Ex-Lover of Wannabe Pilot Obsessed with Gabby Petito Goes Missing | Maddi Kingsbury Case Analysis

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

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@14catsand1human
@14catsand1human 24 күн бұрын
Never tell them they should not hit you again, just leave.
@gunsrfun378
@gunsrfun378 24 күн бұрын
yep!!! Mental abuse too, so hard to spot if your young.
@MegaLivingIt
@MegaLivingIt 24 күн бұрын
Agree. She failed to recognize or at least believe real danger signals unfortunately, but Dr. Grande being a professional did see them. 😢
@saraehernandezz
@saraehernandezz 24 күн бұрын
I couldn’t like this comment enough.
@jackiekjono
@jackiekjono 24 күн бұрын
Also don’t do a dramatic confrontation. If ever there was an appropriate time to ghost your ex, this is it
@14catsand1human
@14catsand1human 24 күн бұрын
@@jackiekjono it is tempting to telll them you have won but actions are better and safer by leaving.
@cybermandan1960
@cybermandan1960 24 күн бұрын
You know the killer f'ed up when Dr. Grande says "that's pretty much it for exculpatory evidence." 😂
@ds7900
@ds7900 24 күн бұрын
Yup.
@Adam-Shanko
@Adam-Shanko 24 күн бұрын
Grande is right about this one. be critical towards everyone, some people are flat and without emotions :/ …
@aubreyfolwick2159
@aubreyfolwick2159 24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@rachelmansoor8323
@rachelmansoor8323 23 күн бұрын
Very true 😂
@OnHighway61
@OnHighway61 23 күн бұрын
😂
@WynnterGreen
@WynnterGreen 24 күн бұрын
Do not EVER accept physical violence in your relationships. You CANNOT fix them.
@vandolmatzis8146
@vandolmatzis8146 24 күн бұрын
amen.
@chrisjones6496
@chrisjones6496 23 күн бұрын
That goes for BOTH sexes.
@enjoystraveling
@enjoystraveling 23 күн бұрын
@@chrisjones6496 of course
@elianazuniga6541
@elianazuniga6541 23 күн бұрын
​@@chrisjones6496obviously. Why even mention this?
@chrisjones6496
@chrisjones6496 23 күн бұрын
@@elianazuniga6541 Actually the top comment should read both physical AND verbal abuse should not be tolerated at all. I mention both sexes because a lot of men (especially young ones) are embarrassed to speak up or leave a toxic relationship because they think it makes them look weak. It’s obviously a huge sign of strength to get out of a bad situation. I find domestic violence extremely disgusting and cowardly and therefore all the comments here obvious. However perhaps some might need some reinforcement knowing it’s ok to be a man and seek help and that it’s not a sign of weakness. In fact for anyone leaving a toxic relationship they should be praised and admired for their strength. What’s obvious to you might not be obvious to another person. Obviously.
@tracievendetta1908
@tracievendetta1908 24 күн бұрын
Never tell them! Get out when they go to work. Or won’t be home. Tell no one!!
@deew7014
@deew7014 24 күн бұрын
🎯
@B_COOPER
@B_COOPER 24 күн бұрын
Or you could just not murder people
@1stdebunker
@1stdebunker 24 күн бұрын
You can't Trace a Vendetta. It's Nature for a Beast
@ChrisMissal
@ChrisMissal 24 күн бұрын
Totally, I helped a friend bolt over a weekend once. Just a few close friends helped out.
@tracievendetta1908
@tracievendetta1908 24 күн бұрын
@@1stdebunker not true! I’ve done it!
@kendra31
@kendra31 24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for being so empathetic to Maddie. The only safe way to leave someone who has put their hands on you is either with no warning or in a group setting. Like "only go back to get your stuff with a police escort" group setting. She cared for him so much that she wanted to be honest with him that she was leaving, and now their two kids won't have either parent around anymore.
@sheviper
@sheviper 13 күн бұрын
Even then they can still come get you if they know where you are
@blueboats
@blueboats 24 күн бұрын
The "technology expert" rips the cameras out of the drywall to remove the SD cards . . .
@yayinternets
@yayinternets 22 күн бұрын
And he thought turning off location services would do the trick as well.
@yvito125
@yvito125 24 күн бұрын
If I disappear, my spouse killed me. Like, that's the kind of a hunch that you should listen to 😵‍💫
@ShraddaNiche
@ShraddaNiche 24 күн бұрын
I always wonder why they risk going back to a clear and present danger. we are flawed us humans.
@geraldfriend256
@geraldfriend256 24 күн бұрын
@@ShraddaNichesome are afraid to leave. It does trigger many abusers when they get abandoned.
