EMMA DID WHAT FOR HERSELF? ELLIE IN MORE TROUBLE! EMMA AND ELLIE

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Emma is very proud of herself for doing this all by herself! It will be a great surprise for her friend! We went to take Ellie and her friends to the mall but we did not get to do any shopping and find out why because Ellie got in trouble again!
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@emmaandellie Жыл бұрын

Let me clear the air quickly so it makes sense. Ellie was not grounded in this video that’s why she was with her friends and had her phone. It had already been a month of her being grounded from the first time. We thought we could do something fun with her and her friends since she was NO LONGER GROUNDED!! She got in trouble for mouthing off at the mall. Her punishment was not buying anything while there. I am not going to make her friends leave the mall as well because she got in trouble they brought gift cards they had and I was going to allow them to use them because that was the plan. Like I said pick your battles meaning mouth off get nothing that’s one issue since there was a consequence we moved on from that and got cookies. Again that was the plan and she was already punished for the issue at the mall. We handle each occurrence as a reward or consequence that’s how WE DO IT!!

@justanotherperson5821 Жыл бұрын

I thought you guys handled it really well and that the punishment fit the crime. It would have been wrong to punish her friends when they did nothing wrong, and I saw nothing wrong with still letting her have the cookies when she already received her punishment, adding more punishments after the fact I feel is wrong, unless she was warned about that beforehand.

@ithaliamunoz4887 Жыл бұрын

She does that because she’s comfortable enough to know that even though she is grounded she’s still able to go hangout with friends and still has some privileges I don’t think she truly thinks you’ll take those things away because of how lenient and nice in general that you are.

@Steph_00_ Жыл бұрын

exactly!!

@jafaelpetals2022 Жыл бұрын

And she does need to take away her friends.

@amyk.p.4953 Жыл бұрын

Yep. I would have been loved to be “fake grounded” (as I call it) as a teen. Grounded while still getting to hang out with friends, buy things, have your phone, etc…is not being grounded. My parents would have enjoyed that Crumbl with my siblings and I would have gotten nothing as Crumbl is considered a privilege (not a right) and you don’t get privileges when grounded. Still allowing things is continuing to enable. And this is coming from a mom of two and former nanny of 13 different children who all had firm boundaries and went through their teens without issue because they were grounded and not “fake grounded”. They learn real fast when they only get to go to school, no phone, no friends, no special snacks/drinks, no tv, and they get to wallow in their own guilt for being a turd.

@Leanyscookiejar Жыл бұрын

So true!!!

@paluris6984 Жыл бұрын

yes

@xfaithlogan Жыл бұрын

This is why I love your family because it’s so raw & real. You’re a great mother Heather! She has to learn the hard way that you don’t get rewarded for being ugly

@Leanyscookiejar Жыл бұрын

THIS IS SO WELL PUT!!!

@reneesampson6354 Жыл бұрын

Ellie is not going to learn until she loses all her privileges. I guess it's time for her to be treated like a little kid if that's how she wants to act. No more hanging out with friends, no electronics, only go places with parents, no shopping. It will get her straightened out.

@katysludds Жыл бұрын

bit dramatic

@souichi7910 Жыл бұрын

@@katysludds no it’s not lmao your kids are never going to take you seriously unless you teach them to she needs to learn to be more respectful and when the mom takes a little bit of her privileges she still thinks she can do what she wants that’s not good so it’s not dramatic

@bellamerlo3750 Жыл бұрын

Yes I totally agree with you she needs no electronics no friends no tv only going with parents

@reneesampson6354 Жыл бұрын

@@katysludds it's not dramatic considering she hasn't learned her lesson so far.

@alibrooks2984 Жыл бұрын

you keep doing what you’re doing! not giving in is def a great step. make her start cleaning her room, bathroom, etc. she needs to start earning your respect and realize how much you do for hee

@Yoitsmomma Жыл бұрын

I have been there and done that! With my daughter when she would do something like that i would have immediately left the mall and taken her friends home. I would not allow her to go out with friends or have any “extra” until the attitude changed. I agree….it’s all in the tone. These kids now a days need to learn respect! My kids are 15 and almost 18. I feel you Heather!! It is so hard.

