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Be blunt and unapologetic, and don't show any emotions. If that doesn't work walk away and never look back. It works 100% of the time.

She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Once she starts disrespecting you, your turn is over.

They hate when you stay silent because it's the sign of someone reevaluating their options.

I think it is very true that a disrespectful woman is showing you that she doesn't believe you to be her best option.

"Never argue with morons. They will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience." ~Mark Twain

I'm no psychic, but, I'm pretty sure that simply saying "yellow card" is gonna make most women flip their shit.

I inadvertently stumbled upon this strategy with my wife about a year ago. I got fed up with all the petty little arguments and negative comments so I just started leaving the room whenever she tried to engage with me in that manner. I didn't say anything; I didn't acknowledge the behavior in any way - I simply turned and left the room, either going to my office and closing the door or going somewhere else where she was not able to continue to communicate. Sometimes I would turn and leave the room in the middle of a sentence if her attitude or behavior was unacceptable, so I definitely made it noticeable. Slowly, it dawned upon her that certain behaviors would result in a complete removal of attention, and I noticed a significant change in her attitude within a few weeks. An unintended side effect I noticed was that I was getting much more accomplished on certain projects with the increased office and alone time.

Been married 11 years this year and I can verify this works when said properly with little emotion. I tell her, "I'm sorry but I'm not going to engage this way". Fellas it's our duties to be good men, they just don't tell us how hard it can be sometimes.

This isn't just for women; it works with all argumentative people.

Always remember- Never approach a Bull from the front, a horse from the back or a FOOL from any direction !!!

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I take myself out of the situation. I have kicked women out of my home, removed myself from Facebook over it. I can only blame myself for staying in a bad situation. I had the power to fix it and I did.

A disrespectful woman is immediately abandoned. No room for negotiating nonsense.

I do this already because i grew up with a VERY toxic mother, she would try and bait me into an argument and if you bit back she could play the victim and paint you as the bad person. When my mum tries to argue about something i pretend she doesn't exist, it's pointless arguing with women. I think it's partly why i have zero patience with women, if they are naggy and argumentative i just can't be around them at all.

I'm learning more and more that women have a harder time letting go of resentments and trauma than men do. This makes them unable to connect with their heart. In turn, it makes them unapologetic and argumentative. If they are unable to admit when they are wrong and won't apologize, that means they have emotional baggage. I confronted my wife about this in a calm and concise matter, and things have improved DRASTICALLY. It's been night and day. If your lady still harbors resentments from past relationships or pain from past traumas, she will eventually resent you. They have to learn to forgive others and forgive themselves before they can be a functional partner.

Great vid! I’ve been married 42 years. Three years ago I decided to keep a diary of the negative interactions with my wife. (The yellow and red marked on a calendar is much less work.) It’s abundantly clear that I need to get divorced. I spoke with our friend Jonathan Noble, Esq. and he pointed me in the right direction. Freedom, peace & quiet are just around the corner.

I have a married friend who never goes straight home after work. He either goes to a bar, gym, or golf driving range before ever going home. He knows as soon as he walks into the house, all of his wife's problems that day will be dumped on him. So he decompresses after a long day on the job by doing stuff he enjoys.

I’m a woman and I approve this message. Boundaries are important.

I'm a retired Private Investigator that spent much time in financial matters including hidden assets in divorce cases. In every situation the client was a woman, convinced the ex was holding out. I also worked with reputation management lawyers in part to discover who was behind the extortion of men by allegedly aggrieved parties. One case was so pernicious that the client was forced to spend upwards of $300,000.00 to cleanse the internet of weaponized defamation. Part of my job was to get between the attacker and the victim so therefore I too was attacked. We eventually got a defamation judgment against the "women", which of course will never be paid. It was just one of the events created by these predators.

There is truth to that, as soon as things are going good, they instantly start looking for something to complain about, EVEN IF IT HAPPENED 5 YEARS AGO. It's beyond toxic.

I was a bouncer. The patrons never respected the hot head bouncers. They were always intimidated by emotionlessness.

I've done this. What they do is they eventually figure out that you aren't engaging with them because you believe they are too emotional. What then happens is they seek attention from other men and then cheat on you eventually. There is no winning. Just be ready to ghost them when it seems like it's getting to that point.

