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YOU invite her into YOUR house because YOU care about her, and within a short time, she thinks it's HER HOUSE and she will act that way until she PUSHES YOU OUT!

My friend was in a civil case with his ex because they moved into a lake property that he'd inherited from his grandpa. After living there for a year with him, she wanted half the equity after the breakup. She "contributed" to the property by decorating and cleaning. She never won, but the litigation went on for more than a year. Don't give a mouse a cookie, fellas.

Relationships are like yard sales, from a distance they look interesting, but up close it’s just a bunch of shit you don’t need.

I'm a retired doctor that is straight, and never married. I lived with a couple of good women, but ended both relationships after a few years. My dating years were amazing for decades. A rich, successful male patient of mine asked me " Doc. You never got married? I replied " No. I guess I haven't found the right one. " He replied " What made you so damn smart?" I was speechless. He replied "Don't change anything Doc." I never did. This video helps me maintain my perspective. 3 day weekends or short trips are great, to different surprise places, then back to my separate life and bed. Better peace of mind, and no problem saying " No."

100 % Absolutely right My ex moved in to my house with her kids after the lease on her rented house came to an end. After 2 years of living apart in our own homes I thought I knew her well enough to live with her. I WAS VERY WRONG. I have made just a short list of MANY of her behaviours which I didn't expect at all (Because I didn't think she was like this as I THOUGHT I KNEW her: 1. I didn't realise how co- dependent & 'entitled' she was. Even though she constantly was going on about how a "Strong Independent woman" she was. Absolute hypocrite. 2. I didn't realise how bad she was with money management & budgeting. 3. She was always broke 2 weeks before her next pay day & came to me for money - Even for her kids bus fare, lunch money or school clothes. (I would lend her the money for the kids school clothes or school trips but she NEVER paid it back) 4. She used emotional blackmail saying things like: 'Well you are my partner & you love me don't you? Men are 'supposed to' support the women they love". 5. She became very defiant & argumentative. -If I tried to calmly & quietly to give her any advice or my opinion on topics or situations she was stuck with which SHE brought up, "I was "Patronising her". 6. She would blow up over the slightest little thing & cause an argument over it(Crying over spilt milk) if I didn't argue back or if I walked away she would get even more aggressive. 7. I would come home from work & there would be strangers in my house without her asking me first She said things like "Oh, I just thought you would be ok with Sarah from work coming over & staying for dinner" (Whaaat??!!) 8. We had a very short brief conversation one day in whether we should have wood flooring or carpets which we both agreed to have a think about & discuss again later. One day I came home from work & she had pulled ALL the carpets out of EVERY room of the house & thrown them all over the back lawn. 9. I bought her a decent used car for her birthday & surprised her with a massive ribbon on it, balloons the whole works. I paid the full year road tax, her insurance & i serviced it for her myself. I told her the next year when her road tax & insurance expired it was her responsibility to renew it. When next year came around she came to me to cover all the costs. Suprise, Suprise. 10. Her (Trainwreck) friend would call her very late at night & spend an hour complaining about men & she would complain to her about me. 11. She stopped giving me any affection & would spend hours at night on her phone. If I came home after a long weekend with my mates after missing her & expecting to walk through the door for her to greet me with open arms & a hug or a cuddle , I never got it. 12. THIS IS THE POINT YOU MISSED RICH. HER BAD HABITS. When you live with a woman for a while & they become comfortable with you, all the nasty habits are revealed. - I would be relaxing in the bath after a long day of dirt biking & she would walk in sit on the pan & take a sh1t. - Whether it was on the sofa or in bed she would fart. Even loud raspy wet farts. - She snored like a Rhino. After calmly discussing it with her & suggest getting a special pillow or even enhaling Vicks before bed, she never did. - Morning breath & seeing all the spots & greasy skin without her makeup -She would bite & pick her nails whist we were watching our favourite T.V shows or films together. -When I had to use her car & she knew I had to use it the fuel tank was always emptying. She would even drive to work in a morning to drop kids off at school with the fuel light on. -Especially during winter, instead of doing one load of washing, hanging it up letting it dry then putting it away, She would put continuous loads of washing in the washing machine, so we had wet washing hung every where in the house all over the place. My mates would come round & say ..."What the f**k?!" I was so miserable & stressed out with it all that after finishing work I would park up in a quiet spot for an hour because I didn't want to go home as just never knew what I would be walking into. ....And that is just part of it. NEVER, EVER LIVE WITH A WOMAN. Live apart, always see her looking her best & having her best attitude & having her best manners for you. PEACE OUT ✊🙏🤟

