At our best we are like puppies. Puppies know how to have fun. ENFP

Glad to be of service???

Being like me is like having a fire hose on my head constantly blasting thoughts, ideas, potential futures and possibilities. It's honestly exhausting. Don't forget, unlike ENTP's we get to feel butt-hurt about it all lol

Wow! I thought I was only 1!

Thank you!! I love ENFPs!!!

What a sweet comment you made - I looked up your profile pic here on yt which is something I seldom do and let me tell you somethin'. You are SHINING light and intelligence. Just so you know. 🤗 Your fellow ENFP

Same here! Whew !!!! it’s intense being married to an ESTP.

ENFP, who has an ISTJ partener! Whew..... But the best part is I'm steered back in when I'm off track. Especially since, ENFPs tend to be explorative, finding new possibilities, passionate, flying high and conquering the world types :)

My goodness! THIS! Your comment so clearly reflects how I often feel that I read it in my own voice... as in, I could almost audibly hear myself sharing this out loud with my INTJ husband. I struggle in the same way. I am miserable without any routine, because my body needs that self care (what she was saying is so very true). I also severely struggle with routine because it seems to take every ounce of my focus and time to be able to do a workout, housework, time in prayer and for quiet reflection, my normal daily job and hygiene routines daily. When I finish with only those things... there is NO time for exploring new ideas, socializing, spending time with my husband or relaxing. And when I don't have that side of things... I emotionally melt down and I crack and I burn out. Meanwhile, the INTJ just seems to effortlessly and methodically get it all done and still has time for fun. It takes me twice as long as him to complete every task, too. So, that doesn't help. The struggle is real and I've been wondering how to fix it for several years now. I will be really consistent with a routine for a while, but then it all crashes when I crack or when some scheduled event that doesn't allow for the daily routine is thrown into the mix. What do people do when they have 3 evening engagements and a full weekend all in the same week? Where do they rest? How do they get up so early and yet finish all the things early enough for a decent bedtime? I just don't comprehend it. It is the single largest source of stress in my life.

Thank you!!

Best combo EVER!!! / enfj 3w2 sp/so / scorpio

I dunno my enneagram (I keep forgetting) but I'm a Libra enfp too

​@@spacebar9733please don't bring in horoscopes here. It's utter nonsense

@@amalksuresh2538 it isn't. Astrology is thousands of years old. Older than Christianity. And I'm not the first one who put my sign, op was.

@@spacebar9733 older doesn't mean it's legit.Many of the superstitions are very old.People way back then had no idea how the things worked so they tried to make things up to explain things. Can't you see how stupid it is to think the stars systems influence each of us differently?

if you cant tell, youre probably ENFP. they are the most ambiverted type

Hmm interesting questions! let me think on this for a sec... I think it could be many functions, Te may say "I want to tailor this to the viewer for maximum effectiveness in communication." Ni may say "I want this to be transmitted from my head to theirs" Fe may want to meet others' needs... so yeah could be many 😂 But I do think Ni-Te or Ni-Fe are particularly conscious of it.

wow, this is the first time i have seen someone talk about this mistyping. for years i would test as an ENTJ but i noticed i was more feeling focused than t types. after looking into the functions, ENFP made the most sense. However, like you, could never make sense why i tested as ENTJ for so long... i though maybe I was an unhealthy ENFP that adopted a personality i admired... not sure

@@Mercyreneeb Or...entjs (and people) are just more complex than the personality stereotypes give us credit for!

@dogdonut3, I have read that an ENFP's shadow type is an INFJ. I wonder if those 20 years were fraught with stress or if you were in equilibrium? When I was in my darkest moments, my INFJ mentor, who is an Executive Coach & Enneagram expert, typed me as an INFJ. I was like WTH‼️ I've always been an ENFP without a doubt, this lady is off her rocker. But the thing is, she saw so much of herself in me that she was like this girl is an INFJ like myself. Because I was exhibiting my INFJ qualities due to being in severe stress. Turns out that when we are super stressed and in our dark phases, we'll act like INFJs so that could be a reason that you were mistyped. Additionally, ENFPs & INFJs rely on the same but opposite cognitive functions in the same order. ENFPs = Ne > Fi > Te > Si while INTJs = Ni > Fe > Ti > Se.

@Jasmine Barry You could be on to something. I will think on that. I've been finding so many youtubers who have channels based on their type, now coming out as being mistyped. I see a lot of flaws in the typing system. I'm wondering if over the years there might be an overhaul to the whole theory of typing. As many other things, we may find humans are on a spectrum and it it very difficult to box them in with just 4 letters...at least with any accuracy. Just my opinion as I've been working my way through all of this. I think it supports your idea too, because we might present as many different types throughout different stages of our lives. Thank you for your interesting and thoughtful comment!

That might be part of their fi mission. To make sure no one feels left out (enfps support the "underdog"). Also, they are extroverts. Ne likes the ideas conversation/parties pings around the room.

​​@@dogdonut3I think your insight is likely. I'm ENFP, and in social gatherings "seem" to have more Fe, but really, it is just that I am wanting to check on individual friends and make sure they are doing okay. I especially do this when I notice someone specific seems to be a little "off" that day and unlike themselves. I like to be there to support them. I also like to make sure everyone has refreshments, but only because I care about their individual comfort, not about the group well being. I do this by setting up the refreshments and announcing they cam help themselves. I don't go around taking orders or bringing things to them. I think, "They are adults. They will get it when they want it." However, with young kiddos I ask them what they would like and I assist them. When it comes time to engage in an activity like a board game, I won't be the one in the kitchen cleaning up or setting out drinks, though. I'm right in there playing the game because I value being part of the fun, too. So, I think you are on to something there.

Furthermore, this is the best, and most in-depth video I've seen on the subject. Thanks.

INTJ

@@AlexisKingsley Omg Wow 😍

The quality of your advice is shaped by your approach in giving it

She didn’t say we don’t add value with our content, did you see the examples she gave of her friends and what they do? She perfectly covered all four bases and gave the most in depth and engaging explanation and reasoning behind our existence as a personality type. Rewatch the video if you don’t believe me.