My parents have both told me that they got into one serious argument when they first started dating and that my father told her that if they were going to argue again that they would be over. I've not ever heard them argue and they've been married over 50 years.

To your pig analogy at about 1:20; it reminds me of one of my favorite sayings that is similar to what you are expressing “Never teach a pig to sing; it wastes your time and annoys the pig.” As I mature I find this phrase so often fits situations where this a difference in opinion or perspective, with male or female; often it’s a waste of time and it annoys the other person when you try to convince them of your position. And, if you’re comfortable that you’re right or your opinion or perspective is accurate, if the other person disagrees, leave it alone. Move on. It’s OK to be right and not convince the other person you’re right. Hopefully they will figure it out eventually on their own; at least you planted the seed.

No lies detected, I stopped arguing with women last year. It’s no point to the madness

My 2.5 year relationship , after it ended she told my friend that she would start arguments just to see how I would handle it.....yep

Sometimes, just calmly walking away does the trick

Ive used this technique with all of my daughters I was so tired of them arguing about 1 more bed time story. I sent them all to foster care before they were in kindergarten.

I was married twice. The first one passed away suddenly after 19 years, and she was the good one. The second one I divorced in 2015. I never argued with either one. Women are just children in adult bodies. I just stopped talking, and I would leave the house if I had to and come back later. My second wife got so mad she told me to sleep on the couch, and I told her no, I'm not sleeping on the couch. I'm sleeping in this bed I paid for. The emphasis on every altercation with a woman is using the word no.

As a 64 year old single man……..agree 💯 with everything you said. 👍No response IS a response 🙂

Unfortunately many women, like my ex, will keep escalating to the point they file divorce. I do not think my ex really wanted a divorce, but that was the next level. I think the thing men have to understand is that women make very foolish decisions and there is really no training them.

It's fine to walk away if you're dating an argumentative woman. It's a bit harder when the problem woman is your mother. Like JayC below, my mother unfortunately seems to enjoy picking fights and arguments. She has developed a bad habit whereby, if we're talking and I disagree with her, she will go silent and then get up and leave the room. Then she wonders why I'm not married!

It's difficult to not fight with women today. I know a lot of good and successful men, who are definitely willing to compromise for the right woman. The problem is that we all wind up dealing with these ran-through, medicated, entitled, manipulative, drama-filled, emotional-baggage-carrying, train wrecks. Most guys I know don't have time to deal with all of that, in return for a little company. These women think nothing of sleeping with another man the second they don't get their way, and the drama starts so quickly, you can't even get to a point where you can take them seriously. I think feminism and entitlement ultimately caused most of them to lose their minds.

I remember as a child my mom flipping out on my dad, it got so bad she went back in the bedroom and got his gun. She came back out flipping and pointed the gun at his head. My father said in a very calm voice..Go ahead, my problems will be over and yours just beginning. They have both passed, married till the end but I find myself at 62 feeling the same way my dad did. After 3 marriages and now with an wonderful woman, I just dont let anyone or anything raise my temper.

I do something similar in conversations as well. When she starts talking, I always ask that she say "I want you to listen" or "I want you to fix". I also don't engage in arguments anymore. I usually suggest some time apart (no more than 10-20) minutes for us to think on it, and then come back together. Drives them nuts, but that is a hard boundary for me, and it has worked, or they can move on.

Leave the situation, be stoic all you want. If they want your attention and are toxic & narcissist a couple of things might happen: Escalation tactic #1) If kids are involved count on emotional blk mail. Escalation tatic #2) Abuse of finances if ( Married,) Escalation tatic #3) involve family members or authorities Optional Escalation tatic: Character Assassination. His advice is spot on, you just have to make sure you have all of your vulnerabilities locked down air tight, the slightest weakness will be exploited Because trust & believe if its important to you they will use it as a button to push And using children is fair game... Stoicism is typically challenged by all sorts of vindictive behavior that can last for years.... Make sure your a zen master in Stoicism you'll need it to counter years of petty attempts of emotional pay back And like an Elephant they never forget It'll come up in an argument 78yrs later.

