Uche didn’t manipulate Milton into becoming his closest friend though. He was open with his toxicity, he didn’t play mind games with Milton the way Lydia started using the friendship to get into Aaliyah’s head. Apples and Oranges.

​​@@jakestroll6518Aaliyah and Lydia started there friendship way before Aaliyah was interested in Uche. Was she overbearing and messy, for sure. Lydia was also fully out of it once she was out the pods except for when he drug her back into his conversations and it was almost like Uche couldn't deal with the fact she really could not care anymore. Even she said in an interview she probably shouldn't have said as much as she did to Aaliyah, she was just so relieved to talk about it she didn't shut up. Inappropriate, yes. But certainly not as calculated as it's been painted.

@@TheDawnofVanlifeand this is the problem w/ Lydia and her supporters “probably shouldn’t have said”. The way she even explains stuff is manipulative. Like she won’t fully take responsibility for what you called it, inappropriate behavior. And questionable I might add. She said at the reunion she wasn’t reading the room?? Ma’am that’s not a failure to not read the room. Telling her you had sex w/ Aaliyah’s potential husband and then beginning to tell her about his car, his dog, his personality, his apt. Who does that??? There was an agenda. Uche said in an interview also that he told Lydia he was looking into casting for the show. Is it a coincidence all of a sudden that she’s in it also? Cmon people really just pick and choose what they want to hear as long as it lines up with the story in their head.

If you think Milton is smart for not letting his friends bad mouth his wife I’m concerned about your moral compass. That’s not smart. That’s just respectful. It’s not like he defended her either. He just drew his boundary on not engaging.

Is that an unpopular opinion? I was cheering for them, still is for their marriage to last :)

I don’t get why they get so much hate !!!?? They are awesome! I especially love Milton. He’s so mature & a cool nerd type! I love how he thinks & his manor of speaking. Lydia is a lucky girl because he absolutely adores her & it’s so obvious which is a beautiful thing !!! I think ppl just don’t get their personalities. They are misunderstood but totally my type of people 🤍

@@simonegarciatsu2854mature? Talking about her accent, making snide remarks about her age, saying she is too emotional when she’s hurt? It’s crazy how people didn’t see the “26” on him. Or “24” or however young he was.

How is this unpopular? I kept watching those wild and intense moments worrying that they were gonna explode and every damn time Milton found a way to thoughtfully, calmly just walk right through it I think we could all learn a lot from him tbh

Fr though I kept watching those wild and intense moments worrying that they were gonna explode and every damn time Milton found a way to thoughtfully, calmly just walk right through it I think we could all learn a lot from him tbh

That’s pretty sad, considering Lydia is a sociopath and emotionally abusive

@@LawlzinatorLeave them alone...

@@Lawlzinator Yet they are the ONLY ones that got married. Just leave them alone....move along!

​@@LawlzinatorThose are big words when the literal only evidence is some bitterness toward her ex and a he said/she said story with a ton of questions. Were Uche and Lydia toxic with EACH OTHER, yes. But that literally has nothing to do with Milton.

they married over a year now.they film the show early 2022

You and me both. But I do hope they grow together and learn from each other.

@@applespace150oh wow, a year? Such a milestone

@@Lawlzinator can y'all stop worrying about others. There status doesn't even matter for you... So why do you care? Stop hurting others on the internet and let them be free. If they ACTUALLY like each other they'll try to make it work. If they don't they won't make it work. Its none of our business

@@Lawlzinator are you reading each comment and taking the time to make negative comments.....get a life.

Same! No competition:)

They put themselves on TV, they could have chosen to take their romance off screen after the pods but they chose to keep the cameras on. And now they continue to give interviews. They are fair game.

@@jakestroll6518 This is like saying "you taking your dog for the walk will get them eaten. 1 doesn't equal another. Just because they signed up for reality television doesn't mean they asked for judgement. Everyone is a villain in someone else's perspective. There is no stopping that. Think of yourself... Do you never make mistakes, Do you never have to learn from your mistakes because they have always been righteous, Are you extremely nice to everyone without selfish intention, Are you willing to save someone's life even if it means scarficing yourself? If you no to a lot of these things. You aren't perfect and It's okay not to be perfect. So do you understand that's its a bit hypocritical to shame someone inperfections and mistakes by a show who doesn't even showcases all the information to us. They also doesn't give us other perspectives besides for the ones that they showcase on the show.

Me too girl

Nope I love them too! They stole my heart❤

Why does Aaliyah owe her an apology?

@@chasingthesun90 For starting that ridiculous rumor- that Lidia followed Uche on LIB, which resulted in Uche coming for her character assassination on international tv and all the social media hysteria of hate and judgment Lidia got and still gets. She was a wonderful friend to Aalyah, although she knew her for only 8 days, and never got a thank you for all the help and support she gave Aalyah and all the disturbing talk and crying she had to suffer - listening from Aalyah pertaining to her ex of years Uche.

He hates his blackness. It’s no mystery why some black guys do that to their hair especially when they also make sure to pair up with non-black women. This season had two colorist black men.

​@@jakestroll6518Have you heard these two nerds TALK and I say that lovingly. You really think Lydia's non-blackness is what ranked her with him and not the fact they could probably sit around talking about something as nerdy as rocks over evening wine which a lot of people would find boring.

😂 I like his curl. It reminds me of the 80’s.

​@jakestroll6518 I've heard Jlo refer to herself as " a woman of color" which always confused me. She's Hispanic. So since Milton is with a Hispanic woman is that better than if he choose a white woman? Since he could clearly hear that Lydia was Hispanic, he knew in the pods.

How did she ruin aaliyah's opportunity? People are upset she didn't say something sooner and get herself kicked off the show, but then are also upset when she did say something

Aaliyah pursued a relationship with Uche after the pods. If it was meant to be, it would have been...

😂😂 Lol the producers gotta do what they gotta do to get them in the same frame!!

Most women with good sense want to have a secured financial future. Good for her.

Lydia has a masters too and she’s a literal geologist she doesn’t need Milton to secure her future

@@moonarium57 Lol Fr 😂

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@@Sibby496 tomato tomato

The thing is, Milton didn’t see how she was with Aaliyah until the show aired. But also I think he’s a lot more immature than most people give him credit for.

@@ceebee1461 His immaturity isn’t emotional though. Except around his family where he definitely acts like a stupid defiant teenager.

She couldn’t even look Aaliyah in the face as she explained her actions. She was acting like the wronged party and the Lacheys enabled her. Lydia is a very manipulative person imo.

Shut up Ushe!!🤣🤣🤮

How can you decide this much from a singular season? You don't know them. Don't judge them. Let them live in peace.

A lot of her behavior is cultural. You just don’t get it, like you guys love to say “it’s a black thing”. Well it’s a “Puerto Rican thing”. Enjoy your kool-aid

I'm really glad she ended up with someone like Milton. Imagine if she ended up with someone like Uche and they brought more humans like them into the world. Milton inspires her to become a more compassionate and level headed person, and the world is a better place when someone inspires another to spread kindness instead of hate/anger.

@@zoharblueroblox2594​bc I’m a professional and have been in this human behavioral field 30yrs. You haven’t. So YOU wouldnt have that intuitive and professional eye. But DONT speak for me. We are NOT the same. Good day. 😉

Uche is that you? 😂😂