@yvito125
@yvito125 24 күн бұрын
@@ShraddaNiche humans love the drama
@HostaMahogey
@HostaMahogey 24 күн бұрын
​@@geraldfriend256staying clearly didn't work either
@Kalleesto
@Kalleesto 23 күн бұрын
@@geraldfriend256I see many comments like the above and get annoyed at how much they just don’t get it. These men are misogynistic murderers. She DID leave. That’s WHY she’s dead. Like Nicole Simpson and I’ve always thought that Gabby Petito must’ve finally told Laundry it was over ….
@theovolz3073
@theovolz3073 24 күн бұрын
_Never_ stay with someone who lays a hand on you.
@scotabot7826
@scotabot7826 24 күн бұрын
NEVER!!!
@Itsjcold0
@Itsjcold0 23 күн бұрын
Yep if you stay it means you welcome the next time it happens.
@ilonakarlsson537
@ilonakarlsson537 22 күн бұрын
​@@Itsjcold0 It does not. Stop putting the responsibility on the victim.
@Drak3_710
@Drak3_710 21 күн бұрын
@@Itsjcold0what year where you born
@melfreemans
@melfreemans 8 күн бұрын
​@@ilonakarlsson537who has the responsibility to leave an abusive relationship then? The abuser sure isn't going anywhere. Putting the responsibility to leave on the person being abused isn't a form victim blaming. People have to be responsible for protecting themselves. No one else will protect you.
@InvisibleWarrior279
@InvisibleWarrior279 24 күн бұрын
Oh Lord. These dark relationships are so sad. Narcissism is really running amok in the world 😢
@wanyatelborn
@wanyatelborn 24 күн бұрын
Yes untreated mental illness
@the11theleven
@the11theleven 24 күн бұрын
Instead of pathologising 'the world' with narcissism, it'd be more helpful to acknowledge that there just isn't enough mental health services available to support people with psychological issues that prevent them from being able to have functional relationships.
@drakedrones
@drakedrones 24 күн бұрын
It’s been like this since dawn of times. Glad we all are waking up and confronting
@spyroluver0951
@spyroluver0951 24 күн бұрын
people also need to be held accountable for not wanting to self improve or look towards supports when offered.
@alexialira3839
@alexialira3839 24 күн бұрын
The only types of people who entertain narcissists are those with unresolved issues and toxicity themselves. Narcissism may be running amok, but there are always fools that will bend over for them & create offspring with them who will more than likely become narcissists or suffer from other psych issues. The cycle never stops and that's because many adults rather become victims or play the victim than do the work to become a healthy adult and choose better partners & father's/mothers for their innocent kids.
@cherylm9770
@cherylm9770 24 күн бұрын
How sad. Those poor little children Lost both their parents ! May she Rest Easy 🙏
@roya340
@roya340 24 күн бұрын
They lost their mother, a father like him is better not to have in the first place.
@sharonhoyt2133
@sharonhoyt2133 24 күн бұрын
I'm sure they are better off without their father and I hope a member of Maddie's family will get custody of the children.
@JRKonungrinn
@JRKonungrinn 24 күн бұрын
When one parent is a possessive, abusive, murderous monster, it's never sad that the children lost both parents, only sad that they lost the parent who was the victim.
@alexialira3839
@alexialira3839 24 күн бұрын
@roya340 She picked him to be their father. She had a hand in bringing this male into their lives. The decisions and actions of two toxic adults led to offspring and then led to them not having stability nor parents. The only victims are the kids.
@roya340
@roya340 24 күн бұрын
@@alexialira3839 I agree,🙏🙏
@tessaducek5601
@tessaducek5601 24 күн бұрын
Even with traceable electronics CCTV. People think they are smarter than the devices. I get early 00s. But these days its downright stupid. What was gained? Mourning family and children with neither parent. Poor lady could not escape this treacherous beast.
@melindadurchholz3738
@melindadurchholz3738 24 күн бұрын
Boy, that last sentence sums up the last chapter of their relationship. It’s very sad when women can’t see evil in an ex even when it right in front of them. If they put their hands around your neck, it’s only a matter of time. That’s the one common theme on killer spouses’ news shows.
@SinisterScoundrel6562
@SinisterScoundrel6562 24 күн бұрын
Women can't even see evil in the men they choose. All that gets em wet is the sight of a tall rich heartthrob. Blind and dumb!
@kaos3383
@kaos3383 24 күн бұрын
People need to quit harming one another. It's a shame.
@margipinto7925
@margipinto7925 24 күн бұрын
More children left without parents now 🥺😡
@jimbob9086
@jimbob9086 24 күн бұрын
I'm sure they'll miss their father of the year
@rabbit9905
@rabbit9905 24 күн бұрын
Right and people wonder why "this generation blah blah blah"
@user-xn7uu9jt9q
@user-xn7uu9jt9q 24 күн бұрын
😢😢😢
@Fruitdrink2000
@Fruitdrink2000 24 күн бұрын
This is so sad 😢 the poor lady and kids.
@Kinann
@Kinann 24 күн бұрын
She seems like a really nice person that's smart and conscientious. She cared too much for this loser.