"Never wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty and the pig likes it." --George Bernard Shaw

I heard an old Scottish story, I'll skip the details, here's what happens... After the wedding, the groom is taking his new bride home in a horse drawn carriage. At some point, the horse gets a little wild and bounces the carriage a bit. The groom gets down, goes up and says to the horse, "That's once!" A bit later, it happens again... "That's twice!" A third time, the horse starts, jostling the carriage. The groom goes up to the horse, says "That's three times", and then he shoot the horse dead. At this, the bride goes nuts, berating him for shooting the horse. He turns to her and says, "That's once!"

You never leave your own house. That is your house and you never ever relinquish that to a woman. Especially if she wants a divorce. If she's uncomfortable she can leave!!!

This is THE best advice I have heard yet. I have heard the whole spectrum myself and I came to the conclusion that I was just not going to play the games anymore. I love the analogy and am going to use it. 👍🏻👍🏻

Stay stoic fellas. I bought a house and the previous couple had a young child. Evident by the playset in backyard and yellow walls in one of the bedrooms. They had left a breastpump below one of the bathroom sinks that was in all the cleaning supplies. Fast foward a few years later a girl i dated had found it and over the coarse of the next few months she thought i had Secret child and would stop harrashing me over it. It was insane.

As a guy in his 60's it took me a long time to learn not to roll with pigs. I don't even yellow card. I just walk away and break communication. They don't deserve my time, attention or presence.

An ancient proverb reads, "it's better to live on the corner of a roof than with an antagonistic woman".

Clear and concise Rich! The best as usual!

For us middle aged men…never be in a long term relationship with a woman you’re in love with. Make a sound choice based on her merits and what she brings to the partnership, not your emotions. When you know you can find a better option and would be perfectly happy without her setting boundaries and maintaining your frame will be easy. Being “head over heels” is for the young. You’re essentially telegraphing to the world you’re emotionally compromised and she will instinctively try to take advantage of that. Relationships are an exchange of value in the end. Maintain yours at all cost and you’ll be a happy man.

I graduated a plate to GF, exclusive for 5 years (separate homes). I noticed a decline in fitness and care over several months, while I got jacked. One evening at a group gathering she hit me with a mildly snarky comment (mild contempt). I nexted immediately. My thinking, if she even imagines contempt she no longer sees me as her best option.

Man. I just love how you put it,keep preaching my brother. Love from kenya.

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Learned long ago never argue with any woman. If they are being disrespectful immediately tell them what your issue is with them calmly. Immediately and calmly is the key fellas. Never allow yourself to go nuclear. If they don't apologize to you or their behavior doesnt improve, that should tell you all you need to know.

This is why you can't redpill women especially. Don't waste your time, even if you're trying to help them see why their relationships fail. They don't actually want answers when they ask, they just want attention and empathy, which can really be annoying for a man that wants to solve problems, not dwell on them.

Sweet! Thanks for the advice...Gonna implement this today!

I’ve been done! We have a daughter that’s about 5 now…but it’s becoming too toxic to continue even to help with the daughter together so I’m out ASAP! We seemingly became totally different post pregnancy or she lied from the beginning. So she wants control so it’ll be without me around. It’s crazy and not worth subjecting a young one to the nonsense.

Lesson from Dale Carnegie: the best way to win an argument is to avoid it

I tolerate absolutely ZERO of their BS. it's kept me healthy, wealthy, on path to early retirement, hobbies, peace, zero debt and none of them wasting my time. You're on the program of building a great life, or not. Keep the ones that aren't as far away from what you've got going for you. (Hint: it's, easily, 99%+ of westernized ones.)

I love what you talked about. I dealt with a problematic woman on Monday when a group of my co-workers went out. This girl who is new to our work place went out with us and she over heard me talk about my views on the dating market and she looked at me and smiled. Later in the evening I was talking to a guy friend and she came over to me and started drama out of the gate. I shut that conversation down and walked away. She showed me her true colors very early. Now mind you I was in no way interested in this girl because I don't date people who I work with. Moving forward I am going to ignore her. I'm very selective who I let in my life. Thanks for the solid advice.

