True! Instead of teach own children how to manage their time between dog and school/homework, they got rid of dog. They have no heart, no common sense, no brain. They stole their own children what they loved just because of some homework undone? Emotionless creatures!

I wonder if they are gonna get surprised for being put in a retirement home and for their kid never visiting them :/

If people even give my dog a side eye they are done. 😂😂😂

I am going to hate them for the rest of my life too! They are monsters.

@@oddsock000 dear god, I hope you’re doing better, and please tell me you told the cops because straight up murder and beating you is very clearly abuse, the cat alone is enough to put them in prison for a long time

Sooooooo very happy Javier got a new and loving home. That broke my heart into tiny pieces to see parents do something like that. It’s cruel to the child and to the poor innocent dog. I really, really hope the parents were roasted and shamed. Their child will probably never forget that act of cruelty and I hope the child gets to pick the nursing home the parents get to spend their last days in.

thanks for the update!

In a way reminds me of a news story (i'm sure its still on youtube) a family had 2 dogs and one passed away, after like a week they dumped the other at the shelter 'becuase it was sad' then WENT TO THE SAME DAMN SHELTER TO GET ANOTHER DOG. The dog they dumped was still there and on camera crying and jumng on the gates to get back to his family. When the shelter realized it was the same family they banned them from adopting any pets.

@@aubreymorgan9763 that is so heartbreaking! I could never. Animals have emotions too.

@@aubreymorgan9763 omg, that's disgusting!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬 we rescued a dog from our neighbors. It was my elderly neighbors sons dog(he is a pit bull) and the son was training him to..well, I don't even have to say. The son went to jail, and the mom couldn't care for the dog. We had called animal control afew times for various reasons (him being locked outside with no shelter in below freezing temperatures, no food or water for days) so when the mom called animal control and explained the whole situation, they called us and asked if we would be interested in adopting him. We had to take him to the shelter for 7 or 10 days, because of protocol. He was so sad when we dropped him off, because he had been dumped at that same shelter afew times before, but the look on his face when we showed first thing in the morning after that 7-10 day period, was so fucking magical! (Pardon my language). He is my son's best buddy, hes protective but not territorial of him. He sticks next to my sons side all the time, he knows what time my son gets out of school and waits at the door for him. We had some kinks to work out when we first got him, due to his treatment before, but he is honestly the best dog we've ever had. Hes still scared of bathrooms though, almost 3.5 years later, not sure what happened with a bathroom, but it's stuck with him. This went on much longer than I expected lol I'm sorry, I just get very passionate about the subject lol I couldn't imagine taking a dog to the shelter, then going back to the same shelter to get a different dog and seeing the first dog and not taking him back, that's absolutely disgusting to me!

30 years later and this is still controversial… a dog - that was given to my brother and I - suddenly ‘disappeared’ when a family member left the house and took an abrupt evening ride while us kids happened to be with other family members 🤔

It’s how they were treated probably. It’s like the saying you either end up like your parents or the opposite

at 16 years old my mother was forced by her parents to sell he horse Cricket when she got the first bad grade of her life.... in Latin class.

My uncle treats his kids like this (my young cousins) and routinely buys them things as leverage later to attempt to get them to behave (they're usually behaving but are so afraid of him that they'll lie no matter what became they feel like any answer is the wrong answer), later on he'll either sell, throw away, destroy or use the toys.. i literally saw him riding the motorized skateboard he bought his son one day down the street and already knew what had happened

Agreed. I was forced to throw away my own things. It was that and getting hit.

It’s like ‘these parents are going to murdertheir child’

and on top of hurting the kid, they're also bringing an innocent animal into this. congrats, your children now hate you, and you've potentially condemned a dog. I seriously hope that dog got snatched up by someone who saw the post.

Or "That child is going to murder his parents and die in a school shooting".

The scariest thing about that post is I showed it to my parents and they weren’t immediately disgusted like I was, that kid deserves way better and I need to move out

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Any guy can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a Dad.

A good relationship with the childre, And I let mine know i make mistakes too. "Look at what I did"

@@Lolamy Great, these things are good, Good for my children to know I am a nincompoop now and then. :)

WOW ur dad was SO AWESOME

@@winniethepooht5776 So right, and I do. Be human, don't be a tyrant. Love your children, feed them spiritualy and help them grow for who they are. They like music, buy them an instrument, They like art buy them paint, They like the planets, get them a telescope, ect. Just like you feed you. If they don't like a certain food, DON'T make them eat it, for it is sure YOU DON'T, The LORD said, "Do unto others"

Very true. I Don't talk to mine and I knw they know the reasons why.

Yep! I can’t figure out how people justify bullying someone they’d supposedly take a bullet for…

Both mine are blocked because they said my domestic violence and sexual assault attacks were my fault and that I had brought shame to their family for this happening to me, that I chose to do that to them and live with that fact and embarrass them by being a victim.... you know what started this argument?.... me asking my mom if she knew where my markers were because they weren’t in the box I left them and the box was filled with her things, she threw a fit because I was “accusing her of stealing after she *barely* kept me alive (my grandma actually did most of the raising)” and to “get over the ONE time my dad beat me for not wanting to sing in the church choir” because MY BOYFRIEND DIED. Never gotten a U-Haul so fast. She’s never spoken to me since and my dad demanded I apologize to her. I blocked them after that.

