Feel it🤣🤣🤣

Well as an enfp that chose the path of diligence in studies and certain hedonism I realised I have to be somewhat alone to avoid developing too many addiction But I also stop seeking people naturally as now I observe people in silence underdeveloped my social abilities so i have a hard time knowing what to say and my ideas are difficult to be expressed so I still got much to learn and I said this whole comment to expect a reply whether my life sucks idk but a fortune teller told me I an going to suffer a one sided marriage

@@hyjjjkyikk3158 i enjoy solitude and contemplation so much too, then when a stimulus comes into the scene, i become a golden retriever!!

you don't have to get married to love

Yeah, full house😂

lol, this is such an ENFP comment.

@@notverynotoriousg5674 Thank you! Yes, ENFP's value the opportunity for prestige while being efficient (its nice someone else came up with 20 flattering adjectives we can copy paste , saves time 😂)

@John Morgan first off, thank you for your delightful comment. yes I agree. As an ENFP writer and journalist, how could I NOT know these words, right? Fortunately we are the types that see beyond the surface and read between the lines. So I'm sure you could intuit what I meant by- I "learned" that these are THE "20 new vocabulary words" to describe our personality, hence can now copy paste to social media profiles and save time so I don't have to take a moment coming up with my own words to describe myself etc 😀

@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied most of my best friends and soul mates are INFJ 🥰🥰🥰

Nooooooo dont steal my idea ToT xDDDDDDDDDD

OH MY GOD Yesss!!!

Thank you for helping me learn.

I write things down on a notepad app in my phone

LOL! Very relatable

this

ME TOO! I thought I was introverted most of my life due to trauma and homeschooling. Thankfully videos like these helped me realize I was an extrovert and discover my strengths as an ENFP😊

Never let anyone squash that little light inside of you.

@@derf93 golden!!

Went through this too

I agree! It was SO FAST yet SO MUCH! I felt my cheeks redden, even though they're so ✨MELANIZED ✨😂💯

I like your explanation. Why _is_ everyone expected to become stuffy and on-edge?

Yesssss!!!❤

My co-worker called me Whimsical. I was confused by her comment so i started researching personality types and taking tests. ENFP. Love finding these videos that help me understand why i think and feel the way I do. I do have a child-like spirit that hasnt been jaded by the evil world. Im everyones biggest cheerleader until i isolate from an over-load of emotions.

@@pelosishammer50 I'm with you 💯percent🎉!

@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied thank you, I love this explanation. To return the favour, INFJs have always been my greatest inspirations and the ones who can not only see the same depth I see, but also put the important parts into words. Delenn from Babylon 5 was my first guiding light as a teen; Beau of the 5th Column is currently giving me hope for the world; and my greatest inspiration in life is my mother who is an xNFJ. I was watching Frank James video of types interacting with their shadow types. Most of them were at odds with each other, but the ENFP and INFJ formed a natural team without even having to talk about it, making me grin.

As an ENFP, my dream tattoo has always been a sun and a moon that intercept. This is how id describe myself too!

@@SesnoOjukwu Sun/moon kind of reminds me of ying and yang as well. I have always wanted a yin and yang koi fish tattoo. You should totally get the sun moon tat!

I didn't even know what that word was until this video 😂

Now we just need the outfits!

I think we’re also intimidating by being unpredictable even to ourselves. Not to mention the fact that other types regularly underestimate us. Matured ENFPs can create drastic changes at a fast rate which also scares people who don’t like change and prefer structure. We may take the whole ‘New Year New Me’ game seriously since we learn and move so fast making us unrecognizable to people we used to know

I think the simple fact that we're extroverts is enough to begin having people be intimidated by us albeit unintentionally. I know myself I talk loud and I talk fast and I move fast. People who are more introverted or reserved or prefer to move at a steadier pace find that a bit unnerving. Also, I don't mind it when children find me intimidating because it's always during a time of discipline when a firm word or direction is necessary. I always tell the kids I'm in charge of "I could be your best friend or your worst nightmare how you behave determines what you get." Finally come as champions for the misfits and the disadvantaged. I think if you put us in a corner where someone we love is being mistreated we won't be intimidating we'll be downright scary! I rarely get to that point anymore but when I do don't mess with me just give me what I want and everything will be nice again.

your pet Dachshund?!

