"Finding out I couldn't have children, didn't make me feel shame, I felt inadequate- Nse.

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@blessedchild2879 Жыл бұрын

I was told by the doctor that I couldn't have children because I had no womb. I took it to God in prayer. Meanwhile there was a cancer diagnosis and doctor told me to just forget about children and think about my life. It was at an advanced stage. The more i prayed thr more it became worse. I attended Apostle Johnson Suleman crusades in the USA for a year plus and it felt like God won't answer me but yes he did. Cancer disappeared from my body and womb was restored, I got pregnant but miscarriage at about 4 months then got pregnant after 6 months by God's grace and today I have 2 beautiful girls. I couldn't stop praying despite the challenges and I denied to accept the doctors diagnosis.

@susan8576 Жыл бұрын

Hallelujah Jesus. Such a powerful testimony

@thetimo_ Жыл бұрын

To God be the glory over your life. Thank you for sharing.

@euniceedmundz7644 Жыл бұрын

My faith is stirred up

@s0fire_ Жыл бұрын

This is a glorious testimony, ThankGOD for this Miracle 🌹❤️. It's so encouraging, "Never stop praying" Thankyou for this, I key into your testimony 🫶 Amen 🤎

@sabrinatenkorang1603 Жыл бұрын

All the glory to God

@PCyrusC 2 жыл бұрын

Nse is beautiful, classy, incredibly intelligent, outspoken and so loveable. Life happens and we all choose how we ride through.

@yakubuaminaladi284 2 жыл бұрын

I love my Nse,she is just herself, wonderfully herself. Chude connects with people easily,makes his job looks easy

@kuteallets 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. It's grace upon him

@brendadickson9583 2 жыл бұрын

True that

@Awake_Africa 2 жыл бұрын

Not everyone will have children, it's nothing to be ashamed of, they can choose to adopt if they want.

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 жыл бұрын

Assisted Reproduction can help. So long as she produces eggs, she can hv chiren. Unless she no dey c period. If her fallopian tubes r blocked or her womb has issues, a surrogate mother can carry d baby/babies

@lover4all113 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏 o

@fromthefountofyouth 2 жыл бұрын

@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 But how can she menstruate when the uterus has been removed?

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 жыл бұрын

@@fromthefountofyouth if she had Hysterectomy with Bilateral Salpingo-Oophorectomy den she can't hv her own biological kids evn with Assisted Reproductive Methods or anything cos dat procedure totally removes d uterus along with d fallopian tubes & ovaries so no ovary can b produced 4d use of Assisted Reproduction. But if it's Total Hysterectomy, without Salpingectomy & Oophorectomy den d ovaries still produces eggs evn tho d uterus isn't there. So if one decides 2hv Assisted Reproduction, d eggs can b harvested & implanted in anoda woman's woman 4d fetus 2grow. Biologically, DNA & evrytin dat child is urs, not d carrier of d pregnancy.

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 жыл бұрын

@@fromthefountofyouth, I was speaking generally, not referring 2dis particular case, in her case, she won't menstruate cos d womb ain't there no more but d eggs r still bin produced monthly so if she likes, & she has d moni, she can still hv her biological chiren. Evn me fit carry her pikin 4her.

@Growthtacticsworld 2 жыл бұрын

Asa and Nse looks alike and has this kind of difference that’s simply enviable, women who already has identified whom they are without needing the consultation of the universe cause they are the universe itself

@oderindemorenike2250 2 жыл бұрын

Same thought

@marthag5064 2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't have said it better myself

@sevdailysortez 2 жыл бұрын

Bridget your head is hot 🙌🏾🔥 Carry on!!!

@TheLushMom Жыл бұрын

I have had this comparison in my head for so long.

@thetimo_ Жыл бұрын

I agree with you ❤

@ngoziokwuegbuna3387 Жыл бұрын

Coming here after watching The Wait….it makes so much sense 🥺🥺 Nse is a woman of strength

@Olushola18 Жыл бұрын

Me too

@okubajotiti5410 Жыл бұрын

Same here 😢

@senavivianealohoutade537 19 күн бұрын

same here

@Psychehealthymindhub 2 жыл бұрын

Nse has always been my best actress. She embodies so much grace, fate, and self love

@adeolaolayinka7442 2 жыл бұрын

My bestest ever! And then when I met her? It was life changing for me. Her type is rare.