@mikehunt6160
@mikehunt6160 24 күн бұрын
@@Kinann smart?
@Kinann
@Kinann 22 күн бұрын
@@mikehunt6160 Yeah. Smarter than him. SHE was the breadwinner. He couldn't be bothered.
@agirlyman
@agirlyman 24 күн бұрын
"He keeps telling me to shut up..." ~ Gabby Petito
@bthomson
@bthomson 24 күн бұрын
This is heartbreaking!
@agirlyman
@agirlyman 24 күн бұрын
@@bthomson heartbreaking and haunting I can't ever unhear that😔
@alexialira3839
@alexialira3839 24 күн бұрын
They were both toxic people. That's why they got together and stayed together. Not sure why people gloss over the fact that she'd abuse him frequently too. Neither should have been with the other nor with anyone else until they got mental help or at least matured. But they did and look how it ended. I don't see either as a victim of the other. They were both crazies.
@xxBRANDYSAURUSREXxx
@xxBRANDYSAURUSREXxx 24 күн бұрын
Which is crazy cause one of them was the victim of MURDER.​@@alexialira3839
@anneflynn9614
@anneflynn9614 24 күн бұрын
​@alexialira3839 So that makes it okay that he murdered her?
@francislarv3012
@francislarv3012 24 күн бұрын
Adam is a dim bulb if he would be oblivious to the fact that he would be suspect #1 and put under a microscope
@ingwopwetrust
@ingwopwetrust 24 күн бұрын
I don’t think he cared, some guys see it as “if I can’t have her nobody can”
@martiwaterman1437
@martiwaterman1437 23 күн бұрын
@@ingwopwetrustThat’s very true. There are also guys that believe they can outsmart everyone and get away with murder, literally.
@RB01.10
@RB01.10 21 күн бұрын
And he truly thought his statement about Petito would fly as a “joke”. I fail to see any humor in his statement, it sounds like someone who gets in trouble for something they said and try to cover by saying “it was only a joke”.
@bthomson
@bthomson 24 күн бұрын
That licensed plate dodge says it all!
@jamesoncross7494
@jamesoncross7494 24 күн бұрын
He was so lazy he couldn't even dig a hole.
@peacelove7437
@peacelove7437 23 күн бұрын
I was thinking about this watching true crime with bm killing bw. The black men never ever buried the body. Heck they don’t even move the body, lol, they just leave the dead body.
@kambrose1549
@kambrose1549 22 күн бұрын
Very hard to move far enough away when you have kids and a job without the abuser getting wind of it. So sad she didnt escape this predatory monster. Poor children too!
@renee1961
@renee1961 24 күн бұрын
Poor Maddie had to be just Terrified! And her Innocent Children have lost their Mother, because of their Father!! Heartbreaking!🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️
@HiNickCares
@HiNickCares 24 күн бұрын
She picked him😂😅😝
@scotabot7826
@scotabot7826 24 күн бұрын
Father??? Sperm supplier only!!
@jackieblue1267
@jackieblue1267 24 күн бұрын
@@HiNickCares Yes us human being aren't perfect. He doesn't have the right to murder her which is why he was arrested.
@HiNickCares
@HiNickCares 24 күн бұрын
@@jackieblue1267 Uh, pick a non-murderer to be your boyfriend!
@jackieblue1267
@jackieblue1267 24 күн бұрын
@@HiNickCares Well she didn't know he was a murderer did she? If everyone could avoid evil people we wouldn't be reading about this type of thing.
@yonikki
@yonikki 24 күн бұрын
From personal experience with a sociopathic malignant narcissist (formally diagnosed in 2005), she did NOT willingly "tell" him that she was in another relationship. I guarantee you that he got in her face and FORCED it out of her ... then became full of rage and planned her elimination. I experienced this myself, and it was only AFTER hours of demanding interrogation that I told him (now ex) I wanted out permanently. We have 4 children together ... and he still threatens to kill me to this day (10+ years after our separation). I don't believe for one minute that she told him to rub it in his face .... absolutely no way!!!
@Rebecca-hc5ju
@Rebecca-hc5ju 24 күн бұрын
You're right! She definitely wasn't like, "honey, sit down, I have something to tell you...."
@itchysheets1222
@itchysheets1222 24 күн бұрын
That or he was tracking her, stalking her, going thru her stuff and he put it together himself. Been there too. Even when you’ve never cheated, you’re always a cheater, always the one needing checked up on. It’s torture.
@user-fi6dc8dw9f
@user-fi6dc8dw9f 23 күн бұрын
You found this out after having 4 kids with him? Maybw more women should use birth control and leave sooner so there’s no “forcing info out”. Bc you’re just gone.
@yonikki
@yonikki 23 күн бұрын
@user-fi6dc8dw9f yes ... we went to years of counseling after baby #2, and that's when I found out what a malignant narcissist was for the first time. I thought I could help him change because I was young and ... dumb honestly. Narcissists will never change because it's part of their personality. Also, I learned in counseling to never blame a victim for not leaving soon enough ... clearly, you've never been in that position. Good for you.
