Nana brought a lot of realism to this convo, very smart lady. Would love to hear your convo with Ghanaian men!

My experience dating African men (Nigerian, Ghanian, Ivorian, Sierra Leon) is that they will love bomb you to death from day one! “You are the meat in my peanut soup” lmaooo They will even say they love you in less than 24 hours. French and Italian men do this also. As an American woman, I feel like it is so bizarre to profess love on the first date. But in their eyes, it is romance.

Im a Ghanaian man ..and our culture and where these ladies are coming from is different interms of cultural differences. I'm Akan and every woman is a queen and needs to be served they enstool chiefs and kings .so women have power .however they respect we the men as the head of the family so everyone plays their roles well.I dont know what's modern woman whether the woman is working or not doesnt change anything .

Gabby ,please could you do same conversation with two or three men talking about these same issues. I really enjoyed watching both of you. Thanks from Nevada

Different women want different things. I will take the traditional Ghanaian man any day.

Nice easy flowing conversation. Great job ladies!

Omg , thanks ladies I really enjoy this session

The conversation was really flowing ladies!! 👌🏽👌🏽👏🏽🔥 I guess Gh men looking to toast you two can’t use that pick up line again 😂😂 #exposed

I just subscribed because you had the courage to present and have a honest conversation with your friend Nana Ashanti. Both of you gave great advices. When men or women do not travel outside of their little balloon (litte village or community) then their culture does not evolve and then you see these people hang on to the only think they have been expose to. (No intention to offend anyone.) Yes a conversation with Ghanaian men is needed. Thank you for this great video. God bless you both.

Great content Gabby. As a returnee and from a man's perspective, I've had some interesting dating experiences in GH too. The dating scene is culturally different and requires a different kind of mindset.

Great video ladies...I tend to agree that yes, there are cultural differences...but some things should be common in all cultures where love and romance is concerned.

You are right Gabby …right from the beginning say what your intentions are....very important!!!

Very interesting video. Beautiful ladies.

Good discussion. To help brothaz on romance Martin Lawrence Homeo episode.

Gabby, your friend knows we Ghanaians men proper...we show love by making sure that you have everything you need.

Love this video..I do concur with what was said in this video about Ghanaian men lacking as it relates to showing affection or making a woman feel special as it relates to taking her out ..I think they were trained only to be providers thats it..

This western idea 💡 western culture, sexism, feminism, independent, well its an individual affair. The west will not be a yardstick to measure pick up lines, a romantic man, saying a man got game or not. Etc this is Ghana 🇬🇭 Just imagine you visit Europe, Asia, USA 🇺🇸 and tell them this is how we do things in Ghana 🇬🇭 y’all should change lol 😂 they will tell you off, however people come to Ghana 🇬🇭 or African continent and want to decide how we should do things. How about y’all learn how things are done in Ghana 🇬🇭 and learn to appreciate it.

Loved the video sis 💕

Yeah you girls hit the nail right on the head,Ghanaian women rely too much on the men, so the have a hard time when they meet an independent woman

please do we want to hear more from Ghanaian guys and girls...thanks very informative

Such a good convo and you and Nana Ashanti are great...y’all are two of my faves! Nana Ashanti brings a good point-a lot of dating/romance has to do with the cultural and societal constructs of Ghanaian culture. I’m Ghanaian and a lot of the things you ladies said about men are relatable and true in my experience...I’ve had a few Ghanaian men in the past who recently came to the States, and when they try to talk to me they bring those same ideas to America and I’m like...nah this isn’t Ghana bruh you gotta come correct 😂. Def gotta watch out for the married men with a whole ass hidden family and the diaspora leeches!

I would loveeeeeee to be a part of this conversation. I am British born and bred moved to Ghana at 28 for work for almost a year in 2018. And I was the modern woman I had men tell me put your uk mindset away this is Ghana.. I learnt A LOT. I learnt either u bow down and do as the Roman's do or u stand your ground..and hold my down. The men are so ego central and unfortunately it is a sexist country as well lol I remember when I had my own apartment and men I would date they wouldn't believe I lived alone or are you ok to stay here alone. I never understood lol I would loveeeee to sit at this table for discussion, I have jokes and stories for days but its lovely to listen and hear your perceptions x

We are listening to you

greetings love journey on the way

Gabby, congratulations sister this is your so far the best content, the voice has toned down, you make me feel now like my ghanaian sister it was looking for dear, well done,

Lol I have a Ghanaian guy friend that asked me, why was I always so busy? I cracked up. He doesn't understand the concept of the New York minute. Lol. But here in the states, way back, they didn't want to rent to single women. My first landlord told me that I would have to get a sister or girlfriend to live with.

NICE DISCUSSION WITH LOVELY AMBIANCE

We need to hear from the guys too

Two types of men in Ghana outdoor and indoor, outdoor are in the club's those are easily available they thought their very smart, but not family oriented, indoor once, you will meet them everyday, greet u pass by you everyday, they don't talk much, so you will not like him because he is boring, take him ,and you have a lifetime husband, because he will not want to lose you

Very interesting that you said Ghanaian women play hard to get.

