Revealing The Sad Truth Of Growing Up In Care - Ashley-John Baptiste

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Fearne Cotton's Happy Place

Fearne Cotton's Happy Place

Ай бұрын

How big do you let yourself dream? BBC broadcaster Ashley John-Baptise grew up in care, and knows all too well that love can help cultivate aspiration.
In this chat with Fearne, Ashley talks through his childhood, from being bounced between foster parents and care homes, to ending up with a history degree from Cambridge University.
He explains how he became a colder and more detached child as protection against constant rejection. Ashley also talks about the very real impact not having access to touch and attachment to a primary care giver can have on a person’s future outcomes.
Fearne and Ashley chat about the huge influence kind and persistent adults can have over a child’s life. You don’t have to be a parent to positively impact a child; teaching, mentoring, and community work will make a huge difference to an individual, and as a result, society too...
Ashley’s memoir, Looked After, is out on June 13th.
ABOUT HAPPY PLACE
Fearne's HAPPY PLACE is a place to celebrate honesty, authenticity and community. Fearne delves into life, love, loss and everything in-between by chatting to inspiring individuals who have made a change in their own lives or help other people to find different ways of seeing life as she reveals what happiness means to them.
Happy Place is a space that is safe for all where difference is celebrated and the extraordinary is discovered. A place to focus on the positives and to help you find the joy every day - big or small.
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ABOUT FEARNE COTTON
Fearne Cotton is an English television and radio presenter, mother, broadcaster, writer and founder of Happy Place, a place where Fearne holds difficult but important conversations to encourage self-care and self-appreciation, creating a positive impact on the world, giving everyone a voice and actively listening.
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@craigmilner7499
@craigmilner7499 25 күн бұрын
This man made me cry…. Initially tears of sadness for the love and touch he didn’t receive whilst growing up….then tears of joy and happiness for the man he’s become. The epitome of triumph over adversity. I absolutely loved this interview…. Thank you Ashley and Fearne ❤️
@AuMilieuTeam
@AuMilieuTeam 27 күн бұрын
This actually made me cry as we as a family did everything we could to see our brothers and sisters grow up although they were fostered. My parents did everything in their power to ensure what happened to you wouldn't happen to those kids. I'm so sorry you experienced this but glad you found grace. You are a champion for talking about this. We are with you through this. Thank you for sharing Ashley. Nathan
@yvonneclark250
@yvonneclark250 29 күн бұрын
Oh wow, what an interview, what a story. We don't really appreciate and understand our parents until we're older and then we learn but I am now so, so grateful to them for giving me a loving, secure and happy life. I'm now off to hug my people!
@nataliefisher7961
@nataliefisher7961 23 күн бұрын
Such an insightful and emotive interview. I almost ended up in care due to the loss of my mum as a child, but thankfully my father kept my brother and I as managed to get through juggling work and a mortgage etc. I think there's so much to learn about looked after children. I need to read Ashley's book asap. So glad he's loved and has that family around him, it made me so emotional hearing about his wife and girls. ❤
@SarahMarles
@SarahMarles 25 күн бұрын
Wow, what an incredible young man with the most amazing life story to tell so far. He is an inspiration and needs to continue telling his story far and wide, many would benefit from hearing how powerful we can be, no matter what. Thank you for making the world a better place 😊
@rcarby19
@rcarby19 24 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and experience of being ‘ looked after child ’ a term that doesn’t sit well with me. You are eloquent, demonstrate extraordinary strength and resilience. I really pray that although difficult you have found some healing in writing your book. Super inspiring and touching. ❤
@wendydavies1481
@wendydavies1481 Ай бұрын
It takes a village/community to raise a child as the saying goes….this is a very moving interview and sadly some of the topics don’t just apply to children in the care system.
@razabadass
@razabadass 20 күн бұрын
Ashley bro represented us from the care system! Please have other as well eg no Farah and/or bbc journalist Rebecca southworth :)
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