There’s a block button. Use it. This is the enemy attacking you. Don’t let anyone tear you down. You’re a wonderful mother, and a Christian. Gods got you. You’re loved, respected, prayed for, and supported . ❤ for any child to be as blessed as yours is that. Blessed. Unfortunately, there are very evil people out there. Just know Jesus has you.

Trace & Lydia, you are WONDERFUL parents!!!! I'm a retired family therapist and I've followed you from day #1. Recall that you are engaged in a spiritual battle foremost! You represent everything that Satan hates. Don't let him take you down emotionally, physically, or mentally. His time is short and he's raging war on family right now. Sending YOU lots of LOVE, SUPPORT, and ENCOURAGEMENT from Alabama!!!

Anyone that sees Lydia with him, knows she is a wonderful, loving mom. ❤️

For every hater, there are probably 10,000 of us who love you. So sorry you had to go through all of that. So thankful for your families for the support they give you. You are blessed. ❤

Lydia and Trace I am a pediatric RN and you are awesome parents!!!

I cannot believe people could be so rude and obnoxious. They should be ashamed of themselves. Stop hurting this beautiful couple and family.

Shame on them. A new mother needs all the support and encouragement you can get. You’re a great mother.

HAVING BEEN A CHILD PROTECTED INVESTIGATOR...YOU HAVE NO WORRIES...THE CHILD HAS A SAFE HOME, LOTS OF LOVE, CLEAN AND WELL FED. BEEN A NURSE FOR OVER 30 YRS...NO WORRIES!! HUGS LYDIA!!

There are so many evil people out there that love nothing more than to hurt us. Don't listen to the noise cus that's all it is. You're a great mother and that's all that's important.

Please don't listen to the haters. Anyone who would say ugly hurtful things to someone they don't even know and only see a small snippet of your life has no business telling you ANYTHING! There is not a thing wrong with anything you've said or done. You just keep God first and do what you need to do. Love and prayers going up for y'all! Oh my goodness.....he's still the spitting image of Gil Bates!

Lydia you are an incredible mother don't let anyone tell you different... Ryker is the happiest baby ever... Trace you are an incredible Husband And Father.

Have you ever noticed how brave people are behind a computer?! Those people would NEVER say awful things to your face. You are both doing great. Love to you all. ❤️❤️❤️

Satan is controlling a lot of people!! All they do is spew evil!! Let's be real ... honestly, critism does hurt. We just need to remember where those lies are arising. Both of you are wonderful!! You're such a very loving Mommy whose love for her little one exudes from every part of you!! May God bless your entire sweet family!! ❤

Lydia, you are a great Mom and Trace is a great Dad! It shows in your beautiful, happy, healthy baby!

It’s pathetic that people used you for their own social media gains. You guys are great parents and we all can see it. Block the negative and focus on the positive people who love watching your family. Sending you a big virtual hug. ❤

Personally I don’t think it mattered how you worded it. Some horrible person reads a few sentences and then thinks they know your whole life. This person had zero knowledge about you and your family’s life but felt qualified to give opinions. That not only makes me angry it also makes me very sad. Sometimes people can be so ignorant and ugly. God was and always is on your side, and He is always there to help us navigate through the hard times. You have a beautiful heart and a beautiful family. I honestly feel that there are some people who are broken somewhere inside so they want others to feel the same as them. Please stay happy,healthy and safe and know that you are loved. Much love and prayers from Colorado Springs, Colorado ❤😊

All babies loose weight after they are born. You two are great parents .Ryker is blessed to have you two as parents.

Don’t listen to stupid people❤❤

My most useful saying is, "What other people think of me is none of my business." It's just an opinion and everybody has one. It speaks more about THEM than about you. When I took that onboard, I no longer cared what other people said about me, because they did not reflect who I am, only who they are. They are cowards who would not say to your face what they type online. You're good people, great parents, and it shows!

And also, I admire the Bates family for their love and support of each other. That’s what family is all about. And I’m sure Lydia that your family is the same way. They seem very sweet.

This broke my heart. Anyone can tell you to ignore the hate, but we are all human, and with it coming from every angle, it becomes impossible. I'm proud of you for rising above it. Keep rising above it and continue to speak your truth. That in itself will be healing for you. Sending you all the best wishes, Lydia! ❣

Honey don't let anyone still your joy. Your doing a wonderful job! Keep smiling!!

