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Marriage & the Meaning of Life | Part 1/2 | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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What is the purpose of marriage? What are some of the most important factors that spouses should be careful about? In this detailed talk, Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about the importance of marriage, the order of relationships, and some advice for couples to strengthen their relationship.
00:00:00 Preview
00:00:32 Introduction
00:01:18 Our Preparations for Marriage vs Ideal Preparations for Marriage
00:04:56 The Purpose of Marriage
00:24:50 Marriage - The Need of Individuals
00:35:35 Marriage - The Need of a Human Society
00:50:33 Husband's Responsibilities in Marriage
00:57:23 Wife's Responsibilities in Marriage
01:12:50 Joint Families & Ties With In-Laws
01:24:35 Benchmark of Excellence for the Wife
01:31:09 Benchmark of Excellence for the Husband
01:33:59 The Secret of Happy Marriages
01:34:49 Importance of Order of Relationships
01:41:10 Advice for Mothers
01:42:53 The Principle for Excellence in Relationships
01:51:08 Failing Relationships: Role of Gratitude and Prayers
02:00:28 Failing Relationships: Your Spouse vs your Imaginative Spouse
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@truestar4408
@truestar4408 4 жыл бұрын
I am so amazed about his well respectful way of speaking. He uses muhazzub urdu and clean example.
@kishwarparveen2245
@kishwarparveen2245 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing ideas and in depth practical experiences Mashaa'Allah
@UH_Madni
@UH_Madni 4 жыл бұрын
A million dollar worth topic. No training at all for couples at the time of marriage or even after. It is clearly an example of "Those who fail to plan are planning to fail". These sessions need to be held in hundreds...
@saharatif8170
@saharatif8170 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👍 We need A thorough understanding regarding this topic to clear the misconceptions , developed by our elders under the influence of culture of Sub-continent which is totally the opposite of teachings of Islam & other Holy Religions as well, given to other prophets before Muhammad pbuh by Allah SWT.
@MK-gs8jz
@MK-gs8jz 4 жыл бұрын
Sir agar sas susar aur phir husband b ap k maa baap k bare me kuch aur phir jhota b bolen tu phir husband se hi nafrat hone lgti hy....us waqt kya karen
@alikhansahab8356
@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын
@@MK-gs8jz sabr aur darguzar Karen muaf krden spouse ko iss ka bhtt ajr hay agar nahi kr sakte tou alehda ho jayn
@sunlozara625
@sunlozara625 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, a million dollar worth. ♥️
@sunlozara625
@sunlozara625 3 жыл бұрын
@Muhammad Tayyab are you a professional writer? 🧐
@hajira7222
@hajira7222 4 жыл бұрын
This man has sorted everything out in this life. His videos make me wanna cry for how shallow my lofe has been. Be it at individual/ societal or economoc level. Kudos sir to you. Things are hard to change but these talks will work as the required seed hope so.
@sikandarrinwala3121
@sikandarrinwala3121 3 жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum aap shadi karogi muje se
@AnweR-AmmaR
@AnweR-AmmaR 3 жыл бұрын
@@sikandarrinwala3121 Aapko yhi Jagah mila haii reeshta maangne ka...Thora lihaaj krein apna 🙄🙄🙂🙂
@2cents859
@2cents859 2 жыл бұрын
@@AnweR-AmmaR lol
@truestar4408
@truestar4408 4 жыл бұрын
Simple and well educated person. Who dedicated so much time to understand Islam and human psychology and the relation between them. I wish I can attend his class personally. Thank you for loading these sessions. We need more counselors like him in every part of the muslim world. May Allah grant him more knowledge, health and blessed life.
@MMirajKhalid
@MMirajKhalid 4 жыл бұрын
لگتا یہ ڈسلائک روبوٹ نے کیا ہوگا کیوں کہ ایک انسان کی کیا حیوان بھی ایسی حرکت نہیں کرے گا ! سر اللہ آپ کو طویل عمر دے !
