I never felt that sleeping all night will be a bless until I had a baby who wake me up every 2hours

My son was sleeping 10-11 hours a night at about 4.5 months. It's such a blessing after going so long without having nights free. Now I can actually clean up the house, make dinner, sit on my bed. It's so convenient.

I haven't slept in almost 18 months and I'm pregnant. Pray for me.

Came across this KZfaq video after researching what the hell to do because my baby was waking up every hour!! I was so exhausted. I followed every step in this video and it completely changed my life. My 5month old is sleeping through the night after day 2. I definitely said to myself “every baby is different”. But i decided to give it a try and it worked. If you’re a new mom, don’t be discouraged.

If it’s comfort for y‘all, when they turn 13-20, they will sleep like logs all the time. In the morning, afternoon, evening, be on tour through the night, go ahead sleeping, sleep in on Saturday and Sundays, not getting up before lunchtime. It will get better 🫣

My son was sleeping perfectly at 4 months! Then the 4 month sleep regression started and I started breastfeeding him to sleep... And it got worse! When I saw this video, I followed the advise and after 3 nights he slept through the night again!!! Thank you so much, it changed our lives and we enjoyed the wake times even more :)

Yeah... Letting a baby cry it out doesn't sit well with me. Sometimes my son can sleep through, other times he doesn't, when he does wake up and cry or moan he's communicating... Either too hot, or getting cold, may have peed through his diaper, a blocked nose, thirsty or just in need of some love and affection. He's 14months old now... I've never gotten the sense that he's testing us or being spoilt... It doesn't matter how tired my husband and I get sometimes, the needs of our little one needs to be met. We will have better sleep again somday if we are privileged to live.

Awake two times a night?? My baby is awake every hour!

To all those saying proudly, no rocking, I want to say this: There is nothing wrong with rocking and cuddling to put a baby to sleep. Babies are not going to be babies forever. Don't let them cry themselves to sleep. They need to be held, cuddles, rocked and sung to! Also, don't try to make young babies sleep through the night. They need to eat in between.

OMG ! I NEED TO TRY THIS. I HAVEN'T SLEPT FOR 9 MONTHS 😥

11 hours a night?!?!? To me that’s the equivalent of winning the lottery! My baby wakes up several times a night and never sleeps through the night :(

I don’t have the heart to let my baby boy cry like that. New mothers are often told that once they’ve fed, burped and changed their baby, they should leave their baby alone to self soothe and cry because all their needs have been met. One day I hope all new mothers will smile confidently and say , “ I gave birth to a baby and not just a digestive system. My baby has a brain that needs to learn to trust and a heart that needs love. I will meet all my baby’s needs emotionally, mental and physical and I will respond to every cry because crying is communication not manipulation.”

My husband sleep trained our 3 month old baby. For nights I wasn’t getting any sleep. This eventually led me to be depressed and sleep deprived. I couldn’t get things done or be a mommy during the day like I wanted to, because I was so sleepy! She would wake up every 15-30mins from 12am -8am. However, after he sleep trained her , I was getting so much sleep. Of course, she woke up once during the night for a breastfeeding snack. Moreover, it didn’t create any weird connection between me and my baby. She’s 4 1/2 years old now, and we’re inseparable ❤️

Why did I start crying in the end? lol I loved this. im currently working on improving nights with my 1 year old. It's not joke. Bless your family.

I started writing stories for my train obsessed toddler who never wanted to go to bed. Just started recording audios weekly and releasing them on youtube. The premise is that the bed turns into a magic train once they close their eyes and each time they get to travel to a different part of the world. @

My baby started sleeping 11-12 hours straight when she turned 3 months. I made sure that i started a routine when she was 1 month old. I did the same thing at the same time every night and it worked like a magic! I do: Bath time at 7 Made sure she’s well fed Turn on white noise Swaddle and dance her around for a bit until she fell asleep Then put her down in her bassinet I also make sure to give her a nap every 1 hour for an hour and that she’s well fed throughout the day. When she got a little older I started giving her naps every 2 hours for an hour to 1 1/2 hours. When she turned 6 months we moved her in her own room with the exact same routine except we stopped swaddling her at 4 months. Bath time Turn on white noise Milk time until full Dance her around Then put her down in her crib Let her fall asleep on her own Only time she wakes up is when she’s not feeling well but that’s once in a blue moon. She’s now 10 months and still sleeps 11-12 hours a night.

i'm not even a mom lol what am I doing here

My baby sleeps 10-12 hours since 4 months old. We started sleep training since 3 weeks old. Warm lavender bath, Lights out, soothing sounds, bottle. Same routine every night. No rocking chair, no props.

