i could not agree with you more. Thinking about them eventho she is really hurt by this. She deserves respect. I dont know if i could do the same🥺

That’s what I thought. I always feel heartbroken when children fall in the crossfire of adult issues

Amen!

Oh absolutely a woman of class.

Absolutely!!!!

OMG

"But it's Paulo" -Rachel Green 😫😂

Lmao

LMFAO 😭😭😭

"SiNg tU Mi PAuLoH!?" 🤣🤣🤣

Another quote is “When people show you who they are, believe them” Maya Angelou.

That's a great quote!

Ah, Bojack Horseman, a philosopher of the times

@@marypeterson8118 he ju tyyy y hey

“Like in a movie” literally like a movie, there’s a hella twist.

I had to go through background checks to wash floors and scrub toilets!

The privilege of the educated.

I think it's probably because he was a doctor that almost served as proof of his credentials. Even though there have been plenty of doctors who have harmed and abused people and patients. I'm from the UK and there was a doctor here called "Harold Shipman" who used his position as a general practitioner/doctor to kill elderly patients, usually with morphine overdoses. He was trusted enough that the families of some victims gave permission for him to enter their homes and treat them. It took many years for him to be identified as a serial killer because of the trust placed in him by so many people that they never questioned him when he told a victims family that their relative had died.

@@danielmorris6523 my god this is awful, i hope he was convicted

@@valehuber2232 Shipman committed suicide in Wakefield Prison.

😭😭

Welcome to the world of health care? Entirely not on the same level but I did have a procedure which put me in so much pain that if someone said, it could all end tonight, I might well have taken them up on it. For more than a year I went to the surgeon, to the emergency room and complained about it, finally I self removed what was done. The surgeon stood over me contemptuously and brushed off my final telling of how all my complaints had disappeared once the removal was done. He was so dismissive, a true narcissist..

That is not a new fear

There's a podcast I listened to recently called Dr.Death and jfc, this combined with that podcast made me so paranoid of surgeons help

I’ve become aware of this more and more lately, it’s truly terrifying. Medical malpractice kills so many people each year.

Yes, when someone seems to good to be true, it's a red flag

Yup exactly

Was hoping to see this comment

The creepy videos he would send her , love bombing her ! Ewwww. RED FLAGS

Exactly

Tinder Swindler? Perfecto next video 👍🏻

I was thinking of the Tinder Swindler as well!

@@breakfastattiffanys741 it’s on netflix but i’m sure there are documentaries on youtube too

The narcissist handbook

Definitely thought that too 🤪😂

That's disgusting! This man should have been convicted on so much more relating to the other patients and he should be serving a lot of time. He basically killed a toddler, for one thing!

@@KittyCat260 yes its at least murder in the second degree

Swedish legal system is a joke, im swedish and am appalled by the board of KI but not suprised, bunch of idiots ...

One count of bodily harm is ridiculous! He should have been found guilty for all his crimes! It is terrible what he got away with!

Thanks for this update. I was wondering. And only 4 years????!!!! That’s sickening. He has no remorse (at least per this video) and would still be perpetrating his death surgeries if he could. The families and the one survivor deserve so much more.

She was born without a trachea she wasn’t going to live anyway

@@sherrymdsrn can you at least pretend to have compassion?

@@sherrymdsrn if I understand right, it was getting the cheap walmart plastic trachea instead of getting a real one that used up her chance of survival. She might have lived if not for the "discount" trachea surgery. As poalo's semi-accurate excuse was that complications are always part of new technology, they were given confidence in the technology when it wasn't warranted, and could have used the more reliable kind where you get a real trachea, which would have been her best chance.

Tragic 😥

@@jameseverett4976 maybe she wasn’t on the donor list for that being she was extremely young her parents traveled to U.S because they allow surgeries for experimental practices but Paoulo Lied about the procedure being effective he should have tested on animals not toddlers

LMAO THIS NEEDS TO BE THE PINNED COMMENT

Honestly, you can just shorten it to all Italian men. In my experience it doesn't matter what their name is.