I think it is a great idea. I will give it some try. Thanks for your awesome insight

Divorced, took SIX years to find a woman with traditional values. No arguments. Both with the same goals. Both with a growth mindset. Both very capable of open communication and honesty. Both full knowing and understanding that women can be emotional and when she is being emotional SHE pulls away. These women exist… but they’re HARD TO FIND. Work on yourself. Go to the gym. Grind at work. Find a good group of men to surround yourself with. Make yourself a high impact male… and these women will find YOU… Stay strong; men.

I hit rock bottom in my marriage - a sort of emotional turning point where out of me poured incident after incident of some of the most awful interpersonal interactions between us over the course of years where my wife treated me with disrespect, emasculation and sometimes outright contempt. My wife sat there in shocked silence... she seemed unable to respond. I could tell that these terrible behaviors she engaged in where things that were so unimportant to her that she had never given them a second thought, while I let them eat at me. When she finally recovered from the initial shock of it all, her response was to get hurt and try to make me feel bad. It was as if she was saying, "How dare you make me feel bad for treating you like shit."

The happiness of a married man depends on the women he has not married. ---Oscar Wilde I used to get all upset with women I dated when I was a young man (now in my 60s). Then I realized it is not about her but more about setting standards for myself. Rich has a quote that is fitting in this scenario. “Hire slowly and Fire quickly.” Get to know her over a few years and wait for her to begin the testing process. When it happens, as it always does, set a hard line and watch how she responds. If it is not in agreement with my standards, I drop her with no opportunity for a second chance. For me, I have learned anything I give a second chance, it never ends well.

My last relationship, live in, I had to literally get in my car and drive away. She would chase me out to the car, it would switch from arguing to begging me not to leave. Crazy how I tolerated that for 3 years. Thank GOD that’s over, been single for 3 years now and the happiest I’ve ever been.

I once had a female colleague who used to give me hard time at work and was almost making me go crazy with arguments but when I decided to keep quite, do what I have to do; she became more respectful. A no is a no and a yes is a yes and no more argument. Thank you Rich! This is a golden advice for any man worldwide. It works in relationships and professional environment.

Tis great advice. 30 years late. Don’t know if ai would have heard the message in my early days. But today it’s words to live by. No drama.

Agree with you 💯 I stopped arguing with the ex wife when I finally realized the relationship needed to end. After that separation, I’ve been trying to avoid every argument with women that doesn’t add anything positive to my life. It’s worked extremely well. Stress levels have gone down significantly. It’s not 💯 percent perfect, but I have saved myself so many headaches since

Same logic can be applied to emotional men. Don’t get into any fight where the opponent is using emotion as their weapon.

This is exactly how I handled drama from my now ex wife. I just wouldn’t engage with her when she was being ridiculous. I guess that wasn’t exciting enough for her so she divorced me eventually. Blessing in disguise.

Excellent advice. Took me too, too long to learn this on my own. Now i have less of my life to enjoy. Love the use of visuals with the yellow and red cards.

Brilliant insight. Thank you so much for sharing

a chick I was seeing was trying to get me to be more emotional, she said some of her exes were very expressive and emotional, and she viewed my balanced state of mind as a weakness. I asked her why would I want to get so emotional about things when I could rest contented in a balanced peaceful state of mind, neither overly excited or depressed about any particular outcome of things that I cannot control. and I also explained, I am a man, what does she expect, I asked if it was back in time and there was a dangerous animal lurking about nearby, would she want an emotional man in that situation who saw the wolf and started getting emotional and crying, or would she want someone with a balanced state of mind who could remain calm and focus on the solutions. and then said to her if you want an emotional femine guy you are free to go find him. she actually respected and understood my words and had nothing to argue back at me with. I think she appreciated the 'lesson' too because she probably never viewed it from that angle and had only heard the mainstream feminist nonsense.

Really good advice. Been in a unhealthy relationship for many years - afraid to make that decision. After 20 years I finally did end the relationship. It's the best thing I have done, however I wasted 20 years. Don't be afraid to get rid of trash. If you observe just a few red flags, then get rid of her immediately.

Best video on this topic that noone else talks about. Thought I was the only one going through this.

