I was raised with all of the guidance you give us. However, I just love watching you because you remind me of the women in my family! You are an inspiration to us ALL🥰

I find myself loving Fumi and Olé too much!

Etiquette courses are a lost art. I remember having this before prom with a nun. I never forget. It is a part of being polished. ❤️

Auntie Fumi... thank you for giving us reasons to smile while we learn important stuff! You are really delivering value. Many thanks for the laughs too.🤣

Fumi, you had me CRYIN’ talking about waiting for everyone to be served 😂😂

Hi Mr. Ole, thank you for always supporting aunty Fumi.

Omggggggg I love thisssssss ❤❤❤❤ Every women should have been taught this when they were young! Well for me it's never too late to learn 😅

I just love how Ole is all up in this tutorial 😂😂😂 you go goddess Fumi🥰❤️

I cannot even describe how much I appreciate you! I recently discovered your channel and I can't stop watching your videos. You are the definition of love, light, and positivity. I have a young daughter and I aspire to be like you. You are wise, knowledgeable, humble, and beautiful inside and out. Thank you for being here and sharing with us.

Fumi you are so funny when you said' oh they have not served you, oh the food is nice we thank god' You have indeed tasted both sides😅 I'm loving this video

Thank you, I really enjoyed this segment. I am not so graceful and would appreciate any other series you may add. From walking to sitting and conversations one should have at a very small to large size dinner or event. Thank you for always being quite honest, friendly and graceful while being yourself. I always feel like I am with a friend happy and quite comfortable. Thank you and your husband for letting us in to you lives. May you have infinite success.

Yes I’m loving this type of content! Staying ready 2023 ladies! 🍸🥂🍾

The reason I love you is you always make me laugh 😂😂as we learn 😘❤

Your laugh is contagious 😄 What a wonderful spirit. I'm so glad that I found your channel a couple of months ago. May God continue to bless you and your family in the new year 🙏🏻❤ 🇺🇲

I was cracking up because i failed this class with a F+ 😂😂😂 definitely taking notes though😘😘

I was once invited to lunch by an elderly couple. It was our first time meting, but for their so perceived socioeconomic status, I was so irritated how they threw questions at me, when I had food in my mouth. I had to rush my chewing in order to answer, and that wasn't cool. Thanks for addressing the gentlemen too. Well done, uncle Ole. ❤️❤️❤️

