Huli 1234 say it again for the people in the back.

KEdGeUNLIMITED they miss understood what Kim was saying

Huli 1234 yes ! You're right finding someone attractive isn't the same as a full crush. A full crush is the potential for something else to happen

Huli 1234 Exactly!!! Being attracted to someone and having a crush on someone is different.

Huli 1234 cari tried to lump it together.

And this is coming from a kid with “Gaming” in his name right?

@@KidBlessings and this is coming from ultravegitogodkiller4742 right?

@@WolfvineGaming It’s coming from your father himself, aka me.

@@KidBlessings lmao so you changed your name

@@KidBlessingshe’s speaking the truth u hurt 😂

Stop trying to sound smart.

@@KidBlessings stop putting other people down because you are insecure with yourself.

@@RGE_Music Nobody is insecure. I’m attacking you because you are trying to sound smart as if you know what you’re talking about, when you clearly don’t. Common sense

@@KidBlessings Sounds good man. This is not a battle worth fighting for me. Have a blessed weekend!

well if there's an emotional connection, that's way beyond crush. A crush can be as simple as thinking a girl at the gym is cute, even though you don't really know the person. The grass isn't always greener

Whaaaaaaaat

Amen!

@@gamblerino8983 nope! A crush is like an uncontrollable attraction, anyone can be attractive. Hell… I can even say I can accept when another men is attractive, but I can assure you I’ve never had o ever will have a crush with a man. So they are completely different things

@@sakthirajini6104 two years later they got out of relationship.

Yeah so both of you are scumbags then right? Pretty much

I have exactly the same problem and need help. I really don't know what to do. It's not like the other person is an option. We both don't want to waste our long term relationship. But I find it so hard to connect again with my current partner T.T

How is the relationship going?

​@@candice446Good question. I wanna know know 👀😆

Abigail Goliath exactly

Why i stay single. It seems most women got an eye for other men anyway. I rather not deal with the constant emotional stress.

Abigail Goliath ct th b.5guy

Abigail Goliath Like a snowball rolling down a steep hill

You sound like you’ve done it before. Don’t make the same mistakes too much cus that is sorta the definition of insanity.

What about if the man doesn’t tell the other woman that he’s in a relationship already and lies to her

@@gdtgdt1779 What if the woman lies?

Max House ??????

Max House same thing?

@@gdtgdt1779 It all depends on whose ox is being gored.

Demetrius Davis right

Demetrius Davis If she does that then it’s a guarantee that she will cheat. 100%. I have been in a relationship like that before in my early teens years any then in my early college years. She will say things that she loves you and such but then fantasize about another guy that you know and that is not far from you, talk about him, talk about how some tv star looks just like him and worst when you’re showering together, she will some out for like 5 to 10 min out of nowhere in the shower! Like I will finish 10 to 15 min sooner just because she stood there zoning out. Oh, and that lady spend times telling me all men are cheater and I’m not exception (even thou I have never spelt with another girl during our time together)..... Of course she ended up cheating with the guy and of course I hated her guts for that and the relationship ended. So yeah. Finding someone attractive is okay but once she gets into that zone where she fantasizes about him, there is almost 100% certainty that she will cheat if he actually tried and gave his 5% effort which is RIDICULOUS.

RASHTG it’s ok man, not all women are cheaters. I’ve been with my gf for 6-7 years.

RASHTG girls can have a crush and not cheat

Demetrius Davis 👍🏽👍🏽 You definitely sound emotionally mature. Not being sarcastic.

Of course we can say that about ourselves but that doesn't mean your partner will be loyal... worst case situation obviously

Your partners action can cause cheating and prevent cheating most the time. There are situations where someone has an issue or they are not serious about the relationship.

Chiara - Culture With Coco yes you can all you have to do is be willing to do all they ask for.. most men cheat because they dont get what they want however there are others out there that will...

I get what you're trying to say but seriously, a relationship is a two way street. I don't see too many ladies in this day and age jumping through hoops to satisfy their man in every way he wants but I would also like to know what the man is doing to satisfy all my needs. I really dislike how this topic is put onto women. Every relationship is different so there is no such thing as the answer to this question. I just always ask myself in what equation does emotionally or physically cheating better the relationship or yourself as a person (Male or Female). Maybe some people just want out or to be caught, or just like the thrill of the hunt. What I always find sad is that a lot of women would take a man back after cheating.I am not trying to be insensitive since I do know that people make their mistakes and sometimes it is worth fighting for the relationship instead of throwing it away. I just don't get how you can ever be 100% secure in your relationship at whatever stage it is if you know this information. But really, how many men would open their arms to you if you cheated on them. I can promise you they will be running for the hills and never looking back.

