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I really appreciate how safe these videos make me feel

I’ve been social media free now for 2 years now and it’s been the best thing for me. I’ve been so much more happier and not have to “please people”

i’m now 21 days sober from alcohol and i think this is my reward haha

That voice, those eyes, THAT face…I can’t 😩❤️

2 hours 15 mins is my average screen time a day! I deleted all my socials in January & I love it. It’s great no one knowing your business & not having to compare yourself to anyone else. Keep it up man :)

I really like this type of video, just listening to you talk is quite relaxing in itself. Glad you're getting sponsors, you deserve them.

I really like this! I enjoy having you just be you and talk to me, especially in this relaxed setting. Thank you!

I'm alone so much that I have been really enjoying the chit chat videos a lot! I rarely sleep at night.

you seriously make some of the most calming videos ever, loved this :) - my screen time lately is about 14 hours which is actually down lol

These are always so soothing.

I can’t help but smile when I watch you.

This is definitely better than the role plays. It was nice just listening to you talk.

Its always a great day when you upload! So close to 100k dude, well done :D

Thanks a lot for this video, Tom! I had terrible insomnia today and since I enjoy your videos, I decided to watch them. I really enjoyed this one! Instead of a roleplay (which I like as well), I felt like I was just having a nice talk with a close friend, and it helped me a lot! Please make more like this one if you can, it felt really good to feel more sincerely connected to you!

Ok, your voice is so soothing. And much more when I'm wearing my headset. Play a video, fall asleep within 10min.

I don’t get around to watching your videos nearly as much as I would like too but I always enjoy them when I can. Thank you so much for putting out content. 💖 💖 💖

Simple, genuine, perfect ♥️

It's luxury video. I love it. It's so strong it would put me to sleep at noon if I watched it at the time. It's beautiful to fall asleep next to someone, even if it's necessary this way... Thank you, Tom, you're the best!

Always love these. 😌☺️🖤

Please do these kind of "being only you" videos more because nothing could be more perfect than listening to you talk, while going to sleep. I can listen to you all night, it was great knowing you as a person, what you think about and how easily you converse with the listener. It seems so real. I actually feel, I am right next to you ! Thank you so much for making these videos. I wish you could make these kinda videos everyday! No need to roleplay just share your thoughts and feelings!

I love this video more than role plays, I can really hear the true you so it's more relaxing

This is a lovely video. I really enjoy this honest connection.

Thank you Tom for making this fantastic video!

Please know how amazing and inspiring you are. I always look forward to your posts. I’m sending you all of the positive vibes… thanks for smiling :)

Thanks for the video, Tom! Gonna be a good night's rest. 💚

Your hair looks so good!!

Sadly its every chance I get but thanks for the advice im definitely going to work on spending less time on my devices, thanks for the vidoes they always help me relax n hit the hay, I use to drink tea to fall asleep but now it's your videos that KO me to sleep much appreciated Tom keep it up.

This was so good!

Hooray for sponsors! 💥🎉💥 Great vid as per usu ♥️

Great asmr and sounds🥰

I needed it, I needed a video of you. 🥰😴

Tom, I really appreciate this video of you being you. It helped me get to know you even more and on a deeper level, and also connect as well as relax with you. I totally agree with you on the social media thing. A lot of us have become a complete social media dependent society and not sharing more physical human connections like we use to which is not healthy. I only have a few social media platforms but I try to only allow myself 2 to 3 hours per day but because I have OCD everytime I see a message pop up I have to check it so I can immediately remove it from my phone. I try to ignore but it's very hard. We definitely need to get back to how life was before smartphones and social media existed and consumed so much of our time/life. I enjoy all your videos and content as they always help me to relax even the more. Sometimes I'm asleep within minutes and can't comment because of that so job well done Tom. Thanks so much my friend of the same name. Keep these great videos coming. Oh, lastly you should come to Florida more, for the most part it's always warm here so you'll love it.

