Face Your Fears and Don't Let the Fear of Rejection Bring You Down

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Face Your Fears and Don't Let the Fear of Rejection Bring You Down

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There are infinite ways to look at every circumstance. And, we can choose how we see these scenarios in our lives. We can view our situations as good or bad, learning experiences or as proof of our own worthlessness. The choice is ours.
In this video, I'll talk about how we can relearn how we see rejection, how we can see failure differently, and how we can overcome any obstacle. This is the key that every successful person instinctually understands and that everyone can discover and use in their lives.
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@noedininoedini6844 2 жыл бұрын

Just today....I was able to accepted the rejection with smiles and laugh.I feel at peace.I am so grateful to all your mantras...I look forward for next Mantra.Terima Kasih Todd!

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

That is so wonderful to hear. Terima Kasih, Noedini 🙏🏽

@noedininoedini6844 2 жыл бұрын

Every day I have been listening to you..And today I was quite impatient..waiting for you newest update mantra..I hope you are doing well.Hopefully this is not become a pressure to you and your teams.Like everyone who keep following your journey and kind encouragement in daily dose.Thank you!stay well and healthy.Todd &team.

@lykarabbit3 Жыл бұрын

I couldn't possibly be offended at rejection now. It has nothing to do with "not good enough" more "not for me in this moment". The peace that brings is immense

@susangale4586 Жыл бұрын

Wow! I’ve been rejected about 99% of my life. Now at 63…I’m ok with it!

@teresafraser3049 2 жыл бұрын

Rejection is God's protection

@umawilliam6696 11 ай бұрын

Seem to be the only way! And thank you too

@tyranmcgrath6871 2 жыл бұрын

One day I got so sick of not trying for anything that I asked a girl if I could sit next to her on the beach. I got rejected but that's what I told myself I was going to put myself out there for Rejection is better than not trying. It felt good to make an attempt. Get out there boys and get yourselves a rejection ✌️

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

That's the only way :)

@mritzs5142 2 жыл бұрын

Powerful statement “The Ego will do anything to protect itself” this is a little jewel I will hold to the light to see my reflection as needed

@josephgeller2682 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing material! This hit me "Doing what we KNOW is right, not what we THINK is right because thinking comes from Ego of mind and Knowing comes from the Heart" ...what a blessing🙏🏽 Thank you

@matangidesai3437 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful rejection allows us to go deeper ! Every experience is for evolving and healing journey

@TonyRedunzo 2 жыл бұрын

That piece of advice about getting through 100 no's to get to that yes... was what a senior salesman at a car dealership once told me. and you're both right. I was a terrible salesman but I learn something from every rejection. Some things aren't pleasant but they're necessary. Persistence is a very underrated skill.

@laurenpearl8088 2 жыл бұрын

"Use fear as the compass"🙌

@h.briseno8597 Жыл бұрын

I beat the crap out of my ego today and did what was right and felt good in my heart about it!!❤️

@newthing7744 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever I hear him talk, it soothes my mind and soul.

@madhulata7903 2 жыл бұрын

He has so much clarity and his knowledge is so profound absolutely phenomenal. This affirmation is simply the best "Get excited about rejections, Embrace it, Seek it out as much as possible and you will make most and fastest progress towards your goal" ❤

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you! 🙏🏽

@strawberrygirlvideos Жыл бұрын

You are so grounded in the truth about how the world 🌎 works. I am so grateful that you were placed in my platform.. from gain and pain I am learning so much about myself and how to better understand a view of how the universe works.. I am healing and more at peace ☮️ with sitting 🪑 and being still. Namaste 🙏

@robincrowflies 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. And we can embrace our rejection of others. It isn't personal, it's inevitable--how many people can you be close with in a lifetime? We simply must be careful. Careful to know ourselves and our biases, careful to understand that, even if someone doesn't belong with us/to us, they belong to someone. Therein lies peace and respect.

@nancykunik4370 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! ... Failures are our greatest teachers ... Like finding the right piece to the puzzle ... As an artist something is learned with every painting that didn't turn out to expectations ... It helps to reflect on a new way to start again ...

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏽

@toriko2075 2 жыл бұрын

I still don't get how you don't have more subscribers. Your channel is definitely a gem. It helps me a lot.