@muftinaeemrashid
@muftinaeemrashid 4 жыл бұрын
الحمدللہ چند جوڑوں میں صلح کرانے کی اللہ نے توفیق دی ہے اور آپ کی ویڈیو بھی ان کے آگے پیش کریں گے تو مزید بہتری آئے گی انشاءاللہ
@kishwersadaqat2054
@kishwersadaqat2054 4 жыл бұрын
Behtareen sentence hai" jis ko samjh ziyada aya hai us ki zemadari bhi ziyada hai maaf krne ki bhi maafi mangny ki bhi "meri koshish yehi ho gi k main apni tamam life is principle k teht guzaron insha'Allah & Ameen
@lurcativereads
@lurcativereads 4 жыл бұрын
THANKX FOR THE ANECDOTE.
@flfl-qg8mn
@flfl-qg8mn 4 жыл бұрын
چھوٹی چوٹی باتوں پہ جن کا دل دکھتا ہے۔وہ زندگی میں بڑےکام کےقابل نہی ہوسکے۔1:23:50
@sanji546
@sanji546 4 жыл бұрын
True
@alikhansahab8356
@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahih
@tanzeelsthoughts-commercia8594
@tanzeelsthoughts-commercia8594 3 жыл бұрын
Theak
@aqibchaudharymotivation
@aqibchaudharymotivation 4 жыл бұрын
love from india i am going to be a parenting trainer inshallah every sentence is a treasure.
@haamidmir9801
@haamidmir9801 4 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah ! I'm very amazed to know the real and depth meaning of the marriage in first lecture . Jazak'Allah ! Salman Asif Saddiqui Sir May Almighty Allah give us good health, wealth and give me a good life partner ! Ameen!
@sz4653
@sz4653 4 жыл бұрын
Wish we would listened it 20 yrs back....Truly depicts the women nature ....wish our sons now grow in your way.
@salmannasir7059
@salmannasir7059 3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@beauty9839
@beauty9839 3 жыл бұрын
Bhagwaan apko salamat rakhe glad to watch before marriage love from India 🇮🇳
@dawoodalam8659
@dawoodalam8659 3 жыл бұрын
😊
@learnquranslow433
@learnquranslow433 4 жыл бұрын
Just so soothing to hear ke farz ni ha khana bana kr dena phir bi 80 to 90 percent us ne bnaya! How can people not know this..
@kishwersadaqat2054
@kishwersadaqat2054 4 жыл бұрын
Acha topic hai buhaat kuch seekhney ko mile ga Insha'Allah Thank you ERDC❤
@mightypen11
@mightypen11 Жыл бұрын
May Allah swt preserve our teacher... Almighty has given him more understanding of our religion Islam than any modern day scholar of Islam... Alhamdulillah for his knowledge...
@sumaiyakhan1136
@sumaiyakhan1136 4 жыл бұрын
ap soch b ni sakte k how much its helpfull to listen to you.. beautifull SIR ❤
@salmannasir7059
@salmannasir7059 3 жыл бұрын
Ap soch bhi nahin sakte???
@iqbalbangalore5814
@iqbalbangalore5814 4 жыл бұрын
شادی کا مقصد ، صاف اور بہتر معاشرہ کی تشکیل اور بے حیائی سے محفوظ رہنے کے لئے۔
@umma.abdullah.nadeem
@umma.abdullah.nadeem 4 жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیرا۔ اللہ تعالی ہم سب کے دل میں یہ باتیں اتار دیں
@kishwersadaqat2054
@kishwersadaqat2054 4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@wajinapster1156
@wajinapster1156 4 жыл бұрын
itni detail shayad hi kisi ne bayan ki ho or wo bhi itni khubsurti se... Sir Allah apko kamyab kary
@khalidsohailhakim8141
@khalidsohailhakim8141 3 жыл бұрын
Our societies fail because we dont teach them what is needed before they start their Life long Journey of relationships. In yesteryears a family would be blessed if our nanni granny grandpa or uncle would teach day to day with such examples. That is where a family bond is created and Legacy of a Happy relationship is passed on. Thank you for such a wonderful presentation.
@muhsinkamal9988
@muhsinkamal9988 4 жыл бұрын
A Crystal clear person.. Very authentic and absolutely beneficial❤
@muftinaeemrashid
@muftinaeemrashid 4 жыл бұрын
اس موضوع پر مولانا وحید الدین خان نے بھی بہت خوب لکھا ہے
@Mahdbloxfruits
@Mahdbloxfruits 4 жыл бұрын
Was anxiously waiting for this this is the sad reality of our society that both men and women don't know how to treat each other after marriage also third party plays a very crucial role in this relationship if they are too much involved may ALLAH make our spouses a source of happiness ameen
@salmannasir7059
@salmannasir7059 3 жыл бұрын
Deep thinking...