I live up north too aghh the winter is still bad! Midway through March vibes are back and they are unique 😂ppl bragging bout spring vacations I’m like ehhh let’s just stay home and watch ASMR forget the world for a bit :) Ty for being so real with us your work is really the work of angels I swear ❤

Thank you for these amazing Asmr videos

I am a little late to this video, but I just wanted to say thank you!! On a more personal note, intimacy in this way is very foreign to me so I usually get spooked and skip to the next part etc. However, this video and your past videos in this setting make intimate moments like this feel less scary to me. You make me feel so comfortable and relaxed. Thank you again :)

I’m right there with you! I’ve started listening to the podcast: Offline, with Jon Favreau and it helps me realize the toxic parts of being addicted to screens and the benefits of a little of it. I highly recommend!

Warmer weather sounds nice. It’s -23 where I am in AK.

See this is what I do I will literally ramble till I fall asleep when I have someone sleeping with me

the new one！！❤️

Great Video 🙂

Social media is, sadly, very toxic. But it sucks you in and is addictive. I try to cut back. I do spend the last hour of my day with my headphones listening to your ASMR videos before heading to bed. I do that religiously every night.

Rambling story time Tom is the best Tom

Hi Tom. Thank you for another quiet and thoughtful video with you just being you. It's refreshing. I don't have social media myself. I tend to watch videos here to relax and or sleep. I really appreciate you and your honesty. It's going to be okay. And I really like your haircut. Big smiles and hugs💜

Happy Birthday!

Just have to say hun, you have a gorgeous voice, I’m just realising that I must becoming a lover of asmr 💕. lol

I love your new haircut !

The help just came at the right time!

OMG I love your haircut 😍

The face touching parts are soooo tingly I keep replaying them

your haircut suits you Tom:) thanks for the video,i was doing my project for college and you were the nicest company:) hope youre going good!^^

We were waiting for your new video. This video was as enjoyable as the rest of your videos. Your sound is really good Tom💖😌

I love reading comments that talk about stuff you talked about in the video knowing I’ll never know what it’s about because I fall asleep too fast lol

So incredibly lovely 💛

You should try a cabernet/merlot blend if you like red wine. My favorite is Luna Di Luna Red.

Heaven on earth , OMG 💞

Am 29 yrs, and i never had a boyfriend... The more am watching ur vids the more it makes it hard to find someone like tom.. Not the tom who roleplays and stuff, but that kind of tom, who is just caring and listening and loving......

❤️

I've taken so many steps to break my phone addiction. It's still at 3h 45m. But that's with leaving yt running while I sleep. Things I've done: ~Deleted social media aps except YT ~Deactivated: Twitter, insta, snapchat, tiktok. And suspended Facebook so I can still use messenger. ~Set the yt app to open on my subscription page instead of explore (this makes a bigger difference than you'd think) ~Used an adblocker to block the YT explore page on my laptop ~Switched to a phone with an e-ink screen. (video and pictures suck but reading is way better)--this was extreme and not feasible for everyone.

I hope you're doing okay! - I'm at 5 hours screen time right now, I got rid of Facebook off my phone and I definitely feel a lot better checking it once a day on my computer. I'm struggling to get rid of Instagram though, I use it to talk to my friends too much!

Good wines are hard to find and steak and shake is good 😂 great things to dream about good night

3/4 hrs is typical for me. But most of the minutes are made up of me reading on my kindle app lol

I wish your video had Persian subtitles :) because my English is weak and your video is really relaxing

🇬🇧Thank you Tom. Angel blessings and love to you from England uk. X🇬🇧

Man i dont even remember falling asleep. Had to be within the first the minutes 😅🤣

♥️♥️♥️♥️

But next time do a husband roleplay,I bet we all miss it 😹 I swear,I feel such so peaceful whenever I watch the one from the beginning of these roleplays like so much often

I’ve missed you and your voice! I’ve been watching re-runs ❤️ I hope you are doing ok in your personal life…..thanks welcome back. I recommend a song by Nat King Cole called “Smile” have a listen sometime. ❤️

OMG, I just subbed to you the other day, and now theres a new vid.. Cant wait to sleep while listening to this and pretending to have a boyfriend. 😅😝

Ok, what's an ice cream turtle? Like a sundae?