@mritzs5142 2 жыл бұрын

@Toriko More people are subscribing to this Channel keep watching that number . I love Todd’s gift to us as well and want great things to happen however the spoken word , or in our case on this platform , are powerful., energy comes through words ! I say we agree that we do understand that there will be ,more more success and subscribers are coming this is just the beginning for him

@migueldiazestrada9899 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Todd, the timing for this video couldn’t have been better. Yesterday a girl I meet declined my invitation to have lunch, I thought we liked each other but anyways, she didn’t want move forward with our friendship, I felt sad, but now I clearly see that it was just my ego, and this is an awesome learning opportunity, thanks 🙏🏼

@perlamargarita8040 2 жыл бұрын

Yearn for opportunities before we're fully ready. Thank you.

@Dieselhate Жыл бұрын

Beautiful Life advice once again! Failure is Life giving you guidance letting you know either: 1) the action you took will not work so try something else (and now you learned what doesn’t work and therefore you now know what not to do) 2) what knowledge to seek. the scenario arouse for you to affect a certain outcome in the role you are playing. It arose because Life is letting you know this knowledge is important to have in the role you are partaking in. The fact that you failed simply means you don’t have the knowledge. But now you know what knowledge to seek that will help you in this role

@sonjalillard114 2 жыл бұрын

His words are so powerful that I can listen to him the whole day 🙏

@RIXRADvidz 2 жыл бұрын

Hindsight is 20/20 When I realized that everything that ever happened to me, perceived good or bad, brought me to the moment I'm in Right Now. It's a nice place Here and Now. I paid attention to my lessons and applied my knowledge. My Life is my construction and after a few years of Life, I've learned what works best for me. I love these lessons.

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Love to hear that. Thank you so much :)

@t.fontaine6309 2 жыл бұрын

Amor Fati. The dance of art and wisdom. Thank you so much for your work. The world needs people like you.

@alberthutchinson7569 2 жыл бұрын

Listening to Todd is like meditating. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.

@Sowenna Жыл бұрын

Every successful person has failed often and kept going. Oh so true...and every person that truly loves other hast experienced pain and learned to overcome that pain and transform ❤

@sigrid3553 2 жыл бұрын

This was very helpful, thank you for sharing your wisdom! Fear of rejection can hold us back from living a full life..

@chantalhanby5271 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video! It's important to remember that our fears can only motivate us in the long sun and it's okay to be scared. Living full out is all about making a genuine effort!

@lesleyM84 3 ай бұрын

rejection can form persistence and persistence in pursuit will make spines of steel and eventually dreams becoming real!! Let’s get rejected!!! HooAhh!! 🥳🥳

@karinodendaal5277 Жыл бұрын

Thank you this comforted me and suddenly I was filled with peace. ❤

@440SPN Жыл бұрын

Not taking it personally. Works for me most of the time. Beautiful video. Thank you Todd. Namaste🙏💕💠

@phil-vs4gy Жыл бұрын

rejections are the only thing which can bring me down and trigger old habits like taking drugs and playing video-games etc.. I probably got a weak or damaged EGO.. I lose like all the motivation for life after getting rejected..

@newthing7744 2 жыл бұрын

He makes so much sense and he is so relatable.

@jackiefindlay1264 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing! Three days ago I began recording my first full recording of original music and have to admit some doubts surfaced. This video has given me the clarity to move forward. Steadfast! Just what I needed to hear. Thank You Todd! Blessings

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

That's amazing to hear. You got this 🙏 💗

@karinodendaal5277 Жыл бұрын

Powerful stuff. I needed to hear this today.

@suemichael4220 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Explained so well! So grateful for this video! THANK YOU!!!!!! 💟🕉

@purnimadas3762 2 жыл бұрын

OMG ..I just heard your first statement and it's so profound...it comes from deep insight.... every word rings a bell within me... thank you!

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome 🙏🏽

@francisalvarado99 2 жыл бұрын

Another great video! Deep insight!

