Growing up Duggar, courtship and baby #3 w/ Jinger Duggar Vuolo & Jeremy Vuolo | Ep. 71
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@JingerandJeremy discuss life growing up in the Duggar household, their courtship, and their plans for baby no. 3
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00:00 - Episode 71
02:46 - Dating a reality TV star
07:36 - How the IBLP cult started
10:50 - Growing up in a cult
19:16 - I was raised to believe adoption was wrong
28:11 - My childhood on 19 Kids and Counting
32:01 - Growing up with 18 siblings
38:21 - "Courting" my wife in the Duggar family
56:45 - Wearing pants for the first time
1:02:29 - Life after 19 Kids and Counting
1:12:38 - Writing about my life as a Duggar
1:21:59 - Why all of the Duggars have "J" names
1:24:47 - Someone tried to sell my diary on eBay
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@laurenwhitaker17 11 күн бұрын
Of all the couples, Jeremy and Jinger are the easiest to listen to. Very intelligent, eloquent and down to earth.
@Irishrose777 10 күн бұрын
I think Jeremy has really brought out the best in Jinger and helped her outgrow unhealthy beliefs.
@mrneveradullmoment 10 күн бұрын
100%
@helpingkarma 9 күн бұрын
Jinger talks normally now. The rest of her family have a formula for speaking. The words they say, the cadence of their sentences, where they take a breath, and the way the women pause for the man and just smile and shake their head and agree with what they say. She has her own brain now and her husband respects her ideas. I love it!
@RoxanneEdgemotherhoodandmakeup 6 күн бұрын
I’d say Jill & Derrek are a close second! ❤
@aniolcanet 4 күн бұрын
haha i just commented that. and jeremy is a lot less…i don’t know. he doesn’t talk over jinger as much as some of the other husbands do.
@LS-wy8pk 14 күн бұрын
“If the only thing that makes me a good person is rules and a chaperone then I am not a good dude” finally!!! That is the best way to put it
@user-mj3pl4ws7p 14 күн бұрын
Yes!
@KentuckyNaNasLife 14 күн бұрын
Yes 🤚🏻💯 Agree, That's The Perfect Way to Say it that We ALL Can learn from as a Person in life Period 😉💭❣️I ❤ That interpretation for Us All as a Child of God ✨😇✨, Being a Good Human 🤗 in anything we go through or life Circumstances ❤️🙏🏻❤️❣️
@jeniferkenney2984 14 күн бұрын
Yes this is what I agree with Jeremy too. I mean this makes so much sense. I loved how he explained it. ❤
@dustinrustick8450 14 күн бұрын
How exactly were Jim Bob and Michelle supposed to know he was a "good dude"? Take his word for it? They loved their daughter and they tried to put rules in place that would protect her. More parents should do that.
@jeniferkenney2984 14 күн бұрын
@@dustinrustick8450 there's nothing wrong with rules but the way they were with their kids was very controlling and there are other ways to protect your kids without being overbearing.
@nicolenowicki5021 11 күн бұрын
I’m not religious at all but I respect the HELL out of him for helping ginger find her way to where she is now with love and education and grace and not by force.
@alyblakeley9526 9 күн бұрын
I think the only thing he could claim is helped give her the confidence to be her own woman. To have her own thoughts and feelings about things. He did what a husband should be first he became her protector and in that protective space it allowed her time to become her real self.
@kadamowicz68 7 күн бұрын
But he still has her down the rabbit hole of the Bible which is just a book and pretty dang scary and cultish all on its own.
@graceannapatel7578 6 күн бұрын
@@kadamowicz68 how that cultish?
@kadamowicz68 6 күн бұрын
@@graceannapatel7578 it’s a book with no proven base and no proven origin. It’s blindly followed as the word of some higher authority with many variations around the world. People fear a mystical place called hell and that shapes what the say and do. That’s a cult. It controls every essence of their lives.
@Sanity_Faire 3 күн бұрын
@@kadamowicz68 I’m backing this comment. I’m 62…spent my life praying in faith to God. My last prayer was six yrs ago. Why? Not any people. History and science! How is it scary? Jesus is described lovingly…God? He will cast you into a lake of fire!! 😡 How humble, how loving 🥰 and I am suppose to mirror His behavior.
@LizS817 14 күн бұрын
Jinger won the lottery with him. Very happy she married a spiritually and mentally mature man.
@evette8558 13 күн бұрын
As well as he. She is an angel
@scgraves98 11 күн бұрын
They are few and far between
@melissastevens6051 7 күн бұрын
I love how Jeremy just got up and left the conversation to grab a tissue for Jinger.
@Rumkitty2000 7 күн бұрын
Not to mention, educated and worldly.
@crystalgardner7277 3 күн бұрын
I’d say they BOTH won the lottery!
@abbieowen565 14 күн бұрын
Jinger said something along the lines of "Honouring my parents is about respecting them but not obeying everything they say " and I think that is so powerful. I really struggle with boundaries and I think reminding myself of this is going to massively help!
@hnclym98 13 күн бұрын
Yes that part was incredible!!
@noorbohamad5796 12 күн бұрын
Nobody seems to ever really say respect your daughters yet daughters must respect everybody UNFAIR
@Betty-Boop809 11 күн бұрын
@@noorbohamad5796it’s despicable but that’s the cult life
@Breeanamarie 9 күн бұрын
Yes I once was told this exact thing in therapy and has helped my perspective and honestly guilt I would have after every decision I made as an adult!