💕 FUMI’S ETIQUETTE: TABLE MANNERS, THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO EATING AND BEHAVING LIKE A LADY AT A DINNER TABLE! 💕 1. For Men: Do not lean in or stare at a woman’s cleavage at the dinner table. 2. The gentleman is the host, you should not face only him, but the entire view of the restaurant. He should face only you. 3. Be prepared to be separated from your date to avoid mindless behaviours such as gossiping. 4. Keep your bag on your lap or on the table, NEVER place your bag on the floor. 5. Place your napkin in your lap. You are not Adrian or some other cute baby, so do not tuck it in like a bib. 6. Don’t use your fingers to eat. Regardless of your Country’s traditions. Follow the etiquette of the event you are at. 7. To avoid staining the cutlery and napkin dab your lipstick off, then tuck the napkin in and put it away. Do not rub your lipstick off. 8. Using the soup spoon, take the soup up from the inside to allow the soup to drip back into the bowl or onto the napkin on your lap and not onto your clothing. 9. Graze the soup into your mouth and avoid banging the spoon against your teeth. 10. Speak gently and eat quietly. Don’t slurp the soup or speak in a brawly fashion. 11. Monitor the person’s eating and make your comments or ask questions when their mouth is empty and they can speak comfortably. 12. No elbows on the table except for in between meals. Keep your hands resting on the table in an upward fashion to confirm that they are empty, thus putting others at ease. 13. Accept the seating arrangement and do not attempt to change it for your convenience. 14. Wait until everyone is served before eating. You may eat your hot soup before others are served because it is hot and waiting may cool the soup off. However, when served a salad, wait for everyone’s salad to be served because it is already cold. 15. Break the bread apart and gently spread butter onto each piece and take a bite. Do not dunk the bread into the soup or bite pieces off the roll. 16. Champagne and White Wine Glasses should be held at the stem. Cupping the glass below the flute will heat up the champagne and white wine, changing its taste. Red wine however, may be held cupped above the flute as red wine is served at room temperature. 17. Do not combine the salad with the entrée. 18. Take your fork in your left hand and the knife in your right hand and cut the meat. 19. Do not stab and cut the meat with the fork. 20. Cut bite sized pieces up at a time, placing a small sample of each item on the plate on the back of your fork. 21. Do not drink or talk with food in your mouth. 22. Do not take the glass of water and rinse your mouth. 23. Try the food without adding salt and pepper. Adding salt and pepper communicates to the host that their food is bland. 24. Turn your fork and knife down on the sides of your plate to indicate that you have finished eating. 25. Ask someone to pass the bread basket. Do not reach for the basket. Do not reach for the last bread roll. If there is one roll for each, only take one. DO NOT TAKE A DOGGY BAG FOR YOUR ADRIAN! 😂 🤣 26. Drag your dessert spoon to the right and your fork to the left. Stab your dessert with your fork then use your spoon to scoop up the dessert. 27. Push your cutlery inwards to indicate that you are done. 28. Do not overdrink or become intoxicated. 29. Do not take the decorations from the table as a gift for your home. Please leave them for the host to use for future events. Thanks! 30. For a final touch of class, send flowers or a Thank You text in appreciation for hosting you to a wonderful evening. Thank you Fumi and Ole! 💕 You’re so welcome everyone. 💜

Your demonstrations on what not to do had me rolling on the floor laughing!! 😂😂😂Unfortunately, I have seen some of the discourteous actions you demonstrated at the dinner table. I much appreciate the table etiquette lesson.

This got me laughing hard...u get your food and straight way begin to eat , and then say ooh they've not served u....while looking around.

Ohh my god. You made me laugh so much with this video. I will be watching this before a date.

Thank you for your assistance with etiquettes! I'm teaching myself and my children...can you do an etiquette for kids at the table? I know majority of this lesson goes for children.. Gratitude indefinitely Queen Fumi🧡🌻

I love these etiquette lessons. I love everything to with social graces. Would you consider a video on what are the best kind of gifts to give for different situations? It is so hard nowadays with people being on various food plans so wine, chocolates, cookies are no longer acceptable. I love getting flowers but I know so many people who don't have vases anymore or want to know all about the supply chain of the flower growers. I am often stumped about what to give. Thank you so much, Fumi.

Thanking my mom for teaching her girls table manners. She was such a lady 🙏

I’ve been watching table etiquette videos like this before and never have I understood this much. Thanks Funmi for being a guidons angel

Fumi you're the best I never miss an episode lol and always shares with my 18 years old daughter. This she will definitely love as she soon beginning to enter the world of going out with friends. a bit funny but when I share the episode that you did about walking in high heels she wouldn't leave my heels shoes alone 😂 now she's always doing housework in heels 👠 to practice

Dear Fumi, I had so much fun, watching this episode. I literally laughed out loud at the examples of bad table manners. Thanks for the episode. I liked your beautiful dress and purse. Omg, thank you for including the need to be grateful. People today have forgotten the graceful act of saying thanks. With much gratitude from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹.

This teaching is so good because your giving us live examples of what we should not do.

Absolutely FABULOUS! That was educating and SO entertaining. I cried when you reminded us of how NOT to behave at the table 🤣😂🤣 If you do not have a mainstream or Sky programme by the end of 2023, there is no justice in the world! Love from an avid Fuminator 😍

How I just Love you Mom Fumi 🤗🤗. Thank you for always being there❤. This is delivering VALUE AT ITS PEAK free of charge 👌. And thank you Dad Olé for the support💪. We love you both🤗❤

Fumi you’re hilarious when you give an example of what not to do 😂😂 Rubbing lipstick like it’s a rash 🤣

My goodness Fumi, I love this video. I learned some new things. You are hilarious 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The insert of Tony had me dead lool

I love how your voice rises when you are explaining something we should not do 😂 thank you so much for these videos

Oh thank you mum for everything.