@silverianjannvs5315
@silverianjannvs5315 17 күн бұрын
​@@yonikki'young & dumb' is used over & over again
@TheScapegoat420
@TheScapegoat420 24 күн бұрын
I just don't get people who want to constantly track someone and always have to know exactly where someone is and who they are talking to. Seems incredibly exhausting. I could see doing it for a week if you think you are being cheated on and have children, but constantly, no. It's time to go. Rip Maddi. God bless her child and family.
@chi-chi6354
@chi-chi6354 24 күн бұрын
Control is the name of the game for abusers .. always trying to control others while having very little self control
@Jess-kn8vl
@Jess-kn8vl 23 күн бұрын
I agree. Just break up and move on, there are billions of people in the world.
@TheScapegoat420
@TheScapegoat420 23 күн бұрын
@@Jess-kn8vl Sometimes it's very difficult if there is financial abuse and children involved. They are going to smear you and make you look crazy. CPS is going to believe them. Especially if the narc is the mother.
@josephl6727
@josephl6727 23 күн бұрын
That is because they are up to no good and get paranoid that you're doing the same thing. Self-righteousness can really make a person twisted. Double standards are a common issue as well.
@karis7649
@karis7649 24 күн бұрын
Dr Grande your consistency can’t be overstated & your dry humor is so enjoyably understated - The perfect daily dose.
@Legendary_Archfiend
@Legendary_Archfiend 24 күн бұрын
You’ll have my children and you will be a loyal partner I don’t care what plans you had - you dedicating yourself to our children Now
@Grimlooper
@Grimlooper 24 күн бұрын
@@Legendary_ArchfiendI think you should take your meds
@marielleo4715
@marielleo4715 24 күн бұрын
Yes,but who are supporters of this killer?
@scottr2279
@scottr2279 24 күн бұрын
Dr Grande is like the father I never had 😅
@LUCKSREVENGE
@LUCKSREVENGE 24 күн бұрын
❤ true that. If you ever saw him and his wife, you would want them to be your parents.
@Yasser.Osman.A.Z.
@Yasser.Osman.A.Z. 24 күн бұрын
He won't diagnose you, but he will speculate who your mother was!
@cybermandan1960
@cybermandan1960 24 күн бұрын
I'm just waiting for mine to come home from the shops with the milk. The waiting line must be crazy, it's been 15 years! Any day now...
@doanlove
@doanlove 24 күн бұрын
fr
@Dale-jd4nj
@Dale-jd4nj 24 күн бұрын
I wanna thank you guys for generating an interesting dialogue ☺️
@ursinha115
@ursinha115 24 күн бұрын
One coward being the idol of another... sad! I appreciate your analysis, Dr. Grande!
@saraglickman5889
@saraglickman5889 24 күн бұрын
Very sad case! It's unfortunate Maddi couldn't escape from the abusive relationship.
@peterwilson7532
@peterwilson7532 21 күн бұрын
She chose not to leave, women need to stop rewarding these despicable men's behaviour.
@renee1961
@renee1961 24 күн бұрын
Dr. Grande, I learn a lot from your Analysis, every time! And I love that shirt!
@LUCKSREVENGE
@LUCKSREVENGE 24 күн бұрын
Hi everyone, Dr. grande is great !!! even giving us something on a Sunday
@SmilingBeaver-ou7nc
@SmilingBeaver-ou7nc 24 күн бұрын
He uploads everyday of the week, and we look forward to it. Have A Wonderful Weekend ✌️
@philipbest364
@philipbest364 24 күн бұрын
I'm still laughing at "Squirt Monsters 2" 😂
@l-train7876
@l-train7876 24 күн бұрын
Same😂
@GenXfrom75
@GenXfrom75 24 күн бұрын
Yep 😂😂😂😂
@Le_coq_sportiff
@Le_coq_sportiff 24 күн бұрын
Same👍👍👍👍👍
@bunberrier
@bunberrier 24 күн бұрын
Yeah I paused it and went to a website where I could get a more, ahem, in depth view of the person under discussion.
@privard89
@privard89 24 күн бұрын
The judge must have watched and enjoyed squirt monsters 2 to give that demon lady 10 years for what she did
@melaniesmith1313
@melaniesmith1313 24 күн бұрын
What a pleasant surprise to find a new video from Dr. Grande. Excellant, as usual.
@sallywillis1448
@sallywillis1448 24 күн бұрын
Yes indeed. Clever analysis!
@piotrekszczepanski5125
@piotrekszczepanski5125 24 күн бұрын
Ummm, surprised? Were you being ironic? Dr Grande puts out a new video every single day without fail, and has done so for many years. He is as dependable as his daily video release is predictable, and good on him for being one of the hardest working youtubers out there!
