Empower Your ADHD Child: 5 Essential Truths Parents Must Know

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Doctor Jacque | Child Anxiety & ADHD

Күн бұрын

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I’m Dr. Jacque from ChildBehaviorClinic.com. I'm a mom of two and a child psychologist who helps families with child anxiety and ADHD. #adhd #parenting #childadhd
⌚️Timestamps:
0:00 The 5 things parents of children with ADHD need to know
0:45 - #5 - What is different for kids with ADHD?
3:33 - What kids with ADHD need most
3:50 - How can parents actually do this?
5:32 - #4 - How to reduce stress and conflict
7:50 - What to do when things get difficult
10:20 - #3 - Dealing with big emotions and reactions
14:19 - #2 - Are there positive things about ADHD?
17:30 - 2 important things for parents of kids with ADHD
18:45 - The flipside of ADHD in kids
20:18 - #1 - Don't underestimate the effects of this!
22:20 - What you can do when you need more support
🔔 For more videos on parenting kids with anxiety or ADHD, subscribe - / @doctorjacque
WHO AM I:
Hi there. I’m Dr. Jacque Bogdanov, founder of Child Behavior Clinic. I’m a licensed child psychologist who specializes in parenting kids with ADHD and anxiety.
When we make relationships the top priority, we honor our differences, create stronger connections, and ultimately find more joy. And you deserve the support your family’s needs to do just that. I’m confident you’ll find it through the online classes in the Relationships First Masterclass™ Series.
All families deserve access to quality mental health resources, especially when it comes to child anxiety and ADHD. I take research-supported ideas and make them into simple and practical strategies you can use right away. I’m confident you’ll feel encouraged to tackle the tough stuff, by putting your relationships first. Hope to “see” you there!
REFERENCES & CREDITS:
Executive Producer and Writer: Doctor Jacque
Director, Videographer, and Editor: Stanislav "Stan" Bogdanov
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DISCLAIMER:
This video, information, and related content, including information linking to third-party websites are for educational purposes only. They are not intended to replace the advice of a licensed medical or mental health professional. Information provided cannot diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent disease. Engagement between Child Behavior Clinic or Dr. Jacque Bogdanov and others on this site or otherwise does not constitute therapeutic services, psychological advice, or consultation, and should not be considered a therapeutic relationship. If you are in distress and in need of immediate assistance, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.

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@DoctorJacque 11 ай бұрын

childbehaviorclinic.com/masterclasses/ - excited to share my child ADHD masterclass with you - hope you check out everything available! This video (and the masterclass it's based on) represents MANY hours of time in the making, teaching you the most essential ideas to help your child with ADHD. So, feel free to re-watch as often as you need. Thanks for being here, and I hope this ADHD guide is truly helpful to you!

@serina_makeup_mama4094 2 ай бұрын

I’m about to cry because why didn’t I find this video sooner 😢it would have saved so many tears for both my son and I.

@glamakestt2380 26 күн бұрын

Hug for you mama I feel the same way. I’m heart broken how I’ve reacted to my son😢

@ericahoxie1925 6 ай бұрын

I finally feel like there’s someone that really understands what parents go through.

@DoctorJacque 6 ай бұрын

This is truly the best compliment. And this is my dream - that all parents (and their kids) feel seen and heard and have the confidence and tools to deal with the tough stuff, together.

@rohinishrestha8860 21 күн бұрын

Could you please help me understand how I can execute all of these in a day? Please keep in mind that there is only 24 hours a day. So taking care of myself(exercise, drink 3 ltr of water, meditate), taking care of my finances ( which means I have to work at least 8 hours a day), taking care for my kids (who are in autism spectrum and ADHD), be nice to them all times (don’t yell/don’t snap/provide feedback/positive reinforcement), take care of their homeworks/activities/change the system and environment, take care of their health (cook food every day, make sure they are active, blah blah). I would appreciate if someone can give me the breakdown of time so I know what I need to focus on in 24 hours.