And Friends!! Rachel was dating an Italian man named Paolo and he hit on Phoebe!

LMAOOOO YOU WON THIS COMMENT SECTION

How did I not make the connection 😭 this comment is gold!

Women do,but for men that is weird

Same. I spent 25 bucks on a lipstick bc it was strawberry scented, like from my childhood. I would be pissed if it was wasted.

And then having to clean the mirror??? No thanks hahaha

NO!! Waste of good lipstick if you ask me! 😂

Yea, I have a lot of lipstick that I never use, and probably expired. Lol

💯💯💯💯

It’s kinda badass. And attractive.

FR every woman can relate to this 😣😅😍

Right..🥺

she’s so good!!!! the way she speaks is>>>>>

This was clearly the victim's fault. They should've used common sense and detected those red flags.

@@fsheld5058 thats not... related to the comment at all

Wow. That is unbelievable..

ikr

Not even my child would believe that :( he played her like a fiddle

Me too. That was so crinchy. 😭😭

That was very brutal.

I knowwww poor thing. He has "special contacts" in the Vatican?! They're both divorcees, and she's not even Catholic! 🤦🏼‍♀️

I know right!!!! They should make a movie about this!!!

That is what I was thinking!!! Wow just wow

Right

@@happymarshmallow9628 Benita made a program herself, titled He Lied About Everything. I think I saw it on Bravo.

@@debschmitt761 oh thanks! I’ll check it out!

Thank you

frrr! him and john would definitely get along

From nacissistic to murderous in one easy step. So terrifying cuz. they get so good at that you may never know until its too late. *shudder*

Fortunately Paolo wasn’t as dangerous as John, but yes, just as much of a liar and deceiver.

That would be perfect for season three!

Erm…apologies if this makes me sound dumb, but who is “Dirty John.”?

What I don't understand is, that all my previous jobs wanted to see my diploma so that they knew, that I am not pretending to have a degree (and those jobs weren't even connected to me). So how come that a prestigious institute didn't check, if the person they are going to hire actually have the acamedic background he is claiming. I don't understand 🤷‍♀️

I meant that those jobs weren't connected to the field I have my masters in, not that they are not connected to me 😅

This whole story is unbelievable, sad, and absolutely embarrasing.

What I said too…think he’s just to full of himself to take some ones life like he legit doesn’t want to get his hands dirty

Exactly she got away without being killed which I think she should be counting her blessings for

Was thinking that as well

Yeah but it’s not that much of a shock really. Sweden has a reputation of not taking things seriously until the damage has been done.

Is this maybe because Swedes are generally known to be very naive?!

The idea of forming a trachea from a WATER BOTTLE had me doubled over in laughter and disbelief... and then, I realized that this monster was KILLING PEOPLE.

I think they took it VERY seriously. And covered him.

Has their reputation been damaged? Are they being held accountable?

For real. It’s so scary

OMG i ended up doing this same research after this happened to me with a narcissist and was floored to learn that « spark » was actually fear and not chemistry! It’s amazing how our bodies can tell danger so early on.

You are 100% correct!

I've also experienced this, only with narcissistic or evil men. Every great man I've been with has given me a sense of calm.

Dude this is blowing my mind. I've been wracking my brain as to why I felt this when I met the man who ended up physically hurting me and blamed myself for having bad intuition but this makes so much sense! The only thing that made me question things at first was that he kind of love bombed me and was super into me without really knowing me but it's so easy to get swept up in it all no matter how careful a person may be.

You have just changed my life. Thank you.

Well she was laughing but I wonder if she tried to talk some sense into her friend?

can you tell us what time in the video? i can’t find it thank you!

@@sherrymdsrn like 18:50. She's on a video call with a girlfriend.

That DOES sound fake. Who would believe that story about the pope? Especially as the catholic church disapproves of divorce.

