It’s not nice to be cheated on. But god provides grace to forgive

How can I not forgive her when he's already forgiven me... Seeing ourselves the way God sees us is so so important. Praise God for forgiveness!

What a sad thing to see these stone throwing comments. Praise God that His grace is bigger than our mistakes! He can restore the most broken people and messes hallelujah!

I was depressed in bed for 2 days after a boyfriend cheated, I can only imagine a spouse... Only Jesus can give you peace of mind in situations like this.

Yeah, my "Christian" ex (who I was engaged too) once talked about how she has a guy friend at work. She almost went into a rage when I told her its not okay to have guy friends, especially if I don't know who they are.

Amazing husband. I don’t know if I could forgive like that. He’s an inspiration.

This reminds I have broken my relationship God many times but He is always asking to come back with open arms. Where can we find this love except with JESUS

Its all about the grace of God he forgives us.all we need is to forgive others...what r wonderful testimony.God bless ur family..

This woman does not sound like she is sorry for the pain she caused her husband or the other man's wife.

God help and grant us the power to forgive in Jesus name

Good thing her marriage didn't blow up. She would have simply said " I cheated because he was abusive and didn't meet my emotional needs. And he was starting to abuse the kids. ". The church would have rallyed around her and got her free legal help. He would have been served a restraining order and had no legal right to his kids until the state ironed it out . He would have cashed in his 401k to fight for his children, but after 18 months and 50k in legal fees he would have ran out of money and tapped out. We all would be saying" another deadbeat dad. " Think this sounds like a fairy tale? It's happening all around you right now. 11 billion dollar industry. 11 billion I said. . I am not her judge , but when she says " I didn't have a good marriage modeled to me " and " God you have to stop me from my intimacy with this guy because I can't " these are red flags of a narcissist. People who are sorry usually don't sneak around for a year lying and cheating because their conscious doesn't let them . They care about their spouse . Narcissists don't care. Most abusers are hiding in the church , of course , with stellar public images. Of course, they can do the most damage to christians there and families. Poor guy has a kid now. Cash and prizes soon for her. And maybe the aforementioned abuse stories. She may be feeling very powerful that she was able to cheat , and he stayed. And she even got to play the victim subtlety in this video with those two comments. Google " duping delight" to know what she would get from this . Read " healing from hidden abuse" to learn all about this growing problem that is unknown to most of us. And you will know the playbook ( projection , reverse projection , baiting and bashing , trauma bonding , mirroring, etc. )

The most important step you can do if you are having any kind of marriage problems which is to surrender your heart and life to the greatest Potter and say, “Lord, change me, first! I am willing to fight for our marriage Your way!” (from Rejoice Marriage Ministries)

This is such a beautiful testimony of that with God ALL things are possible.

If u can't forgive others, God will not forgive u either... A true Christian should be happy when someone has forgiven the other and not telling someone not to forgive.. Unforgiveness is of the devil.. 1 John 1:8.. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.. 9.. If we confess our sins He is faithful and just and He will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness... 10.. If we claim we have not sinned, we make Him out to be a liar and His Word is not in us..

OH. So she got caught. Did NOT confess out of her OWN volition. She is so full of BS.

I wonder what happened to the other couple!?😬

The one thing about her narrative that stands out were the progressive steps of emotional and eventually physical betrayal of the marital commitment. The warning signs were glaring. They were "Like roommates, they weren't sleeping in the same room etc.

I needed this video. I needed this today. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ

I try to warn someone that I love very much against the connection with the opposite sex... This is exactly why I can't except that it's okay for the opposite sex to establish connections when connected with someone you say that you love. I can't imagine her leading worship and in leadership and doing such a thing... May the body of Christ be fully aware of wolves in sheep's clothing... there is nothing God can't forgive but the devastating effects even hearing her testimony is ongoing.she doesnt deserve him

God help and forgive us all!

I cant believe this woman, constantly lying about her affair and yet is working ang calling herself a Christian. what a hypocrite!

It's funny how in all the other videos of male infidelity, every comment is like "what a great testimony about resumption and forgiveness" but in this video where the woman cheats, everyone is like "once a cheater always a cheater" or "she is so lucky to have him as her husband 🙄🙄🙄 All these hypocrite men

God really restore this man and touch his heart . Whew! 🤦‍♀️Wow !

The bible says you can divorce if they cheat so just divorce

How does church leaders have personal text messages? Or was it a church cell phone????

I love God he's a Forgiving father !

She got busted, and not much of a choice but to confess. Yeah nice easy pass

there is a passage in the bibie that you cant divorce your wife unless for adultary,...divorce this kinda woman does not mean you re being unforgiving...

The highest level of betrayal. Dude shoul've moved on from that. Plenty of actual good women out there.

Surprise pregnancy? DNA test please

That is so sad looks like she had three children while she was cheating on her husband, I believe in grace and redemption, but it’s obvious she has no judgment I don’t think she ever will

I'd be done with her. She doesn't seem to regret it.

When one understands how God loves us.....it is hard not to forgive others.

Listening to all these stories really edifies me. But i think these tesimonies are meant to help us not make these same mistakes. I'm a young lady soon to be married in a couple of months, to a man i love somuch and who loves me back. Problem is we almost never agree, we both are christians and love the Lord but we're always arguing. This is really getting to me. I know that he's the man for me but how do i stop all this arguments thats drifting us apart?

I love my man with my whole heart so the adultery never enters into my mind

the focus should be on how the guy forgave and took her back, the lady seems unbothered...

Only the Lord can restore the broken hearts

A great testimony (despite the many nasty critical comments below). Seemed like she was perhaps too young and had pretty low self esteem at the start of marriage. She made some truly dumb decisions to get into a 1 yr affair AT CHURCH!. However, too many marriages run into similar trouble (after the honeymoon) due to unrealistic expectations and the lack of adequate communication / relationship skills. Sadly, people need to acquire these skills before marriage, not after the divorce. The husband seemed to be a true, forgiving christian man, which was likely crucial in saving the marriage. Am also glad that the wife was able to acknowledge her bad behavior and restore her family relationship. I assume they successfully worked things out??. Too bad we never get to hear if these relationships do persist. Are they still together???

I'll forgive you but since the relationship us built on trust I'm done.

Forgiving is easy, but the marriage would most definitely be over.

I always wonder about the effects of cheating in marriage on the children especially after the cheater is exposed and where there is an std like HIV.

I know I’m supposed to forgive, but I wouldn’t take back an unfaithful spouse. Ever

How can a dedicated christian wife be in a sexual relationship for a year? So it's okay to be an adulterer, to commit a sin knowingly then to forgive and forget. She dishonoured the marriage covenant. Betrayal, adultery and deceit, hmmmm

Hope yes, new and different? Only in your head. U can't undo the past. The guy still looks really hurt.

soooooooo she got caught. and what is a church doing with phn records?

Would - Could it be real if you were not scared ?

Glad you and your family made God's love is amazing may I ask what happen to the other couple

How do I forgive him after what he did to our daughter at the age of 11 and 15

Yes you can redeem yourself and you have to forgive the cheater but staying with her I find it detrimental to my person.

God can restore ❤❤❤

The modern church equals turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness.

Once a cheater, always a cheater

a cheater is always a cheater if the person finds an occasion

For a year ?! maybe i dont know what love is but i dont think i need to, to see what its not ...

A church teacher involved in missions - after a YEAR in the affair the light bulb came on? Are you kidding? Her husband must have been living in his own world to not notice. Shame on him, shame on her.

Well, men do it all the time. Wake up when you neglect your WIFE.

Just get divorced