@sz4653
@sz4653 4 жыл бұрын
It looks so nice to hold your daughter,MashaAllah Allah always keep your family happy.Ameen.
@mariaahmad4584
@mariaahmad4584 4 жыл бұрын
"Badkar Aurtein" "Badkar Mardon" k Liye Hain...... "Badkar Mard" "Badkar Aurton" k Liye Hain...... "Pak Aurtein" "Pak Mardon" k Liye Hain....... "Pak Mard" "Pak Aurton" k Liye Hain...... (Surah-e-Noor, Aayat#26)
@SochnayKiBaat
@SochnayKiBaat 3 жыл бұрын
شادی وہ واحد رشتہ جس سے تمام رشتوں کی ابتدا ہوتی ہے۔ اور شادی ہی وہ واحد رشتہ جسے چننے کے لیے اللہ نے انسان کو بہت حد تک اختیار دیا ہے۔ رشتہِ ازدواج میں منسلک ہونے کے بعد مرد و عورت کو جو اولاد عطا ہوتی ہے۔ وہ خالصتاً اللہ کی مرضی سے ہوتی ہے۔ اسی طرح اولاد بھی اپنے والدین کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہے۔ اور اسی طرح اولاد کو ملنے والے بہن بھائی بھی ایک دوسرے کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہیں۔ الغرض شادی کے علاوہ تمام رشتے اللہ تعالی اپنی مرضی سے بناتے ہیں۔ بس صرف شریک حیات کے انتخاب کے لئے اللہ تعالی نے انسان کو کچھ بہترین اصولوں کے ساتھ اختیار دیا ہے۔
@salmannasir7059
@salmannasir7059 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@tanzeelsthoughts-commercia8594
@tanzeelsthoughts-commercia8594 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@hadiqaraza4011
@hadiqaraza4011 3 жыл бұрын
Wah ZABARDAAST SACH BYAAAN KIA HAI APP NE ,LIKE SO MUCH
@ummeali3282
@ummeali3282 4 жыл бұрын
Alhumdulilah Apki qeemti batain hein❤️❤️ bht meaning full talk..
@haseeburrehman3655
@haseeburrehman3655 4 жыл бұрын
ماشاء اللّٰہ بہت خوب تعلیم دی مضمون کا انتخاب بہت اعلیٰ
@QQ-yv8yl
@QQ-yv8yl 4 жыл бұрын
Order of relation is the key parameter. It deservs full lecture with many practical examples where spouses forget to remember order of relation.
@aqsazainab6652
@aqsazainab6652 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your guidelines for all of us.I am eagerly awaiting for part 2.May Allah bless you
@sikandarrinwala3121
@sikandarrinwala3121 3 жыл бұрын
Aap muje se shaadi karlo
@faisalazad1127
@faisalazad1127 4 жыл бұрын
SubhanAllah MashaAllah,bht si chezain jo lailmi main ghalat hogaen Allah mujhey muaf krday,temprament pr kaam krna hoga,jo hay wo wohi behtreen hay accept krna hoga.p
@wasimcharity4all
@wasimcharity4all 4 жыл бұрын
So loving comments from his Wife! May your family stay blessed.
@UH_Madni
@UH_Madni 4 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT reward you @Salman sb n @ERDC for bringing up this much needed topic.
@NaveeraMAnwar
@NaveeraMAnwar 2 жыл бұрын
ماشاء اللہ میرے استاد محترم نے بہت ہی بہترین انداز میں بات سمجھائی ہے
@fehmidaasif4437
@fehmidaasif4437 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir your way of speaking is very impressive and no one tell this topic as such polite manners.
@ZOHUKUDAI999
@ZOHUKUDAI999 2 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah sir You are my murabbi..May Allah paak bless you with Afiyat prosperity Jannat goodness Peace
@mishikanwalirfan7463
@mishikanwalirfan7463 4 жыл бұрын
His wife is very lucky to have like him husband
@user-wg4zh3kv6n
@user-wg4zh3kv6n 3 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah Baruk Allah fee amen.