@JennAmazed 9 күн бұрын
Also, are parents are told in the Bible to love their children. Love requires honor and respect. The Bible also plainly says, Parents, do not provoke your children.
@kakarco5676 14 күн бұрын
I feel like I could listen to Jeremy speak all day. Not in a weird way, but in a way that he does an amazing job breaking down the books and verses in the Bible. It’s beautiful to see that Jeremy and Jinger’s relationship was for sure divine intervention! God is so good!!
@nadinekuzinski 14 күн бұрын
Yes, i totally agree with that ❤
@Emma-xm7hx 14 күн бұрын
agreed!!!
@jodijohnson23 14 күн бұрын
Totally. He is a really good teacher. He is a pastor in CA. I need to find some of his messages and listen to it.
@MommaHENsley 14 күн бұрын
Agree! I was thinking he makes so much sense in a very chill way lol
@Cheyenne-vi6fi 14 күн бұрын
Same!!
@moonbabycrystals 9 күн бұрын
Dude Jeremy is SO well spoken and so wise. What a blessing.
@rebeccajoy_25 11 күн бұрын
Jeremy and Jinger exude so much wisdom. I’ve never seen someone maintain respect for her parents like this while also publicly decrying the false teaching they raised her in. Such a great episode!
@trishabaran1521 10 күн бұрын
I was raised up in a church where there were so many restrictions & I missed out on so much of my childhood. When I got older & had a child I refused to raise them up in a certain denomination. I wanted my child to enjoy her childhood with NO regrets. It wasn’t until I was older & went to Bible school & in study the word I realized that was man made rules and not Biblical @ all ! It was so freeing and free from the condemnation as well ! Jeremy, has helped Jinger to see it was man made laws. I love 💕 that he was grounded enough in the word to say No! No ! That’s a faults teaching. You Go Jeremy!
@ukwhitewitch 9 күн бұрын
@trishabaran1521 yes, you are so right, all religions are "man made" your daughter will be happier and healthier mentally not to have been brought up with religion 😊
@trishabaran1521 9 күн бұрын
@@ukwhitewitch Hope you have a great day!
@jodijohnson23 14 күн бұрын
The way Jeremy says “I knew who this woman was at her core” that was so sweet. I love how he didn’t force her to change, but showed her so much love and just wanted her to see who God really is, that He isn’t a God of fear but of love and peace!
@amylink7199 12 күн бұрын
The epitome of a godly man! Thank you, Jeremy for loving our girl to life!
@noorbohamad5796 12 күн бұрын
What I’ve been taught is that God is supposed to be feared makes total sense like there’s BILLIONS of us and only one God all mighty all powerful all knowing creator of everything the whole “love peace” stuff is often just hypocrisy claiming blah blah blah “love peace forgive/ness” blah blah blah then turning around bullying harassing attacking whoever’s seen as different
11 күн бұрын
Billions of us?@@noorbohamad5796
@cassben8608 11 күн бұрын
😂
@trishabaran1521 9 күн бұрын
Now I just hope the rest of her siblings can be free from such false teachings!
@Mammaj1963 12 күн бұрын
Jimbob is regretting the day he allowed Jeremy into the family 😊 I’m so happy for her, they are a great couple , free indeed !
@Amazigh_MaeMae 10 күн бұрын
Prob even more Derrick Dillard. Like with him the family actually has a fued. But not with Jeremy.
@jayneterry8701 8 күн бұрын
Hopefully Jimbob has been influenced by what an excellent, intelligent son in law he has in Jeremy. That he truly loves his daughter like he does.❤
@DasZuckerhaus 6 күн бұрын
@@Amazigh_MaeMaereally? How so?
@mechellepryor4421 6 күн бұрын
Jim Bob couldn’t stop God’s plan. I bet it’s a bit humbling.
@pla5730 2 күн бұрын
@@DasZuckerhausDerrick and Jill had a legal suite for NEVER being paid to be on the show Jimbob kept the money 😮
@melissahodgson1958 13 күн бұрын
IBLP survivor here. Thank you for this interview. Puzzle pieces are coming together of “Where did I get this from?” This is so healing for me. Thank you for this interview, to all of you.
@SJHbirdwathcher 12 күн бұрын
My family attended seminars and purchased material but were never true IBLP converts. Reading and listening to this type of podcast has helped me to understand so much about myself. It’s been such a blessing to bring clarity to confusion.
@victoriaryanlpcpc8075 12 күн бұрын
This is so interesting.
@katierojas8066 11 күн бұрын
These daughters need to go through religious deconstruction.
@miajones1880 11 күн бұрын
I'm so.sorry. That's not Jesus teachings completely a man's twist. 😢
@Moonchilling 11 күн бұрын
The fear tactics are not only use in the n,as of religion, it’s also used at work, politics, universities, etc.
@anamoraes902 13 күн бұрын
24:38 this part of him explaining how God actually views us who have accepted Jesus made me cry! What a simple and beautiful way to put it. That’s grace!
@kristagates825 12 күн бұрын
Yes! While I didn't grow up in the IBLP, there were some of the same teachings that I did grow up with and hearing that brought tears to my eyes
@twiligh4trinitya 12 күн бұрын
A whole sermon on that alone would be great. ❤
@jenniwilliams3295 11 күн бұрын
I'm not Christian but that was the best breakdown of what Christianity should be I've heard in a very long time. He has an incredible way and I can see that he's probably a very loved pastor
@seedelle3883 9 күн бұрын
That is beautiful. Love Jesus
@Emma_78 8 күн бұрын
I grew up in a church that believed closely to what Jinger believed but it wasn’t under IBLP. I feel like for so long I just followed rules out of fear and not because I loved God. That’s changed. I follow Him because I love Him, and nothing I do or don’t do will change that He loves me. When I realized how God viewed me, it changed my life!
