Thanks, @Blessedpeace! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video.

Glad you enjoyed it!

Thank you so much! I truly believe in empowering ourselves and protecting children. It means a lot to hear this resonated with you.

You are so welcome!

You're not the only one! Grief is a weird hike, everyone takes a different route. Happy to hear my experience resonated with yours, even if we're at different viewpoints. Maybe we can share trail mix at the summit?

Thanks for watching, @EmiritaMaghanga. Finances are a common hurdle, but there are other areas that can cause friction too. In the video, we touch on a number and share some tips.

Thanks a ton

Asking the right questions is key. Glad you're following along.

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Thank you so much!

Glad you liked it

So true.... It's a very painful and long process.

Hey Harriet, you're right, it is a lot to deal with.

Societal judgement too

Such a wonderful interview. Jegero you are a professional and so is Christine Muthoni.

Not all marriages were joined by God. So, God will not come through because he does not recognize the couple as one. It's what it is.

Hi Caroline, Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you find the way she teaches helpful. You're absolutely right, God is always there to guide us and mend relationships. Sometimes seeking guidance and support through prayer is the first step towards healing. I hope this video encourages anyone going through a tough time to reach out for help, whether that be spiritual guidance, professional support, or talking to a loved one.

Hi Hannah, Great point! In the Bible, we see examples of marriages that God worked through despite challenges (think Hosea!). Faith can be a source of strength no matter the circumstances. The message in this series is more about finding strength and hope during difficult times, which can come from many places depending on your beliefs. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

So nice of you

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Thanks!

Thanks for watching

It's definitely true that an unequal distribution of housework and financial burdens can cause tension in a relationship.

Good question

She explained in the first episode. "When a man takes care of his family, he gets honour and respect. But when a woman does that, she gets drained and overwhelmed." And it affects a man if it is the woman providing- his masculinity, she comes out as controlling...

Insecurity is mostly the main reason why idle men don’t feel comfortable with women talking up home financially.

An idle mind is a devil's workshop.

Hey @esmuthoni1603, that's a great point! It can definitely feel unfair when you're contributing financially and your suggestions about managing those resources aren't heard. Absolutely, communication and respect are key in any relationship, especially when it comes to finances.

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For sure. I agree!

That's very true. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) has very many characteristics which all of us exhibit at one time or another. However, the diagnosis is that one must exhibit a certain minimum number (of the traits) habitually to be declared to suffer from NPD. Otherwise ALL people do show or possess at least one of the characteristics of NPD

Wow, what a journey! It sounds like your girlfriends were true lifesavers. Happy to hear things eventually worked out for you and your family.

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this. It's not fair that he's trying to isolate you from your boys. You are strong and you will get through this. Stay positive and focus on the amazing bond you have with your sons.

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​@@TheJageroi have got my ebook, i think there was some delay somewhere, thank you so much. Reading through and also bought the "Eason J. A. (2019). The Work at Home success guide you recommended on Amazon. Thank you again. Stay blessed always.

The world is too far gone to be saved. We can only be changed by some outside cosmic force.

Learning from mistakes is definitely a part of life. But that doesn't mean there's no room for proactive advice. At the heart of learning while growing and healing is DWJs commitment. Maybe in future episodes we can explore navigating relationships with open communication and realistic expectations. What do you think? #DialoguesWithJagero #Life #Lessons #OpenCommunication

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I am sorry you’re going through a tough time. Please. Talk to Christine here: www.coach-christinemuthoni.com

Relationships are partnerships, and providing can look different depending on the couple. There's nothing wrong with both partners working and contributing financially. In fact, it can be a great way to build a secure future together. What matters most is open communication and respect for each other's goals and needs.

Remember in this case its her hubby who asked for a divorce. This is because when its the woman providing the man somehow feels insufficient and his esteem goes down. Its kinda a way of life for men to be the provider. Unfortunately most people think you are in problems because he is no longer working and there the woman is the one throwing him out. There's always that connotation.

By God's nature, a man is the Head of the house and the provider. It's something embedded in our genes, that's why men feel insecure when a woman is a top provider. It's not natural, that's why my man should provide anything little even if I get get huge salary than him. That way I will be satisfied

Bitterness comes when they do both providing & still submissive then the air still not ok coz men don't receive women z provision delightly it stimulates jealous in my opinion.

Thanks for sharing. Going through a divorce can be incredibly difficult. Even though you can't go back in time, there are resources available now that can help with the healing process after divorce. What do you think a coach could have done differently?

Every relationship has its challenges, and feeling unheard can be especially difficult. This video is definitely about taking charge of your own happiness, but it's also important to have open communication with your partner. Have you considered couples counseling? It could be a great space to work through these issues together.

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The court is also biased especially when the children are too young for obvious reasons. The best interest of the child is usually what the children's court puts first.

It's definitely important to consider all sides of child custody. Would love to hear more about what you felt was biased. Maybe there's another perspective we can explore in a future video?

That's a very valid point! It can be tricky when kids are young because they might not be able to fully express their needs. What are your thoughts on how courts can best determine a child's best interests in those situations?

@@TheJagero The law governing child custody recognizes that both parents have equal rights to custody but may award custody to one parent if the other parent is found unfit or unable to provide a safe and stable environment for the child. The children's Act of 2001 provides that a child under 10 yrs should be given to the mother unless she has been proved unfit. The children's court is usually very thorough in this area. They will look into available facts and evidence to ensure the best interest of the child safety and quality of life. If a child is old enough, their preference is also considered. Reasons for divorce do not determine who gets custody unless neglect, abuse, criminal activity or substance abuse is involved. Custody arrangements usually fall under Joint custody, sole custody or sole custody with access. These custody decisions are not permanent. They can be modified at any time. A parent previously declared unfit for mental health reasons can seek access once they are medically proven fit. Again any significant change in circumstances affecting the children's welfare are grounds for modification.

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@@TheJagerowhen people hear title and get triggered, they miss the context.. Muthoni is balanced in the way she approaches matters. I went through this path that she did and thankfully still kept my born again status though it was shaken and refined. I was told by some the cliche… God hates divorce!! I had walked through all these areas with my God and i knew God forces no one to be in any status unless they themselves desire to. I would have loved her coaching way back then 1997! God hates his daughters and sons being treated badly and putting this God made institution into disrepute. I love her family oriented approach. Am glad to say we uncoupled well and both remarried and kids don’t have to choose loyalty

I believe she was quoting Dr. Myles Munroe who said Divorce is worse than death because when a person dies, you have a funeral & you burry them. They are gone. You don't see them again. Chapter closed. BUT with Divorce, yes the marriage is dead. It's finished. However, burying the marriage is the challenge because there are reminders everywhere. Your ex husband, the children, his family, friends, church etc. Even though the marriage is dead, there is resurrection every time you encounter these situations. It's the kind of death that is never closed.

Haha, you got that right! There was a lot to unpack. Did you find a comfy spot to listen?

Hey DorcasMasita, Thanks for commenting. A tough spot to be in in your relationship. Are you safe? Considered any professional intervention? This is a topic I get a lot of questions about, and I'm actually planning a video on how to identify and deal with narcissistic partners. Would you be interested in that?

While I cannot offer you a definitive answer based on your individual experience, I understand that narcissistic relationships can be very damaging. Please consider talking to a counselor or exiting if you feel unsafe.