@sayedaftabqadri8171
@sayedaftabqadri8171 4 жыл бұрын
Ye mauzu ka mai bade shiddat se intezar kar raha tha MashAllah sir🙌 Apke har jumle our alfaz me badi ilmi taufeeq hai.... Allah taala apki umar me barkat ataa farmaye...
@salmannasir7059
@salmannasir7059 3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@abulkhairzafar8477
@abulkhairzafar8477 3 жыл бұрын
1.Afzaishe insaniyat 2.Social life formation. 3. Good , noble concepts and aamaale saleh forwarding to coming generations.
@sanarabbi7006
@sanarabbi7006 2 жыл бұрын
U are doing great service to this Ummah by telling them what is expected of them...the heart bleeds to think what we have become...we dont know what we are...May Allah guide
@sabafatima6767
@sabafatima6767 3 жыл бұрын
This lecture is exceptional and very intellectual... experience and wisdom both are so evident Masha Allah
@user-pe5zp8xv6z
@user-pe5zp8xv6z 3 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah sheer khwar bachay bhi sun rahe hain Salman asif saab ko JzakAllah
@aqsazainab6652
@aqsazainab6652 4 жыл бұрын
This is really informative and argumentative sir. ALLAH bless you.
@KhanIsmaily
@KhanIsmaily 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, Giving us a deep discussion for married and unmarried(those who nearer to perform Nikah)-- these points absolutely helpful--💐 Jazak'Allah Khair😊
@malihaehtram4628
@malihaehtram4628 4 жыл бұрын
Salam Sir. If you do read comments please answer this for me. Is respecting and taking care of Saas Susar (who are like our parents and I totally agree with that) only for females? Are husbands never accountable or even told that his saas susar are like his parents too? Why do we only expect females to treat her saas susar like her parents and this is not expected of or even repeatedly told to the husbands?
@haseeburrehman3655
@haseeburrehman3655 4 жыл бұрын
محترمہ میں اپ سے متفق نہیں۔ بہت سے شوہر سمجھدار اور خدا خوفی کے تحت بالکل اسی طرح اس کے بھی چار ماں باپ ہیں جیسے بیوی کے چار ماں باپ بیوی کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم شوہر کرے گا شوہر کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم بیوی کرے گی
@saminamalik9745
@saminamalik9745 3 жыл бұрын
Maliha our society is dominated by Hindu culture. These traditions have no value in our religion. It’s hard to feel love for a person who doesn’t treat your parents with at least respect ( if not love). It goes both ways
@zakirhusaindema2244
@zakirhusaindema2244 3 жыл бұрын
Saas, sasur are responsibilities of saala. Respect and love are always there but in the name of love and respect responsibilities are thrusts on.
@misbahhabib8866
@misbahhabib8866 3 жыл бұрын
@@zakirhusaindema2244 and if there is no sala, what then? Shouldn’t son in law at least visit his sas susr now and then? And encourage his wife to look after them
@zakirhusaindema2244
@zakirhusaindema2244 3 жыл бұрын
@@misbahhabib8866 of course son in law should take place of the son in fact it’s a very good opportunity for son in law to gain sawab by doing so. By the way if you really love a person you would love all connected lives and things. For instance majnoon used to kiss a dog belong to Laila’s maholla. Hope you got my point🌹🌷💐 love for all.
@asdfghjkl-pm3jo
@asdfghjkl-pm3jo 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best lectures I have ever listened...so logical. So funny, cus it's tooo relatable 😂❤ May Allah bless Sir Salman Asif and his family..aameen. JazakAllahu khair
@asifnasirofficial
@asifnasirofficial 3 жыл бұрын
Sir Allah Bless you in this world and hereafter, it makes me cry. Ab waqt aa gaya hai k hum ye batain gharon main shuru karain warna jis barbadi ki taraf hum jaaa rahay hain wahan se wapsi 400 saal main bhi mushkil hai Allah sari umat e muslima ko Amal ki tofique ata farmaiy. Ameen.
@ravindersudesh8340
@ravindersudesh8340 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother ji for your teaching God Bless you
@fatimamughal9440
@fatimamughal9440 2 жыл бұрын
Shaadi ki jaati hai ke imaan bachaya jae. It doesnt mean ke only legal husband wife relationship ho, balkay apna aap nd apnay aas paas ke logon ke saath is life ke challenges overcome kerna with the help of teachings of Allah nd Rasulullah Sallallahu Aayhi WaSsalaam taakay hereafter life attain ki jae.