@@Lowdermoomoo I’m experiencing some serious PTSD these people…. It’s definitely them, not you. I bet you and I could sit down and tJe turns exchanging one insane experience after another and anyone sitting near by listening would go thru all the emotions, mostly rage, sadness, and anger. We are survivors and NO ONE can take that from you, so when some self entitled person , such as an auntie or a cousin tries to down play your experiences, you just let them know that THEY are the biggest fool for trusting these two faced, abusive, lying adults. Sadly people don’t get if if they’ve never lived it. No one knows what happens behind closed doors. We see it in the news all the time, if Bill frikkin Cosby can be a bad guy, one of the most beloved entertainers ever, then ANYONE can be a monster. Sorry, I’m so triggered…really emotionally triggered because I believe you! God bless you, know that you will always have a part of my heart 💜 you did not deserve to have to be the adult while your mother behaved like an entitled 7 year old. And I’m so sorry about your boy friend. I bet he watches over you. Stay strong, even when you fall apart, remind yourself that it’s them, and you will be ok shortly, you’ve got this!

@@Lowdermoomoo I’m so sorry 😞 RIP to your boyfriend , he’s in heaven looking down on you 🕊🌹💙

$20 says they didn't even tell her what time they wanted her up.

Hopefully they got another one, it was an honest mistake and their parents just smashed a whole lot of money, especially if they bought the tablet themselves

@@DrWho160 I followed up cuz they're username was on the post. From what I can tell they're doing okay, but spend a lot of time away from social media for their mental health.. also apparently they live in the wild a lot.

If the artist is still a minor, their money is still the parents' money, even if the kid has a job. It's a messed-up system we live in.

as an artist... i almost cried. that made me so saad. the girl is 21 now by the looks of it and on a road trip in chicago. i hope shes away from her parents now

I guess she felt betrayed when you grew up and wanted to leave.

​@@jennyclark6183 Huh??? They were going to school. You know, to build their future. News Flash: children grow up to have lives and families of their own. Just because she was butt hurt over her child going to school is no reason to destroy their artwork, especially when it means so much to them. That's just SICK.

@@Claudia-lq3ns I didn't say the mother was justified. I said she was reacting out of a sense of betrayal. That doesn't make it right.

@@jennyclark6183 Sorry, but to me, BOTH of your comments have undertones of being sympathetic with this commenter's mother. And if you really feel the mother isn't justified, you would have said so in the first place. What this mother did is legit abusive. There are better ways to express "betrayal" than to destroy this person's irreplaceable artwork.

@@Claudia-lq3ns Claudia I am sorry if you just want to start an argument because I am not going there with you. I already said that I do not think feeling betrayed justified what she did. That's it.

I know right.....treating a child like a fellow human is such a radical concept to some. Lol

Yes and no. They don’t always need an explanation. It tends to open up a situation where they start bargaining and negotiating when they need to trust their parents and obey. I’m of the mindset that it’s fine to give explanations but I don’t need to give you a novel to explain my ruling. Balance.

@@Epic_Shotz "trust their parent and obey"? They are humans they deserve an explanation, doesn't always have to be a novel though?

@@Epic_Shotz So they should just blindly follow? Your kids shouldn’t grow up learning to blindly obey authority. Tell them the reason why, and they’ll understand in the future. Op probably learned to stop asking to eat something right before dinner, and started asking a while beforehand

I’m 11 and my dad always says “Because I said so” and “Because I’m the adult and you’re the child” it’s not that hard to treat children like people, we are people and deserve to be treated so.

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😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s hysterical!!! The entitlement of some people!!! Highest of fives for giving her a reality check!!!

I moved out at 18 because of controlling mom. She had the inside lock. If I wasn't home by 10 PM, I was locked out.

Good for you!

Hey at least she complied. She could have used the "you're still my child" line and gone the double standard route

Me too... it's an awful feeling.. sucks walking on eggshells as a lil kid.

Same here. I can 1000% tell who is walking and at what place of the house they are in based on the volume. I live in a house with 3 floor. I swear is like a sick superpower but instead of responsibilities, it came with traumas lol

I always feel my stomach drop a little when I hear my parents footsteps approaching my desk, and even through my headphones can sense them.

Like many of us, this environment made you an empath. I bet you can read a person's mood from across a room, too. A gift and a curse. I could tell what mood my father was in when he drove in the driveway.

Yep, I am basically deaf, but my mother walking to my room... Hear it from a mile away XD

Same. She’s just driving her daughter away.

Some religions are more concerned about how they are perceived by their fellow worshipers than how their kids feel about going. I know an ex mormon who never speaks to their family because they don't ask how they are or how they've been, only if they are ready to get over whatever it is they need to get over and come back to church. They went to university when they were 18 and never looked back. They moved into mine for a couple of years after they graduated (they stayed with me between semesters) then got their own place once they had a good job.

Agreed, they wanted to teach this kid to do their homework but instead they broke the kid's heart and taugh them they can't trust mom and dad. That's how you get kids who grow up to hide everything from their parents out of fear they will take away what makes them happy.

​@@dramaticdog337 This. But also. Poor dog! He doesn't know what's happening and why he's been abandoned. :(((

@@youliahadzhidimova5260 I Looked him up. Thankfully he has now a new family :)

@@jodis6983 thank you !

