How Surrendering To Female Nature Frees Men

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Men need to learn to surrender to female nature, and adapt so they get better results with women. I this video I talk about why...
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@scottbernard8824 3 жыл бұрын

"Never try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other." -- Al Bundy

@jimmylopez8430 3 жыл бұрын

Wow bundy

@migueljonz3901 3 жыл бұрын

I was listening to him back in the 90's, during and after my divorce. Damn glad I actually remembered what he was saying. Never married again!

@craigbixler1154 2 жыл бұрын

Perfect analogy

@imadoofus1248 2 жыл бұрын

That show was the best.

@77Creation 2 жыл бұрын

Facts 🔥

@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын

I'm in my sixties now. Married in the 1980's, divorced in the 1990's, one child, and dated regularly until a few years ago. I've observed the lives of many friends, acquaintances, and family members. Based on what I've learned over the course of four decades, this is my advice to any man: 1) If you are a man who wants children, most likely, this means marriage. You need to dedicate the time, effort, and money upfront, in order to protect yourself from the risks posed by family courts. You should prepare yourself mentally upfront, for the high probability of divorce, and everything that will entail. 2) If you are a man who doesn't want children, you should never consider marriage. Depending on circumstances, cohabitation might be an option, but again, due care should be taken to protect yourself from the legal system. 3) Understand yourself. That may sound simple and obvious, but most men I've talked to, don't. Men often act out of habit, or social pressures, with little or no thought given to what truly brings contentment to their life. "Men love to complicate their lives and justify why they do it."

@coffeyjjj 4 жыл бұрын

Bingo.

@GnosticCushite 4 жыл бұрын

Incorrect assessment. If you are not interested in marriage, co-habitation with women should NEVER be an option.

@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын

@Gaurav Very good. Women are forever changing, but not in any fashion you can predict or control.

@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын

@@GnosticCushite I'm not recommending it, but I recognize that some men are gluttons for punishment.

@timheidel5849 4 жыл бұрын

great advice.

@eb8713 4 жыл бұрын

Bin together for 11 years, married 3 with 2 kids. Was diagnosed with chronic leukemia and lost my job because of that. 2 monts later found out she was cheating. HUGE eye opener!!! I filed for devorce the same week. No regrets!

@Tamar-sz8ox 4 жыл бұрын

EB 87 : I hope you’re ok and have access to good healthcare . Hang in there .

@jaylee6769 4 жыл бұрын

You did the right thing. Many men will cave and grovel to keep her

@americanscarelines2757 4 жыл бұрын

What a fkn bch.

@mannyuribe8780 4 жыл бұрын

Get better man you can beat this thing eat good and you will! Your better off without that person she wasn't a cheer leader in your corner. Find one that has your back your gonna be alright buddy stay strong!💪

@Caveman125 4 жыл бұрын

This is why I will not get married. Society has changed everything and accepting there "Nature" just gives in to the idea more that they can be as frugal as they want without consequence. Everyone else can play this silly game but I'm out.

@BLIVBEATS 4 жыл бұрын

Rich LITERALLY looks like a red pill

@Dawesenm 4 жыл бұрын

No he doesn't? He kind of looks one, but not "literally".

@reversiblefate1074 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Zygmunt-Zen 3 жыл бұрын

He doesn't tan, he boils.

@jonathanbrown5847 3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@DeplorableSnowman 3 жыл бұрын

@An Accessory to Mordor He's at the top of the lobster hierarchy.

@matth3002 4 жыл бұрын

Wait, a woman can take half your stuff after living with you for 5 years? That'd be like me staying at a hotel, for free, for years and then taking half the stuff in the room. No wonder women value themselves so highly.

@scotttracy9333 4 жыл бұрын

I've heard of women who rent a room in a man's house. Then after a few years claim they were cohabitating and wanted 50% of his assets. Crazy !!

@rogerthornhill1491 4 жыл бұрын

Matt H No mate you’ve miss calculated. You get HALF the hotel! Ken A

@krisangel7080 4 жыл бұрын

But she wants half the town.

@brutalieri 4 жыл бұрын

Or pull off a Hillary and steal the friggin furniture :D

@baderlade 4 жыл бұрын

Just 2 years in Australia

@ianjohne 4 жыл бұрын

"All Women will keep you around as long as you are useful" - Entrepreneurs in Cars. Thank you so much brother.

@aba-jl6vc 4 жыл бұрын

Thus 'coaching' isn't about building 'alphas' or building Men into the 'best versions' of themselves but about building Men into shears and axes.

@jaymcd8577 4 жыл бұрын

but know also, she'll one day out've the blue spin on her heels and change the goal posts of what that use actually is..speaking form experience..so be on your guard, and she'll get a pass for that BS, cause y'know...feelings, time of the month, victim, blah blah blah

@spongemon1 3 жыл бұрын

This has no exceptions - even to women family members.

@SovereignStatesman 3 жыл бұрын

Ian Estrada: Briffault's Law

@emreduygun 3 жыл бұрын

@@spongemon1 true

@retrogamer82 4 жыл бұрын

You wanna see how loyal she is? Lose your job or get sick and you’ll see what happens. My ex wife cheated on me while I was recovering from back surgery in 2014, no loyalty at all 😠

@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 жыл бұрын

Disgusting. You can rationalize that behavior away as evolutionarily beneficial but at the end of the day, that behavior makes her a bad person who doesn't deserve any respect.

@neromachiavelli5670 4 жыл бұрын

She’s being a woman, forgive and dump

@grahamashton624 4 жыл бұрын

@Lord Moggy a women dumped me when i lost my job we wasn't even living together just girl and boy friend 😒

@rogerthornhill1491 4 жыл бұрын

retrogamer82 Same. Cancer diagnosis 10 years ago. More than half the men in the ward, it was marriage over. A few completely recovered and were then ‘told’. That was a nice touch don’t you think. They are harder and more ruthless than you can imagine. Well maybe you can imagine? now?

@carlosarias2011 4 жыл бұрын

Chris Rock said it best in bigger and blacker... she won't leave you right away when you loose your job, but the Countdown has begun!

@latt.qcd9221 4 жыл бұрын

There's only one woman who will ever love a man unconditionally: his mother.

@VikingMan44 4 жыл бұрын

Sisters and close cousins are often pretty good at it too.

@loringjohnson7797 4 жыл бұрын

In some cases not even her.

@jamestan4659 4 жыл бұрын

@@loringjohnson7797 my mom Only pay attention when i give some benefit

@rosbifle413 4 жыл бұрын

My mother molested me when I was a kid. I live overseas, last year my Dad died of brain cancer and she didn't even tell me he was sick. Don't assume all mothers are saintly.

@Leptyzz 4 жыл бұрын

Jack the Lad that’s terrible dude, sorry to hear. My mother was very good to me even though she overcuddled/cucked me and turned me into a beta male. Still was/is good though

@sticks5614 4 жыл бұрын

"women do not love you, they love what you can do for them". Remember that line and never, never forget it or you'll just end up as another tick on the "losing side" in the statistics.