@azkashakeel6877
@azkashakeel6877 4 жыл бұрын
This program is the Gem of my life.
@sikandarrinwala3121
@sikandarrinwala3121 3 жыл бұрын
Aap ki shadi ho gai he?
@vickyniazi7690
@vickyniazi7690 3 жыл бұрын
@@sikandarrinwala3121 0pll0l000l0l0p MP pll000l0plllpl000ll0 OK ll0lll0pp Allah Allah-olll9l on one o loop 😂 ll9ll lol
@vickyniazi7690
@vickyniazi7690 3 жыл бұрын
@@sikandarrinwala3121 on olk9ool
@vickyniazi7690
@vickyniazi7690 3 жыл бұрын
@@sikandarrinwala3121 👌 OK l9
@vickyniazi7690
@vickyniazi7690 3 жыл бұрын
@@sikandarrinwala3121 😈😈
@yasir3918
@yasir3918 3 жыл бұрын
True hero of our society..
@amnashahzad2509
@amnashahzad2509 4 жыл бұрын
Well chosen words , catered wd awl d ethics n a very imp topic , very well explained . nvr thought of awl ds interlinked behaviours wd ds topic 👍
@sikandarrinwala3121
@sikandarrinwala3121 3 жыл бұрын
Mere se shaadi karlo
@lightupwithshua
@lightupwithshua 4 жыл бұрын
Very nice, there are many assumptions at the end of your conversation but mostly very informative and useful. Thank you for your efforts.
@sikandarrinwala3121
@sikandarrinwala3121 3 жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum muje se shaadi karlo
@mohammeddanish8624
@mohammeddanish8624 3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillaah....this is the need of hour to understand these issues a little deeper. i have some points "As you have said that - Marriage is not Farz but according to Classical scholars, it is a matter which becomes FArz (about those who may have higher chances to act adultery), Sunnah (for common muslism) and Mustahab and recommended for others as well." and many scholar Imam like - IBNeTaymiyyah didn'nt marry.
@sunlozara625
@sunlozara625 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful and authentic analysis. ♥️♥️ There is hope until there are people like him exist. Shopping 😄😄😄Exactly, that’s all ......getting married about, unfortunately.
@sabadoc3543
@sabadoc3543 3 жыл бұрын
Its a suggesstion plz make short clips that can be shared on whataap etc. It will be more easy to share.
@hello_guys554
@hello_guys554 4 жыл бұрын
Bht din se is topic per aap ke khyalat janna chahti thi...kai baar search bhi kiya....jazak allah
@QQ-yv8yl
@QQ-yv8yl 4 жыл бұрын
پہلے پانچ سال تو اچھے گزر جاتے ہیں. پھر ماں بچوں سے محبت کرتی ہے اور باپ کو ٹف ٹائم ملتا ہے.
@IrfanAhmed-kp5db
@IrfanAhmed-kp5db 4 жыл бұрын
Superb and very useful talk! May Allah bless you!
@nidasiddiqui746
@nidasiddiqui746 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing information and knowledge I received!! Alhamdulliah:)
@FaisalNaeemuae
@FaisalNaeemuae 4 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah kahir Salman Sahib
@MuneerSpeaks2.0
@MuneerSpeaks2.0 4 жыл бұрын
I love to listen to you sir. Love from kashmir #MuneerSpeaks
@tasneemrasool8222
@tasneemrasool8222 2 жыл бұрын
Aap ki zabardast analysis hai aurtoan ki security ke baare me. I have always thought about it and found exactly the same.Masha Allah Aap bahot khoob bayaan karte hain.Maza aa jata hai.I want to follow your order of relationships.
@ijazrashid6237
@ijazrashid6237 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you with reward for your contribution 🤲🏻
@mawbeg
@mawbeg 4 жыл бұрын
بہت عمدہ ما شاء اللہ۔۔۔ جزاکم اللہ خیرا
@umbreenosama7709
@umbreenosama7709 3 жыл бұрын
In Islam order of relationship comes after justice. Justice is the main Islamic rule to follow. In Surah Al Hadid, Ayah 25, its mentioned, “We sent Our Messengers with clear signs and sent down with them the Book and the balance in order to establish justice among the people…” (57:25)
@AbdulBasit-or9ub
@AbdulBasit-or9ub 3 жыл бұрын
An excellent presentation. A very long time is required to absorb the main points of this talk.