Bro when I got my cat there was a cat who was surrendered cuz their kid got onto juvi and I wanted to cry when they showed us her cuz she was so sweet

Tru dat😂

Or don't have kids they are a lot to handle xD

Sitting here, heavily pregnant... taking notes.

Agreed!

@@Thekikithehippie lol congrats!!

I can’t imagine losing my tablet. I have years on art on there!

Sameee I don't even have a tablet and I've been practicing all my artwork in this mobile...and recently I've started to upload my animation..is only due to this mobile...ssly these parents don't even deserve to be in hell...hell is so pure for them 😡

Truly hope they can get their data back, losing a tablet is already so awful, I couldn’t imagine loosing all my WIPs too😭

I'd be crushed if someone deleted all my creative writing.

fr the "i demand respect!" is so stupid like, you know it goes both ways right? I don't respect you to disrespect me

It's because they don't understand the difference between respect and fear

Totally agree! I grew up in a 'children should be seen and not heard' house - which just resulted in me never having a voice or feeling supported - this has had many effects on my adult life, but somehow I have gained confidence and self worth by being around lots of positive, amazing people over the last 20 years (yep, it's really taken this long!) So now my own daughter will always have my time, I listen and let her speak - sometimes it's big things, sometimes it's little things - and there's always those little gems of innocence that warms your heart that you would have missed if you hadn't just let her chat away! - this is one of my favourite bits about being being a mom 😊❤️

@@i_love_shiny_things I’m so glad you have found your voice and your self worth!!! Never let anyone tell you that you’re not good enough!!! I have a Mother who has spent my entire life making me feel as if nothing I do is enough and it’s taken me until just the last few years and my husband to realize I will never be able to be enough for her and that I shouldn’t have to live up to her impossible standards! And I’m 36! I encourage my children in everything they do, we focus on their strengths, work on their weaknesses, and they know that there is nothing in this world they could do that could make me not love them!

Exactly… kids respond well to structure and communication… our motto in my home, (which I’ve instilled in my kids since they could talk…lol) is lies don’t help anything, the truth no matter how bad it may seem can always be worked out. I’m their mom and their friend. It’s possible to be both to our kids. Our kids should never feel like they have to lie to us about anything. It does not help them feel confident and critical think better, when we get angry instead of helping them work through shit or make better choices next time around. I hope how I said that makes sense.

@@kellyrozenel7863 it absolutely does! My kids get double consequence for lying, and a lot of times if they come to me with something honestly and openly they won’t even get in trouble because I want them to know they can trust coming to me without me just blowing up on them… I am very open with my kids, about everything, age appropriately of course, but I want them to know if they ever find themselves in a troubled situation, they can call me without fear of recourse, and I will be there to help them, not punish berate them for making a mistake!

I apologize to my kids if I'm ever wrong about anything.

I know this is an old comment but same… I don’t often find myself cursing people but those parents deserve a special curse. You just DO NOT abandon your pets, much less a dog who offers unconditional love to you.

If my father did that, I’d set ALL of his work stuff on fire. Good luck tryna get back $100,000 worth of supplies! I’ll be at the pound until she passes cuz no one is gonna adopt a 10 year old dog that’s scared of everyone and nips constantly out of fear but me, she’s not scared of me, we have a huge bond. But my father is smarter than that, cuz he knows she’s the reason she stopped me from countless life ending attempts. I don’t know their full story but I hate these parents with a passion

@@hekategoddess I wouldn’t be setting his work stuff alight, the person themselves would be wearing a very hot, real flame effect, suit. They’d be given a fire extinguisher filled with petrol, and a salve that is 100% sulphuric acid. I’d fill their pyjamas with fire ants and itching powder, and their toilet paper would be pre-soaked in the juices of a Carolina reaper. I’d let someone with syphilis use their toothbrush and I’d tear out their eyeballs, just so that I could rearrange their razor blade covered furniture daily. I’ve given this a lot of thought.

@@Loki_is_my_name Wow you just gave me some great ideas!

I actually have a sneaking sus that my mom ki!!ed one of my dogs in a fit of rage but I've never been able to prove it. I was 12. I would have rather she gave my dog to the shelter. I was at school when it happened and got fed this bull about how she spontaneously took my dog to the vet and the vet said that my dog was too far gone ( she had brain damage from a previous abusive owner that made her kind of slow and she had accidents) I come home asking where my dog is and just get told to suck it up. Meanwhile, my other dog got a funeral and cremation, and advance notice of the euthanasia appointment. Before that, our cat got re homed out of nowhere with no verification thats actually what happened, and when it was my turn to take care of the classroom pets at school, they died right after I brought them back. Parents like this shouldn't exist.

Ugh. Worked with a single mother (I was also a single parent) that constantly used it as an excuse for being late work on a daily basis. Guy I worked with finally freaked out in front of our boss and pointed out that I was also single mom and was on time every day. We even traded hours, she was supposed to have an 8 am start time and I was 8:30 and we swapped and she was still at least 20 minutes late every day.

@@kellidinit3725 My sis pulled that on a nurse as an excuse for being late and when the nurse replied "I'm a single mom too and I'm on time every morning at 8" my sis went BALLISTIC

@@luketimewalker lol. We were a small, family owned business that had three locations here in Ohio. The gal in our Columbus office calculated how much time the woman I worked with that was late every day missed in year by her lateness everyday and it was ridiculous. We didn’t get docked usually, and that became a real problem for those of us that showed up on time everyday. She even lived closer to work than the rest of us. Took her 10 minutes to get to work, took me an hour. Ah well. She is somebody else’s problem now. I worked with her for 22 years.

