How to be more attractive over text

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@calebwenz9024 2 жыл бұрын

Got it. I'll send her my Sonic and Tails hentai and my epic memes. Then, after all of that, I'll tell her about my extreme political views.

@divstfuidonthaveaname7583 2 жыл бұрын

i'm extremely curious about her reaction

@pythondrink 2 жыл бұрын

@kommisar. 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I like to get the conversation started by saying, "How do you feel about Trump?"

@havoclmco6068 2 жыл бұрын

you definitely got her fam

@thekiller-yb7dg 2 жыл бұрын

@@kommisar. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@carlosmagallanes2594 2 жыл бұрын

be confident and be yourself, don't try to act like somebody that you are not just because of videos like this. If your a simple guy and she's looking for someone more exciting then so be it, she missed out on a great guy and trust me you are worth it! Just be confident on who you are and who you will become in the future.

@timegoesby421 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks bruhh👍🤝

@balaram9162 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. This is right. She sucks. She tells these things cause she's needy.

@ImNoneOfUrBusiness420 Жыл бұрын

Ikrr!! Like I mean if they ever start liking you, they at least need to know who u actually are. I mean how are they supposed to like a person who literally changed their personality cuz of youtube videos 🤷🏻‍♀️

@SemoreButtt 8 ай бұрын

I’m going to ask her out

@laryok9408 2 жыл бұрын

"Hi" Instead say "Greetings my fellow human, what will thou be doing on the fine evening"

@Cris_tiano865 Жыл бұрын

Im texting this to my crush rn. Edit:I DID IT

@laryok9408 Жыл бұрын

@@Cris_tiano865 oh dear. Did it work?

@Cris_tiano865 Жыл бұрын

@@laryok9408 YEAH IT DID HE ASKED TO VIDEO CALL

@WickedEditz. 18 күн бұрын

@@Cris_tiano865 he ☠️

@Cris_tiano865 18 күн бұрын

@@WickedEditz. ik this sounds weird but i ain't dude im a girl😭

@elianotate4960 3 жыл бұрын

This girl is a legend rly like those shorts and the advice

@koba2348 2 жыл бұрын

Trash

@HorseyPorsey 2 жыл бұрын

Bro she's 18. Don't take advice from 18 year olds👍

@nikkisumesh 2 жыл бұрын

@@HorseyPorsey most of the viewers are even younger-

@uber1ns4n1ty8 2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkisumesh That makes things even worse...because thay might actually believe what shes saying.

@zangrygrapes4571 2 жыл бұрын

@@uber1ns4n1ty8 they already are

@DeguzmanFrancisco 2 жыл бұрын

What i think is when the person is really into you she will exert effort on messages.

@calebbrown6595 2 жыл бұрын

FYI this is only for attractive guys. So she forgot to mention that

@chrismeadows4216 2 жыл бұрын

Most would be branded as incels for doing exactly these things.

@jake5403 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe they’re attractive because they do this

@arjunarun3033 2 жыл бұрын

@@jake5403 phsycially attractive. If you aren't that then doing this will brand you as a creep

@NellielsHusband 2 жыл бұрын

@@arjunarun3033 literally smh

@XanderXel91 2 жыл бұрын

So take this as advice for after you've hit the gym hard for 6 months, overhauled your wardrobe, and learned an interesting hobby.

@Thatmusicnartgirl Ай бұрын

WAIT A DAMM MINNM✨✨✨✨ok this is how too

@bridgotaj6578 2 жыл бұрын

If I’ve got to be ‘hot’ over text to get someone to like me instead of acting like myself, I don’t want it.

@uber1ns4n1ty8 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, as a guy, id ask you to NOT do these things the way she said. First of all, keep saying just "hi" to girls, the ones who think youre "boring" because of a simple "hi" definitely arent for you, so you will filter out the filth, those are the girls that are the "complicated" type. The ones that respond normally and or show interest, well shoot your shot mate and good luck. The other things she mentioned, dont work at all if you arent generally attractive. Just so you know. If an attractive guy sends her a video or voice mail, it will be cute...if an unattractive guy does the same, she will see it as creepy. Point is, dont deal with these 304s. You will have better luck and chance doing it in person than over text. If youre a guy thats self concious, just work on how you carry yourself a little bit, work on your body a little bit and trust me, you will have no problems.