@UniqueGeekFreak 2 жыл бұрын

I love your surname, and happy to have crossed paths, gives encouragement to other seekers or people walking the path less travelled, thanks for sharing your journey to wisdom with us very inspiring & refreshing, bless you Brother

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the kind words 🙏

@UniqueGeekFreak 2 жыл бұрын

@@ToddPerelmuter thank YOU Brother 🙏😊 all the best ahead 🍀

@hirokowoods4421 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@stevebonder3571 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Todd. We all needed to hear this.

@kevinkemble3718 Жыл бұрын

We all must “embrace” the only difference between success and failure… is the successful persons have failed way more than you out there. The pain of discipline or the pain of regret. You choose.

@Ana-ws6xj 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, very poetical and beautiful I am listening from Portugal

@amyvelasco3846 2 жыл бұрын

Confirmation of what my heart needed to embrace, truth. Which sometimes the ability to do so is clouded by the thinking mind, not coming from the open loving heart. As a single person, I'm learning to not fear relationships, learning to go out and meet others or work in those that I already have. I've wanted to run when things get difficult or communication that's difficult arises from fear. though & I know for a fact life does not want me to run. It wants me to face it , to dive in to what life has for me in the specific moment. Embracing that which, is embracing my deep self. Thank you! ✨💛🙏🏼

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. So glad to hear. Peace and love 🙏 💗

@neetaarora7908 10 ай бұрын

Fear of rejection stops us from using rejection and criticism, or losing these....face rejection courageously and it's an ally, right! So for everything we resist, avoid....no!

@mariaelbasotillo871 Жыл бұрын

OMG i need to embrace rejection! Almost all my life I have been experiencing rejection and now I am petrified! I am afraid to continue living it. Now I understand that I judged it as a terrible failure and refuse to go through there anymore… ok. I got the message…

@umawilliam6696 11 ай бұрын

Hahaha... Yes. What a simple universal bang on! Why didn't you appear in my life when I was 20? It would spare me so much suffering...

@ToddPerelmuter 11 ай бұрын

Better late than never 💞

@carole4448 2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for this🙏🏻😁

@jasinoke 2 жыл бұрын

Your voice is incredibly soothing. This video aligns with me completely. ❤️

@thedronemediacomvancouver4976 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Thank you. Love your clips.

@retribution999 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent! Seek it out!! Conquer it!! Thanks

@ChristinaKM 16 күн бұрын

Omg this was great and right on time

@meghatiwari9844 2 жыл бұрын

Some videos dont need any awards to appreciate its quality.. #oneofthose

@Rosannasfriend 2 жыл бұрын

this is exactly the journey I'm starting. What a coincidence!

@DheerajSharma-ro5ot 2 жыл бұрын

You r an incarnation of some great master in the past

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Too kind, Sir. I think you were as well 🙏

@arterial 2 жыл бұрын

Well considered piece of art today, Todd. Resolve to...

@MrRealeyesrealize 2 жыл бұрын

I hope the lesson changes my life this time

@jeeyehong8877 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this ☺️💓

@path_ethics Жыл бұрын

I need a friend like you!

@ToddPerelmuter Жыл бұрын

You got him :)

@SergioPenados 2 жыл бұрын

Gracias

@correenbritz593 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@navyblue7787 2 жыл бұрын

Purple needs this

@FreshAF_11 2 жыл бұрын

Interesting… This has been a lifelong struggle for me until now.

@bethmaldonado4200 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this!

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@theloveofminimalism6984 Жыл бұрын

Oké if I get rejected I will embrace it but if not i would really really like to meet you in person. Lots of love and light Emilie

@larosevikansha8803 2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH VERY MOTIVATING

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

Most welcome 😊

@Essential4Life Жыл бұрын

I'll be honest I didn't want to hear this. But I honestly needed to know this to continue with my progression, even if it leads to nothing. Nameste

@oliviafranzen2959 Жыл бұрын

I'm working in a call center. Rejection pays my bills...... 😉🤣

@kellymaloney4732 2 жыл бұрын

So pleased I found you Thankyou 🥰

@carolinaorozco706 2 жыл бұрын

What If you don't get the "why your rejected?" What if people walk away without saying anything? 🤔

@ToddPerelmuter 2 жыл бұрын

You still learn the deep truth of rejection: that it is mostly projected fear in our minds that the worse that could happen is really not that bad and that taking a chance is an achievement in and of itself.