@kaylaclark6973 Жыл бұрын

I used to act that way. I had a smart mouth, talked back, all of that. Looking back, like there was no excuse and discipline definitely helped me. They say “hit it where it hurts” (not like that lol) but my mom definitely did by taking my phone away and not letting me hangout with friends until I got it together. The second I acted out, it would repeat until I finally learned…I’m not a mom but maybe this helps for when I used to be the same way.

@annagurs4057 Жыл бұрын

You do SO much for your kids Heather. Do not let them take you for granted, grounding is a punishment that’s always worked on me as a child BECAUSE I lost privileges like going places, electronics, etc. that’s the point of being grounded and actually has you realize, as a kid, what youre doing wrong ❤️

@liveforlife21 Жыл бұрын

You are a great parent heather! They don’t realize how good of a mom you are at the time but they will be thankful later when they’re adults. You are raising them to be functioning adults. Not people who think they are owed everything in life. Great job! Stand your ground

@whodatnationofficial Жыл бұрын

I get yelled at by my teens too and i’m 34. No means no stand your ground. I love seeing this side, it helps give us tips.

@rtriceclay Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so candid. It is hard with teens sometimes but we have to stick to our rules and consequences as parents. Hang in there.

@lynzielucile Жыл бұрын

I love that you guys are real on the vlogs, cause it’s life! Not everything is perfect

@mackb6095 Жыл бұрын

Your an amazing mom Heather, keep doing what your doing! 🙌When I was around Ellie’s age I got a part time job and that definitely really helped me to learn responsibility as well as valuing money and how to work well with others/communication. Every one is different though and i’m not a mom but just thought I’d let you know what helped me get out of that phase in life😂 Love your family and how real you guys are!❤️

@saracosseboom5135 Жыл бұрын

I have a sister whose 13 and I get it! i'm also a social worker for that age, I think you just need to stand your ground and not let her get the things she thinks you would normally let her get, like the lulu, when she's behaving that way. I think she will just need a reality check that she can't get everything she wants and that being nicer to you guys can help her get the things she wants. you got this! you're doing good with it! & remember it's not just you guys, it's the age. i'm sure her friends parents are all struggling too, you're not alone!

@colleen2ube874 Жыл бұрын

Hang in there, you got this. There is nothing like raising a teenager. And every kid is different so what works for one may not work for another. You stay strong and keep doing what you are doing. What you are trying to teach her is very important, not just with you guys but in life how you talk to people matters. And thank you for showing us mother’s that we are not the only ones that go through this stuff. 💜

@danaritter34 Жыл бұрын

My daughter is 11 and starting with the tone you’re talking about. Thank you for showing your real life, I always can relate to you guys in some way or another!

@mahdeesaaaa Жыл бұрын

i always knew ellie had that type of attitude. no more spoiling her, no more electronics, friends, shopping, money. if she wants to be mad she can be mad in her room 🤷🏽‍♀️

@jadynfox2954 Жыл бұрын

i have always loved how open you guys are! I have watched y’all since you started and i feel like i have grown up with emma 🥺

@swilsonsmyname Жыл бұрын

Heather exactly what you are doing. Ellie is a great kid but it is that dang age. You have to stand your ground and teach her respect because she will have to have that on her own. You have done a great job and please dont feel like a bad mom when they get angry. I felt the same way alot. My kids are my entire world even if they are grown now. Do not let comments from people make you feel like you are not raising her in the best way. You are and they both will see that eventually. I just wanted to tell you that I think you are a great mom and not to let it get to you. 😊

@Karrambide Жыл бұрын

She’s 13 and thinks she can get what she wants. Therefore she’s going to yell at you because she thinks she can. Stay firm and don’t let her speak to you like that. Also, the fact that she really yelled at you because you asked for a sip of water is just funny 😂 I grew up in a military family so the first time I did what Ellie did was the last time. You should be more strict also with the whole money spending. She should work for the money, not ask you for any. Chores is enough lol

@rondaroo1971 Жыл бұрын

You’re doing great, Heather! Just stay consistent and don’t back down! She will finally figure out that you’re not giving in anymore! ❤

@courtneygregor4224 Жыл бұрын

I’ve watched you since Emma was young young & you’ve always been a great mom I felt like they walked over you at some points in your some videos and I’m so glad you’re finally putting a stop to it. You definitely do sooo much for your kids they should be so lucky to have you! I wish I had a mom half as good as you are.