Marvelous, marvelous! As a child, we had to also wait for everyone to be done with their meal, before asking to be excused from the table...I would assume for a gala, there is some sort of signal for general dismissal from the tables? Can you please comment?

Auntie Fumi, now this your sense of humour is beautiful. Can't stop learning & laughing at the same time.

Thank you Fumi. I enjoyed this video but it also made me cry a little bit. I really miss my mother and this video reminded me of her perfect manners. Felt like she was in the room. You are a class act.

I appreciate all the effort you both made to film this video👍 great advice (new and old), thank you and greetings from🇨🇦

Fumi you could be a comedian also I am crying🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 great information great presentation Thank YouvSo Much ❤

It's always interesting to watch ur videos. The way u present simply attracts our attention. Keep it up mam !!

Auntie Fumi, I needed this 40yrs ago…. 😢I feel so bad but yet good because now I know better! Thank you and many blessings to you ❤

This was hilariously educational and entertaining... Brilliant! Thank you, Fumi and happy New Year!!

You are so funny Fumi! Love this episode, thank you ❤️

I love the part you said the chicken is niceoooo & thank God in African way 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Just laughing throughout 😂😂. Thank u mummy💗

Thank you so much for reviewing my family table manners , i laugh a lot in this video because i see those things happen in my eyes

I absolutely adore you. You speak volumes as it relates to being a classy, elegant, beautiful brown lady. I absolutely just adore you. Keep doing what you’re doing.

the what not to do is cracking me up 😂😂😂

I just texted my bff we need to take etiquette classes! She agreed! Here you are reading our minds! Thank you🥰

Wonderful episode Fumi! You nailed it! Never a dull moment with you.

I had so much fun watching this episode....Aunt Fumi gave it the panache infused with humor. I am grateful for a wonderful upbringing by my parents on etiquettes. Much love to you Aunt Fumi ❤

It's funny how I know to eat with manners but, was never taught. Love this channel you are such a Gem to us.

What i missed learning from my mother, I've learned here with Mother Fumi. I just want to add something here.. I never let the water take my plate if i couldn't finish my food. I always ask to he packed and i donate to the needy right outside the restaurant or to the car guards. It breaks my heart to see food go to waste when are people out there hungry for days in desperate need for what I left on my plate knowing that is going to go into the dustbin when is fresh food. For ya'll that attend to restaurants more often than myself, start implementing this kind gesture too. We never know if by doing so we might end up saving a life. 😢 Thank you and God bless 🙌 All the way from Southern Africa i say hello 👋

For the bag, you can also buy a bag holder which can be attached to the table. Thank you auntie Fumi for these videos. Please make more.

Fumi I be in TEARSSSSSS laughing at your tremendously funny "acting skills" aka demonstrations. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

Teach Sis! Table manners, graciousness, subtlety - all lost arts. They should be taught in every school at every age. My mother and grandmother were very strict about us learning proper etiquette. Guest would ask why we set a semi-full or full place settings for our daily family dinners. They always replied that manners begin at home.

BTW...you look Fabulous Queen Fumi!

Fumi, the things you do for love! I could see you struggling when you were trying to explain with a bit of food in your mouth... it was unnatural for you LOL! Thank you so much🥰

I love this lady 😂😂 she makes me laugh

This was great! I learned some things. Thanks Fumi! I'm excited to go to more events that require this this year.

