I listen to Marisa so that I can sleep. Her voice is soothing

1) Do not be too available, too easy, too agreeable. Don’t work hard to get him. Be a prize - you’re the diamond and they are the setting. Have your own opinion. Have your own life and he will notice that. Be a little mysterious. The man you’re dating must earn your time, affection and love. 2) A guy will like you if he feels good around you and with you. Do everything you can like laugh at his jokes, engage with him. Don’t focus on making them feel good all the time, but focus on how they would feel around you. Have the conversation be an equal exchange. Be the best you. 3) Start to use the word “we” in the convo more. Things like “we” had the best time last night.

Right on time. Today I know my worth and I know I'm a Queen looking for a King. Thanks my beautiful friend. You're such an amazing woman to share your wisdom. God bless you.

Unfortunately in a modern world a lot of this doesn’t work. Men nowadays don’t ask twice, they will just go for the easier object

Sadly the hunters are so weak nowadays

If ANY person ever is addicted to another person that person is probably a replacement drug for something else they have been addicted to. Just like any other drug the addiction to you will get old and you will be replaced by another drug. People with addictive personalities usually are not a good match for people looking for a commitment because the addiction problems always come first and you are second. Psychology - addictive behavior.

I believe, to make a relationship work, you must give as much as you recieve & recieve as much as you give. Mutual Effort is Critical. 'Do Not row the boat alone' Do not criticize, or emasculate. Do not project Your feelings onto someone else. Listen and be present. Respect one another. Be, act and do the way you want to be done onto you. Exude happiness and just love 💕

He messaged me once and asked me to keep in touch. I never messaged hm again. He obviously wanted me to pursue him and wasn't interested in me.

He should find ways to get me addicted to him or make me want him. Know your worth and don't crave for attention.

Marisa is a mind reader I swear! I was just wondering what her take on feminine energy was, and this vid dropped. Absolutely astounding💖

Dear Marissa, I will listen to your videos over and over and over so that it can saturate my brain. After two long failed marriages I realize for number one I did not stand up for myself and say I don't want to marry you and number two I let him sweep me off my feet too easily. Now I have the ability to speak up and say no thank you. I appreciate your loving time spent for who see our worth.

We are so lucky to have you Marisa ☺️ ,, Thank you for always doing so much for people who can’t perhaps afford to go to a therapist, Thank you for your words of wisdom again today, it really struck a cord with me 💖.

"ur soooo blessed to have Me"

What brilliant advice. I wish I had had it when I was younger as it would have stopped me from being in so many disastrous relationships but thank you Marisa, as always you have hit the nail on the head with everything you say. I love you forever.xxxxxxxxxx

I am So Lucky to have found Marisa Ma’am and get Advised by her almost every day....😇

Yes, boundaries ! WE ARE WORTH MORE

I just find narcissists..I have stepped back from relationship and romance..Can't get the hang of it..57 and alone..

I’m so lucky I got to listen to your words today xxx thanks, needed this.

Uh I’ve done sooo many mistakes! Time to learn!!!

Sometimes I feel you always need to keep running from them all your life. They will keep running after you. Our love and expression is only for children and pets. Never show a man your ability to love!

The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone

So isn’t man is a hunter limiting belief? I want to be myself no matter what still feel loved, if i am gonna play games because i believe they are hunters than each time i share myself i start to fear of loosing him.

I'm lucky to have found you, Marisa. Life changer. I listen to you every day xx

Wish I knew this before this time. Thanks Marisa.

You are so wise and wonderful, Marisa ⭐️ immensely grateful, fully agree and life exactly following this way 🙏🏼♥️

Thank you Marisa. Your teaching is invaluable

I'm training a (male) puppy. Be the mean lady w the FOOD 💕 lol

I think we can't use the Charles and Camilla example, as diana did have a very fiery and cheeky side, but she wasn't Charles choice initially. It was chosen for him. I really do believe we have a destined strong soul mate, and Camilla was it for Charles. But your concept is fabulous and does work for mainstream relating.

Thing is...nowadays with all those datingapps, men find 5 other woman on the app who are easy like that and dont want for you.

This is absolutely beautiful

Crazy really real love isnt concerned with mind games having to be a certain way its unconventional if you love each other

Thank you, learned the hard way. I completely lost myself and it is taking me alot of work and years to learn who I am and become me. I felt invisible to my partner. And once I became so involved in things I neglected; with my own interests, friends, activities, trips without my partner he is always wanting to spend time with me.

Well the idea of chasing after things, badgering and being pushy is great for the field of business. You can be a shark in your own right and it will work. The thing is, and I don't know why we think we have to chase men because I was always taught right from the very beginning was to let them chase you. Let them wonder where you are and what you're up to. However apparently because I've spoken to men a lot of them loose interest because they think we are unavailable, so we have to do a little something to make them think they're in with a chance to do something, to come over - a lot of men won't waste their time if they think all is going to happen is to be rejected so I think we have to do something. It's just all the right balance because we don't want to seem too easy but up for a date. Before I met my husband I used to be able to date quite confidently it was just in the relationship when they were loosing that interest and I was more invested but they were very interested in the beginning. And I do know that your supposed to keep your interests, keep your hobbies and don't cancel just because he or she wants you to come over because you're teaching them they can pick you up and put you down and it does cause some disrespect from them towards you because if that person is healthy they want you to have a backbone they don't want to do that to you but abusers like toxic people will see that a d exploit that to their advantage!!!

Some us are exceptions to what you're saying and actually appreciate that dinner being made!!! My wife did and we were engaged in 6 months and married for decades. I did not chase, never have, never will!!!!!!!!!!

Great tips.