@madalynlawton8146 Жыл бұрын

Another thing Id recommend is if she is already in trouble and allowing her to have friends over while being grounded, maybe take that away from her too and she’ll learn quick! Don’t even allow her to go to the mall with her friends only go places with y’all and don’t allow her to have crumbl even if it was the original plan 🤷🏽‍♀️ Doing it for a week only will make her feel it

@summer-pr5jl Жыл бұрын

Honestly I think trying what you said is good start but like having a talk and asking her why she does it. I am sure it’s because she wants to look cool in front of her friends but it’s not. I know from experience

@nattyice3106 Жыл бұрын

I agree, every time I would get grounded, I would have no phone, no friends, no going out to the mall, just school and home.

@kaylaw6737 Жыл бұрын

@@nattyice3106 Same thing for me

@nattyice3106 Жыл бұрын

@Kayla w Also I wouldn't be getting anything from Starbucks

@kaylaw6737 Жыл бұрын

@@nattyice3106 I wouldn't either.

@frankg613jr Жыл бұрын

You are doing great Heather! Ellie will learn soon and you are amazing to Ellie & emma! Emma, have so much fun! Awesome video :))

@k8713 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so raw with us Heather. I remember being 13 and acting similar. This is such a hard age and with maturity things will change. I think your doing great. Wishing y’all the best.

@lisatimm8466 Жыл бұрын

You guys are doing a great job as parents. Heather you and Mark are really trying your hardest to do what you guys can do for your girls.

@Lexaloodle Жыл бұрын

Oh Ellie. It's hard being a teenager and even harder a parent of a teenager. I think you're doing great setting boundaries and being clear with her about why she's in trouble. Wishing peace for you all!

@kelleykroening6207 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video so relatable. My teenage girls have mouths on them also. I appreciate you being real and not pretending that everything is perfect.

@kimberlykrach4943 Жыл бұрын

Great job momma!!! It is really hard but you and mark have each other don’t give in

@rebeccabarnett1249 Жыл бұрын

My mom would have made us leave the mall and she would’ve taken my friends home. I usually lost all privileges and all fun plans would be canceled for the day if I have attitude or raised my voice.

@emmaandellie Жыл бұрын

In todays age you have to pick your battles. She yelled and got mouthy her consequence was not being able to buy anything. Each struggle has a consequence and that’s what we are teaching her right now.

@rebeccabarnett1249 Жыл бұрын

@@emmaandellie I think you’re doing a wonderful job! I know I wasn’t easy on my mom by any means! I also personally feel like my mom over did punishments like that growing up but I did quickly learn to not give attitude. That being said I also grew to feel like I couldn’t express emotions as much. All you can do is your best❤️❤️

@tracygroves1665 Жыл бұрын

I'd totally do the same thing with my kids. I don't care if their friends are there or not. that attitude comes out & we're going home sans friends. depending on how bad the attitude is, I'd probably make them return everything they had already bought too.

@carrolltucker Жыл бұрын

Great job Heather! You did the right thing 👍👍

@emilybradshaw9585 Жыл бұрын

I think you guys are great parents you do a lot for them rather everyone knows that or not you guys know that and so do the girls! I’m glad you guys actually discipline your children when they are acting up because I feel like a lot of you tubers don’t show that part let me get seem like their life is just all perfect all rainbows so I know I at least really appreciate you guys being 100% on your channel

@judymoodyslifevlogs4341 Жыл бұрын

Don’t reward for bad behavior! Take it all away! She either will change, or grounding will make her change. Make her do more chores, and spend her grounding around you and Mark. Entitlement is not on her side. I’m glad Emma is doing good. Ellie, change your behavior and attitude or stay grounded from everything! Your parents have nothing but time to wait for you to get your act together!

@jafaelpetals2022 Жыл бұрын

Heather shouldn’t allow her to hang out with friends. Taking other stuff away while still letting her have friends around isn’t helping.

@carmens.8817 Жыл бұрын

You guys are the parents so keep it up and hang in there! She’s not the boss and you are not there friends! I think you do so much for them!