Hot topic🔥🔥🔥🔥

I really enjoyed the show , very educative. Thumbs up 👍

Nana know more about the culture....Saying it is really important.

Just watching your video, I would love to have a chat with you Gabby Mack

Hello Gabby, can you please o a video on successfully business to start in Ghana? We want to move back home and open businesses but we don’t know which businesses are good to invest in or to start in Ghana. Please and thank you

Hahahahaha You girls are really lashing we the Ghanaian guys. 😂😂😂 I think next time you need to invite a guy in the conversation to listen to our side.

The elder Lanlords understand marriages run the culture. Too many single people just living and fornicating is potential damaging to the culture/community.

Sis, I love it when you rock 🎸 it natural. I hope is natural. Keep it 💯 👌

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Well... I enjoyed this one. You both looked beautiful and I loved the topic. Very nice venue also. I never really thought about the love language being different due to culture. But it makes total sense. The fact that I can be denied rent as a single woman is alarming. I know that is not every landlord but the fact it happens is sad. As far the men, it seems in order to have a healthy relationship in Ghana you have to tweak your mentality as a westernized woman (almost downplay your independence) and communicate your intentions and keep your common sense on alert for shenanigans. It would be interesting to hear how Ghaninan men perceive westernized women and their response to the request to learn other love languages. Do they feel like they show adequate love and that is asking too much? Give us some more examples of the pick-up lines. I have a feeling it will be pure jokes. Completely unrelated: I am stealing both your tops and I love seeing you with your natural hair out Gabby. It's a pleasant surprise.

😅😅😅😅😅😅 That’s my mother land Ghana 🇬🇭 for you anyway I really enjoy the video

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Yes I agree most men there don't know what a date is they are pretty boring!

Once u go with that pickup line and give him a chance, u will get 2 find him attractive. We ain't got time 4 no Shakespeares pick up line. Once he's educated, matured intellectually and fun to be with, just give him a chance.

I had fun tho😂

Being romantic in the western world is definitely different from being romantic in Ghana then! Ghana has a composed and laid back culture which is Cool. #Black stars 💕

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On the landlord not giving out apartment to single folks is due to the fact that single people invite all kinds to visit in the name of relationship and it somehow puts the other tenants at risk bcox u dnt knw who is visiting

NICE PIDGEON ACCENT GABBY

I don't think Ghanaian men should feel offended. I don't see this discussion as judgment on all. It's good to have discussions and understand the cultural differences and issues. Coming from a Caribbean background the male and female traditional roles often became a source of contention for those who moved to the US and Europe. In modern times more women have education, careers and often work outside the home in addition to working at home. I also understand how when you return home you have to be careful and selective with who you trust and get involved with. That applies to both men and women. Some people really do believe all returnees are loaded with money. Most just have enough for living expenses. The roles of men and women are different in different cultures, if you date someone from a different background learning has to happen on both sides. Honesty, transparency of intentions and motives are important from the very beginning. Sadly, there are users out there on both sides so be informed and trod wisely. There's good and bad in every group on this planet.

Awwwwww but we have different vibes but is similar, hahahahahahah is so funny

It's completely wrong to say that Ghanaian men are not romantic. You really need to understand the cultural dimension. In Ghana as in many African countries, we don't consider romance as something you display in public, it is only for the partners in their own space. This means that you can experience the romance only if you are in a relationship. If you judge from the pickup lines alone, you'll get it completely wrong.

cultural Difference but there is one way you can have a good ghanaian man... Just let him know what you want and your intentions....i cant love a woman who doesnt have clear intentions....Dont ever give your money to a guy ok....

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We are living in a global village and believe it or not things are not what we know them to be these days. Humans have systematically carefully adjusted, adopted, and changed their ways of doing things and continually looking for better ways to improve conditions of life. When we declare a majority behavior of a people, we may be wrong in our assertions. Will you be surprised if data suggest that women rent more than men in Ghana 🇬🇭. Like you mentioned, the key denominator here is communication. As the saying goes one size does not fit all. So I like to refrain from saying this is how things are done in Ghana 🇬🇭 etc. we are living in a global village and people have been influenced by different cultures. People will say ohhh men in Ghana 🇬🇭 don’t go to labor rooms when their wife’s having a baby. Well let me ask were men in USA 🇺🇸 going to labor rooms back in the day? Just a humble question. Relationship issues, finding love, and marrying are purely based on communication and understanding. So I’d say the assertions may be flawed. Now men and women share responsibilities. And who is a modern women? Am lost here. What does it mean to be westernized? Are there any characteristics we should be looking out for? I enjoyed y’all conversation, had to watch it twice.