@michaelangst6078 3 жыл бұрын

I disagree, they can just go in and out of love way faster than the average man because they have a lot of choices

@SovereignStatesman 3 жыл бұрын

And what you've done for them LATELY.

@CellGames2006 3 жыл бұрын

So basically, you are able to quantify and regulate the amount of "love" you give, and optimize the way you keep your women around, rather than it being some arbitrary Disney magic... that's good news.

@3dthenotme877 3 жыл бұрын

Woman don’t have love to give. They receive love. By themselves, they only know fake love, the “go along to get along” kinda love. Men have to show them Love. Love is from God, so are Men. Woman comes from Man.

@andyng5321 5 ай бұрын

if this is the case then why should we still love women?

@tatewrigley8026 3 жыл бұрын

This is the most painful thing Ive had to process, my whole idea of love and companionship is based on lies.

@ruirodrigues3596 3 жыл бұрын

No m8 its not based on lies. I rly don't understand how you think a person will love you unconditionally just because you fuck her. Only 4 people in my life love me unconditionally. My mother, my father , my brother and my best friend who is like a brother to me . NO women will love you unconditionally, but speaking the truth no men would love a women unconditionally . You have a girlfriend, long term relationship. She gets sloppy, does not contribuite to house hold, does not takes care of herself or the kids if thats the case. You will loose interest. We are exactly the same. Men are women are the same. They express and feel different. But the majority want the same thing. A good trustworthy partner, with his or her shit together and with the same values and similar goals in life.

@taym2720 3 жыл бұрын

@@ruirodrigues3596 There is a way. Find an orphan girl who has nothing to fall back on and you are everything to her. She has no way out, no finances, no education, no job, no shelter, nothing. A state in which she is constantly worried about her future with you, the moment she feels confident is the moment it will start to go downhill.

@ruirodrigues3596 3 жыл бұрын

@@taym2720 so true brother

@anonnona6940 3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is. Don't let anyone gas light you. It is based on lies. Everything else is cope. Navigate through it and have a good time.

@scottlopez9822 3 жыл бұрын

I leaned this the hard way too ... and now learning to accept what is ...

@M-yk2le 4 жыл бұрын

If you play with fire, expect to get burned. Simple

@AmbuBadger 4 жыл бұрын

The problem is that some guys get married thinking they can control that fire... It can warm your heart just as easily as it can burn down half of all you own!

@mr77617 4 жыл бұрын

Rich looked literally burned

@jc918a-32 4 жыл бұрын

haha

@Bushey4545 4 жыл бұрын

@@mr77617 fair skin, I'm lucky I tan relatively fast but he's probably really pale in the winter and red in the summer if in the sun too long

@malikaibadalamente4219 4 жыл бұрын

That’s why I stand by water

@wez123123123 4 жыл бұрын

Don’t let them move in and don’t have kids, 90% problems solved.

@waterproof4403 4 жыл бұрын

@markoperanovic23 4 жыл бұрын

So this is what the western man has come to? Don't have kids? Who is supposed to live after us then? Who will continue our bloodline?

@jmlkhan5153 3 жыл бұрын

Marko Peranović the pure blood has been diluted with the peasantry too far to rescue, at this point. It must be enough that we can pass on our aspirations, morals and ideals to the younger generation. I have no sons or brothers, so now all men are my sons and brothers, and i hope that in living my best life for myself, i can inspire them to do the same. We all have the potential to be god.

@liberator328 3 жыл бұрын

True. But what if you want kids one day? Gotta be able to play with the fire. In my opinion, there's little else in life that's more purposeful than having children.

@VoiceOfThe 3 жыл бұрын

@@markoperanovic23 Don’t get this biological imperative to continue my legacy. Should I? All my life I’ve known I never want kids.

@JusticeForSome 3 жыл бұрын

My ex makes alot of money...she only cares about HER money. My money paid the bills and she hid hers away. She doesn't give a crap about her children only her money and how she can control people with it. I did a 24 year sentence with her and now I'm FREE. I love my life now.

@carlos31302 3 жыл бұрын

I was in a 11 year lock down myself until she divorced me. Now I live alone with my dog and cat and my daughter stays with me whenever she wants to. Life is good and I love myself more than ever.

@tommcfadden5232 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on being paroled after being condemned to a life sentence.

@fishin4bogey 2 жыл бұрын

This happened to an old friend of mine. He had his own business, and paid all the bills. She paid for groceries. Years together, she was stacking her cash. When they finally got divorced, she was sitting on 6 figures in cash, and investment accounts. Her lawyer made sure he got none of it.

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

I think a lot of us have a Similiar story about ex XXs stacking cash on the side.

@checkmateforever 4 жыл бұрын

A few months ago I got slapped right in the face by ‘female nature’. My ex that I supported financially during her desperate times for 7 1/2 yrs was cheating on me during our time together and then just one day demoted me to her ‘friend zone’. She insulted me when I no longer played along with that crap. Now with a high dosage of red pills and being single, I can see and feel I’m becoming a better man in every area of my life.

@deej628 4 жыл бұрын

Keep on keepin on brother

@Polemicist_ 4 жыл бұрын

Man, I am so sorry you had to go through that. But be careful not think every woman is like your ex. Defaming all women because you dated one, horrible woman is not fair. Again, super sorry you had to go through that but I hope you can figure it out.

@Josecito777 4 жыл бұрын

Good for you man, stay strong, you're not alone

@GoonRider19 3 жыл бұрын

Jordan Fletcher AWALT

@Polemicist_ 3 жыл бұрын

No, @@GoonRider19, find a faithful woman with unwaivering moral conviction rooted in the Bible and she'll be a literal God send in your life.

@oneronin6186 4 жыл бұрын

I had a prenup, would not get married until she signed. 7 Years later that was one of my best investments. Still cost me to get out but the damage was mitigated. Unfortunately in today's environment I would not trust a prenup in a court room as more and more are getting tossed by the judges. There is a "thing" in family room courts called "judicial discretion" and it can do a fair amount of damage to the unsuspecting man; facts, reason and logic essentially are shown the door.

@EntrepreneursInCars 4 жыл бұрын

They need renewing if used.

@oneronin6186 4 жыл бұрын

@@-whackd Yes One, a daughter (my only kid). Started as a 50/50 shared parenting situation, as time progressed the daughter was with me more to a point she just lived with me full time, but still saw her mother. The daughter just finished university with a degree (Top of Class), fully employed making good money and is a real stand up young lady. Who knew a toxic male (me) could do such a good job raising a kid ; -).

@steveolie985 4 жыл бұрын

@Kalle Karlsson where can I find info on this? My step-dad was able to outmanuver my mom by doing thst. Saved his ass.