@sabrinamabry Жыл бұрын

i went to the pitbull concert in milwaukee last month & it was AMAZING. you’re gonna have so much fun emma!!!! hope you vlog it :))

@ladym2674 Жыл бұрын

I feel you Heather. I have a daughter too and this is the most difficult stage of childhood but if you don't correct the behavior now it gets worse as they get older. My daughter used to pull that crap with me all the time and she went plenty of times without. I love Marc's solution 😜 hey that's how our parents raised us and we turned out ok.

@cricketfaith Жыл бұрын

I got it too and it worked so I second that lol

@jenniferhernandez9534 Жыл бұрын

Heather you are a great mom been watching you guys years and how much the girls have grown.I’m a girl mom of three a 14,9 and 4 year old. When my 14 year old was 13 she had the same attitude and I would take her phone away and ground her and I also had her do more chores. I realized also that I was spoiling her by doing to much for her Like her laundry and cleaning her room and she wasn’t learning to be more independent. May be try having her having her do more thing on her own so she realizes how hard you work to give her what she needs like washing her clothes,keeping her room neat and taking her places. Just remember your a great mom regardless of anything you know you daughter the best. I hope things get better teenage years are the worst.

@alyciacalabrese1549 Жыл бұрын

13 is a tough age, unfortunately I used to speak to my mother the same way at that age. I never understood what the issue was because my words weren't hurtful, but it was the tone just like you said. You guys will get through it and I think you're doing the right thing!

@heyitsjazz1397 Жыл бұрын

You’re an amazing mom! I’m around Emma’s age and when I was Ellie’s age, taking things away did not work because I just found new things to do and I had tv. But my parents would not give me any money to spend or any new things until they’d see constant good attitude/behavior. So then I changed up my behavior and got a part time job where my dad worked. That made me work hard and change my attitude. However I must say I didn’t have that issue all the time and I was pretty good and quiet most of the time. I definitely did not have a lot of behavior issues. I am happy that Emma is doing better and trying new things! I remember going to a Kelly Clarkson and Miley Cyrus concert because me and my friend loved them. Eli’s birthday is coming up, I can’t wait to see the vlog hopefully if she posts one. A great place in Orlando is Disney springs. If you want Disney souvenirs it’s a great place to go. Magic kingdom would be nice for a birthday too. Also me and my friends go to the cinema at Disney springs; it’s AMC dine in. We love it there.

@Macoroni464 Жыл бұрын

i’m not a parent but don’t give in or she won’t learn , you guys are doing a great job! love the videos!!

@jafaelpetals2022 Жыл бұрын

Personally, I would not let my child hang out with friends. That’s a privilege.

@gcsmom9153 Жыл бұрын

U are great parents!!!.....glad you deal with her instead of let it go.....I'm dealing with the same stuff you're not alone....lol

@bcg2010 Жыл бұрын

You guys are doing exactly right. If she's doing that snappy tone thing there's only a matter of time before she will be cussing you guys out if you don't intervene now.

@clodaghodonovan1071 Жыл бұрын

I was always told, pick your battles. I had many to choose from 😂

@allymenke678 Жыл бұрын

love you guys!! been here since day 1!!

@annettedrabicki8155 Жыл бұрын

Tough love; you are doing amazing. Stay consistant - train them up right, and you will see the reward when they are older. I really like how you deal with it and then move past it.

@loveolivia4326 Жыл бұрын

i acted the same when i was 13, im 18 now and i feel absolutely terrible for treating my parents that way. she probably doesn’t realize it now. all you can do is just continue teaching her the correct ways.

@tragically_disappearing9034 Жыл бұрын

I'm not a parent but here are some things I think you should apply. Definitely no money or anything luxury only necessities. No phone or electronics of any kind minus watching tv with family/games with family. Make her clean her own room/bathroom weekly or whenever it needs to be cleaned if it's gets messy before that. Make her do her own laundry once a week. Make her cook once a week. Make her do dishes/help clean the kitchen. No going out with friends or having friends over at all. Only going out with you or emma. Doing homework as soon as she gets home. No fast food or restaurant food at all unless it's necessary. No sweets or junk food. Take the dogs for a walk once a day. Anything else you think she wouldn't like to do that needs to be done.