Learned that a long time ago (late 90's) when i worked at a Courthouse and saw men get ripped apart by the system. I hope a lot of men get the message. Listen to this guy young men.

I’ve been married for 44 years. I’ll never divorce my wife. She has poor health also. But if anything should happen to her, there’s no way I’m ever signing up for this again.

Exactly right, 100%. Never, ever live with a woman. All the mystery and desire begins to leak out of the relationship the moment you move in together. Everything begins to get far too familiar and stagnant, small things become hugely annoying. You need to live apart, you need to miss each other so that you look forward the time you spend together. Worst thing I ever did was move in with my ex. I still believe that if we’d never moved in together, we would probably still be together. I’ll never, ever live with a woman ever again, even if I absolutely love her to bits. I learned the lesson.

My favorite chapter in the book is “Why smart men avoid marriage “ 🤘🏼👌🏼👌🏼

I Was Married For 20 Years. Gents, Take It From Me, Don't Get Married Unless You're Prepared To Lose Half Of Everything You've Ever Earned. I Won't Be Able To Retire Until I'm 70. Remember That.

As someone who grew up without a brother, it warmed my heart that you started your video by calling us your brothers. Thanks for this important message!

My uncle told me years ago, if you get married buy 2 houses, one for her and one for you. Now 20 years later, I understand fully what he was trying to say.

For a relationship to work, it needs a few fundamental elements: 1. Interest in each other. 2. Boundaries set early and clearly, and agreed to. 3. Honesty with each other [as soon as you start to transgress the boundaries and hide the transgressions, that's the beginning of the end - and while the initial transgression can often be forgiven, hiding it and indulging it leads to the unforgivable, breaking the relationship]. 4. Continuing to create the relationship. This is making time for each other as well as working towards common goals. Been with the same woman 31 years now, 25 married, and we still very much enjoy each other's company and look forwards to seeing each other. She's the type to go out of her way to bring me lunch even though I'm at a work site an hour away, just to see me for 15 minutes. Why is she still like this? Because she puts in the work in the points I outlined above. Most women leave things on automatic at best, transgress at worst. Add to that financial incentives by the State, at the expense of the husband, and that's why women overall are unreliable as companions - and why marriage breakups are the norm. Edited to fix mobile misspellings...

34 years married, first marriage for both of us. In bliss. Husband love wife. Wife reverence Husband. Forgive one another. Be committed until death. Divorce is not an option. Take care of the basic needs (food, clothing, shelter). We love each other because neither of us are in love with all the excess of the world.

The best marriage is when a man is not in love with the woman and the woman is in love with him. He's focused on his purpose and can make unemotional decisions.

Living with a woman is the most difficult thing I’ve ever done in my life and I’ve been in the military during 3 conflicts and that was easier to handle. My ex wife started to gain weight immediately after our marriage. Then the sex dried up like the Sahara desert and the relationship became argumentative and toxic. The same exact thing happened with my 2 ex girlfriends. first comes the weight gain, sex dries up, relationship becomes boring and monotonous then the toxic arguments. it's better to live alone and spend time with a woman for sex from time to time.