@m4565912 4 жыл бұрын

I had a prenut "ITS NOT WORTH THE PAPER ITS WRITTEN ON AND MINE WAS A LEGAL CONTRACT" the man will get fucked if you are married

@LiftOffLife 4 жыл бұрын

If you have a penis you are guilty before you even walk through the door of a "family" Kangaroo court.

@peten409 4 жыл бұрын

People get stuck on the No's when they should get stuck on the Yes's. Find the 5% forget the 95%.

@rickmossop3733 4 жыл бұрын

They are seldom single.

@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 4 жыл бұрын

@@rickmossop3733 Who cares, that won't stop her if she digs you

@rickmossop3733 4 жыл бұрын

@@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 Well, then she isn't a 5%er.

@AmbuBadger 4 жыл бұрын

@@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 Definitely true. Once you've had a girl break rules for you that she sets for other guys, you'll never settle for anything transactional again. It's a positive feedback loop though, it motivates me to keep getting better.

@hannibalmassinissa5763 4 жыл бұрын

@@AmbuBadger man, are you a control engineer, hehe

@colinsimon777 4 жыл бұрын

Would be great if you interviewed a divorce attorney with examples of prenups being thrown out or something like that.

@EntrepreneursInCars 4 жыл бұрын

Sure, tell one to email me

@armageddon8237 4 жыл бұрын

Is this the Colin I know?

@joshspiker 4 жыл бұрын

Adam Sacks is a good one. He used to be a regular on Tom Leykis' show, when he still had his radio program. I'm not sure if he's still practicing now.

@trevorvaughan8100 2 жыл бұрын

i dated a divorce lawyer and she used to tell me all the time while laughing how there wasn't a prenup she couldn't crack or at least make the guys life a living hell till he was tapped out,

@brent4073 2 жыл бұрын

@@trevorvaughan8100 Yeah, at this point in my life, 33, I would honestly just take a prenup saying if the woman wants a divorce because she is unhappy, I get custody of kids and stay in the house, the wife has to leave and no child support/alimony and she can come visit whenever she is happy again. Like that seems like it would be fair for guys nowadays.

@jerryfinn7237 4 жыл бұрын

So I’m in my second marriage, and turning 60 next month. I have over thirty years invested in married life and have literally nothing to show for my dedication to two women. My current marriage can only be described as a disaster. It’s has to be true that unless you put in all the right work, ( and I mean WORK) correctly and consistently, this “love of your life” truly will not “love you”, or be loyal to you, and will eventually have nothing but contempt for you as time rolls on. I’m close to filing and loosing (once again) half of everything I have worked to achieve. Life is not fair, I wish I would have known way back in the mid 80’s what I’ve finally come to understand now.

@matcabliii 4 жыл бұрын

Stay strong.

@rogerthornhill1491 4 жыл бұрын

Jerry Finn Do you live near any large cliffs or large deep bodies of water?

@jerryfinn7237 4 жыл бұрын

Mark Swinney, gee, don’t know whether to thank you for the direction or call you an ass hole. Hmmmm

@Extinction0815 4 жыл бұрын

@@jerryfinn7237 With regard to Mark Swinney, I would recommend the second. Otherwise, you have to take responsibility for your decisions. Better to lose half of that than to live a life with the wrong person at your side.

@jerryfinn7237 4 жыл бұрын

denise baber , well there’s the rub. To her credit, she keeps a clean house, she’ll do laundry, but she no longer cooks for any one but herself only. No sex in months. The last three times I’ve tried to warm up to her as it were, she denied the exchange and then went into a very weird psycho rage that I can only describe as bizarre. I makes over $150k per year, she stays home. Equity..... hardly. I’m a fit, handsome man, hard worker, fair minded, loyal to a fault. Life is not fair, and loyal women are next to nonexistent. ☹️

@willjames618 4 жыл бұрын

Us men have a hard time transitioning from our mother (the nurturing feminine energy) to the women who we “date”. We expect women to “love” us and to be there the same way our mothers has been there for us during our child hood. Psychologically it makes since, after all of “our” mothers are the only women “the feminine energy ” we’ve really known since birth. Unfortunately for the bad news, no other women can ever take your mothers place (some may show similar nurturing displays at times). Infact why would you want a women to take your mother’s place. It’s our inner “boy” who wants the nurturing so bad that we look for it desperately in women. We have to acknowledge and accept for that phase is over. The only nurturing we can get is through the bonding we have with other men who understand this. WillJ-

@MarkRyanNZ 4 жыл бұрын

Damnn, that's some strong philosophical thought right there.

@raymonddersch4195 4 жыл бұрын

That is one of the most profound statements regarding the emotional desires men seek in a relationship with women I've ever read.

@jmlkhan5153 3 жыл бұрын

I wish i knew how to reconnect with my father. We arent estranged or anything, i just kind of want to start over from a foundation of what i now know.

@alanparsonsfan 3 жыл бұрын

At the same time insightful and useful.

@Peterbilt359 3 жыл бұрын

Your mom must have made you milk n cookies. Mine was a drunk I would steal money from her when she would pass out so I could eat. She would hangout in casinos and drag me along, security would toss me out and I would wander Fremont st when it was a street telling the perverts to get lost. She was married 7 times lived with few more. Died at 62 I never shed a tear. I've never been divorced, I except my wife for who she is and expect little.

@robhulson 4 жыл бұрын

“An excellent woman who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.” -Proverbs 31:10

@sam_parallax 4 жыл бұрын

I love how the more I go on the internet the more I see quotes from the bible that do make a lot of sense, there's so much hidden truth in it, it's beautiful

@alecburris4225 4 жыл бұрын

I deviated far from Christianity for a while, having been raised Christian. But now I'm slowly making my way back a little bit because the Bible spits strait fax

@AgentMorgan2010 4 жыл бұрын

I don't get it.

@Caveman125 4 жыл бұрын

This is true and there arn’t many jewels left in the world so that’s why there all made out of Zirconium. Good luck picking through all the fake ones to find the real one and on the way of finding the real one try not to lose your soul and your integrity because those Zirconium’s are causing higher suicide rates. My mums friend lost their son to a Zirconium. May there souls Rest In Peace because taking the easy way out is taking a short cut to hell. The more we accept there “Nature” the worst it gets. We are already seeing the Chad effects. 1 guy and 6 girls or 1 guy and 1 robot. There are no winners here stating from the Bible Genesis 2:24 Good luck to those willing to “accept” there nature.

@WWIIKittyhawk 4 жыл бұрын

That’s why there rare. There are few woman who love God.

@bellevueforestry8745 Жыл бұрын

I’m 46 now. I’ve done a lot and have been with many women. Married and divorced. No children. Work and constant learning and exercise bring me purpose. I love the female form and will always crave it by instinct. However, logic keeps them just in my periphery these days. Working on making more money and saying that exactly what I want and how I feel. Couldn’t be happier. Cheers Rich. Keep slammin those gears.