I usually hate sponsored videos, but I’ve just ordered a Helix mattress. 🥴

Do you ever offer private custom videos?

♥

You are sweet and amazing thank you for helping me with my lonlyness

Will Tom also be shipped with a Helix order? 😁😄😍

I never wanted to be petted like that bed but now I do

❤❤❤

🥰

My one and only asmr husband from the beginning 🥺💕

I call it "scrolling paralysis." I have experienced--I *do* experience this on a regular basis. When you're scrolling, and you know you're scrolling, and you know you need to get up and do something, you know you need to just ... put ... the phone down ... but somehow the idea of trading the one simple accomplishable action of scrolling and reading for a larger harder task such as managing life is paralyzing. For me, it comes from a deep dissatisfaction with my life and the inability to find what I can do to shove an actionable change through the doggy door of success. (Strange metaphor I know but it's the only thing I can come up with.) For every addiction there is a root cause. For my scrolling/social media addiction, it is dissatisfaction as I said. For anyone struggling with this I would recommend journaling (pen and paper ... even pencil nub and the back of a torn junk mail envelope) thoughts and feelings once you catch yourself scrolling for no good reason. For me the reason I've logged out of Facebook (my kryptonite) is that the highlights of peers' lives in my news feed only fuels envy which literally only hurts me. That's my deadly. Envy. And social media ... the lookbook of the season called life ... is like gasoline on that spark of evil. To answer your question Tom ... I don't know what my screen time is. It's bad enough I've never bothered to check. I think I'm legit afraid of the answer.

I mean mines 7 hrs… which is actually low for me 😂

I only have IG and Twitter. And that’s all. I deleted everything else. And yes, I do MISS the days where flip phones were it and nobody was obsessed with the digital age.

I’m pretty sure you’re the perfect human being. I was seriously considering sliding into your dm’s but then you said you deleted everything lol. Seriously Tom you’re a gem! ❤️

Hey my name is Mohammad i love your video but can u do a longer version of just breathing exercise n will calm ourselves together please?that's all i ever wanted buddy n thanks for your understanding

Thank you for your video interesting and fantastic... ciao da ITALIA 😘🇮🇹👍🔝🔝❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Jou are Just unique

He got a haircut and I like this video when you are you hearing the Tim when don’t always hear

0:31 It reminded me of the Simpsons opening.

19:30

"Don't tell me how to live my life I need a snacc"

I’ve just put daily screen time limits on my apps! Let’s see how that goes. Not put them on KZfaq or Patreon of course 😂

This is my first time seeing one of your videos. Very nice bud. As far as the comments about laying there next to you...as a gay man I'm not saying anything 🤫

there's a vein on your throat I can see moving after you close your eyes, pretty cool

For me it was the “Beer Fear”, which in other words means that same ominously terrifying sensation you get the morning after a night of being totally shitfaced and suddenly deciding to exacerbate things by getting “Keyboard Happy” i.e. I would seldom operate on Social Media unless I was under the influence of some sort of chemical (alcohol). Cut a very long and sad story short I decided to deactivate all of my socials in late 2018 coz was I willing to put down the booze instead……..heck no.

Relaxing Male ASMR: it's REALLY INTIMATE & RELAXING!

Доброе утро я харашо выспалась❤❤ месте стабои

i love you, ok

Даваи закриваи глаза и спи❤❤ добрыи ночы дарагои

4 hours and 15 mins. Actually less than I thought lol

I needed this right now as I'm in an abusive relationship and I'm just having a hard time leaving, so thanks for posting this.