Great video! Only thing that worked for my son was music. Only thing that put & kept him out.

The only way I could ever let the baby "cry it out", is in the case the mom feels like she has had enough. When I say had enough, I'm meaning that she puts the baby in the crib and shuts the door to walk away from her baby so she doesn't lose it or hurt the baby, or maybe she needs a break. That's the only way I could ever do that. I'm a mother of two (a six, and now 4.5 week year old), I've had to walk away before, but I've never let my babies cry themselves to sleep and never will.

I'm so distracted by how high that crib mattress is for how tall he is.

My 10 month old sleeps 5 hours straight, gets up for 2 hours then sleeps 4 more hours. I've got to get him out of my bed so I can sleep better. To the crib he goes. Starting tonight!

Babies wake up because they are either hungry, wet, sick or uncomfortable temperature wise. Dont ignore your child unless all these are sorted. Sometimes they just want to be held close. They are babies after all.

“We’re about to fall asleep mid interview” 🤣🤣

she said nothing i haven't heard before .. wow some expert

My son just turned 5 months. And when she said "I just slept through the night" not gonna lie.....i shed a tear.

Boarder, low noise light stimulation. No mobiles lights. Confotable, warm.

Both my brother and I slept through the night straight away from birth. My mother was even had the nurse correct her for not feeding my brother during the night for the first 5 months because she was told to feed on demand but because he never woke up he didn’t demand.

TYSM

My Baby sleeps in the room with us. He wakes up every 2-3 hours usually. I cannot allow my baby to cry non stop.

My baby has the same routine.. asleep by 7pm and wakes up at 5-6am... thankful 🙏🏼

am i the only one that’s like, get to the point i’m freaking tired.

My only question is when putting the baby to sleep would you still use the night time bottle? Or does that stop as well ?

That baby’s crib should have been lowered.

My baby sleeps 8-9 hours. I'm ok with that as long as she naps well during the day, but there are some days where the naps are too short. Just a lottery for me

Nice way of saying, "let em tough it out."

Step 1 (or 2) that Dana Obleman suggests says to make sure that a baby is well fed (not hungry) during a day. What If the baby is not a good eater? My son stopped being interested in food. When he wakes at night wanting me to breastfeed him, I can tell he's hungry because his stomach growls. Any advice?

My baby has been sleeping through the night since 3 months.. now shes 7 months and adjusting to sleep training with ease, after 10 mins she was down i guess I'm just lucky!

Why is the mattress so high?!

This breaks my heart

Wow. This kinda look like a magic. Might wanna try this tho. I know its hard, frustrating taking care of babies. I have a 15 yr old kid and suddenly got pregnant again. I couldnt even remember his milestones. Its like im back to zero again on taking care of a baby. Its really really frustrating. But, these babies, they grow up so fast. All i can say is enjoy each moment you are with them coz SOMEDAY, its just gonna be YOU and YOUR partner. Your children will have their own lives. Just enjoy taking care of them, just have fun. P.s. My baby is now almost 3 months old and she takes a nap 4-5times a day. Wakes up 2-3 times at night. Frustrating but it gets easier. Remember, it shall pass. Just enjoy them while u can. ❤

I will say that my first child I didn’t sleep train because it was so hard and sad and she is 3 and STILL wakes up at least once through the night and I regretted not sleep training because I honestly felt like a zombie most of the time and felt like I couldn’t be the best mom because of my moodiness from not sleeping. So I sleep trained my second one and she sleeps like a dream, she sleeps better than my 3 year old lol and it only took like 3 days! No regrets here!

My baby is 11 months still waking up at and if he feels like he isn’t being send it to you as quickly as possible he screams at the top of his Longs I have tried a lot of things and it’s really hard being a single mother and having a deal with this at nightl there are times where I literally have to just walk away and let him cry for two or three minutes.

is this routine to be done only on night time or also on the day time?

My 9 month old baby sleeps at 9pm and wakes up 2 or 3am and gave him a bottle of milk. Then he will go back to sleep. Maybe that baby is hungry and wants to drink milk

Sleep training. It has been very easy so far. She’s 15 months.

