Revenge would be suing for the money back. She did fraud him

dude shouldve sued for alimony fraud. you can sue for it and get 100% of the money back. guys a doormat.

It's not your fault it's your ex wife's fault and she doesn't have the right to anything.

Can't believe OP didn't sue her to get all his money back

He keeps saying he made a "mistake" no homie, You were the salvation of another man in no way is that a mistake. He cut out venomous people out of his life as well it's literally a win win situation for this dude

OP should have sent the recording of her admitting to all her affairs to all their friends and family just to show how vile she is. See if they side with her then. And if they do that just shows they are awful too

Nta but Op should refrain from drinking now

NTA. Funny how she gets a pass for cheating, but he gets blamed for her lying to her current boyfriend. Yes, he ranted, but the rants would've had no effect if the boyfriend wasn't already thinking of leaving. He didn't ruin anything. Her new man just started seeing her as what she was.

Now let’s imagine if the guy did block OP, it’s a real possibility it would’ve been 50\50 and the one in the most harms way would’ve been the son because of his own delusional mother. Glad that didn’t happen

OP should have sued before dropping the recordings. That said, her legal team might be on the hook if they submitted bad paperwork. Wanna bet the friends were hiding their own secrets. If i was OP, I'd ask the spouse's of the most vocal friends for log.

When he talked about her going after him for more alimony, all I could think was that no judge would have awarded it to her. Any promotion, raise, or inheritance started AFTER the finalization of the divorce is something she is entitled to. Heck, he could have won the lottery an hour after the papers were filed and done and she couldn't touch it. She expected to be able to bully him into higher payments before it could reach a judge since she would have lost otherwise.

You are NEVER in the wrong for telling the truth. NEVER. ALWAYS fully expose cheaters.

He was surprised she wanted more??

1 hour story's you know the drill

How she’d have a “secret kid” without him knowing 🤔 unless she’s one of those women who don’t show at all them I can’t believe it 🤣

I like this OP. He actually has the balls and spine to stand up for himself and strike back at his ex for screwing him over. #GoodJobBro 👏

Forget her and stop feeling sorry for what you did

I would have went one step further and tried to sue her for the alimony I had paid her.

Dude should sue her for fraud if she intentionally got alimony without being entitled to it

Can you sue your ex wife for the alimony you paid her? If that is the case, I would definitely do that to Julia

Seriously why is everyone a doormat according to comments? The dude literally snapped out of being a simp, he did not take her back, her life was ruined because of him. The only thing he didn't do is sue her Save the doormat badge for actual doormats like the guy who keeps crawling back to a vile human being after cheating, lying, stealing and abusing...

The people in these stories really do need better friends 😂

After what Julia did, she deserves everything and more.

NTA I would've sued her for the alimony back and shes not entitled to anything once the alimony is paid off shes done for shes not getting a single penny

Women leave 6 or 7 months before being official on paper or by word

OP just send the recording to him

This guy is so embarrassing .

Who else loves these crazy titles👇

Her Audacityyyyyy 😡

No you're not the jerk you're ex is just mad because she's a gold digger that's finally getting what she deserves

This simp will probably simp for the next woman that will come into his life.

Imagine being madly in love with your wife , only to get told she doesn’t feel the same and now you have to pay HER money cause she doesn’t love you and come to find out she cheated and has another man’s baby , only for people to accuse you of having a drinking problem 💀💀I’d be pissed

I don't even understand alimony. Should only even be for a year max, especially if they don't have kids. Woman is capable of getting a job.

Ah yes, suffering, the finest wine.

I hate moralists when it comes to relationships

Why not sue Julia for back pay of alimony based on new evidence.

Nta but op is such a spineless man that it stuns me.

😂😂 How many times have i watched this: yes

Bruh... who in their right mind would feel bad for her after what she did to O.P. then what she said to him ..... then what she did to the dude she was supposed to really like.

If she's married again why is op still paying her alimony?

Alright guys, who let the random teenager write up some fan fiction?

@10:00 apologize? that woman took your money all this time altho she shouldnt have gotten anything ... instead of apologizing he should sue her

OP was out of her league. Way too good for her.

EX Wife Stories Are Always Juicy 💔 Thats why that's ALL I read for my fans (in my voice )

If you tell someone, even accidentally something about someone that isn't untrue, then you shouldn't be blamed for any fallout. Maybe it's not a good idea to blab about things but telling lies is worse, and you can't have a relationship based on lies.

NTA. It's funny. It's fine if the ex tries to mess with you and ruin you but when you do the same thing then you are the bad guy. Like they say, all's fair in love in war.😎

okay now file a lawsuit for alimony fraud and get your money back 🤣

Get your money back!

why would you not get back at her .smh and you were not to let her scream at you for 30 mins you should have recorded it all but I digress its still a good job and stop feeling bad for the moves you made its done

After divorced for a couple of years I didn't think alimoney can be adjusted higher since it didn't effect her and he was already paying high amount. It's supposed to I thought keep her in the life she maintained when she lived with him. His promotion shouldn't even affect her at all. Least in my opinion no idea on laws. But it's not ment to live her whole life on. I haven't finished so idk how long they have been married for or if they said I didn't catch it. Usually depending on length of time married it cuts off at a certain time. And I just got to part where they were only married for 7 of years so alimony should be not that long. she's had time to find a job and stuff.

Fake story. Not a single state in the US allows an ex wife getting alimony to sue for a higher amount 2 years later just because someone gets a promotion.

Hehehe....this OP is such a doormat.

Nah revenge is sweet

Suing for back pay on the alimony would be fair considering she lied to get it I the first place and was basically starting a whole ass family with one of her many affair partners before she even filed for divorce and alimony

Doormat alert!

Is there any real benefit for men getting married these days?

OP has to stop being a doormat, grow a pair and put everyone in their place

Op is a doormat

Alimony 😂😂 if someone ever cheats on me only God and myself know what will happen if that nonsense was ever tried on me😂 mental concept

How did she have a kid and he didn’t know

7:36 where the TikTok vid left off at

Alimony is a stupid concept.

bro why tf are ALL julias so horrible? all the julias i know either were a push to me to try suic. or just straight off horrible people

This "AITA" thing is getting to annoying. It's literally in EVERY single one of these videos! Which makes me believe they're all fake.

bros a sigma🗿

Ok

Hi

This sounds fake .

Lmao 'housewife' just means she can do what she likes, thats not a job lmao, thats a constant holiday

Sue her,

OP has a serious drinking problem