@louloves7 Жыл бұрын

omg i work at a concert venue and pitbull came a few weeks ago and it was BY FAR THE BEST concert of the year it was just like a huge party it was sooo fun you’re gonna love it!!

@luciagemmell4615 Жыл бұрын

I’ve got 4 boys. 23,22,18 and 16. You’re doing the right thing. Stand your ground. If you give in once, then it sets that standard!! You’re going a great job!!

@jxckie96 Жыл бұрын

this is how my cousin used to be, it was rarely corrected only by everyone else but her parents; she’s 22 now and is worse but now she “can’t” be corrected because she’s an “adult” and makes her own choices. im 26 and respect my mom because she did not accept this behavior whereas my cousin can say some really ugly witchy things to her mom who was a single parent. not i’m not a mom but the very few times i acted because unfortunately i thought it was cool my mom took every single thing away from me; my most memorable was skipping out on my best friends quince but now i can accept accountability for not having those memories i wish i could have

@Gamermomma0825 Жыл бұрын

I went to a Backstreet Boys Concert middle of July!! That was my dream concert. Pitbull was in NJ in August. I know alot of his older music. Havent listened to him in a while tho.

@Stephsjournal Жыл бұрын

It’s def the friends she hangs out with. She copies who she hangs out with

@Kendramiller Жыл бұрын

I agree I think she may just be in thr wrong crows right now and will realized it later

@Bluet43 Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@jafaelpetals2022 Жыл бұрын

They need to move away from the district.

@Stephsjournal Жыл бұрын

@@jafaelpetals2022 I feel as if they were “real friends” of ELLIE’s they wouldn’t let her talk to her parents like that

@jafaelpetals2022 Жыл бұрын

@@Stephsjournal- They’re toxic.

@morgancrites2255 Жыл бұрын

i went to a pitbull concert this past friday & it was absolutely the BEST concert i have ever been to !! so excited for emma !!🤍

@marcianicole613 Жыл бұрын

I saw Pitbull and I’ve loved Pitbull for as long as I can remember. His concert is so much fun!

@thebabewiththepower1 Жыл бұрын

I saw Pitbull and Iggy last month! It was a great show!!! Have fun!!!

@danielle7854 Жыл бұрын

so you clean her room for her, pretty much do everything for her, shes rude in return, and “grounded” but gets to go shopping with her friends and disrespects you even more, and then gets 30 dollar cookies as a reward? you’re not a bad mom, but she gets too much which is why she thinks doing whatever she wants will get her even more.

@nikkiyoutube252 Жыл бұрын

True

@suzannemcredmond3131 Жыл бұрын

I agree, I have a 14 year old daughter, I would have brought her straight home, friends send home definitely no cookies and grounded for 2 weeks, no friends, no treats, no technology, no shopping trips. You need to harden up Heather.

@ykook7000 Жыл бұрын

Mixed Messages! Either parents stand their ground or suffer the consequences

@Cutiegamer41720 Жыл бұрын

this

@kaylaables1217 Жыл бұрын

I feel you ! I have a daughter that’s 12 and she does the same thing . She has a mouth for sure . I have to take her phone away and no tv until she straightens up and learns how to talk .

@justinmillard3446 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations Emma you are going to have a wonderful time at the concert 🎵 trust me you are going to love it have fun and be safe and happy

@andreah.d Жыл бұрын

Omg Pitbull was my very first concert. He puts on an amazing show and everyone was dancing all night. I love Mr.Worldwide

@sirius8103 Жыл бұрын

Emma was so funny with his stress to buy concert tickets :D

@nadia9938 Жыл бұрын

I love your family. Heather your a beautiful mother. Heather you and Mark are great parents. sending lots of love from nz. love your videos x so happy for Emma going to a Concert x

@angiep6698 Жыл бұрын

Hi Heather, my parents when I was the age of 13 now I’m 20 but back then my parents usually would take my friends back home and cancel every plan for that day, they would also tell me to go to my room and take away my phone and tv, they would come into my room when they saw I was calm and sit next to me in bed and explain to me that what I did was wrong, that I shouldn’t have yelled or some sort. If during the week I start behaving better I would gain little by little my privileges back. I am grateful my parents did that because now I know what’s wrong and what’s right! Hope this helps!