The saddest thing is the popes are usually dirty old paedophile men!!!

Yeah, it's awful that a doctor was able to experiment on humans like that.

Maybe the only reason she exposed him was because he lied to her about marrying her? Imagine if he did marry her and did follow through with all of his promises...

@@teijaflink2226 khh

@@thequeenofwitches7943 No, the marriage is the reason WHY she started investigating him in the first place, not the only reason whatsoever especially after all the dirt she found on him after.

Psychopaths are not as rare as we may think.... although to his extent is not as common, we all have/will encounter atleast one in our lives. I married one, feel like such a fool for excusing and forgiving and just buying into his convincing stories. The time I figured him out was too late, he had ruined my life. This woman handled her fraudulent whirlwind love affair with grace and got justice! I applaud her.

HOW can a smart woman fall for that??

@@sy_dianne5224 fr..she was verrrry naive

@@idk4nyname Or being married by the Pope...for real?

@@sy_dianne5224 and idk how she wasn’t sceptical abt him flying to different countries all the time to do “surgery” that already was giving mistress vibes.

Lmfaaaoooo me too like cmonnnn

If he was Black certainly they would ask for thousands credentials

He was a qualified doctor, he lied about the research behind the procedure he was doing.

Wow that's some commitment. As a brit I want to hear his accent 😂 I hope ur OK now

Lmfao no offense but wtffff!!

What the fuuuuuuck

I had a guy faked getting stabbed so I wouldn’t break up with him, pictures from google down to the ER and the nurses

Kari Meiers Did you do a background check on this sick man???

There’s a podcast with several episodes, Dr.Death (season 3) that has a lot of interviews with the woman he was “going to marry”

Good comparison.

Came to say the same thing

In the dirty John case the woman basically kicked her kids to the curb! It was moms ignorance that nearly got her daughter killed!

@@sarahtonin256 it was her ex-husband and from what was told in the video, the divorce and their relationship was far from idylic. So yeah, it is classy, that she was mourning him anyways and do everything for her daughter. People that are going through hard times are allowed to fall in love, especially when he was providing her support - and she needed that so that she could stay strong for her daughter.

In what way this half-witted woman is a strong person?

I guess the fact that she met him while her husband was dying from cancer and probably needed her support during his last days and providing emotional support to her daughter is completely irrelevant huh

@@ferial8819 You keep repeating this same comment over and over again even though the video made it very clear that’s not what happened.

So true!

Yes!!! It's a much needed break! Best to diversify lest we all get horribly depressed 😅

This was clearly the victim's fault. They should've used common sense and detected those red flags.

Yes! I love lights out but sometimes I can’t take the gore lol

Yes!!! It really weighs on my soul after awhile. That's when I like to pop on her lawsuit and fraud playlist. Honestly probably my favorite episodes.

I was thinking the same damned thing! Like holy hell, you need references to work in restaurants, how did absolutely nobody think to verify the professional background of a surgeon?!

Faking it till you make it isn't a saying for nothing!

it honestly scares the shit out of me. like who else is lying about that?

You have to understand that people like this are so conniving, manipulative and their true profession is deceiving others. For what reason exactly, I don't know. It's almost like a Superman syndrome. He would probably wait until she wasn't actually looking to pretend to be playing the piano. He kept her so swept off her feet that there's no telling what he would do. He has her believing the Pope was going to marry them, I think he can fake being able to play the piano. It's all really sad

They say ‘love is blind’.. 🤷‍♀️

I guess the fact that she met him while her husband was dying from cancer and probably needed her support during his last days is completely irrelevant huh

or prince*

​@@ferial8819 they were divorced when he got sick, they just had a good relationship because of their daughter

She actually overlooked a ton of red flags and the trips and status was a huge part of the reason she just ignored the absurd he was doing and saying. Who would believe a secret medical society and that the same person is the Clinton's, the Obama's, and the pope's private doctor, while also operating on the japanese emperor? Or that he was called to save princess Diana, and he not getting there in time was the only reason she died... in the meanwhile, all his not famous patients were dying in the most terrible way... funny how he was the doctor of such important people, but still was almost anonymous... you've got to suspend disbelief so hard to fall for all this...

