." Such a great point. Thank you!
@kidsmusicwithstops
@kidsmusicwithstops 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this. Hard! Lockdown this last year has allowed me to realise how much I created a persona. This video has come at such a cool time. Thank you 😃
@jasonlockwood7992
@jasonlockwood7992 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Chris, really good talk. I have long wondered if the kind of depression and substance abuse that occur in people my age (mid-50s) can be tied to the lack of developing their unique characters when they were younger. Time after time, I encounter these middle-aged people 'on the edge' who just seem empty and don't have a clue how to live fulfilling lives. This is especially true given the pandemic we've all been dealing with. The people who have weathered it well had loads of interests, quirky personalities, and myriad ways of filling the hours, days, weeks, and months. I decided from a young age I wanted to live a 'weird' life - learning languages, living in various parts of the world, encountering lots of different people from all walks of life. I count among my friends: business professionals, authors, artists, an opera singer, technicians of various stripes - and in both English and French. The weird path I've carved for myself has attracted other weirdos, and I wouldn't have it any other way! Kudos on your TEDx Talk!
@emilydelcastillo5422
@emilydelcastillo5422 3 жыл бұрын
You're speaking my language! I fully embrace my inner weirdo. I loved this!
@richardlefaive1944
@richardlefaive1944 3 жыл бұрын
Great job Chris! You are really coming into your own. First JBP, now this. You are killing it dude. 100% truth too. The one thing people receiving this msg need to be careful of in pursuing it is to first determine what unique quirks are REALLY you. Really core. Versus things that may just be performative for attention. There is a huge difference between the two that is not always immediately apparent. Its all about the underlying motivations.
@miannekaastudillo3460
@miannekaastudillo3460 3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing, Chris! It made me smile and reflect on myself. When you show your authentic self, you become invincible. Shared this to my colleagues, friends and family ❤️ looking forward to more TEDx Talks sessions by Chris Williamson!
@glimmrgirl
@glimmrgirl 2 жыл бұрын
This popped up in my feed on Valentine’s Day. Luckily, I’ve been happily married for 2 decades to a my-kind-of-weird person. But I imagine this would be excellent to listen to if you’re alone and haven’t found someone to embrace your quirks yet. 👍💕
@sirjanasubba845
@sirjanasubba845 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this talk 🙏 touched my heart.
@Stierenkloot
@Stierenkloot 2 жыл бұрын
The chances of any of us existing are in fact 100%
@surferjc
@surferjc 3 жыл бұрын
From one alleged weirdo to another, these ideas are worth embracing. Thanks for putting so much time and effort in to this project Chris- beautiful stuff.
@Romie15
@Romie15 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today. Thank you, Chris! I highly recommend his podcast by the way!
@Jesusfacts1
@Jesusfacts1 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely awesome Chris mate!
@MarbleRunGuys
@MarbleRunGuys 3 жыл бұрын
Class. Very well done Chris. Very proud.
@ankemartin8730
@ankemartin8730 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😊🙏
@pinay_and_languages
@pinay_and_languages 4 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT! Thank you for this.
@JamieWhiffen
@JamieWhiffen 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic talk Chris, I really enjoyed it!
@tenchu006
@tenchu006 2 жыл бұрын
This gave me genuine hope Thank you:)
@gordanagrcic7179
@gordanagrcic7179 3 жыл бұрын
Best ted ex i have ever watched, and i watched a lot of them!!!! Though it is a thin line between trying to impress and just being your weird self, but yes, great way to live this life!
@mwfitnesspt
@mwfitnesspt 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent insight, ver well shared - thank you Chris
@mangantasy289
@mangantasy289 2 жыл бұрын
great speech, I loved it. And it is so true. during almost all my childhood in school I was so badly bullied, and now I have a quite "uncommon" job and I could not fir in there better. (Entomolgist/Arachnologist) very encouraging.
@RealXstream2
@RealXstream2 3 жыл бұрын
Possibly my new favourite TEDx talk. Been a subscriber of Chris’s podcast for a while now but haven’t heard anything quite like this until now. This is possibly the most concise, scientific and yet also deeply spiritual explanation of our human condition I have come across. I believe this talk a should be played in schools around the world.
@user-hs3dg8jy3t
@user-hs3dg8jy3t 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, got the chance to watch it live. Awesome talk
@annamaegold
@annamaegold 3 жыл бұрын
OMG, I hear you brother. Existential crisis' are best shared with as many people as possible. I do it all the time on KZfaq. Carry on.
@virginiapierlot4168
@virginiapierlot4168 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I really need these amazing Words Chris Williamson! :D
@allanfrydenrejnkristensen6290
@allanfrydenrejnkristensen6290 2 жыл бұрын
Great speak - Thank you Chris 🙏
@spennnny
@spennnny Жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this is what the world needs. excellent talk. thank you all.