@UnplannedPodcast 14 күн бұрын
Thank you Jinger and Jeremy for feeling safe enough to open up on our show!
@jenahoffman6671 14 күн бұрын
Jinger and Jill Dugger were my 2 favorite podcasts so far!!!
@michellecarter5456 14 күн бұрын
What happened to peace out dude?!?!
@mindysueloowho 13 күн бұрын
This has been my favourite episode of the podcast so far! Love Jinger & Jeremy ❤ & Matt & Abby too obviously 🙄 lol 😂
@veronicaofert2137 13 күн бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree, this has been one of the best episodes you have done. Kudos to you both for having this lovely couple and other members of the Duggar family on your podcast. Continue to stay true to yourselves. I have really enjoyed watching you evolve in your journey.
@shawnvillelife8311 13 күн бұрын
It seems as if Jinger and Jeremy have not been openly discussing their situation with their friends and family since I heard about Jill Duggar's situation through Jill Duggar's blog
@LisaR2392 14 күн бұрын
This is THE BEST interview that i have heard to date with Jinger and Jeremy!! All of the others seem so guarded and scripted. I feel like Jeremy spoke like a normal person and not professional preacher talk. Jinger seemed so much more relaxed and free to speak her mind as well. But everything was done so respectfully as well! Loved it!!
@lisajay9512 4 сағат бұрын
Yeah they both seemed relaxed and open here. It was refreshing.
@TimeTraveller2054 11 күн бұрын
Isn't it strange, her parents were so fearful of outside influences to the extent that there was no worldly music, no team sports, no school, but they invited total strangers into their home and gave them access to their children's rooms?
@RachaelNelson-df3qc 10 күн бұрын
The kids learned at home
@RachaelNelson-df3qc 10 күн бұрын
The kids learned at home
@RachaelNelson-df3qc 10 күн бұрын
The kids learned at home
@RachaelNelson-df3qc 10 күн бұрын
The kids learned at home
@rachelpowell2477 9 күн бұрын
Yeah and they put them on tv despite not letting the kids watch them
@rachelmedling8695 12 күн бұрын
Jinger is the embodiment of “Honor thy father and thy mother”. The respect she shows her parents while staying true to her experience is unreal. My jaw dropped when she said, “Well I can’t speak for my parents” and continued to drop as she kept pulling away from them talking about their parents and instead referring to “the system”.
@christinamanweiler3541 11 күн бұрын
If she does that she's very dispicable
@noorbohamad5796 11 күн бұрын
@@christinamanweiler3541you mean parents tend to be detestable jerks to their daughters like mine yet I’m basically stuck with em lucky me - sarcasm
@mrneveradullmoment 10 күн бұрын
Very different from Jill.
@labab1048 8 күн бұрын
@@mrneveradullmoment how so?
@janicescott6569 Күн бұрын
I agree with you! Very diplomatic and respectful. I’m sure her parent’s did lots of things right and she still loves and respects them enough not to speak badly of them. Maybe she has forgiven them.
@teresalomanno8916 14 күн бұрын
Honestly the Derick and Jill Dillard and Jinger and Jeremy have been my favorite guests so far! They are so wise and both speak in a way that is honoring but truth. Now I gotta read her book lol
@janafuller6174 14 күн бұрын
If you can you should listen on audible hearing both books from their voices! It’s so powerful!
@paigegillam 14 күн бұрын
Both books are very compelling, I read each in one day!!
@lizkt 13 күн бұрын
I think it was nice that jinger didn't say anything against Jill even though they went about things differently. Like with the money stuff. Although now that I'm thinking about it, jinger probably saw the consequences of Jill fighting the money and realized she didn't want to be shunned the way Jill had been.
@darlabingham6023 12 күн бұрын
@lzkt, That's because Jinger may still get some money from her dad when in need. She also didn't want to stand up to her Parents like Jill did! Jill stood up for herself !
@andreariebel8450 12 күн бұрын
I read it as a former IBLP child and it was terrific.
@amymcdonald3761 14 күн бұрын
God brought Jeremy to you for a reason. Theology based on fear is so scary. God is so good, stay in HIS word. You broke free!❤
@cathirodrigo2933 14 күн бұрын
AMEN 🙌🏻❤️ You took the words right out of mouth. ❤❤❤
@michellegamiz9549 14 күн бұрын
Amen
@sashacardenas377 14 күн бұрын
AMEN!!!!!!!🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️‼️
@cbpaddingtonbear2606 14 күн бұрын
I agree although sadly he and jinger are part of Macarthur church who has also used his theology to hurt so many including encouraging a woman to stay with a husband who was SA his own daughter. I hope they leave that church soon too and find one sound in practice and doctrine
@KentuckyNaNasLife 14 күн бұрын
Praise God 🙌🏻 ✨🙌🏻 , he knew What Jinger needed in her Life all along ✨😇✨❣️... They are a Powerful Couple for the younger generation to learn from 😉💭❣️... It 💔 when she cries 😢, that's so Sad n I 🚫 wait to read her book 📚 along with the others Who have been led to write ✍🏻 About their upbringing, I 🚫 say Childhood 🧐 tho Since they really weren't Children 😞❣️... They were in a fishbowl on cameras n raising their siblings n that's Alot 😢❣️... So Sad 😭..