@Toxic_Male_Minimalist 4 жыл бұрын

Back in my blue-pilled days I used to get upset and depressed when I would get rejected/dumped. Now, it’s kinda funny. I’ll still go on a date every once in a while and hook up but once she decides to leave i just say “ok cool” - life on easy mode now.

@briant7652 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@Josecito777 4 жыл бұрын

I have a question, aren't you interested in a relationship anymore? I guess I'm going out of the blue pill zone. It's sad for me, I'm starting to look women as assets, life brought me here, I didn't

@bumzilla8586 4 жыл бұрын

Haha me to its a win win situation ..

@Arcyamen 3 жыл бұрын

My blue pill effect seems to be quite strong. I want the red pill but it's just too painful & don't know how guys do it?! I want the process of moving on or giving zero shit to be everlasting. On the other hand, let's be honest here for a minute: Did we really take the red pill while we're still watching Rich & Better Bachelor channels? lol

@jmlkhan5153 3 жыл бұрын

Jose of course i am interested in a relationship. I am gawain, and i want to marry a pure and lovely lady who deserves my strength and attention. I also want to travel on a spaceship to distant worlds, but i dont get to do that, either. I got born in the wrong time period for it. It has taken me 37 years to adjust, and the process was not enjoyable. But i am a better man now for understanding what is what.

@sallybluesky4936 4 жыл бұрын

As a woman it’s very Interesting to watch these kinds of videos. I realized relationships and marriage is something western countries struggle with tremendously. Where I’m from in Africa, happy marriages/ relationships last a long time in large numbers. It’s the same thing in Asia as well. Feminism isn’t big in those places and that says a lot. I personally think modern feminism is one big reason (especially in the US). Women are with this idea of being so “empowered “ that they don’t need a man. They’re usually with a man for what he can bring or how he can benefit her. They’re also with the idea that a man is supposed to make the woman happy and she rarely does the same in return. Women being supportive doesn’t mean they make the man happy, we all have true friends who support us so a partner doing it doesn’t make it that special in my opinion. Another important thing is how women are always trying to change men in general for who they want him to become. Men have fallen for that and I don’t know why they never ask how is a woman changing for him in return. Plenty of western men marry somewhere else and are much happier and don’t regret their decisions. With that being said, where I’m from, we love, respect, and cherish our men for who they are and vice versa. I think western people are so privileged that they take basic givens for granted.

@off6848 4 жыл бұрын

If what you’re saying is true it brings a tear to my eye

@sallybluesky4936 4 жыл бұрын

OLE4NDER___ hopefully not sad tears?

@jcstang8952 3 жыл бұрын

You forgot about propaganda. Women as a demographic didn't start the pro-female propaganda machine, men did. This propaganda is a weapon being used on women and our countries and it's working. Our women also agreed with the propaganda and showed us the true nature of our Western women. It's a disaster.

@sallybluesky4936 3 жыл бұрын

The Seeker I feel that it’s getting even more rare by the day because women are also appreciating the submissive beta/male feminist more. Apparently the traditional masculine type is referred to as “toxic masculinity”. I believe this is an alarming issue as well. Society will crumble if men succumb to this. Well more than they already have.

@sallybluesky4936 3 жыл бұрын

Jc Stang you make a very good point. I am happy that men are fighting against it and are spreading the truth (i.e this account). Like I told the previous commentator, I believe this issue is a lot more alarming today.

@bartski6468 4 жыл бұрын

Chase your excellence today, don't wait till tomorrow

@matthelm344 4 жыл бұрын

Looks,$,Status it doesn't matter.Every man gets cheated on.

@firedrum71 4 жыл бұрын

*Has the potential to get cheated on

@matthelm344 4 жыл бұрын

Great Point.

@johnjohnes698 4 жыл бұрын

true; but also you can't be cheated if you don't commit.

@theirishcoffee69 4 жыл бұрын

Reference to Will Smith?

@wanderingdoc5075 4 жыл бұрын

I have 5 plates.. three long termers who are fiercely loyal to me. They are free to cheat but choose not to. They spoil me with sex, trips, $500/night hotels, and designer clothes instead. Need to set a the right dominant and hyper-masculine frame every on. "All men get cheated on" is a false statement. Not all of us do. YOU always get cheated on. Take some responsibility son.

@adamy3834 4 жыл бұрын

Once you surrender, you will know a new FREEDOM. One of the best messages I have heard in a long time. Put yourself up on a pedestal not a female. This is critical train wreck prevention right here! I took a personal oath to NEVER combine finances, marry, or live with a female unless its a weekend get away. Always always have an exit plan that is better than the plan with her. Great Video Rich!

@adamy3834 3 жыл бұрын

@Jonah Harrison You surrender your control over them. It does not exist.

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

Ahhhh I’m keeping that last sentence. That’s GOLD!!!!

@VwapTrader 4 жыл бұрын

This is the 3rd time within 18 months I’ve re-subscribed to you. Note, I’ve never un-subscribed. Fishy.

@EntrepreneursInCars 4 жыл бұрын

Typical of KZfaq...

@abhishakebansal 4 жыл бұрын

Me too man! I woke up this morning and thought may be I un-subscribed but thinking deeply why would I do that when I like his content.

@DesertVox 3 жыл бұрын

YT is a compromised platform, on top of the internet itself.

@agibsonallan 4 жыл бұрын

I have unconditional love and total loyalty it makes me very happy his name is Buster and he has four paws, I disappoint many but i never disappoint buster.

@chrisn.3869 3 жыл бұрын

Just don't forget to feed him...

@jasonchappell2977 3 жыл бұрын

Part of life is learning how to get along with females, if you believe in God or the afterlife you will still have to deal with them there as well. This is my opinion, I would love to hear your take on it. Cheers

@randont 3 жыл бұрын

The mans version of a cat lady? I’m fine being married to a ride or die smoking hot wife of 20 years. The one thing rich misses is God. Would love to see him incorporate that truth.

@heed9726 3 жыл бұрын

@@randont you're right. Ride or Dies do exist. life has to make that kind of love happen though. It's not common.

@bobinthewest8559 3 жыл бұрын

@@jasonchappell2977... The whole question of "afterlife", depends on which superstition you subscribe to. For instance, most that believe in reincarnation, believe that the "soul" is asexual, and that you will experience lives as each gender. In that case, neither yourself nor any soul with a connection to you, would be either "male" or "female" in the afterlife. If you believe in that sort of thing.

@samualwhittemore228 4 жыл бұрын

I once read a book entitled "Don't Shoot the Dog"(first published in the mid-eighties). The premise: Don't shoot the dog when it craps in the house -- because it's a dog and YOU are it's master. It's your job to guide it (based on it's nature) down the path that suits you. Same with women(people). FYI- This book was written by a female dolphin trainer, Karen Pryor. It was written to help folks with roommates, siblings, spouses, etc..