@@ferial8819 Ex-husband. They were separated snd divorced for 12 years before she even met the guy. Also this whole thing pretty much started because he helped to give her closure about not being able to tell her ex husband and the father of her children goodbye.

Very true

Nah, this goes deeper! Her mom and then her dad throwing her out. Psychologically her attachment didn’t come in right because of what happened to her during her for formative years. Red flag after red flag and where someone with a healthy attachment would react and end things, she clinged on to them because she hadn’t been taught to set proper boundaries in childhood (parents teach their kids this in healthy homes) so instead she ended up looking past the red flags and holding on to him. It’s like she knew but still didn’t dare to let go of him, separation anxiety. Which might also psychologically explain why she was ok with leaving her daughter behind so often (because she her self had been left as s child), her daughter only had her as a caregiver after the father had passed (So another reason to not dash off on all of those trips when he love bombed the mom). It’s really sad because had she had a better upbringing this scary man would not be viewed as a potential partner by her, she would be able to keep the door closed to him.

She was mentally weak alright !

But she was ambitious as well. Fraudulent people tend to depend on other people's greed and ambition for status in different kind. There's those to offer more than you're worth so to say (people are played by their self esteem isdues). The board of Karolinska contained to a great extent of former politicians (who often are showered by lobbyists etc and hence harmful items and procedures are neglected and allowed).Thus, she was a different kind of victim than those he performed surgery on, for those he really was their last hope (many also aware thiswas a new procedure with someat uncertain outcome). And then the idea of medical science moving forward in an often rather fast pace perhaps not make the procedure obviously, sure a donated trachea would be the ideal though the need for the artificial one was/is probably desired if there isn't enough donor organs available (add to the risk of the body rejecting a donated organ as well even if formally matching).

@@soilgrasswaterair I love how you wrote that, it is true, she was trauma bond to him. I'm currently understanding how this correlates with your formative years and I am trying so hard to break a trauma bond of 9 years.

There is one in the U.S. it's call the National Practioner Database

@@puppymurph and yet none of these monsters ever end up on the list. Let me rephrase. A working database whose goal is to protect the public

Even if there was one, it's not look people would have sense to actually check it.

And teachers, lawyers, judges, veterinarians...basically anyone that has significant influence on people's lives

@@DavidKen878 i would! I research all my doctors first. Almost went to a dentist (was given a list by obamacare) that was charged and convicted of setting off 2 pipe bombs at his former college rivals house, decades after they graduated. His dentistry license apparently was never revoked

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Paolo can’t sing music now he must face music, or something like that from sergei

Yes, my question is why did he go through all this for. What did he want form her cause eventually he knew that she would find the truth. Maybe he wanted to influence her documentary about his work.

Yeh it’s crazy I don’t get the end goal.

I was thinking exactly the same thing. It just makes absolutely no sense to me

Emergency surgery (also sarcasm, I was wondering the same thing)

The point is, it is possible he would/could have pulled off this kind of double life thing he had if he just did a regular, normal wedding in the US. His wife lived in Barcelona so it's pretty safe to say the two women would have never meet. He insisted to have this royal style wedding without the possibility to come through with it. And this all would have been a sad story about the women that got tricked if not for the people that have been harmed by him being a "super doctor"

I agree... I am the skeptic of the century. My motto: always expect the worst; then, you are never disappointed.

Well, unlike Bonita, you are intelligent in addition to being principled !

@@malimalou751 It's not being intelligent... It's being cautious. Also where I live you need to be living for a whole year apart before engaging in any divorce procedure.