@Elizabeth-490 9 күн бұрын
Jinger is the most healthy and mature of the siblings I have seen. She and Jeremy have their hearts and heads in the right place, motivated by love for God and others, not spite, not wealth, just love.
@aliceproctor8177 5 күн бұрын
I respect and admire Jill the most. Jinger is a close runner-up.
@nicolemangum5023 11 күн бұрын
Jeremy, you did such a good job presenting the Gospel in this show. Jinger, thank you for speaking so graciously about your family and for continually pointing back to the truth of Christ and how He has shown you the truth of his character. ❤
@minz55555 6 күн бұрын
I like that Jinger didn't allow Jeremy to talk over her the few times he did it. She's found her voice and it's lovely to see. Great couple.
@catherineenglei7172 2 күн бұрын
🙄
@monanana-04 4 күн бұрын
I love how fearless Jeremy is in sharing the truths of marriage and loyalty
@tiffythorpe 2 күн бұрын
This couple needs their own KZfaq channel teaching healthy, Godly dating/relationships. The world needs more of this content ❤
@Iluvchknz Күн бұрын
No they don’t. The world does not need this.
@AK5of8 14 сағат бұрын
@@Iluvchknz I agree. These Duggars need to stop talking and live their lives without monetizing it.
@seforaderecichei9438 13 күн бұрын
Jeremy you're spitting straight Gospel truths, man! Keep sharing the real and true Gospel unapologetically and bravely! May God keep you and sustain you and your family!
@ronimartin8073 14 күн бұрын
Jeremy taking this opportunity to preach on a podcast is amazing!! Great job Jeremy and jinger by sharing the gospel through your testimony!
@Emma-xm7hx 14 күн бұрын
yess!!! i love it 🥲🥲🥲
@yenyhenriquez54 14 күн бұрын
This 👏🏻
@hannahyoder3114 13 күн бұрын
My thoughts exactly!
@Sarah-sr8zw 11 күн бұрын
amen!!!
@amandachambers5728 10 күн бұрын
Yes! So well done!
@shifuimam 10 күн бұрын
The most delicious irony of the Duggar family is that, so far, every single daughter who has married has ended up defecting from the family ideology. Jim Bob chose his daughter's husbands, and their husbands lovingly and compassionately led them away from a cult of control, isolation, repression, and deception. Every single one. These girls were never treated like whole people by their own parents. They were treated like commodities, and their religion taught them to believe in their own depravity and lack of self-identity. They weren't people; they were vessels. Then they met young men who treated them with dignity and respect, who treated them like whole people. There's no going back to dehumanization once someone you love has affirmed you are, in fact, a whole person deserving of dignity and respect.
@fawnnelson3369 10 күн бұрын
Jessa still follows it.. You never see her in pants, she's doing the same thing her parents did.
@nanaronhano337 9 күн бұрын
@@fawnnelson3369She’s been wearing pants openly in her KZfaq videos.
@trishabaran1521 9 күн бұрын
Well said !
@cmil1051 9 күн бұрын
I think Joy Anna is pretty immersed in the culture still
@tammyblankenship6786 9 күн бұрын
Joy isn't. She and Austin attend a different church too.
@karid.3547 11 күн бұрын
I just have to stop in the middle of this video to say AMEN!!!! I love that you are preaching about the freedom that we have in Christ and how God sees us the way He sees His son as blameless, righteous, and pure. Not because of anything that we've done but because of what Christ has done. What a witness and so thankful that this platform is being used to bring God glory!!! My favorite episode thus far.
@jpaulis292 9 күн бұрын
Agreed!!
@SusieQZee 8 күн бұрын
Yes & Amen!
@katienovak3249 14 күн бұрын
I am so happy for Jinger. She found a such a kind guy to share her life with!
@ksp1i0k1e2 13 күн бұрын
This is the only interview I’ve watched start to finish. I love hearing from genuine individuals who are not out to gain recognition or attention like many (not all) of the mainstream tic tockers. Jinger and Jeremy have pure intentions and have really wise insight they are able to convey to this generation. Thanks for having these guests on your platform Matt & Abby.
@ggmcsassy 11 күн бұрын
I remember watching the show and thinking "Jinger is going to break free from this someday!" What a blessing it is to see her love for Jesus, her respect for her parents and her complete freedom from legalism. Great interview!❤
@joannaprevost426 6 күн бұрын
It does make me think about how her life was like the movie , " The Truman show" as Truman starts to figure out things for himself and realises he is on a set, and we walks out the door to Free himself. ❤
@ngulubeprincess5009 12 күн бұрын
Wow, this is what marriage must do for two people. Very moved by their decision to remain respectful to the duggar mum and dad.
@meganbaril7847 11 күн бұрын
So glad they respected and protected her parents who protected her sexual abuser brother.
@JML542 11 күн бұрын
a GOOD marriage can do this for two people.
@kimberlysmith6317 Сағат бұрын
@@meganbaril7847That’s not what’s happening. Sad that you aren’t understanding.
@kathryntroyer6503 11 күн бұрын
So much respect for this couple! I grew up Amish and leaving that culture was hard because I loved my people.
@Sunnydreamer1470 9 күн бұрын
Then why leave?
@imaginarylight17 11 күн бұрын
The way she doesn’t say Josh’s name but makes sure to say Jana and johns. Mad respect.
10 күн бұрын
I noticed that too. He’s such a disgusting monster to those girls.
@joyjohnson8645 9 күн бұрын
Who is Josh? Who is Jana & John? Curious on the context of this comment as I do not know their story.