Chiara - Culture With Coco you are right. That's the natural and biological difference between men and women. Don't listen to the feminism narrative who tend to put men and women on the same piedestal.

YES, YESSSS, Thank you!

Shalana Thomas well said

Yes the minute you start picturing yourself in the relationship with someone else if I find out that's the Minute I'll be gone.

Actually fantasizing about sleeping with someone is NOT the same as crushing on them

Well said and Agreed!!!

Ok so they should gone cheat than ...lol

@@Mslovely42 So they shd get their acts together and stop cheating in their heads. Before doing sth even worse .

Truth.. Desire + Opportunity = many mistakes.

Well if I already committed the sin in my head I may as well.........

That’s true it’s just common sense. When your going todo something you think about it first.

Ehhhh both are pretty bad Lmao

I agree totally...I definitely have a crush on Ms Champion but would never act on it as she is in a relationship.

EXACTLY

Exactly, you can also have a crush with someone you work with. You just don’t act on it. Champion was saying it was bad to have a crush with done at the office. It’s not along as you don’t act on it. You could be working at the same office as champion and you think I want have a crush.

exactly...u can have a crush on someone and NEVER act on it because your in a committed relationship.

Curlen M exactly. I don’t see how I can control who I crush on. If I do nothing about it, then we good. Sometimes it’s a past crush and sometimes it’s a new crush. But can’t nobody control that.

Mandy X'O-twod 😂😂😭

HAaaaaaaaa!!!!!

Amanda CLBN So wise

😂😂😂😂

Lol

Very wrong. You can be perfectly happy and madly in love and still have strong sexual feelings (crush) for someone else. Most humans are capable of having erotic feelings for more than 1 person, monogamy doesn't come naturally for most of us.

People are complicated and they can have crushes and be attracted to more than 1 person yk

@@ashley_brown6106 REALLY? “SEXUAL FEELINGS AND CRUSH ON SOMEBODY ELSE” ohh my goodness… now this is just going overboard. DUDE IF WHAT YOU’RE SAYING IS THE CASE YOU MIGHT AS WELL START AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE WTF 😂😂😂 this isn’t love bro this pure dishonor and disrespect! I hope whoever wishes to have a lovable/loyal and affectionate relationship with someone never has to go through that circus mess. Should be ashamed of yourself. Seriously you have to be trolling please tell me you are 🤦‍♂️

This!!

da biz KIMBERLY

da biz same!!

😂

Marcus O Exactly. 🙌🏾

Beauty Folse' ☺😁🙆, thanks for the kind reply

Beauty Folse' listen seriously .....nobody truly believes that ALL MEN CHEAT That term is just said without the”ALL”. Like most statements And actually most men say that to women Do u really think if women believed that we would be so willing to give up our hearts so quickly

Marcus O honey there a Dif btwn being adopted n being a cheater

Jae Jae Actually it depends on who you address. There are a lot of ppl (men and women ) who truly believe that All men cheat. Yes I have personally seen many a women give their heart to men with them knowing that those men were no good. I have listened to men tell their children that All men cheat. Fortunately for me I was raised to know other wise. My first husband was the same way, he was taught by his father these terrible misconception. When he tried it with me I was out. I knew better and how ridiculous that statement is truly. I have personally listened to women try to comfort their friends after there husbands or boyfriends have cheated. Saying that All men cheat, it’s just about “ trying to understand men, their needs and being there for them.” That why I made the comment that no All men do Not cheat.

La Original let’s talk more about this on snap chat

KayR29 😂

La Original 60% of marriages have infidelity. Alot of crushing is going on

Totally agree with you 👍🏾👍🏽👍🏻👍🏿

Thats why i am fighting

Mieka Alexandria That's so True, when he first started the Panels he was writing it all down

Free info for his next book probably..

Is that a bad thing?

Well you don't know the difference between attractive and crush, 2 different things

I think being attracted (for two seconds) is fine, but it should stop there

Attraction and admiration is different. You can be intrigued and admire someone like a crush but lusting after them is different. You still can show respect for your partner by drawing mental boundaries not fantasizing and physical by not touching commenting on their appearance or excessively talking to the person when your partners not around.

You’re definitely not a “True Love Official” if you think that way.

Of course that’s not ok and I agree with you. What about finding somebody attractive, what about being attracted to them and thinking they’re cute. Im sure that can be applied to the same apartment, don’t you think?

What’s the difference. I’m still confused

@@powerfullgoddess5797 Yeah so a crush is somebody whom you want to physically be with and somebody you are into. But finding somebody attractive is apparently an admitment, an admiration basically, but of course I’m against both having a crush and finding somebody attractive other than your partner in a relationship

@@KidBlessings are you a guy or girl. Usually guys are ok with having crush in a relationship. I just wonder if there’s any guys who admit that’s it’s wrong to have crush while admitting they are committed to their partner😆. I don’t know what kinda commitment is that though.