@@kellidinit3725 Oh I'm always late! But I know it's my fault for being a mess. On behalf of latecomers, sorry! I was just pointing out how pulling the "single mom" card (or whatever card) can and should backfire if you meet someone with the same circumstances. Entitled + blaming others is such a combo... Glad you don't have to endure that person anymore!

@@luketimewalker I don’t usually mind the late folks. 😂😂 I am a nut about being on time. I blame my dad. It was a pet peeve of his. He always said “When you are late, you are telling the folks waiting for you that your time is more important than theirs. “. Thus creating the creature I am where I practically have a panic attack when I’m running late. That did not seep through to my sister though. 😂😂

😟 sounds like a pearler of a human being!!!

I’m sorry you went through that ...I too can’t have milk and I get sick and shit a lot and I feel so my pin in my stomach so I get why you wouldn’t

Had you seen a doctor, and had an actual diagnosis? Your mother allowed that?! Need to be mother intolerant as well. Geez.

That's really messed up what happened, after all that?

@@kitty62862 no, I had not had a diagnosis from a Dr. I asked multiple times to see one about it and was told by stepfather that I was faking it bc I didn't want to drink milk( he always made us drink a full 16oz glass of milk with dinner) Mom was being groomed and manipulated. I didn't get it then, but I get it now.

Facts

Pretty much 😔

I dont think most of them choose but rather by accident cuz both were too lazy to put on contraception or birth control or their circumcised can feel shit with a condom on so they dont use it. I can almost guarantee todays kids are 2/3rds by accident. Its like the real good parents cant have kids or smart enough to not want them and its mainly the idiots that are procreating like there is going to be no tomorrow. Cuz if it was a choice then how come so many single parents? why so many deadbeat moms and dads? No, not a choice,just pure laziness for instant gratification. either they cant keep the dick in the pants or they cant keep their legs closed cuz theyre so irresponsible.

@@jasonfoo8651 it is a choice. You can choose to be responsible and use protection or you can choose to be an idiot.

@@marielaausher I do not count the stupid ones that have kids to get money. I guarantee you 2/3rd of kis today are by accident. and you basically kinda said the same thing i said about being idiot. read slower

Right on I'm proud of you

I hope your mother eventually realizes she was in the wrong and apologizes

@@sleepykittyMMD she wont see that she’s wrong. She’s going to continue to blame this lady for not letting her disrespect her daughter. That’s the thing about all these Karen’s. They hate it when people don’t let them disrespect anyone and everyone. Bc they think them being disrespect falls into the category of “respect your elders” so they truly believe that are in the right for saying the horrible things they say and they expect to be respected for saying it.

Here's a cookie 🍪

I'm sorry your mom called your daughter names. That's just not right. But way to go, I am glad y'all stood your ground.

i would be pissed off too thats embarrassing on the mother im sorry he deas with that but at least you are there

deals*

Reading this made me tear and be happy for him to find someone like you :)

I'm so sorry for your boyfriend cause my parents were like that to me, mom still is sometimes, and even though I'm turning 30 this year I still struggle with expressing emotions and being too hard on myself. You are amazing for being so understanding and helpful because for people like us, even just feeling heard and validated for once in our lives is liberating. Keep it up.

I feel bad for your boyfriend. I'm related to a guy who has such issues with the way he was raised that when he gets upset, he starts banging his head against a wall. I can't imagine what they must have done to him

Also by apologizing it teaches your child that if you are wrong this is how you first need to try to repair your mistake. A good life lesson that will go far. By explaining things, they learn. Just saying I told you so doesn't teach them to not repeat a mistake or the correct way of doing something. All it does it teach them that they need to wait until told to do something and wait for detailed step by step instructions. And if you forget a step trust, it won't be done right because they didn't learn why they were doing it. They'll just do exactly, what you said. Then you'll get mad at them but it is actually your fault because you trained them to be this way.

You're absolutely right. Children deserve an apology from parents when they do something wrong. And I'm so sorry about your so called father and wicked stepmother. I hope you're doing well now! ❤

I always make it a point to apologize to my 10-year-old daughter when I know I am in the wrong. I have a bad habit of reacting out of anger. (I have been working on it.) I have many talks with her about it and why I react the way I do at times. I also tell her that if I ever hurt her feelings or if I do or say something she either 1. Doesn't understand or 2. Thinks that I am wrong and only saying/doing it because I am mad to call me out on it once we both have calmed down. It has taught her to talk through her feelings as well as taught me too. Anytime she comes to me and says "you said or did xyz and I don't think it was deserved" I will always look back and I always 100% apologize if I was in the wrong and if I wasn't in the wrong but I still hurt her feelings I apologize for how I handled it and then I explain to her in a better more positive way on what I meant. I also ask her everynight if there was anything I did that day to upset her or if she wanted to talk about anything else and she always communicates with me about her problems etc.

yes

@saakshi s He's ok. He's 12 now and unfortunately had to learn some rough life lessons. His mom goes through pets like crazy. He's had 5 different dogs at her house and now he just tries to not get attached.

Can you get the dog back...? You'd be the greatest dad probably

@@IsleNaK I wish I could but I have no clue who she sold it to and if I confront her on it she'd take it out on my son.