@TikiTube1991 9 күн бұрын
@@joyjohnson8645Josh is the eldest brother who assaulted Jinger and a few of the other sisters
9 күн бұрын
@@joyjohnson8645 the oldest brother that’s in prison for child pornography.
@JennAmazed 9 күн бұрын
@@joyjohnson8645Josh was abusive to many of the girls in the family. And is currently in prison for child porn. The others are more siblings. They all have J names
@wandaallbright1957 14 күн бұрын
This was a very thought-provoking conversation and I appreciate how Matt and Abby sat down with them and let them speak for themselves.
@melody.rose. 12 күн бұрын
They are in SUCH a good, healthy place & relationship with God now. I am so, so in awe listening to them speaking about their life and relationship with the Bible and their faith. I am so glad they have found their place.
@cindy2252 4 күн бұрын
I attended a "Basic Life Principals" seminar in 1972, my senior year in high school. It was held in a packed coliseum. I actually found the notebook in my hope chest a few years ago. I was shocked to find out that was the religious sect the Duggar family is in. Everybody went, it was pushed in all the Seattle high schools and "Young Life". I keep it, planning to read through it someday. No thank you, however, I do love the Duggar children. I've enjoyed seeing Jinger blossom into the beautiful woman God wants her to be through Jesus our Lord and Savior. The Lord blessed her with a wonderful husband.🙏🏻✝
@claytonandkatherine 14 күн бұрын
I grew up around Jinger’s family and she truly is such a genuine and sweet human! I loved this episode and hearing more about her life and testimony, great interview Matt and Abby! 🤍
@darlabingham6023 12 күн бұрын
Are you Jingers age ?? Or are you older?? Are all the kids the same ?Do You like her Parents ?
@claytonandkatherine 11 күн бұрын
@@darlabingham6023 I’m actually quite a bit younger than Jinger. I’ve never had a bad experience with any of the Duggars, they’ve always been so genuine and kind to me and my family! They’re honestly such a sweet family.
@valerieking2592 7 күн бұрын
I’ve read over the years many times the folks that knew the Duggar family or would see them around town how genuine and friendly they were. 😊
@claytonandkatherine 7 күн бұрын
@@valerieking2592 Yes! Always friendly and extremely kind. 🥹
@valerieking2592 7 күн бұрын
@@claytonandkatherine I do think there’s something to be said having so many children that as far as I know only one walked away from God. That’s all I know though from the years I watched them. Michele even though she’s a little younger than I am taught me to be more soft spoken to others in my life. I still fail at times but she was a huge example to me as the kind of godly woman I wanted to be. 🥹
@bethany8828 14 күн бұрын
I love that Matt and Abby allowed them to share freely regarding their faith and beliefs.
@themayfamily4869 13 күн бұрын
They share the same beliefs on Christianity cause I believe they were raised with Christian influence by their parents
@shannonking1096 11 күн бұрын
Jeremy is amazing. Imagine him counseling couples and having to jump through these ridiculous twisted hoops
@madisynpannier707 14 күн бұрын
I loved how Jinger didn’t even say the oldest brother name. His name doesn’t even deserve to be said out loud!
@trishabaran1521 9 күн бұрын
You’re so right! Well said !
@karenseay2225 14 күн бұрын
I have been a Christian for a long time. Yet. I still struggle with how God sees me because I know I am so imperfect. I so needed to hear this. Thank you, Jinger and Jeremy, for being so transparent and willing to share. Thank you, Matt and Abby, for having them on.
@noorbohamad5796 12 күн бұрын
We’re All imperfect doesn’t really matter perfection as far as I’m concerned just doesn’t really exist in this world
@K8theGR8theGIGGLER 14 күн бұрын
i love how jeremy lets her talk and tell her story. always watched the duggars growing up and i really admire jinger for her testimony & keeping her children off social media
@leahbrening1101 11 күн бұрын
The Truman show being the first movie ever to watch is actually amazing. That was a good choice hubby.
@dorothyturner1948 8 күн бұрын
I haven’t watched the whole thing yet but Jinger and Jeremy are just so intelligent and thoughtful it is so refreshing to hear them reflect with candor and care. What a reflection of the genuine love of God.
@sadiecherish9509 14 күн бұрын
I really respect and admire how Jinger doesn’t ever dishonor or put down her parents or family even after reviewing how she grew up in the IBLP system. I see her heart and appreciate her level of understanding for her parents mindset and intentions. It’s also so admirable that she didn’t throw the baby out with the bath water and dismiss her relationship with Jesus. I’m amazed at her resolve and dedication in this journey away from the IBLP system and the grace she has exhibited along every step of the way.
@cbpaddingtonbear2606 14 күн бұрын
Her dad chose her pedo brother over his daughters multiple times. I'm not saying they can't love their parents. But they are clearly conflict avoidance that's ok if what they want but it's not superior to speaking the truth to someone who is practising evil. Jim Bob covered up Josh's crimes and tried to lie about them. The Bible says everything done in the dark will be brought to light. Some conflict is also Biblical.
@julietted8086 14 күн бұрын
This was beautifully put 💗
@taras6578 13 күн бұрын
You need to do an interview with Jinger and Jill together.
@noorbohamad5796 12 күн бұрын
@@taras6578 I guess I’m just curious if like with Jeremy and Derick or without Jeremy and Derick
@crystal9301 14 күн бұрын
I had OCD as a teenager, “if I do this will something bad happen?” It sounds like they essentially give hundreds of kids OCD.