@jessren1618 7 ай бұрын

Omg just found your videos. Our 4 year old is struggling and it makes me so sad and upset. We are making an appointment to get him evaluated and want to try to help him without medication so he can help us and himself and do the best he can in school. Thank you for these videos!

@DoctorJacque 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much - your comment means so much to me. I appreciate you being here. 😊

@victoriasicola2286 Ай бұрын

Excellent video! I am single and raising two grandchildren with ADHD. My 87 year old mother moved in, as well. My biggest problem is self care. Don't do it. Don't have time. I just repeat what Mother Teresa continually said, "I'll rest when I'm dead!" Sometimes just watching the sunrise and sunset or swinging on the porch swing does the trick. I can say parenting is harder at 60 than it was at 30! I just subscribed and will be a regular liker and sharer!

@scentsei8201 Ай бұрын

I read your comment and it made me a bit sad and happy tbh. I truly hope and wish the best for you and your loved ones. ❤ i believe you, that its not easy. But you Sound like you are those childrens light. Just keep going 💪🏽😊

@stephaniecmrg 19 күн бұрын

Wow! My son is 17 and we are just now getting him diagnosed and figuring out school with him. This video would have been so helpful on how to handle him while he was little.

@whereseve2 5 ай бұрын

Good stuff. Thx for it!

@DoctorJacque 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching! Glad to have you here 😊

@lifeonaplate 8 ай бұрын

This is such a great video. Thanks for the great direction.

@DoctorJacque 8 ай бұрын

So glad you found it helpful!

@RasikaNanayakkara 21 күн бұрын

Thank you

@ling8376 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this informative video. It helps a lot those parents who are struggling with their kids' behavior. This video gives me hope that I can help my son to be the best he can be.😊

@divinely_designed_living 5 ай бұрын

These are very good tips. Thank you!

@DoctorJacque 4 ай бұрын

You’re welcome! I appreciate you watching and commenting! 💚

@beyngangbam5084 Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I am going to follow your instructions. I have a daughter with adhd she is 12, and there’s always conflict between us.hoping to reduce all of it so that I candevelop a good relationship with her

@flourishbodysoul 2 ай бұрын

This was so helpful and encouraging- thank you!

@DoctorJacque 2 ай бұрын

I'm so glad!

@user-cc8mf8xn2j 2 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot! Very informative and helpful. Best of luck!!!

@DoctorJacque 2 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for your support 💚

@inattentiveadhdcoalition887 9 ай бұрын

This is wonderful, clear and practical advice--concisely put and easily understood. I hope more parents find this video.

@DoctorJacque 9 ай бұрын

Thanks so much! The best way to help more parents find the video is by liking, commenting, and sharing - so thank you!

@NicoleNinaFurniss 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your videos! I can't wait to share with my girl that she is worthy just the way she is

@sherib6901 2 ай бұрын

Same. ❤ Struggling so much with our 8 almost 9 year old daughter having social difficulties at school. Would love an in depth video on how to help ADHD girls socially.

@plantyfan 4 ай бұрын

First -- I love this video. It supports everything I've been learning for the past 5 years. Second though -- hoooooooooooooow do you make things ADHD-friendly for your children when -- hypothetically speaking of course (😅) -- the parent didn't know until the child was diagnosed? And maybe that hypothetical household is an ADHD full-house (5/5) and really overwhelmed 😅

@heatherwhynot 3 ай бұрын

SAME😂 the more I learned, the more I was like, "oooh.. that's why I'm the way I am and he's the way he is"😅 💡 moment.

@larshalle 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this very helpful video! I am diving into your other videos as well, but I was hoping you might be able to provide some wisdom on our situation: Our 10-year old son with ADHD has a 13-year old brother with Asperger's. While we, the parents, do our best to allow our 10-year old to be himself and limit negative feedback, it is incredibly difficult for our 13-year old to curb his responses. Sadly, most of our 10-year old's negative feedback is likely to come from his brother. How can we effectively encourage our Asperger's child to reduce his responses to our ADHD child, or discourage our ADHD child from excessive interaction with our Asperger's child? It has become a tremendous stressor in our already challenging parenting dynamic.