@mackenziekyra Жыл бұрын

I use to be like ellie at that age. My mom and I use to butt heads all the time bc of my tone. Everything she said made me snap or would irritate me. My mom just stopped doing stuff for me (materialistic) and tried to build a connection with me 1 on 1. After a while my mom and I got closer. She will grow out of it and eventually see that her parents are her biggest supporters!!

@LifewithWendy Жыл бұрын

Awesome good for you! Congrats! Have fun.

@mandyfarber6484 Жыл бұрын

I need this video so much. It’s so hard!

@BritgirlTX Жыл бұрын

Good for you Heather! You did the right thing. Ellie is just showing off in front of her friends. Poor Mark with the cookie crumbs. Make them clean it up Mark! 🛻🍪

@triciarivera3671 Жыл бұрын

Love you guys !!! I grew up listening to pitbull he is amazing 💖💖🇵🇷🇵🇷. I'm a mom of 2 but they still little but I remember I use to do that to my mom all the time when I was a teenager, she would say nope you wanna act like that then let's go home and I'll be grounded no phones, no going out, I would clean my room and others since she was the one doing it. I use to get sooo mad but then when we moved I realized how much she done for me. Now I like cleaning 😂but now I know when my kids gets older

@heyitskels5331 Жыл бұрын

The funny thing about teenagers.. they’re embarrassed for their friends to hear that they’re sick even when they’re not but they’re not embarrassed to throw a tantrum over water in front of their friends 😅 I sure can’t wait for my kids to be that age 😆 my advice would be don’t give empty threats. Stand ground. It sounds like you do so good job 👏🏼

@miguelkennedy9520 Жыл бұрын

I always like it when Emma and Ellie’s Family makes awesome and fun videos like this :)

@onyx_96 Жыл бұрын

loved this video! thanks for sharing your personal struggles with us ❤ and yay Emmaaaa! another adult purchase 👏🏽 so happy for you 🥲

@iluvziah Жыл бұрын

emma is so pretty

@isabellapetty6526 Жыл бұрын

Honestly I was that kid just like Ellie still catch my self in the bad habits of being rude and angry really fast . My mom use to take my phone not let me do anything and that’s what would work she wouldn’t let me do anything wouldn’t buy anything not even wash my clothes I had to do it my self wouldn’t even tell me if dinner was ready because she didn’t feel appreciated so she stopped doing stuff for me and when I realized how much I needed her I stopped . i asked for forgiveness and I tried my best and then we got along .. u have to cut her off now before it gets worse I know it’ll hurt and I know it’ll be hard but maybe just try it YOUR DOING GREAT MAMA !

@Desireez1023 Жыл бұрын

I also have a 13 year old, but a boy and it’s the same 🤦🏻‍♀️ We’ll get through it! Loving parents correct their children ❤ Love your videos!

@tryinghard09 Жыл бұрын

I completely understand I have a teen daughter with attitude .. your doing a great job

@marcianicole613 Жыл бұрын

If I ever acted that way my mom would block me from everything. You’re being too nice for her being “grounded”. If she’s grounded that means no friends, no phone, no tv, no shopping, no crumbl cookies. You sit at home and you clean your room and bathroom and other than that you sit in silence. You are such an amazing mom and she is pushing her limits because she knows how amazing you are.

@genevievevaladez3382 Жыл бұрын

omg emma yr gonna have the time of yr life!!!! i went to his san antonio concert it was awesome!!!

@amygomez8806 Жыл бұрын

I have 3 boys I tear their butts up especially my older 2 now my youngest is 16 it's harder with him cause he is usually a good kid but sometimes he gets out of line. I definitely shaded some tears. I believe the Lord didn't give me girls cause I wouldn't know what to do. That's the hardest thing is not to give in. Because it's like the parents are in trouble too. Hopefully Ellie sees how to act sooner than later because it's her life.