@melaniesmith1313
@melaniesmith1313 24 күн бұрын
@@piotrekszczepanski5125 Yes, I was being ironic. 🙂 I look forward to his frequent uploads.
@piotrekszczepanski5125
@piotrekszczepanski5125 24 күн бұрын
Apologies for my comment then. More and more people online don't seem to understand the concept of irony, I'm glad that we both do. 😁
@ramfaki1256
@ramfaki1256 23 күн бұрын
​@@piotrekszczepanski5125You're so kind dear👌🏻❗
@AbuAfakski
@AbuAfakski 24 күн бұрын
Dr. Grande, Can you do a video analyzing people who feel the need to reply “First!” on KZfaq vids? Perhaps you could do a humorous video with a bunch of short answers to oddball requests you get
@dicedrice7216
@dicedrice7216 24 күн бұрын
My favorites are those people who are so overzealous that they post the typo "Frist!"
@DarkAngelOfTexas
@DarkAngelOfTexas 24 күн бұрын
I miss Dr. G’s KZfaq shorts
@toninicoledouglas8581
@toninicoledouglas8581 24 күн бұрын
I love these ideas 😂
@Rebecca-hc5ju
@Rebecca-hc5ju 24 күн бұрын
​@@dicedrice7216😂🤣😅
@Rebecca-hc5ju
@Rebecca-hc5ju 24 күн бұрын
I'm FIRST!! 😅🤣😂
@mirandahickman3352
@mirandahickman3352 24 күн бұрын
Dr. Grande, I am interested in your analysis of Max Azzarello. He was the man that self immoalted outside of the courthouse.
@WobblesandBean
@WobblesandBean 24 күн бұрын
I'm angry that the authorities had so many chances to put this man away, and failed. The same goes for Brian Laundrie. Two women would still be alive if only the law took DV seriously. But no, they don't do anything until it's far too late.
@cleopatra597
@cleopatra597 24 күн бұрын
same happened with Nicole Brown Simpson , useless authorities did nothing even with all her evidence of abuse , we all know how it ended with that psycho o j
@matthewakian2
@matthewakian2 24 күн бұрын
I think you might need to see a psychologist about that cactus obsession you got, doc.
@sarahjaye4117
@sarahjaye4117 23 күн бұрын
So dry 🙃
@jaxl1931
@jaxl1931 24 күн бұрын
Doc, thank you for another fascinating video! As one of your #1 fans for years; I have a request. I sometimes think about the short you made with your wife where you wished her a happy birthday and wedding anniversary and said, "long term relationships may be a lot of work, but they pay high dividends". If at all possible, could you please, Pleeaasse make a video speculating, of course, 😊what makes a long-term relationship successful? Is it similar interests and personalities? Can two people really just naturally be a great fit for one another? What is the key to a successful relationship/marriage? I know so many people who are divorced, unhappy with their partners, and have often been told, nothing lasts. I would love to know your thoughts on this topic. Thank you doctor Grande and congratulations on all your success !❤❤❤
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 24 күн бұрын
Another very sad case. Excellent analysis, quips, lessons. Too bad some people can't get away sooner from an abusive partnership. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙
@micheleshively8557
@micheleshively8557 24 күн бұрын
I just watched a 48 hours here on KZfaq yesterday about this case. So sad. So senseless. Thanks for doing this one Dr Grande! ❤ Blessings to you from Texas
@RB01.10
@RB01.10 21 күн бұрын
I did too. I couldn’t believe some of the things I heard on it.
@stephenabbott7259
@stephenabbott7259 24 күн бұрын
Incredibly sloppy murder. The only thing left he forgot to do was go to Home Depot.
@sondragramse1770
@sondragramse1770 24 күн бұрын
Or Walmart
@micnorton9487
@micnorton9487 24 күн бұрын
Well he could have queried Google "am I an idiot if I try switching license plates AND GET CAUGHT ON VIDEO doing it",, or "will someone find my wife's remains if I just leave the body unburied on a property I used to manage"...
@RB01.10
@RB01.10 21 күн бұрын
@@micnorton9487Exactly How could he be so clueless as not to know nowadays cameras are pretty much everywhere?!
@micnorton9487
@micnorton9487 21 күн бұрын
@@RB01.10 I can only guess that people who resort to urder-May AREN'T very smart to begin with...
@cats2905
@cats2905 24 күн бұрын
As someone from southern Minnesota.. I haven’t heard most of this information. I think parents are hiding a lot.
@Lisanoencasa
@Lisanoencasa 23 күн бұрын
I followed this from Iowa when it popped on the news. She seems like such a nice person, sorry to see she couldn’t walk away soon enough. This dude is a real pos.
@renee1961
@renee1961 24 күн бұрын
Good 🌆 evening, Dr. Grande! I hope you're doing well! Thank You!
@gogreen7794
@gogreen7794 24 күн бұрын
Why do so many couples stay in "tumultuous" relationships and have kids together? Do they like the drama or even danger? Are they afraid of being single?