@nikkisumesh 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah yeah. I just want a guy with a d and a pulse

@transparentcd 2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkisumesh That can be arranged

@nikkisumesh 2 жыл бұрын

@@transparentcd hi bae

@embracemasculinity7536 2 жыл бұрын

True mate

@uber1ns4n1ty8 2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkisumesh Yeah yeah. We both know that aint true.

@Undead_Gothic018 7 ай бұрын

.. it was on my fyp… AND YES I DO NEED IT SO THANK YOU FOR THE BLESSING 🙏🙏

@Marialoveeeee Жыл бұрын

Girl, you don’t know how much that helped me my crush just texted me and I was so freaking awkward

@syrae7511 2 жыл бұрын

I was scared to ask my crush out but the second I did I just closed the Messages app and I waited for the response and to my surprise she said yes and I was absolutely in shock.

@savannah7906 3 жыл бұрын

loving the shorts!

@vaibhavmourya6890 2 жыл бұрын

God I struggle in making out what part of the video is sarcasm and what isnt

@picklethedinosaur Жыл бұрын

is no one gonna talk about how good her “wait a damn min” at the start was?! girl you should be a professional singer!

@ishitajain5315 2 жыл бұрын

So happy to see that this was not another "play hard to get, reply after 6 hours" type of video

@graceanne. 2 жыл бұрын

This girl always giving me the best advice 😩 like idk what to do

@Classicsdaily 2 жыл бұрын

For me, recently started talking with my crush, needed it.

@kingjet5123 2 жыл бұрын

So basically the man has to do everything, be talented funny confident and the woman does nothing. Maybe it's you who needs to give the man a reason to be interested

@BamM88 2 жыл бұрын

Such a toxic game. It's easier to just ignore them at that point.

@raritica8409 2 жыл бұрын

Lol don't even say hi, just start slangin washed up pickup lines used 1000s of times.

@Ella-dv8ef 2 жыл бұрын

She didn't mention gender. Stop complaining

@kingjet5123 2 жыл бұрын

@@bobsaget338 😂😂😂 exactly

@Bernard_Horner 2 жыл бұрын

Holy words!

@manvichauhan4683 2 ай бұрын

Trust me I used to send such boring snaps like what would one do of em? But then i showed more of my life maybe when I am travelling and my cute doggo, and stuff and he legit sent me a snap, and that was his way of telling me that he wants to create a streak with me , after sometime I just stopped for sec cuz I thought why am I only keeping the streak alive , and trust me the other day he sent me the snap to keep the streak alive and going on.

@arizonatimpson2966 11 ай бұрын

This is on my FYP because I Freaking love you!

@vivian226 2 жыл бұрын

Is anyone else going to talk about how good her singing voice is?!??!

@cailindowd2963 Жыл бұрын

me watching this over for the wait a damn min bc i luv her voice

@Itskentrell 12 күн бұрын

ME SITTING HERE LIKE “I don’t have snap” #strictparents😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@VinexAesthetics 2 жыл бұрын

“If you want to catch fish, you don’t ask the fish. You ask the fisherman”

@slicklizardchamp Жыл бұрын

Facts…don’t ever take a woman’s advice on how to text women.

@Linds008 Жыл бұрын

POV: your crush doesnt have a phone yet. Welcome to my world!

@Belovedfire 7 ай бұрын

“Snap like these” Me: “get you in the friendzone” 🗿

@Iamthecookiemonster123 3 ай бұрын

I needed this…

@gvi341984 2 жыл бұрын

She will never make it as a guy

@sophiagrove9583 3 жыл бұрын

Can you make a short how you made a start and acting and what you used

@JamesRussle365 2 жыл бұрын

Here’s a better one. Drop all forms of social media and texts and actually call the person. Old school never fails.

@dymize2779 Жыл бұрын

Any conversation tips?

@goldrichig2885 Жыл бұрын

I suck at calls, I have nothing to talk about usually

@softaylorsversion Жыл бұрын

“✨YAH, they SUCK✨” is that just me who found that iconic. Also i know this is over a year ago, but I love Spencer!💗

@callmemistahcrypt2220 6 ай бұрын

Alright, this is actually good advice, just gonna add something on top of it. If you guys are acting kinky together, get possessive, if you wanna see what I mean by possessive, read any romance novel that includes a woman thinking a guy is hot, for example something like Twisted Games or Fifty Shades Of Grey (don’t actually be THAT abusive but yk what I mean) or Hunting Adeline. (This is extra effective if your girl reads romance novels, you’ll be a living dream, trust me). STILL BE NICE, NEVER SAID DONT BE NICE!!

