Episode 244: How to Start Over in Your 30s

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Balanced Black Girl

Balanced Black Girl

17 күн бұрын

Do you dream of making a big life change, but worry it’s too late? The good news is, it’s never too late to live your dream life, whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, or beyond.
In today’s solo episode, I’m sharing practical tips and hacks for rebooting your life in your 30s. Whether you're exploring a new career path, considering a move to a different city, or seeking to transform your habits to achieve your goals, I've got you covered.
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@user-fs4uk8mo8n
@user-fs4uk8mo8n 16 күн бұрын
Les, I got my notepad ready for this episode. I literally made a decision 3 days ago that I want to move to Dallas, TX. Also.. will be 41 in a few days. Time to make this happen!!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 16 күн бұрын
@@user-fs4uk8mo8n happy birthday and congrats on the decision to move! Can’t wait to see how things unfold for you 🤎
@Bre_Inspired_
@Bre_Inspired_ 15 күн бұрын
As a person who moved out of my hometown to a new city at 29, and now 4 years later getting the feeling again that it may be time for me to move on to a new environment- this episode is GOLD. So many thought invoking gems dropped. This is the first video of yours that I have seen - SUBSCRIBED immediately 👏
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 14 күн бұрын
@@Bre_Inspired_ omg amazing! So so glad you enjoyed this episode 🥰
15 күн бұрын
Im not black (im latina) but yet i am here♥️
@BraiddByDee
@BraiddByDee 14 күн бұрын
Doesn’t matter! Welcome 💜
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 12 күн бұрын
what @braiddbydee said -- welcome!
@qveencalise
@qveencalise 14 күн бұрын
This couldn’t have come at a better time. I will be 30 in a few months and this is exactly what I needed. Thank you! 💛
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 14 күн бұрын
@@qveencalise amazing! Thanks for watching
@okayteezy
@okayteezy 16 күн бұрын
I absolutely adore your solo content! You’re smart, well spoken and I appreciate hearing your perspectives ❤
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 16 күн бұрын
thank you so much!
@motivatedaily8857
@motivatedaily8857 15 күн бұрын
Settling is a feeling, not an action. Love this statement and such great perspective.
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 15 күн бұрын
@@motivatedaily8857 glad that resonated!
@briannadickson8507
@briannadickson8507 4 күн бұрын
Amazing, so well said. So comforting and reassuring. Can’t thank you enough for this video!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 4 күн бұрын
@@briannadickson8507 🤎🤎🤎
@hanaroseofficial
@hanaroseofficial 4 күн бұрын
I am so excited and thankful to get into this one...just wanted to say at the top of the episode tho, something I LOVE about your approach is that even though you're clearly super intelligent and wise, you don't share your experiences/lessons in a way to stroke your ego or glorify yourself - you remain empowering to others by acknowledging that everyone is on a unique path and must find these truths for themselves, and will have their own ways/lessons/answers best for them. I see a really genuine integrity in your work, and can see that you are super integrated and not just jumping on hot buzz words or giving meme guru energy - which can have a seeking validation/importance charge to it sometimes - which you DO NOT have. You come off very grounded. Lots of admiration from me for the PURNESS to your work and msg.
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 2 күн бұрын
@@hanaroseofficial thank you so much! I really appreciate the kind words. Always striving to share from a place of authenticity
@trenaejxo
@trenaejxo Күн бұрын
This was packed with so much valuable insight and info! Soooo good 🤍
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl Күн бұрын
@@trenaejxo thank you so much 🥹
@ThatGirlTibb
@ThatGirlTibb 10 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this. I have been wanting to move to DC but the jump has controlled me and that's why I am in PA still. I having finally decided to move to Baltimore to at least get out of this space. I have a job where I am in office minimally but will sacrifice and take the 1.75 hour drive to be able to move so I can find my forever place. I also turn 30 in September :)
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 10 күн бұрын
So excited for you!
@user-rd2qh4jk9p
@user-rd2qh4jk9p 8 күн бұрын
Congratulations on 6 years 🥳 I’ve been a supporter of Balanced Black Girl for years; I’m glad that you’re taking on more solo episodes, they were always my favorite! I haven’t finished the video but this has been on my mind so I’m excited to see what this episode brings!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 8 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it!
@mial41
@mial41 21 күн бұрын
You are really coming through with the topics I need to hear this month!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 21 күн бұрын
@@mial41 🥰💕
@breelynn810
@breelynn810 10 күн бұрын
Loved this! I’m 31 and there’s so much I feel behind on and want to accomplish.
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 10 күн бұрын
You are right on time -- so glad you enjoyed the episode!
@theshaesthetic
@theshaesthetic 14 күн бұрын
Omg!!! I’m 29 and my 30th bday is in 4 months and I’ve been doing sooooo much self reflection, it’s crazy! This has me working on some major changes
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 14 күн бұрын
@@theshaesthetic yessss it’s an amazing time in life!
@PNAMIRACLES
@PNAMIRACLES 14 күн бұрын
I’m 28, and I have too. I’m excited for the 30’s. A couple years ago the 30+ age scared me
@theshaesthetic
@theshaesthetic 14 күн бұрын
