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if you feared being alone before a narcissist......you'll definitely want to be alone after one!!! 🎉

It's almost like they hate you for being nice? Damn fools!

They treat us like shit but turn around and need our energy

It's a double edged, loose, loose situationship. They don't respect you if you do and say things to make them happy but when you don't and stand your boundaries, they get angry and jealous. You loose every... which...way...you...choose.

Now that he is 100% blocked..I was overwhelmed by the peace and tranquility this morning.

A lot of times they overestimate their partner and now that makes sense to me. They are clowns. Their balloons eventually pop right in front of their own face! Boo!

I am Enough. ❤

Truer words have never been spoken.!I'm finally finished with my snake...

I've experienced ALL of this.... Strung along for 8 years.... It's been 3 weeks now of NO CONTACT and it's hard as hell, but I'm doing the work for me to come out of this fog of love and lies... 🙏🏽💯

But if he laughed in the past about me, he can laugh about me now too because I left him 😁

There is a demonic spiritual element to a narcissist, which transfers too the target. The narcissist also knows that they are being used at times, I've seen a narcissist's face totally collapse, it was only for a second, a sight I hope never too see again.

After 11 years of narcissistic abuse, I've had three very peaceful years! I even danced around in my house today, sang at the top of my lungs and laughed out loud at myself. There is life after a narcissist!

So true, I have repeated this pattern over and over, but now I have knowledge.

I started loving myself one year ago, after I left in April 2021, after TWENTY years. The facts are too severe to mention here. After a year of complete horror I feel so much happier now. I was sure of the fact that we would be together for the rest of our lives. But after six appointments with a coach (trying to get at piece about the relationship with my mother) my eyes had been opened by this coach and I knew I had tolerated too much for too long during my relationship (as an unexpected result after the coaching sessions). There was no way back and the relationship had been ended by me 2021 April 8th. I wish the story would be different but this is it. No regrets. Life is about learning and this was my lesson to learn. He is not happy or satisfied, will never be. Still I wish him all the best. But I have to move on, on my OWN, which I do 💪🏻

My life changed in a good way since i listen to you. Thank you so much for all you do ❤️🙏

I have zero loneliness and have never been abandoned. He didn’t respect becuz he doesn’t respect himself. That’s clear as day. Mine kept telling me via text how good of a person I am. Makes sense now back then the text confused my ass!

Hi gaby I went through 20yrs and survived have a wonderful life as all of us as survivors god bless

She laughed in my face when I said, "I love you."

I wish this info was around when I was inexperienced and new. There was no need to go through the experience. Money was borrowed, but they had clearly no intension to pay it back ever. In fact, they went on a smear campaign to justify not paying back. Oddly, they needed my help more than I needed them. If we had an adult relationship, they would have benefited more overall. They chose to have the "rush" of screwing over an empath-person instead of choosing what's best for the happiness of themselves and others. This is enough, right here, to stop all contact with them.

Understand, narc survivor! I gave him power very easily, too easily. No more, 6 months no contact, praise god! He is blocked forever. Amen!

Problem is I don't care what he thinks. He's the ultimate loser.

I’m divorcing my narcissist husband. We are currently living under the same roof. We have been separated since Nov2021. However, he’s still gaslight every chance he get, but since I’ve been tuning into Narc survivor I better understand how to handle the narcissist. Thanks! You are appreciated

He never did nothing for me. I accepted him as is.

Everything they touch they bruise

Definetly cant put all blame on narcissist but 80 percent can

We are strong, not weak! Good content to listen to more than one time. It feels So good to know how truly strong we are! We believed a lie but that time is definetely over! Feels damn good!