@mrsnazar4001
@mrsnazar4001 5 ай бұрын
Sir JazakAllah you are such a good teacher in my life ..
@Rabi78651
@Rabi78651 2 ай бұрын
Ap bare batreen insan hain MashaAllah bhuat Achi batain kahin ap ne Allah Salamat rakhay
@princessleo5311
@princessleo5311 4 жыл бұрын
Plz make your podcast too.Love to hear you again n again.
@adnansamey2870
@adnansamey2870 4 жыл бұрын
In today era or journey a basic problem had distract the relationship of both .ln behind the scenes there is demotivate of people. There is a great need of motivation .sir you are great
@suchmuch4025
@suchmuch4025 4 жыл бұрын
May Allah reward you for your work
@MagicFriends342
@MagicFriends342 3 жыл бұрын
میری شادی کے بعد مجھے بہت مسائل پیش آۓ اور ابھی تک ۱۶ سال بعد بھی ہر روز اور ہر سال ایک نیا مسئلہ مجھے پیش آتا ہے جس کو میں بہت اچھے طریقے سے حل کرتی ہوں اور اس کے بعد بھی مجھے پتہ ہوتا ہے کہ ایک اور مسئلہ میرا انتظار کر رہا ہے۔
@tasneemrasool8222
@tasneemrasool8222 2 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah for all these tips.
@whoned
@whoned 3 жыл бұрын
I must say if we observe...we will find that marriages can be classified..1.Situations or cirumstances....... 2.persons like each other. 3.parents . 4.society.......................Now how we explain it..... as if two persons like each others and all parents r too..marriage happen. Second liking is here but parents doesn't like.... marriage not happened.. in some cases persons took courage to make parents agree. Third. Role play of society ....peoples around can influence..may be jealousy.......fourth.... peoples who become religous and say they do marriage for the sake of GOD..... so such religous persons( Mostly depend on liking of parents )want to live in their home and society.... again this is circumstances......the most important thing is patience works a lot and persons capbility having that vision (compromise).one true thing is if two persons marriage happened in young age...(mostly cousin) responsibility fall on man.in young age..focus now is to carry on like make money for a family. Now one important thing is how all peoples know before happening. What is a role play of dua, support, courage, a good conversation............... u can right ur fate..... so dua and prayers work here truly.In all cases,, ... don't forget ...thankfulness, obedience to AllahaSwt, loyalty to Mohammed Pbuh.in way of life matters,as not only in this world and here after too.
@muhammadshafiquedaiwliqadr3208
@muhammadshafiquedaiwliqadr3208 4 жыл бұрын
MA SHA ALLAH SALMAN Sahib,,salamat Rahiey
@muhammadsalmanwarsi4301
@muhammadsalmanwarsi4301 4 жыл бұрын
That's a wonderful tpix
@tasneemrasool8222
@tasneemrasool8222 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.Mark Twain was right.Forgiveness is the best arrangement.Why carry extra baggage.
@Eidulazhatales
@Eidulazhatales 4 жыл бұрын
Gunnah say Bachay or nafs ke khwahisaat ko Halal Tariqay say poora karnay Kay leay Shaadi ke jati hay
@TajamalGhumman
@TajamalGhumman 3 жыл бұрын
بہترین بات۔۔۔ اج کے دور میں شادی کے ادارے کو تباہ کیا جا رہا ھے تاکہ مذہب کو ختم کیا جا سکے! دیر سے شادی سے بڑا عذاب کوئی نہی ھے۔۔۔جلدی شادی سے زیادہ بابرکت چیز کوئی نہی 😔
@habibrehman8994
@habibrehman8994 3 жыл бұрын
Zabardast, The speaker is ahl e zubaan Excellent try, however with all humbleness I want to add that the way speaker chose is the way of story telling... Sir please throw some light on how to internalise them concepts From feelings point of view, how to classify different feelings at different stages of process of marriage Because it's interrelation of thought and emotions that creates or can create idiosyncratic behaviour in different agents in a relationship be it marriage or something else.... Jzakullah ho khair Please forgive me if it is too harsh
@hassanbinaman1
@hassanbinaman1 4 жыл бұрын
Buht acha .....but mere ami km az km kisi pr jhootay ilzam hurgiz nai lagati theen.. choti moti batain to sas ho ya maa...insan sb ki brdasht kr leta hy...but had sy hi guzar jana...yeh matter krta hy..... Is may husband sy maa bap ko larnay ka to hurgiz nai kehta koi b..but adab or reapect k sath unko asal muamla samjha bta k un ki galatfehmi to door kr skta hy na...yahi husband ka role hota hy k woh kaisay dono rishton my balance krta hy....