@l-train7876
@l-train7876 24 күн бұрын
I’m going to guess you’re single and have no kids.
@gogreen7794
@gogreen7794 24 күн бұрын
@l-train7876 Just because I question why so many people get into and stay in bad relationships? I hope you aren't one of them.
@user-io7yk7qb1k
@user-io7yk7qb1k 24 күн бұрын
Never underestimate the power of a narcissist and how they manipulate, coerce and control good people.
@l-train7876
@l-train7876 24 күн бұрын
@@gogreen7794 never married and no kids here.
@itchysheets1222
@itchysheets1222 24 күн бұрын
@@l-train7876exactly. Once you have kids, it’s a whole other thing at that point. If that person takes their mask off…..you have to do whatever your and your children’s life depends on, not what “makes sense” or is “right” or “obvious” you have to survive until you get a safe chance. And those are rare when someone is so controlling.
@barthansard7058
@barthansard7058 24 күн бұрын
I get so tired of the prevaricating family members who make dumb and uninformed excuses for deadly relations. Better are the people who value decency of morality and justice for the victims rather than trying to uphold the "family name". Adam is obviously another sad horrendous domestic partner who has to have his way, even if it literally ruins lives. Thanks for another supremely informative segment, Doc! Hope folks can learn from you before they may make some tragic life altering mistake. But I bet none of your fans and viewers would ever be in that designated group of villains!
@peps1943
@peps1943 24 күн бұрын
You spelled pretentious wrong
@barthansard7058
@barthansard7058 24 күн бұрын
😂
@micnorton9487
@micnorton9487 24 күн бұрын
​​@@peps1943Prevaricating, people, partner - those are the only three p words in his entire post, how could he have misspelled pretentious?
@Ephemeropteraa
@Ephemeropteraa 24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. Just what I needed after working all weekend!❤
@jackhynds175
@jackhynds175 23 күн бұрын
*me, moments before I flawlessly explain precisely what happened in exquisite detail* "This is just a theory. My opinion."
@rileysmith9843
@rileysmith9843 24 күн бұрын
Can you analyze the suspects in the case related to Jordan DeMay’s death? I would like to see the mental health and personality factors surrounding this case.
@bold810
@bold810 24 күн бұрын
Best Storyteller in my feed.
@RullXov
@RullXov 24 күн бұрын
Why would he switch the license plates? I don't get the logic of that.
@jacksgl777
@jacksgl777 24 күн бұрын
So the authorities would think it was someone else’s car since license plate didn’t match Maddie’s. So non-clever of him.
@RullXov
@RullXov 24 күн бұрын
​@@jacksgl777 The police would know what vehicle the plates should be on as soon as they ran the plates numbers. He is a stupid man.
@rolandm9750
@rolandm9750 23 күн бұрын
@@jacksgl777 Yeah that "someone else's car" was *his* though. He used his own plates! Guy is beyond stupid. He may as well also left a business card on her body to "throw the police off"...using his own business card. It doesn't sound like he had a profession anyway, but yeah, that's the smarts of this guy.
@standardsarhy5319
@standardsarhy5319 22 күн бұрын
That's because there *is* no logic to it, given that the plates are in his name. That's right up there with wearing contacts instead of glasses when robbing a bank so you won't be recognized.
@Reading_the_comments
@Reading_the_comments 24 күн бұрын
Dr Grande is apart of my daily routine. Love this channel
@davidhumphries1146
@davidhumphries1146 24 күн бұрын
I remember following this case from Australia. 😢
@diannacotwright4892
@diannacotwright4892 24 күн бұрын
Thank you for the information and your analysis.
@kindacrazyAna14
@kindacrazyAna14 24 күн бұрын
Hellloo I am here early! Love from Jamaica!
@francinejones2524
@francinejones2524 24 күн бұрын
Thanks Dr Grande for another great analysis! Love from New Zealand 🇳🇿
@BucketHeadianHagg
@BucketHeadianHagg 24 күн бұрын
Dr Grande is so sweet ❤ (It’s almost time for his snazzy spring fashion button-up shirts!)
@livingonhighvibe
@livingonhighvibe 24 күн бұрын
I refreshed a bunch of times to see if there is a new video already today!
@QuirkyQuillify
@QuirkyQuillify 23 күн бұрын
Another really great analysis, thank you Dr. Grande! I started following the channel since about two years ago, and have never missed a day in watching your daily uploads. I am simultaneously amazed at your ability to produce high quality content everyday, and worried that you will burn out and then leave us with no videos. Take care and do the work you love on the schedule that suits you, and not the algorithm.
@williamrichardsonjr9731
@williamrichardsonjr9731 24 күн бұрын
The profundity of that last sentence Doc! Salute🔥
@elaineelias2588
@elaineelias2588 24 күн бұрын
As always, so interesting! Thank you dr grande😊
@aarondavis8943
@aarondavis8943 24 күн бұрын
He was obsessed with an incompetent murderer and then lived up to and exceeded those aspirations. This is a slam dunk case because the killer is an idiot.
