so scary how men can be so perfect in the beginning and then suddenly turn into a monster...

The fact that he said "Yall know how much I love myself, how could I not wanna be with ME in a female version" was a sign from the beginning.

The worst thing a man can do is awaken a women's heart,with the promise of loving her, with no intention of loving her for life

Look at his reaction when Erica says "now your free" he rubs his hands together and smirks in excitement. This boy is BEYOND WICKED!!!!

I can’t believe that man chased her down just to treat her no better than a stranger on the street. You took a woman whose guard was up, give her hope that you would treat her different just to be the WORST significant other she’s had.

The fact she thought he was sent to her from her dad is so sad

When she said.. I feel like you're my roommate... I know exactly what she means. It's the most awful and lonely feeling.

This man said I didn’t realize having a child is this much work lol

This timeline is a perfect example of what narcissistic abuse is. It contains everything... hoovering, gaslighting, deflecting, love avoid/neglect, social humiliation, manipulation, blame shifting, minimizing, and back to hoovering

Isn't it CRAZY how she told him that she was afraid of ending up a single mother and cheated on and this is EXACTLY what he ended up doing to her? She unknowingly predicted her own downfall.

I can’t imagine my husband putting SO much pressure on me to have a son and then abandon not just me but your own kids too. Jesus.

This is exactly the example of wanting something you can’t have and as you have it, you no longer want it. I feel so bad for her.

Rasheeda fixing her lips to say "Oh, I don't play that" took me CLEAN OUT!!! Like girl, BYE!!! You played that, got played, and still playing😂FOH!!

It’s crazy how a man will do everything to make you fall in love just to hurt you.

This is the definition of love bombing/narcissistic relationship.

When he tripped about that pre-nup, i knew something was up then

Not Rasheeda saying “I don’t play that shit”🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴 girl yes you do

His reaction to her second pregnancy is every woman/girls worst nightmare. What he did to her and continues to do, is disgusting, period.

The way she gets emotional and excited about receiving a watch and him about the girls dancing at their house shows what type of people they both are.

Now Rasheeda, you don’t play what? Stop playing in our faces 😂😂😂

His dismissiveness towards the end of their relationship was honestly disgusting.

Her crying and saying "I'm scared you don't wanna do life with me" and him replying " You're so dramatic" 💔

He only asked how many weeks because he wanted to know if it was too late to do the other thing 👀 typical narcissistic behaviour

Loving yourself is one of the most important things you can do in life. But loving yourself does not equate to also humiliating or belittling somebody in the process. Loving yourself also means righting your wrongs and being a better you. Safari does not love himself, he loves his image and loves attention from other people to validate himself

When she said "so you don't care?" And he looked at her dead in the face and said "I don't care'". My heart broke for her because he really meant it.

He cried at the wedding like he’d never cheat nor mistreat her🤮🤮🚮🚮

I know the world hates her but no one deserves what he did to her. My heart truly breaks for her. I just know she’s never going to let her guard down like that again and that’s heart breaking 🤍. He’s 🚮

I’m trying to figure out how Nicki survived this man for years. Now she’s the mvp

Narcassist. He chased her just to ruin her. What a 🤡

I feel like as awful as the other men have been in their own relationships, even they were shocked at Safaree leaving the baby shower.

She said it all..when she said he cant do real life..he really want a rap video everyday

Imagine being afraid of how your husband will react when you tell him you’re pregnant. I feel so sad for Erica and everything this boy has taken her through!

I know Erica isn’t the best person at all but she truly got played in her marriage. She was all in it and wanted to love this man but he did a 180 on her and left her high and dry. I wouldn’t wish that on any woman. I’m sorry she had to go there that.

Married Men like safaree deserve jail time for emotionally abusing their spouse and causing stressful situations when they are pregnant. This should be counted as child endangerment because it’s not healthy for mom to be stressed out pregnant.

Erica looked absolutely beautiful at the wedding. Flash forward to recently and you can see it written all over her body the hell he put her through. I hope she can find the one who loves her more than himself. (I'm sorry the way he cried at the wedding vs. How he ended up doing her..... 🤡)

Damn watching this is like watching a replay of my relationship with my narcissistic husband. Love bombed me, put us in situations where he got to stand up for me and make it “us against the world”, told me I was his twin and the female version of him, at the beginning appeared extremely loyal and always made a big show of it, did big shows of affection and public displays then the discard phase happened over the course of our 15 year marriage. I was only freshly 19 and grew up with narc parents, grandparents and a mentally I’ll sister who beat me during her episodes. She was five years older than me and much more muscular and bigger in size. I was sexually, verbally, mentally, physically and financially abused my entire life and this narcissist came when I turned 19 and provided everything that I always wanted and missed out on my entire life. The first child born he was so happy and engaged but by the second he was angry and tried to get me to have an abortion. Everything was my fault, he acted disgusted with me, always put me down while complimenting other women, stole money from me over the years and had a secret bank account, physically abused me, emotionally abused me and blamed everything on me. I didn’t know he was turning people against me the entire time and when I divorced him he was planning all type of shit. When I got away from him and he couldn’t affect me he turned the abuse on our daughter and she almost killed herself. He ended up beating her like a grown man and lost the kids but fooled DCFS and got custody back of our son, the son he wanted to abort but now all of the sudden wants and needs and cries because he didn’t have him 🙄 I’m still dealing with the courts and my six year old is being emotionally abused but doesn’t realize it. The narcs are demons and the only way the kill them off is to heal and learn from your mistakes. I wouldn’t wish a narc on my worst enemy.