I always think about the fable of the crow and the fox, you know where the crow has a piece of cheese in her beak and the fox keeps telling her what a beautiful singing voice she has, so she’ll sing for him and drop the cheese

Yes

Lmfao right!!!! I was dying when she said that and then showed the clip 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Yes!!! Lol

🤣😂

OMG, i was reading comments as the video was playing, and Kendall said it as i was reading your comment, lol!

It all depends on who do you know or how much money you have. Corruption is very high in the medical field.

That’s why my mind is blown like how?????

@@Anna-RF ewwwwwwww icky not what I want to hear. But not totally surprising either. Everything has a price in this world

Three countries?! Dang, that’s impressive, good on you

It is one of the most irresponsible, and also very disgusting, and greedy things a person could do. It is putting people's lives, and well-being at risk. They could be maimed, or killed. He is so messed up.

Same!!!

Right!!!!

Yes abandon your child and travel the world with a psycho. Goals 💅

@@tendies9248 They all praising her and I am flabbergasted .... She traveled so much with him leaving her kid who just lost father ....

@@chichan6969 I agree, I don’t get how people are praising her. She should have stuck by her kids during a difficult time like that, not go running off with some dude right away.

Don't worry. I doubt this would happen in America.

@@katelynbrown98 Kendall did a story on an American doctor who murdered his beauty pagent wife a year ago. He faked a lot of his medical credentials so yes it is possible in America. However, I think it's because both of these men became doctors prior to the internet and major technological advances.

@@katelynbrown98 now you’re the gullible one

I was hoping to learn more about this story from this video. But in fact she just simply retold the ABC episode. With mistakes. Disappointed.

@@katelynbrown98 Do some research...it not only could happen in the US, it HAS happened in the US! There are people like Paolo in every country in the world!

wow :(

😬😔

Definitely it's as bad as something serial killer would do, it's experimentation on humans too. Horrifying that he was able to do something like this, he was respected too.

In a separate tv interview, he refered to them as "complications as with any new surgery"

How can he do that to anyone! Specially a child! I cried when she said that the little girl died after his procedure 😔 I really hope he pays for all he did 😢

she survived? is she older now?

sorry just got to that part of the video. :(

@@nataliaspamer9745 Out of 8 patients only one survived his medical miracle surgery

As always: these naive Swedes!

That in itself is perhaps not that strange. A lot of procedures that are almost routine today were once viewed with scepticism at the initial research phase. Like man made items that's keeps your heart going etc. And from the patients side it may make sense, there are a lot of people who desperately go to other parts of the world to get treatments that is not allowed in their own country. I'd guesstimate the amount of people complaining about not getting a treatment that is nott allowed in their country is still higher than reversed. Typically newsdon't want to dwell into details around familicides, and that for good reason, but there were suggestions that the familicide in Bjärred a few years ago was parents becoming desperate that treatments they wanted for their kids was not allowed.

The balls of this man knowing that he was a scammer and to get involved with her just speaks volumes 😌

Right?!! How did she even fall for a fraction of what he said and did, in the very beginning even? Crazy.

"Darling, I am a spy, did you really think I was a bigamist? I love you but I am the greatest spy of all, the world needs me." What's there to doubt? He said he loves me! 😂

Yup. My exact thoughts. Blew my mind.

This is important & powerful testimony! Glad you got out & within a reasonable timeframe!

I'm happy you got out of yours too ❤

THANK YOU. There is a narrative that states that "weak" women are the only ones who become prey for these types of monsters. Or any abuser for that matter. NOT TRUE. It unfortunately CAN happen to anyone, even Bonita, who is the epitome of strength. Well said, and congratulations for getting out. It is truly one of the hardest things to do.

@@KatrinaJoy225 Well to be fair she was at a fragile state in her life, her husband had just gone into hospice and then died. I would say she was weak minded and in a fragile state of mind when she got involved with this person. Glad she snapped out of it and gained her power back.

@@uneeky5785 It was her ex husband. She wasn't weak.