My baby sleep a majority of the time when he was a newborn to about 3 or 4 months then he started waking up every couple of hours or less. I had a whole routine with sleep sounds, purple light, bottle but yet he still gets up to eat 😭 frequently..I’m suffering almost going crazy from a lack of sleep. I can’t let my baby cry he will wake everybody up. He sleeps with me he doesn’t have his own room so that’s another thing.

Why is it that The couple who got this help happen to be well off news journalist in the New York area? Couldn’t have them going to a regular families home? Only the entitled rich get help while the regular work and class stuff gets to watch a news article about it. What a joke.Look at that house, do you honestly feel bad for them?

Currently watching at 4 AM while dad takes a turn with our 15 month old, who's been up for an hour now. Every night he's up from like 2-2:30 til 6 or 6:30 and I'm so done. Wasn't always this bad but boy this sucks 💀 gonna try this

I have twins. Tried all the sleep training strategies. 20 months old and they still never sleep. They wake each other up too 😂

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its nice video 👍

2-3 times a night? GTFOH! Talk to me when your baby wakes up every 30 minutes! Complaining about waking up 2-3 times is laughable. And this sleep method seems to be extremely similar to the Ferber method.

Sounds easy but when it comes to action it is freaking hard! Hearing your baby cry for hours breaks my heart

My 5 month only sleeps around 30-40 min interval naps during the day and wakes almost every hour at night. HELP

My grandson is a year old and still breast feeds. We are trying to ween him off . He screams at the top of his lungs. My baby was never a crier. I was lucky he slept through the night without crying and fussing. Myself have never experienced this type of thing. What tips for a 1 year old little boy.

I heard that there was something called sleep training. It is supposed to help your baby to get on the right schedule when it comes to sleeping. I want to know if anyone has heard about this.

How do I do this if my baby sleeps in our room?🤷‍♀️

Has anyone experienced regression when the bed was changed to toddler bed? My daughter is 3 almost 4 yrs old and has become completely co-sleep dependent on us. It seems like all that sleep training went out the window the moment she started turning door knobs lol. Please share your experience.

What if your baby will only nap for 30 min a few times a day? My guy is almost 4mo and he doesn't like to nap... and every morning around 4 he gets into a weird noisy uncomfortable sleep...

Just wandering if those parents that apply sleep training does atleast have thinking/wondering if that might impact childs mental health in a long term...

What about breastfeeding mommy?

So sleeping training is basically let your baby crying and screaming for hours until he is so tired of crying that he sleeps. Then next day he gives up amd now he knows you will not be there when he cries. I dont know, I have a little baby and he is struggling with the sleep, I want to do everything that it is possible to help him and also the mother. But to just let the baby crying does not seems right to me. And for those who say it does not affected the relation with the kid, that is not a good parameter. Even parents that abuse the kids are still loved sometimes by the kids, the child is dependent and cannot fully express himself. I don't want to judge anyone, only who is suffering and struggling knows the pain and I wish best of luck to everyone.

I’ve never sleep trained any of my kids and they all slept a full night on their own by 18 months. SAHM, bed, and room sharing allowed me to get my sleep needed.

I'm trying this

I am trying that now hopefully it works

I am too scared to try this!

How old was her son when she did thins right now I’m trying to break that bottle sleep association but lessening the amount eat night till he get no more but naps are so hard for him to stay asleep when I try to put him down

I badly need this now 🥺🥺🥺🥺

I don’t get it. Every time I put my baby to sleep he won’t fall into a deep enough sleep in the first place to even get to go to sleep for a little while. Nothing is working. If I don’t nurse him or hold him he won’t sleep in his bassinet. He naps fine during the day. But I don’t know if I need to shorten his naps or not or don’t nap at all. When I try to put him in the bassinet, the second his butt hits the bassinet he wakes up and cries and won’t stop until I pick him up and he won’t stop crying even if I stand over him rubbing his chest, he just won’t stop. My only option is to not sleep and nurse him. I tried to nurse and then read a book but he wasn’t awake enough to really care about it. And then I put him in the bassinet and the same thing happens- he won’t stop crying until I nurse or Rick him to sleep. Help I don’t get it. He’s almost 6 months old. And I keep waking up at 3, 4, 5, pm to start my day!!! That’s ridiculous. I hate waking up when it’s about to get dark!!!

Omg i can’t wait to try this!

new assignment for parent to be professional

That crib is still on its highest setting and that’s SO dangerous!

I am just happy my baby doesn't screech. He screams, but he doesn't screech.