@@toxicjackal9062 Your ex sounds like a terrible person. Does she punish your son by selling his pets? I hope you get custody, especially as there seems to be a lot of abuse going on from what you said with your ex taking out her issues on your son. My mother never did this with any of our cats. We've had many cats over the years... One of them is fourteen years old now and I can't imagine her getting rid of him because she wanted to punish any of us.

@@TiffWaffles I'm honestly not sure what her issue is. She just goes through pets like crazy and it kills me because my son is so loving and caring that he gets close to them. I don't see me getting full custody over this though. If there were some form of physical abuse it would be different but that's not happening. It's just sad to me.

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very true, mainly things that start with "C"

I'm changing my name. It's legally Karen & I'd rather be Gertrude.🙄

@Kitten Lyric how about "kitten lyric"

Yep I remember working in an upscale restaurant in my twenties and people were ridiculous. Remember one lady screaming at me and crying because she couldn't sit at the table she wanted(because other people already were). It was company policy to never guarantee a specific table and I explained that to her when I took the reservation and when I confirmed it.

I agree, I hope people don’t think we’re all crazy like her

Thank you so much for being one of the good ones. My family is kinda crazy so it can get hard to remember you exist

That made me so sad. I was inactive for 15 years and my parents were so sweet about it. I came back on my own accord and have been active ever since. Went on a mission, married a fellow RM in the temple, am Primary President in my ward and expecting my first child. Not (just 😉) a humble brag but rather an explanation of how far kindness and understanding can get you better results.

@@liesla1958 The rest of us make fun of you guys, and think that your theology is straight up bananas, but you generally have a good reputation as far as personal behavior and decency goes.

On behalf of the entire ADHD group we applaud this comment in our own unique ways

Im hoping you surprise her with dinner once in a while to show your appreciation.

I'm gonna go on a limb here and make a really wild guess but...is it the boyfriend's mom?

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I feel you my friend. I once reported feeling suicidal to my dad and step mom as a teenager and they called me crazy and told me if I “keep that sh*t up” they’ll lock me up in an insane asylum/looney bin/hospital/psych ward. Thanks to them I grew up being terrified of this and didn’t seek help when I desperately needed it and nearly died of an overdose at 16

@@bari2883 As much as she lets me. At least once a year lobster dinner and polish food from back home when ever I travel.

I am so sorry. What happened, afterwards?

My dad payed nothing cause I grew up at a foster family and he first ever spend money on me as I was 12 and he asked me what I wanted for my BDay and my forster parents just said "we can't aford to buy her a Nintendo DS" ... my dad is still the same annoying guy as he was when I was a kid but hey, since I'm an adult he literally spend oneday 500 bucks on me just cause I got a new apartment and he thought I needed a new TV xD

I think people who receive child support should have to show 100% proof they bought stuff for the child, and not on themselves. OR just get rid of the entire child support system all together. Child Support Works are absolute bitches to men, and do nothing to women.

Yeah, I'm starting to see how bad my mother is. I think I speak with everyone when I say I really hate to see it.

I just want to shake people who are being bad parents not just one or two moments, but a lifetime of it, and ask them, “Why would you do this to your kid? Do you think your kid will want to talk to you when you are an adult?” Because for some reason, in their own delusional minds, they think their kids will always come back to them and endure more. I see it going down between my niece and her mother, who treats the niece like garbage over everything because of who knows why. The niece offers to clean house and she gets in trouble. It’s awful.

if she took money out of your account that is theft I hope you made sure she couldn't access your account after that

I live with my grandparents and I can even differentiate the footsteps of my grandma and mom

That’s messed up.

You should have signed the check on the back, signed your mom's name, wrote "FOR DEPOSIT ONLY" and had it deposited in your checking account.

Edited: it got a little personal, and rereading, I decided to edit..

@@ammiller3911 Wow! Good luck. I hope you are loving her from a distance, just for your sanity's sake!

@@RJelly-fi6hd thanks! I moved 5 states away when I was 18 🙂 sorry for the TMI yt comments is better than therapy sometimes lol

Before she even mentioned the Book I just knew!

bruh

As an actual native american i can say its an ongoing joke in our communities about the karens always claiming their native roots while in reality the are just seeds of oppression.

@@Ladyscarface 😂😂😂 those Cherokee princesses! Seriously though I grew up in the south and I met one person who was actually half Cherokee. It was my best friends mother and you could tell just looking at her she had native blood. Then I met her mother and she was definitely full blooded Cherokee. Other than that in Florida I never met another native. I was taught lies upon lies in school about native American history. Had no clue that we tried to genocide a race of the most responsible race. The only race that has lived on our planet without destroying it. Then I moved to Arizona at 14 I was so uneducated so unsophisticated. It was a huge learning curve and I didn't understand all the passive aggressive behavior that Hispanic and native people had against the whites. I also wondered where all the black people were?? The town I grew up in was all black and white and 80% of both communities live under the poverty line. Even though racism runs rampant so does unity that springs into action when it comes to the government. I grew up white in a black neighborhood that was right by the project's. It was such a culture shock when I worked at a native bar and I took some hazing but it took asking the uncomfortable questions that lead to a new understanding and a whole different respect along with even more distrust for the white washed government who prints lies in the history books.

Get that woman an Atlas!

