Nafs ka cocecept ap taswuf ky baghair nae samjh sakty Hein nae ap ko parhna chahye lazmi phir Nazar aega nafs ap ko haqeqat mein sofiism concept samjhein

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Sir you r blessing from Allah Swt. May Allah Grant you reward in this dunia and life hearaftr.ameen

Thanks Dr shaib

I listened both of you masha Allah Excellent Stay bless

Dear,, Contradict?

He is just advising against western form of excess praise where kid becomes bigheaded, expects praise, thinks all his kamalaat are from his ownself...there is no harm in thanking children for their good actions, making dua for em and saying mashallah, look what abilities Allah has blessed you with, etc. A high level Muslim would hate to be praised to the face, although it is natural to enjoy praise. Like he said, it is like knowing white sugar is bad for you, despite liking the taste.

@@Snailryder OK, so he could have called it "undeserved praise" instead of a clickbaity title like that. AFAIK, most western countries are doing way better than any Muslim country sir as far as bringing up their children. Maybe that's one reason millions of Muslims try every year to enter western countries by hook or crook. Children feed off praise and to say one shouldn't praise them just sounds wrong. Actually a lot of behavioural psychologists say one should ignore bad behaviour and only praise when children engage in good behavior. Undue praise may be uncalled for. I agree. And I don't see this as a "Muslim" vs "non Muslim" children issue, Children are children.

@@AbaseenPodcast Have you watched the full video? Everything is explained fully. Firstly, it is an erroneous perception that children are brought up better in Western countries...just ask anybody who teaches in a state secondary in the UK or lives in a working class housing estate, where teenagers are unruly, disrespectful and even physically intimidate and attack teachers and neighbours! Secondly, the reason for migration to Western countries is due to poverty, economic deprivation and mismanagement of resources in their home countries, and perhaps an image from media/Hollywood portraying life in Europe or the US to be luxurious - nothing to do with kids... Finally, this video is about the Prophetic way of raising children, not Muslim vs Non-Muslim. Children should be given positive feedback in the RIGHT way, which does not create big egos or expectations of constant praise. The Prophet SAW had a beautiful character and loved children, treating them with kindness and compassiom, but also provided us with a balance and a framework so that we do not spoil them in the blindness of unconditional love. Again, I suggest you listen to the full video then make your judgement...

@@Snailryder I guess the point is that children shouldn't be overly praised to the point that they develop arrogance and start demanding praise for petty things. And when they do something wrong they should be corrected. There were times in the Sunnah of the Prophet (S. A.W) that companions were praised for their actions so they are motivated to do even better. It's just undeserving praise which Islam teaches us to avoid.

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