This is basically the Ferber method lol

Not once mentioned how old her baby is... 🤔

Funny how there seems to be methods for getting your kid to sleep. We were lucky, our son has always been a good sleeper. We let him sleep with us in bed and later in his own bed. He never had to cry himself to sleep and he almost always sleeps through the night

can i use this advice with a 1 year old

Okay so my 6 month old wakes up every 2-3 hours during the night. How does this work if he's waking up 5 times a night??:(

How to this for breast feeders

My daughter is about a year and she sleeps 10-12 hours but she doesn’t sleep until 12am or sometimes 2am. How can I fix this?

Babies don't learn to stop crying and to sleep by themselves, they learn to stop waiting for the parent, they still need it they just know that they are not coming anymore. it's sad

My baby is 5 months and she sleeps from 8 pm -6 am sometimes 7 am .. shower the baby before bed clean pjs and full feed and stay around them all my 3 babies are the same

Amazing that little Miles slept 11 hours on night 3! Great work! Although it may have been a tough couple of days, you're giving your little guy the gift of sleep. Amazing! xx

I tried this and it worked. I have a 13 months old this worked in 2 days we only cried the first night.

How old is he?

So when the night 2 crying got so bad and you going in made him angrier, did you end up not going in?

This is just sleep training. People do it or not. I do not believe in sleep training. I joined a group called "Beyond Sleep Training" with other mothers who do not let babies "cry it out."

What about a 16 month old who needs back rubs, a bottle, her binkie, every 12 times to 36 times a night. I’m also 9 months pregnant.

Does anyone know if you start with the 10 minutes from the beginning or if they wake up? Can you hold them until they get drowsy and then put down? My baby is 8 months old.

Claiming to be the “sleep boss” but adopting the Ferber method essentially of letting them cry it out is not biologically necessary or helpful

So what do you do if your breast feeding?

Every baby is different, obviously don’t expect a newborn to sleep through the night. My daughter didn’t sleep through the night until she was like 7 months. I didn’t sleep train her, she did that all by herself. If you have an older baby and they wake up multiple times a night they probably feel alone in their crib they get scared. My daughter hates her crib but she’s about to be 1 so I’m getting her used to it by putting it next to my bed.

I was breastfeeding for my little one. she sleep alone when she was born but couldn't sleep through night. For the first three months she woke up every three or four hours. When she was five months old, she woke up one or two times for milk but it was not every night to sleep through the night. After feeding the milk then she could straight to bed. It was really tired. She doesn't like bottle milk. I heard bottle milk can sleep longer than breastfeeding but she didn't like power milk. I try the power milk when she was eight or night months old I should have watched this in that time then I can try. My girl is 21months old now. Tonight it is the first time I tried to train her to sleep alone complete without milk and co-sleeping. I tried to get her straight to bed when she started eight months old few times. She crying until 1:00am still not go to sleep. I couldn't leave her like that. So I put her to her own bed after she felt in sleep with me. I thought I should wait for her a bit older then do it again. So tonight I tried. She was crying in the beginning. It was quick she felt in sleep after half an hour and went inside the covering. I hope she could sleep without crying and through the night. In the day her nap is between 12pm-14pm, or 15pm-17pm. She couldn't sleep the same time that is the problem. Hope I change the routine can help a lot.

Hopefully this works

My 1st kid was amazing at sleeping thru the night but my 2nd omg we r struggling my husband sleeps on the floor cuz she only falls asleep while feeding her

To any parent doing this don't feel bad if you feel like you are neglecting your child you are teaching them and for those people that say this is neglect it is not just because the baby screaming doesn't mean he is in pain they scream like that because that all they know to do when they are hungry crappy or have a mild discomfort yes it hurts hearing your little one to cry or scream and our first instinct is to run to them and sooth them but if you want them to have better sleep and even eating habits to have to basically force them to be on a schedule and baby's are going to automatically get on a schedule but if you are consistent with a schedule for them like a feeding schedule and sleep schedule they do learn when they will be feed And when it their nap time but it hard for alot of parents because babies will want their milk when they want it and it ok to give it to them when ever they want it and it ok to let them sleep when they want to but than you can expect to be up all night with them to and if that randomness is to much for a parent than do a schedule but stick to it even if it hurts hearing them cry for you

Now what do you do if he has eczema and scratches his face at night

My son works up every two hour at night and so I never sleep

This only works for older kids. My baby is 4 weeks and needs to eat every 3 hours. I just don’t know how to make him fall asleep, it takes hours and by that point it’s time to eat again. I’m dying