58:21 For me, why I always can walk away from people life is that I know that when Allah have put that relationship to an end in whatever context it would be, you don't have to questioning why. Allah give you sign to move on and 'gerakkan' your heart to end the relationship probably because He wants to give you more than what you already have. For me, if you know you've tried your best for a relationship, don't be afraid to let go things. If it was meant to be, it will comes back to you. Just focus to be better to attract good things❤

The thing i learnt from this episode is how attentive Harith is to Hakim's stories. I was never a good listener when my friends told me something, I got anxious to the point of finding solution for them. But your words stuck with me, there's difference between judgemental & curiousity. I should be curious more. Thanks guys ❤

well me toooo!!! now dah terikut everytime my friend cerita i akan cakap "faham" HAHAHAHA

To hakim,semoga dipermudahkan dan dipertemukan dengan jodoh yang sekufu dan baik2 amiinn

43:00 damn.. it hits me so hard bcs i can relate to hakim.. im a needy person and too depending on my boyfriend. I needed him all the time. That’s why we get into fights every time.. though it is hard for me to change it 360 bcs since i was a kid i was alone all the time. glad i found this podcast. Thanks hakim.

Been through the same thing, keep trying to explain for someone who doesn't want to understand. Thanks a lot for the clearing things out of my mind.

I can totally understand the part where you have to keep on explaining things to someone you love so they'll get where youre coming from, and its really exhausting. Anyway, just my 2 cents regarding this whole thing, I get that Hakim's main intention is to apologise and in the beginning he mentioned that he had no expections when he was drafting the text and when he sent the text, however when the story escalated, you can tell he slowly contradicted to what he said initially. I mean it's fine to admit that we have expectations as long as the expectations are moderate. The moment he feels anxious to send the text, he has expectations on how she'll react to the text, either she ignores it, scrolls through it etc bcs he felt anxious abt it. The moment he dissapointed on how she replied, he had the expectation that she'll reply in certain ways. He had high hopes that they would go back tgt throughout the whole process and hence, the girl could figure that out (it doesnt mean I agree on how she replied tho). We all human anyway, we always have our expectations.All in all, its just my 2 cents and I hope Hakim could heal properly this year with the closure he received and only start to test the waters when he is really ready.

You're so brave to be that vulnarable hakim. I'm still learning 😢

menunggu podcast bersama sofyank lak...nk thu mcm mna jalan hidup dia smpai skrg

kata mudahnya tak sekufu, been there done that

Hi Hakim, just want to let you know yg apa you went through before were similar to mine. But I see that you always ada positive thought lepas apa yg jadi, I pulak baru nak think positive lepas tengok you punya podcast. I hope that everything that break/broke us will make us closer to Allah. i harap you tak give up. i nak ada kawan utk fight together dalam journey yg hampir sama ni! btw thanks hakim and harith utk podcast korg yg selalu best ni!

I LOVEEEEEE THIS TOPIC! Thanks because ive been there and still there. nobody understand me

i have another 10 minutes to end this podcast but im going to comment anyway. I guess every person has their own journey to be mature in handling their feelings. Maybe your ex has a huge trauma that prevent to feel safe when you ask for time to be alone. just listening to this it seems that you are mature in handling your feelings etc but maybe not yet from her end and trauma can play a huge role in the behaviour. Hope you will find someone that match your frequency

this changed my perspective….thank you ❤

I have a special request. Can you guys make minute 52:49 a preview snippets? Those brownie points are too good not to be shared.

Good job harith and hakim!! Both look energetic in this episodeee keep up

Literally sama tho cerita with hakim. Thanks bro you show me the hikmah

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY HAKIM !!!

Happy birthday Hakim !!!

melalui pengalaman yg sama, sumpah boleh relate😢😢

hopefully im the lucky onee! aaaaaa

Damnnn 3 days agoooo

Aduuuu tak first 😢 tapi dah beli merch!!!!!

harith nampak macam zaman poli 😂

Why the shipping to sarawak so expensive🥲 btw happy birthday hakim

Faham.

To Harith, I can help you to produce the demo if you dont mind :)

Nak black color version 🥹

first

size XL xde... huhhuuh

Whyy you guys tak buat session kat klpodfest :(

Dh beli merch

can you guys restock hahhaha

kenapa belakang dia besar sangat 😢

Harith dh dewasa dlm nii

nak beli merch tapi belum gaji 🥲

this came at the right time honestly and somehow it comforts my heart a little bit 🥹

Shipping to sabah is the same price with the merch?🥲