Whenever I feel attraction to someone, I avoid them 💀

“We do not get crushes, we get obsessions” *throws phone out window*

"We don't get crushes, we get obsetions" That explains SO much

“in her friends eyes, you are now taken” i wish this happened at my school

*POV:* “you’re a girl and still watched the whole video out of curiosity”

“We do not get crushes, we get obsessions” Fair point

"We don't get crushes, we get OBSESSIONS." i thought i was the only one 😭😭💀

"we get obsessions" yepppp. im embarrassed to mention how much I waste my time when I like someone 😭😭

"They will stalk the living crap out of you" Me: that's it, I'm gay

“Girls don’t get crushes, we get obsessions” Me when I was in 6th Grade: *knowing my crushes whole schedule*

Kagami: You have his schedule memorized? Marinette: Only every day for the next three years…

Spencer: we don’t get crushes, we get obsessions Me: * still unable to tell if I like them platonically or romantically*😭

The first on is SO true. I'm into this one guy and I've memorized half his schedule. I've changed the route to get to each of my classes to watched him get to his next class. And I rush my way outta the school so I can walk out the doors at the same time as him and wait near him to cross the street. And I've never ever spoken to him.

“We do not get crushes, we get obsessions” *Me Dying on the floor because it so true*

I had a girl i’ve never spoken to stalk me around school for the entire year. She never said a word to me but my entire friend group knew she was following me. Weird as hell. Ladies, if you’ve got feelings for a guy, please tell us. I promise you its so much easier than the mental gymnastics that you do

Yeah… it’s never just a crush. It’s definitely an obsession. The last guy I was into I wrote a freaking letter for him… to show him when we’re married 💀

"we do not get crushes we get obsessions" THIS IS SO ACCURATE OMG edit: OMG 1K LIKES? IVE NEVER GOTTEN MORE THAN ONE OR TWO TYSM

The first one is so true I have a whole note section for this boy with his address and his moms address on it😂😂

When u talked about how we stalk them and their friends and relatives FACTSSSSSS 😭

“we do not get crushes, we get obsessions" **Paused the video , comment and I'm leaving**

when she said we don’t get crushes we get obsessions i immediately went “omg that is the truest thing I’ve ever heard”

Too accurate, and scary...thanks for taking a break from the dudes lol

The first one is so true but then you get scared to actually talk to them 🥲

Once a girl remembered my surname and that's the closest Ive been to being stalked by a girl 💀

"You can call a girl pretty too many times" In my experience, one time is already too many

"girls don't get crushes, they get obsession" me in 7th grade: found out my crush's house, became his mother's favourite girl, found out all the girls he's ever liked 💀💀

Ok but the one where if you say anything your friends can’t go for him thing is SO true. Like if one of my friends say their into a guy whenever I see the guy I think of him as my friends crush

"unless her friend is fake" Me and my friend literally having a crush on the same guy and joking about sharing him😅

I used to love being stalked. It used to boost my ego. Now it just causes me anxiety or makes me uncomfortable. Like I wanna pull a Barney Stinson and be like "Hey! Haaaave you met Ted?"

When you said “I know what you wore for Halloween in year 4” I know what one of my biggest obsessions in year 1 wore for Halloween

"We do not get crushes we get obsessions" that is the most accurate thing i have every heard

"We do not get crushes, we get obsessions." And now I know why it hurts so much when I get rejected:)

My friend is definitely a snake because my crush asked her out and she said yes and she KNEW I liked him.

As a girl Who’s previous crushes have been Girls, I really want to relate to everyone here but I can’t 😭

I literally made eye contact with a hot boy and now I’m looking for his Instagram 😭

That awkward moment when you’re a girl with no crush, and doesn’t celebrate Halloween, and having no one to reply to my stories haha :’)

I feel called out... I literally stalk my crush from my window 😭 We live right next to each other

This is why women live longer than men . They’re over here doing this and men would be drunk or Xiong some dumb shit or of course both

“We do not get crushes, we get obsessions” *Looks at my huge pile of manga* Accurate 👍

"Exposing the girls" meant something completely different in my day.

As a guy who is friends with a lot of girls... this is so unbearably true

Ok but why dose Spencer have the MOST GORGEOUS eyes!!!

When i start to feel something, my automatic reaction is to avoid them and act like they're invisible.

I can’t be the only one who doesn’t stalk the people I like? I value their private and personal life. I would HATE it if someone done that to me??

I guess a girl has never given a s#%& about me.

You didn’t have to expose my Google search like that, jeez 💀

“Even if she’s 2% into you, she will stalk the LIVING HELL outta you.” Me: “umm…I try too avoid them as much as possible actually…💀”

The thing about how a person you like is off-limits is so true. The only exception is close friends who happen to like the same person. Then you talk about how cute they are together. Toxic friends will turn it into a competition.