You’re absolutely right about the manufacturing!

I like the calendar idea alot. I used that concept during a child custody battle 20+ years ago. I noted all the events on a calendar and after about a year, my attorney presented it to the court. My ex had no rebuttal, other than screaming and calling me names. I won full custody.

Absolutely. Arguing with a women is more of a waste of time than staring at paint and waiting for it to dry. Literally.

Stopped arguing years ago

When I start getting pushback I ask,”why are you arguing with me?” She says, ”I don’t know!” I then say, “Well STOP IT”

I agree. Especially the writing it down on the calendar part. Tracking bad behavior is a powerful tool to remind you when it's time to leave that mess behind.

Awesome advice and great way to tackle highly strung emotional women that like to argue! Seen this many times, and wish I knew this then! Thank you!

Two thoughts here about these ladies. One is that North American women are heavily medicated so some of the emotional volatility could be explained by prescription drugs or alcohol. Second, I lived in Asia for ten years and saw a number of men just walk away while their wife was speaking.....at first I thought it was disrespectful but as I've gotten older, I realized what a great communication tool it was!

Rich, this is great content. When my relationship was coming to an end with my ex-wife, she would become enraged and disregulated with anger (I found out later she was trying to make me miserable so that I would be the bad guy and leave). Near the end, I told her calmly that I wasn't going to argue with her, because nothing helpful would come of it. This infuriated her. I would eventually warn her (yellow card), then I would remove myself (usually, go to work or go grab a tea). I'd come back 2-3 hours later with a hastily written out 5 page letter (put on my pillow, symbolic of the moribund intimacy) raging about me. It felt horrible to argue, and I ended it. While I was miserable, I felt pride that I was able to support myself and take control of the situation by leaving the scene. Doing FAR better as a divorced dad of two young adult daughters. Much much happier. Rich, your book has been a great post-war read for me.

Bro I have been doing this with women forever and is why I'm single at 37 on the 28th. Broke up with my last woman July '23. We kept having arguments, she would twist my words or my words would go through her filter and she literally hear or "understand" something totally different than what I said. I understand that relationships take work but there is a point where you are likely dealing with someone who is just disagreeable or has a dominance issue. When she starts becoming a repeat offender for whatever reason it doesn't matter, I start letting her know that her time is about to be up and start giving her warnings and then there is the final warning and when she acts up again I literally just leave, no conversation. I was living at her place cause I was in the transition of moving, literally through my shit in my car and got a hotel room for the next two weeks till my place was available. She cooked, she cleaned, did my laundry, sowed up some clothes that had holes in them and were clothes that I loved, sex amazing, attractiveness amazing but nothing can make up for problematic attitudes. Sorry brothers but you got to be able to identify them and let them go. As a man we have to understand that our value naturally rises as we get older, our options honestly only get better and if you are doing the work they get even better so don't be afraid to let her go and go out on your own. I get hit on by girls in their early 20's all the time, I'm not worried, the woman should be worried. And I would actually tell them that too but didn't matter, still stuck in their ways. You can't fix them guys and you should never be living in a scarcity mindset.

I watched this to see what you were going to say on the matter, as I just had an argument with mine. Happy to say I treated it all just as you described. (Without the words yellow card/red card, but same process & actions.) Luckily we don’t live together, so to de-escalate the heat of the moment I cut communication and said that I would talk to her when she comes back to normality. I am too old and jaded to ever want horrible memories of arguing with her so I made sure we didn’t and walked away to let her cool off. At a point in my life where tolerating that behaviour is no longer in my interest. If she carries on again when we reconvene I’m happy to let her go and I will stand by that. It’s just not on anymore. Thanks for your video dude.

I would add. Because women love emotions tell them what emotions you're experiencing when they do not listen: disappointment, disrespect, irritation. In my experience it helps them to realise faster what they are doing.

Great advice. I had a "three strikes and you're out" rule with my ex. Though as it's fair, I always said that strikes can be removed with time if she showed good attitude in the upcoming weeks. Though it may not be the best way to operate in a relationship because some people perform terrible under pressure, it is our decision to welcome a suitable person into our lives. First two strikes happened within six months, before the third she was already cheating. If she can't or won't make it up to you, don't try to convince yourself that she's special. No one is, but you. Venues have dress code for a reason, don't let everyone into your life. As Paul Elam once said " Most men are specialised in living shit with a highly negotiable policy on self respect".