@Psychehealthymindhub 2 жыл бұрын

@@adeolaolayinka7442 omg, hope to meet her someday too...

@asha5594 2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@asaahprecious07 2 жыл бұрын

How does anyone not love Nse? Because it’s impossible, she’s such a beautiful human 😍

@muoboentertainment 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah; physically and personality-wise

@blessingsbest6838 2 жыл бұрын

She is x

@ifouzezi 2 жыл бұрын

Having gone through a great deal of pain, guilt and shame, I have come to be very empathetic with people. It's tough to be human.

@funmilolaisheyemi3431 2 жыл бұрын

Very tough

@Springrolllll 2 жыл бұрын

That part where they discussed about their dogs passing, held hands and shared the pain? I love it so much! I love spaces where you can grieve about things that ain't conventionally considered huge.

@flourish5blessing424 2 жыл бұрын

I think Chudi is one of the best interviewers I have ever listened to. He is gifted in this and really knows how to connect with his guests. He asks the tough questions in a very respectful way. He also waits to listen to the answers without exerting his own opinion on the guest. They are having a great conversation and laughs.

@kingamar8780 2 жыл бұрын

The Baba is Brilliant.

@spotlightmediatv 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly I the part where you said without inserting his own opinion 😄

@fridayojeogwu6225 2 жыл бұрын

INTELLIGENT AND HANDSOME

@ograhjay1 2 жыл бұрын

There’s nothing not to love about this woman ❤️

@OluwadamisiAgosu Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry your lost your dog. We laugh cos we can't cry, that's touching. It was a real pleasure having Nse Ikpe-Etim on your show. She is an example of originality.

@flourish5blessing424 2 жыл бұрын

I pray God will bless Nse with children. I think she will be a wonderful mother. What God cannot do does not exist.

@NinaNdraman 2 жыл бұрын

How can we contact her ?

@konlannanleeb9828 2 жыл бұрын

In Jesus name Amen

@gbadamosititilayo8031 2 жыл бұрын

I have heard about a women without womb, who have lost the hope of having children, they according to their testimonies, decided to spend the rest of their life serving God, whom God later shown them what He can do by making them get pregnant and given birth to twins, God specialized in impossible to make them possible, surrender your self to Him, give your life to Jesus and you will see the wonders of the Lord.

@localjess838 2 жыл бұрын

It's okay as well if she doesn't have any. There are many women fervent in faith who died child free.

@cecestyme7142 2 жыл бұрын

My first time seeing her in a interview and I love her down to earth simple vibe with honesty. I am glad she’s not faking and shame, because of not being able to give birth. She will have a new testimony soon. So continue to hold your head up high and living life. Big shout out to a great supportive husband….

@gladysudupegheme8487 2 жыл бұрын

These two be doing like they took something intoxicating 🤣🤣Love them both❤️❤️

@folasadesalami1030 2 жыл бұрын

few minutes into the interview...I love her 100 million times more.

@millicentnicholas9754 2 жыл бұрын

I love her charisma and personality painful seeing she can’t have own children.. Such a wonderful actor an amazing one at that with a beautiful eloquent voice.

@princessadex3243 2 жыл бұрын

But she can If she wants thru surrogacy or adoption. But I guess she just can't be bothered.

@lover4all113 2 жыл бұрын

With God anything is possible.

@stormieblaze510 2 жыл бұрын

@@lover4all113 Not everyone would have children and it is absolutely, completely okay. Doesn’t make them any less fulfilled or their lives any less happy.

@gnsoh 2 жыл бұрын

The first time i saw Nse was in the movie" Mr n Mrs" that has been the best nollywood movie I ever watch. She's great.

@Favour2020 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Nse Acted The Mr And Mrs Very Well.

@marthaewoe5682 2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@Reactwithzeke 2 жыл бұрын

Please do you have an idea where I can get Mr. And Mrs. Downloaded

@crissoa 2 жыл бұрын

I loved that movie. I watched it back in the cinema in 2011.