@nesser1352 14 күн бұрын
Religious ocd is called scrupulosity
@mommab1969 12 күн бұрын
True OCD is not a curable disorder, it is treatable with behaviour modification and exposure therapy, as well as medication and counselling. One can have tendencies of OCD but not be diagnosed. Scrupulosity is being overly concerned that something one does or thinks might be a sin or violation of religious or moral doctrine.
@kenzieq1 12 күн бұрын
Religious scrupulously
@r.bellbottom8964 2 күн бұрын
All religions and cults do that-try Catholicism on for size! It was all about be good or you will burn in hell (albeit not always that blatant). Guilt to control.
@4lliemac 13 күн бұрын
Just bought the book after listening to this episode! The wisdom and humility Jinger has is so different and unique. And Jeremy's leadership and understanding and probably patience with the whole process is so incredible.
@scgraves98 11 күн бұрын
His comments about marriage and love is spot on. So many relationships are so superficial, and so many people don’t understand how love is a choice
@yeehawtomahawk 10 күн бұрын
I could choose to love anyone!
@chloewilson7608 14 күн бұрын
I grew up homeschooled with the IBLP background and going to what I called “homeschool camp” which was the Big Sandy conference. In 2018 we started going to the Duggars house every Friday, such a sweet family and I made great friends, we had to wear skirts at Big Sandy and their house which we didn’t have to do in our day to day lives (which was so lukewarm and confusing) my parents say “chew the meet, spit out the bones” (I do not agree with) but long story short. I saw an interview about Jinger releasing her book and she and Jeremy speaking on it, and I completely had a melt down because everything I had known felt like a lie. So my husband surprised me with her book and it completely changed my life. I’m beyond thankful Jinger decided to do what she did. And now have an even closer relationship with God than ever because I’m not scared anymore. The teachings were absolutely confusing and my family/parents still are teaching it. So still have to navigate through that. And still disentangling some things step by step. But I have faith that God has a plan. Thank you Matt and Abby for having them on! I couldn’t wait to watch!
@ggmcsassy 11 күн бұрын
So glad you found your way out of that! The "chew the meat, spit out the bones" CAN be a good way to see life but then again, I can't imagine making my family attend IBLP, wear skirts and "act the part" and pretend .... that would be SO confusing to children! 😥 My dad went to a few IBLP conferences in the 70's but ultimately saw it for what it was. We had a beautifully illustrated book with short stories in it that was a Gothard book and my dad would read to us here and there but would come to a part that was "off" and would say, "okay that's weird.." and skip it. LOL The key is to know scripture and only use that as a measuring stick to all other teachings and ideas!
@333nanette 5 күн бұрын
If I’m recalling correctly… she wrote the book especially for ppl like you. 💕 So glad to read you comment.
@jennmohammed09 12 күн бұрын
Jinger and Jeremy have quickly become some of my favorite "influencers". They are both so well spoken and truly seem like genuine, good people. ❤
@tessar.6360 11 күн бұрын
Jinger and Jeremy seem like such a wonderful, loving and level-headed couple!! I give Jinger so much credit for leaving the IBLP - which must have been incredibly hard but only proves how strong she really is. Jeremy seems like a very supportive husband!!
@tashintomorrowland 10 күн бұрын
1:22:09 love how she didn’t even say her “oldest brothers” name 😮💨 she was so smooth with that, good work Jinger… he’s not even worth naming 👏 Happy to see her and Jeremy doing well and not sharing their kids online… they are FREE indeed ❤
@vickigulley9479 14 күн бұрын
Jeremy, I love your passion for Christ and how you are ministering to so many just through this conversation.
@Sielleis 14 күн бұрын
I loved this episode. I just found out YESTERDAY that a friend I've known for years grew up with the Duggars, went to Bible studies at their house, and played broomball with them as kids. I knew she grew up in a conservative Christian community in Arkansas but I had no idea that she knew them personally. The stories she has are incredible. She said she wants to read Jinger's and Jill's books but hasn't quite gotten to a place in healing from religious trauma that she feels ready without being triggered
@Mary4579 10 күн бұрын
I read both Jinger and Jill’s books. I’m a child abuse survivor so I understand your friend. Prayers
@vintagepanj 10 күн бұрын
I'm glad they touched on the fact that reading the Bible requires learning and diving into context, historical and author/audience. The Bible was written at a different time, in a different culture, and those influences are present as the Bible was written by men. I also learned what unconditional love was when I had my daughter. The way I saw and felt about her, I was able to connect to how God sees and feels about me. I have so much more peace and joy in my relationship with God now, with that understanding.
@metonya7036 7 күн бұрын
I just love how she is handling the situation. No blame. They raised great children
@Disneylovercharity 14 күн бұрын
From what I hear from Jill and Jinger, I find it admirable how much they respect their parents and realize that they just wanted the best for them. They give them a lot of grace, and I feel like we should all learn from that.
@patricaowens 11 күн бұрын
Well said.
@leahindisney2822 14 күн бұрын
Loved their perspective so much. I was raised in Christianity and had a lot of fear even around those teachings and Jeremy's breakdown of the word is truly eye opening! Love it.
@joyceadair3003 11 күн бұрын
Raised with healthy Christianity. -Knowing the Lord Jesus was my savior. But none of this weird stuff where it controlled your life completely. You’ve got to use a lot of common sense when learning about the Bible and a relationship with the Lord.