@itsteezr3874 3 жыл бұрын

Your advice is the best , I hope you make it 1 mil some day , remember us people when ur a big youtuber 👍🙂

@koba2348 2 жыл бұрын

This advice is trash

@HorseyPorsey 2 жыл бұрын

Dude shes 18. Stop taking advice from 18 year olds😂

@edenbos6976 2 жыл бұрын

@@HorseyPorsey she would know more about this stuff than you?

@HorseyPorsey 2 жыл бұрын

@@edenbos6976 maybe but my point being that you shouldn't listen to an 18 year old about things like this. She's not a professional and Frankly 18 year olds don't know anything😂 if you want dating advice or whatever then go check out appolonia ponti. Shes like 35 and is a relationship psychologist that gets payed to give advice like this as her job and she gives much better advice on every facet of dating and relationships👍 sorry for the rant!

@matthewbrown5228 2 жыл бұрын

"How to be more attractive over text" "Send a video or voicemail" Umm...those aren't text.

@rishuyadav9667 Жыл бұрын

It's far better chasing excellency and greatness rather than girls

@micahrichmond6469 2 жыл бұрын

Just wanna clarify that this is good advice for boys as well as girls. Can't count the amount of "don't be boring" bio's that I matched with and got a hi from 😂

@xqyzstar Жыл бұрын

bro when he said bye for the first time i died idk why (btw it was the first guy i actually ever likes and texted)

@Justice1711 2 жыл бұрын

Don't say hi, you're boring - will be ignored and girls deserve better than that. You could also say hi back and not ignore that, guys deserve better than that.

@ivoryacademy8709 Жыл бұрын

I am severely envious of all those confident and extroverted people 🫠 I cannot say a word, Nevermind send a video of me dancing 😭😭😭

@maryblum1606 2 жыл бұрын

I freaking love her!!! Like fr 🥰

@frederickali4044 2 жыл бұрын

Her advice is amazing plus she's really pretty too what an individual

@shubhtripathi1944 2 жыл бұрын

never ask a fish how to get trapped..

@ayathassan786 Жыл бұрын

Can we just appreciate her singing like brooouuuu 🎉❤

@madisonjackson5007 2 жыл бұрын

Shes such a good singer

@nataliamusicals 2 жыл бұрын

Need another one like this

@kyr2778 2 жыл бұрын

Right when you said if you come in worth a hi.. my friend literally just sent me hii 😂

@Lauryn115 Жыл бұрын

Omg spencer u are gorg!! Pls pls pls reply it would make my year!! Liv u

@TheGrimKnight 2 жыл бұрын

I need more of this

@imperialdebauchery5988 Жыл бұрын

One of my girl friends just got a new puppy and posted it on her IG. I commented "Who doesn't love a little doggy?" 😁

@dm1972 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. Gee. Thanks Spence. Needed these tips.

@islajenkins4181 3 жыл бұрын

Omg I just searched up on Famous birthdays my birthdays the 29th of October and So is your omg I’m matching with my ONE of my fave KZfaqrs who gives great advice EEEEEK

@BJenks11 2 жыл бұрын

Bro “you get what you give” bro all I give is love and helpfulness and all I get it bullshit and hate like I get that it’s out there and your gonna get it but THATS ALL I GOT

@jaymonyirmanang2601 9 ай бұрын

Your so sweet n that’s the truth

@ninasharp462 2 жыл бұрын

I am being true girl. I love your attitude and you always make me smile every day. I always used to be insecure about my body now I’m not because of you!! Love u x

@SepiKeyk Жыл бұрын

Lesson learned; saying 'hi' is bad and if I do it again, everyone I know will leave me for being boring.

@sandramulota-wx2so 11 ай бұрын

True 🦋

@jop7955 2 жыл бұрын

I really don't get why so many people think they could get an actually good advice from her 😂 Guys, don't do any of these. I tried it, didn't work. A simple hi/hey as an opener works just as good and is a lot less effort. The girls that want you to do something "special" just after you first saw a picture of her are really not worth your time anyways and would never give you any effort. So just relax. Or as an old German saying goes: you are always best when you really don't care ;)

@edenbos6976 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think you understand her advice..,

@spiderboy3491 2 жыл бұрын

So saying "hi" just isn't enough anymore, girls and their expectations I swear

@madiiii_0327 2 жыл бұрын

Dude, we want men with personalities and that are able to start a convo. If you’re trying to win a girl like this: ‘Hi’ ‘Hi’ ‘Wyd’ *what the girl is doing* ‘Cool’ Then ur probably not getting the girl. Sorry. It works the other way too, if a girl is trying to win you like this probably run the other way

@DarthNightmareNL 2 жыл бұрын

@@madiiii_0327 itsa joke...