@@lindseyroselights2306 wow

Same. My parents love hearing about how close of a family we were because we were always together and how we kids were so respectful and were going to grow up to have great families ourselves. It was addicting for them to hear. I would hear others say "I wish my kids would come to things with me" But behind closed doors its was awful. We had no choice but to go. What out family had planned or be grounded. If we made plans when the family didn't have something planned we would get grounded for the dumbest things. I got grounded for eating fruit for breakfast once so I couldn't go to a football game. No friends. No after school activities. Nothing outside of family. We weren't allowed to go anywhere. We just learned to be great actors and to always put or best foot forward in public. Quite sad actually. They always complain now that we don't stay in touch now since we were such a close family growing up.

@@Selena-gz9ts PLEASE tell me you're joking! Getting grounded for EATING FRUIT? That is literally the best of options for breakfast lmao " *gAsP* ARE YOU EATING.. AN ORANGE?? YOU'RE GROUNDED!!

@@Selena-gz9ts that's so fucking ridiculous, they're lucky you guys never physically fought back against the insanity of having NO FREEDOM to do what you wanted. So lucky.

Freaking ridiculous. I'm struggling right now with these issues

Awww your mom's response like she's receiving an award! Super sweet

Me too. My Mommy and Daddy as well always told us that we were the best things that ever came into their lives and they were proud of how well we've grown. ❤ Even though we're still figuring out what to do with our lives. 😂

Good thing shelters also have lists of people who they will not allow to adopt . . . and they share them. Won't prevent these creeps from buying but at least they likely won't be able to adopt another animal.

@@hectorsmommy1717 I'm glad the shelters have those lists. That made my heart hurt .

It breaks my heart seeing how sad Javier looks. Those parents are terrible for taking it out on the dog.😞

Luckily, he was adopted and has a wonderful new family. Another commenter posted an update on him. ❤️

So does the kid

I'm still learning to apologize. My family never apologizes for anything and it's wildly unhealthy.

@@modusoperandiunknown My mom thinks apologizes should be properly giving to her when deserved, she told me I should apologize to her by at least saying sorry and when I did she told me she didn’t believe me and I shouldn’t say it if I didn’t mean it so now even if I actually am sorry which typically I’m not she’s just being rude. But I can never win, she wants me to say sorry but I can’t say it unless I mean it but even then she doesn’t believe it. The last time that happened I just didn’t say anything and then she said “ your ego is just too big your aren’t gonna say anything” my ego has nothing to do with that it was just why bother if she not going to believe me I just don’t wanna waste my breath and I don’t wanna lie. I told my dad that when he started saying something I don’t remember what it was because I felt sleepy and wasn’t thinking right. Because of her I don’t even know if when I say sorry and mean it if they actually believe it or not because she never really does. She’s a narcissistic hypocrite.

My mom never apologized but I grew up and became a woman who always think everything is her fault.

Yeah....I had to pause to wonder if that could explain my calm as well......

Same lol

Yep. I’ve been dealing with trauma responses (aka being calm in chaos because any reaction made my life worse) since childhood. Thanks dad.

But that’s a constructive thing. The patient can learn from that, and help work through those problems They did say therapist? I’m a die hard introvert. The pandemic lockdown was GLORIOUS for me. I worried about how many were dying, and that the orange donkey was doing nothing, I kept my ears open for vax approval. But being able to go home and stay, for months, me and my daughter, was such a wonderful thing.

I am legit having a bit of a crisis realizing that post just explained a lot about me.

Oh boy!

Ha my mother is literally the second option. Like I get that being a single mother for 2 kids is hard especially in these times but I do everything for her even on her 3 days off

I’ve heard of parents who are both ways.

entitled parents never consider that their children deserve the whole world. They think THEY deserve the whole world because they have kids. The children are just mere pawns they use to get the things they want. There's a reason it's entitled PARENTS and not CHILDREN.

Ya

@@jennayaadain my dad in a nutshell lol. He'd be like "my daughter is the best and you can't insult her" and turn around and passive agressively attack my confidence (he even insulted my intelligence once, in front of his mom.. yes, he brought me to my grandma's house just to scold me in front of her, I can't even-). And he wasn't even around that much in my life because he went away a lot and all my childhood I could remember only spent with my mom. Luckily I didn't have to live with him after my mom passed away

I feel so happy for you!!! I am wishing the same for myself in the future 😂🎉

Heck yes! Good for you ❤

Sorry to hear this happened.

I imagine you blasting music at the party and screaming "IT'S MY LIIIIFE, IT'S NOW OR NEVER!!"

I'm sorry you went through that. Your Mom may have given you half her DNA, but she clearly didn't give you the love, safety, and freedom to learn that all children should have from their family. You don't owe her anything, and you don't owe your family either if they judge you for responding to the toxicity they didn't have to experience. I wish you well and hope you are in a better place with better people in your life.

oh no... i feel sorry for her, noone should go through this

That is sho horrible that your grandmother had to go through that

@Kitten Lyric I don't think that a teenager would wear such old, wasted shoes on purpose. Teenagers are very aware of their looks. Some parents are bad parents, and you can't be united with such people. I knew divorced couples where one of them was so cruel, selfish and hateful, that it was impossible to be united around the kids. Sometimes one of the parents is just... Idk. Like they can't see that they are hurting the kid... It's weird. Not all kids are manipulative, not all parents are able to be united for the kids

He can contest but the system is highly biased/sexist against him.

