Emotional manipulation.

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Manipulation is a form of emotional abuse causing the person who has been harmed to question reality. In this talk we will look at how this works and ways to move on from being victims. Gaslighting is an aspect of this. A manipulative person claims the frame, controls the timeline, and distorts the truth, all in an effort to manipulate things for their own gain and in an attempt to save face.
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@user-xk3fi5mc2w 13 күн бұрын

Your a star keep up the good work 🙌

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

Thank you for your positive feedback 😊.

@user-hj7oi7ih9x 16 күн бұрын

This makes a lot of sense I used to be manipulated by my brother and sister, and used to just accept it, up until our parents passed some year back, we all feel out over money. It was then I saw them both for what they were.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comments, it is extremely difficult to see this at times, thank you for sharing your experience.

@ToryHarrelson 16 күн бұрын

Thank you Yinka its a great follow up on your last talk.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for your positive feedback, keep watching 👀 🙂

@ZeynepKocaman-dl3ys 14 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing this with us 🇺🇸

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

I am glad that you appreciate this , do stay turned in .

@user-te8jr3pm1v 16 күн бұрын

Nice talk sir very thoughtful 👏🏿

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

I am glad that you liked this 👌🏾.

@IkraOz-sl7om 16 күн бұрын

I have a lot to say on this my ex used to do , I told you so to me all the time. O never knew if I was coming or going. Thank you for sharing hopefully people will listen and understand.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your personal experience, I am sure this will help others, I hope that you're in a better place.

@user-mr7se1gf4x 14 күн бұрын

My dad all day long, thanks for sharing 👍

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for your feedback 😊

@DynaJean-tj7ol 14 күн бұрын

When we grow up we are not really educated about stuff like this, and learning on the j

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

Thanks for the feedback, we really don’t learn about this short of thing growing up, keep tuning in take care.

@caseyKetolilo 13 күн бұрын

You certainly know your stuff , I had no idea where the word Gaslighting came from, but did the research like you suggested and yes it is from a movie, in 1940, top marks 😉.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

Thank you for your positive feedback, it nice to hear that you actually checked out, the orgian of gaslighting. Do take care and keep watching.

@IremAydn-zu9ku 16 күн бұрын

I have been unlucky to have had to different relationships where I have felt a lot of the stuff that you have mentioned here, its not been down to my childhood either, just bad choices 😢.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Good morning it can happen to anyone, it's when we see the patterns then we have the opportunity to change, take care.

@EmrahKocayurek 14 күн бұрын

👌🏾

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for your feedback.

@Aybukkkkkkk 16 күн бұрын

This happened to me at uni, a tutor of all people 😐

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

@EqualTwentig 14 күн бұрын

Nice talk mister

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comments.

@TelifYoksunu 16 күн бұрын

My boss has this trait towards me.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience.

@RodneyStewart0001 16 күн бұрын

I totally get this s..t my girlfriend is a first class manipulator

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 15 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience, are you still together?

@EmreDemir-ho2rd 16 күн бұрын

Hi there just a quick note, we can see red flags everywhere, but when do we take action, I was married for 16 years before I took back my life, kids and old school thinking 🤔.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I agree with you, that it can be extremely difficult to leave a marriage or long term relationship when this is taking place, especially when the are children present, but if we stay what are we teaching them, take care.

@HonoratoWhitehead 11 күн бұрын

The manipulator may use silence or ignorance to punish the victim or make them feel guilty.

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 11 күн бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, a good example of how a manipulator can operate

@HonoratoWhitehead 11 күн бұрын

@@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 Thanks for feedback!

@user-wb1dc9os1u 16 күн бұрын

Could you do a follow up on the same subject but in a family 👪

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

I will attempt to do a follow up in the near future.

@yildizEsra003 16 күн бұрын

Can you do on how to pick yourself up after being abused in this way?

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comments, I will look into doing something like that.

@BirsenBirBenTeker 16 күн бұрын

You certainly come across well

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 15 күн бұрын

Thank you for your feedback 😊.

@DilanSevgi-fe4df 14 күн бұрын

Have you thought of doing a course on emotional regulation codependent tendencies,?

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

I have not, but it does sound like a good idea to. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

@ElvisAlem 14 күн бұрын

What is the importance of confronting a person like this

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comments. It is important as for us to have a chance of a true peace of mind, we need to be free to be ourselves.

@MeteOnder-uo8mr 14 күн бұрын

Did you know the numbers that this affects in England? As I am g

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 13 күн бұрын

Good morning, I am not sure of the numbers on this subject.

@SophiaMia-nk1ry 16 күн бұрын

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 15 күн бұрын

Thank you 😊

@MattMatty-tq5nt 16 күн бұрын

Can you say if men do this more than women,?

@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 10 күн бұрын

Thank you for this important question, I don't know, what do you think 🤔, if you do some research let us know, take care.