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Nope our culture ain't sexist maybe it depend of the of Ghana you're. Ghanas Economy is run by our hardworking Queens so we respect them a lot 😊

The change in accent😂

So black guys in America are this qualities so why I see more single mama allover NYC enywer one love

I am sooooo sorry to hear that, I don't think I can cope with any Ghanian man. Because I would like to go out to see many places with my Partner. Ghanaian Men Pls try your possible best to change some character in how to date a woman or a girl in other part of the World.I

It put me off when a lady ask me for airtime which I hardly know

Would be nice to have gotten the male perspective in this matter as well. I comment on many Ghanaian KZfaqr's videos, and most know exactly my intentions concerning Ghana and Women of Ghana. My intentions is to move to Ghana, find the blessing of a wife, and maybe be blessed with a son. So, where are the single, serious women in Ghana? She can work, have her own, or whatever, just as long as she loves God, and is faithful, and respectful unto God, herself, and me. Thanks for sharing, Be blessed.

African men are great providers, they are dutiful, and they are less argumentative in general. Downside: it is hard to break up with a Ghanian man, unless he breaks up with you first 😭

Ghanaian culture is not extrovert in nature when it comes to romance

Yet the men get upset when the men from overseas come and sweep their woman off their feet. NYC in the building

You all will get a man who gets your money and take it over to the woman who allows him to be in the provider role. You can still have and make your own money. However, let him treat you like he treasures you

Definitely true most women there are not independent and being that way its hard to get guys to understand you as a woman because they expect you to.be like other girls there!

Virtuous women...think positive...the odds are not against you. The time will come for you to meet Mr Right

Y'all need to do a lot of research and maybe change location and you may find the better the better Ghana.

A woman should never pay for a date when he ask the woman out, peridot

I was not expecting to see myself walk in LOL

My girlfriend is a student. I bear the financial responsibilities only when I asked her to do something on my behalf. We started with rules. We split bills. I am a businessman. I don't like dependent women. We are both born and raised in ghana.

Would you date an oburoni

Madam Ghana is hard we are listed to you

Never been with a different country man

Force Gabby

Men need to feel needed.

Only been with jamaican man

Nana hit it on the head regarding how Ghanaian men(actually African men) show love. To them providing for you is their love language. Trust me, I have been married to my fellow Liberian for years and that is how they show love.

Gabby, some Ghanaian women think men are magicians to know what they want's.

I think the issue here is that some ladies, especially those who have lived abroad or are born and raised abroad are having problem to adjust to the African culture and tradition, you guys don't need to westernize African men. Rather you should throw away all the false hair on your head and be the black and proud African queen, generally speaking. If a man really appreciate a lady, he naturally knows how to approach and seduce her. Real man doesn't need to learn how to approach a lady, whether she is educated or not. We are Africans and we don't need to be fluent in any foreign language to be able to attract our women. Stop that colonial nonsense. Ladies, if you want to visit Africa or live in Africa, it doesn't matter in which country, try to educate yourself in their culture and way of life instead of expecting them to adjust to your standard. This has nothing to do with being "civilised", we are already civilised before white men set a foot on our land, but being respectful to Africa and Africans. My men out there don't allow anyone talk you into insecurity. Just be an African man, you are naturally well equiped. I am sick and tired to hear people trying to talk down on Africans as never do good people. We are who we are. Show some respect in our way of life and who we are. Ladies, no offence intended.

Ghanaian men, that's how we're. Either you take it or leave it 😂😂🤣🤣☺. We don't do independent women nonsense in Ghana. We looked after our women.

I like your too much

Hey gabby are you a ghanaian?

you said I can't do that.....because you are used to USA culture and here in Ghana we also have a culture..you have to find a middle ground and compromise..since you want the guy to compromise..you should as well

Can we please try to pronounce our names without an American accent ? "nana" is "nana" regardless of the language you speak and you grew up in Ghana. Too many people are doing that nowadays! Sad our names are not pronounced properly even in our own land ... common "nana" asem

You have to understand why the men are not romantic, the women are always asking for stuff and money from these guys and after you expect them to have extra money on outings. The women need to change so the men can change

A real man have an innate ability to provide. In the West we have reversed roles.

I think Ghanaian men are not super romantic.

Hello. Sister fat u luck u are in Ghana , if u were in Japan u will being single for the rest of ur life One Japanese will not come forward and there don’t like Debo or fat girls at all . So honestly You will had remain single for many years

No lies detected here 💯💯… Ghanaian men lack GAME. I don’t know what it is but even in the UK which is where I live, the Gh brothers here, do not have game at all. Like not one Kobo😩 The other west African brothers outshine then everyday. They tend to be mama’s boys who are often given everything on a silver plata by their strong mothers. I tend to get a whole lot of emasculated vibe from them. The ones who even have “game” tend to uphold the misogynistic archaic mindset which sucks. I don’t know about you ladies but GH men energy often comes across as feminine . Like dude , speak up and stop this pandering 🙄

Ghanaian Men went college and well educate but yet everything in their imagination is too old fashion,Is very sad.

I do not have time to romance any woman, it's the woman's job to romance me. why is it always the men's job to romance a woman?

The change in accent😂