This is the first weekend I am away from my reprobate...I am going to admit ..I am lonely and miss him.. I was used to being around him on the weekends eventhough I know he isnt good for me. IM TRYING NOT TO CALL OR TEXT ..I am too insecure to start dating someine new right now.. Its difficult but I will be ok👍👍💪

I needed to hear this today and probably for the next few weeks or so. Thank you so much for your videos. They help me so much

Saw he once in a store he couldn’t leave fast enough he tried that eye contact and I lock eyes he was so uncomfortable he left in a hurry he did’t even warm up his truck ! He was trying to make me feel uncomfortable did’t work

Jesus, hit me right in the feelz man!! She's been walking all over me yet fawns all over the guy I found out she's been cheating on me with for 3 years who won't commit to her. Time to move on!!

Out of my mind. Just wait for it!😂😂😂

This is so true thank you xxx

It would be easier to run away if a victim wouldnt depend on them economically. This is why most victims have no right way to escape, specially at older age. No money, no place to stay. This is the only problem, so the only way remains to be cold, ignoring them, not feeding their disorder and of course taking tranquilizers. So help us God

This video makes it sounds like we can control them .. I say why try!!

Fantastic talk. Absolutely spot on. Puppet masters… and we’re the muppets…

This really put in perspective the way I view the narc, the way I used to view me, and how I need to view my-self … (self-live) Thank-you Chris. 🎯

It’s the same if you take their money and gifts - the altruistic abuser is no different.

Everything you are saying it completely true indeed completely . When the 22 comes this month of April it would be 10 months since I left the narcissistic for good & completely no contact . I wish I could have seen your videos when I was with him ,I didn't know it was such videos out there & if I knew I would have left him a long time ago but I quess what matters & important that I finally did leave the narcissistic completely for good .when I first came on UTube I happened to find your channel your video & I felt it was a reason for me to see your channel your videos & I listen & watch too & read everyone comments as well . When every time it was time for me to send money in ,I used to get written hurry up ,need the money now hurry up ,he expects me to speed to hurrying up to send in the money 💰 you know it was so many times he would keep me up more than one time arguing & fighting ,it would start at like 7 pm all night & morning & knowing I haven't had any sleep due to cause he kept me up all night & morning arguing & fighting & wanted me to speed for me to hurrying up to send in the money when I shouldn't have even been on the road at all & one time I almost gotten into accident I had the green light & the other person went though the red light & I turn off & stop for the person to go around me & it was a woman & she looks at me like I was crazy but if I did stop she would hit me behind & it would have pushed me & her in to incoming traffic ,her & I probably would have died ,I had a angel looking & watching over me that morning & when I said to the narcissistic about it ,he didn't even care if I would have died all he was worried about was the freaking money that the money was getting so long to get send in to him . Wouldn't believe what I had to go though to send in those freaking cards ,the stream wallet cards ,the Play store gift cards & the Google gift cards & the itunes gift cards , when I had to send in 100.00 in by individual cards & I would have to scratch the cards I would have to take a picture & then send the picture to him & when I get written the cards isn't clear ,I would have to again take pictures of each individual cards & send in the pictures & took so long & my ex was waiting for me out in the car due to the dog cause it hot ,so he could have the AC in the car , I was in Walmart for so long due to those freaking cards that I hurrying up to get my food & still get all I had to get & then when I got to the car then I argued & fight with him , asking me why was I in the store so long so I had to lied & said I saw a couple of people I knew & I gotten behind . But then I gotten argued & fight with by the ex all the way home & it is a 45 to 50 minutes both ways to Walmart & to come home . I couldn't wait to come home . I can't leave the dog at home due to I wouldn't have a home to come home to . I have put my dog in a crate & went to the store & when I came back home OMG my goodness the dog had torn all the blinds & poop on the bed & chew the wood from the front door so I had another crate ,that time the dog had broken the plastic thing you know what dogs lay on well she broken it in half & some how pull the carpet inside the crate ,then I had no carpet on that part of the floor ,I couldn't take it all anymore so she gotten taken to the animal shelter then I felt guilty so I went & back & got her the next day now every time I need to go to the store or anywhere the dog have to come with me or the dog & the dog & the ex for me to go anywhere cause when I go inside the store he sits in the car & when he have to go inside the store I sit in the car so can have the AC on due to the heat & talk about isolated ,I feel nothing but isolated completely . The ex bought a new crate it is soppose to be what dogs can't get out of from so can't destroy anything so I can train & get her used to the crate the vet said put her in the crate for 1& a hours a day . But the ex having put the crate together ,the new crate have been out side for months when July comes it would be a completely year ,he knows & I know I can't go anywhere less the dog have to come & he & the dog have to go with me where ever I have to go . Talk about codependent & isolated I'm & also he has a bank account of his own & take care of the money 💰 now since I have left the narcissistic completely for good & no more money is getting send in ,I'm now saving all the money every cent & penny so I can get the heck out & i have moved on from the narcissistic I was with for 4 & a half hrs & now I'm hoping I'm completely moved on from here at home .and due to all of this their is some days I just feel & just & have crying 😭😭 I couldn't take it all from the narcissistic was with for 4 & a half yrs & I can't take it all here at home either anymore . I don't have any one to talk to ,I had to get it all off . Thank you for all your videos & everyone comments here & I do wish you & everyone here to have a wonderful beautiful blessed day 🙏

Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. ❤️🙏🏽

Awesome 👏🏽🙌🏾😊

His survival is non existent. Trust me on that. He thinks I’m a fool. I will one up him becuz I’m not one to be played-

Not one item is untrue .... nice job pal!

This is so true

Good stuff

Good afternoon.

Mine is completed depleted & no they aren’t special. They will realize that later in the years! BOO!🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

The little turds. They think we learn nothing the first time around. I will get a teddy bear thanks very much.

💕April 4, 2022💕 “I MEET YOU in the stillness of your soul. It is there that I seek to commune with you. A person who is open to My Presence is exceedingly precious to Me. My eyes search to and fro throughout the earth, looking for one whose heart is seeking Me. I see you trying to find Me; our mutual search results in joyful fulfillment. Stillness of soul is increasingly rare in this world addicted to speed and noise. I am pleased with your desire to create space where you and I can meet. Don't be discouraged by the difficulty of achieving this goal. I monitor all your efforts and am blessed by each of your attempts to seek My Face.” (JESUS CALLING)

Good afternoon

I ruined my respect. When my ex narc boyfriend gave me silent treatment I begged and pleaded him to give me a second chance with him bcz I was emotionally involved. But he didn't talk to me and broke up with me I went no contact but I was missing him like hell then I reached him again for a second chance and he said we can be friends if I wanted but I refused. But I regretting now to be such a fool. I lost all my respect which I can never get back 😪

I am with my narcissistic husband because he loves his kids , who he is narcissistic in a calculated way not to drive them against him but I am totally on my own I am not at all dependent on him . But he is not allowing me to take my kids with me to my parents . What to do . How to work out this

Well hello I’m in the right place i married a narcissistic , took my love for advantage, i took my power back , still under the same roof cause of my children situation, but I’m done getting a divorce 🥳🥳🥳🥳 Free at last free at last

Got my divorce papers today I’m scared

I'm so looking forward to leaving him for good. Plus ghosting g her

I'm trapped, help!

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You just described my ex-wife

I'm one it really suck and he just seem like he was changing and being mane and aver thing so i end it so wouldn't keep hurting me anymore and it not worth it

I do take blame for some of his behavior & her because I actually speak to both abusers. One is a fa I'll member the other a partner. Both don't give a crP about me.

Why does my husband hate me so much? I gave him my life. I will never be the same again. My husband took everything from me, I have nothing left to give,nothing. My husband said that no one would ever want me because I'm useless, I'm a problem, he said to me many times that I should take my life because I'm nothing but a useless piece of trash. I believe him now. I'm thinking of making a plan to take my life.

Reading some truly ironic comments. Smh

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Can we see your eyes in the next video that shows your face ?

It s only story telling 😂

The narrator is so annoying...can't listen.