Everything you need to know about an AVOIDANT!

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Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert

Жыл бұрын

Everything you need to know about an AVOIDANT!
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@utaka78 Жыл бұрын

12 years with a avoidant,nearly broke my soul….i‘m rising like a phoenix🔥

@marquittaalberty5107 Жыл бұрын

Praise God I’ve been dating one I think for 4 months the last week have been crazy

@acd1168 Жыл бұрын

Make sure the guy is worth it. I dated an avoidant who turned out to be a loser and when I had him hooked, I had to run. Alex’s tips are spot on but make sure the person is worth it.

@jillianortiz4018 14 күн бұрын

I know it’s been a year since you posted this but do you have any coping advice or and guidance or tips ?

@dianagomezdelosangeles8047 2 күн бұрын

@@jillianortiz4018😮u😮outing goes good vgiuntu v

@JjJj-ju4mi Жыл бұрын

Avoid the avoidant!

@annemariemaes5819 Жыл бұрын

I laughed out loud when you said “if he wants to see you 2 or 3 times a week” I see my avoidant guy about every 2 weeks!

@jaynenyc1954 Жыл бұрын

same.. he does send a meaningless text every day just to keep me on the loop now that I think of it, but only meets every 2-3weeks. says he's busy, traveling hiking working out cooking exhibitions doing all sorts of stuff by himself or with his 'male' friends.. ? -according to him- but that went on for 2 months already. I finally confronted him and called it quits. Told him i like being with him but i feel distant with his inconsistency and don't like when he ignores my text replies treating me like an option, he replies 24hrs later saying 'don't think too much, i'm not good with chatting, i was busy'.. wow that took 24hrs to reply? so i replied asking what he wants cuz I want to invest my precious energy, time, and emotions in someone who's willing to do the same.. him? no answer for a week since then, today he changed his profile pic of him having some tropical decorated cocktail with someone in front of him who took his pic. 2 guys hanging out having cocktails? puhleez... as if. He seemed liked a perfect catch but now i know why he never got married till 50.

@riannab5256 Жыл бұрын

Omg same 😭 or once a month makes me think he is cheating I hate him 😅

@amytiffanyhemingway Жыл бұрын

if we're lucky

@katarzynakrause501 Жыл бұрын

@@jaynenyc1954 sounds like just a player... ditch him asap!

@katarzynakrause501 Жыл бұрын

@@riannab5256 believe me does... my experience

@biagia1231 11 ай бұрын

Is anyone really worth this much work? Especially when they leave you hanging when you need help the most. No, better close the door.

@marileeatkinson8985 Жыл бұрын

That sounds like a lot of work..... Sounds like someone who will keep looking around sooner or later. What kind of life is that? Alex you're not talking about how to change his behavior until the second half of the video, only talking about changing our own behavior. Perhaps the avoidant man is the one you need to avoid completely. Because long term, he's going to look around and you will obviously, inevitably be taken for granted.

@willnotbebeaten223 Жыл бұрын

I just broke up with a possible avoidant partner,i felt so alone IN the relationship..i couldn’t do it anymore.

@koroshiya_1 10 ай бұрын

I will never date an avoidant man ever again. They have really hurt me in the past.

@asmrmusic1676 Жыл бұрын

BRILLIANT topic and brilliant video

@Ateam143 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video!!! Please talk more about handling conflict with avoidants. Also anxious and avoidants in relationships.

@deeholmes9743 Жыл бұрын

Avoidants are a lot of mental work...I'm tired😅

@sekaoladylangenkamp7469 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@inneswiaty583 Жыл бұрын

Very good video, a competent coach. Thanks Alex!

@joliemiranda5685 Жыл бұрын

Alex, you're the best indeed!👍🙌

@babybangstfu Жыл бұрын

Avoidants are a tree I would never want to climb again ✌️

@Jasmine-flower03 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Alex! Indeed your French coach

@zelik654 Жыл бұрын

Hi Alex thank you for sharing!

@adelinehorst7359 Жыл бұрын

Very helpful information merci

@ecstaticevolution6354 Жыл бұрын

Great content !! Thanks Alex

@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

@prettyjay6768 6 ай бұрын

@@FrenchRelationshipExpertplease I need private couching

@tsegeredatesfaye735 Жыл бұрын

Dear Alex excellence education i am studying and licensing every day thank you

@ecstaticevolution6354 Жыл бұрын

What a great video

@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@justme9352 8 ай бұрын

Thanks a million!!!

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

@realmsofthespiritarts8557 Жыл бұрын

Yep! Was with mine for 5 years and he was very disconnected. He left me and my daughter in Feb. he was very involved in the beginning. Then within months of the relationship he literally just wasn’t there anymore :( but he tried. But never really committed. Now he’s keeping me on a tether and left his shit here in my garage and his car. It’s been 8 months and he’s still got his stuff here. Along with seeing my daughter every now and then. Wants to go with her and I next month to cedar point. Very confusing.

@anelizamedeiros5243 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic

@jenniferlee7167 Жыл бұрын

This will force all the work on one person in the relationship. I am too old for that and too secure. I would move on to a better relationship with someone else.

@luc3405 2 ай бұрын

thank you, very useful, i never dated an avoidant and its driving me crazy to understand him and what to do, gave me a lot of problems in a bad time for me, could not focus on this really, so thanks

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 2 ай бұрын

Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear this! I hope this video was able to help you with this situation!

@na2072 3 ай бұрын

1/dont ask question 2/how to make them feel 3/diff date 4/you should be special/unique 5/dont txt reply quick 6/see each other only twice a week 7/let them chase you 8/let them initiate contact 9/have your own fun and goal focus life 10/live with purpose 11/ 2 yes, 1 no 12/dont believe in love 13/dont show attention in grp 14/show attention and understand them 1 ok n 1

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 3 ай бұрын

Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with your situation but he would need to know a little more about your situation before giving you proper advice on this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team

@irinaifraimova3127 Жыл бұрын

I like your accent

@AnnretaPalo-fx2ff 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Alex. I don’t want to get him. I want him to chase. So I take your advice. It works.