@peterk2494 4 жыл бұрын

I once read a book called "The Origin of Species" by Charles Darwin. I also read his personal diaries wherein he weighed the pros and cons of wether to get a dog or to get a wife. In the end of his analysis he concluded that getting a dog was the better option.

@omoyeni7696 4 жыл бұрын

I just downloaded the book, thanks for the recommendation

@BoffinGrusky 4 жыл бұрын

You might think this is BS, but it is absolute truth; The last woman I dated SHOT the family dog!! The scary thing was, I dated her for 3 years, and she never showed any signs of being psycho!

@joshspiker 4 жыл бұрын

@New Start Now Correct. That only works IF they allow you to coach and train them. They have to be naturally submissive, respect your authority, follow instructions, and be trainable for any of that to work. Unfortunately, a lot of them today are not.

@23DanielVincent 4 жыл бұрын

Now see, this is why I read the comments section. Thank you for the info sir, and I will be getting that book!

@Navinor 4 жыл бұрын

Weil in my younger years i was angry at women and their nature. Today i am older and wiser. I look at this like the same way i look at the nature of bees. A bee will sting you if you behave a certain way. It will sting you not because the bee is evil. Just because it is its nature. The same with women. Living with the red pill rage as a wake up call for a certain is time is healthy. Living with the rage for the rest of your life will burn you out. It became easier for me the older i got.

@Navinor 4 жыл бұрын

@Templar well it does not matter. When men does not learn to cope with the red pill rage, they will go insane at some point. Or they will go insane from a nagging woman

@kos2932 4 жыл бұрын

Men need to understand the dangers of false allegations. A woman will be GIVEN your house (called Exclusive possession of the matrimonial home) and sole custody based on ONE allegation. No proof needed.

@ArisenMind 4 жыл бұрын

That's not absolutely true. It happens and sometimes it doesn't happen. No need to fear monger. You can just state the statistics and actual false allegation data. Red pill is about accepting reality as Rich said not trying to interpret it to fit a narrative.

@morganclare4704 3 жыл бұрын

The joy of FEMINAZIS! cheers

@joshuamerlin9905 3 жыл бұрын

This is completely true. It’s called “Domestic Violence Injunction”. It’s as simple as a woman going to her local courthouse, filing out a single piece of paper, and the judge will grant her 100% control of the home, kids, assets, and it’s like that until the Man can prove himself innocent of charges in a rushed initial hearing 2-4 weeks later.

@co7769 3 жыл бұрын

@@joshuamerlin9905 is that in the USA? I thought it was all about innocent until proven guilty not the other way around.

@joshuamerlin9905 3 жыл бұрын

@@co7769 unfortunately it is in the USA, all in the name of “protecting women” but women abuse it, all the time, every day.

@enriquezacur7252 4 жыл бұрын

The dad I never had. Thanks Rich.

@fan-i-am 4 жыл бұрын

Conversation I had with an unhappily married woman- "I'm not too picky. I just know what girls are like." "Oh really? Then how come you're still single?" "Because I know what girls are like!"

@dappa311 4 жыл бұрын

Laughing Out Loud

@canadiansoviet 4 жыл бұрын

Checkmate

@mw66683 4 жыл бұрын

When the "desire for the female form" strikes, simply rubbing one can be an ideal remedy. Often times, a little post nut clarity becomes necessary to avert unnecessary risks.

@maxhouse2409 4 жыл бұрын

I didn't like the reality of "post nut clarity" (a red pill moment) hitting me when the woman was still in my bed.

@Jolly123123123 3 жыл бұрын

I read "unnecessary kids"

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

@@maxhouse2409 uh ohhh

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

Damn straight bro.

@johnathanshiggs7083 4 жыл бұрын

I'm currently chasing excellence, the best choice I've made. I also taught my teenage son the same. He's currently in the honor society and going into the air force to be an engineer.

@fibonaccisrazor 4 жыл бұрын

Nice! One of the best things we can do is to teach our children so that they can learn from our mistakes.

@michaelangst6078 3 жыл бұрын

At some point you make enough money and have tons of free time and want a sexy ass loyal woman though... I make 10k plus a month doing very little work currently... Buying the best tv and playing videogames can only handle depression and lonelyness so much....

@johnathanshiggs7083 3 жыл бұрын

@@michaelangst6078 If u get lonely, buy a dog or goldfish. Lol Let a woman be a compliment to your life, not the focus. Remember, you're the prize.😁

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

@@michaelangst6078 agh!!! I feel ya man. Not exactly at your numbers but definitely got the freedom. I propose a long held belief (inside and outside the manosphere). If it flies floats or fux rent it

@theempoweredman7353 4 жыл бұрын

"Incredibly wealthy and emotionally needy men are the holy grail of the predatory western parasite." Barbarossa.

@charlesrogers8420 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t disagree with your analysis on female nature. I’ve learned to curb my thirst and pursue my hobbies and professional goals. The biggest part of my growth is to no longer seek or require female validation and/or attention.

@jonathanshepard1517 3 жыл бұрын

Keep up the great work mate I'm in a similar boat.

@TM-tw1py 3 жыл бұрын

I find this to be among the most insightful Rich videos. Kind of like women realizing that providing awesome sex to men is a big part of what makes them happy.

@glennhughes9594 4 жыл бұрын

I run a plumbing business and I am around a lot of women. Some are single moms and make passes at me. I am married and my wife’s friend is a single mom with three girls and lately she has been very flirtatious with me and comes over looking damn good I won’t lie. I don’t need a mess like that right now. But I can tell she is monkey branching and is looking to upgrade. She ask me a lot of questions about my business and how it is going. I know she would be a lot of fun but I am getting to a point in life where I don’t have to overly bust my ass and I like it. So I am resisting the temptation.

@AndresGonzalez-dx1vr 4 жыл бұрын

Fail to resist the temptation and you will pay harshly. Keep strong!

@markscheurich2779 4 жыл бұрын

@@AndresGonzalez-dx1vr it must be the Plumber's crack

@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 жыл бұрын

From a legal standpoint, what could she do to you? I understand your moral motivations to not cheat, but in case you did it, nothing would happen, right?

@naomi6212 4 жыл бұрын

Tell her you are happily married. Don't cheat. It simply not worth it. On any level.

@deej628 4 жыл бұрын

Naomi 62 coming from a woman 😂

@sachachanyan 4 жыл бұрын

The secret to a healthy tan as opposed to becoming red like a lobster is moving around and not just lying there. Eg. Playing games at the beach, moving around on a sailboat. You tan much faster, smoother and safer. Trust me, I grew up in Greece....

@jmlkhan5153 3 жыл бұрын

SunAndSteel i live in the desert and every year i like to just one and done it. Go out on the lake in my boat, bake until im beet red, suffer and peel for 3 days, then just go about my summer happily ever after. Ill never die of skin cancer, not me, no way sir.

@sachachanyan 3 жыл бұрын

jamie kendall Hope not!!!