Not all of us get obsessions like that💀

"It's not a crush it's obsession " I can't even disagree i am literally obsessed over this guy and fockin stalking his Instagram with a fake id 😭😭😭😭

I've literally never stalked anyone like that 😭💀

"We do not get crushes, we get obsessions" Oh i see i ve been wrong the whole time

Really thought girls used to acuse men of getting obbessions 😂

i thought she was gunna expose our bathroom visits got a little heart attack for a moment there 😭😭

“ We don’t get crushes, we get obsessions” me: Shiatt ya got me. 😂

''reply to their stories'' i got friendzoned bc of that

The thing about the crushes is true. If a girl is even a bit into you you can basically get away with just about anything save for sex if she doesn’t usually just give it up at any time

2 days after I told my bestie I liked this one guy, she became his girlfriend

My “friend” just started dating the guy I’ve liked for 11 months 💀

Her: stalks the living crap out of you Me: um gurl are ok?

In her friends eyes you are now taken SO TRUEEEEEE

I’m definitely not obsessed!! Just because I have multiple Spotify playlists, wrote short stories with characters inspired by him, cry over him doesn’t mean I’m obsessed 😅 I KNOW I HAVE ONLY EVER ASKED HIM IF HIS BROWNIE WAS GOOD BUT WE ARE LITERALLY SOULMATES

Spencer: We do not get crushes. We get obsessions. Me who gets crushes: Baby I'm not even here I'm a hallucination

Well well well. The tables have turned.

I swear Spencer‘s eyes are the size of the moon. They’re so pretty and cute And her eyelashes make her eyes even more prettier.

“we don't get crushes, we get *OBSESSIONS*” *throws phone out window*

Crazy how when it's guys, the "taken" policy was described as "marking their territory" but with girls it's just accepted and not the exact same thing. She's transparent as hell.

Bruh whenever I like someone I overthink every single frickin thing I say when I walk to him ;_;

Recently, my best friend started talking to my crush at her b-day party and taking pics with him and now they’re dating and she swears that I’ve never said I liked him but we’ve called about us hundreds of times.

Phew I thought she was gonna say the things we say in the bathrooms 😂

Am I the only one that doesn’t stalk their crush? Whenever I get a crush on someone, I just talk to them? Stalking is creepy af.

Deadass never stalked the dude I was into

This is so true because I am a girl and I do those things all the time

I love your personality, it is addictive. I love your voice and the way you make everything interesting. You engage with the listeners. It is easy to love you. You are beautiful.

“We do not get crushes, we get obsessions” Time to go bye bye *yeets phone out window*

"They will stalk the crap out of u" Me: ok I'm ghost

“Unless her friend is a snake” ❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂

once I stalked a guy so hard I found his mom that had been missing for 5 years

So relatable. I’m kinda a stalker when it comes to “obsessions” 😂

Tbh the first one explained Marinette Dupain-Cheng’s behavior around Adrian fairly well

Sometimes the obsession doesn't end once you're married.

You betrayed all of us spencer❤😂

Bro she really did expose me with the obsessions like I try from weeks up to years trying to get in their inner circle and I am also stalking them a lot

Eveyone is focused on her talking but I’m just focusing on how perfect her mascara is-

As a professional single guy, I was worried about the stalking part, then I remembered nobody likes me.. so it’s not that bad being single forever 😅

This girl lives life in easy mode.

Her: Exposing the girls todayy✨ Me: Mom, u have a son now!✨✨✨🙂

“Her friends can’t go for you anymore, unless her friends a snake.” Haha yeah that happened to me last night my backstabbing “friend” took my crush even tho she knew I liked him and HE LIKED ME BACK Edit: omg you guys are literally all so encouraging tysm ♥️ just so you know I am feeling better, although I am disappointed and feeling betrayed, I’m ok now. Thank you all so much for supporting me even though I’m a complete stranger. Girls stick up for girls ♥️ Edit: ok so update, hes a player. He still flirts with me, but he said he likes this other girl. i was at a halloween party and while we were watching a movie he put his arm around me. he also spend a ton of time with the other girl. idk at this point. im trying to lose feelings, and its going pretty well.

I feel like having a crush is obsession though. Crushes are different from real love

When your crush has no socials😢

I had a crush on a boy and I knew who his first ever crush was. That’s how much I stalked him

"Girls don't get crushes, we get OBSESSIONS" Me: I wanna send him this

I overheard two girls in my grade figuring out where the guy they both like lives

My weakness is being to good at pretending like I'm not interested in chicks😭

So when guys say dips and his friend are not allowed to hit on the girl, it’s disgusting (according to one of your other videos) but if a girl says she likes a guy, all girls are not allowed to hit on him and it’s just great and honorable. Totally makes sense.

I’m glad I was able to grow up in a time when if you liked someone, it didn’t involve anything like face space, snap gram or insta chat. If you liked somebody, you had to actually get to know them and not their projection of who they wanted you to think they were on the internet.

Dang, the phrase "exposing the girls" has never been such a let down .

Guys, I need advice. So, I’m a girl and my best friend since kindergarten has had a crush on the same guy for years. Never made a move, and he doesn’t show any signs of returning the feelings. I know I can’t control my emotions, but I think I’m developing feelings for him. I feel awful. What do I do??

“We do not get crushes, we get obsessions.” The only thing I know about them is their name and friends.

It’s no one gonna talk about how freaking ✨pretty✨ her eyes are!!!!