@@powerfullgoddess5797 Yeah so I’m a guy. And I get what you’re saying, it’s pretty stupid.

@@KidBlessings wow that’s cool to know that guys like you exist, I thought all guys are alike. Why couldn’t I meet guys like you before😤

Exactly 👌

Somebody needs to get that point across to the family court judges.

Whatever dude.

thomas leo True in that aspect

Exactly

Thanks

Yeah, die alone and never experience love, what a great advice🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@ashley_brown6106 I’m being honest lol I’ve been alone my whole life so dying alone is not something that worries me.

Not everyone has had a true relationship or like Steve says, "Lacking in the relationship". So there is something lacking and that crush has it! This doesn't apply to people that have already had experience in that department. Or have dated for years and are ready.

So you can have a crush on somebody and find them attractive while you are with somebody.. yeahh, not so much “Peace” involved in this

Mm..

You're

Flirting can be harmless

I agree.

How long is brief 😂💔?

Steve said it there so many men cheat because so many women will cheat too

@@AttonBrown hell no, flirting is cheating if you dont think so you are an idiot

What does the cookie mean?

Naw if a man wants to cheat he will cheat. Even if he is give all those three things. Cross your fingers and pray you just don’t run into a cheater

Facts

She’s not the only married one lol

Loyalty is absent here. Every love or affection towards someone begins in the heart. Then the mind justifies what the heart chooses. If you're in a committed relationship and your heart is desiring anyone else aside from the person you're in a relationship with, you're not loyal. It also says you lack boundaries which means you lack maturity and respect. That space should be reserved for one person and one person only. If I'm with you and you have a crush on someone else, I'm not the one for you and you're not the one for me. We're done. I'm moving forward and never looking back.

@@zacqueeentertainment7336 loyalty is about actions, not feelings or thougths

@@zacqueeentertainment7336 what are you 16 or something?🤣🤣 If you think you'll ever find someone who will never get a crush on someone else at some point or another, you're delusional. 99.9% of people get crushes even when they're madly in love with their partner. This is wayyyy more common than you think. It's not immature, it's just human nature. You seem to be the immature one for not realising what real loyalty is about.

@@ashley_brown6106 it's you who sounds 16 years old. Because when you're in love, there is no room for anyone else. Grow up.

@@ashley_brown6106 before you cheat with your actions, you cheat in your heart. Then your actions and mind co-sign what was done in the heart and they happen. You don’t just entertain the thought of cheating and not do it because eventually, you will. It’s best to cut it off mentally so it never happens physically.

Benjamin From The Tribe of Judah oh well

Amen

@Lord RA impregnable even🤣

Wrong. The thought is not as bad as the action. Tenptations will always exist. How you handle them is what matters. If the thoughts were as bad as the actions then should you go to jail for thinking about murdering someone?? This is ridiculous. You're not a murderer for thinking about murder (when you're super angry for example)

@@ashley_brown6106 It's from the Bible

Kinyachta Toliver fr fr. It’s all that kardashian brainwashing. Unless you Mormon. You can crush on 4-5 women and wife em all up 😂

Yeah so Mystique, there’s no such thing as a “healthy crush” whilst in a relationship. That just shows dishonor, disloyalty and lack of appreciation and admiration to your partner.

Correct me if have read you wrong.

Yeah she's pretty bad

Fix your grammar Patricia.

Proverbs says Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.

sean parker thats right!

K Yan amen thats right

Jason Stevens thats truth.. the WORD OF GOD IS TRUTH.. CARNALITY HAS BEEN POSITIONED AS NORMAL.... lust of the flesh... lust of the eyes... and the pride of life.. this world is at its darkest.. i pray that true born again believers will be the salt and light in and through CHRIST JESUS.

sean parker very true we must flee all temptation and we must filter all of our thoughts and watch all of our actions. Personally I don't believe men and women can be close friends.... it says in the Bible guard your heart for it is the Wellspring of life. Flee all temptation.

Chandra Williams don’t forget women cheat too not just men

Men or women can cheat it's part of our human nature we were born in original sin. If you're not in a relationship you may flirt knowingly or unknowingly. But once you find a relationship that you're committed to no more flirting. And never flirt with someone married unless you didn't know they were married then once you do stop

Guard your heart for in it is the Wellspring of Life. Flee all temptation.