@@PNAMIRACLES same. but now it feels like im waiting for the first day of school. its a chance at a new beginning with all the wisdom learned in your 20s..
@lebogangmokaila4945
@lebogangmokaila4945 5 күн бұрын
This is my second episode, definitely subscribing. Good content ❤
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 4 күн бұрын
@@lebogangmokaila4945 thank you!
@ToriaStarkes
@ToriaStarkes 16 күн бұрын
This is right on time
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 16 күн бұрын
So glad it was timely!
@kadijhastrong8787
@kadijhastrong8787 8 күн бұрын
This was really helpful thank you , this real authentic and real raw
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 8 күн бұрын
Thanks so much for watching
@afafrafa3366
@afafrafa3366 18 күн бұрын
Love that ❤
@somyiasterling6162
@somyiasterling6162 16 күн бұрын
This was definitely needed ❤ thank you so much
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 16 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤎
@myliberationdiaries
@myliberationdiaries 16 күн бұрын
I resonate so much with this! thank you!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 16 күн бұрын
So glad it resonated!
@Beingme_gretchen
@Beingme_gretchen 15 күн бұрын
New subcriber here from phil. One of your content I watch is full of input that makes me motivate to watch more about your content,I just want say thank you 😢❤❤❤❤
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 15 күн бұрын
@@Beingme_gretchen thank you so much 🤎
@dajamidwest
@dajamidwest 15 күн бұрын
New here!!! Love love love love this episode!!! Such good insight and tips!!! Thank you!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 15 күн бұрын
@@dajamidwest so glad you found me!
@Trynafindmyniche
@Trynafindmyniche 10 күн бұрын
This is my first time seeing your channel and i am so happy i found it ! Your perspective on “ right and wrong answer “ was golden !!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 10 күн бұрын
@@Trynafindmyniche thank you, so glad you found me!
@TallahasseeTonya
@TallahasseeTonya 13 күн бұрын
Wonderful episode as always.
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 13 күн бұрын
@@TallahasseeTonya so glad you enjoyed it!
@torricrowder2754
@torricrowder2754 9 күн бұрын
This is my very first episode and I can’t tell you just how impactful this was to me! I also was listening on my first time back to exercising again! What great alignment! ❤
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 9 күн бұрын
@@torricrowder2754 love that! 🤎 thanks for tuning in
@kadijhastrong8787
@kadijhastrong8787 8 күн бұрын
I just turned 30 in January and I'm starting over like in my 20s I thought I knew myself but clearly I was a kid lol 😂 but I want to become a more goal oriented person, and I'm tried of Procrastination
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 8 күн бұрын
Yess same! I've said my 30s are the decade I wish my 20s was lol
@kadijhastrong8787
@kadijhastrong8787 6 күн бұрын
@@BalancedBlackGirl omg same I was stuch a late bloomer lol 😂
@CLTRUnfiltered
@CLTRUnfiltered 11 күн бұрын
Amazing, as always!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 11 күн бұрын
Thank you so much love, appreciate you!
@DJJalRae
@DJJalRae 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for an inspirational and informative podcast, as per usual. I love seeing your beautiful face❤
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 12 күн бұрын
@@DJJalRae thanks for watching!
@emmalove808
@emmalove808 16 күн бұрын
Mahalo for this!!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 16 күн бұрын
@@emmalove808 you are so welcome 🤎
@comelyshe4772
@comelyshe4772 14 күн бұрын
My biggest hurdles is keeping momentum , self sabotaging thinking patterns . Almost like survivors guilt. Why am I so different than everyone around me. Who do I think I am ? lol
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 14 күн бұрын
@@comelyshe4772 is that something you explored with a therapist? They could help you work through and understand those thought patterns
@comelyshe4772
@comelyshe4772 14 күн бұрын
@@BalancedBlackGirl yes definitely! Working through issues of being the blueprint. The first to chart a different path in my family.
@VictoriaMcDaniels
@VictoriaMcDaniels 8 күн бұрын
Your story sounds exactly like mine omg!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 8 күн бұрын
Omg! We must have a lot in common
@rwahumanalugwa7634
@rwahumanalugwa7634 12 күн бұрын
Waoo this was just in time hard to poss to ask my self a question if I will be ok to be in the same place 10yrs from now , felt terrible
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 12 күн бұрын
definitely understand, I felt the same way. It's such good reflection to do!
@ashleyarrington3054
@ashleyarrington3054 11 күн бұрын
@CurlyVeteran
@CurlyVeteran 14 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@kirsyxi
@kirsyxi 15 күн бұрын
So good 🤎
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 15 күн бұрын
@@kirsyxi 🤎🤎🤎
@Radiancedelight
@Radiancedelight 6 күн бұрын
I’m 31 and I been thinking about moving since I was 20 😢 every year I just want to leave
@aneesa_renae
@aneesa_renae 14 күн бұрын
Washington girly here ❣️😊 7:09
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 14 күн бұрын
@@aneesa_renae 🤎🤎🤎
@bewell.rochellemg5668
@bewell.rochellemg5668 13 күн бұрын
Enjoying your content #newsubbie
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl 13 күн бұрын
@@bewell.rochellemg5668 thank you!
@kinesharedmond5437
@kinesharedmond5437 Күн бұрын
I really needed this🥹 Thank you!
@BalancedBlackGirl
@BalancedBlackGirl Күн бұрын
So glad it resonated!
@user-rd2qh4jk9p
@user-rd2qh4jk9p 8 күн бұрын
Congratulations on 6 years 🥳 I’ve been a supporter of Balanced Black Girl for years; I’m glad that you’re taking on more solo episodes, they were always my favorite! I haven’t finished the video but this has been on my mind so I’m excited to see what this episode brings!
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