Any person honestly

Ikr?! Same!

He's a pathological narcissistic liar with zero conscience. He may even be a psychopath.. so he doesn't have the moral compass others do. This is just as bad as a psychopath who murders their family so they can take the car to prom. No regard for human life, and go to extreme lengths to get what makes them feel good.

He is a cold-blooded psychopath for sure! That's how he's able to do what he does without any remorse.

@@herpaderp-bp4pe Hahaha that's weird and interesting, but I'm not from America.

@@herpaderp-bp4pe haha small world, I'm originally from Minnesota. I moved to Nevada 10 years ago but love anyone/ anything Minnesota 🥰

@lubna s -Thank you for the work you do as a doctor

YESS PLEASE🥺🥺

This was clearly the victim's fault. They should've used common sense and detected those red flags.

Jesus that's a horrible thing to say. I came to post on the origibal comment though, so I'll just say I agree, more videos on fraud from kendall

This shit is crazy n I’m not even done with the video!!! Holyyyyyyy s***

I'm fascinated by these type of stories like Belle Gibson, Keli Lane, the "Forgetting Dad" Dad. Years ago when my Mum worked in a maternity hospital a cleaner successfully pretended to be a charge nurse for months.

This is unfortunately typical. Instead of investigating and doing what's ethical these institutions hide the truth in order to protect their reputation and NOT their patients. People need to do their due diligence and their own investigating before they agree to "experimental" surgery. Things are frequently NOT as they seem.

This was clearly the victim's fault. They should've used common sense and detected those red flags.

@@fsheld5058 get your victimblaming bullsh¡t outta here lmao. you are literally mocking and lecturing a dead child. be better.

He played her like he played that piano 😔

@@fsheld5058 You need blocked for trolling.

lol I love this! Like....sorry Paolo, I know you think your super important with your fake wedding and all but the Pope has more important things to do today like hang out with me, but nice try dude!! And what an amazing experience for and 11yr old!

@@krystaladair2586 thank you

@@mjcb7953 As it should!!

Do you feel like he helped you?

Thats the power of god

That was a red flag for me, like water bottle? Shouldn't it be silicone or something? wtf

Sameeee same!

Same. I have medical background n I was like they flew him in for the surgery😱😱😱 were rest of the doctors okay in their minds🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ In medicine, if anything its good to be true, its never true.

Much worse for the people he killed…

That's what I think too. That these people are extremely convincing and it feels like they are pure and genuine

How can i watch Fatal experiments?

There's a podcast on him called Dr.Death!🙃

@@nicoleshan6410 oooh you're right, season 3 is!! Will have to check it out

This was clearly the victim's fault. They should've used common sense and detected those red flags.

Yesss

@@nicoleshan6410 thats christopher Duntsch your talking about, another «doctor» who killed patients and destroyed their lifes

Omg thankkk you! I would love to go!!!

@@KendallRae You’ll get there 😉

Manifest one for me too because I would love to go back!

@@brownsuga10282 I’ll try & get everyone there!! 💕lol We’ll all just jump on a tour bus 🚎 and have a blast 🥳👍🏼🇮🇹

Yup!!!

I hadn’t thought of that...

Yeah, not all sparks means attraction, sometimes it means run for your life especially when it's unsettling.

Correct.. the butterflies and sparks is her red alert stay away bells ringing. Movies and romance stories tell us that's it normal.

If it's your heart, be weary, if it's your stomach, BE WEARY lol

You are so kind.

Same to you Mya!!

You are a poverty-phobic maniac. A begot!

Thank You

I feel sorry for her daughter the most, Benita is an adult woman, but she could at least wonder where Paolo has so much money for expensive gifts and trips,

There are so so many people that do this and it baffles me 😂😭 Im sure Kendall covered one actually. The guy murdered her to avoid having to tell the truth that he couldn’t marry her because he was already married 😒

It's called narcissism, he believes he is the most important person on earth