Great video. The Court of Appeal for Ontario case Rich referred to in this video is Climans v. Latner, 2020 ONCA 554 (CanLII). The court held that partners in a committed relationship can still be considered spouses under Ontario law, even though they maintain separate households throughout their entire relationship. A few of the facts that got the guy tripped up in this case: a) they exchanged “commitment” rings, b) they celebrated their anniversary every year, c) there was an expectation that she was always available to him, d) the economic dependency she had on him (that he helped create) from almost the beginning of the relationship. Within one month of meeting, she quit her job to be with him. He then started to cover her expenses, support her children from a previous marriage, and he gave her a monthly allowance. This case should be a lesson to everyone in Canada considering cohabitation and/or financially supporting their significant other.

Video is spot on! Had a 'perfect' relationship for one year, then the girl moves in (to the home I bought before we met and paid the mortgage 100% before/after meeting) and it went downhill for ALL of the reasons you mentioned: she started changing/moving items around the house, getting pissed at me for inconsequential things like leaving my shoes near the front door instead of on the shoe rack, and wanting me to refer to the house as 'ours' and not 'mine'. Just a nightmare.

I lived with a woman twice and it was the worst mistakes I’ve made in life. Lost a ton of money trying to make them happy and was a prisoner of my own space. I couldn’t even walk upstairs to use the lav without being questioned. Once they started questioning me about what time I came home from work.; I normally would get home around 11:15is and if I came in at 11:23p I was asked where was I. I got out of those situations fast and never rue we back.

I honestly don't know what I was thinking letting my gf and her kids move in to my house, it lasted a yr and they got comfortable disrespecting me and even calling the house theirs. They did absolutely nothing to clean, or contribute in any way. I paid all the bills, cleaned, yard work, cook, all they did was make tiktoks and be on FB. I even had to clean the girls room because they absolutely refused and the mom, my gf had zero control over them. Never again!

This video is spot on!! I've had great relationships but was pressured to moving in together. Everything you said happened and I ended up being miserable. I actually got depressed and the happiest I was while living together was those brief moments I had to myself. Living together was so smothering, you can't breathe. And the few experiences I had they spent most of their time trying to change me or complain about the smallest things. It got so bad I used to stay late at the office just to avoid going home.

The far majority of any relationship has an END. You do not want to live with somebody when it is time to move on.

I heard a marriage counselor say that living together has a tendency to breed disrespect and contempt. Once it starts it’s a slippery Slope.

I have been with my girl for over four years now and we haven't lived together. We love each other with a burning desire the same if not more than we did when we first met. Now that I have watched this I will definitely consider holding off moving in for as long as I can!

I have the privilege of knowing some of the personal details of older couples' lives because of my job. I don't get to know everything, but I have noticed the older ladies have the utmost respect for their husbands. I don't think I've ever seen younger women with the same levels of respect for men.

Bottom line: Never impress a woman, only keep chasing excellence. Reward her only once in a while. It's that simple.

Happily married 28 years. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, only imperfect people that refuse to give up on each other. I can’t imagine my life without my husband. I believe he would say the same.

This goes beyond romantic relationships, living with almost anyone strains the relationship.

been divorced for 15 years....had been going out with a lady for 8 years....ultimatium call came about 18 months ago....the ole "do you intend on living with me ever" response: not ANYTIME SOON....click that was the end of that....i started thinking maybe there is something wrong with me as I dont have ANY DESIRE to live with a woman....thanks for the validation

Accurate video. Tried it twice, NEVER EVER AGAIN: women dramatically negatively change. They get extremely demanding, entitled, and the sex disappears or becomes less enthusiastic. They get whiney, needy, and bitchy as well. And, you can easily be evicted from YOUR home by the state and lose all your assets. And seriously open yourself up to false DV or raison allegations, which means PRISON, CAREER RUIN, etc.

A young man's father says " Get a job "! A young woman's mother says " Get a man! " Woman are trained to expect "Special Treatment ", and a free ride forever.

The main problem is that they are full of drama, entitlement, and control and honestly, that is boring!!!

PS if a girl leaves a comb, clothes or a toothbrush at your place, she thinks she owns you now.