She looked so happy when they first got together. You could tell the way he treated her on that show made her feel special too. She embraced his culture and really loved him. He really sold her a dream. He use to talk about getting married and having kids with her all the time and as soon as it happened he decided he didn't want it.

There was not ONE TEAR on Safaree’s face at their wedding 😭

The prenup shit was warranted

Nicki dodged a bullet for sure

If VH1 thinks imma spend time to watch all this mess they definitely right 😭

“I don’t wanna be the wife that gets cheated on”, literally becomes that 😭

Safaree’s problem he wants life to be fun and easy all the time, and that’s not the case. It’s sad to watch because you can tell somewhere in there he wants to do better , but he’s too scared to face the hard feelings of anger, doubt, etc.

Tbh marriage is not for everyone.. it’s just soo stressful when you end with someone who truly doesn’t want to be committed..I feel sorry for Erica..

There were soooo many freaking red flags, she just wanted it to be real. She NEEDED it to be real. The fact that she literally told him her biggest fear was being a wife that’s getting cheated on & deceived & then he went out & did EXACTLY THAT is sickening. He’s a malignant narcissist ! I feel so bad for Ericka, he sold her a dream. SMH Safaree TRASH 🚮

Marriage takes love, commitment and patience. Safari wants fun all the time and Erica takes being a wife and mother very seriously. It’s not going to be fun and games all the time.

I’m still honestly confused on what happened with this relationship…because there is noooo way Safaree really chased this woman down just to marry, to then divorce her…like there is no way….😒

crying at the wedding like that & STILL did her the worst way 😭

Imagine safaree crying during the wedding 💒 he can hardly keep a straight face 😐 then he is the same guy who missed the birth of his son and was out wildling,what Erica is going through is my GREATEST fear my God!

Safaree en Kirk are literally the WORST husbands 😭 they should be locked tf up

Even the way he acted when she told him about the dad situation. He just sat there quiet. Ugh love blinds us sometimes:(

Erica has a knack for leaving out her part in the situation and making herself the victim. Erica ignored his red flags & was just happy to have someone up under her 24/7. Safaree is childish but i don't think he was just doing anything for no reason. We've seen Erica lie, manipulate, verbally & physically abuse her partners so I can only imagine the things she's done to him out of anger. I believe she was violent toward him. Not to mention she doesn't miss an opportunity to berate him or nag. Safaree should've spoke his peace instead of shutting down & letting her control the narrative.

Throughout this video, Safaree has constantly said I love myself, I want to marry a female version of myself. Texting her “I will always put myself before you”. That man will never be truly happy with anyone, and the sad part about it is he chased and preyed on that woman knowing damn well he wouldn’t love/take care of her forever or a long time. He did that for momentary gain and for his ego. He’s a piece of shit and he only cares about himself and Jamaica smh

Erica was full right in having that prenup meeting. Hopefully she got one because she was right about him back then.

I just wish I can fast forward time to when Erica is healed, both emotionally and physically. She deserves better. I wish her well.

Man I’ve been through what Erica has been through (without the 2nd child), and felt all that she said with every fibre or my being. The minute a man says or shows that he will always put himself above a child you bore OR are raising - you’re done for life! You will NEVER forget that s*it!!!! Even if you go back to him. The trust, love, care and every other thing you feel for that person will die and the remains turn instantly to hate and will burn hotter than hell itself with a fire that only the grace and mercy of GOD will extinguish…for He hates it when you abuse his children….especially when all they did was LOVE. Erica baby - we leave our battle to God…. ✌🏾 #stayprayedup

I can't believe this man really had us thinking he'd be the top tier family man we all dreamed of. He would always talk about wanting to get married, start a family, and care for that family just for him to do this. Man

The WORST type of man. Not ready for you but won’t leave you TF ALONE!! 🙄😤

My heart broke during that scene where she tells him she's pregnant again. No woman, especially no married woman, deserves to get that type of reaction. When their child grows up and sees that scene is going to be traumatic. He's truly a clown.

The fact he brought her love with gifts and words but his actions said something different!!!! Hope she heals

Sad part is she didn't want this and he chased her and made her fall for him just to treat her like garbage. Despite how she was in the past, no one deserves that. 😞

Rasheeda really got the nerve to say she wouldn’t put up with a man walking out when things get rough, umm does she not remember him escaping to the cabin and cheating on her when things got rough when she was pregnant and she stayed 🤡

At 26:30 the look Safaree has is the same emotionless look Erica had when Cyn poured out her heart too her regarding the Bow Wow situation

I don’t care what kind of woman you are no woman deserves the treatment that Safari gave Ericka. The issue is she didn’t think that it could be her.