@micnorton9487
@micnorton9487 24 күн бұрын
Yeah even his goofy license plate ploy more SUNK him than helped him... BESIDES, if the vehicle WAS seen, which it was, the license plate DIDN'T MATCH the correct vehicle so this boner just screwed the pooch all the way around... Gotta figure though,, people who resort to urder-May AREN'T very smart to begin with...
@Yasser.Osman.A.Z.
@Yasser.Osman.A.Z. 24 күн бұрын
Dr. Grande finds the most obscured cases ever took place. I don't know where he finds them
@davidhumphries1146
@davidhumphries1146 24 күн бұрын
It was not obscure
@allegrobrio968
@allegrobrio968 24 күн бұрын
Actually, not that obscure.... this case recently was featured in an episode of 48 Hours (CBS).
@Rebecca-hc5ju
@Rebecca-hc5ju 24 күн бұрын
​@allegrobrio968 yes, I was just going to say! Excellent episode.
@Yasser.Osman.A.Z.
@Yasser.Osman.A.Z. 24 күн бұрын
@@allegrobrio968 sorry, I didn't make my comment clear enough, so I did not mean this case in particular, I was just speaking my mind, just in general, or more accurate, I should say, I was typing my mind 😉 ☺
@Angiesensei.
@Angiesensei. 24 күн бұрын
@@allegrobrio968 yes. 48 hrs
@megatherion2695
@megatherion2695 24 күн бұрын
Thanks, Doc!
@ghoststarstalk
@ghoststarstalk 22 күн бұрын
Dr. Grande does so well with a plethora of cases. How does he do it? His dry wit at times is appreciated, although one has to be paying close attention. His final thoughts remain the most interesting and clearly encompass ingenuity.
@EdwardClinton
@EdwardClinton 24 күн бұрын
Excellent analysis
@zyrne7297
@zyrne7297 24 күн бұрын
Thank you dr grande this was a good summary
@enjoystraveling
@enjoystraveling 23 күн бұрын
I think that it would’ve been a good idea in high school to give some real life courses. History, literature math is traditional school courses, but students need a few real life courses in their last year of high school such as financial courses so they don’t get too much in debt and also relationship courses so they know how to steer clear of someone that might treat them badly.
@AfroGaz71
@AfroGaz71 24 күн бұрын
I'd like to see Dr Grande's opinion on the recent Cass report.
@m.f.richardson1602
@m.f.richardson1602 24 күн бұрын
Always interesting Thank you❤
@MikeInHalifax
@MikeInHalifax 24 күн бұрын
I saw a documentary about her last summer sometime.
@carnifaxx
@carnifaxx 24 күн бұрын
I wonder what's the point of turning off tracking devices and switching license plates (for his own, ffs) and then leaving the body on the property of your own parents and even admitting you were there... was he thinking that police would assume that nobody is that stupid and that it therefore had to be arranged by someone else to point at him? :D
@Vietnamthwcountryhuman
@Vietnamthwcountryhuman 23 күн бұрын
As a person who was able to survive a similar relationship the only explanation I can give for continuing to stay in the relationship for so long is, hoping or believing that person would eventually change for the BETTER
@amybe3
@amybe3 24 күн бұрын
Yes, you can analyze such case, Dr. Grande 😅Thanks
@rondarivadeneira172
@rondarivadeneira172 24 күн бұрын
Good to see you
@padussia
@padussia 24 күн бұрын
So sad. Condolences 😢
@MEL2theJ
@MEL2theJ 23 күн бұрын
Thank you again Dr. Grande🙏 There were so many warning signs for this young lady. Unfortunately this is a common outcome in many cases.
@AbuAfakski
@AbuAfakski 24 күн бұрын
Very sad Adam is an evil man
@Legendary_Archfiend
@Legendary_Archfiend 24 күн бұрын
No - you leave a man you had kids with You get what you get As it should be
@JavaT6437
@JavaT6437 24 күн бұрын
​@@Legendary_Archfiend no one deserves to die
@sherunswithscissors
@sherunswithscissors 24 күн бұрын
@@Legendary_ArchfiendGrow up.
@purrple.shadows
@purrple.shadows 24 күн бұрын
​@@Legendary_ArchfiendVery harsh opinion and unjustifiable.
@Legendary_Archfiend
@Legendary_Archfiend 24 күн бұрын
@@purrple.shadows you need need to justify what is just “Harsh opinion” Psh, no it’s a sacrament, if you break it you will suffer the consequences… you’re little condemnation means nothing
@Roc-Righteous
@Roc-Righteous 24 күн бұрын
I agree Mr Grande. Good video!
@DG-si2vp
@DG-si2vp 24 күн бұрын
Dr Not mr
@aprilcanipe2614
@aprilcanipe2614 24 күн бұрын
You'll adjust?" Wtf
@GenXfrom75
@GenXfrom75 24 күн бұрын
The title grabbed my attention and so, here I am!
