enjoy the journey & it will become easier

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how to enjoy the journey while building your dream life
a lot of us have been programmed to believe that once we reach certain markers of success that we will be happy. however, after achieving a lot of my goals in my early 20s, i've learned that the chase for success is never ending. shifting my mindset to enjoy the journey rather than chasing specific outcomes has made me 10x happier & able to handle whatever curveballs life throws my way as i work on building my dream life.
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0:00-3:39 you have to make the journey fun
3:39 trust in a divine plan
8:50 cultivate an open mind
11:47 honor your inner child
12:36 invest in experiences vs things
13:39 don't rush the journey
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@LynetteAdkins 4 ай бұрын

Pls don't come for me for staring in the viewfinder I'm still getting used to doing sit down vids again lolll but i hope y'all enjoy this one & have an amazing week!!❤

@antoinepowell649 4 ай бұрын

U see things clearly you will find peace faster then most ❤️

@Mookeiz 3 ай бұрын

You’re all good I just enjoyed listening I get uncomfy with too much eye contact in sit down vids so this was actually perfect

@camillagilot8819 4 ай бұрын

it’s crazy the universe ALWAYS speak to me through your videos especially your titles!!!!!!!! thank you so much for everything you do (:

@LynetteAdkins 3 ай бұрын

Ahhh this makes me so happy thank you for watching!❤️

@stushgalsteph 3 ай бұрын

I was coming to say exactly that! She always drops a video about what I’m grappling with when I really need some perspective and encouragement!

@its.e 3 ай бұрын

wait the same things happen for me! Like how she made a video on loosing her channel, bro i went though something similar with my insta, and this happened to me with so many of her old videos too! they were definitely rlly helpful to watch at those times

@Lotsonoodles4you 3 ай бұрын

I have literally always been playing that “waiting” game for change . I’d think things like “Once I leave here I’ll get to xyz and be happy” this tends to make me almost robotic in my daily life because I take life day by day and wait for the day I’ll be “happy” and away from certain things .

@jewelcampbell3017 3 ай бұрын

Same. Tryna get out of that mentality now😮‍💨 romanticize the most mundane has been helpful😂

@gastronomee_ 3 ай бұрын

i started my youtube 2 months ago as a way to escape a job and degree i hated. i soon became obsessed with the numbers and was constantly comparing myself to people that i looked up to. social media became a game that i just had to win. it was horrible and i had to remove myself from the social media "mindset" (dopamine detoxing) so that i wouldn't burn out. this video is so incredibly important.

@KingQwari 2 ай бұрын

Any advice for the detox? I been doing the same thing 😅

@kaylahbvs 3 ай бұрын

Unequivocally in this season of my life where I am learning to love and embrace the journey because no matter how much you accomplish, you will never be fully satisfied if you're not at peace with it all - so in short yes this resonated od. I'll be rewatching to really drill this in my mind lmao

@Ja223tv 3 ай бұрын

This was good. When I heard “enjoy the journey” I knew this was for me. My stressors instantly begin to diminish as I thought about things from this perspective. Beautiful, thank you✨

@TheJourneyIntoYouChannel 4 ай бұрын

This video truly struck a chord with me. Your candid reflections on finding happiness among life's ups and downs are incredibly relatable. I loved your emphasis on embracing gratitude, maintaining positivity, and honoring our inner child. Thank you for sharing your personal journey with such authenticity. It's a reminder to cherish each moment and approach life with an open heart.