@charlesmorello5641 4 жыл бұрын

I can only imagine the pain and sufference that those scars brought you... but damn you look like a Spartan warrior!!!! Kudos to your look!!

@charlesmorello5641 4 жыл бұрын

@Lord Moggy you are lucky if you reseamble N Cage... Just lose Weight... No Need for anything else!

@edwardlopez9061 4 жыл бұрын

the spartans were super gay. they believed having butt sex with each other would strengthen the unit and increase morale.

@josephalbatross5961 4 жыл бұрын

@@edwardlopez9061 So that's the secret to their strength, gotcha :)

@charlesmorello5641 4 жыл бұрын

@@edwardlopez9061 I think you are refferring to the "Sacred Band of Thebes" made of male lovers who would fight untill death for each other.

@Rubenz343 3 жыл бұрын

@@edwardlopez9061 They had sandals on, so it wasn't gay.

@wendallparker8420 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve had no choice but to focus on myself and my goals for survival purposes. And what a blessing in disguise that has been. I can’t believe men don’t realize their own value. It’s mind boggling. We have the power to create, and the power to do great things. For me, it’s not red pill or blue pill, it’s our birthright to be our best selves. If a man is always chasing women, he is throwing away that birthright.

@idropagearbabye6822 3 жыл бұрын

At 56 I've been divorced 14 years an it's been the best years so far

@rocmiraclepallares7504 4 жыл бұрын

Right now I ve been an involuntary celibate for almost 2 years, 18 and a half now, but I ve gained a lot of confidence the last months plus I am leaner than I ever have been, I think this summer is going to be key for my manliness

@rocmiraclepallares7504 4 жыл бұрын

@T M that is what I am ambitous for

@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 жыл бұрын

@@rocmiraclepallares7504 Hey, brother, I'm 19, from Madrid, Spain. Where you from? I recommend you read Lane Goodwin's blog. That and this channel will help you tremendously.

@rocmiraclepallares7504 4 жыл бұрын

@@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard Im from Tarragona, I'll have a look at that, thank you for your advice

@JaimeWarlock 4 жыл бұрын

Time for a trip to Asia.

@jc918a-32 4 жыл бұрын

Lift weights

@christianmcnally4323 4 жыл бұрын

Not only that, a lot of guys' moms didn't love us the way they were supposed to either. So it's hard to realize we'll never get it

@tristan.eilenburg 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for that truth bomb.. Just went through a financial short term crisis.. got devalued and discarded like never before.. after moving around and travelling and putting in efforts to make the relationship work and getting back on track with the finances, she dumped me with the I need space quote.. after a few hot cold fights..we went on a date again and there she told me, what she expects that my income has to be.... my responsibility was not seeing the red flags in the first place.. but yes, even if you ignore some flags, as soon as there is a struggle, they are gone. They are never yours, it's just your turn...

@Nicoleessellier 4 жыл бұрын

Women having greater financial independence (or at least for many the illusion of such) perhaps enables them to show their nature more than in previous generations. Increase in divorce creates financial resources for some women and the need to find a Captain Save-a Garden Tool for others. One of the most important lessons in life, in every area, is to know when you are in a relationship and when you are in a transaction. The Red Pill makes us realize that it is always the latter and rarely the former, but if we accept reality, then maybe we can find a workable combination of both,

@bohun28 4 жыл бұрын

In New Zealand, family law is absurdly on women's side. And the percentage of fat, tattooed, blue hair colour ed hephalumps is just absurd. My tactic is to avoid. It's just not worth it. In my experience, the sex just isn't that great and it's not worth my time or effort.

@mr.w.146 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like here in Tennessee.

@28pbtkh23 4 жыл бұрын

Not in NZ as well? I thought it was only in Britain, or parts of the USA. It's all over the anglosphere!

@mr.w.146 4 жыл бұрын

@@28pbtkh23 He in the states we call 'em 'buffarillas.'

@googlify406 4 жыл бұрын

I agree. Sex is kinda boring and just simply not worth it.

@tomlindsay7861 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a 19 year old student and I’ve also noticed that all the university employees seem to fit the stereotype of a “ overweight unattractive either short hair or gross looking feminist sort of woman” the campus there is no masculine presents at all. Just the woman I described and a few soy looking grown men.

@cbxxb4841 4 жыл бұрын

Great topic. In addition to the surrender, there is a real sense of loss when you come to accept reality here.

@user-pu9jd5ec6c 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely. There is a grieving process before acceptance happens

@peripheralparadox4218 2 жыл бұрын

Yep. It’s like leaving all your luggage behind. You are lighter and more free, but you had to let something go.

@thez00t6 4 жыл бұрын

Just realized my favorite childhood Disney movie (Hercules) was essentially a glorification of promiscuous women and chaste men. I developed a good guy complex and I tend to go for promiscuous women and women who tend to be problematic. Hero complex much🙄

@lgunther8981 3 жыл бұрын

That women are never going to be happy. Be a warrior instead; fight for yourself first.

@CaseyZander 4 жыл бұрын

"The use you bring to the relationship" Yeah that is why it is a RELATIONSHIP. It takes 2. I'm not going to date a woman that doesn't bring any value to the table, isn't it common knowledge that shes not going to date a man that doesn't either?

@FreshPrinceCeo 4 жыл бұрын

There's a lot of value in this topic, most guys take it personal but don't realize you can't change their nature, so go with the flow !

@mdm5216 4 жыл бұрын

Accepting female nature and walking away. It's like training all your life to be an astronaut then they scrape the shuttle program. Now what. I think this is the toughest hurdle.

@MrHav1k 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. I completely agree. Finding happiness without women is the toughest challenge. You've been conditioned to spend your whole life chasing and pleasing them. What do you do when all of that goes out the window?

@alpha1481 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely anything you want even if that is doing nothing. You are relieved of the burden of performance to produce more than you singly need. You are free to do anything you want.

@mdm5216 4 жыл бұрын

@Endless NamelessFell "in love" with the "one" about 4 years ago. Nice body and a pleasure to be around. She wanted marriage I didn't. I've looked back fondly of the memories as we parted on good terms. So anytime I feel like I might have missed out, I remember that I have experienced it and I feel better. No 50 I'm just working towards retirement. I try to make do with my hobbies, video games and watching movies.

@TheGunelchik21 4 жыл бұрын

You

@imthebmf23 3 жыл бұрын

"Truth will set you free"

@WWIIKittyhawk 4 жыл бұрын

Is it female nature though? Like how much is nature and how much is programming? We live in a very anti male society. What were woman like when society was more pro men? We’re they the same as today? Or different? These a questions we should be asking. I think it’s not helpful if we just blame nature. Society is playing a bigger part in enabling bad behaviour. Society needs to change is better than surrender.