Oh beloved Lydia! This video brought me to tears! 😢 I don’t like social media! But please hear this and hear it clearly, as believers we know that we live in a very broken sinful world. People are hurting immensely, and they use the keyboard to express their feelings because they would never say these things to our face! They don’t have the hope of salvation that we have! It is so hard to be a woman and we are harder on ourselves than anyone else. The pressure to be a perfect mother, perfect wife, to be healthy, to be fit, to do everything because the world has told us we can have it all which is a lie from the adversary! We need to straighten each other 👑 when they’re falling down! We need to encourage and edify and applaud each other! A lot of times when I’m in the store and I see a mama in the store struggling; I say to her mama; you’re doing a great job! And every single time I say that she says thank you so much you have no idea what that means to me! Lydia, all those hateful comments that you were getting are from the enemy! You are a fantastic mother! Trace and you need to raise your baby the way you feel is best! I signed the petition for you and your families deportation and I will continue to support your family in anyway I can! The Bible tells us to pray for our enemies! They’re hurting and they have no hope, so sisters and brothers; let’s be bold and courageous and share the good news! Much love to you, Lydia and Trace!❤️

You went through complete abuse by these folks. You both are beautiful people and the world needs more parents like you. ❤ and our world needs more families like yours❤

I can't believe how rude people were. I am so sorry you had to go through that.

I had no idea you were going through this. People are so cruel. I am so sorry you went through this. You are amazing parents.

I have never in my 62 years responded to a video. But I’m appalled and so sorry you went through that. You are wonderful parents and may God continue to bless you both.

This is exactly why I don’t share much of anything about my kids on social media. People are cruel. You are the best parent for your kids.

Oh Lydia!!! Girl, no one is a perfect parent and God does not send an instruction manual for these little blessings! Everything is trial and error and life is messy. In the end,though, kids are such a joy and a true blessing. Don't listen to the haters! You and Trace are doing amazing and little Ryker is so cute!

Trace and Lydia, I am so disgusted by the behavior of that creator. What she did to you was criminal! I hope you're doing better.

God love you, Lydia! You had enough going on with the baby, parents and these “Keyboard Warriors” come after you! How sad of a human these people must be. Thank you for not letting them ruin your YT channel! Love from 🇨🇦

I can't believe anyone could say anything negative about either of you! All they have to do is watch you with him to see the enormous love and care you two put into him. He obviously adores his parents, too. I'm so sorry you had to experience that and I hope you will allow the hundreds of positive comments here to sooth your stress. There are more of us who love you than there are of those who don't. God bless you all.

You are a wonderful mom. Anyone with eyes to see can see that. It's a blessing that you have so much family to help with the more difficult aspects of parenthood. Don't listen to the hateful people.

This is so heartbreaking to hear what you have had to endure from such evil people! You both are such loving parents who are guided by God's love ! Riker is blessed to have you for parents!

Lydia it’s absolutely massive what you went through, pregnancy with a little baby that you thought may have had restricted growth, plus your families deportation, and all of it looming over head while you just want to celebrate a little life. People are so mean, you are amazing.

Lydia, just heard the intro on your video. People are jealous of you. You are young, beautiful, talented, and more importantly a believer in Jesus. The devil hates those of who walk with Christ! You are an incredibly loving, joyful mom! Ryker is blessed to have you and Trace for parents! God bless you!

Please dont listen to the haters. You and Trace are both phenomenal parents. Looking beautiful as well. May God our heavenly Father continue to bless you and your family! 🌹 🙏❤️

THAT IS CRAZY I have watch all your videos and NEVER thought any of that in fact I thought you were such a good mom, beautiful, and so sweet. That is so sad you went through that.

Lydia. You’re a beautiful person and excellent mother. Naysayers are always there. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that.

Usually, when people put other people down, they're jealous of them. You're a wonderful mom. God loves you, all your family loves you. We love you. 🥰 The haters are going to hate, especially when they're jealous. Don't listen to them!!!

Trace and Lydia, as a mom of four, your doing a great job. Haters don't like to see others happy and content . Well done , love from Lynda in Ireland 🇮🇪.

Man.. i had NO idea all this stuff happened... im very sorry that you guys went through all of that. God bless you both and the baby❤

You're both wonderful. My mom and dad stayed with my grandma the first week of my life cuts my mom was afraid to take care of me by herself. That's what family is for.

This person loves drama! You guys are doing an amazing job!