@deshawnburke6544 3 ай бұрын

Wow I rarely comment but this video hit a spot with me because I’m turning 25 this year and the lead up to this age has been a roller coaster of emotions with one bad thing happening after another but I’m journaling rn and just laughing because shit just be happening and I’m grateful and excited for the journey

@ambyrene 19 күн бұрын

I love this video but I really struggle with believing that I’m destined for a happy ending when so many people don’t get a happy ending 😭

@lizethcxlderon 6 күн бұрын

Thank you for this video! Id say the season my life is at is starting over because im rebuilding my life in different actions, philosophies, and emotions

@f4llenstarr 3 ай бұрын

These are my favourite style of videos and this one came at the right time. Going through such a rough time lately and today but your "dont rush" made me remember I'm still young and have decades of my life ahead, so even if this phase is due to last another year (which feels like so long cause we all just want to be living our best life now) I will be OK eventually and to use this time to allow the growth, embrace it even. It's meant to be. The higher power isn't punishing us, if anything, if a bad thing is happening it's just to push me in the right direction with a strong lesson along the way. Love and guidance to all on their journey.

@thecedricjohnson 4 ай бұрын

The dopamine hit when I see that you posted is something fierce 😂🖤

@tora3584 4 ай бұрын

nah literally😂

@user-od5ry9wl2b 3 ай бұрын

Simper 😅

@nikkiarboleda 3 ай бұрын

needed this. thank you!

@ManifestBest 4 ай бұрын

Love seeing more videos from you again!

@Iammimi_613 3 ай бұрын

I needed this , thank you 🎀

@user-oq5mk5wc2v 3 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this today. I needed this

@Daleyolangco 3 ай бұрын

I needed this video so much. Thank you.

@420Tigr 3 ай бұрын

So lovely!! Thank you so much

@caseyj7052 3 ай бұрын

boy did i need this video ❤️

@kaylasami7679 3 ай бұрын

really loving this video and topic!! been rewatching since u dropped it!

@annalyszczyk4044 3 ай бұрын

thank you, this is eye opening

@Suziie_25 3 ай бұрын

very helpful thank you so much!!

@g_factking 4 ай бұрын

Yes ❤ keep being the greatest

@joanmichel 3 ай бұрын

This really resonated with me. Great message.

@hodon963 3 ай бұрын

I can’t explain how much I needed this vid

@gabs1748 3 ай бұрын

This content made my day!🙌

@Makavelimoon 4 ай бұрын

I needed this

@sharonno3836 3 ай бұрын

you are truly my biggest role model x thank you so much for this video

@shallandoshallan2638 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video.. your videos always come at the right time

@sandracrump 3 ай бұрын

This video is so true !! Lynette your channel is the truth

@Lyssalafemme 3 ай бұрын

I love this video! I am so glad I came across your channel - really goes to show that we are truly in alignment :)

@ibkevelyn 3 ай бұрын

This video really struck me and I really needed this today. Thank you.

@waterlilyfairyy 3 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this💕

@brenorton8099 3 ай бұрын

So glad to have your channel is back. It’s always so grounding to listening to

@harjsingh8222 3 ай бұрын

Hey! I’m new to your channel but I’m finding your videos sooo valuable - thank you 🙌🏽

@gambyyy34ga13 3 ай бұрын

this video really matters to me, thank you❤

@arestaquilla 3 ай бұрын

I'm grateful that I found this video bcs I really need this rn, thank u sm

@vivianajaraaa 3 ай бұрын

I’m so happy you’re back. We missed you! 🤍

@weightliftbracelet 3 ай бұрын

Wow, needed to hear this - thanks💡🙌

@Allwaysgolden222 3 ай бұрын

i havent been seeing your videos lately but I'm so happy I clicked this one its so helpful and beautiful thankyou lynette I hope all is well

@amandipa8368 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this message, came to me at just the right time, I was thinking today about progress, happiness, and enjoying myself before achieving that ‘thing’. So timely ♥️😭

@vladimirbellevueinnovation4835 4 ай бұрын

Very Wise. Thank you for the reminders. I resonated with this. On many levels. Life is here to be experienced and is also the greatest teacher

@ggriffonage 3 ай бұрын

wonderful words as always lynette ❤️ i feel like i’m entering a new season of trusting myself more and enjoying the journey like you were talking about. i’m starting a lot of new things and i’m trying to just stay open to learning and unattached to any particular outcomes. this winter was really difficult but i feel like it taught me a lot and i’m heading into all these new things with new wisdom