Rich referred to the study a few times in regards to the intense romantic feelings lasting in only 13% of couples after 3 years. Frankly, I am surprised it is even that high! I the book “the five love languages”, one of the most profound things I learned was that on average, this feeling only lasts about 18 months, but this love is taken over by a deeper love that happens in a maturing relationship. What we are seeing nowadays is the manifestation of a society that is incredibly shallow and selfish that seems incapable of providing the sacrificial type of love we need to have to maintain a long term relationship. People at that point are doomed to be in an endless cycle of seeking a relationship”high” until in wears off and they need their next fix!

Love is not a feeling. Its a decision. When we have a girlfriend, it's a period to get to know this woman. Find out her virtues and her Flaws. Then IF we trust and believe in her, we DECIDE to ACCEPT her. With her good and bad things. Nobody is perfect. And romantic love doesn't last forever. Its scientifically proved even. Its a matter of KNOW WELL the woman BEFORE living together.

Yes, if you don't want a family don't move in with a man or a woman don't play house. If you are selfish and shallow please don't get married and don't shack up with someone.If you want a Family (kids) If you are some one who can put others before your self then get married. My husband and I married 31 years ago we had kids , went through very hard times together and got through them together. Our life was not a fairytale we fought and still fight about things because we are both very bullheaded . But we love each other and will stay together until death parts us. My husband doesn't lke being away from me for very long. We both work at home and if we don't talk much because we are busy he tells me that he mised me that day because he didn't get to talk to me.

Sharing a household with a modern woman is doomed to fail. Have separate households and stay over at each other instead. When the girl knows you can easily bail out anytime because you have your own place she will respect you more.

Romantic relationships become impositions after awhile. Nothing's worse than wanting desperately to leave a situation and not being able to. I'm formerly married and would never do it again.

Me and my girl live together and we’re both the happiest we’ve ever been . It’s fn great living with her , best thing I ever did . We’re very happy , our home and our relationship together is our safe place

I'm a single guy who sometimes feels down over the fact that I'm not married or in an LTR like most of my friends who I grew up with are. This was a great video to hear. It always seems like the grass is greener on the other side. It's good to remind myself that 50% of marriages end in divorce and probably another 15 or 20 percent are just staying together for the sake of the kids, so you're talking two-thirds of married people don't even want to be there anymore LOL. So maybe my situation isn't so bad.

When a vvoman lives with you, she thinks she 'owns' you and she can control you and change you in some way. Eventually, she will realize that she cannot change or control you (or the things you do, or have) and she will begin to resent that, and she will start to get angry at you, and eventually that anger will break up your relationship. So if you want to keep the relationship together, don't let her live with you.

This works well for dating - I would say 1% of women who are in a serious relationship who want a family will want to live separately and be cool with it - no matter your value or frame. Starting a family and having kids without living together? Let's be real here. You are past the marriage phase and already have kids so of course while being in a relationship with girls at your age there is zero need to live together.

I have a 13 y.o son and his mother and I never lived together and we get along great. She is still trying to lock me down and as long as I maintain that distance she still has respect for me.

Wives don't realize that husbands also get bored, but the husband understands that a healthy relationship will be boring because it means no drama, no chaos. Life in general is boring. If we had fun all the time, we'd be broke and eventually get bored of fun. Life isn't perfect. Doing life with someone you genuinely love is the closest thing to perfect.

I am 67 years of age and you're absolutely right. I wish I knew these when I was much younger. All the best 👍👍

Well said Rich, remember guys, "familiarity breeds contempt". If your girl rolls her eyes at you, take notice as this is exactly what contempt is. Pay more attention to her actions not words. There is a reason companies have one CEO, ships one captain.

Lived with wife 2 years before we got married. Been married happily 33 years.