@unknown-wu4mk
@unknown-wu4mk 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, aapka Quraan ka low of shuker wali baat heart touching
@aliansari3060
@aliansari3060 4 жыл бұрын
Allah hifazat farmaye aapki or apki family ki
@farahnaz-cb2es
@farahnaz-cb2es 3 жыл бұрын
Jazaak Allah alkhair. Such an education should be a must for the marrying people, before their marriage. And should be attached with the marriage registrar. Marriage registry will be done only when this education is taken.
@tasneemrasool8222
@tasneemrasool8222 2 жыл бұрын
Creating awareness about this precious knowledge of order of relationship.Your contribution is the essence of perfection and excellence.I would love to be an active part of your organisation.
@farazalikhan4570
@farazalikhan4570 3 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah..you r right mentor in this society...these days..Allah apko lambi omer d
@sherbanomhussain3371
@sherbanomhussain3371 4 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu khairan kaseera brother 🤲💐👍
@harisbinsaeed
@harisbinsaeed 4 жыл бұрын
Pause leke bataon, agar me in logo ki jaga hota, hamare kuch rohani needs hoti hain kuch jismani, tou apni un jismani aur hewani needs ko halal tareeqay se hasil krne ke liey ham shadi krte hain jisme barhaal kuch rohani pehlon bhi hn jo apke nafs ki pakeezgi ka sabab banty hn 😇
@lifewithAysha
@lifewithAysha 3 жыл бұрын
ap shadi shuda hai?
@harisbinsaeed
@harisbinsaeed 3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithAysha G, alhamdulilah
@lifewithAysha
@lifewithAysha 3 жыл бұрын
@@harisbinsaeed thats good
@harisbinsaeed
@harisbinsaeed 3 жыл бұрын
@@lifewithAysha yep this year, simply in corona, had nikkah in Feb 🙂
@lifewithAysha
@lifewithAysha 3 жыл бұрын
@@harisbinsaeed love or arranged
@zaibunnisa9217
@zaibunnisa9217 2 жыл бұрын
Burhapay ka sath jo husband wife Aik Dusray key Kam AA saktay hain dusra koi nahi kr sakta.
@abulkhairzafar8477
@abulkhairzafar8477 3 жыл бұрын
Achievement of Sakina to both , man and woman
@uzmajelani2984
@uzmajelani2984 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent lecture thanks
@asimomerkhawaja
@asimomerkhawaja Жыл бұрын
It will be great if we do not condemn people before our reformation talk as it leads to a certain feeling of Superiority over others. The Sunnah of our Prophet peace be upon him is that people around you should not feel inferior. JazakAllah
@talatansari6317
@talatansari6317 3 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah.subhanAllah v beautiful conversation
@mohdafzalansari3637
@mohdafzalansari3637 4 жыл бұрын
Mai app se request karta hu app ajhi knowledge dete hi but please 30 minat se jada k video boring or topic se hat jata hi or interest bhi nahi huta pura sunne ka..
@shaziamasood9681
@shaziamasood9681 3 жыл бұрын
You can hear this in small Portion, I do so
@ahmadhassan7370
@ahmadhassan7370 Жыл бұрын
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@nabeel316
@nabeel316 4 жыл бұрын
34:38 human beings May believe that the the strongest bond is with parents and/or with kids but point to be noted is that a large portion of their life with these relation is when he/she was a child or when the kids are little... the only relationship that human beings initiate as an adult (when he /she is at the peak of his /her physical and mental maturity) and keep till the end of his or her life ,.......is that of husband and wife.
@ummabdul5412
@ummabdul5412 3 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah Cover the topic beautifully💞
@gadikamran3485
@gadikamran3485 4 жыл бұрын
کمال کا بیان ہے اور بہت واضح وضاحت کے ساتھ ۔۔۔
@troisxa
@troisxa 3 жыл бұрын
May Allah swt bless this man.
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