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 6 ай бұрын

I'm happy my advice was able to help you!

@lisachilman6868 Жыл бұрын

Hi Alex. I just want to enlighten you on a NEW subject...(still about love)...I have been crying for 4 yrs... I was LABELLING the men...but NO!! These men are on The Autistic Spectrum!! ( My Indian friends & me) Even my EX HUSBAND is on this Spectrum!! (I've know him 25yrs - he couldn't FEEL me)...I'd love to talk to you about it. Lisa 🌷🙏🏽👑 New Zealand 🇳🇿

@shebutter3195 Жыл бұрын

Lisa. I think my ex DA is on the spectrum as well. Lacks any social emotional intelligence. I don’t think it was on purpose.

@shamnabisharath Ай бұрын

After watching these videos on youtube it looks like we are all dating the exact same person, intresting!

@FrenchRelationshipExpert Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video is able to help you!

@itsafantakis Жыл бұрын

Oh you mean we have to do somersaults with him? You need to give examples …..This guy just wants variety … if I say no, he just goes to someone else …..

@bellis-l5u 7 ай бұрын

What if it ended abruptly again when it was going amazing he opened up about being avoidant and his past (he’s never done that with anyone else) and this time I chased because I thought it would show him I wasn’t going to abandon him. But now I have done no contact for 3 months and haven’t heard anything. Is it done for good?

@mitraswagatagmail Жыл бұрын

Ha Ha If only I knew such thing exists before I dated him!!! Anyways, Alex, you atleast, gave me the courage to not encourage his antics, finally. ❤🎉

@martinapfaar7902 10 ай бұрын

How often do you talk or text with your avoidant in an ldr almost 2 years in. Always when we talk I look sad and than he makes me smile. Promises he comes more often and he hide s again. I am trying to find balance. We are always so happy and drawn to each other. We are planning to meet going on vacation and closing the gap.

@antevenio8303 11 ай бұрын

I like a more forgiving attitude / withdrawals yes, PUNISHMENTS NO

@valengracevalenzuela522 7 ай бұрын

I agree to you Alex. So hard avoidant man I'm dating avoidant many for two months is not work 😂I don't know if he want relastionship or dating only. Once a day only send me mssge that it so hard 😂

@melissasue68 5 ай бұрын

My avoidant just told me I deserve better ….that he doesn’t want a commitment and that he doesn’t want to hurt me. Sounds like he’s done 😢

@FrenchRelationshipExpert 5 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear this! I appreciate that he was honest about this!

@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын

Yes Alex! Open your World gradually & blow Them outa' the Water!! #You NEED BOUNDARIES..all the way...☑️

@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын

Avoidant is a result of wounds.

@tayladicicco2083 Жыл бұрын

My ex is being an avoidant.. idk how to get him back

@bouncingbutterfly Жыл бұрын

❤

@user-qo6jd Жыл бұрын

I really need you Alex. How to reach you? ☹️

@mememontederamos1594 Жыл бұрын

👏👏

@lisachilman6868 Жыл бұрын

We meet these people on dating sites. We get sexually involved. YES. These men are DIFFERENT. (It's not a purposeful thing - read my other comment). Thanks 🙏🏽🌷

@prettyjay6768 6 ай бұрын

Hello couch, please how can I get to chat with you one on one

@cdejewel 11 ай бұрын

Omg I only see avoidant men… I just see a few at a time😂 works out perfect … maybe avoidant 😂

@Ytdeletesallmycomments 10 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 Good idea. There ia nothing good left anymore. I will take four and rotate them.

@imeldacanlas2806 Жыл бұрын

Hi Sir Handsome Alex..I need your help badly to coach me on what to do with my Bf..were on LDR..we met in real already..he said he love me but he's changing lately..hearing from you soon in messenger will be much appreciated..thanks so much..take care and God bless

@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын

Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with your situation. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him so he can have a full understanding of what you're going through so he can give you the advice you need. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ FRE Team

@meganmiles4941 Жыл бұрын

I met a guy in May, he was wonderful, he was alot of things I have wanted in a partner. Everything seemed to be going so well, he's talking about seeing a future with me. Then he pulled back Really hard last month and said he was unsure about everything. So we stopped dating and remained friends and now I'm dating again and it's like he's interested again. Will we always have to be in the chasing stage?

@thearodriguez5251 Жыл бұрын

He isnvt avoiding you he wants different... avoidants still an commit.

@camehdinhobangura3396 Жыл бұрын

Hello Alex

@irinaifraimova3127 Жыл бұрын

How are you today my friends

@merlielobo3919 Жыл бұрын

Alex I’m tired of his behavior, he doesn’t call me , when I call he doesn’t answer, for weeks even up to 3 months , he will block me

@marjoriemartinez9973 2 ай бұрын

That sounds similar to love bombing 😢

@alaalfa8839 7 ай бұрын

Avoidants porbably have vision abou jobs, hobbies purpose...which is actually healthy thing....because some people are born with a talent and want to fulfil the urgency of it. but I guess they are not against close realtionsp they just probably want to fulfil th edream...I think he may love people in general, but schedule is pushing him to be alone for some time to undrestand why its difficult to fulfil the needs of customers or business, trying to understand it takes a lot of time so therefore has less time for partners, not because he wats to have less time for partner but because of other things...but sometimes mediation helps people to achieve things faster both career and loving realationship. because mediatation makes the heart blissful and heart is a great advisor for health career and relationships.