@lcarthel
@lcarthel 3 жыл бұрын
Bravo, my man! I will continue to recommend your podcast.
@JousefM
@JousefM 3 жыл бұрын
Great talk Chris!!
@RoyRissanen
@RoyRissanen 3 жыл бұрын
Well done. So much untaped potential when this is realized.
@aleksandrab07
@aleksandrab07 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this. Congratulations 👏👏👏
@williammaldonado3516
@williammaldonado3516 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Powerful!
@atalaiamusic
@atalaiamusic 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully executed. Well done.
@prince_dixon
@prince_dixon 3 жыл бұрын
Great job Chris! I love this
@lorenzoe.leonard4160
@lorenzoe.leonard4160 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is amazing.
@PaoloLery
@PaoloLery 3 жыл бұрын
Great work Chris got quite a bit from this thanks.
@ering7664
@ering7664 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing Chris! 👌😊
@crashtestjustin
@crashtestjustin 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great one! Amazing job Chris! May we all live in a world where we embrace our weirdness and forget the social confines we were brought up to follow.
@roshnik5137
@roshnik5137 3 жыл бұрын
But wouldn't we be in trouble if we don't do what the majority does? We would be lonely. Society only appreciates and helps people who follow the norm.
@crashtestjustin
@crashtestjustin 3 жыл бұрын
@@roshnik5137 What does it even mean to be appreciated by society? Everyone who you or I may come to "appreciate" was someone that once defied norms and was labeled as an outcast or oddity among society. It wasn't until they had persevered and attained more than others began to admire and appreciate their achievements and as a result label them as the new norm.
@roshnik5137
@roshnik5137 3 жыл бұрын
@Rocko I don't want to be boring, but I live in a very conservative religious country, people don't like difference, they even harm different people.
@mariestella8452
@mariestella8452 3 жыл бұрын
I love this talk
@morningsun10
@morningsun10 3 жыл бұрын
This was awesome. "Your life is your story - where you are the narrator, illustrator, author" great words. Such a beautiful TEDXSession.
@curiousworldview
@curiousworldview 3 жыл бұрын
nice one mate! well presented.
@LewisHorsley
@LewisHorsley 3 жыл бұрын
love it mate well done!
@geoffjensen5305
@geoffjensen5305 3 жыл бұрын
Very nicely done
@runningturtle4815
@runningturtle4815 3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic !
@antonioortega848
@antonioortega848 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting talk that has me thinking, thanks!
@Hartinmouston5158
@Hartinmouston5158 3 жыл бұрын
Amen brother! 🙏
@alexyusaypingoy6492
@alexyusaypingoy6492 2 жыл бұрын
First, I instantly related to what you very straightforwardly expressed. Secondly, I realized I better continue with keeping to myself, in order to survive mediocrity. But thank you for something valuable and actually having the perkiness to come up with this video.
@MrJimvilandre
@MrJimvilandre Жыл бұрын
Awesome Job! Keep up the great work Chris! Peace
@jackpurkiss4117
@jackpurkiss4117 Жыл бұрын
This is amazing. Thank you :)
@LaLuzIsMe
@LaLuzIsMe 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliantly delivered I am touched. I AM WIERD!
@Marksavillmortgageadviser
@Marksavillmortgageadviser 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Normal is average. Weird can be spectacular. Abandoned normal years ago and have never regretted it. Aim high not average it is far more satisfying. This speaker sums it all up perfectly and powerfully
@ebony-jane
@ebony-jane Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful talk 😍
@kingcheesemus6307
@kingcheesemus6307 3 жыл бұрын
Christ this is brilliant!
@lauragonsalves3273
@lauragonsalves3273 2 жыл бұрын
So beautiful and true. I cried. Thanks for your insight on life.
@alandwyer
@alandwyer 3 жыл бұрын
Great talk
@Hxllysis
@Hxllysis 3 жыл бұрын
Very well said 👏🏼 Embracing one’s peculiarities is what paints the world with all kinds of colors, textures & styles... otherwise, it would all just be bleak, monochrome & boring. Looking forward to more weird stuff from you 😝
@ericafrances7110
@ericafrances7110 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@richardwilde9157
@richardwilde9157 3 жыл бұрын
Chris, great presentation. Reminds me of some things I still need to do to let my weird out. I'm also a fan of yours. And I like your weird. :)
@batorhoskatalin
@batorhoskatalin 3 жыл бұрын
Very good one! Thank you by a fellow weirdo ☺️🙂🙋🏼‍♀️❤️🌷
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