Thank you Marissa 💗I had a wonderful first date last weekend. First time I’ve been excited about someone in a long time . He wanted to meet this weekend but I wasn’t able to but he said ok let’s do the following . I texted him tonight to ask how his week has been and asking how excited he is to buy his new motorbike tomorrow. I hope this was ok . I feel in my gut it was a friendly touching base vibe. What do u think ? ✨✨✨

I like the kind of Feminist Marisa is, she never denies some FACTs about how male and female ways of thinking are different. Denying facts doesn't make you feminist, it makes you delusional.

Love yourself ladies. Make your life beautiful on your own. Fill your life with what you love. Work hard, make money on your own. This will attract the right man

Omg! I used to date men and let them treat me poorly because I thought it was the way to show I'm really into them... "Uh, I came all the way to the Netherlands and you're just inviting me for a hot chocolate drink (expecting sex after)? Well, everybody else would say how cheap of you, but it's okay because I really like you." Now I am boths angry at them and myself >:(

You are completely right.

This video is great ... need more videos like this

So i think he is blind or stupid not to see how great i am:(

Marisa is amazing x

absolutely true...I never was selfish or arrogant.. but there was this boy ( now a man 😅..) who always wanted to date me., for the last 10 years.., I somehow didnt like him and was sure he is not worthy to meet., so I started ignoring.., then he somehow always find me on facebook, instagram or twitter..., he was even blocked from my side for 3 years...and then he finds me again via social media..., once he even contacted my mother ..😂.. : Angry and exhausted I decided to give him a chance and he was going mad, that I am finally talking to him ( yes only talking, not a date ...), the result is: he is amazing 🤩...and now I am totally in love with him...but at the same time I always make sure he got a Prize and he knows it...after all he wanted me for the last 10 years...☺️

Thank you 🇬🇧

I’ve been listening and learning and I feel ready now to date again. Many years ago I had 1 amazing date but the timing was wrong for both. Next week I’m meeting him again for a walk in the park (Covid blah) and I won’t be too available the next day for a repeat. I’m busy right?

I have got my guy i love him very much been seeing for months now hopefully he will ask me to marry him

✨ WOMAN ✨😌❤️

NEW LOVE COMING

Never be to available be a prize, have your own opinion and understand men are hunters who are willing to chase the prize

Hi Marisa, thanks for this guinion information. This is so helpful and I surely appreciate all you do. Much love Marisa. 🥰🙏

You are brilliant....

I hv been struggling with relationship issues from past few years . after some bad experiences i always try to rush things and force the relationship which makes ppl pull away ..hope this helps ..

If he is a hunter then we must be the prey,we must change that idea,dont give yourself easily i agree but that is not just about sex ,be yourself love yourself have yourown mind and thoughts and timing,i hate those games be the prey and make him chase so if he is an idiot and one day you are tired to play games he will loose interest?? Who cares what they want you want sex go for it you want him for relationship check on him in time then invest but always invest in yourself first have great life even without man

So calming

The sad truth is that CADS GET THE MUM FIGURE IN THE END

Thank you 😊

Thanks so much. Love you!❤❤❤

Why do not talk about gay relantionship too? I honestly do agree with few things you are saying....because it'0s genderelized and honestly i found it working just for old fashioned people

What about gay guys? I imagine it’d be the same approach?

Relaxing advise

Good tips.

I had been doing all upside down. I ' ll spoilt it on the first month. Let's see of I can correct it. Thanks

What if... pizza is my favorite? 😬

What if it's the other way around? Getting the girl to pursue the guy? What if the man says to the woman that she's lucky to have him?

I just adore you 💕 Thank you kindly beautiful soul🥰

Why I always forgot this principal!!!

Hi Marisa, Where can I get your book: Reprogram your mind?

Wow, thank you ❤❤❤❤❤ xxxxxxx

Yes it is true i a met a man and he wants sex on the first time and I said no. So he lost intrested in me i respect him and like hin i said the third time we meet we can have sex so he ened up having family problems and lost intrested. So i syop calling him. I have decided to let him chase me and not running after him.

So you're teaching us to be sneeeaky mwahahaha

I love you❤️

Love the video but what if you make him addicted to you after big efforts and tactics what if you lose control on him or he dies suddenly ?wouldn't it be a big destroying loss after the effort you did to make him addicted? And same effort you will do to find another one? I think that would be equal to his addiction to you

How do you make this work in a marriage of 17 years with 8 children? ( the children are from the marriage)

I so love you ❤️❤️❤️

Hi Marisa I want to get all your coursesmainly for changing my thoughts and to get what Its meant for me -as I believe you are my only HELP I HOPE YOU READ THIS COMMENT IM IN BRITAIN

My acquaintance said that I want to get rid of him because I don't talk to him a lot online and call him and he hasn't talk to me for days and he threatened to kill me.

euh... and how to get a girl addicted to you?

Does this work with androgynous women?

I hate this advice. It's really a turn off when a girl is agreeable on a date, true. But that bullshit with the hunters is not that true anymore. Only the guys full with testosterone and kind of dumb go after a girl again and again, after she said no. I think we should be better than animals in that. It is really not that good idea to be distant and play hard to catch. You don't have to be "easy", but this kind of games are big turn off for me. And that shit - "you should be a prise" is really stupid. Usually you are really helpfull Marisa, but here is a big no no. I often see that advice and it's always from a woman. Today the world is different, there is too many people to play silly games, when you like someone.

I hate that you have to pretend you don’t like him. LOL 🙄

Go be the mum lol 😢

You have a big idea of yourself. Why shouldn't you eat pizza. Who are you Queen Elizabeth. If we follow your advice we will end up alone. Because he will find someone else and they will have a good time while I will stay at home all alone, waiting for the guy that will ask me to go eat lobster. Come on.