@crissoa 2 жыл бұрын

@@Reactwithzeke it’s on KZfaq.

@morolayoogunwemimo 2 жыл бұрын

My feeling exactly! Thank you for putting into words what so many finds difficult!! Thank you

@zizou4229 2 жыл бұрын

I love Nse, she's one of my favorite actress. God bless her

@fabier2404 2 жыл бұрын

Nse is such a beautiful ,smart and strong woman.

@obikegertrude3710 2 жыл бұрын

My best actress. I love her so so much. When death comes no one remember whether he/she has children or not , wealth or no wealth.

@afolabiolukoya1885 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing actress who embodies her character in every movie. I love her so much. More grace to you.

@BolatitoOludipe 2 жыл бұрын

Love the way chude interviews these personalities

@ritaokpara4086 2 жыл бұрын

i love you NSE. mehn, watching this at this hour of the night and laughing hard is something i appreciate. We should just learn to live and yes nothing defines you... I stop worrying if I'm right or wrong all the time and started embracing every side of me that is there to love I love me

@muoboentertainment 2 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@omololatalabi9593 2 жыл бұрын

This is so hard to do sometimes, but you're right... Let's just live through our experiences.

@graceamoako8121 2 жыл бұрын

I love this lady soooooo much, she act naturally, more grace

@bgsonsthriving. 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this woman so much God bless her❤️❤️❤️

@lindaajileye9179 11 ай бұрын

OMG this open just opens doors for other women. I’m so damn proud of her where she doesn’t give AF!!!!! Love it!

@EmemAbasi_ 2 жыл бұрын

I am proud of this woman. I love her and her work. God bless and perfect all that concerns her.

@beathaapril4777 2 жыл бұрын

When I lost my dog people said I was overreacting but my family totally understood and stood by me🙏

@elizabethwunse5332 2 жыл бұрын

Dog again?🙄

@thelookout5802 2 жыл бұрын

Are you serious?

@beathaapril4777 2 жыл бұрын

@@thelookout5802 Yes I am dead serious. To make matters worse they made comments like "It is just a dog" People never cease to amaze 😅

@ritannajiofor7709 2 жыл бұрын

I lost my dog at a location where dog meat was a delicacy and as such they didn’t see the reason why I should mourn my dog. Most painful experience.

@beathaapril4777 2 жыл бұрын

@@ritannajiofor7709 oh I see! It makes sense now coz they eat dog meat in the area I was aswell 🤦🏾‍♀️

@therealgemboss Жыл бұрын

Her energy and positive vibes is admirable . Thanks for sharing Sis

@sophydee8454 2 жыл бұрын

I love her so much. her perspective about life is amazing ❤

@marthag5064 2 жыл бұрын

I always look forward to watching her movies but little did I know that she is this amazing in person. Would love to meet her in real life. I admire her grace, strength and unmovable faith. Keep shining Nse!

@vickyscorner24 2 жыл бұрын

I love how strong this woman is

@_kayceemil 2 жыл бұрын

Nse is so Classic in and out. So proud of you 👏 I have faith that God will give you kids . It’s never too late.

@stellaj4719 2 жыл бұрын

I love her!... I cried when my last dog died too! So emotional!😪😫😪😫😪

@crissoa 2 жыл бұрын

She’s such an amazing actress and very eloquent. Beautiful lady. I heard about her situation and I know it could not have been easy. I hope she can adopt 😊

@maxinemcclean3501 2 жыл бұрын

I have a lot of time for this very real woman. Happy to see that she is comfortable in her skin and continues to be a natural woman. Best wishes from Barbados. All the best in your personal and professional life

@nengielizabeth6872 2 жыл бұрын

She's so strong infact you both are so strong... I was literally crying while you were all laughing. Chude please tell her to Adopt me as her daughter I love her so much 😭

@ogsmitth 2 жыл бұрын

I so much love Nse, this lady is always positive in her taught no matter the situation she finds herself in 💯💯

@olaoluwaabiodun2472 2 жыл бұрын

OGB

@bedinabebe4521 2 жыл бұрын

Nse can never be inadequate. This type of Queen is so wealthy with other blessings, gifts to humanity that its Ironically the balance of life. You have everything. You are love by multitudes of admiring hearts.😍😍

@lover4all113 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏 I needed that.