I read the comments and as a widow in her early 60's I can say that for 32 years I had an amazing man whom I respected and he respected me, (as far as I know) and was taken from me by God. I can only speak for myself and I believe the "golden rule" is missing from so many lives here! I will take the things these men are saying into consideration when deciding if I want to live with a man again. My marriage was very blessed and I'm wondering if people aren't living Christ centered lives anymore. Treat others the way you want to be treated, is a concept that feels forgotten in these comments. I'm so sorry that divorce is so hard and unfair on men and I don't have any experience with this it's just my observation in dating divorced men. I want to remarry someday but the man needs to love Christ Jesus first and foremost as I do. God help us if we learn to live alone and selfish the rest of our days forgetting that to love another is "to will the good of the other" to help each other become better humans daily.

I knew a couple like this in the late 1990s. They each had their own 2BDR condo in the same development, about 500' apart. His place was a pig pen, her place was spotless. They ate dinner together most nights, had movie nights, went on weekend trips together. They were very happy and stayed together until his death.

Rich is right. The genuine burning desire is maintained when the couple does not live together. I’ve been with my BF in a long term relationship and we live in our own houses. Due to work and his kids, we have a routine schedule of when we see each other and it has been working out well. We text and talk everyday but we give each other space which actually makes us miss each other and bc we miss each other, passion stays alive.

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Damn, am I that rare? The strongest indicator that my relationship is good is that I'm glad to go home at the end of the day. Our roles are clearly defined even though we both work. We laugh alot together and genuinely enjoy each others company.

Great advice. Have you ever had your girlfriend sitting on the couch watching Netflix and just think to yourself, 'When are you leaving?' You may love her to bits, but not as much as you love your peace and tranquility.

This is so eye opening. I mean I could have gone blind dating a single mom hoping something good would turn out eventually. But thanks to this pod cast, now I will look before I make a leap.

When I got married and we moved into our new house , I asked my wife if I could have my own bedroom, she said no

The relationships that I've seen people always happy in are when they have to be apart at times due to work. You don't get tired of each other because you're not always together and and start to miss each other.

Just WHY?…. I’m soooo jaded in terms of women. I literally have NO desire for women. I’m so entrenched in work and my pricey hobbies and don’t want drama and pointless expense in my life.

Disgust, disdain, contempt. If you see any of these, bail immediately. Half of the problem with bad thinking & bad behaving in women could be solved if men left earlier. Train yourself not to overlook the little signs, the 'micro-communications' that women will give off. If you choose the 'wrong' grocery store line and she sneers & has a look of annoyance. Sadly, it's the man's job to keep an eye on all this.

Heeey I knew you were from Toronto my dude, good to see another one here...

In my opinion you're right about most of what you said and wrong about the topic of the video. The point is to meet all the expectations you're laying out, but there's absolutely no reason that living together will sabotage the relationship. I feel at a certain point it will 100% be expected and if it doesn't happen, that itself will also sabotage the bond and relationship. You bring up great points, but if you can't live with another person and keep the chemistry alive.... then, that's a fault of your own. There's plenty of happy marriages that are life long.

The article about the rich guy who had to pay $50,000 a month is REAL. National Post Sep 10, 2020. Don't let your PP ruin your life guys!

Can confirm. Married long time. Went on epic post divorce binge. Dozens and dozens of MILFS. Found “the one” moved her in. A year later all the passion is gone. Effing shoot me

Nowadays, people complicate simple things. Married people living together has never been an issue untill we as generation grew too sensitive.

If you lack relationship skills, everything he says is spot on. Even so, he makes a lot of good points. You just have to realize that we're not here to consume. Men are here to lead their families, including their wives. That takes leadership. If you don't have that, you're going to have exactly what he describes.

*Attraction grows in space. Never forget that gentlemen*

In a world where women can make their own money, this makes not only sense, but it starting to become obvious.

Genius. I needed to hear that. Thank you

Crazy how this popped up in my feed! I’m literally in process of looking for a new place and my lady is already looking into how she wants to decorate but hasn’t mentioned anything about a down payment or security deposit

I think you are right. There is nothing better than going home when she starts being annoying. All women get annoying after a while. Historically men would always leave the house in the morning and be away, for some times days. It's natural not being around her all the time.