@ayanna3895 2 жыл бұрын

Are you serious saying that? Girls want a guy who actually engages in a conversation with them and doesn't just say the same thing every time they talk. Geez.

@emmastone8779 2 жыл бұрын

@@ayanna3895 they’re being sarcastic 😂

@ft.xsammy 2 жыл бұрын

Ok who wanna date a boring man who cannot even start a conversation

@actuallyreallyspider-man820 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I needed this video

@itz_shadowe1533 Жыл бұрын

This actually worked now I am dating my crush ty

@asapmoa7598 2 жыл бұрын

The Snaps!! 😂

@hampter4565 Жыл бұрын

12 hours timezones gonna laugh at this

@alissasims23 2 жыл бұрын

Wait a damn minute... The way it sound so good (Not meant to be rude 😊)

@ahmadrufaimuhammad2849 Жыл бұрын

Dude you're the best

@syamalif9674 2 жыл бұрын

Your smile and the way you look so attractive

@Roozy_Persepolis 2 жыл бұрын

But when a girl likes you, the best they will do is to say Hi, that's it. When it's their turn,they'll say just Hi,but when we have to start,we need to write a love novel.

@timtoot3314 2 жыл бұрын

Lol I love how this girl thinks she knows it all

@timtoot3314 2 жыл бұрын

@@bobsaget338 Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Although, that could just be how she acts infront of a camera. At the end of the day we don’t know her

@edenbos6976 2 жыл бұрын

@@bobsaget338 there’s a difference between being narcissistic and loving yourself

@edenbos6976 2 жыл бұрын

@@timtoot3314 her mom is a psychologist, she knows a lot😂

@timtoot3314 2 жыл бұрын

@@edenbos6976 Oh yeah I’m sure her Mom learns about attractive texting, and what every single guy on this earth likes

@ish7ta 2 жыл бұрын

Hon, don't be jealous just cause you're not confident.

@chris-sama913 2 жыл бұрын

I love how perfectly inaccurate this is😂

@ctbarnum1664 Жыл бұрын

I like your picture video thank you💕

@sarahbranham1949 2 жыл бұрын

Ik someone who needs this video

@yukhzia Жыл бұрын

I hit up my gf of 3 years randomly on a ig post and introduced myself just straight up and asked her if she wanted to see my cat and it worked 😁

@blake_frostedflake336 2 жыл бұрын

I liked the beginning

@shannieb8300 11 ай бұрын

Yeah I need this video lol I suck so bad at texting cuz I dunno how much is too much so I hold back 🤦‍♀️ Today basically got dumped over text

@bored_92 Жыл бұрын

I just got my crushes snap and now I’m watching this 😢

@i_am_thebatman 2 жыл бұрын

Put an F in the reply chat for All the guys who commented on an Instagram post thinking that would get them a DM

@Becksnnc 2 жыл бұрын

The only thing I agree with is the hi thing. When I used to be on dating apps so many guys would just start with a hi and it's just an instant no. Solely for lack of effort. It doesn't take much to think of something a bit more interesting to say to get my attention if you're actually interested you know? Most people that I've pursued something with have started a conversation about what I'd written in my bio. It's not that hard lol And yes I am kind of traditional and I will wait for the guy to message me first, UNLESS it's someone Im really into.

@llcooldrockindahouse4631 2 жыл бұрын

I def agree 100% however on chat sites like kik and meet me they don't have anything in the profile to icebreak but ur right when they have an actual profile u can say something witty or ask her about something that caught ur eye. But she's 100% right, a simple hi it is boring. Cuz there is lack of effort. Witty or joke is what gets then started. Girls love a guy with humor and confidence.