@dropping.g3mz 3 ай бұрын

I started following you when I made this channel and I would always see ya videos on my KZfaq homepage but I haven’t seen them in a while now and I’m not good with names this morning I found it and I’m glad your channel is back up! Much success 💪🏾

@skylershanice6735 3 ай бұрын

Happy to have the sit down videos back👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️♥️

@xosinamari 3 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this, thank you Lynette ❤

@autxoxo 3 ай бұрын

I loveeee this! The universe is truly always on our side. The last segment really resonated with me and its definitely a sign to remember to take things slowwwww.

@TrulyAlexus 3 ай бұрын

Needed to hear this!

@theshaesthetic 3 ай бұрын

Whew!!! This video was right on time.. I’ve had to surrender to what’s changing within me and around me recently. The changes are beyond what I could’ve ever imagined and having an open mind has helped me accept this new reality with grace.

@NellyJane 3 ай бұрын

Girl yes this hair suits you so well 🫶✨

@dominique046 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for adding value to the community. I’ve learned to embrace the unknown and see the uncomfortable periods as a period of growth. Love your perspective of this experience we’re all a part of, thanks again. ☮️&💜 from Amsterdam

@ThePioneerTrader.33 3 ай бұрын

I love this side of you

@solananewton 4 ай бұрын

these back to back videos ARE DOING IT FOR ME YES

@angeliclex88 3 ай бұрын

I found your channel Sometime last year and you have been such a huge inspiration for me thank you so much Lynette you truly are such a genuine soul :)

@briannagonzalez6621 4 ай бұрын

you always post at the best moments for me

@maligal19a30 3 ай бұрын

This is why you’re my favourite youtuber. Always sharing and speaking wisdom that’s relatable. Things I e already thought about or may not have realized & expanded 💯💯

@ARONLABEL369 4 ай бұрын

Your videos are always perfect timing for me . Keep Shining young Lady!!

@betterhealthh 4 ай бұрын

Your video’s have really helped me develop direction in my life. Thank you!

@Kirbi4eva 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, beloved 💜

@LUGG824 3 ай бұрын

I really needed this video thank you 🙌 I think among busy times I often focus on very tiny details, which can be good for planning ahead and making sure I'm on top of things, but it also makes me too worried about each action I will take and what the outcome will be. I've been learning to really be grateful where I am, and to cultivate more joy in my everyday. Thank you for reminding me to embrace my inner child, and for reminding to enjoy the journey. It's a marathon not a sprint :))

@MsJisola 4 ай бұрын

Great video! A lot of what you said resonates with me. I’ve been reading some books like the Pathless Path, The Book by Alan Watts, Dan Koe’s The Art of Focus. On top of that I got a membership to To Be Magnetic to help me with unblocking and manifesting my dream life. A lot of reprogramming my mind and I’m loving it! Also, I feel you on how NYC moves. It’s a vibe on its own terms.

@cherishcharmaine6218 3 ай бұрын

I love all your videos truly but this one HIT MY CORE ❤ I truly felt you were speaking to me directly because I’m currently going through the motions of trying not rush my journey I’m at the point of life according to society I should have more to show for in my life. I’m the happiest where I’m currently at in life but your video help me view the positive side of doubt frustration I’m battling with myself

@Lakirashanee 3 ай бұрын

Thanks sis I needed to hear this! New subbie here 😊✨

@15gluck 3 ай бұрын

God bless you!💖

@liviamcdonald 4 ай бұрын

love this ✨

@paulinamreno 3 ай бұрын

Always love listening to you! I relate so much to the way you think, especially right now that I'm experiencing a lot of setbacks and placing a lot of pressure on myself to be where I think I should be rather than releasing my grip and trusting that things are happening the way they are for a reason. I'm learning to let go and be more open-minded with my journey. Thank you as always for sharing and being real.