My dad told me my grandfather (his father-in-law) told him that if your chick keeps following you trying to prompt an argument; climb a tree. He tried it on my mom. She was so emotional she didn’t realize she was yelling at a man sitting in a tree. And once she did, she flinched, looked around, and went inside the house. Genius.

100% SOLID advice! Thank you, sir.

I really like this ! Red and yellow cards and finally the calendar to keep track coz we as men sometimes let it go too much and that gives them wrong idea that it’s ok to treat us disrespectfully like this !

This is something I’ve realized over my last 2 relationships. Gold, Jerry. GOLD!!

I took a nap when my wife was trying to fan the flames of the argument she was trying to have with me. I was woken up multiple times, once being the Thanksgiving turkey i didnt get to taste being in the dupster and another being her giving the wedding ring back. She left me a year later. Lesson learned.

This is the most invaluable information anyone has shared

Tbh, this is not restricted to women. I've met extremely irrational and emotional men (including my father) and trying to reason with people like that is an utter waste because they usually have personality orders which I didn't understand at the time. Anyone who grew up by narcisstic parents can probably relate. The only problem is it's much harder to ditch family than women.

Married guy here. The timing of this is funny as just a few days ago my wife threw one of those bawling hissy fits that she thankfully only does every 2-3 years. They are not always about something I did but this time it certainly was. It all began when she started losing an argument where she was clearly in the wrong but refused to admit it. Once her fit peaked she left the dinner table and went and bawled in another room and I just sat there and waited. About 10 min later she came back and continued the fit but at that point it was mostly over and I stayed calm until it was out of her system. She apologized and told me why she was really upset which to be fair was something we needed to talk about. We talked further when she was calmed down and are now working on our marriage like reasonable adults. We both work good paying jobs and have no kids so hopefully we can works things out, but we'll see what future holds. I swear though, those damn hissy fits lower a guys life expectancy...

Good advice! The only problem I had with following a similar course of action was that my girlfriend at the time tended to start ridiculous arguments when we were 2 hours into a road trip or some other situation where I was cornered and couldn't disengage. Once that became a pattern I realized the relationship had to end.

The calendar is a good one! Great advice.

My method works like this. If my wife wants "us" to do something that I don't really want, I simply say sure honey, you make a plan and I'll fix it. Since she is completely handicapped when it comes to take any type of action, nothing gets planned and nothing gets done. No fight.

What do you do with a woman that doesn’t leave you alone if you walk away? Or doesn’t allow you to walk away? Thats how my 17 year marriage was. Needless to say, no longer with her.

The pig analogy is awesome. I actually do most of these things (not argue and stop it immediately while raising expectations / boundaries around arguments) and it keeps our marriage intact.

Yeah, i have to agree with you on this. Learned it the hard way. I'm 66 now👍🎩👌

I guess everyone has a reason to want a relationship. I've been single after my divorce 20 years ago and totally enjoy me life now. Drama free, nag free, do what I want when I want, enjoy my cars or bikes whenever, could never be bothered to want a relationship again.

My mom and dad married and never divorced. They've been married for 32 years now. From the relationship between my mom and dad, what I understand is, as a man, you need to be able to gain respect from both man and woman and essentially be a revered person. If at the off chance a woman acts out there are two possible reasons, 1 reason is because the man messed up somewhere and the woman wants the man to acknowledge and apologies or the 2nd which is her basically act out just to act out. If it's the 2nd reason you need to get ready and put her in her place with your authority. If it's the first reason, you need to do the right thing and apologize and make up. You have to be perceptive and know your woman well to distinguish between the two. To be in a proper relationship with a woman, a man needs to be a strong leader. All a woman want is to feel protected and taken care of, she also wants you to be her rock. If she feels a lack of these, she's gonna start a fit. You can share your deepest feelings with her but don't share so much that she sees you as a weak man because women disrespect weak men.