@CGidora Жыл бұрын

I think you are doing the right thing. My mom would do the same thing. Keep doing you doing

@summerparent1273 Жыл бұрын

Consistency is key! Set the standard if she goes below it there’s consequences. Let her know your word means something🧡

@ashlyndavid529 Жыл бұрын

I went to pitbull in my state, and it was the literal BEST concert I have been to- you will not be disapointed!

@410CANDY Жыл бұрын

Hey, it's all about respect!! You did right. The kids decide to act up in front of friends. You must set them right!

@wonderwoman3708 Жыл бұрын

I'm dealing with the same with my 13 year old son. We are also trying to teach tone!

@kinkeadishvids3261 Жыл бұрын

Early love y’all’s videos!!!

@amyb9555 Жыл бұрын

I always told my kids that every action has a consequence. So make sure you can handle the consequence before you do the action. Also, when my daughter stomped up the stairs, I would wait until she got to to top tell her to come back down and try again. I would make her do that until there was not stomping or attitude in her walk.

@Steph_00_ Жыл бұрын

my mom would neverrr let me yell at her or disrespect her, I learned from a young age how to respect my mother and others if not i would’ve gotten a whopping and everything taken away. She definitely got it easy but that’s just the way you want to “punish” her.

@lisatimm8466 Жыл бұрын

Heather you and Mark are very good Parents to Emma and Ellie

@Leanyscookiejar Жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree with you on bending over backwards! My third is turning 17 next week and I would say just recently she started acting more respectful toward me. I know what your talking about with the way you say things. That's the disrespect. It's hard punishing but I feel that if we had done more of it and not giving in,we MAYBE wouldn't be going through it. Just a thought,but who knows. Every kid is so different in how they respond to their parents. I think your doing the right thing. It worked for me. Some days better then others. Good luck!!!

@mariaescobar6806 Жыл бұрын

Glad you put your foot down. No extra curriculum activities when it comes to grounding and no Mall or spending time with friends.

@edwardleecaliforniausa Жыл бұрын

Good morning everyone happy Saturday morning and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter

@legendprincess7407 Жыл бұрын

Mark lol it's the infinity cookie cutter for me heather lol he's more excited bout it than y'all are lol 😂💜💜💜

@aracelis_gonzalez Жыл бұрын

Omg Pitbull...thats amazing

@angeleyesasmr1603 Жыл бұрын

I’m 42, I don’t have kids, but I had an attitude just like Ellie at her age. My mom and I used to have literal screaming matches. I never won. If I had yelled at my mom like that in public, she would’ve taken me home, and not allowed me to see my friends for God knows how long. We didn’t have cellphones and stuff in the 90’s when I was a teen, but TV, music, video games and talking on the house phone wouldn’t have been something I did for a VERY long time if I back-talked my Mom. Maybe if she keeps up the attitude don’t let her see her friends at all. Just my suggestion based on what my mom used to do that worked with me.

@summer-pr5jl Жыл бұрын

Same here

@abi2508 Жыл бұрын

just to make sure i would make sure ellie’s mental health is okay. while i was struggling silently with mine i took my issues out on others and even the slightest thing would irritate me so bad for no reason, i ended up being diagnosed with depression and bipolar disorder. it could just be the teenage phase but i would just make sure it’s not something deeper

@indicamberr Жыл бұрын

Ooooh, Ellie has some rude awakenings coming lol

@aracelis_gonzalez Жыл бұрын

I luv u guys

@Tidyingthenest Жыл бұрын

Ellie’s got the teenage girl blues 🤓👸🏽❌🧟‍♀️ My mom told me the good perk of not strangling me when I was going through the phase is the grand baby😂🙂

@mikaylakarlin1116 Жыл бұрын

My little brother who is 17 is the exact same way and my parents don’t know how to deal with it bc me and my older brother were never like that! I say keep doing what you’re doing and not giving it bc my parents kept giving in and that’s why he is the way he is, nip it in the butt while she’s young! You’re doing great🤍

@Vinnieswife308 Жыл бұрын

I’m also 13, and it’s hard🙃 I constantly (and I know everyone else my age) want to seem “cool” or want to be normal around our friends and people we look up to. 13 is the age of finding yourself so it’s natural. I don’t have much say in stuff like this but I personally learn best when the things I enjoy the most like for example phone,tv,snacks,friends etc. is taken away.