Experienced this first hand bc my fiancé inherited a house that her father left her when he passed away. Shit went south shortly after we moved in. I’ll never do that again.

I’m 42 years old, relatively attractive, 6’3”, 200lbs and in good shape. Women and sex have always come easy to me throughout my life. I’ve come to realize that sex means next to nothing to me now, I don’t crave it, I don’t care. Sex is the only thing that women give us that we can’t give ourselves. Therefore, I have zero use for women.

This was so much fun to watch.

My best friend has been living with his girlfriend for 6 years and says she moans non stop and whenever they argue he has to capitulate otherwise she won't shut up. And he lives by "happy wife, happy life..."

I can guarantee that if your girlfriend wants to move in with you she will find a way to make it almost impossible for you to not let her do it without breaking up. I know someone who’s girlfriend told him that her landlord suddenly decided to evict her from her apartment to do some renovations. She asked him to live with him for a few months. It turned out that she just stopped paying her rent so that’s why she was evicted. She had no intention to find another apartment and he ended up having to hire a lawyer to evict her. She was hoping that after a few months he wouldn’t want her to go.

If some man, thinks that he loves me but he only wants to live apart, but he wants us to have sex, that would not fly for me. NO SEX EVER with out marriage. And that man better have 0 bodies in his closet. Only one man and one woman, in marriage, for life. That or nothing at all. A man doesn't want to do that, fine, be gone. DO not come back.

It’s a shame what this world has come to, no family values, entitlement, no respect. My bf and I live together, he works his ass off. I work at a desk and take care of the house and my family. He helps as he wants.. I’m 31 but very traditional! I hope one day this country wakes up ❤

My Uncle was a pilot, and lived “ that lifestyle “ , for over thirty years, before he retired. He has been happily married for 50 years now. He recently came out, and told the family “my father” his brother, “that he wasn’t in love with his wife until recently”, at 65 years old. His wife was a business partner, and not a sex object. Not that I disagree, but there are other relationship arrangements. We won’t talk about what he was doing while flying all over the world for thirty year’s though, I do vividly remember being a little kid, and him telling my father how much he loved Australia! As an adult I once asked him about traveling and “ Australia “, but he didn’t want to talk about Australia and somehow had forgotten how much he loved it. Get Rich Coopers book for success with life and women!

As a woman, I agree with this content. I was married at the very young age of 21 and was with my ex-husband for 23 years. As I grew into a more mature woman, I realized that I wanted my own space and didn’t want to always be with my husband in the raw. Unfortunately, he had no friends outside of our home or extracurricular hobbies to keep him busy without me. I believe this was a consequence of him, being much older than I. I remember, a few years before our divorce, I asked for separate bedrooms, and he declined. He said if he wanted an empty bed, he wouldn’t have gotten married. Now, that I am 47 years old, I will never live with a man again unless I have my own bedroom and bathroom. There needs to be a separation with your romantic lover, so that mystery and desire stays alive. I haven’t dipped into the dating pool yet, but I’m in no hurry. It’s scary out here.

Hey sir, where were you 10 years before? Why I didn't see this video at least one decade before? I fully agree with everything. Thank you smart man, late is always better than never.

I think not living together keeps the passion alive. Like seeing a friend once a week whose company you miss. It allows for some build up of sexual energy as well. The day of meeting creates a sense of yearning for each other. By never giving the woman a live in situation, you constantly keep her in a state of wanting more. This can be tricky, but smooth words can ease her tension. Once she experiences how passionate it is, she will accept the situation.

I have several rental properties and my girlfriend actually lives in one of them and pays me rent. I just live in another house with my mom. It actually works out because she doesn't want to deal with my mom and my mom doesn't want to live alone either since my dad passed away. Since my girl is month to month without a lease, I can legally just give her a 30 day notice if things don't work out between us. She is free to go and I don't have to deal with getting screwed over.

very good podcast. good voice. good flow. great conversation

This is a great video! Thanks Rich! I learned the hard way that everything you are saying is true, it is nice to be reminded of these gems of facts from you Rich, women have magical powers as we all know as men, and it is very easy to be persuaded by them to get back into the same situation that we were lucky to have escaped previously. We need to be mindful at all times that they are always casting a spell on us. Haha! 😂

Number 1 tip from me guys is to never "fall in love with your lady" love her and find one that loves you. Never fall though, peace out and have a great day.