Guys some ppl just have mean hearts. Most of the time that kind of stuff is out of pure jealously. Please just block them the first time they says something mean. You do not need to deal with that kind of BS. That is unbelievable that someone would go to that length. Really makes me mad! You are a wonderful mother. These ppl saying other wise don't know you. PLEASE block them! Right now there is a small but loud group of ppl that are anti-Christian. They are trying to hurt you on purpose. Don't let the devil in! You two are wonderful parents and wonderful role models for young ppl

I am so sorry for you guys! I remember seeing this back then and I remember who started the accusation and it is disgusting. People like that should not be allowed to have a platform to make money off of lies! You don’t have to take on the blame this person would have found anything to accuse you of…it is what they do. It is so easy to see how wonderful you guys are as parents. Keep up the good work!

Ahh Trace & Lydia thank the Lord for Jesus. I am just stunned that that blew up like that. So untrue. We were all watching the same thing seeing what wonderful parents you are. Trace you were a big blessing to Lydia in how you took control of things and was a super wonderful husband & father. Lydia we literally saw & see such a loving doting mother. Again thankful for Jesus!!!! Our Rock

I can’t imagine having my first baby literally on blast! People can be so awful. My mother gave me some very sound advice after I gave birth. I asked her how do I do it. How can I do all the things, all the time. I’m so tired! She said you do “whatever works”! I’m so sorry you were robbed of this experience that should have been peaceful. Motherhood is HARD!!! If you need extra hands…take advantage of the love! You are doing perfect momma! Don’t let anyone tell you different! ❤

I’m sorry without a crystal ball did that to you. She’s an awful person and has unfortunately done this to many others. The best things you can do with someone like her is push back and send a cease and desist. Ignoring her doesn’t work. You guys are doing a great job!!

I'm so sorry you had to experience all that garbage! You can tell by looking at Ryker that he is well cared for by his parents!

Lydia you ARE a wonderful MOMMY!!!! Do not listen to those “keyboard warriors”/aka trolls who would never say to you in person what they say to you in this forum .we absolutely love you guys so much . I love how good Maui is with Ryker SOO sweet and gentle. Stay strong! You will be gifted your rainbow baby in the Lords perfect time . Don’t ever let your shining light dim!

This infuriates me! I wish I had known and could have least encouraged you. You did/are doing an excellent job! Ryker is such a beautiful boy and you both obviously love him very much. I'm so sorry you went through that. I am a great grandmother (I can't believe how fast that happened) and when my first baby was born we were nowhere near family, but my mother and grandmother drove hundreds of miles to come help me for awhile. I was only 18 and my husband was in the Army in Washington DC. I didn't even have friends. I am just so thankful you share your beautiful life with us. I am humbled and encouraged by such wonderful young parents. God bless you and prayers that you will have your rainbow baby very soon!

You are great parents and that was evident from the get-go. Mean people have too much time on their hands; remember the Devil is a liar and the father of it, so the Devil always knows where to hit below the belt especially when you are at a weak place in body and emotions. God bless you all and keep up the great parenting. This little guy is growing up surrounded by love which is genuine. I praise the Lord for godly and loving people like yourselves.

You guys are AMAZING parents and come from AMAZING parents. The Enemy is on the prowl for those doing God’s will. As believers, we are targets. Praying for your sweet family, God bless! (Love, from another TN Bates family!)

Anyone who watches your little family can clearly see that Lydia absolutely adores her baby your wonderful frist time parents and Trace is a wonderful husband and Daddy ❤

That is soooo awful Lydia! I'm very sorry to hear how bad it was. I know who that influencer is - she needs to worry about how she's raising her own kid and mind her own business. I was shocked when I heard what she was saying about you - I didn't know she said for people to call CPS. I am glad you had so much support. You are a terrific mom - he is so alert. I think he's going to be super smart.

There is only One who can/will judge us. The rest who try are just blowing words in the wind. You guys are great parents and Ryker is doing good and God knows when will be the best time to Bless you with a brother/sister for him.

I’m so very sorry you had to go through that. You are so fortunate to have the loving support you had. I helped my daughter. You did do everything right. There are some very nasty mean spirited people in this world. Every baby loses weight. Huge hugs 🤗

I’m sorry that happened to you. Absolutely insane. Many new parents hire baby nurses to stay with them to assist with care for the baby, so if one is fortunate to have family to help - that’s awesome! No need to apologize for how you previously worded anything in those early newborn days - you owe us no explanation. Take care, thank you for sharing your family with us! ❤

I had mine before social media…. I think people don’t realize anymore that you don’t owe anyone a play by play of your daily life. I can’t imagine posting everything for everyone. I was in another world and didn’t care about anything but my baby. I lost track of even what day it was. You DONT OWE ANYONE ANY INFORMATION about your life!! Us here that are here every week are just thankful for what you choose to share that brightens our day❤

Bless your hearts. I truly do not understand people acting like that. Y'all are doing a great job with Ryker!

Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Saturday evening and night with baby Ryker and he is so cute and adorable and he is 7 months old and he is getting so big already.

i am a RN nurse, just rinse the pump parts and stick in frig when busy, the cold slows bacteria growth, please ignore the haters. You are doing a great job, you both are wonderful parents.

Oh y’all. I’m so sorry for the difficulty you have faced in such a vulnerable time in your lives. Wish I could have given you a hug! From one former EP mama to another, you are a ROCKSTAR. Sending all kinds of love your way. ❤️

I’m so sorry you were treated in such a horrible way. You are doing great!! Keep up the good work and 🙏🏼God blesses you all with a rainbow baby soon😘

Lydia I'm so sorry you had such a hard time. Your next time will be better.

She is a disgrace and I was horrified when I heard that nonsense she spread.,. She is very cruel .. I hope you know now that your wonderful parents and the only parents Ryker wants or needs. !!.,, she has no right to speak on things she knows nothing about and cause any upset or anxiety for a beautiful young first time mum post partum when your emotions are up in the air and you feel criticism like that all the more . Irresponsible. You’re part of a very loving supportive family .. please never let internet trolls spoil your joy ❤

Lydia so sorry that happened to you, you seem like the most sweetest, kindhearted person. Some people will say that it comes with putting your life out there, but many fail to realize that the only one that should judge us is God!

I’m sooooo sorry y’all had to go through that! What is wrong with people! Love y’all

Thank you sharing your post partum experience it was touching listening to you express what you had gone through. You and Trace are truly terrific parents to your son and you’ll continue to be wonderful parents as Ryker grows. I love watching your KZfaq channel videos, looking forward to the next video I can see how much time and attention you put into each one and it is always appreciated

I am a silent viewer… I don’t comment. I apologize for not doing that. You shared so many vulnerable things. Mom shaming should never happen. You are great parents! ❤

Fortunately, the gossip tabloid channel that encouraged the hate and wished for more hate to pile on, has moved on to other victims to try and tear down. It’s honestly very sad. I can tell baby is so loved and nurtured. All of that babbling comes from attention, love and two amazing parents doing their very best to raise him❤❤❤.

I’m a mom of six and there are so many haters out there and people who think they know better than anyone else , or their way is the only way ! My advice to new moms is always to enjoy and embrace all those precious newborn moments even though they are usually very challenging, ask questions from people who you trust and admire the way the have raised there babies but ultimately I always say trust your motherly instincts because you are really the only one who knows what’s best for your child specific needs and grant your self grace , no matter how many children you have you are always learning new things and new ways to parent. You guys are amazing!l You love for each other and your baby is so evident! I have also had 2 miscarriages they are so hard but you are not alone. I hope you are blessed with a rainbow baby when end you are ready ❤

Aww. So sorry you had to deal with such bad grief from negative people who felt it was necessary to be so ignorant to say such horrible things. A new parent(s) are learning how to navigate everything! It’s. Learning experience, your world is essentially turned upside down for a bit and that’s bad enough. I sure hope those picture perfect people got the feeling that they wanted from them harassing y’all. When people talk bad like that I was always told it’s them that has problems and we are supposed to pray for them. That sounds so weird but it’s true. Thanks for sharing your experience. Ryker sure looks very handsome and he likes to babble on !!

Don’t pay attention to those people you are great parents from all we’ve seen. We’re with you Lydia Trace and Ryker. Love listening to Ryker chattering in the background . Oh my goodness he is so cute and talkative. He so looks like Gil .

My heart was breaking, hearing about the horrible things that a few were saying and spreading about you all and Ryker. I love you both, and celebrate your family and your faith. Family helping one another is such a blessing for us all, from birth to death, we all need each other. Those of us that follow you, and the rest of the Bates family, are all blessed by your examples. None of us are perfect, but the love of God, through family and friends, makes our lives full. Blessings to you all and prayers for your continued healing and health 🙏💕

So sorry you had to deal with that kind of thing as a new mother!! Some people are just evil & have nothing better to do with their time than to hurt others being their lives are so miserable!! Should something like that ever happen again, just know that God has your back, know that you’re a good person & that whoever is spreading hate is a sad & desperate fool trying to cause pain for their own twisted satisfaction! Don’t allow them into your world! Don’t let them win!! You & Trace are beautiful Christians living your lives with his best interests at heart! Keep doin what your doin 👍🙏🏻🫵🙏🏻💪🙏🏻🫶🙏🏻

You are an amazing mother!! I'm so sorry they bullied you and it hurt you. People are jealous and it's hard to see people do so well in life, when they are not happy with their life. 🙏🙏🙏

Y'ALL ARE THE MOST AMAZING PARENTS AND IT IS TOTALLY CLEAR HOW WELL YOU CARE FOR RYKER. DO NOT LISTEN TO THE HATERS AND BLOCK THEM IF YOU CAN. I AM SO ANGRY THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU. YOU ARE SO SWEET AND LOVING!