@yj0128 4 ай бұрын

Ooh needed to hear this so badly. Been in a tough season that I didn’t expect for myself at 26 as someone who has always been a high achiever and doesn’t feel like she’s living up to that title at the morning. Thank you for remind me to trust the process.

@blueberry8255 3 ай бұрын

I just needed to say you are GORGEOUS

@LynetteAdkins 3 ай бұрын

Thank you❤️

@Mookeiz 3 ай бұрын

Overall this was solid advice and put it back into perspective for me, I tend to lose sight at times since I’m still living in a toxic environment but this really helped me get back on track of just enjoying where I am now, also! The thing you said about buying experiences instead of things I really needed to hear this because I’ve been on autopilot the past few weeks with everything going on that I’ve just been buying things and ordering things instead of investing in experiences to make my inner child happy. It’s definitely what I need because when I receive the things I buy they only spark my interest for a short amount of time but a vacation or a trip somewhere always makes me feel refreshed and happier for months!

@NishNicole5190 3 ай бұрын

Lynette you are spot on! ❤Preach. Constantly thinking about everything that is happening can drive you crazy. There can be so many rabbit holes you can dive in and get you stuck there. You literally have to shut off your mind.

@intergratedpurgatory1678 4 ай бұрын

Completely resonate with everything in this video! I had read the untethered soul years ago and it has similar notions that you had expressed in this video. Love this! Currently in my slightly optmistic season. Everything that I started years ago is finally starting to pay off and I am hyped for my new adventures.

@tanyakidd101 3 ай бұрын

you are so beautiful and inspirational. We loveeee your videos, they change lives 💟💟💟💟

@nevaehmckinney3046 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing such beautiful wisdom. Sometimes I just need to hear the basics again to remind myself how drivine my reality can truly be

@troycampbell5344 4 ай бұрын

Soo crazy we’re walking a similar path! I traveled around Asia solo for 7 months and just moved to a new city when I go back to the states and have been going through it! Lol I’m healthy, have money, making new friends, but still am struggling with finding peace and positivity in my present moment. I’ve been beating myself up to get back into the grind, but not allowing myself to just live and go with the flow of life. This video came at the perfect time ❤️ we all have to trust the divine process and understand that it’s okay if our present moment is not where we want to be. The journey is what matters and not the destination and when you’re a go getter type of person, it’s very easy to lose focus of that. I thank you Lynette for making these videos and sharing your story, you’re a light in this world and I am sending lots of love and positivity while you continue to navigate through your journey. You’re gonna love New York! I was living there before leaving for Asia, but moved to Cali when I got back. I miss New York so much! Definitely more of a vibe there!

@hopekilo8071 4 ай бұрын

did you find inner peace whilst travelling asia ?

@troycampbell5344 3 ай бұрын

At times it was very peaceful but I think finding true inner peace isn’t from the environment your in, but more with the inner work, self love, and feeling of content in your life which is something I’m still working on.

@briana312 3 ай бұрын

I felt the same way! I just came back from Korea, and I felt so lost coming back and wanted routine. But now I’m sincerely trying to find joy in present moments, even when it’s hard. We deserve a good life, and it will come🫶🏽

@shirlona7954 3 ай бұрын

I wanted to take a moment and say thank you for posting this video. This morning I was feeling like my current situation was not going to get better and just questioning why me. But hearing this video today gave me reassurance to know that in this season that I should just embrace the moment and know that there’s something greater on the other side, I had to listen to this video more than once to really take and what you were saying. During this season, I’m going to enjoy the moment and live in the moment Thank you for allowing God to use you during this video to speak to me.