@Rainshadow & Co. If the raggedy shoes and misuse of child support indicate neglect, then the daughter SHOULD be taken away from her mother.

@Rainshadow & Co. I understand. Social services needs some improvement, and judges need to get tougher on unfit mothers, because too many kids, whom those mothers have custody of are more likely to drop out of school, run away from home, become teenage parents, mix with the wrong crowd, end up in jail, end up in foster care, etc., I mean, this whole legal system needs to change.

@Rainshadow & Co. i can attest to that because i was always in and out of the hospital(surgeries, and when i was younger I bruised like a peach.) And random bruises would pop up and im already known as a huge cluts in the hospital. So when I was hit and bruised up they would basically blend into the surrounding bruises, and when i show actual fear with them, no one could do anything legally because i was also suspected of being on the spectrum as well because i was also known to act up in school

😢

I'm just an introvert lol. But I also feel like people who experience anxiety because of the pandemic probably also have some issues that made them have such extreme reactions (unless, of course, they are from one of the risk groups, like old people or people with weak immune systems and other health problems, then it makes sense).

For real?

@@Adam-oh3vu Yes!

My dad told me that after I turned 12, he was like "you're old enough to choose which one of us you want to live with" my mom is an abusive narcissistic bitch so I wanted to live with my dad. when she found out, she and my stepdad pulled me aside and grilled me with questions and manipulated me into saying I better not choose bc "your father will lose in court, and you don't want him to have to take off and lose money do you?" so yea, I knew but in the end I didn't have a choice..

@@alley6950 You did but you were manipulated into saying otherwise. This is where I wholeheartedly believe an officer needs to sit with the kids on these cases.

@@alley6950 I don't know how old you are or wether that process is already finished up, but: 1. There is no way your father would lose that court case 2. He will lose more money if you stay with your mother because child support is expensive. 3. Usually on cases like this a government employee will talk to the child to figure out the true intention of the child to figure out in what way the children are manipulated by their parents and then they will assess the situation individually. If you tell them that your mother and stepfather pressured you into lying for them they will definitely lose that case.

WTF!!! Hope the child survived her.

😮

And neither, do those mothers who spend child support on themselves.

@@danacarter9147, I never received a penny in child support, I went ten years without being able to buy myself a bra, let alone anything else. Every week/month the baby needed, sometimes it was diapers over tampons for lack of funds. So really those selfish B*this deserve nothing. They have no clue how lucky they are...

@@madhonib the father in the should call child protection service on his ex. If the neglect is that obvious he could get custody

Teachers tell school kids today in uk that there parents lived through what is called corporal punishment it was all legal that’s how kids were punished !!!! brushed it all away as if it was nothing now we’re all suffering with ptsd anxiety attacks depression etc

I just bought a house too and I didn't tell anyone in my family because I don't want to be bothered. I just want peace and quiet.

Congrats both of you!

Uhh... Congratulations. When you're over 40 buying a house you can tell or not tell whoever you want. It doesn't matter because you're a grown-ass person taking care of business.

Wait, you have been living with your parents until you were 41? They must be 60-70 years old. Sooo you are leaving your elderly parents right when they are getting old and sick after leeching off of them for so long??

@@itsme-notyou tell that to them

One time my 3yr old broke my favorite china cup for my morning coffee. I expressed sadness that the cup was broken and cleaned it up but I didn't punish her cause she's too young to know what she had done and it was mostly on me for leaving it in a place where she could reach it. Another time my 6yr old broke my coffee press when it was accidentally bumped by the microwave door. Pure accident, he didn't get in trouble and he was already pretty sorry to begin with. To me, if there's regret without punishment they're more likely to learn from the experience and do better. The only freak out I had in that moment was while trying to clean up the coffee and broken glass and the 3yr old coming in the kitchen with bare feet.

True I have strict parents

Same, except my mom isn't strict, it's my dad.

My parents aren’t exactly strict but more of manipulating, well actually it’s my mom but my dad just stands by not doing anything and secretly talks to us about stuff. My mom is currently pregnant with her 8th and even though it’s another one of her kids I don’t accept the child as my sibling and I don’t have to, and for the entire time she been pregnant I’ve faked and pretend that I was happy for her and she believes me even thought at first I was pissed because yet again she lied and was irresponsible because our home is too small for our family and now she about to pop out another one. So to put that into perspective we live in a 4 bedroom 3 bathroom house for 9 people and it’s quite small especially for 9 people. And I fully believe the only way my mother will stop having kids is when she goes through menopause and I seriously hope she’s one of the women that get it sooner that most. She ruined my idea of pregnancy and motherhood because she’s basically a failure at motherhood, she feeds and teaches the younger ones but typically unless she decides to cook dinner or randomly make something for us we are on our own for feeding ourselves and don’t get me wrong, the older ones are fully capable of feeding ourselves and I’m grateful for when she does make us stuff to eat, but she doesn’t think I’m the age I am until it’s relevant to her and doesn’t think I’m mentally aware in the way I actually am. Sorry for the rant I’m just so tired or her and can’t wait to get away from her.