@ghostwalk2446
@ghostwalk2446 24 күн бұрын
Never inform your abusive partner of your "new lover"
@TheBub26
@TheBub26 24 күн бұрын
how do i explain the scratches on my face? they'll look at my searches, so i'll search "are dog scratches on face dangerous?". maybe i should just ask if dog scratches are dangerous minus location? yeah, that would look less suspicious
@sarahjaye4117
@sarahjaye4117 23 күн бұрын
What a moron
@TechGorilla1987
@TechGorilla1987 24 күн бұрын
The best thing about your content is the fact that watching it vs listening to it gives a particularly stereo-style appearance. Only when the two channels are combined does the content truly make sense and 'sound' the best.
@jaclynvonhohen9220
@jaclynvonhohen9220 23 күн бұрын
Would love to see your reaction/analysis of the Watcher scandal.
@futurepath
@futurepath 24 күн бұрын
Hey Dr. Grande, been a fan for many years now. You should cover Kelly Ellard and her murder of Reena Virk at age 15. Kelly is now known as "Kerry Marie Sim". Very sad story with a lot of interest in Canada. Kelly Ellard has had further challenges since she was granted day parole including domestic violence against her ex-spouse.
@marciabosteder9781
@marciabosteder9781 24 күн бұрын
❤ It seems to me, This young mother was quite Naive. I'm so sorry for her children and her family.
@fragrancememoir2350
@fragrancememoir2350 24 күн бұрын
God bless this sweet precious young woman & her family 😞🙏 ... If you're in a similar relationship, LEAVE. IT ALWAYS ALWAYS ONLY GETS WORSE.
@bobburnitt5761
@bobburnitt5761 23 күн бұрын
It is scary to me how often things like this happen. What a shame.
@gabrielleandrew542
@gabrielleandrew542 23 күн бұрын
What a terrible tragedy . This lady just didn’t leave soon enough . When the hands encircled the throat .,. It was definitely time … and thanks so much Dr Grande
@OzzieJayne
@OzzieJayne 24 күн бұрын
Much love to the children. Dr Grande, could you have a speculative glance at the Aussie case of Julian Buchwald and Carolyn Watson, from 2008, please and thank you.
@marymonroe7042
@marymonroe7042 24 күн бұрын
So sad.
@michelleloveday6929
@michelleloveday6929 2 күн бұрын
That is so sad.
@jasonstoutamire177
@jasonstoutamire177 24 күн бұрын
Dr. Grande could you do a video on Max Azzarello?
@freshlimejuice
@freshlimejuice 24 күн бұрын
The title alone makes my head explode lol
@egoborder3203
@egoborder3203 24 күн бұрын
instead of warning other people that Adam would hurt her, she should have incapacitated him and kept herself alive
@thatguy7085
@thatguy7085 24 күн бұрын
And she would be in prison…
@750dollarman2
@750dollarman2 24 күн бұрын
If my daughter told me she was afraid to be murdered by someone..
@monacoofthebluepacific2571
@monacoofthebluepacific2571 24 күн бұрын
Or just move without telling him when and where she was moving to.
@HiNickCares
@HiNickCares 24 күн бұрын
Or just not pick him to begin with.
@egoborder3203
@egoborder3203 24 күн бұрын
@@thatguy7085 maybe, but she would definitely be alive and not dead in some field
@sondragramse1770
@sondragramse1770 24 күн бұрын
They started search parties very fast to try and find her!! Another Minnesota story about murderers. There was really no other suspect. Sondra from St Paul,
@JefftheSabaDude
@JefftheSabaDude 23 күн бұрын
I grew up in southern MN although not near Mabel but people I know who have connections to that area always pronounced it like the woman's name Mabel, not May-belle. But Dr. G sure does his research on those Australian place names to get them right, impressive!
@avestaali3957
@avestaali3957 24 күн бұрын
Can you make a video about the personality disorder of Matha Scott in the Baby Reindeer?
@JP-wx6uh
@JP-wx6uh 24 күн бұрын
There are some very strange people in this world 🌍
@scotabot7826
@scotabot7826 24 күн бұрын
You mean EVIL and SICK!!!!!
@vivienneobrien1557
@vivienneobrien1557 24 күн бұрын
Super-athletic shifty eye Dr Grande!
@enjoystraveling
@enjoystraveling 23 күн бұрын
I agree she should’ve left when he first started abusing her and not told him she gone. I think it’s harder when you have children to leave and that you probably don’t wanna believe that your husband will do that again if he apologizes. Also, it’s not a good idea to tell your ex or your spouse you’re leaving about sure new spouse, or new lover, just get out of there. and better to be fully separated and moved.
@ShadesOClarity
@ShadesOClarity 24 күн бұрын
How do people think they can get away with any crime now with cameras everywhere?
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