@@user-uh5tb9er4o i dont understand?

@@piotrlatuszek171 so sorry! i thought it was a poem/riddle you had written! and i was guessing the answer... i had a pet Dachschund and these words would suit him perfectly!

@@user-uh5tb9er4o i thought so it is some strange miscomunication so i made myself more clear... also it shows how much you loved your dog ^___^

And we control people from underneath the table... so they can jam and be appreciated by the people around them.

I like elephants

It's funny you said that. I used a tag line for my web design company that was " Shine online you crazy diamond"

Bruh... you know DA STRUGGLE 🥺💯 worst part is I used to come at MYSELF with hoses once I saw others not go ⚡"super saiyan"☄️ with energy along with me. 😔🤷🏾‍♀️ Getting better at smiling boldly and without backing down though! 👌🏾

Yes. They just don't get the picture 🥲

@@katttttt do not change but let others not be changed too

Feeeeel you!!!

Might I suggest 🪔 help them find where to touch that won't burn their fingers, a connection point. Gotta keep that Light lit. Folks tend to fear what appears beyond control.

yeah was thinking the same lately man...

Add occult to the list.

I made a comment with some of my favorite words too! I think my favorite word is perspective. Not necessarily as a word itself, but because I think it resolves pretty much every conflict. I also like virtue, sphere, elephant, raccoon, and yinyang. Yes im kind of preachy lol. I guess it's a Te grip or something like that Oh and I really like your words too btw.

Totally agree with this! Their inventiveness with language is appealing ~ Nathan

True!

OMG you use these as pep talks too?! *phew* not nearly as alone as I thought! 🎉😁 I hope you have a blessed day, character cousin! (assuming you're an ENFP or similar to one too)

@@reflectwithrenee hope your day is fun and fabulous, my dear character cousin! :) :)

My favourite word too!!!

There's a catharsis in sharing energy with someone who's grieving. To uplift and inspire in someone's hour of need. Interesting way of thinking of it though, definitely feeds the desire to find meaning and purpose, connection, fulfillment.

! literally wrote the same response make it a good one today1!

DANG, it's in your username?!?! Are you one of our personality type ambassadors?! How do you sign up?! 😂

Do ISFP's like ENFP's?

I’ll send you a kill list if you go down that dark path ~ Nathan

These emojis tho 😂😂😂

That's a really good mantra. I agree with it's message

Doesn't it feel SO GOOD?!?! And reading like-minded comments from your "character cousins" is the icing on the cake for me.

@@reflectwithrenee it's gorgeous! We are a bunch of weirdos, ready to paint the town red🙃😂💕

Former? What?

That's not how types work. You can't be former anything. Consider ESFJ btw, Fe dom with decent Ne may seem like ENFP.

yeah former what??huh????

You can’t change type 😹😹

@@vixen7774 why shouldn't you be able to? Especially after a life crisis, your personality might be exposed to change.

I've been with a INTP for 12+ years. I bring her out of her shell.

I think ENFP is one of the most open types. I guess it depends in the person though. Im not as compatible with T types because they're less kind and I can't stand that. I think im really only compatible with NF, or maybe SF if they are very open minded. Because i need to feel acknowledged, and Ts always want to ridicule.

I love that word too! Actualization. That is one of my mantras. I used to think I was actualized because of being gay. I thought that coming out of the closet caused me to face myself and realize who I am. But I couldn't understand why im so different from most gay men. Sure im flighty but im not quite so... catty. Im not a group type person either, cuz I like to be different and gay guys can't stand that from me. So I think about actualization a lot. And now I think it's more because of my personality type. As an NF.

Yo, that's one of my favorite shows of ALL TIME, and barely anyone else I know gave it a chance! Like come on, it's a fever dream of a show, but had so much wisdom, brilliant humor... I can rave about it for quite some time 🤣💯

Probably the best show I’ve seen! I loved the Buddhism references especially since I recently became a Buddhist. But the real question is: Is Michael in hell and the show is just his journey for him to reach Nirvana? You may notice the opening seen starts with him and the very last seen finishes with him .. My ENFP boyfriend and I loved this series

I always saw myself as an alpha. I just didn't expect it to be this way.

@@Chigger 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wow that sounds fascinating. I thought you were mumbo jumbo at first but it sounds like you're actually coming from a scientific perspective