@maolor1603 14 күн бұрын
Absolutely love how respectful ginger and Jeremy are. Great example ❤
@JentasticVintage26 12 күн бұрын
Wow, when she talked about the attitudes in the IBLP surrounding adoption and generational curses, that really broke my heart. I can’t believe people actually think like that. 😢 I have two sons who came to our family through the miracle of adoption and I’m just so heartbroken that people actually believe that way. 💔
@akferren1 8 күн бұрын
I was shocked! I’m also a mom via adoption and my son changed my life and is the biggest blessing to ever happen to me
@Stellalovely1 14 күн бұрын
I love how well Jeremy communicates. It’s so interesting to hear him talk.
@ellyne3863 14 күн бұрын
I understand Jinger's parents have their issues, but man did they raise a lovely woman. Jinger is beautiful, well spoken, seems to have a heart of gold and is just an all around lovely human being. Among a lot of wrongs, they certainly did something right.
@cbpaddingtonbear2606 14 күн бұрын
Childre in the IBLP also largely raise themselves. I know this because I was raised with a lot of those teachings. Raising children is rules and fear by and large not actually lovingly shaping the person. I'm not saying her parents did everything wrong but not everything about who Jinger is today is due to her parents. She herself said she was very fearful and a different persons years ago.
@jmcast3195 14 күн бұрын
Agree
@TinaTomassen 13 күн бұрын
Some people are lovely despite their parents.
@Jenny-ls7hf 12 күн бұрын
Really? She is meek, weak and soft in her words. And still believes in a bunch of nonsense hogwash. It’s just slightly different hogwash.
@Jenny-ls7hf 12 күн бұрын
You can tell the guy is more cocky and confident, he seems like a know it all. and she’s more weak. She’s pretty uneducated, which isn’t all her fault since her parents never sent her to school, ever, but she seems the type to be a follower
@SarahBenfield-mn4tj 13 күн бұрын
So thankful for the power of Gods Word. Truth really does set us free! 🙌🏻
@lilystilo710 12 күн бұрын
This show highlights of how smart Ginger is. Also Jeremey is a very smart man.
@katarinagarza4362 14 күн бұрын
I really pray this planted a seed.
@erb611 14 күн бұрын
Planted a seed in who?
@mariahl.2052 14 күн бұрын
I so agree!!!!!! ❤❤❤
@aj25055 14 күн бұрын
@@erb611her siblings and whoever else grew up that way.
@mariahl.2052 14 күн бұрын
@@aj25055I think we’re both implying that it planted a seed in Matt and Abby’s mind, heart + soul!
@jennjoy4108 13 күн бұрын
@@mariahl.2052 Abby and Matt are Christians!
@autumnweldon7314 14 күн бұрын
Jinger, thank you so much for talking about the fear that was engrained in you by these teachings. I also grew up in a church school with similar teachings and constantly lived in fear that I would do something wrong and something bad would happen. It is still hard for me at times to overcome the thoughts and beliefs that were taught to me at a young age.
@kate1356 11 күн бұрын
Jinger and her husband are very smart, well-spoken people.
@jenshirley 14 күн бұрын
Jeremy and Jinger you were very well spoken, mature, and gave your message in such an honoring way! Thank you for speaking truth and saying the hard things to help others. Well done faithful servants!
@joowen8542 14 күн бұрын
I loved this podcast! The way Jinger and Jeremy talked about their faith and the changing of their faith was beautiful!
@meganthompson7696 2 күн бұрын
Amazing couple all around, grew up watching the show. The amount of respect he still has for her family and her, and is letting her grow… The way he talks about her 🥹
@larrierogers940 20 сағат бұрын
Jinger is so beautiful… and you can see that beauty is inside and out. They seem like such a great couple.
@kathy3178 10 күн бұрын
I really appreciate how you let your guests do most of the talking. Also how you didn't bring up all that stuff with Jinger's oldest brother. I really got to hear Jinger and Jeremy's voices.
@vickykulig5080 9 күн бұрын
They also did the same thing with Jill and Derrick. Ultimately it’s not about their oldest brother, it’s them speaking their truth, plus I think they’ve been asked about their oldest brother enough, and it’s emotionally too much.
@ymborges 5 күн бұрын
What happened with the oldest brother? Sorry for asking, I’m lost.
@vickykulig5080 4 күн бұрын
@@ymborgeshe is in prison for possessing CSAM
@maggielarkin6121 15 күн бұрын
Im so happy that you guys are so supportive of your guses so that they feel comfortable opening up love yall podcast ♥️♥️
@optimusmike8680 14 күн бұрын
Bruh they don’t even realize how privileged a fortunate they even are hope ur able to realize that a grow up like they need to !
@sophigrace8680 13 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, Matt & Abby for having Jinger and Jeremy on! It’s amazing that even after all the IBLP trauma, they still have relationships with Jesus! It was sooo good when Jeremy talked about Jesus’s blood covering everything. No matter where you are in life, no one is too far gone for the love of Jesus. Thanks :) I loved hearing people not afraid to open up about their faith!
@karlabateman234 12 күн бұрын
He really liked and accepted her and her world! He did a lot to be with her. Huge props to him. They seem normal to have gone through all that.
@Jules8294 9 күн бұрын
Jeremy said it best, Gothard kept people entrapped in fear….enslaved. Jinger is such a well spoken and articulate, strong woman
@brynneagar9491 14 күн бұрын
What’s sad is that Jinger is essentially saying that if she makes a big deal about not getting paid from the show her parents will disown her. That’s just so messed up.
@cbpaddingtonbear2606 14 күн бұрын
She knows what happened to Jill. Sadly money clearly matters to Jim Bob more than his own children
@laurat7324 12 күн бұрын
I understand why they didn't push it but I am so glad that Derick and Jill did. (Probably owe that to Derick more than Jill but...) People need to know that those kids were making money for the show and not being given any of it. And it's wrong. I really respect Jill and Jinger both even with different approaches.