@edwardy.4603 2 жыл бұрын

I do what you guys say here, in fact I take the best input from people so I can properly navigate the social and dating life because I'm an introvert. I put a lot of effort, mention something from their profile that I share interest with and be authentic as much as possible and some humor when I try to talk to someone but no one seems to respond. It bothers me even more if they say they want deep connection with someone and yet practice such toxic trait like ghosting. For someone who is painfully average, I feel like it all comes down to looks. Like I understand you guys have standards but damn.. I think you know that the ball is always in your court. For the record, I'm just stating the harsh reality for us guys. I'm not an incel but I kinda sound like one rn. Hahaha. Definitely not a misogynist, In fact I love women, sometimes a little too much but not in a creepy way, more like a respectful appreciation 👍🏼 (cookies if you know where this is from)

@Becksnnc 2 жыл бұрын

@@edwardy.4603 especially online looks are a big factor. But it goes both ways as well. You're not gonna be interested in a girl that you think is unattractive. Of course looks plays a role. We all judge people by their looks even if we try to deny it. Looks aside what I just mentioned is gonna repel you even more. Even if you're a good looking guy, if the conversion is dull it's a no. For me anyway, I can't speak for every woman..

@edwardy.4603 2 жыл бұрын

@@Becksnnc I'm not disagreeing with you on that. but in my case, as much as it pains me to say it, even the not conventionally good looking ones who seem to have a nice personality and same interests as mine tends to be choosy as well. it sucks that it has to be this way. I admit I may not be the best talker out there but I'm trying to learn. no one even bother to get to know someone anymore

@donteo508 2 жыл бұрын

@New Soul.9 Was my first thought. Why should i wrack my brain trying to come up with something to say that isn't hello only to be ignored or just be given a "hey" back? Why not even go through the effort of trying to get to know someone first before writing them off completely?

@ivona9079 8 ай бұрын

Oh my god. I do need this video!! I just met a guy while on a chess tournament and we clicked. We can't meetup cuz our parents won't let us leave our cities to meet. Thank you so much girl. Can you tell me how to get him to start the convo?

@kingwesleywilliams2722 Жыл бұрын

I swear exactly when u said "snaps like these" someone sent a snap

@marcobaris2597 2 жыл бұрын

Do I need to use all of these just to mess with you??? 🙆

@christianrose227 2 ай бұрын

Actually wrong. If you post a selfie on social media and they like it or heart it I’ve always jsut messaged them “hiiii” and they always replied

@nabildk6954 Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for myself watching this 😆

@pdub5035 2 жыл бұрын

okokok i need some help the girls i like likes me back and we used to talk allll dayyy longggg then she suddenly just stopped talking to me and i was like ok i’ll just play it cool and not worry about it we’ll it’s starting to get to the point where it feels like she’s losing feelings and i don’t want her tooooo what do i do???

@ayeitstrey4162 2 жыл бұрын

Yea I don’t know about anyone else, but I don’t have the confidence or courage to do any of that…

@2RayMakavelli 2 жыл бұрын

Same, but not because I’m afraid of rejection. I’m afraid of them telling their friends “(blank) sent me a snap asking how are you” and then they gon be giggling at you for the rest of the semester.

@imhotterthanabowlofsoup3202 2 жыл бұрын

@@2RayMakavelli fr me too please help me out

@klaudia7745 2 жыл бұрын

Im not nad at the hi, I can have interesting conversations with a hi at the beginning but if someone is dry after that then IT is an issue

@Prathikraj_mysorean Жыл бұрын

You be telling : All the keys for impress a girl in a girl way . Me a boy : didn't understand anything . 🤣

@roserblx3750 2 жыл бұрын

Ok but why dont i see comments about her voice DUDE UR VOICE AT THE START OMG-

@Anabeexxoo7 2 жыл бұрын

Proud to say I looked this up 😃

@instrrxx 10 ай бұрын

I just send "bread" instead of "hi" and they fall in love with me

@Skelybones9087 2 жыл бұрын

I came in with that normal convo and it turned to her asking what I’m into in like an hour and a half and now we dating it’s been 2 years grime that point and she still remembers the way I was able to make her feel over txt

@inputfunny2206 2 жыл бұрын

Cringe

@parushibeniwal1907 2 жыл бұрын

That vid was on my fyp

@bellofigoitaliano5038 2 жыл бұрын

Basically all she taught was how to keep funnelling women more attention💀

@mse5842 2 жыл бұрын

Notes lads, send brave prequel memes

@lewisdepatserlord4737 11 ай бұрын

Don't just say bye, say goodbye.

@colonelrubix 2 жыл бұрын

The advice is don’t do it. Most likely you are talking to somebody you know. The best types of interactions that we remember happen in person. A boring conversation in person is still better than a great one over text.