I'm cracking up at the way you are explaining things and giving examples. 😂😂 But you know what? I'll remember these tips forever 😌 thank you ❤

Fumi is the epitome of a classy lady🌹.. Love💟 all your advice..tips.. style👗👛👠

Thank you Sister Fumi My mother taught myself and sisters how to do table place setting as young, young ladies. How to hold fork, cut with knife, use spoon. Do not lean over face gobble up plate pause. Eat Chew food and do not talk with mouth open chewing. Napkin in lap. No elbows on table. One hand in lap take napkin use corner of mouth. I am cracking up at you Fumi Do's and Don't. On point

What a fabulous video. My 4 year old son enjoyed it too. He loves your energy as much as I do. I had a glass of wine while watching this. He took the opportunity to practice how to hold the stem correctly haha. Thank you!

I’m living for the interjections from uncle Ole. We were taught this at a young age. 🇧🇧🇺🇸

Fumi you're such a 💎

Thank you Fumi another great lesson in etiquette, thank you for your teachings

You have a beautiful energy, i love the way you exude grace and class, thank you for the content you create thisvus indeed a lost art

You put the 'ish' on social graces and table etiquette. I've learnt this a couple of times, practice and teach my sons but your teaching methods are so warm and engaging. Always leaving with something new! From one Naija girl to another, sis, you are the refinement of beauty, grace ,and class!

Even me since my birth I have never taken or drink alcohol! Am Christian Protestant and my mom works in church as a Deaconess, so I have to be a good example for others 😊... Big up from DR CONGO 🇨🇩🇨🇩🇨🇩 eloko ya makasi 💪💪💪. But actually am in Kampala Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 the Pearl of Africa. Love you all

Thank you for the lesson l will keep it in my mind when ever lm in a restaurant

We love❤❤❤

😂😂😂Oh my!! I’m trying sooo hard to watch this video without 😂😂but Fumi😂😅…. You are so funny and your husband!!! I’m gonna have to ReWatch this video😆. This is a great video

Oh you love Christina lol. Thank you so much for showing us. Some of us did not grow with this luxury. So thankful to God on how far he has taken me..

I can't stop laughing 🤣, this woman is really funny 🤣

Your not alone she always makes me smile

Fumi your teaching us alot thank you!! Love you!!

Keep teaching, and raise the standard. Thank you.

Thank you so much aunt Fumi,it's a joy to hear uncle Ole's voice.May God continue giving you more as we learn from you. much love!

Sister Fumi I love love love formal dinner parties. I always feel prestigous knowning good and well when I'm home I am a beast with my food. Lol! Great lesson for all!💜

I'm glad I found this channel. 🇯🇲🇯🇲

I love love how supportive Ole is. Great content ❤❤❤

Thank you so much for this my love. You are like an auntie to me and I appreciate it very much 🥰. I love how you say "absolutely NOT!" its adorable

Sis, u are fabulous!!! Special Thank You to your husband for being your fabulous and professional assistant to make this video :)))

Thank you for the refresher course. 💙

Another great video! Fumi you had me laughing so much!!!

Oh Aunty Funms, you are a rare Gem . We love you. Thank you so much x❤

You are simply the best and I love your sense of humor.

Beautifully delivered! Great content, many thanks Fumi.

Fumi you just the best ❤kindly dont get tired of teaching us.. God bless you for me

Thank you so much for this Aunty Fums, I love the effort 🌸

Thank you Fumi and Ole for the lesson. Love you guys 💗

15:06 and 16:47 I almost died the way you did that. You were about to have kittens talking about rinsing the mouth and the bread race! Aaahhgahahhahahahhahahahaaa This was a great lesson; thank you so much.♥

I cried laughing. You are so funny!! 😂😂 But we all have a lot to learn honestly. Thank you!!

OMGoodness! I LOVEEEEE THIS WONAN!

I loved this episode, thank you for taking time to do this!

I loved this! Thank you Fumi

🤣🤣🤣 Ah-ah! Fumi, ma! Please don't kill me with laughter...

Fumi you are such an amazing fun person...I love your vibe... I've learnt a lot from this episode because I really never took etiquettes personal now I feel like I'm a queen lol

The world is blessed to have Aunty Fumi❤