@DrDimaDrill 11 ай бұрын

Hi Dr. Jacque. Could you do a video on how to handle picky eating and anxiety over eating for 4-5 year olds? Thank you for all your videos!!

@DoctorJacque 11 ай бұрын

Hi! Thank you for watching! That’s a great idea. I’ll add it to my future videos list 💕

@sayeemazainab8327 4 ай бұрын

Really picky ... please help

@lesliehill3025 26 күн бұрын

What is a example of executive function

@FutureFBI19 2 күн бұрын

How do you parent a child with ADHD when you the parent struggle with it as well? It’s a struggle

@abigailwurtz9106 15 күн бұрын

The music makes it hard to listen to.

@lelyluck 2 ай бұрын

I don’t have a problem with my ADHD son his teacher is the one that has a problem with his ADHD

@DoctorJacque 2 ай бұрын

It's hard when different people, like teachers, have different expectations or a different understanding. Teachers have got a tough job, and sometimes don't have adequate resources to meet the needs of all of their students all the time. And then sometimes kids with ADHD genuinely need more support at school than at home simply because of the environment and demands. Generally, working as a team and collaborating on problem-solving and supporting the difficulties will help kids most in the long-run.

@linbron2018 10 ай бұрын

What should a parent due once we get an IEP from school?

@DoctorJacque 10 ай бұрын

I think next steps depend on the specific situation. Kids will generally qualify for an IEP when physical, cognitive, emotional, or behavioral conditions interfere with their learning. Its purpose is to make accommodations and interventions for their specific needs while at school. An IEP can vary greatly child to child depending on their specific challenges. I would first recommend parents clarify their questions and the goals of the IEP with the school, so everyone can be on the same page and work together. If challenges mentioned on the IEP also occur and get in the way in other contexts like at home or socially, I recommend seeking additional professional support outside of the school too.

@samisparkleheart 3 ай бұрын

@DoctorJacque how often are IEPs updated?

@rodneyandalexaplunkett7441 3 ай бұрын

What if you are a parent with ADHD trying to parent a child with ADHD ?

@DoctorJacque 2 ай бұрын

Not uncommon. The same parenting strategies would still apply - maybe needing some individual tweaks so they work for the ways both a parent’s and child’s brain work. Was there a particular strategy from the video you were wondering about as a parent with ADHD?

@cheriseshupe2758 2 күн бұрын

@@DoctorJacque yes the organizing the house part and the Routine making. Are both really hard for me with adhd as an adult and then my son’s adhd.

@ToadalSimplicity 4 сағат бұрын

Same here. I think it’s more common than the medical community acknowledges at this time. There are a lot of parents with ADHD who weren’t diagnosed prior to becoming a parent or who haven’t been diagnosed at all. I’m in the former group. The demands of parenting are what made it impossible for me to mask my ADHD and autistic traits anymore. I was neglected for a variety of reasons growing up and internalized a lot of negative beliefs about myself, and continue to set toxic expectations for myself. I don’t want to pass that on to my kids, but it’s difficult to overcome that default thought pattern (e.g. try harder, be better, what’s wrong with you). I would never say those things to my kids, but I also get frustrated and wish I had some ideas about better approaches to take. Having routines and an organized house does help, but then life happens and it’s hard to get back to or stick with those. At least partially, I know I just need to have more patience and grace with both myself and my children. I practice that every day. Life is never perfect, this is not an exact science, and the solutions are going to be different for everyone based on their personal circumstances. But I do wish there were better supports out there for people like us. It’s getting better, but there’s still a HUGE shortage of specialists and resources.

@internetmail3888 3 ай бұрын

"If you don't know at any moment in time what is most important in life to your kids, wife, husband, parents, friends etc you are not doing you job" - A Blackstone

@AlvaMedley 14 күн бұрын

I don’t need validation about celebrities with ADHD 🙄

@DoctorJacque 7 күн бұрын

I appreciate your feedback. The goal was really to highlight how advocating for and harnessing the strengths a person has can be tremendous in shaping their self esteem and world views.