One thing about Erica. She was always asking Safaree if he was happy. She was so genuine to him. I feel so bad for her.

It’s sad when she said “My biggest fear is ending up a wife who gets cheated on and at the end I’m getting deceived” Cause girl really called it 😪😪😭

I can definitely relate to Erica and what she went through being married to Safaree. I went through this with my ex & it was so painful. I hope Erica is able to heal, move forward and be happy. I also hope she’s able to find the love that she needs and deserves.

Speaking as someone who was in this situation pregnant myself, the moment i stopped showing him afterwards that what he was doing was getting to me, and i was dying inside but me verbally telling him didn't phase him so i stopped and took it like a soldier on the outside until i was over it. Its been over ten years since we broke up and ive been remarried for seven years and i still get those once in a blue moon texts saying how he wished he could go back to change what happened. Sorry. While i was getting over him he shoulda been getting over me

"i feel scammed". girl, that statement is heavy for me. thats my sentiments exactly with my recent ex

It’s crazy how someone can look u in ur eyes make u believe there’s nobody out there for them except you just to turn around and stab you in the back in the worst way possible it really is sad how much their relationship has changed my heart goes out to Erica and her baby

I think her springing the prenup on him was the beginning of the end.

The first half of this video compared to the end is like night and day. It’s crazy how he switched up so fast after she had the baby. He is truly selfish 🤬🤬

i really can’t with mendeecees pulling up to the baby shower with a backpack on at his BIG age 🥴🥴🥴😂😂😂😂😂

imagine getting married to someone who you truly love with all of your heart just to get cheated on and disrespected on. I think Erica would of been better off without him

21:08 as soon as he said “you know how I feel….” I shook my head

As a Scorpio women we fall HARD and she really tried with that man!When she got emotional and said I feel like you don’t want to do life with me that was his cue to comfort her .not call her dramatic then after she got a attitude then he called her aggressive.gas lighter .then she even tried to do a party for him .Erica and me relate a lot.

Idc what Erica did in her past but no woman deserves to be humiliated by their other half. The fact that Safaree left her alone in the house while she was pregnant shows what a piece of sh¡t he is and there's no way you can justify that type of disgusting behavior!

It’s so difficult to be with a narcissistic man/child. I feel for her. She’s been by herself in this relationship all along.

i feel like erica spoke about her past so much and pushed what she been through as a narrative on safaree

Every now and again I have to come back and watched this 💀regardless of what she did in the past to see how they started and unfolded so distasteful

This relationship is sad but it’s also a good reminder to just leave when men show you they don’t love you anymore. The cruelty that follows is really not worth it

I feel Erica’s pain. People are scary. Too many wolves in sheep clothing out here. Just when you think you found the one for you only to find it out it was a lie. I hope she learns and heal from this traumatic experience. Safaree only cares about himself, he showed red flags from the first few minutes of this video when he mentioned about marrying himself in a female version.

Erica's not the best person, but she's also human. What's worse is that she knows how he treated his exes but still ignored all the red flags. People like these are self-centered, vain and prey on those that already have issues, and only break them further. This relationship was toxic from the get go. I despise how he treated her throughout her second pregnancy, as if she got herself pregnant

Not him crying on their wedding Day 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ohh Men! 🤣

That’s so scary , he completely changed on her. Pray she heals properly 💕‼️

After watching this, I have concluded that giving someone that has always wanted you a chance has got to be the most horrible idea ever. I really feel sorry for Erica, no woman should ever go through what she has been going through.

Erica has been through the most😢😢😢but she made it through,,Thank God

That prenup conversation was enough for me 😂 please

Dayummnnn this is such a shocker, Safaree presented a man that was so in love. Hell, I fell in love with Safaree watching this show..😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️ he became so cold...I can't stand him!😂😂😂

She don’t know how right she was in that lawyer prenup meeting. Everything she was afraid of came true. 😬

Erica made her mistakes, we all have! I truly feel bad for her and that she is going through this

He was telling her all along that he was for his self .. she didn’t want to listen.. she heard him but didn’t listen.. he literally said he seen him in her form 😂😂😂

Narcissist knows exactly how to mirror the way you love in order to trap you

When she said “I’m afraid you don’t want to do life with me” - I felt that

He definitely got married for the glitz and glam.

Their whole relationship timeline video is less than 30 mins.... Other love & hip hop couples videos be HOURS long 😂😂😂😂

Safaree is the prime example of I should never get married or trust anyone with my heart was a person . If Safaree knew that he could not give his all to a commitment as great as marriage, why waste that time to play someone and waste their time. “I did not know it was so much work” . Kids and marriage is NOT supposed to be easy! Safaree, never remarry !

The fact that when the ladies came to his car and blindfolded him he said “ladies take me to the bedroom” and Erica after the performance was like “are you happy”. She was ALL for him tryna to do things for HIM. And then his reaction to the pregnancy, the way he said “You’re” instead of “We’re” pregnant that’s sad

who peeped kirk and his three earrings?

Yo this the funniest video on KZfaq 🤣