@gazelle20111 6 ай бұрын

I like his interviewing approach… real comforting and so relaxed

@awelemirabel4633 Жыл бұрын

God bless this beautiful woman such a pure soul and chude you always know the right questions to ask

@thatgelechic Жыл бұрын

I hope a lot of women Come across this video, and learn to be happy regardless of what life throws at them.

@theroseshow5773 2 жыл бұрын

Love love her.. Nse is something ♥️♥️ Love that she can laugh about her pain now

@ninamina2138 2 жыл бұрын

Was she worried initially about her issue?

@victoranie5298 2 жыл бұрын

Bros chuddy is digging it.. So proud of you sir

@lisajohns9301 2 жыл бұрын

I love this woman from day one ☝️ much love ❤️ from kenya 🇰🇪

@triciamsema2828 2 жыл бұрын

I love this woman she has a free spirit

@stephaniebasil5498 2 жыл бұрын

Chude I wish one day i would be popular enough to get to sit with you and share my story through your platform with the world and people like me out there.

@stormieblaze510 2 жыл бұрын

We’ll hear your story someday. You don’t need to be “popular”. ♥️

@theglobalchairman07 2 жыл бұрын

...and so shall it be unto you, @stephanie

@princessvictorUK 2 жыл бұрын

I love you Nse. Thank you for being so bold

@clarandubuisi6595 2 жыл бұрын

My love for Nse just went up a notch higher, you cannot not love this lady.

@chinwesdiary9175 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this episode. Nse i love you. Thanks for sharing, your strength gives us ttc strength.💕

@odelekevictor3895 Жыл бұрын

This is deepest, wisest woman chude interviewed that I have seen. It felt like two friends talking at an elemental level....they truly connected. I would relate why her marriage stood despite struggles while some other celeb's marriage didn't. Understanding makes the difference. Such a side woman.

@cleorukkiss1556 2 жыл бұрын

I love this lady! 😍 ❤ ...the first time I met her in a movie location, I could not help but stare...and I was a bit diatracted...I love you Nse! 😘

@nengiskitchen 2 жыл бұрын

Chude is an awesome interviewer 👌 Nse is a beautiful enigma that needs to be studied especially because of her location, a very rare specie 🗣️

@queennetcelestine1311 2 жыл бұрын

Things happen and the ability for us to see life above what have happened makes us stronger.... I have had my own share of bitter experience in life, where you are been drag by the person you trust and love. I wish I could be given the opportunity to share my story and over this shame of what people will say.

@talkwithnaomi6942 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Queennet. It's a sweet thing to hear you say you'll like to share your story about shame. I read the book "The Gift of imperfection" by Brene Brown. It's such a beautiful book,you might want to flip through the pages to see what it has. In Browns words I'll tell you to not just want to share your shame story but "honor your struggle/shame story and share it with those who have earned the right to hear it". Somehow many of us think we can smfit into Nse's shoes when we can just wear ours comfortably. she appreciates her shoes best and this time I think she decided to tell to tell her story to this particular audience and in the way she's most comfortable. I love how she used inadequate and not shame. I'd be very honored to share with you a copy of Brené Browns book mentioned above. Reach me by email at: talkwithnaomi237@gmail.com if you'll like to have a copy .

@muoboentertainment 2 жыл бұрын

I can't even begin to imagine how she must have felt when she found that out. I'm glad she's accepted it and moved on.

@manarisiairozuoke7144 2 жыл бұрын

It's never easy but we live through what life throws at us.

@fideliaolokor Жыл бұрын

I love Nse🥰 She's wonderful, graceful, and beautiful

@arogundadefunmi3016 2 жыл бұрын

This woman is just amazing!

@CommonSenseSisters 2 жыл бұрын

Nse is one of our phenomenal legendary queen 👑 of Nollywood. We like her authentic personality. Sorry 😞 for the loss of your dog 🐕 Chude & Nse .