Amen.

the same for women but when the women cheat they want the man to accept it cuz you should be alright with it that I cheatedand if you don't accept it then I'll go get his cookies or somebody else that don't know about me cheating

Lust n that's a sin

Yeah but wouldn’t you think your partner finding other dudes or can even apply to girls, I’m not lying it would be pride shattering and probably a little heart breaking to you for partner to admit you’re mid and there’s people even better looking than you. That’s just dishonor and disrespect

I agree. No matter how handsome the men around are or how well we get along it just doesnt happen for me unless I no longer am interested in my spouse, I notice it all the time, I always notice I can't like two people that way at the same time

I think sometimes you can just sense the compatibility you have with someone off their presence and that's how the crush develops and it happens in an instant. Crush at first sight. Like your chemical makeup just bonds well with theirs. And I think it's also out of our control. Only thing I will say at this point is to control yourself. Maybe tell them you're taken. Just don't act on it.

@@r011ing_thunder6 Yeah if that’s the case I’d just let her have him, because if we’re talking logistically. I practically don’t have her full interest. So she’s free to do whatever she wants. At that point she would just be forcing herself to remain in a relationship a side of her wants to leave for that person. I’ve never been a person of holding someone against their will yk.

How do you have a crush on someone you're with? It wouldn't be a crush then

N21theboss 💯

Well. She can “act” on that crush once I leave her so she can freely make her move 👍

You sound ridiculous

Alright let’s say we’re dating, we’re playing the hypothetical scenario game right now. We’re dating, going for a walk and I see this girl across the street. Now I have developed a crush for her. and in my head I’m just imagining kissing her all over the cheek and spanking her a** all day. It’s fine to have that in my mind? Just don’t “act on it”?? What. Yeah so you sound ridiculous clearly.

I don’t think anybody needed to know that. I think you did that to salsify your ego.

It's not a problem at all if the man is single and has good intentions. In fact, a good man is a man that supports women, Not use them.

People do it even if they aren’t allowed to...to some a marriage license is the same as a restraining order...a piece of paper...whether they are binding or not

Keyword: Feelings Clearly you aren’t in a lovable relationship if you have “feelings” for somebody else rather than your own partner. So yeah Kayla that’s just dishonor, disloyalty, and disrespect.

fashow peopletv That’s a long time ago.

K Swa yeah before she got old.

fashow peopletv you can’t make a statement like that and not tell the story behind the statement...

@fashow peopletv WE DONT BELIEVE YOU

A lot of people have a crush on Cari

Exactly!

@@kayleemayhill4135 Smd

@Mark No actually a crush isn’t fine when you are in a relationship.

Exactly

@@KidBlessings It's ok when you know your limits and can control your thoughts and actions

Yes

G Weezy never heard that one before 😂

I have a feeling most of you dont know the difference between a crush and attraction, a crush is when you have feelings for someone and want to be with them. Attraction is just thinking they are hot.....different things.

@@Thomson07 calling another person “hot” while in a relationship is STILL WRONG IDIOT.

@@Thomson07 Like let’s say you’re the chick. I’m the guy in the relationship. I’m not too good looking and I’m kinda chubby. We’re walking around the park and you see this dude wearing a tanktop with muscles and a 6ix back right under that shirt and you call him hot. I’m obviously going to be insecure dude. It’s wrong regardless I’m tellin you

You have no idea what love truly is. Love is being loyal REGARDLESS of your feelings. Temptations will always exist. After all, there would be no virtue in staying faithful without the temptation of cheating

@@ashley_brown6106 did you really say I know nothing about love and that it is being loyal despite feelings someone has about another person while in a relationship? If that is the case I would love to hear your definition of love?

Exactly

You have no idea what loyalty and love mean. You can't avoid being tempted, but you can control your actions.

@@ashley_brown6106 No clearly you don’t know what you’re talking about, if you’re “tempted” to talk to someone else and you have a crush on them, clearly you are not that interested into the person you are already with and not satisfied enough. So yeah you are the one that doesn’t know what love and loyalty is or what they even stand for.

If you are loyal, you will never be tempted at the very first place​@@ashley_brown6106

Moe Mohamed yeah really. Lol

Cool.. you want a cookie?

@@KidBlessings you're weird

Technically according to the Bible if God never put the tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil in the garden we would not know evil. So can we blame people for lusting? Or do we blame the God of the Bible for planting every known sin in a perfect garden

@@SoulJavalinSpear You can blame the world we live in. And you can also blame yourself. The same God who gave you the choice to know good and evil has given us a way back to him and away from the wickedness of the world. I do not advise you to blame God, but only to acknowledge that he has given you the only lifeline you need (his son, Jesus) so that you do not succumb to the ways of the world and parish along with it when his son returns.

It sounds like you need to end that relationship.

I feel you. What did you do, did you continue the relationship?