@fponce3037 3 жыл бұрын

It is connected to a woman’s deepest need for security. Security is the primal need. The best means for ensuring security is financial stability. Take a look at any dating site and think critically about the criteria that women have for men they desire. There may be a variation in how their criteria is expressed. It is however consistent along one theme. It is all utilitarian in nature. Most common and ranked #1 is “ Economically Attractive”. Even if they earn a good income they look for someone to match or exceed what they earn. Other language used is expressed in statements like women won’t date “down” while men will. The female perspective on dating “down” is linked to the prospective suitors who don’t have the financial stability to keep them secure. Men don’t have that on their list of basic criteria for a partner/wife. On a personal note; my former wife was very direct in expressing that to me . A recent girlfriend left after I started to test her in this issue. Once I backed it from doing things for her, like fix things in her house, auto repairs etc........ she backed away completely. I learned that she did not value the man I am. Only what I could do for her. Start that informal research yourself . Have fun with the experiment through dating site profiles. Observe, take notes and see what your experience reveals.... Best of luck

@WWIIKittyhawk 3 жыл бұрын

Varón D. Valor you are right. So because woman earn now, the bar is a lot higher for men. In the old days, even a man who didn’t earn much could still support and attract a woman because woman didn’t earn like men. So in a sense today woman have become our direct competitors for financial income, so hence we are no longer attractive to them unless men earn way more than them and are no longer considered on there level as competition. What a sad world, considering we as two sexes were never supposed to complete with each other, but work together for survival.

@michaelangst6078 3 жыл бұрын

It's human nature actually. I would have blown my fucking noodles out if I was living pay check to pay check in my 30's an average looking man in todays world

@jenkins2162 3 жыл бұрын

I put two of them through college. The first had my son. I fought for him in the initial divorce but lost had to pay over a third of my salary along with halving everything I paid for.. A year later I got custody and she was ordered to pay peanuts. I told the judge she could keep it and I meant it. I told her to pay for school lunches and some other afterschool activities, which is even lower than the peanuts. My boy has turned out to be an awesome person. He doesn't cause problems, is respectful and well respected, and he's a Sheppard among wolves. He's a big boy that takes up for those that can't. The irony is both begged to have me back. That was an easy no. Naturally I'm conflicted when giving him advice on marriage due my faith in Christ. I'm torn in that area.

@morganclare4704 3 жыл бұрын

JESUS, as you know, is the TRUTH; as a fellow disciple of CHRIST, telling the truth is always the way to go! cheers

@anonnona6940 3 жыл бұрын

Religion can be a way to control. For adultrating a book anytime during 2000 years that it has existed for can be pretty easy. Especially when Bible only provided commandments and not reasoning. Which is why I like Hinduism much more for it provides details on how the mechanics work. Just read the books. Understand the mechanics of the world and pick from the bible what you think is aligned with your self-interest.

@oneplus113T 3 жыл бұрын

@@anonnona6940 I'm a Hindu and when I read Or see stuff like this I realize Krishna already said these things about Kaliyuga and how they are happening now 🤯

@SimpleMinded221 2 жыл бұрын

Stick to Christ, you dont need that hindu stuff.

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

I’ll help you out (I’m traditional Christian). No marriage, cohabitation or commingling finances. Just NO. I get you though but we have to stop the bleeding first.

@warrenpierce5542 4 жыл бұрын

It hit me like a thunderbolt just the other day, the real husband and father of all modern women is the government. Even women with successful husbands have the heavy hand of the state to call down upon said man. When the state runs out of productive men to screw out of their resources the game is up.

@dappa311 4 жыл бұрын

Yup no one is spared from the oppression of the government system, which they claim is in the best interest of children, couldn't be further from the truth.

@canadiansoviet 4 жыл бұрын

It's a pyramid scheme! Think about it......it only works if there's men with money....Once all those are gone, it can't work anymore

@foogentog 3 жыл бұрын

The same people just move to the next country until the last one that they pillaged has recovered and then they pillage that one again. These families have been doing it for a couple thousand years at least.

@marcosreal11 7 ай бұрын

Stefan Molyneux would agree with you.

@MrSuperman2307 4 жыл бұрын

“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” 🤯

@DonaldLLouie 3 жыл бұрын

You are so right! I am separated and now divorcing my wife. My ex-wife got angry and attacked me with a chair. She then ACCUSED ME of Domestic Violence! Luckily I had videotape cameras and they recorded how violent she was, and the cops refused to arrest me!

@Texx_OG 4 жыл бұрын

You always drop videos at the perfect time I need them, appreciate all you do, Rich.

@twovthree 4 жыл бұрын

"I've allowed my wounds to become my work..." That's beautiful, man!😪

@limozine8466 4 жыл бұрын

He is right. I believed all that bs about love & I found out the hard way. So for me the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Said this nice guy who finished last......

@mrandersong1 3 жыл бұрын

I've had success with woman but I've also been ignored and rejected many times. I realized that you don't need a woman to love yourself. Just love yourself and move forward and the right woman will come into your life.

@keeroe2020 4 жыл бұрын

As a divorce rapee', I observe that many men don't "get" this until they join my ranks.

@robert6833 4 жыл бұрын

This is spot on and the truth about female nature. It’s important to maintain frame and men need to do the same - only keep women around for as long they are useful and meet our needs. Date up and not down. Have boundaries. Do not get married. Know that most relationships are like jobs, they come and go so long as they serve a logical purpose. For most men, we need to have our balls drained and intimacy. It’s also nice to have women to do activities that we don’t do with men, which are mostly reproductive and biological. Do not lose focus on your goals. Understand that love is always conditional. Focus on growth. Keep a few plates. Be ready to walk. Learn the red flags and make lots of money. Accept responsibility and reality is what it is and adjust to female nature by staying true to your red pill masculinity.

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

Great comment bro

@stevenlightfoot6479 4 жыл бұрын

Great stuff. Accepting reality is the precursor to all success.

@dpstrial 4 жыл бұрын

That's the truth. Just had an argument with my leftist neighbour, who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality.

@canarc1 4 жыл бұрын

Having a deep understanding of the state and females and refusing to put yourself into a situation that could destroy you is not surrendering, it’s tactical.

@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 жыл бұрын

You're a good man Rich and a very valuable asset to men. Never stop uploading!

@Anonymous-md2qp 4 жыл бұрын

I have no issues with female nature. I understand their behaviour and I accept it. The risk of losing my wealth and the legal issues is the part that scares me.

@thrillfly384 3 жыл бұрын

My cousin sister once told me that she wanted to find love. I said "they" make movies for that.

@rodneykingston6420 3 жыл бұрын

As a gay man, I can tell you he's stating what I have always found so repugnant in what I could see of heterosexual relationships, starting with my parents': that a man is expected to unconditionally love a woman for "who she is" (and no matter how fat and unpleasant she becomes) but he only deserves her love for what he can do for her. When a hetero man sets ANY boundaries in his relationship with a woman, even if he promises monogamy, that woman is going to be told by her girlfriends "Oh honey! He's using you!" - basically because he's not allowing (or is setting limits on) her to use him. I don't say this caused me to be gay, but it was something I perceived very clearly, even before acknowledging to myself that I was gay and it was one of many perceptions that helped make me very unconflicted about being gay.