Don’t listen to all the negativity. You all are amazing parents and love you for sharing your videos.

Ryker is a beautiful healthy happy baby and you are both loving wonderful parents!!! After 2 weeks of breast-feeding the pain will leave. ❤

I am SO very sorry people were mean, rude, nasty and hateful to you. I cannot believe how awful it can be. You're a wonderful mother. Please know how much you're loved and admired. God bless you, sweet girl. You're fabulous parents. Plus, you're a new mama, get all the sleep you can. Every mama needs help and a support system. Nursing can be difficult. Don't feel guilty.

I am shocked! I had no idea this happened to you guys, especially Lydia! You are an amazing precious giving Mama to Ryker and Trace is an awesome husband and Daddy! You are a very special Godly couple and Ryker is so blessed to have you as parents! I’ll pray that God totally heals your hurts, memories of that terrible time! You three are greatly loved and admired by soooo many people! ❤️❤️❤️

I just saw this vlog episode today. I have seen most of your other ones but somehow missed this. I am amazed at your strength and how you and Trace were able to be such great parents and public figures while dealing with all that. The biggest blessing is that you had your faith, confidence and support system to get you through. Love this vlog!

And I’m glad I didn’t know anything about all this, except I would have prayed for y’all

My heart is broken that folks can be so cruel! Please don’t listen to them! Don’t forget you are the son and daughter of The King!

Ryker is absolutely beautiful and people who don’t have anything going on in their lives are jealous. I’m on my 60’s and I’ve learned to ignore those people, it’s not worth the stress or time. Love your little family.

Haters goona hate. Ryker is a happy ,beautiful ,healthy, baby. You’ve done a wonderful job. New motherhood is hard. No one expects a new mom to know it all. Support is the key. God Bless❤

So many bad people out there. You’re doing fabulous! God bless you and your little family.

You both are amazing parents and love watching your channel!!!!

You are a great mom, Lydia. Ignore the people who can only say nasty things. They are not worth it to worry about it!

So sorry what you went thru. You both are doing great and thank you for sharing your life with us! Love you all!

I'm so sorry you went through that. There are cruel jerks out in the world. Stay strong and don't let them define you. When i had my baby years ago. I was a wreck the 1st month plus I was a single mother. I thank God for my parents and the support system I received from them. You are surrounded with so much love and support from family and friends. There is also a great community out there supporting and praying for you.❤

Block that DEVIL!!! You are a wonderful mom!!! Wonderful parents

Sending love to you, Lydia & Trace! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Thank you for sharing your journey. You are all so precious. Lydia, you are a beautiful and wonderful mommy. I’m sorry you experienced that.

He is so precious!!

Bless your hearts.😢 I’m so sorry you had to go through all of those stressful head games due to evil people that think they know it all. How dare they criticize your parenting skills and have the nerve to call CPS on you. All of you that called CPS and complained should be ashamed of yourself!! 😡 It should be obvious to any loyal follower of your channel. Lyda, you and Trace are doing an excellent job taking care of Ryker and meeting his every need. It’s obvious to any loyal follower Ryder is loved and well taken care of. Lyda don’t let these haters get to you. Ryker is a beautiful healthy looking baby. You’re fortunate to have such an easy going baby. I enjoy watching your videos so much. I get excited every time I see a new one to watch. May God’s blessings continue to cover your beautiful and sweet little family. Take care and be happy! God loves you and so do I, especially your precious baby boy, Ryker. 😊❤🙏

Lydia you are a beautiful woman and the best mom Ryker could have. Don’t listen to what other people say. They are just jealous. I’ve been watching your channel since you started. ❤❤❤❤

Oh my goodness- I have never once thought yall were anything but amazing! I’m so very sorry you had to experience this. Thank you for sharing your life and if you choose to step away that’s ok too. God has amazing plans for you all. We live in a world with a lot of lost people, lost people act lost. Prayers for you all.