@AlexisGlover-yp6il 11 күн бұрын
I don't think that's what she's saying at all. Though I can see how it can be perceived that way. People are driven by different things. Her sister pushing for the money is not wrong, because she deserves to be paid. But some people are genuinely not driven by money. I think what Jinger is saying is that if there's any chance she can maintain a relationship with her family, she will do it. But it's on her terms. I think both sisters are awesome and went about it so awesome.
@RachaelNelson-df3qc 10 күн бұрын
Kids parts was to placed in A trust fund
@margenn3889 6 күн бұрын
@@RachaelNelson-df3qcI don't think there is a trust fund!
@Mumma5boyz 13 күн бұрын
Really good interview. Jinger seems way more natural, compared to her formal tv interviews for her book. She's relaxed here, and really opened up. Great to see.
@therealsmileymailey 7 күн бұрын
I know Jinger and Jeremy personally and they’re this genuine and kind hearted in real life.
@landrumfam1231 14 күн бұрын
I've always liked Jinger She was one of my favorites from the show. I'm glad she got out of that life.
@jenniwilliams3295 13 күн бұрын
I remember thinking she's going to be the one that rebels. Not the first but she definitely did. Thank goodness each of them that gets out of it.
@jdoyle7137 14 күн бұрын
My brain is blown already just from the first 20 minutes
@annw1395 Сағат бұрын
Jinger is so well-spoken; and Jeremy, too. So good at expressing their feelings, reasons, and faith. I'm so glad they found each other!
@MicheleTerry-xe7zp 5 күн бұрын
“Jim Bob” is all about control! His control!
@vickidavenport164 14 күн бұрын
Watched Duggars for years. This was my favorite interview.
@gigimarr8228 14 күн бұрын
So happy u guys invited Jeremy n Jinger!!! Loved how u guys let them share n made them so comfortable that Jinger felt safe in the conversation to really let her emotions release. Absolutely wonderful episode!! I think u guys could be great friends with them!!
@jenydawn 12 күн бұрын
Jeremy is a great speaker and Jinger is so genuine and kind. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable.
@elisa-beary 7 күн бұрын
Love them, she is SO brave & he just seems like the most genuine, respectful guy. They both seemed to help each other grow in different ways. I hope to meet someone that brings that level of calm to my life & helps me to grow in my faith. I am SO happy to see where her journey took her after being put through so much, all while in front of a camera growing up.
@lauracatesduncan7498 11 күн бұрын
I used to watch the show, but eventually stopped. I have not yet read Jinger's book, but will eventually. I haven't made an effort to keep up with the Duggar family. But I am SO impressed with Jeremy and Jinger's maturity - both human and spiritual. Couples who counsel with him/them before and during married life are fortunate. I'm 66. Married the first time at barely 19. Married second time at age 46. I wish I'd had someone to walk me through the many topics they mentioned in Mr. Duggar's questionnaire before both marriages!!
@rsmith2812 4 күн бұрын
Jinger, I am so glad that you found the truth in God's Word...and it set you free
@hannahc8803 12 күн бұрын
I have so much respect for Jinger and her bravery. I grew up watching the Duggars and was a part of a form of IBLP and traditionalism. It is so comforting to know that we are not alone with our own healing journeys. Love to you all
@maddygvanlifer435 8 күн бұрын
What a beautiful testimony!!! I love this story. I've followed the Duggars since they first aired and watched these kids grow up. I prayed for them to see the truth in the scriptures. God is so good. God bless them. Please have them back sometime soon
@Amanda-ru6xe 14 күн бұрын
Jinger and Jeremy are so well spoken and seem like genuinely good, sweet people. I'm not a religious person, but I enjoyed listening to their story and hearing their perspectives on religion. Interesting episode!
@susanb.1772 14 күн бұрын
This is one of my most favorite podcasts you’ve ever done! I loved hearing Jinger and Jeremy explaining first-hand what their experiences were.
@ilTHfeaa 10 күн бұрын
as someone that grew up watching x kids and counting, i love watching all these interviews with jinger and jessa. i wanna read all the books they’ve written and i am so happy that they have gotten away from that environment and i’m glad they realized that it wasn’t a healthy relationship. I liked the show growing up bc i always wanted a big family and i wanted a ton of siblings and such but i hated the fact that the parents were so strict and that they couldn’t hold hands with anyone until they were already like engaged. even at like 8 years old i was like “thats a bit much”
@jessicapicolla5899 12 күн бұрын
Having a daughter like Jinger Is winning the lottery of Life. ❤
@shawnvillelife8311 15 күн бұрын
Whenever I think of a title, I think of books, movies, magazines, or even TV programs that I am able to relate to at the same time
@allisonbaker5198 14 күн бұрын
Such a great episode!!! Thank you for giving Jinger & Jeremy an amazing platform to share their testimonies 🤍
@pomme800 9 күн бұрын
A very thoughtful conversation with Jeremy and Jinger...a quiet steadfastness which honors their beliefs and the courage it took Jinger to write her book ...much respect
@MYB_004 10 күн бұрын
I am so glad to hear Ginger speak her own truth. You can tell these two have really put the work and love into their relationship.
@emilyschillenberg4034 14 күн бұрын
Wow. Thank you Jeremy and Jinger for sharing the Gospel in such a beautiful way! Fantastic speakers, God bless you two for talking about Jesus so openly, especially on a platform that doesn’t talk about religion. God is truth ❤
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