@peripheralparadox4218 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I was gay. Understanding female nature is a huge turn off, and very problematic. There is no true loyalty. But they’re hot AF. Unfortunately you don’t get to choose your sexuality.

@seige8621 2 жыл бұрын

This is how my last relationship ended. The friends. Those exact words. Its as if these women use the same brain

@michaeldost8155 2 жыл бұрын

I’d love to hear your perspective and experience when two men are together. I’m personally straight, but it would be interesting to hear how a relationship between two guys has played out for you and what the differences are.

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

@@michaeldost8155 I’d like to hear that answer too

@mowtivatedmechanic1172 Жыл бұрын

@@peripheralparadox4218 I hear ya on that man.

@joeypaesano 4 жыл бұрын

Valuable information. As always 🤙🏽

@tony.johnson666 3 жыл бұрын

I love the way you keep it real, facing reality of the way things truly are sets you free

@markusraymer7168 4 жыл бұрын

With the times we’re in now and seeing, taking calls from my buddies about their marriages...makes me really see marriage as a liability. Love is definitely 100% risky business today and it can ALL change on you in one day, even though you had the best intentions.

@JG67679 5 ай бұрын

“One in five women are diagnosed with borderline personality disorder”. “Diagnosed”. That means a lot more of them have it but are undiagnosed! Proceed with caution.

@grandpasswapmeet2631 4 жыл бұрын

What an awesome Video! Thanks for all the effort and time you spend helping men, we really appreciate it!

@sincerecolar 3 жыл бұрын

With your continue education, I’m learning how to keep myself emotionally discipline. Staying focus on my purpose/wealth. I always remind myself who I am, what I want, and what I need. That’s just me.

@raybands3707 4 жыл бұрын

Women project through a framework called, "DEFERMENT THROUGH OBFUSCATION" to avoid responsibility and accountability for their choices, actions, and consequences throughout their complete life cycle!

@JC-cj8fc 4 жыл бұрын

Modern heroes do exist..Im thankful I woke up not too late

@zesticide1010 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your time and input brother, especially on a beautiful Sunday morning.

@McNelisG 3 жыл бұрын

Wow you are the fricken man, new it immediately after hearing your stuff. Glad I found you my man. Thank you for your service

@clintzuleger8918 4 жыл бұрын

At 5:05. It is like when Donovan Sharpe talks about “The burden of performance “ being a good thing because it keeps men striving for more and better.

@makatkplt 4 жыл бұрын

50+ here, divorced after 16 yrs, PM on an international program. Say it with me; DATE OUTSIDE THE USA if you can. Women are so much more appreciative than American women and well aware of how they behave. Now, married (prenup’d) to a professional Brazilian woman.

@skatebordstephen 4 жыл бұрын

I've been living in Salvador, Brazil for the past 10 years and it's definitely much better here than the USA in this regard.

@HentaiSamaKun 3 жыл бұрын

Until you have the good idea to bring this woman in your own country...

@pbmc_ 3 жыл бұрын

I would agree, just don't bring them back to the US

@phoenixrisin2269 3 жыл бұрын

Bro I see your burns man. Much respect for what you went through and how you’ve handled it. Very admirable!

@kushalkumar.b9222 3 жыл бұрын

What happened ?

@The_Kirk_Lazarus 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rich for being a wellspring of inspiration and information.

@rogelioe1471 4 жыл бұрын

Great video! It's not a bad thing, it's just the way the world works now. Embrace it and roll with it.... Or even take advantage of it.

@DeviantDeveloper 4 жыл бұрын

"Should have your kids out of the way by 40"? Totally disagree. Spin plates, have fun for 20 years, build wealth / success, see the world, screew around a lot. Then have kids over 40. It's WAY easier to be free and have fun as a young man, you can also get a higher quality woman when older and richer. Not that there's only 1 way to do it but that's better IMHO.

@Solarexistence 4 жыл бұрын

its even too risky to have children. Law needs to change first

@DeviantDeveloper 4 жыл бұрын

@@Solarexistence Sure but it's also too risky NOT to have children. Minimise risks as much as possible.

@badrobot114 4 жыл бұрын

@@DeviantDeveloper what's risky about not having children?

@lukehunnable 4 жыл бұрын

Seeing the world AND building wealth is really not easy to do at all. You usually need to choose one - which creates completely states of being by the time youre 40.

@FairladyS130 4 жыл бұрын

If the shit is going to hit the fan then get that over and done with early, the last thing you want later in life is drama and financial uncertainty.

@ThePhysics1234 5 ай бұрын

So the other day a friend of mine got a heart attack from stress of divorce. This shit just got a matter of survival.

@MatteoMontanari73 4 жыл бұрын

I really love the intro of all your videos. Richard, thanks

@johnwayneerb 4 жыл бұрын

I’m in my mid 30s and have never been married but I’ve always thought I’ve wanted a couple of kids. The challenge is that I’m a realist too and understand that there’s a high likelihood of me getting a divorce if I marry. I don’t have faith in the idea of marriage but believe children can be among the greatest gifts that life can bring. Even if those “gifts” come with a high price tag.

@maxximilianm3752 4 жыл бұрын

When you meet the one and your gut tells u thats the one, go with it after of course u date her at least a year.

@jleffel6969 4 жыл бұрын

Spergs gonna sperg and Hypergs gonna hyperg.

@chris20sith 4 жыл бұрын

great clip and great comments below! Thank you!

@sim7409 4 жыл бұрын

my wife & i both avoid online social networks,which helps alot. it's mostly other people's drama anyway & i know for fact it helps us avoid drama.

@MrKushinator420 4 жыл бұрын

I won't 'surrender' to anything and I'll be happier for doing so.

@wildj9912 4 жыл бұрын

Between understanding female nature and the reality of the laws concerning interpersonal relationships is why I decided to opt out. For those men who are willing to take that chance listen to the man. Cover your backsides from every angle. Good luck, I hope it goes better for you than it did for me.

@SanDiegoBiz Жыл бұрын

When I first started watching your videos I thought you were a dating coach. Now I see that you offer something much different. Keep up the good work man.

@johneric3886 4 жыл бұрын

Good stuff entrepreneur in cars. Glad to see you take some time in the morning for yourself to enjoy the warm weather. All my best enjoy your summer.

@Nebelung13 4 жыл бұрын

If the effort outweighs the fun with women...cya laters! Even in my limited experience if women start being squirrely, annoying or whatever is it that makes you perceive them as more of a negative then a positive in your life, just do yourself a solid and take your business elsewhere. Also for those that might have hangups with the word surrender. Surrender means to accept something that is self-evident, it's not about giving up.