Rich, I just want to say thank you for this content. I’ve been listening to you for about half a year and the red pill is slowly sinking in. You completely changed the way I look at my relationships with women. I still have a lot of work to do on my looks and status sides, but your knowledge gave me a lot of space and freedom to work with. Thank you keep it up

Living together is over rated and not needed unless they have a written agreement in case the relationship dissolves.

Thanks for your perspective 👍

Societal values is the real problem . Narcissistic , sociopathic , psychopathic personalities are everywhere today from government , media , education . Integrity is a foreign concept to most people .

Attraction grows in space. She has to have time to think about you, wonder, fantasize, ruminate, butterflies fluttering, anxiety building and building until she can’t wait to see you. As long as you keep an aura of mystery about yourself and keep a healthy amount of distance in the relationship, you will keep those butterflies fluttering in her gut. That’s crucial. You cannot bore women. This is why situationships are a thing with modern women. They’re addicted to the anxiety and uncertainty. She doesn’t hear back from him for a week, then he hits her with the “hey big head come over” text at midnight and next thing you know, she’s driving 2 hours in the rain to see him.

excellent video i thought i was crazy for having come to the same conclusion. I came to the realization that living together was not the best option when I noticed that after vacation the relationship seems to go better. time apart allowed us time to miss each other.

It went from : I’ll be there in 20 minutes, make sure you’re naked, to: I’ll be there in 20 minutes, please don’t bother me, I have a headache.

The only bill you can split living together is the rent/mortgage. When you live with a woman its; water bill X4, gas bill X3, electricity bill X3, cost for food inluding wining and dining X10, Fuel cost at least X2, etc etc etc. The list goes on and on.

Long time ago, a Nat Geographic show on TV, or somekind of anthropology documentary, this was back in the 70s, showed a tribe in Africa where after marriage, the wife stayed with her family and the man continued to live with his family. For sex, the man would visit his wife's family and basically ask her for a date. When I saw this, I thought it was terrible, but after 2 marriages and finally learning of red pill, I realize that this tribe had a pretty good system.

Great video, the way I handle this is that I allow my fiance, soon to be wife to live with me, but I have chosen a career path that has me on the road at least a few days a month if not more. I send her pictures and videos of me my coworkers (some females younger than her) having a great time at company events. I find this generates enormous competition anxiety that she tries to hide. When I get home, she is completely focused on me, she does her best to give me great sex and she does not nag me at all. I am totally faithful to her and she is reassured of that but I allow in just enough doubt into her mind for her to understand that she needs to stay competitive. Does this plan have lots of faults and traps? probably, but it works for me and provides and alternative to simply not living with your LTR of spouse. great video Rich, I loved unplugged Alpha. Keep up the great work.

Oh snap! I had no idea you were based on my City!!!! I recognized it the second I saw you driving on Adelaide 😊

Hi rich , I’ve been watching you for a long while. Your content and information is always a life saver, thank you.

Just got out of a marraige in 2020 that ended up with a lot of deception. However, i got 50/50 custody and am past the statue of limitations and am doing financially beter and in a new house while she lives with her parents. I will not go through that again, but I admit its a challenge being a single father of 1 little boy and two pre teen girls. Dating in the 2020's is much, much diffrent than the late 90's/ early 2000's.

He hit that right on the nose …haven’t heard it quite like this…that you sir. Salute

A tip for those already shacked up. REST IN DIFFERENT ROOMS. Giving you your own personal space so she doesn’t have to always be under you, you can enjoy your solitude and she can build desire through not being next to you every second.