My thoughts, exactly. If the daughter turns to shoplifting (,which she most likely will), and has a police record, it'll be her mother's fault because she uses the child support money on indulging herself.😒

That is exactly what happened with me. Funnily enough, my parents agreed to one year child support even though i was eighteen, since i was living with my mom. The money was in checks made out to ME, and i was supposed to get it, and it was enough to pay rent each month in a $1000 a month apartment. But no, my mother made me pay 775 a month in rent when i made 800 per month and i still had to pay for everything i mysef needed like food and feminine protection items. We had a written agreement that was notarized and everything that i woukd pay at most 500. Eventually i got fed up of starving and not having pads and tampons, so i demanded she goby the legally binding agreement. She took my keys, gave me enough time to pack a suitcase and locked me out. I was on the lease as a paying tenant. My dad was in china for two months on an extended business trip. My boyfriend at the time was awesome enough to come get me and i lived with him until my dad came back. Lesson of the day: it was shitty. I was supposed to have money and be able to go to school but i was forced to wrk full time with bad pay and starved and was not allowed to learn to drive, by the way, and ended up illegally evicted, almost homeless, and I didn’t know i could uave taken legal action until it was too late. My dad had been told she’d given me the checks, he realized she was lying when i told him the actual situation. He showed me the record of the checks, because apparently i was supposed to know about the stuff too, and she’d told him i knew. I didn’t talk to my mother for three years until she got professional help, and even still, we have issues. She’s better now but not 100%, but definitely not like she was.

@@labaccident2010 Your fault for taking it -- you were 18 and had a legal document- should have had your father help you get an attorney

@@csnide6702 I didn’t even know there was child support money I was supposed to be getting until after I no longer lived with her and he asked me what happened to the money he was paying.

She sounds like my mum

I mean it's bad after a certain point but it's not bad if they don't go too far (personal experience)

finally someone that gets it

I think it should be a middle between strict and lax.

@@Keisha_S i think its the difference in having a good reason and explaining this reason you are being strict and not just saying "because I said so" without explaining anything. Ofcourse your kid is not always going to think something is dangerous/harmful/not a good idea if you dont explain it to them

@@nadiar.4638 I agree with that.

When you say it like that.....sounds exactly like a cult. Lol

@@SoManyRandomRamblings that's because mormonism IS a cult

Both the mom and daughter couldn't spell tomorrow.

🤣🤣🤣

Indoctrinating kids with religion and forcing them into it should be against the law.

And you probably also taught them, by how you acted the rest of the time, to trust that you _would_ explain later. :) Also, if you were like my dad, you probably also showed them that you only shouted when something was dreadfully wrong. Only time I can ever remember him getting a bit excited (he didn't even shout) was when my brother and I were tipping the lawnmower on its side to clean grass out and about to pour the motor oil out on the ground -- and, yup, we put it right back down quick, and he explained why.

I needed this

Thank you ❤

Thank you sm 💜💜💜

That has to hurt. I was also the one who got 88% in 12 and forever get compared to people.

2000₹ for 66%?? I got 94% and my dad gave me 500₹

I'm so sorry this happened to you ❤️

I once got a gift from a relative.....but they thought it would be fine with me to give to my cousin coz they won't have to buy anything for her I refused and my dad had beaten me infront of everyone since she is my cousin and I should share. His reply bcoz he's teaching me right behaviour? What I learnt: Try to avoid my Parents Talk less to them But I still don't know was it right I was just 12?

I'm sorry that happened to you. But I'm curious. Is it an Indian tradition to give your kids money or gold for good grades? Sounds so cool

Probably because she doesn't care that much about her child.

@@csnide6702 omg yeah you're right, it's my fault that I suddenly contracted a terminal illness that needs someone to take care of me right after I finished college :0 I should've just died out there alone, outside my parents' house! You're absolutely right ❤️

Yes Lmfaoo 😂😂

What was her reaction??

@@reneenevermore2771 right. You can't leave us hanging with the Karen neighbour

@@reneenevermore2771 she was furious with that and came over and I am good at mimicking people so I talked and stand in same way and was making fun of her and I called police and sue her for trespassing just like she sued my grandma, my grandma used to forget lot of things and that's why she managed to get lost and ended up in her property so I took a small revenge that's it

@@shwetarane9350 The fact that she immediately knew it was her you were mimicking is the best part.

Ikr?

As I mormon myself I find it disgusting that this mother is trying to force her own child to go the church, you shouldn't force things onto people let alone your own adult kid. Loving encouragement is great but if they say no that means no

Im so glad you were able to get away from that, power to you sweetie and I hope all is well!

@@Caelifer. I am! Aside from craziness this year I'm doing very well! (Though I hate this duty station, I dislike the state of WA. It's too damn expensive haha)

Parenting correctly. lol ♥

Meanwhile my parents telling me that is humiliating to have a son with piercings, only 'cuz they don't like it

When a kid asks "why" yes the parents DO owe at least an attempt at an explanation.

She also works a great job and makes great money... she was just coming up with ecuses. We were in the hospital for a month and not 1 visit. Still has only seen her 1x and I brought her, after driving 2hrs from our home, to see her.

I am glad your daughter is healthy now! You are very strong to have gone through that AND dealing with your mom.

@@candice9555 thank you so much!! She is definitely something else. It hurts. Especially seeing the way she treats my sister's child. Complete opposite. Have a good one love.

You have my respect for what you went through. Comfort and kindness from Singapore 🇸🇬.

@@suzi_mai 💗💗💗🙏