@user-zq5zv2vg5c 3 ай бұрын

This was a well spoken video. I also would like the add the concept of perception over perspective. People are so caught up in their bubble and the influence of social media that they perceive their life and themselves to be something. The perspective of this is to see how much potential and capabilities you have as this spiritual being to be whatever you want to be. You just have to break out of that cycle of self-limiting beliefs and rewire your brain! ❤❤

@camille-7015 4 ай бұрын

I got some bad news (not devastating but disappointing). This was just what I needed to pick myself up. Thanks 😊 ❤️❤️❤️

@themindlessmess 3 ай бұрын

Needed this video today 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@AlyssaMonetMason 4 ай бұрын

I'm happy and love you!

@jahzlynvagt-shields7295 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! 🫶🏽🦋

@elasticmindd_sa3194 3 ай бұрын

Lynette i know you probably heard this a million times but an just gon say it anyway.. You are Important and the world needs more people like you.

@latashaclark3247 3 ай бұрын

I’m in my creative season and I love it will probably take a break from working in June, stacking until then ❤

@LynetteAdkins 3 ай бұрын

I love this!

@Taylor__Made 4 ай бұрын

I love this and I feel the same way in life, I'm waiting for the guy with the camera to pop out lol

@AmyaBourgeois 3 ай бұрын

This video is FOR ME! right now I think God has placed me in my self isolation journey, surprisingly it’s a lot easier than I thought it would be. I’m learning how to be patient with myself and my journey and just enjoy everything for what it is in the moment. I’m planning to move to Cali soon and I’m so excited but I have to be patient and wait for the right time although I really want to go right now!

@IAmKenyattaGadson 3 ай бұрын

I agree!

@LeoStagi 2 ай бұрын

Missed seeing you on here 🫡

@Hersheychocolate12 3 ай бұрын

I wonder what your astrocartography is in NYC. And i will say not a lot of things bring me hope in my current phase and tbh I’m having a really hard time. Yesterday and today were hard. And your videos and mindsets bring those sprinkles of hope again. Love the quote “life doesn’t happen you, it happens for you” makes me think just maybe there was a reason for all this esp during hard seasons

@user-xf2wg5re8j 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video Lynette you’re beautiful by the way

@maireadfoleyy 4 ай бұрын

I'm in a conflicting point in my life I really don't know what is the right path to take or what to do next. I'm sick of living with my parents but can't afford to move out in my country cos it's so expensive. I think I'm going to try live and work in Spain for the summer and that's what's solely on my mind right now and I find it hard to enjoy where I am now because I just wanna see what's next agh idk I just don't feel fulfilled rn I wanna break free everything feels so stagnant

@Lotsonoodles4you 3 ай бұрын

Dude just take the leap, there is no right path something I remind myself of is that it’s never too late and while it may not be exactly how you planned you can get it done and have so much more control over your life when you start living for YOU. Spain sounds great and sometimes great things can seem scary but if you aren’t happy now then how much worse can it get?

@maireadfoleyy 3 ай бұрын

@@Lotsonoodles4you thank you for the comment, I think a couple of days ago when I wrote this comment I was in a negative headspace. I am very happy and grateful for my life but definitely feel like I should try to branch out to another place for a minute. It's hard to leave your comfort zone but so so worth it.

@flexdollarbillz 4 ай бұрын

Your so real I love it you give how it is but very humble when you don’t have to be

@LynetteAdkins 3 ай бұрын

Aw thank you!!

@liviamcdonald 4 ай бұрын

laughter is a part of my routine as well lol

@Monique-ur7mf 3 ай бұрын

Yup yup!!

@Thegarden997 3 ай бұрын

What braiding hair do you use?? amazing video

@jeromecurtis5672 2 ай бұрын

I get it, life is a game just play the rewards will happen when they happen… it make sense.

@Mmmfdhb11 3 ай бұрын

I'm in the season when the group of friends finds out the ruling class is messed up and finds a way to escape the matrix but there's so many challenges and one of characters dies and the rest is so upbeat that they find it hard to continue

@thejadaann 3 ай бұрын

You are the I only content creator that I can genuinely say that you changed my pov on life everything you say I can absorb so easily keep doing what your doing your videos are everything❤!