@nengiskitchen 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for not letting anything define you!

@amazingamazon7129 2 жыл бұрын

I love you momma 😘. Stay strong. I'm your media child mum ♥️♥️♥️.

@alexjaye100 2 жыл бұрын

to Chude, others try but you sir - have an incredible interviewing skill

@rejoice.greatgracetv.7500 2 жыл бұрын

Remain strong in the Lord, Nse. God bless and keep you.

@somtochukwuofodum5898 2 жыл бұрын

I love this woman!!!

@MaryIbe 2 жыл бұрын

I love you so much Nse🥰🥰🥰 You have an adopted daughter out here,u are not inadequate anything u are very adequate in your way and we love you like that 😘😘😘😘

@thetimo_ Жыл бұрын

Oh wow! Thank God for you beautiful woman ❤❤

@adetounafolabi6436 Жыл бұрын

I love Nse, God bless you. Stay strong

@Koktech_interlockingtv 2 жыл бұрын

I love the connectivity Sha.

@oreoluwaroberts2732 2 жыл бұрын

I love this Woman badly. ❤❤

@papambosconcentrationatten4835 2 жыл бұрын

Just love this show. The reality.

@kissmeagain54 2 жыл бұрын

Nse..... my number 1 actress. Deepest respect 🙏 from Ghana.

@akinolaelizabeth5864 2 жыл бұрын

Ma'am I so much love you.... Will really be proud to be your daughter.... Can't imagine how much more you will train me to be very smart ma'am.

@choicemichael3256 2 жыл бұрын

My favorite lady i wish u all good things on God.🙏

@ericking3459 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely interview

@adeshas83 Ай бұрын

Beautiful Actress with a Beautiful Personality.....Nothing but Love

@atomsworld1724 2 жыл бұрын

I love her so muchhhh🥰

@rda-gama2567 2 жыл бұрын

She looks East African! She is a beautiful lady ,may God bless her and family.

@Favour2020 2 жыл бұрын

We Are All One Family.

@rda-gama2567 2 жыл бұрын

@@Favour2020 yeah I agree !

@talktalknation9900 2 жыл бұрын

No l don't agree ✌❤

@gbafemabel1278 Жыл бұрын

The way I love this woman eh❤️💯💯💯

@lubonabanda608 Жыл бұрын

I love this lady Zambia 🇿🇲 loves you ❤❤❤

@ewuradwoaquayson1634 Жыл бұрын

Nse is really Amazing. I REALLY REALLY LOVE her movies damn I love acting and I’m dying to meet you and act like you Your fashion sense oh my God is just Incredible

@lizzyA_Youtube 2 жыл бұрын

I love this woman ❤️

@nanahemaaoppong8006 2 жыл бұрын

The "SHAME" thing is not only in Nigeria, it's very very common in Ghana as well 🤔

@awesomeworship6920 2 жыл бұрын

OMG...I love this woman

@NeneBlessing 2 жыл бұрын

I love her personality , she is just herself , she is so pretty 😍

@oluwadamilolaaderibigbe.4160 Жыл бұрын

What a strong and beautiful woman u are everyone as a story to tell in dis word we are dear life please take it easy on me nomater what I may be going true I just want to be happy I have been true alot

@Hernameis994 2 жыл бұрын

I started crying when he started laughing about his dog. We lost billy almost 4 years ago and i still miss him

@adao.6241 2 жыл бұрын

As a child our family dog was put down...My Dad suffered in my hands..He should have let Scot die of old age

@tidankaysidibay6575 2 жыл бұрын

I so love her courage faith and sense of letting things be the way the are✌she's such a strong woman I off hijab fr you ma'am🙏🙏🙏

@Fasthebaker Жыл бұрын

Nse's beauty is something else , she's intelligent, I repeat! She's an intelligent woman, i love her so much

@hannahpratt745 2 жыл бұрын

I love this lady. She is classy

@ecarolyne5287 2 жыл бұрын

Tried several times to join, but it doesn't allow me.. Senegal 🇸🇳👋...please help somebadee.. she is one of my favourites, I want to watch full version